I Can't Stand Women Who Smoke Or Drink While Pregnant

For Those Of Us Who Feel That Volatile Urge To Take Action In Defense of New Life 801 People

    I wouldn't say "can't stand"

    but I do believe women have a duty to do all they can to keep themselves and their un-born child healthy. Smoking is absolutely unacceptable as is drinking any more than the occasional small glass of wine.
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 26, 2015

    Seriously if you don't care about your health

    fine but don't put your unborn childs health in jeopardy. You chose to smoke it didn't.
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    Incredibly Selfish

    Now before I plunge neck deep into things - I want to make one thing PERFECTLY CLEAR. This group is not about pro life or stripping the reproductive rights of women. My argument is simply this: if you intend to bring new life into this world, you have an obligation I feel to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Nov 10, 2009

    Isn't..

    Isn't it against the law?If it's not, it should be!Don't drink or smoke ladies, that's wrong. I am no one to judge, but whether it should be done or not should NEVER be put into question.I have a cousin who was a couple month pregnant and drank, it made me so angry...And when...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    5 Responses Jan 10, 2011

    Get That Cigarette Out Of Your Hand!

    ...Or else you will be slapped silly! You have been forewarned.
    girlanonymous girlanonymous
    18-21, F
    Mar 4, 2011

    Not Just The Women...

    This true for fathers, too! Bottom line: If you like to smoke, drink or "party" then don't have kids!! It's really as simple as that. But, I guess humans are too selfish to save anyone a lifetime of misery. More messed-up kids will be born and society will continue to get worse...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    Aug 14, 2011

    I Can’t Stand It

    Pregnant women, They should know better, No smoking, Or heavy drinking, These are the rules, I can’t stand it, When pregnant women somke, Or drink - How do they think? The embryo inside feels, Or what it would say? If it could speak!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8
    46-50, M
    Jul 27, 2011

    A Glass Of Wine Never Hurt Anyone.

    Drinking? Well, a glass of wine after lunch will hurt noone, it bothers me that some people are against everything with alcohol, with heads full of pictures of the drinker's liver from schoolbook. Yes, a bit, is no problem, it's healthy actually, even when preagnant i think it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 5, 2010

    Child Abuse

    It's child abuse, it's just that simple.Inflicting chemicals upon a fetus that can't defend itself is so disrespectful. If you can't drop your habit for 9 months for the sake of your unborn child, you are incredibly selfish.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2011

    Healthy Baby

    When a woman conceive, it is not about her anymore, she's carring another life and that life is important and priority and should be well taken care of.  Some are selfish and think about their needs first.  No women should be smoking, drinking or on drugs. ...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 24, 2010

    Atrocity

    My uncle (almost 50) started dating a woman in her late 30's and was at least 4 months along, I'm not sure, and it wasn't his. I was visiting with my daughter one weekend and there's usually a lot of drinking going on in my family, well this woman was drinking. I was appalled...
    MissSunfire MissSunfire
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

    Hailey

    My girlfriend smoked while she was pregnant. Her daughter came out with a droopy eyelid. She's had several gory surgeries but it is a plastic surgery that keeps growing out. Hailey's 9 now. Severe personality disorders. Amber (my gf) cut her smoking down to a pack a day instead...
    Bridgernin Bridgernin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2012

    I Can't Help But Judge

    Whenever I see a pregnant woman smoking or drinking, I feel disgusted inside and I can't help but frown or shake my head in pity. I feel very critical towards the mother as well. I get smoking is an addiction but some have quit cold turkey like my sister in law has with both her...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety
    26-30, F
    May 18, 2012

    My pregnant coworker went to the ***** club

    this weekend and got drunk and got in a fist fight with someone. Then she spent the night in jail. And she's the first person to criticize other people's parenting skills....
    PlanetT PlanetT
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 23

    Any woman who knowingly endangers their child

    like this shouldn't be having children in the first place. If a woman is seen doing this awful behavior, she should be fined and forced to take an educational course or detox program to learn her lesson. Child abuse of a pre-born baby is unacceptable!
    TheRedTie TheRedTie
    31-35, M
    Jan 13

    It Is In A Opinion That Women Who Smoke

    Drink/Drugs While Pregnant, Are Some Of The Most Selfish Individuals On The Planet. It Is Also In My Opinion, That Any and All Women Who Indulge In Any Of The Above Forementioning.Should Be Charged With An Felony Class Child Abuse Charge and Forced To Pay An Absolutely Excessive...
    BIGGSKEET BIGGSKEET
    46-50, M
    Aug 22, 2015

    It Should Be Illegal

    It should be illegal for a woman to smoke, drink, or do drugs during her pregnancy. She's damaging the child she's carrying & it should be viewed as a form of child abuse & punished accordingly.
    lyricalongings lyricalongings
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 15, 2010

    I had a friend in high school

    who dated this girl that felt it was okay for her to smoke for the first three months. According to her it wouldn't do any harm to the baby..... Luckily it didn't. On top of that this women was putting the baby up for adoption. In the end I'm glad she didn't raise him I don't...
    ProjextAA ProjextAA
    26-30, M
    Feb 23, 2014

    It Just Disgusts Me

    My mom smoked while she was pregnant with me. I had horrible allergies and asthma as a child due to it. I was also a very irritable baby as well. When I was pregnant with my second child a coworker was also pregnant. She smoked and it made me so angry. We both went into...
    cinfullysweet cinfullysweet
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2011

    It's just bad. Grow up ladies,

    babies before your addiction!
    CourtBing CourtBing
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 23, 2014

    Such selfish women thinking about themselves

    and not giving 9 months of your pregancy to the unborn child they carry. I don't care what ppl say, it's totally selfish and they should be a shame for filling their body up with such poison for the child to take before it's even born. We as mothers are supposed to protect and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 23

    I don't understand why people would want to

    harm their child with that stuff.
    badgirlbee badgirlbee
    22-25, F
    Jul 30, 2015

    It Is So Disgusting!

    I can understand if you didn't know you were pregnant and were doing the stuff before you found out, but doing it after you know is wrong! The other day, someone said, "I smoked weed and cigs all the time when I was pregnant with _____." I had to bite my tongue. I'm not a...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2011

    From Experience!

    My mother did all kinds of drugs when she was pregnant with me. Luckily I wasn't born with it in my system. But I get addicted to things easier. Blah! It's sad some woman are so selfish that they can't stop doin harmful things for their unborn babies.
    Serabi Serabi
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 12, 2011
    TheSturgeonGeneral TheSturgeonGeneral
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015
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