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I Can't Stand Women Who Smoke Or Drink While Pregnant

For Those Of Us Who Feel That Volatile Urge To Take Action In Defense of New Life 664 People

    Isn't..

    Isn't it against the law?If it's not, it should be!Don't drink or smoke ladies, that's wrong. I am no one to judge, but whether it should be done or not should NEVER be put into question.I have a cousin who was a couple month pregnant and drank, it made me so angry...And when...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 5 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Healthy Baby

    When a woman conceive, it is not about her anymore, she's carring another life and that life is important and priority and should be well taken care of.  Some are selfish and think about their needs first.  No women should be smoking, drinking or on drugs. ...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    I had a friend in high school

    who dated this girl that felt it was okay for her to smoke for the first three months. According to her it wouldn't do any harm to the baby..... Luckily it didn't. On top of that this women was putting the baby up for adoption. In the end I'm glad she didn't raise him I don't...
    ProjextAA ProjextAA 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2014

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    It Is In A Opinion That Women Who Smoke

    Drink/Drugs While Pregnant, Are Some Of The Most Selfish Individuals On The Planet. It Is Also In My Opinion, That Any and All Women Who Indulge In Any Of The Above Forementioning.Should Be Charged With An Felony Class Child Abuse Charge and Forced To Pay An Absolutely Excessive...
    BIGGDADDY434 BIGGDADDY434 46-50, M Aug 22

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    It's just bad. Grow up ladies,

    babies before your addiction!
    CourtBing CourtBing 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2014

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    It Just Disgusts Me

    My mom smoked while she was pregnant with me. I had horrible allergies and asthma as a child due to it. I was also a very irritable baby as well. When I was pregnant with my second child a coworker was also pregnant. She smoked and it made me so angry. We both went into...
    cinfullysweet cinfullysweet 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    I Can't Help But Judge

    Whenever I see a pregnant woman smoking or drinking, I feel disgusted inside and I can't help but frown or shake my head in pity. I feel very critical towards the mother as well. I get smoking is an addiction but some have quit cold turkey like my sister in law has with both her...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety 26-30, F May 18, 2012

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    It Is So Disgusting!

    I can understand if you didn't know you were pregnant and were doing the stuff before you found out, but doing it after you know is wrong! The other day, someone said, "I smoked weed and cigs all the time when I was pregnant with _____." I had to bite my tongue. I'm not a...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2011

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    Child Abuse

    It's child abuse, it's just that simple.Inflicting chemicals upon a fetus that can't defend itself is so disrespectful. If you can't drop your habit for 9 months for the sake of your unborn child, you are incredibly selfish.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2011

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    Atrocity

    My uncle (almost 50) started dating a woman in her late 30's and was at least 4 months along, I'm not sure, and it wasn't his. I was visiting with my daughter one weekend and there's usually a lot of drinking going on in my family, well this woman was drinking. I was appalled...
    MissSunfire MissSunfire 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2010

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    I Can’t Stand It

    Pregnant women, They should know better, No smoking, Or heavy drinking, These are the rules, I can’t stand it, When pregnant women somke, Or drink - How do they think? The embryo inside feels, Or what it would say? If it could speak!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8 46-50, M Jul 27, 2011

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    It Should Be Illegal

    It should be illegal for a woman to smoke, drink, or do drugs during her pregnancy. She's damaging the child she's carrying & it should be viewed as a form of child abuse & punished accordingly.
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    From Experience!

    My mother did all kinds of drugs when she was pregnant with me. Luckily I wasn't born with it in my system. But I get addicted to things easier. Blah! It's sad some woman are so selfish that they can't stop doin harmful things for their unborn babies.
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Incredibly Selfish

    Now before I plunge neck deep into things - I want to make one thing PERFECTLY CLEAR. This group is not about pro life or stripping the reproductive rights of women. My argument is simply this: if you intend to bring new life into this world, you have an obligation I feel to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    My mother was 45 when she had me

    and smoked throughout the pregnancy. I was born crossed eyed, Flat Footed and I am what people would describe as "Slow." So of course i am highly against women who smoke while pregnant. They don't realize how Stupid they're being.
    TheMidNightCrow TheMidNightCrow 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't understand why people would want to

    harm their child with that stuff.
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 22-25, F Jul 30

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    TheSturgeonGeneral TheSturgeonGeneral 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Not Just The Women...

    This true for fathers, too! Bottom line: If you like to smoke, drink or "party" then don't have kids!! It's really as simple as that. But, I guess humans are too selfish to save anyone a lifetime of misery. More messed-up kids will be born and society will continue to get worse...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Aug 14, 2011

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    I wouldn't say "can't stand"

    but I do believe women have a duty to do all they can to keep themselves and their un-born child healthy. Smoking is absolutely unacceptable as is drinking any more than the occasional small glass of wine.
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Hailey

    My girlfriend smoked while she was pregnant. Her daughter came out with a droopy eyelid. She's had several gory surgeries but it is a plastic surgery that keeps growing out. Hailey's 9 now. Severe personality disorders. Amber (my gf) cut her smoking down to a pack a day instead...
    Bridgernin Bridgernin 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Get That Cigarette Out Of Your Hand!

    ...Or else you will be slapped silly! You have been forewarned.
    girlanonymous girlanonymous 18-21, F Mar 4, 2011

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    A Glass Of Wine Never Hurt Anyone.

    Drinking? Well, a glass of wine after lunch will hurt noone, it bothers me that some people are against everything with alcohol, with heads full of pictures of the drinker's liver from schoolbook. Yes, a bit, is no problem, it's healthy actually, even when preagnant i think it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 5, 2010

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    nope! tubes tied! and about to have an ablation, too! no mo lil Bambinos fer me! I can't get pregnant!
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    blah, blah, blah, blah, blah....u are wasting your breathe trying to make me side with you. I'm not listening to your opinion! I'm thinking about eating a fried shrimp po boy! oh...
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    WTF!! People are just brainless or total jerks!! They ask a question and then berate every reply they get like a little b*tch. Why did you even ask anything if you're gonna be an...
    LostsoulLoner LostsoulLoner 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've known this for quite a while. But I am the type of person that cares WAY too much and when I feel someone needs my help or advice, I usually try to do everything I can. It...
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    What about when you discover yourself in a place of resistance, unable to shift your choices -Even Knowing that the course you're determined to chart Is Not Fulfilling Your Basic...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    You try to be nice and help someone out then it comes back and kick and kick you in the ***. I helped this guy out at work let him stay he only payed me 200 a month. Last month he...
    UCLABruinsFan13 UCLABruinsFan13 41-45, M 5 days ago

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    That is why I am getting so sick of Facebook
    justmyself11 justmyself11 51-55, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    And I'd Love to meet A Female who FEELS the same.
    sissydreams sissydreams 61-65, T 6 days ago

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    The the thing with boyfriends' mothers. Oh my God they are so irritating. I'm tired of being lectured. I'm quiet and not a back talker and just nod and says yes or no, and say a...
    reginarose reginarose 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I was just a small 6th grade kid who had terrible self-esteem issues. It comes with the territory when your father used to terrify you, when he would beat you for the most trivial...
    S1NK1LL3R S1NK1LL3R 22-25, M a week ago

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    religions are misjudged all over the world. why can't people just respect all the religions? if you hear people talking bad things about some religion (as they claim islam being...
    marieseub marieseub 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    Like the title says, I can't stand cheap people. I also can't stand when people get free stuff all the time and are catered to for doing absolutely nothing. And these are the same...
    usualobject88 usualobject88 26-30, F Aug 22

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    Even though I have tried very hard, it is their childish behavior what dissappointes me a great deal. Its the bullying and spreading false rumors around the company what gets to me...
    BellaFairy BellaFairy 26-30, F Aug 22

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    Especially when they are all suppose to have love caring peace acceptance, as the center of them. Does that really make sense?
    imGreywlf imGreywlf 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    People always make me look like the bad guy. I guess i am. Stay away from me i ruin everything.
    DeadButterfly3 DeadButterfly3 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    But I still keep doing them ....doh.....
    firetrap93 firetrap93 41-45 2 Responses Aug 19

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    There are lots of wise quotes about respecting yourself, respecting other human beings and so on. I'd specifically like to talk about respect between women.There are different kind...
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