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I Can't Stand People That Always Put Down Others

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    I hate getting put down

    but by now I just expect it like its just apart of life. I get that some people might not like my hair, my personality, or even what I say. But at least I'm not acting like someone else this is me-either take me or leave me.
    Skinnylove99 Skinnylove99 18-21, F Jul 31, 2014

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    Okay

    I have delete the other story because I don't want to cause drama. I used a expression  wasn't  right.   I'm sorry.   Put down others are wrong, rude, mean.   Please learn to to be understanding, forgiving, loving.   I hoping I'm making my point...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    What makes you so special?

    when you use your words to crush another for your selfish reasons?! what makes you so better than others to spread your hurtful words onto another? and to see the pain you inflict selfishly? Your that weak and fragile inside you hide it with cruelty?! did someone make you...
    DarkThornedLilyRose43 DarkThornedLilyRose43 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    Why Can't We Be Friends

     I love EP...Here I've found a place where I can let my hair down and be myself: talk about any subject, share secrets, even have friendly disagreement. I'm pretty new to EP so I've personally only had good experiences so far and "I want to thank you-- for letting me...
    prettyselfish prettyselfish 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    I Can't Stand It

    My friend is always putting me down. And I don't know why I always let it bother me. I just can't stand it anymore, she puts me down she puts my other friends down. She thinks she knows everything and that she is better then everyone. Yes she is very beautiful but that doesn't...
    Zombie9 Zombie9 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    There are horrible subtle ways they do it too,

    like they select their words carefully in their consciousness to be hurtful and denigrating. I have my theories as to why they do it. They are ugly people who won't allow others to express themselves because they must doubt them. It is so unappealing. I think too, they do this...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    I'm Surprised

    there are as many people in this group as there are. In all of my circles growing up there was always this general acceptance of nasty behavior and being an ******* often increased your attractiveness (especially if you were a guy). I was always made out to be like I had a huge...
    Compelling Compelling 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2010

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    Pointless

    I don't see the appeal of putting others down just to make yourself feel like you're the ****. More than anything, some people need to get a grip on themselves.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Sep 16, 2011

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    Unacceptable!

    Intolerance is a four-letter word. I generally am someone to accept most people's views, but this I will not allow in my life.  There is always more to the story and there will always be reasons people are the way they are. No one has the right to berate the other human beings...
    Mirvanna Mirvanna 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2011

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    Some Best Friend He Is...

    We were so close in high school especially when he told me he was gay. We got even closer but since I left for college in another town we don't talk as often. I'm okay with it though. I only see him when I'm in town and it's because we have mutual friends. I love him but...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds 22-25, F Mar 12, 2012

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    Put Down Others

    I applaud the person who created this group. :) I also can't stand people who always put down others. I wonder why they do it for?  Are they jealous of something?  Do they want to be like the other person?  Do they want something that the other person have?  There has to be a...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 15, 2011

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    I hear your words....

    I try to ignore them....but when I can no longer, after so long you have said these things....I look to you and ask "what makes you so special? what makes you so better?!" with a look of pure hate in my eyes locking into yours....I will not fear you, I stand against you...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    My Roommate

    Everyday she comes up to me and complains about how her "friends" are so incompetent. It ****** me off..What does she think of herself?? She treats others like she is so superior to them and it REALLY ****** me off..
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Mar 28, 2012

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    I Hate Bullies

    I think they are stupid, idiotic, ignorant, insecure, they lack moral fiber and character. I have no respect for them at all, especially the men. I think in genral they are a bunch of *** nuts.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 5, 2013

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    This is a personality trait

    that goes right through me. I am usually an understanding person and I get that sometimes people have a bad day or are mad at the world, but if you are constantly talking poorly of others or making fun of people, I will quickly lose respect for you. Sadly there are some people...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    This Really Bothers Me!

    I am surprised that there are only two stories on this issue!  I thought it would be more popular.  I think that people who systematically put down other people are not cool people.  I have to be careful when I am defending myself though, sometimes I will even...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Some People

    Some people,Can't stand 'em,The way,They put others down,There's no need,Why do it?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Yes This Really Sucks!

    I really can't stand a person that bullies and puts others down. Even here on EP....I've seen ignorant people putting down others. And I'm like... Come On people! Grow up! JERKS! Have respect! Ok I know you are obviously not happy with yourself or maybe your mother didn't teach...
    surrealreality surrealreality 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    It's Made Me Lose Respect For Her.

    it's wrong for any of us to cut others down, but i find it especially disappointing when it comes from someone that i liked and respected. someone who comes from a good background, educated and well spoken. i would think a person like this wouldn't feel the need to put others...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I Don't Get It

    We have a "friend" at home that will constantly put my wife down.  Why I don't have an answer for it but she is always negative about almost everything that is going on.  I think that she is jealous of my wife cause she wants to do something different and...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2009

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    It's Horrible

    I can't stand magazines, tv, internet, etc. They all tell us we need a diet. They constantly tell us that we aren't as good as the celebrities, they tell us what's the craze, and tell us that violence is right. The media shows horrible things that may cause stereotypes. People...
    soulofmusic soulofmusic 18-21, M May 12, 2010

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    Agghh "Mark had told me". Seriously. Does anyone know how to write a grammatically correct sentence any more. And what is the deal with calling people haters. Are you people really...
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    Spagoodles Spagoodles 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If a woman tells you she is really not into flirting on here DONT SEND HER A NAKED PICTURE OF YOURSELF. I mean what the heck?!?!
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    I hate to see people in pain it's like a bad feeling inside because you wanna see people happy, and you don't want that person to feel sad, depressed, alone, relationship issues...
    talaunanna talaunanna 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Sammiebaby1016. Why even bother?!
    piecesofeight piecesofeight 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    My balls are sweaty, who likes heat when you have sweaty balls? Am I right? It's disgusting.
    EvoKinevil EvoKinevil 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I swear I can't stand my husband no more, it's like all the love I once felt about him is gone and now I feel a lot of hatred. I feel like cheating, breaking his face but I'm more...
    conv94 conv94 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I don't understand why people would want to harm their child with that stuff.
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I´ve just had another "nice" experience with a man here...someone pretending to be nice and cool...he first pretended to apologize, because he didnt believe me when I said I hadnt...
    000Camilla 000Camilla 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Agghh. Why is it that when you compliment some people instead of saying thank you they say yeah I know?!?!
    Sobp Sobp 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Confronted another person today about being completely clueless when it comes to getting to know someone.. "You always tell me in the end" that's because you never ask is my...
    hospitalrooms hospitalrooms 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel like I'm breathing dust right now 😭😭 -Sunday please come already
    ReemNoctis ReemNoctis 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    When you're losing In Mario karts and drive the wrong way to annoy your friends :3
    BelgianGuy420 BelgianGuy420 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I can't stand immigrants coming to my country Australia. Take our jobs and cripple our economy, I wish they could all **** off back to their home country
    surfupsidedown surfupsidedown 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I mean this day and age it is really hard to tell the difference because makeup hides age if I'm honest, but if you know the girl is underage then it's just cringe!! Real men don't...
    NoUsernameInserted NoUsernameInserted 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    There are groups of people in the world that think they are dark, that their lives are somewhere in the grey and that they can express the dark within them by dressing dark on the...
    TucanSam200 TucanSam200 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    It's just ridiculous. Any real man understands why that is such a pathetic, low down and utterly insane thing to do.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Do I have dirty experiences? Yes. Why do I have them? SO THAT I CAN BLOCK ANYONE THAT LEAVES A DIRTY COMMENT, OR MESSAGES ME ABOUT THEM!
    RedHeadedNinja RedHeadedNinja 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    One of my older sisters is very needy. She has spent her life fussing over other people, especially when they don't want to be fussed over. She has had a lot of health problems and...
    RoseMary33 RoseMary33 51-55, F 6 days ago

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    that hilarious moment when one of your coworkers talks to you like they're your boss. lmao please, you're nothing to me. so just do what you're supposed to be doing and let me do...
    Allcatsareawesome Allcatsareawesome 18-21, F Jul 25

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    Sure can,t and find it a lot on this site..Damn it,s ok to be a perv i,m one at times as well but why lie...If you say you will do something do it...***.. just say n...Stop the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 25

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