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I Can't Stand Women Who Smoke Or Drink While Pregnant

For Those Of Us Who Feel That Volatile Urge To Take Action In Defense of New Life 454 People

    I Can’t Stand It

    Pregnant women, They should know better, No smoking, Or heavy drinking, These are the rules, I can’t stand it, When pregnant women somke, Or drink - How do they think? The embryo inside feels, Or what it would say? If it could speak!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8 46-50, M Jul 27, 2011

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    A Glass Of Wine Never Hurt Anyone.

    Drinking? Well, a glass of wine after lunch will hurt noone, it bothers me that some people are against everything with alcohol, with heads full of pictures of the drinker's liver from schoolbook. Yes, a bit, is no problem, it's healthy actually, even when preagnant i think it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 5, 2010

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    Hailey

    My girlfriend smoked while she was pregnant. Her daughter came out with a droopy eyelid. She's had several gory surgeries but it is a plastic surgery that keeps growing out. Hailey's 9 now. Severe personality disorders. Amber (my gf) cut her smoking down to a pack a day instead...
    Bridgernin Bridgernin 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Child Abuse

    It's child abuse, it's just that simple.Inflicting chemicals upon a fetus that can't defend itself is so disrespectful. If you can't drop your habit for 9 months for the sake of your unborn child, you are incredibly selfish.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    It Should Be Illegal

    It should be illegal for a woman to smoke, drink, or do drugs during her pregnancy. She's damaging the child she's carrying & it should be viewed as a form of child abuse & punished accordingly.
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    It's just bad. Grow up ladies,

    babies before your addiction!
    CourtBing CourtBing 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2014

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    Not Just The Women...

    This true for fathers, too! Bottom line: If you like to smoke, drink or "party" then don't have kids!! It's really as simple as that. But, I guess humans are too selfish to save anyone a lifetime of misery. More messed-up kids will be born and society will continue to get worse...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Aug 14, 2011

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    Incredibly Selfish

    Now before I plunge neck deep into things - I want to make one thing PERFECTLY CLEAR. This group is not about pro life or stripping the reproductive rights of women. My argument is simply this: if you intend to bring new life into this world, you have an obligation I feel to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Healthy Baby

    When a woman conceive, it is not about her anymore, she's carring another life and that life is important and priority and should be well taken care of.  Some are selfish and think about their needs first.  No women should be smoking, drinking or on drugs. ...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    I Can't Help But Judge

    Whenever I see a pregnant woman smoking or drinking, I feel disgusted inside and I can't help but frown or shake my head in pity. I feel very critical towards the mother as well. I get smoking is an addiction but some have quit cold turkey like my sister in law has with both her...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety 26-30, F May 18, 2012

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    Atrocity

    My uncle (almost 50) started dating a woman in her late 30's and was at least 4 months along, I'm not sure, and it wasn't his. I was visiting with my daughter one weekend and there's usually a lot of drinking going on in my family, well this woman was drinking. I was appalled...
    MissSunfire MissSunfire 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    It Just Disgusts Me

    My mom smoked while she was pregnant with me. I had horrible allergies and asthma as a child due to it. I was also a very irritable baby as well. When I was pregnant with my second child a coworker was also pregnant. She smoked and it made me so angry. We both went into...
    cinfullysweet cinfullysweet 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    From Experience!

    My mother did all kinds of drugs when she was pregnant with me. Luckily I wasn't born with it in my system. But I get addicted to things easier. Blah! It's sad some woman are so selfish that they can't stop doin harmful things for their unborn babies.
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Get That Cigarette Out Of Your Hand!

    ...Or else you will be slapped silly! You have been forewarned.
    girlanonymous girlanonymous 18-21, F Mar 4, 2011

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    I had a friend in high school

    who dated this girl that felt it was okay for her to smoke for the first three months. According to her it wouldn't do any harm to the baby..... Luckily it didn't. On top of that this women was putting the baby up for adoption. In the end I'm glad she didn't raise him I don't...
    ProjextAA ProjextAA 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2014

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    It Is So Disgusting!

    I can understand if you didn't know you were pregnant and were doing the stuff before you found out, but doing it after you know is wrong! The other day, someone said, "I smoked weed and cigs all the time when I was pregnant with _____." I had to bite my tongue. I'm not a...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2011

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    Isn't..

    Isn't it against the law?If it's not, it should be!Don't drink or smoke ladies, that's wrong. I am no one to judge, but whether it should be done or not should NEVER be put into question.I have a cousin who was a couple month pregnant and drank, it made me so angry...And when...
    TheRoseThatGrewFromConcrete TheRoseThatGrewFromConcrete 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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