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I Can't Tell When a Woman Is Flirting

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    Darcy

    Well, it's kind of ironic because I just joined this group earlier today, and then I had this exact problem a few minutes ago. So there was this girl named Darcy that I met, and it seemed that she was OBVIOUSLY flirting. She wasn't just being all vague and subtle. She talked...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    I Need My Glasses

    I'm not very good at reading signs.  I really can't interpret when a woman is flirting with me as opposed to just being nice.  They seem to be pretty much the same thing.  Overt flirting is another thing.  I can see that but that is really more like hitting on...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 29 Responses Jun 8, 2007

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    Not That One Would

    but I wouldn't have the first clue if a woman was flirting with me
    loneranger loneranger 31-35, M Aug 26, 2008

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    Nani?!

    Sigh, why are women are difficult to understand?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    I don't have the slightest clue.

    Be it in messages or an actual real encounter I am going to miss every action she does. For me, it'd be so much easier if she just held up a sign saying "I like you" or whatever message she's trying to send. Sure it's not subtle or coy but if she's trying that route I'm going...
    shoreguyct shoreguyct 41-45, M Feb 16

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    Its Easy

    All Women Flirt. Those Little smiles. A Hand on your arm left slightly too long Leaning just too close to you when they do not need to and so on and so on :-) All day every day Just Love Women
    rgreener rgreener 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    I Think A Girl Was Flirting With Me But I Can't Tell

    today i was in town buing some art supplies, and i whent to till to pay for some charcol and paints, there was only a young-ish girl there, she smiled and said can i help you. so i whent up and gave her the supplies, while she was scanning the things she started talking to me, i...
    Soren66 Soren66 18-21, T 2 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Wait...was She Just....?

    I may as well be called Captain Oblivious when it comes to being flirted with. I tend to assume that she's just being friendly or is a naturally flirty person and has no real interest in me. It's only later that I begin to wonder if there was anything more to it. There...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 36-40, M 7 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    How To Tell A Woman Is Flirting

    1. she keeps LOOKING at you like she wants to lick your face 2. she keeps eye contact 3. she asks you questions to figure out if you like the cute things she does 4. she offers you a treat 5. she tells you a somewhat corny joke or pickup line (hook, line) 6. she touches you...
    SJLuxon SJLuxon 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    Flirt

    I am very book smart, in fact genius level in math. I am very dumb when it comes to women and subtle hints.Unless a woman makes it very overt I do not seem to be able to catch on.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    I Thikn She's Flirting.. But She Has a B/f??

    Okay I go to college with this girl who's in my class and she is soooooo cute and smart and seems very sweet. Well theo ther day, the professor pauired us up into groups!!!!!!!!! which I thought was amazing. anyways, we had to answer 6 questions and she started talking about some...
    Southpaw85 Southpaw85 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 2, 2008

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    The First Time I Could Tell

    Hey everyone! This is my story about the first time I could tell when someone was flirting with me. There is this girl in my class I was pretty sure was into me, she always laughed at my jokes, she made active efforts to approach me and talk to me. This made me think she was a...
    JonathanBean20 JonathanBean20 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2012

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    I hate it when in the day I can't remember anything!! But at night everything is rushing through my head :(
    punkpanda3 punkpanda3 13-15, F Mar 24

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    I think of many things every night, especially when I try to go to sleep and I just can't.
    Littlemonster77777 Littlemonster77777 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I suffer from insomnia because when I get stressed or have too much going on, I can't relax. Really sucks sometimes!
    bluebutterfly13 bluebutterfly13 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Wide awake mind won't switch off
    sand28 sand28 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    That experience when you look at your clock and say to yourself ok it's only two if I go to sleep right now I will still get five hours....ok so now it's four I can still work with...
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    "Too much" being my bf. and how I haven't seen him in like almost 2 weeks. How I miss him, his hugs and kisses, his sexy voice, his cute smile, or amazingly beautiful eyes. Just...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Well it's not weird, a lot of people feels the same, and well I could be worry or just bored/thinking about some things of life that could be interesting but well I hope that this...
    Melotellixx Melotellixx 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Friend is staying over and he snores, it's torture but I won't say anything haha
    Skateen18 Skateen18 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Just no! When I'm in the car and the person in front starts throwing **** out the window I just feel like getting out the car and shoving it in their face!
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I couldn't sleep at all last night so I thought I'd pull an all nighter and sleep through the next night. I accomplished so much that day and went to bed looking forward to maybe...
    Echoesofsilence93 Echoesofsilence93 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Hate it when my dad snores like a bear ugh!!!
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    It 2:25 am and still i feel like something is stoping or disturbing my to have a sound sleep.
    shadow010 shadow010 26-30, M Mar 26

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    7:14 in the morning and still no sleep. Sick of this.
    Echoesofsilence93 Echoesofsilence93 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I need to sleep! My brain is just not letting me.
    itzayana itzayana 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm trying to go to sleep but so many thoughts and memories are running through my head right now. I just want to fall asleep!
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Take tonight for example :/
    jordinv jordinv 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    Another sleepless night, this is just great.
    itzayana itzayana 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    2.25am and I'm wide awake, so much going round and round in my head. Thoughts, feelings, emotions so many things to think and worry about.
    Lulu77xx Lulu77xx 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Please watch me on YouTube I'm really cute and like to make people smile :) http://youtu.be/n3bJbzLks8U
    cutieserafina cutieserafina 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I over think things all the time
    SamanthaH234 SamanthaH234 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I can't stand when my parents fight because then I'm stuck upstairs in my room all day long I really wish they would just make up!!!:(
    thequietone1000 thequietone1000 13-15, F 54 mins ago

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    When I want to express my loneliness, my rage, my sorrow, my emotions, I just isolate myself. Something inside me is saying that I can't tell anyone about these wretched emotions...
    AlyssaTM AlyssaTM 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I have been with him for over three years, and his near-constant nitpicking has just kept escalating. Now, I know I'm not perfect. I'm still hanging on to the baby fat after more...
    Lovelornmother Lovelornmother 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Staring out the window this morning watching two squirrels chase each other around it occurs to me that I can't tell if this is a game or a battle to the death. Screw it I am going...
    JackisMe JackisMe 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I have a problem. Noone is listening what I'm saying, noone respects me. I have no friends, I'm lonely just because I'm honest and I can't stand when somebody tricks me. Anyway...
    anonimus124 anonimus124 41-45, F Apr 8

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    I'm 186 lbs and my goal is to get back to the 140 lbs I was 4 years ago. Since then, I've met a great guy who cooks amazing food, and eventually I started taking second helpings...
    aspenhaze aspenhaze 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I am a very open person, and you usually have to literally be trying to get on my bad side in order to do it... My Mother-in-Law manages it spectacularly. I have never met such a...
    gladmadhatter gladmadhatter 22-25, M 46 mins ago

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    I first this girl (Tori) on the bus I always thought she was beautiful but I never had the guts to go and talk to her. I guess this was partly because she was surrounded by her...
    larybobjinkin larybobjinkin 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    He is everything to me... But I can't have him cause he is taken. It is the worst feeling ever especially when he is flirting back with you.
    Bellllaaaxox Bellllaaaxox 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Soooo there's this girl that's really nice sweet an attractive, but age is too far an idk really what to do :(. Any help would be amazing I do like her but can't be with her đź’”
    CustomsPatChr CustomsPatChr 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    Soo the homewreckers are blocking me.. Cause I'm authentic n they hate... their forums are full of homewreckers n not at from a woman in a committed relationship.. Even tho that's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    If your a woman who can't cook, just find a man who can! ;-)
    jpkparker jpkparker 51-55, M Mar 20

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2