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I Can't Stand People That Always Put Down Others

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    My pastor said it perfectly; "we were all made

    from dust. So how could one speck of dust say they're better than another speck of dust?" We are all the same, only God is greater!
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Put Down Others

    I applaud the person who created this group. :) I also can't stand people who always put down others. I wonder why they do it for?  Are they jealous of something?  Do they want to be like the other person?  Do they want something that the other person have?  There has to be a...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 15, 2011

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    Seriously, find a less harmful form of therapy

    for whatever is haunting you.
    Kano413 Kano413 16-17, F Jul 31

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    Why Can't We Be Friends

     I love EP...Here I've found a place where I can let my hair down and be myself: talk about any subject, share secrets, even have friendly disagreement. I'm pretty new to EP so I've personally only had good experiences so far and "I want to thank you-- for letting me...
    prettyselfish prettyselfish 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    My Roommate

    Everyday she comes up to me and complains about how her "friends" are so incompetent. It ****** me off..What does she think of herself?? She treats others like she is so superior to them and it REALLY ****** me off..
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Mar 28, 2012

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    This Really Bothers Me!

    I am surprised that there are only two stories on this issue!  I thought it would be more popular.  I think that people who systematically put down other people are not cool people.  I have to be careful when I am defending myself though, sometimes I will even...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I hate getting put down

    but by now I just expect it like its just apart of life. I get that some people might not like my hair, my personality, or even what I say. But at least I'm not acting like someone else this is me-either take me or leave me.
    Skinnylove99 Skinnylove99 16-17, F Jul 31

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    Some Best Friend He Is...

    We were so close in high school especially when he told me he was gay. We got even closer but since I left for college in another town we don't talk as often. I'm okay with it though. I only see him when I'm in town and it's because we have mutual friends. I love him but...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds 22-25, F Mar 12, 2012

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    It's Made Me Lose Respect For Her.

    it's wrong for any of us to cut others down, but i find it especially disappointing when it comes from someone that i liked and respected. someone who comes from a good background, educated and well spoken. i would think a person like this wouldn't feel the need to put others...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I Can't Stand It

    My friend is always putting me down. And I don't know why I always let it bother me. I just can't stand it anymore, she puts me down she puts my other friends down. She thinks she knows everything and that she is better then everyone. Yes she is very beautiful but that doesn't...
    Zombie9 Zombie9 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    What makes you so special?

    when you use your words to crush another for your selfish reasons?! what makes you so better than others to spread your hurtful words onto another? and to see the pain you inflict selfishly? Your that weak and fragile inside you hide it with cruelty?! did someone make you...
    DarkThornedLilyRose43 DarkThornedLilyRose43 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Unacceptable!

    Intolerance is a four-letter word. I generally am someone to accept most people's views, but this I will not allow in my life.  There is always more to the story and there will always be reasons people are the way they are. No one has the right to berate the other human beings...
    Mirvanna Mirvanna 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2011

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    Primarily since i am a target.

    Their reasons are lame. They say they care. And worry. And teach. But really they are just miserable. Due to others. Others with more power. Who could do damage if targeted.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    It's Horrible

    I can't stand magazines, tv, internet, etc. They all tell us we need a diet. They constantly tell us that we aren't as good as the celebrities, they tell us what's the craze, and tell us that violence is right. The media shows horrible things that may cause stereotypes. People...
    soulofmusic soulofmusic 18-21, M May 12, 2010

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    Pointless

    I don't see the appeal of putting others down just to make yourself feel like you're the ****. More than anything, some people need to get a grip on themselves.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Sep 16, 2011

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    Okay

    I have delete the other story because I don't want to cause drama. I used a expression  wasn't  right.   I'm sorry.   Put down others are wrong, rude, mean.   Please learn to to be understanding, forgiving, loving.   I hoping I'm making my point...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I'm Surprised

    there are as many people in this group as there are. In all of my circles growing up there was always this general acceptance of nasty behavior and being an ******* often increased your attractiveness (especially if you were a guy). I was always made out to be like I had a huge...
    Compelling Compelling 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2010

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    Yes This Really Sucks!

    I really can't stand a person that bullies and puts others down. Even here on EP....I've seen ignorant people putting down others. And I'm like... Come On people! Grow up! JERKS! Have respect! Ok I know you are obviously not happy with yourself or maybe your mother didn't teach...
    surrealreality surrealreality 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    I Hate Bullies

    I think they are stupid, idiotic, ignorant, insecure, they lack moral fiber and character. I have no respect for them at all, especially the men. I think in genral they are a bunch of *** nuts.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 5, 2013

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    Some People

    Some people,Can't stand 'em,The way,They put others down,There's no need,Why do it?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    I hear your words....

    I try to ignore them....but when I can no longer, after so long you have said these things....I look to you and ask "what makes you so special? what makes you so better?!" with a look of pure hate in my eyes locking into yours....I will not fear you, I stand against you...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    What makes these a*sholes think they are better

    than everyone else, especially those who like putting others down but have a bitchfit and cry when someone gives them a taste of their own medicine. It's pathetic and childish, grow the **** up.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I Don't Get It

    We have a "friend" at home that will constantly put my wife down.  Why I don't have an answer for it but she is always negative about almost everything that is going on.  I think that she is jealous of my wife cause she wants to do something different and...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2009

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    Ugh, common courtesy will get you so much further than rudeness. I hate to see people treat others with such ugliness. What happened to please and thank you?
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    DTF7 DTF7 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 10

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