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I Can't Stand Women Who Smoke Or Drink While Pregnant

For Those Of Us Who Feel That Volatile Urge To Take Action In Defense of New Life 522 People

    Isn't..

    Isn't it against the law?If it's not, it should be!Don't drink or smoke ladies, that's wrong. I am no one to judge, but whether it should be done or not should NEVER be put into question.I have a cousin who was a couple month pregnant and drank, it made me so angry...And when...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 5 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    A Glass Of Wine Never Hurt Anyone.

    Drinking? Well, a glass of wine after lunch will hurt noone, it bothers me that some people are against everything with alcohol, with heads full of pictures of the drinker's liver from schoolbook. Yes, a bit, is no problem, it's healthy actually, even when preagnant i think it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 5, 2010

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    Atrocity

    My uncle (almost 50) started dating a woman in her late 30's and was at least 4 months along, I'm not sure, and it wasn't his. I was visiting with my daughter one weekend and there's usually a lot of drinking going on in my family, well this woman was drinking. I was appalled...
    MissSunfire MissSunfire 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    Healthy Baby

    When a woman conceive, it is not about her anymore, she's carring another life and that life is important and priority and should be well taken care of.  Some are selfish and think about their needs first.  No women should be smoking, drinking or on drugs. ...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    It Should Be Illegal

    It should be illegal for a woman to smoke, drink, or do drugs during her pregnancy. She's damaging the child she's carrying & it should be viewed as a form of child abuse & punished accordingly.
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    Child Abuse

    It's child abuse, it's just that simple.Inflicting chemicals upon a fetus that can't defend itself is so disrespectful. If you can't drop your habit for 9 months for the sake of your unborn child, you are incredibly selfish.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2011

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    It Just Disgusts Me

    My mom smoked while she was pregnant with me. I had horrible allergies and asthma as a child due to it. I was also a very irritable baby as well. When I was pregnant with my second child a coworker was also pregnant. She smoked and it made me so angry. We both went into...
    cinfullysweet cinfullysweet 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    I Can’t Stand It

    Pregnant women, They should know better, No smoking, Or heavy drinking, These are the rules, I can’t stand it, When pregnant women somke, Or drink - How do they think? The embryo inside feels, Or what it would say? If it could speak!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8 46-50, M Jul 27, 2011

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    Hailey

    My girlfriend smoked while she was pregnant. Her daughter came out with a droopy eyelid. She's had several gory surgeries but it is a plastic surgery that keeps growing out. Hailey's 9 now. Severe personality disorders. Amber (my gf) cut her smoking down to a pack a day instead...
    Bridgernin Bridgernin 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Get That Cigarette Out Of Your Hand!

    ...Or else you will be slapped silly! You have been forewarned.
    girlanonymous girlanonymous 18-21, F Mar 4, 2011

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    It's just bad. Grow up ladies,

    babies before your addiction!
    CourtBing CourtBing 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2014

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    I Can't Help But Judge

    Whenever I see a pregnant woman smoking or drinking, I feel disgusted inside and I can't help but frown or shake my head in pity. I feel very critical towards the mother as well. I get smoking is an addiction but some have quit cold turkey like my sister in law has with both her...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety 26-30, F May 18, 2012

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    Incredibly Selfish

    Now before I plunge neck deep into things - I want to make one thing PERFECTLY CLEAR. This group is not about pro life or stripping the reproductive rights of women. My argument is simply this: if you intend to bring new life into this world, you have an obligation I feel to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Not Just The Women...

    This true for fathers, too! Bottom line: If you like to smoke, drink or "party" then don't have kids!! It's really as simple as that. But, I guess humans are too selfish to save anyone a lifetime of misery. More messed-up kids will be born and society will continue to get worse...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Aug 14, 2011

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    It Is So Disgusting!

    I can understand if you didn't know you were pregnant and were doing the stuff before you found out, but doing it after you know is wrong! The other day, someone said, "I smoked weed and cigs all the time when I was pregnant with _____." I had to bite my tongue. I'm not a...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2011

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    From Experience!

    My mother did all kinds of drugs when she was pregnant with me. Luckily I wasn't born with it in my system. But I get addicted to things easier. Blah! It's sad some woman are so selfish that they can't stop doin harmful things for their unborn babies.
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    I had a friend in high school

    who dated this girl that felt it was okay for her to smoke for the first three months. According to her it wouldn't do any harm to the baby..... Luckily it didn't. On top of that this women was putting the baby up for adoption. In the end I'm glad she didn't raise him I don't...
    ProjextAA ProjextAA 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2014

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    I wouldn't say "can't stand"

    but I do believe women have a duty to do all they can to keep themselves and their un-born child healthy. Smoking is absolutely unacceptable as is drinking any more than the occasional small glass of wine.
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 1 Response May 26

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    when I write I care more about the expression rather than its perfection. but I do try to correct it for the ones who can't stand it.
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    106 degree weather vices #578: you immediately regret getting a car with leather seats as soon as you sit down and feel your flesh cooking
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well I can but some of there behaviors and additutes can be vexing. Their arrogant ignorance, their often disregard for other life and heartlessness even to each other.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    the 106 degree weather does wonders to my mood today as I found spots I didn't even know I could sweat at....
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Number one rule in my life! I cannot, will not litter! I don't care what it takes me to dispose of something. Ppl make fun of me. :-(
    2bMeAgain 2bMeAgain 41-45 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I literally sat with them for 20 min and I just can stand how they're all judgemental ******. enough family time for today.
    oliviamarie17 oliviamarie17 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    But the world sure is full of them!
    mb7700 mb7700 31-35, M a week ago

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    I dislike how the smell of it gets on my clothes & in my hair. But what's really my pet peeve about smoking is people who discard lit cigarettes on the sidewalk. I've...
    MeghanL MeghanL 26-30, F a week ago

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    I had depressed friend on here, he didnt wanted my help. Now i wonder where he is. He deleted hisself and i worry much. I hope he is going to be okay.
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F Jun 21

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    Well,sometimes i can't stand her!I called her last week,because my husband ,has a family member,(who we haven't seen in 5 years)coming next weekend.I thought it would be nice if...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 21

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    They do it because they can't get none.
    AnonymousJSS AnonymousJSS 13-15, F Jun 21

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    a cashier gave a woman the wrong change and the lady goes crazy...yelling and demanding to speak to her manager.... the cashier was in her late 60's and so scared....people can be...
    siobhansweetness siobhansweetness 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I can't stand for a person to try to pressure me into doing something I don't want to do. I'm more like it's cool if you want to but, don't try to make me. just let me be happy.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Jun 19

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    OK! I want to say this so to make all know what i am from inside. You should know that my HSP which means to whoever read and don't know what it means(High Sensitive personality...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    Like he looses everything. He's lost his wallet, social security card, bank card, and our last 10 dollars for the next 2 weeks. Like it's irritating and I want to stop trusting him...
    Ppwincess1901 Ppwincess1901 18-21, F Jun 19

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    Lol. I've had my deal of whining people who blame everyone else or a group of people for their issues. Perhaps everyone in that group that they've met were horrible to them---does...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 19

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    Some people on here are so rude . Message me I guess if you want to know the story .
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 19

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    It's crazy how a few years and hundreds of books can change how you see the world. I used to get angry about who I thought was taking my benefits and getting over on me. I used to...
    seabeewonder seabeewonder 26-30, F Jun 18

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    stupid is what stupid does....that is all
    lasheadilemma lasheadilemma 31-35, F Jun 17

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    A while back, me and my friend were hanging out with this guy. He kept flirting with us,i wanted to leave.But i didn't want to leave my friend alone with this creep. So we were...
    muffin125 muffin125 18-21, F Jun 16

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    If you can't stand behind our troops, try standing in front of them. And coming from someone who served in the Navy, you better believe that I'll always stand up for my fellow...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Jun 16

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    There is something even worse. When adults hide behind children in order to promote their religious prejudice.
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 16

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    Once I thought of you as the beginning. Then I saw you lie over, and over. Not to step on your heart. The beginning has ended. You will wish I didn't exist. All the luck to you.
    Isis27 Isis27 36-40 Jun 15

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    My partner and I (we're coming up on our first year together) are renting out rooms in my disabled mother-in-law's house. At first, we got along well. She was motherly, sweet, and...
    grenadoman grenadoman 18-21, M Jun 15

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    From hero to zero, that's what one of my friend called me. I 'got something only to loose it later. i can't stand even the slightest pressure. I was a very good writer that can...
    hatemymum hatemymum 18-21, M Jun 15

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