I Can't Talk to Girls

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 85 People

    I have done things. I have taken actual

    physical steps that have rid me of the major bit of what used to be a severe mark of general anxiety disorder on my life. Funny how it was a physical thing. For so long I thought to spend the rest of my life in therapy somehow building new neuro-pathways that would allow me to...
    Purebloodstud Purebloodstud
    26-30, M
    Mar 6, 2016

    I can't maintain a conversation with any girl

    it gets past the initial hi how are you? chatter chatter....how do you progress? Change subjects flirtatiously?
    deleted deleted
    Sep 19, 2015

    Well I can but it's really hard to keep her

    interest. I mean usually when it's some friend girl, I can talk easy with them but I am the not serious guy so we rarely have serious talk but once I try to flirt with a girl I gotta make her interest in me and that's where I get block :/
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014

    We'll I I think I like.

    A girl as I kept n going tOThe guys whenever I needed something whilst I was in hospital I felt comfortable with them. She reall. Felt leftout.
    dabs31 dabs31
    Sep 4, 2015

    I Cant Talk to Girls

    I dont know what it is. its just when i see a girl that i think is cool and whatever that i think that if i get rejected that the world will end or something. or when i am talking to a girl i have no clue what to talk about and it gets quite and awkward then it kinda hits a dead...
    anonymous3394 anonymous3394
    1 Response Aug 27, 2009

    Any teengirl will obey me

    or be my slave
    lesbianmisstress lesbianmisstress
    31-35, F
    Dec 1, 2014

    Every once in a while I'll see a girl

    who I have even a remote interest in asking out, but then I think to myself, "Get real, dude. She's way too pretty to be single."
    animatedman animatedman
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 15, 2014

    So there's this girl

    that I like but I don't know how she feels about me some times she flirts but othertimes she's all over one of my friends I don't know if she's playing hard to get or not. What should I do?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 11, 2014

    There is a really cute girl down the hall in my

    dorm but I am kind of awful at getting the attention of woman. I have her number because my roommate and I were gonna go see a movie with her and her friends and they ended up bailing so she left us a note under our door with an apology and her number. I just don't have a...
    Pyrodis Pyrodis
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    I Don't Know Why!

    I am a girl, you would think I could talk to them. Not at all! My friends, yes. But when I'm meeting new people I find it so much more comfortable/less awkward talking to guys. Girls make me nervous. I guess I am more scared they are judging me.
    IPaintMyCheeks IPaintMyCheeks
    1 Response Feb 21, 2009

    Mr. Shy

    i dont know y but i just have this problem with girls. like lots of them. "y wud a girl wanna talk to me anyway?" ive been going to the same scool since 5 th grade and i was SOOOOOOOO weird and made the worst mistakes in history and i was just so immature and...
    donealotofmistakes donealotofmistakes
    13-15, M
    5 Responses Mar 7, 2009

    I Don't Understand Girls - And I Am One.

    She was sitting there, so close to me. Our elbows bumped occasionally when I would reach for my bag, or when she rearranged her papers. We sat like this, every single day in Physics 200, laughing together at our teacher’s bad jokes and sighing at the same time when he assigned...
    clovershot clovershot
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2012

    Well i can but I can't.

    Message me pick up lines (funny ones are the best ones)
    QwartLane QwartLane
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 3, 2014


    I have a girlfriend and I try to talk to talk to her and I just can't say it.  Now Im afraid she's going to brake up with me.
    imnotjustin imnotjustin
    13-15, M
    Dec 19, 2008

    Lost My, Well, Almost Gf

    theres this girl, i knew her since i was like 5   she went to my church. we were always good friends.   well, in the summer before sixth grade, our church went to camp. there, she told me she liked me, and i knew i liked her alot. the problem is, is that i couldnt...
    confusedinlife confusedinlife
    13-15, M
    Aug 15, 2009

    There is a really cute girl down the hall in my

    dorm but I am kind of awful at getting the attention of woman. I have her number because my roommate and I were gonna go see a movie with her and her friends and they ended up bailing so she left us a note under our door with an apology and her number. I just don't have a...
    Pyrodis Pyrodis
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    Any girls, I just cannot talk to anyone of them.

    I like this girl so much, but I just too shy to talk to her. I know she like me too, all her friends know that and always try to hook us up, and I just can't do it. I'm too shy to strangers. But once they get to know me, they'll know I talk way too much and kind of have a weird...
    WeiZhao WeiZhao
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    How do you even start

    or maintain a conversation
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 18, 2015

    Cant Talk to Girls

    I don't know y but I cant talk to girls. whenever I see a girl or want to talk to her I feel very uncomfortable. Its not that I am not normal or something. I like girls like any other normal guy, but the moment  a girl comes near me I just cant speak.
    reachi reachi
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2008

    In Person

    i have a very hard time talking to girls in person.. like one on one yeah its okay but in a group i just go quiet and just stand there like a loser. if you put me behind a computer or phone i would talk the legs of a donkey but in person i just cant do it... i have no convinced...
    Youngteen7 Youngteen7
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 24, 2013


    Ok, where do I begin?? I really like this girl a lot. She's really pretty and very skinny. A lot of people wouldn't think of me to be into that type of girl. Well anyways, for some reason I can't talk to her, I don't know why I just can't. Only way I talked to her was on...
    JBecerra JBecerra
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2011

    I Don't Understand It...

    Not to long ago, I was in Zax to get some food for the guys at work. It was packed in there. After I ordered my food there is this group of girls walked in, They were fairly good looking too and I cannot look away. But there is this one girl that stood out of the group. This...
    proximacentauri proximacentauri
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2010

    Yup, Too Shy

    I have always been shy, especially talking to girls     why just today, i was reading the bible at the park. I was behind a generator on the far side of the park, hoping no one would see me   2 girls came, of course, walking a dog   now they walked...
    confusedinlife confusedinlife
    13-15, M
    Aug 14, 2009

    Yeah, I'm Shy.

    For some reason when ever I find a girl I'm attracted to, I can't talk to her. I see a girl flutering her eyes at me, but I can't work up the courage to go over and talk to her. But, I'm not a complete lost cause. Whenever a girl traps me in a situation and I'm forced to talk to...
    Charter Charter
    18-21, M
    7 Responses Aug 6, 2007

    I Dont Know What It Is About Me

    I dont know why but I still have a hard time talking to girls, like seriously I dont understand. I had girlfriends before yet I still be shy around them.
    YungTaku YungTaku
    22-25, M
    8 Responses Jun 20, 2012
    shinyplasticlove shinyplasticlove
    46-50, M
    Mar 6, 2016
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