I Cant Stand When People Judge Without Knowing You

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    Poems Of Judgemental People...........

    You don't care whether I smile or frown, you don't care whether my eyes are green or not. You just judge my skin, my eyes, my hair, and you don't even know me. How would you feel if I judged you? Don't judge me when you don't know me, don't judge my fashion sense, or my height...
    mysteryteen mysteryteen
    18-21, F
    Aug 2, 2011

    AND Speaking of the Devil...........

    On a community the size of EP´s all kinds of people can come and post their stories. Some are amazing, well written, insightful and bright.  Some are touching, and some other are sad. However as in everything in this world there is room for stupid and that sadly...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2008

    Okay so I'm not very social πŸ˜‚ fancy that!

    I go online everyday! Because I hate everyone in my school and have fake friends plus people online are so interesting and real!!! It's amazing, like a whole new world (Aladdin Reference!) anyways! I have always been interested in video games. I love them and as a girl I'm not...
    SlenderFreakish213 SlenderFreakish213
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jan 21

    Who Are You To Judge Me?

    When I was 17 I got pregnant, and my mom took me out of the high school and put me into a continuation school(school for bad kids). It was my first week there.Well there was this girl that was in my class and she would give me dirty looks in class all the time. Well i went to...
    brinaA brinaA
    22-25, F
    Sep 23, 2013

    I feel that people always judge people

    if you don't even know them.Like you could say oh this girl eats to much she's fat.Like no you don't get to say that maybe her Body was like that and she's still hungry herself and trying to impress you for no god damn reason.Or that guys gay.So if that's how he wants to be let...
    Awkwardlysocial Awkwardlysocial
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2015

    lately I have posted a question a bout

    apersonal situation I had with this married guy , I was glad that there was some resonable good advices and shocked to find out that women still take the blame when a man cheats . I am nit trying to find excuses for a woman pursuing a man despite knowing he is married however I...
    saria26 saria26
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    i hate it when people judge someone else

    because how they look and dress and act and then they call you names when they don't even know you
    stephanie751 stephanie751
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    They Stared Before I Got My Tatts

    I've always wished I could be invisible. Having people stare at me made me feel like I must have been some kind of freak of nature. When I got older, I decided "to Hell with it," and now have 7 black, very noticeable tattoos on my forearms. I figured, If they were gonna...
    DwannaBUn DwannaBUn
    1 Response Nov 24, 2008

    Special Confidant I (poem)

    Special Confidant I At what point do telling words       Become like a very dark chocolate       Bitter rather than sweet Penciled letters erased Rain drops washing ink away Judgments of what we see      ...
    OkayBut OkayBut
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2010

    I sit in my classrooms everyday

    and I cant help but to hear the crap that comes out of the other students mouths. I'm aware of the things they say about me and all I want to do is burst out in tears. They make really rude comments about my scars and how they're ugly and how stupid I am for cutting myself...
    dyingxhope dyingxhope
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    It really bothers me

    when I hear people judging other people. Who made you King? No one in this world reserves a right to judge anyone because no one in this world is perfect.
    Living2Heights Living2Heights
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2014

    *cough* my boyfriends mom *cough* She knows

    nothing about me, and still judges me. Ugh.
    mcc1109 mcc1109
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2014

    I am perfectly okay with judging people

    and I will explain to you why with my usual flawless logic. Judgement is just a fancy word for prediction. You can predict a stranger to be good or bad. You will only hear people whine about you judging someone if it's bad but not if its good. But I guarantee that if you are...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 4, 2015

    it Drives Me Crazy When Peo...

    it drives me crazy when people make assumptions and then dont even try to like see the other side of the story.  there are always two sides of a story.  and when people dont try to see both the make judgments without knowing what they are judging.  
    marleykiddo marleykiddo
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2008

    people are so judgmental they judge you

    for being you they judge you for not being yourself they judge you for being real they judge you for being fake they judge your walk .. your face .. your accent .. your apperence they never go deep down and try to know you better ..
    pulsera07 pulsera07
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    People think I'm weird

    because I listen to heavy rock and metal music, but I look sweet and innocent... But other people must like that music too because otherwise there wouldn't be any of it
    Kblue99 Kblue99
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 17, 2014

    So I'm really quiet and don't really talk much

    at school, I have social anxiety, and quite a few times people have said that "I think I'm too good to talk to anyone", or something along the lines of that, when that is definitely NOT the case. It really kinda makes me mad when people say that about people who are quiet when...
    Imshysorry Imshysorry
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2015

    Why are looks more important

    than the real person in the inside?
    Littlemonster77777 Littlemonster77777
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 30, 2014

    Pls Read

    A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train's window shouted... "Dad, look the trees are going behind!" Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old's childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed... "Dad, look the clouds are running with us...
    HeretoHelp99 HeretoHelp99
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 19, 2012

    Forgive Me

    People judging you with out knowing you is like. Running a red light when you know you shouldn't In the end you could hurt someone. In both aspect someone could get hurt. You should always give people a chance. Every one deserve a chance.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2008

    Never judge a book by its cover,

    i got juded for being a 'young mum' (19 when had my son) even by my health visitors, i have an NVQ in childcare and have been working in nurseries since i was 14 i think i knew what i was getting into, yes i was young i still am (may not feel it most of the time) and no the...
    Afallenangel666 Afallenangel666
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    Point Of View

    A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train's window shouted..."Dad, look the trees are going behind!" dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old's childish behaviour withpity, suddenly he again exclaimed ... "dad, look the clouds are running with us...
    hhubby123 hhubby123
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jul 4, 2013

    There are so many people

    that judge me for being pregnant when they don't even know my story. πŸ˜’πŸ˜”πŸ˜žπŸ˜£
    AllysaLee AllysaLee
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2014

    I swear to god if one more ******* says I'm a

    Nazi just because I'm German I will rip his/her heart out and feed it to the inferno of hell!
    DaGermanator DaGermanator
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    Well I look at it this way it there lost

    for not knowing the wonderful person we are in side I have this problem to I'm mostly a non talker on the bus iam 18 iam in 12th grade and I have people not likening me because I have big hips or my hair is purple or it blue then the next mouth they copying me lol 9 times out of...
    spice3xl spice3xl
    18-21, F
    Oct 3, 2015

    Do Not Bow Down

    Judgmental people loved to be worshipped. Especially by those they lavish their "precious" judgment upon. The more that they think you care about what they feel about you, the more they can get you to bow down. The more they can get you to bow down, the more self-conscious you'll...
    built4comfort built4comfort
    51-55, M
    Jun 22, 2013

    at some point you have to realize

    that some people can only stay in your heart not in your life....
    isabelarao isabelarao
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2014


    I know I'm not innocent of this, in fact i have been guilty of this very thing, but here's my thoughts, for what there worth based on what i've learned- how can you truly judge someone without knowing them, how can you say what is right or wrong in their lives, from their choices...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2011

    Oh, Wow...

    I usually don't get affected too much by judgement. I'm used to it. I've always been "different", or what some would assume is different or unusual. I like heavy metal music, I'm pale, I like things that deal with the paranormal. A lot of people assume I worship the devil. Even...
    LC87 LC87
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2010

    Stand Strong

    Okay, some people judge me by my looks. They say pretty girls always are the ugliest inside. Well that's not true. I have my problems but i am nice to talk to, i am funny, and smart. To judge someone like that is not hurting us but hurting you because your missing out on a great...
    foreverloveu foreverloveu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2013

    We all judge. You can't help it!

    As soon as you see someone you make assumptions based on how they look or sound or what they're doing. That's human nature.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2014

    Got told i looked angry all the time

    because i wear dark make up a lot,i mean really,and then i get told i'm intimidating because i am tall,5'7 doesn't make me a giant...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2014

     I Believe a Man's...

     I believe a man's character is in inward and has little to do with his outward appearance.
    lagringa lagringa
    5 Responses Nov 24, 2008

    Judge The Outside Without Knowing The Inside!

    For Years I've know about my true identity...but always kept it a secret and on the inside. Till recently, I told very few of those I trust explicitly...and then worried what they might think. Now...I don't care what others may think of my decision to be who I truly am...
    soulman5420 soulman5420
    1 Response Jul 4, 2013

    So Tired Of Being Judged

    I am sitting here in wander, and how people tend to judge others before they even get to know them. People tend to judge others by a color or a weigh, or a shape, or where their from before even getting to know them .. I'm sick of it ... don't judge me until you get to know me...
    cooki66 cooki66
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2013

    Let's do away with pervs

    and trolls here on ep. 'Bharatrossiya' is a freaking psycho. He blocks every girl in here and every guy who isn't single, even when they haven't done anything to him or even talked to him. Have never heard of such a preposterous reason to block someone. And he abuses girls in...
    Neo2015 Neo2015
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    Yes I make bad choices in my life I regret some

    I made good choices too I love god and I am not as bad as some people act like I am
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 5, 2014

    Everyone has a different story

    and everyone has been through events who have shaped the person they are so no one has the right to judge another person. I think if we tried to get to know someone more than judging them this world would be a better place. I used to be one of those people I used to think I knew...
    m0808 m0808
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2014


    Reputations can be helpful and harmful. There is a bright side to having a personal brand, provided it’s one that suits your niche in life, yet more and more I find that it becomes an excuse to fast track hatred. I wonder if we even realize how much fake hatred exists? That...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    School/ Life

    Even when I got out of school, people still stabed you int he back and made fun of other people. I thought that stuff stoped in high school. I was always judge in school. NOone hardly talked to me but yet I was picked on for who I was. To be honest noone who picked on me knew a...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2008
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 22, 2014
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