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I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

Everything you say, or do or see always seems to lead back to them... ~tear~ 1,151 People

    Needing Guidance......

    So here's the background: My divorce of a 17-year marriage was final on August 31. There was no love towards my ex for over 8 years in the marriage. I think we stayed together & tried to make it work because we have 2 children together. It was like trying to super glue water...
    Dayzflower Dayzflower 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    Neighbor Guy

    He's hot and so tempting. I haven't been able to stop thinking about him. Theres only one thing stopping me, his age, but age is not a factor for him. I am 45, he's 25. He's cute and knows it, and loves to flirt. It's a turn on I must admit. Haven't felt like this in awhile, when...
    tinkerbell2067 tinkerbell2067 41-45, F 6 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Neighbor Guy Part 2

    This goes out to all the women between the age of 40-50. Let me tell you, you never are to old for anything. Between sunday and monday had learned from friend, he wants you and wants you bad. I'm still thinking ok this is a big joke, and I'm the butt if it. I mean seriously come...
    tinkerbell2067 tinkerbell2067 41-45, F 2 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Always

    When I wake up he is my first thought. Throughout the day he is on my mind. I find myself wondering if he would like certain things I see or the music I hear. I wonder if he is happy ,  relaxing or busy that day. I can't help but wonder if he is with people who are being good to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 13, 2012

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    vanessaz vanessaz 16-17, F Jun 10

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    November 3, 2007

      He was the best thing that happened to me in a long time. He always brought a smile to my face. It was only natural that we went out.             It was a Saturday morning and I was on my way to his soccer game with...
    sg11307 sg11307 16-17 1 Response Nov 5, 2008

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    I try to imagine how him taking me into his

    arms would feel. Could I find myself safe with my head on his chest and his arms tangled around my body with his hands resting gently on my lower back. Would I need to breathe him in, I believe his scent is going to be intoxicating to me. I wonder if I would hold my breath so he...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I Like My Best Friend

    So I've had feelings for one of my closest guy friends for a while and its killing me cause we're always together and he shows signs that he might like me but I wouldn't know. I don't know if I should tell him I have feelings for him cause it could ruin the friendship. i give so...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    Dated a guy for 4 years starting shortly

    after I graduated. He asked me to marry him but we broke up. He married the very next woman he dated. It has been 30 years since we broke up and I have never stopped thinking about him. Many times over the years friends and relatives would tell me that they had seen him and...
    26years 26years 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    I Feel A Connection With Someone...

    Who is my teacher/lecturer. I am an adult student of 28. From the very first time I saw him I felt something, fear, initially as he is so good looking. He just STARED at me the first time we met in that room like he couldn't take his eyes off me now I don;t look strange I haven't...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    So...

    today was supposed to be the day where I ignore you, try to avoid you. I tried not to look for you, like I usually do. I found myself doing it a few times but stopped when I realized what I was doing. It was going well until the end of the day when someone told me you stared at...
    katielucylagacy katielucylagacy 22-25 1 Response Mar 29, 2011

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    I am laying here in bed watching movies

    and all I can think about is him he's my everything if I lost this man I wouldn't know what I would do he's picked me up from being heartbroken from something he's tried to warn me about and tried to save me from an I keep racking my brain why he does this and I asked him...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    We Didn't Exchange Numbers :(

    This past weekend I met this guy on Thursday night at a Halloween party. I remember talking to him before the party just about school in his car. He had given me a ride from my friend's boyfriends house. He already graduated from the uni and he was so nice. He was okay looking...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2011

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    I Think I Love Him

    I seriously can't get you off my mind. Everything that i say or do, you come up in my thoughts. You're always on my mind. I love it but it makes me hurt too. Because i'm not with you. It's probably stupid to feel this way. I mean you'd probably think obsessive. But it's...
    lexiilove420 lexiilove420 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    Sometimes in our life we’ll feel broken

    inside as if it will never end. But as days pass we’ll meet some people who will make us feel worthy of having a second chance in life and in love. He made me feel like that…I’ve always been the kind of girlfriend who’s being fooled. People whom I...
    LAithought LAithought 22-25, F Jul 16

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    September 22

    I never once thought that my whole life would change that warm autumn day. September 22. The first day of the rest of my life.I got home like I would do any other day. But then I got two texts, one from someone I met over the summer and had a huge crush on...for, like, three days...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2012

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    It's crazy to think how one person can turn

    your life around so much. Just his smile, his laugh, his everything is perfect. I'm so lucky that I found him. Everything he does and says is perfection. I am genuinely happy when I'm with him, and just thinking about him makes me feel wonderful.
    Imjustdone Imjustdone 16-17, M Apr 30

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    Do the Feeling Ever Go Away?

    I have been married for about 7 years.  For the last 2 or 3 years I slowly was falling out of love with my husband.  We fought all the time, he was very verbally abusive and physical too.  He never helped around the house.  He went for months without...
    brandi927 brandi927 26-30, F 3 Responses May 18, 2009

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    I always thought I would be alone.

    .. I thought I was part of the undesirables. I would put my own self down so I could start to believe and see what other saw. I'm quiet and even though I was always in the front of the class I was never noticed by anyone... not even the teacher. I was depressed, alone, and afraid...
    RosaEclair213 RosaEclair213 18-21, F 1 Response May 27

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    What scares me is I don't know how he feels

    about this at all. About me and him. I'm trying not to rush anything. Trying to take it slow. But it hurts me when he doesn't seem interested enough to talk to me. To text me how my day is going. I get that he's busy with work, and he's not in town. But all I want is reassurance...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    When ever says think of your baby,

    or him or the one or his eyes, hair or anything not even specifically his name just for everyone to think about who they love I think about him..but he's not the one I love but he always just seems to pop up into my mind..why? This is so stressful, anyways to forget about him?
    biebbrauhll biebbrauhll 13-15, F Jan 27

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    Ricky

    The man of my dreams it's crazy cuz last night he stood me up but atleast I told him how I felt for all those years I'm kinda. Very happy cause I told him every day I wake up I think about him it's puts a smile on my face he is the most beautiful guy in the world but he's not for...
    adamlevinemine9 adamlevinemine9 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2013

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    I recently was a bridesmaid in my cousin's

    wedding. There was a guy there, and I can't get him out of my mind. We had a small conversation, and kept stealing glances at each other. What makes this bad, I'm married. I've never been unfaithful to my husband, I've never even thought about another guy. Untill now. But I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 27

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    I have a boy friend now

    so don't ask me for nude pics or anything like that ok people! When I'm in a relationship I don't cheat!!!!
    Austinwoods Austinwoods 13-15, M Dec 28, 2013

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    Can't stop thinking about him

    and how much he has hurt me. I wasn't in love with him until recently. We had a fling during Summer then he had to move to a different state then he came back and we hooked up again but then we had a huge fight few days before his flight over seas. Didn't even say bye. Should I...
    Vickyovox Vickyovox 18-21, F Jul 25

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    He's Stuck On My Mind.

    I feel like it was fate that the girl he originally asked to prom turned him down. If she said yes, I would've gone with my gay friend and had a wonderful night, but not the night I had with John. I wouldn't have danced with him, I wouldn't have had that opportunity to kiss him...
    Yoru Yoru 18-21 2 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    About two weeks ago, my boyfriend of 8 months

    broke up with me ovelyr text. 8 months doesn't seem like a long time, but it was the longest relationship I've ever had. I trusted him more than I probably should have and really opened up to him about my life. Things I've never told my best friend of 10 years, I let him in on...
    ksel90 ksel90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    So I've been dating my close guy friend

    for about a little over 2 months and its good and all but i feel like all I do is complain about him. I have so much love for him but he always has this " I don't care" mentality about everything and especially me it hurts. It hurst to feel so strongly about someone and you have...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Yeah..I had a dream that my crush/enemy from

    5th Grade died and now I can't stop thinking about him? Any Advice? Help Me?
    EnderKitty19 EnderKitty19 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    i like two guys, one has a girlfriend

    and the other is a idiot but i can't stop thinking bout them......
    deedeebear deedeebear 18-21, F Apr 19

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    Even though I keep pushing him away.

    My gut instinct says that he's not right for me, yet I think about him a lot. Maybe I'm just scared? Who knows... Maybe it's that I like him but I know I want to be single right now for my own reasons. We never communicate about what's up (weird I know.)
    Rose30x Rose30x 26-30, F Mar 10

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    It's so hard to know

    that someone you love just turns their back without even caring, leaving you lel you ment nothing
    crazyminds crazyminds 18-21, M Apr 19

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    I've been sleeping with a guy friend.

    Can't stop thinking about him. He's not extremely attractive or fit, I don't get it. He said he'd go out with me, that he cares for me. But I'm leaving in Sept. I know being around him and sleeping with him again and again is only going to make it harder for me once I'm gone...
    failure94 failure94 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    It's been such a long time.

    .. Don't crushes fade after a short period of time??? I'm so confused, could it be love?
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 26-30, F 1 Response May 2

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    Always On My Mind..

    I am in a relationship of a few months and i must say i am quite happy with my bf .Everything was going on smooothly, sudeenly one day i noticed a cute boy near my house,he was waiting at the bus-stop, i glanced at him but he did'nt saw me.He was like cute not very handsome and...
    sweetheartchulbuli sweetheartchulbuli 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4, 2012

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    What Do I Do

    So what I'm supposed to do when I can't stop thinking about him I have tried so hard to get him out of my head and to let this go but I can't I just don't know
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    :)ooh This Boy..

    Ever since I met him...well not ever but probably three or four days after, I can't get him off my mind! He is absolutely amazing! We've known each other for about a month and it has seemed to be one of the worse months for me in a while! Not anything to do with him but just me...
    beautifulbaby069 beautifulbaby069 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    Why Is He All I Think About

    I cant stop thinking about him simple as that
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F Sep 28, 2013

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    He's an old one of my brothers friends

    and he's 1 year older than me. We just got reunited yesterday. He is really cute and I can't stop thinking about him! Why do I do?
    gabs23 gabs23 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Stop clouding my thoughts

    or take me with you forever.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F Jul 28

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    I'M Crazy In Love

    Please don't judge. These are mine and his true feeling. When I was little I was adopted, so I'm not related to any if my family through blood. When I was about 15, my cousin, who is 2 years older than me, told me he liked me and had a thing for me. We would always kiss and...
    Locachica93 Locachica93 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    We have been together

    for 2 years now and because of my trust issues i grabbed his phone what might have been innocent flirting i turned into a big deal, we were both intoxicated and said things we probably didn't mean, he decided to end things and now i can't stop thinking about him. Ive never...
    steph102112 steph102112 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Connected, Or Addicted?

    I'm usually a rational person, except when it comes to this. Over a year ago, I accepted that there is absolutely no future with this guy -- our lives are headed in different directions. I never even got to know him that well, we were acquaintances, who got along and [I think...
    everperplexed everperplexed 22-25 5 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Me

    Okay, im a female & im admitting I am always horny! I must have been a male in a past life, bcuz sex is always on my mind... Why can't women think about or fantasize about sex....lol...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I can't stop thinking about him.

    . Sexually, lovingly, lustfully, his face his body .. I don't even know his name and the worst of it is I don't know if he feels the same :( I love him < 3
    JustinBieber19 JustinBieber19 18-21 1 Response Mar 10

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    All I think about is you

    and it makes me sick to my stomach
    Liverbug2 Liverbug2 16-17, F Aug 14

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    Threads

    It is a strange thing to be obsessed about someone who isn't even in your life. Oh well, he is still on my FB. I almost de-friended him once but nope, couldn't. I stalk him instead (only by checking his page, not hunting him around town). See, I know we couldn't work together...
    fairine fairine 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    After relationship nonsense

    after relationship nonsense, I began to realize I don't need that crap while I'm still trying to figure out who I am. For days and days on end I would sit and try and figure out who I am and what I want. As I grew up, everything had changed. I used to have ideas of where I'd be...
    imryll imryll 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    God Is My Way Maker

    Hi Folks, I used to be a soldier in the British Army Air Corps and was based to Germany in 1997.  I had such a variety of interesting experiences from skiing in Bravaria to rolling a 15ton truck on a night move whilst American tanks were going the opposite direction...
    mostblessed mostblessed 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    Part 1: The Beginning

    I won't give out any names just for our own privacy. Lets call my ex, Jake and me, Veronica. We will start the day i met Jake. It was around the first week of school and in first hour (Exploratory Language) was a guy named Jake, he was kind of an odd ball, but he had a really...
    NyteVamp NyteVamp 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Seriously I can't and I see im him everywhere I

    know he doesn't want to talk to me anymore or even acknowledge the fact that I'm here which I don't understand but my heart is still attached to him and I need help to cut it off.
    Liverbug2 Liverbug2 16-17, F Aug 7

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    xoOceanxo xoOceanxo 13-15, F Jan 17

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