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I Can't Stand People That Always Put Down Others

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    Pointless

    I don't see the appeal of putting others down just to make yourself feel like you're the ****. More than anything, some people need to get a grip on themselves.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Sep 16, 2011

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    I'm Surprised

    there are as many people in this group as there are. In all of my circles growing up there was always this general acceptance of nasty behavior and being an ******* often increased your attractiveness (especially if you were a guy). I was always made out to be like I had a huge...
    Compelling Compelling 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2010

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    There are horrible subtle ways they do it too,

    like they select their words carefully in their consciousness to be hurtful and denigrating. I have my theories as to why they do it. They are ugly people who won't allow others to express themselves because they must doubt them. It is so unappealing. I think too, they do this...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    Yes This Really Sucks!

    I really can't stand a person that bullies and puts others down. Even here on EP....I've seen ignorant people putting down others. And I'm like... Come On people! Grow up! JERKS! Have respect! Ok I know you are obviously not happy with yourself or maybe your mother didn't teach...
    surrealreality surrealreality 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    It's Made Me Lose Respect For Her.

    it's wrong for any of us to cut others down, but i find it especially disappointing when it comes from someone that i liked and respected. someone who comes from a good background, educated and well spoken. i would think a person like this wouldn't feel the need to put others...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Okay

    I have delete the other story because I don't want to cause drama. I used a expression  wasn't  right.   I'm sorry.   Put down others are wrong, rude, mean.   Please learn to to be understanding, forgiving, loving.   I hoping I'm making my point...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I Can't Stand It

    My friend is always putting me down. And I don't know why I always let it bother me. I just can't stand it anymore, she puts me down she puts my other friends down. She thinks she knows everything and that she is better then everyone. Yes she is very beautiful but that doesn't...
    Zombie9 Zombie9 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    It's Horrible

    I can't stand magazines, tv, internet, etc. They all tell us we need a diet. They constantly tell us that we aren't as good as the celebrities, they tell us what's the craze, and tell us that violence is right. The media shows horrible things that may cause stereotypes. People...
    soulofmusic soulofmusic 18-21, M May 12, 2010

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    My pastor said it perfectly; "we were all made

    from dust. So how could one speck of dust say they're better than another speck of dust?" We are all the same, only God is greater!
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    I Don't Get It

    We have a "friend" at home that will constantly put my wife down.  Why I don't have an answer for it but she is always negative about almost everything that is going on.  I think that she is jealous of my wife cause she wants to do something different and...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2009

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    This Really Bothers Me!

    I am surprised that there are only two stories on this issue!  I thought it would be more popular.  I think that people who systematically put down other people are not cool people.  I have to be careful when I am defending myself though, sometimes I will even...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I Hate Bullies

    I think they are stupid, idiotic, ignorant, insecure, they lack moral fiber and character. I have no respect for them at all, especially the men. I think in genral they are a bunch of *** nuts.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 5, 2013

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    Unacceptable!

    Intolerance is a four-letter word. I generally am someone to accept most people's views, but this I will not allow in my life.  There is always more to the story and there will always be reasons people are the way they are. No one has the right to berate the other human beings...
    Mirvanna Mirvanna 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2011

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    Why Can't We Be Friends

     I love EP...Here I've found a place where I can let my hair down and be myself: talk about any subject, share secrets, even have friendly disagreement. I'm pretty new to EP so I've personally only had good experiences so far and "I want to thank you-- for letting me...
    prettyselfish prettyselfish 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    I hate getting put down

    but by now I just expect it like its just apart of life. I get that some people might not like my hair, my personality, or even what I say. But at least I'm not acting like someone else this is me-either take me or leave me.
    Skinnylove99 Skinnylove99 18-21, F Jul 31, 2014

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    Some Best Friend He Is...

    We were so close in high school especially when he told me he was gay. We got even closer but since I left for college in another town we don't talk as often. I'm okay with it though. I only see him when I'm in town and it's because we have mutual friends. I love him but...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds 22-25, F Mar 12, 2012

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    What makes you so special?

    when you use your words to crush another for your selfish reasons?! what makes you so better than others to spread your hurtful words onto another? and to see the pain you inflict selfishly? Your that weak and fragile inside you hide it with cruelty?! did someone make you...
    DarkThornedLilyRose43 DarkThornedLilyRose43 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    Some People

    Some people,Can't stand 'em,The way,They put others down,There's no need,Why do it?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Put Down Others

    I applaud the person who created this group. :) I also can't stand people who always put down others. I wonder why they do it for?  Are they jealous of something?  Do they want to be like the other person?  Do they want something that the other person have?  There has to be a...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 15, 2011

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    I hear your words....

    I try to ignore them....but when I can no longer, after so long you have said these things....I look to you and ask "what makes you so special? what makes you so better?!" with a look of pure hate in my eyes locking into yours....I will not fear you, I stand against you...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    My Roommate

    Everyday she comes up to me and complains about how her "friends" are so incompetent. It ****** me off..What does she think of herself?? She treats others like she is so superior to them and it REALLY ****** me off..
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Mar 28, 2012

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    We use CB radios to communicate here at work. One of my coworkers is the type that has to talk to everyone. He never stops. Also he thinks he knows everything. Ugggggggggh! Rant...
    cbcs cbcs 31-35, M 1 Response May 1

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    He is a little kid!! He always "forgets" to do stuff, I think he just has selective memory! I can't stand it! On top of so many problems and baggage he comes with, why do I have to...
    Gia00 Gia00 26-30, F 1 Response May 6

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    don't come smiling at me!! we both know you can't stand me and I can't stand you! in this situations I tend to back off and stay quiet because if I spoke to the person I really...
    crazy4love crazy4love 22-25, F 1 Response May 11

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    I can't stand some lady who has partner, she post her se*y pic,show her boobs to man. wow..look at comments on her post..man believes she is pure.sign... i've seen her a lot here...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 25

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    I can't stand mine either...I try to be nice to him and he's rude
    imissdnce imissdnce 31-35, F May 3

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    Fake people... Why?... You know people will love you for you, right? Saying this I guess I should tell everyone, my biological name isn't Bleu. It's Cali. But I choose to go by...
    bbybleu bbybleu 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    It's funny when people have this as an experience, and you read half a sentence of theirs and think how can they stand themselves?
    CaptainHoof CaptainHoof 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    My mom is always being a ***** about everything. She is bipolar, and everyday she is yelling at any of her kids (Me, my sister, and brother) She's always saying how someone else...
    Pizzaismylife Pizzaismylife 16-17, F Apr 26

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    Abusive alcoholic father died last year. Mother is alone now and calls and gives me guilt trips because I don't go to see her. I'm sorry. I can't bring myself to go to her house...
    KeepnTheFaith KeepnTheFaith 51-55 May 9

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    I can't even stand myself..lol.. Proud gay here. Don't HATE. :D
    Adonisalala Adonisalala 18-21, M 1 Response May 11

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    All the Leo's I have met in my Life have been so cruel and EVIL! They have no compassion whatsoever they are controlling and they call that real Love, they always have to have the...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F May 6

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    I've noticed that a lot of people don't believe in God because of all the bad things he lets happen like disease and war, but I think that's a wrong reason not to believe. I'm not...
    1ChangeForTheBetter1 1ChangeForTheBetter1 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 30

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    so I sit down and just let stupid people talk... they're entertaining
    constancemariefat constancemariefat 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I dislike it when somebody is your friend in your face and an enemy behind your back, always tryna find a way to get you... either starting stuff between you and somebody else...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 26

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    My husband wont acknowledge that his mother always insulted me never said anything nice I always got the digs and when she was at my home she insulted my family and also myself and...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F a week ago

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    I'll never understand why women will come into your life and say all the things you've always wanted to hear, then pull the rug from underneath you and stare you down as though...
    haljordanx23 haljordanx23 26-30, M a week ago

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    I don't know whats happening, all I heard was something about us being sued. My dad is screaming and yelling in that scary voice he did when he grabbed me by my hair and dragged me...
    ShiningSkies ShiningSkies 13-15 May 13

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    Religion is pointless! It will keep dividing people! I had once read a joke saying "A man and a god met somewhere and both exclaimed 'My Creator!'" People should understand now...
    Maaren Maaren 16-17, M May 2

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    I have read time and time again studies that show how attractive and good-looking people have it easier than the average-looking person. They earn higher salaries and everyone...
    dreamyr227 dreamyr227 26-30, F 2 Responses May 5

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    People will NEVER cease to amaze me. I so love the people that only tell you what you want to hear. Try and make you feel special or create some kind of bond between the two of you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 11

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    My brother in law is such a ******... some days I just want to smear dog **** on his face. He Always finds ways to **** me off. One of these fine days I might just nail him to the...
    BrutallyHonest13 BrutallyHonest13 22-25, F Apr 30

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    My mom always yells at me in the morning afternoon and night , she's treating me like a 3 year old , AND IM STILL SLEEPING WITH HER AND IM A TEEN , it's not fair how she yells at...
    musiclover0919 musiclover0919 13-15, F May 3

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