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I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

Everything you say, or do or see always seems to lead back to them... ~tear~ 1,340 People

    What scares me is I don't know how he feels

    about this at all. About me and him. I'm trying not to rush anything. Trying to take it slow. But it hurts me when he doesn't seem interested enough to talk to me. To text me how my day is going. I get that he's busy with work, and he's not in town. But all I want is reassurance...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F Aug 26, 2014

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    A new survey has revealed

    that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The study, conducted by online younger women older men dating site www.agemeet.com , collected data from 53,233 users with the...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F Nov 27, 2014

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    :)ooh This Boy..

    Ever since I met him...well not ever but probably three or four days after, I can't get him off my mind! He is absolutely amazing! We've known each other for about a month and it has seemed to be one of the worse months for me in a while! Not anything to do with him but just me...
    beautifulbaby069 beautifulbaby069 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    So...

    today was supposed to be the day where I ignore you, try to avoid you. I tried not to look for you, like I usually do. I found myself doing it a few times but stopped when I realized what I was doing. It was going well until the end of the day when someone told me you stared at...
    katielucylagacy katielucylagacy 22-25 1 Response Mar 29, 2011

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    Do the Feeling Ever Go Away?

    I have been married for about 7 years.  For the last 2 or 3 years I slowly was falling out of love with my husband.  We fought all the time, he was very verbally abusive and physical too.  He never helped around the house.  He went for months without...
    brandi927 brandi927 26-30, F 3 Responses May 18, 2009

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    I don't know why but I can't stop thinking

    about him. I'm drawn to him in someway, yeah he's attractive but that's not it. There's just something else about him, some air of mystery that keeps him in my mind..
    maktub1 maktub1 26-30, F Oct 9, 2014

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    Every minute of every day.

    He is so close to me, but feels so far away.
    vanisheDsaRah vanisheDsaRah 22-25 Nov 1, 2014

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    But he's a liar. He lied over

    and over And yet, I miss him. I miss his touch. His laugh. His smile. His cologne. Everything. And I hate myself because of it.
    frigginjelly frigginjelly 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    Every single song I listen to,

    I think about him-namely "My Everything" by Ariana Grande. Sad thing is, I doubt he ever thinks of me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 8

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    Yeah..I had a dream that my crush/enemy from

    5th Grade died and now I can't stop thinking about him? Any Advice? Help Me?
    EnderKitty19 EnderKitty19 26-30, F Aug 26, 2014

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    Dated a guy for 4 years starting shortly

    after I graduated. He asked me to marry him but we broke up. He married the very next woman he dated. It has been 30 years since we broke up and I have never stopped thinking about him. Many times over the years friends and relatives would tell me that they had seen him and...
    26years 26years 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    I Still Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I try so hard not to. Sometimes I think about a different guy instead but always end up thinking of him. I never wanted to have these feelings for him anyways. Maybe if he wasn't... Charming Sweet A gentlemen Goofy Fun to be around Caring And if he didn't... Dress so cute...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I Think I Love Him

    I seriously can't get you off my mind. Everything that i say or do, you come up in my thoughts. You're always on my mind. I love it but it makes me hurt too. Because i'm not with you. It's probably stupid to feel this way. I mean you'd probably think obsessive. But it's...
    lexiilove420 lexiilove420 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    God Is My Way Maker

    Hi Folks, I used to be a soldier in the British Army Air Corps and was based to Germany in 1997.  I had such a variety of interesting experiences from skiing in Bravaria to rolling a 15ton truck on a night move whilst American tanks were going the opposite direction...
    mostblessed mostblessed 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    I met this guy and he is super cute

    and he rarely comes over and I got to know him very well and he won't exit my mind what do I do :'(
    Forgottenchild02 Forgottenchild02 13-15 Nov 27, 2014

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    I was so in love with this guy

    for 6 years and he didn't love me back at all. He was the first and last guy I ever fell in love with and it was love at first sight. At one point I found myself so anxious to be with him I was even contemplating to end my life because what is life without the one your truly...
    Purpletears17 Purpletears17 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together

    for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other several chances and we both need to fix ourselves and as long as we do that we'll stay together. The one thing my boyfriend has asked me...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F Jan 8

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    I Like My Best Friend

    So I've had feelings for one of my closest guy friends for a while and its killing me cause we're always together and he shows signs that he might like me but I wouldn't know. I don't know if I should tell him I have feelings for him cause it could ruin the friendship. i give so...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    it's only been a week,

    and I tell myself not to think of him but I do. I know it's bad for me but I do. 2 years and gone. I can't stop thinking about him.
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall 16-17, F Nov 28, 2014

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    Marry meet everyone, Its been a long time

    since i posted anything on here. Well let me begin. I am still with my boyfriend, and we are about to make it our first year together in 2 months. I do tell him that I love him. Which i itself isn't a complete lie, but i am not in love with him. Its a sad truth that kills me a...
    sabedoria sabedoria 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    :( I can't. Noo. NUUUUUUUUUUU.

    What should i do.. :'(
    Orsas Orsas 13-15, F Nov 28, 2014

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    Idk what to do he stopped talking to me

    and now I miss him so much I wish we can be close again
    yalzaga yalzaga 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    He lives 8500 miles away,

    with a 15 hour difference between us... He can't come over for Christmas, so the only time we'll see each other again is next summer...
    xdrk xdrk 16-17, F Nov 2, 2014

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    Me

    Okay, im a female & im admitting I am always horny! I must have been a male in a past life, bcuz sex is always on my mind... Why can't women think about or fantasize about sex....lol...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    sarahcc11 sarahcc11 26-30, F Jan 26

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    All i wanna do is find the nearest building

    and jump from it. I feel so lonely guys.
    iwannabehappyman iwannabehappyman 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    Part 1: The Beginning

    I won't give out any names just for our own privacy. Lets call my ex, Jake and me, Veronica. We will start the day i met Jake. It was around the first week of school and in first hour (Exploratory Language) was a guy named Jake, he was kind of an odd ball, but he had a really...
    NyteVamp NyteVamp 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Needing Guidance......

    So here's the background: My divorce of a 17-year marriage was final on August 31. There was no love towards my ex for over 8 years in the marriage. I think we stayed together & tried to make it work because we have 2 children together. It was like trying to super glue water...
    Dayzflower Dayzflower 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    I just don't understand why?

    ? What did I do soo wrong?? Wish God would send me an angel to Heal my broken hard from being alone. Before it's too late
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I try to imagine how him taking me into his

    arms would feel. Could I find myself safe with my head on his chest and his arms tangled around my body with his hands resting gently on my lower back. Would I need to breathe him in, I believe his scent is going to be intoxicating to me. I wonder if I would hold my breath so he...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I broke up last night.

    We've been together for a year and he's my best friend. I have no idea what to do without him
    kmd92 kmd92 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    The man who assaulted me is getting out of

    prison next month. The paranoia, worry, anxiousness, and dread will be returning to my life again. I hate that I think about him, invading my happy thoughts, putting a black cloud over every move I make. I am working on not letting this change me....again. :(
    EYESONLYFORU EYESONLYFORU 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    Seriously I can't and I see im him everywhere I

    know he doesn't want to talk to me anymore or even acknowledge the fact that I'm here which I don't understand but my heart is still attached to him and I need help to cut it off.
    Liverbug2 Liverbug2 16-17, F Aug 7, 2014

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    Sometimes in our life we’ll feel broken

    inside as if it will never end. But as days pass we’ll meet some people who will make us feel worthy of having a second chance in life and in love. He made me feel like that…I’ve always been the kind of girlfriend who’s being fooled. People whom I...
    LAithought LAithought 22-25, F Jul 16, 2014

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    I feel like an obsessive compulsive stalker of

    the mind...I think about him way too much and being that I have known him like seven years but don't really know him makes it mostly imaginary scenarios so I know I have made him into this better than god character which is why I love to think of him bc he is perfect in my mind...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Ricky

    The man of my dreams it's crazy cuz last night he stood me up but atleast I told him how I felt for all those years I'm kinda. Very happy cause I told him every day I wake up I think about him it's puts a smile on my face he is the most beautiful guy in the world but he's not for...
    adamlevinemine9 adamlevinemine9 18-21, F Jul 6, 2013

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    We Didn't Exchange Numbers :(

    This past weekend I met this guy on Thursday night at a Halloween party. I remember talking to him before the party just about school in his car. He had given me a ride from my friend's boyfriends house. He already graduated from the uni and he was so nice. He was okay looking...
    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2011

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    About two weeks ago, my boyfriend of 8 months

    broke up with me ovelyr text. 8 months doesn't seem like a long time, but it was the longest relationship I've ever had. I trusted him more than I probably should have and really opened up to him about my life. Things I've never told my best friend of 10 years, I let him in on...
    ksel90 ksel90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2014

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    All I think about is you

    and it makes me sick to my stomach
    Liverbug2 Liverbug2 16-17, F Aug 14, 2014

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    I hate seeing who he adds.

    Most of them seem to give themselves freely, showing their breasts or bare *** in their profile picture. Not to mention all the "slutty stories"... Between you and me...it makes me feel bad and ugly. It makes me feel useless and second or third even fourth best.
    VolcanicMermaid VolcanicMermaid 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have a boy friend now

    so don't ask me for nude pics or anything like that ok people! When I'm in a relationship I don't cheat!!!!
    Austinwoods Austinwoods 13-15, M Dec 28, 2013

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    What Do I Do

    So what I'm supposed to do when I can't stop thinking about him I have tried so hard to get him out of my head and to let this go but I can't I just don't know
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    I miss my honey so much!

    ! I'm so happy I'll be able to see him in 14 days!! Yes, finally!! I'm excited and nervous all at time!! God I can't stop thinking about him.
    Princesjazmine90 Princesjazmine90 22-25, F Nov 1, 2014

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    Stop clouding my thoughts

    or take me with you forever.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F Jul 28, 2014

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    I've been sleeping with a guy friend.

    Can't stop thinking about him. He's not extremely attractive or fit, I don't get it. He said he'd go out with me, that he cares for me. But I'm leaving in Sept. I know being around him and sleeping with him again and again is only going to make it harder for me once I'm gone...
    failure94 failure94 18-21, F Jul 30, 2014

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    Well there's this guy,

    he's really sweet, and i feel like a princess whenever he talks to me, and hes always having me feel some type of way (in a good way), and I love this feeling he gives me and I want more and more of it. I admit I was very afraid of dating him at first, because in the past I've...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F Feb 13

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    I've been able to be happy in other

    relationships, I've even been able to love, but something has me tied so tight I can't escape the thoughts of him. I think it's knowing it was completely my fault that made things fall apart. I wasn't making myself happy, and it got to the point the poison seeped out of me and...
    DarkSideOfTheWall DarkSideOfTheWall 22-25, F Jan 27

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