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I Can't Stand Women Who Smoke Or Drink While Pregnant

For Those Of Us Who Feel That Volatile Urge To Take Action In Defense of New Life 409 People

    From Experience!

    My mother did all kinds of drugs when she was pregnant with me. Luckily I wasn't born with it in my system. But I get addicted to things easier. Blah! It's sad some woman are so selfish that they can't stop doin harmful things for their unborn babies.
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    My mom smoked while she was pregnant with me.

    Maybe that is why I am unimportant to her.
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    It Just Disgusts Me

    My mom smoked while she was pregnant with me. I had horrible allergies and asthma as a child due to it. I was also a very irritable baby as well. When I was pregnant with my second child a coworker was also pregnant. She smoked and it made me so angry. We both went into...
    cinfullysweet cinfullysweet 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Hailey

    My girlfriend smoked while she was pregnant. Her daughter came out with a droopy eyelid. She's had several gory surgeries but it is a plastic surgery that keeps growing out. Hailey's 9 now. Severe personality disorders. Amber (my gf) cut her smoking down to a pack a day instead...
    Bridgernin Bridgernin 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    It Should Be Illegal

    It should be illegal for a woman to smoke, drink, or do drugs during her pregnancy. She's damaging the child she's carrying & it should be viewed as a form of child abuse & punished accordingly.
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    Get That Cigarette Out Of Your Hand!

    ...Or else you will be slapped silly! You have been forewarned.
    girlanonymous girlanonymous 18-21, F Mar 4, 2011

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    Incredibly Selfish

    Now before I plunge neck deep into things - I want to make one thing PERFECTLY CLEAR. This group is not about pro life or stripping the reproductive rights of women. My argument is simply this: if you intend to bring new life into this world, you have an obligation I feel to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Isn't..

    Isn't it against the law?If it's not, it should be!Don't drink or smoke ladies, that's wrong. I am no one to judge, but whether it should be done or not should NEVER be put into question.I have a cousin who was a couple month pregnant and drank, it made me so angry...And when...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Atrocity

    My uncle (almost 50) started dating a woman in her late 30's and was at least 4 months along, I'm not sure, and it wasn't his. I was visiting with my daughter one weekend and there's usually a lot of drinking going on in my family, well this woman was drinking. I was appalled...
    MissSunfire MissSunfire 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I had a friend in high school

    who dated this girl that felt it was okay for her to smoke for the first three months. According to her it wouldn't do any harm to the baby..... Luckily it didn't. On top of that this women was putting the baby up for adoption. In the end I'm glad she didn't raise him I don't...
    ProjextAA ProjextAA 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    I Can't Help But Judge

    Whenever I see a pregnant woman smoking or drinking, I feel disgusted inside and I can't help but frown or shake my head in pity. I feel very critical towards the mother as well. I get smoking is an addiction but some have quit cold turkey like my sister in law has with both her...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety 26-30, F May 18, 2012

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    A Glass Of Wine Never Hurt Anyone.

    Drinking? Well, a glass of wine after lunch will hurt noone, it bothers me that some people are against everything with alcohol, with heads full of pictures of the drinker's liver from schoolbook. Yes, a bit, is no problem, it's healthy actually, even when preagnant i think it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 5, 2010

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    It Is So Disgusting!

    I can understand if you didn't know you were pregnant and were doing the stuff before you found out, but doing it after you know is wrong! The other day, someone said, "I smoked weed and cigs all the time when I was pregnant with _____." I had to bite my tongue. I'm not a...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2011

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    Not Just The Women...

    This true for fathers, too! Bottom line: If you like to smoke, drink or "party" then don't have kids!! It's really as simple as that. But, I guess humans are too selfish to save anyone a lifetime of misery. More messed-up kids will be born and society will continue to get worse...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Aug 14, 2011

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    Child Abuse

    It's child abuse, it's just that simple.Inflicting chemicals upon a fetus that can't defend itself is so disrespectful. If you can't drop your habit for 9 months for the sake of your unborn child, you are incredibly selfish.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    I Can’t Stand It

    Pregnant women, They should know better, No smoking, Or heavy drinking, These are the rules, I can’t stand it, When pregnant women somke, Or drink - How do they think? The embryo inside feels, Or what it would say? If it could speak!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8 46-50, M Jul 27, 2011

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    Healthy Baby

    When a woman conceive, it is not about her anymore, she's carring another life and that life is important and priority and should be well taken care of.  Some are selfish and think about their needs first.  No women should be smoking, drinking or on drugs. ...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    It's just bad. Grow up ladies,

    babies before your addiction!
    CourtBing CourtBing 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Yuck the smell is disgusting. When the women at my place of work are smoking outside on our lunch breaks. I have to leave. I not only can't stand the smell. But I get light headed...
    Simone143 Simone143 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Oh my gosh. I hate religious debates. I am catholic but I just can't stand when we get into these arguments about this and that, and it just makes the moment so heated. I can't...
    Aepeth Aepeth 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't like rejection! I can't stand it when I am talking to someone and then they stop replying to me! And I know that they are not sleeping or too busy they know that I don't...
    Shabz5black Shabz5black 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    They seem like they are the main ones who always have something to say or want to debate someone. Sometimes I find it funny but most of the time I am highly irritated and I guess...
    Artiste92 Artiste92 22-25, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I'm glad I finally found somewhere I can vent! My mother in law is so freaking annoying, I literally can not stand her! I try to talk to my husband but it always turns into a fight...
    Chaz14 Chaz14 26-30, F Sep 17

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    It's such a stab to my own back when I can't be allowed by the one that lives on the clouds to browse the web.
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Sep 8

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    Mostly their kid is a real idiot. He stays up all night playing with his stupid a$$ drum set! He plays alllll nighttt lately. I'm gonna go over and take that thing and smash it...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I can't understand 98% of the human race and how they think and live. It doesn't bother me I just don't understand it
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 20

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    I wish we could all just get over it. So what so and so believes in something other then you? That doesn't mean you can't be friends.
    NightWalker6676 NightWalker6676 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    It just makes me feel totally violated. I can't explain it.
    ModernHippieMama ModernHippieMama 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ok so all of my life women my age haven't been attracted to me but women at ages I'm not comfortable dating have cried themselves to sleep over me ( not literally. Only two) and...
    Danham Danham 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do anymore all my parents do is fight about everything once they fought over a piece of chicken it makes me depressed and it makes me hate my family even more...
    JordanNyan92 JordanNyan92 13-15, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I feel like killing myself! Before u judge my parents are amazing people separately but together they are like coke and mentos- very explosive. My parents dont often fight maybe...
    xXPEACEMAKERXx xXPEACEMAKERXx 22-25, F Sep 9

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    Have you ever met somebody who was just so ignorant that you physically couldn't understand them? I went on a program once with some people including one girl whose name I will...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M Sep 15

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    For those of you that don't know, "shipping" is to endorse two people in a romantic relationship-fictional or non fictional. My friends have been shipping me with some boy (who...
    Artistecorner Artistecorner 16-17, F Sep 17

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    Dear Faithful Women And Men That Get Played, It's His/Her Loss, Not Yours..You're The Best Thing He/She Will Never Have.
    Simone143 Simone143 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I bought a guy lunch today because his meal plan at our school ran out and he didn't have money. He's a really sweet guy and plays on our football team and is very intelligent and...
    Skollon Skollon 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    What's with abrahamic religions and their fear of women?
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have always had this issue and maybe its just me cause i get annoyed easily. I think its because i try 200% and expect others to as well but of course they dont. Ex: at this...
    mawniegirl mawniegirl 26-30, F Sep 15

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    First of all, there is no "religion" you either believe in God or you don't, and if you don't you're for the devil whether you know it or not because you are against God. So really...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Two things I don't argue or fight about. Religion and politics. Everybody has a right to believe in who and what they want. Who am I or you to judge ?
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love how my coworker, who is a senior employee, only 5 years older than me, complains how she never has work, talks all day long and never answers her phone yet makes twice as...
    mawniegirl mawniegirl 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    Then Ashley started acting like a brat because she was hanging out with this popular girl. Now Ashley is ignoring Erin for NO REASON. She won't even ask Erin what's wrong.. Erin's...
    tfiosqueen tfiosqueen 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Just getting irritated with individuals who think they are better than you and think they have to talk down to you!
    crandall71 crandall71 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I always tell my real name, my real location, my real school and even that I am empty pocket at the moment. Why lying ? Let the people see the real you and see who really...
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When I'm eating lunch with headphones in, why do ppl take that as an invitation to talk to me? Then i just look rude when i don't respond.
    mawniegirl mawniegirl 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    Having said that if the religious maniacs can be encouraged to just fight each other, and leave the rest of us out of it... Need I finish this thought?
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Wel except this isn't a person... It's my dam dog! They stole my keys when I got home!! You little mutt you!!!
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't have anything to hide but I have high anxiety, borderline OCD do not touch my stuff. It freaks me out. I get nervous and scared.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Why???? Al religion are good just do what u do And don't try to change someones religion !! (Like is THATS SO WRONG)
    Iwillhelpyou5 Iwillhelpyou5 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yes, they do exist. One was my partner and one was my mother. Shame on me.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23