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I Can't Tell When a Woman Is Flirting

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 153 People

    I Need My Glasses

    I'm not very good at reading signs.  I really can't interpret when a woman is flirting with me as opposed to just being nice.  They seem to be pretty much the same thing.  Overt flirting is another thing.  I can see that but that is really more like hitting on...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 27 Responses Jun 8, 2007

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    Not That One Would

    but I wouldn't have the first clue if a woman was flirting with me
    loneranger loneranger 31-35, M Aug 26, 2008

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    I Think A Girl Was Flirting With Me But I Can't Tell

    today i was in town buing some art supplies, and i whent to till to pay for some charcol and paints, there was only a young-ish girl there, she smiled and said can i help you. so i whent up and gave her the supplies, while she was scanning the things she started talking to me, i...
    Soren66 Soren66 18-21, T 2 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Its Easy

    All Women Flirt. Those Little smiles. A Hand on your arm left slightly too long Leaning just too close to you when they do not need to and so on and so on :-) All day every day Just Love Women
    rgreener rgreener 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    i'm not ease with girls i always wanna date

    girls and women, but they always say no laurent
    steack2 steack2 41-45, M Apr 23, 2014

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    How To Tell A Woman Is Flirting

    1. she keeps LOOKING at you like she wants to lick your face 2. she keeps eye contact 3. she asks you questions to figure out if you like the cute things she does 4. she offers you a treat 5. she tells you a somewhat corny joke or pickup line (hook, line) 6. she touches you...
    SJLuxon SJLuxon 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    Nani?!

    Sigh, why are women are difficult to understand?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    I don't have the slightest clue.

    Be it in messages or an actual real encounter I am going to miss every action she does. For me, it'd be so much easier if she just held up a sign saying "I like you" or whatever message she's trying to send. Sure it's not subtle or coy but if she's trying that route I'm going...
    shoreguyct shoreguyct 46-50, M Feb 16, 2014

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    Darcy

    Well, it's kind of ironic because I just joined this group earlier today, and then I had this exact problem a few minutes ago. So there was this girl named Darcy that I met, and it seemed that she was OBVIOUSLY flirting. She wasn't just being all vague and subtle. She talked...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    The First Time I Could Tell

    Hey everyone! This is my story about the first time I could tell when someone was flirting with me. There is this girl in my class I was pretty sure was into me, she always laughed at my jokes, she made active efforts to approach me and talk to me. This made me think she was a...
    JonathanBean20 JonathanBean20 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2012

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    Wait...was She Just....?

    I may as well be called Captain Oblivious when it comes to being flirted with. I tend to assume that she's just being friendly or is a naturally flirty person and has no real interest in me. It's only later that I begin to wonder if there was anything more to it. There...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 41-45, M 7 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I Thikn She's Flirting.. But She Has a B/f??

    Okay I go to college with this girl who's in my class and she is soooooo cute and smart and seems very sweet. Well theo ther day, the professor pauired us up into groups!!!!!!!!! which I thought was amazing. anyways, we had to answer 6 questions and she started talking about some...
    Southpaw85 Southpaw85 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 2, 2008

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    Flirt

    I am very book smart, in fact genius level in math. I am very dumb when it comes to women and subtle hints.Unless a woman makes it very overt I do not seem to be able to catch on.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    that happen to me last night, i couldn't sleep. but when i did i dreamed that aliens (from aliens vs predator) was chasing me, i tripped and they were on top of me, and one said...
    kkisu474 kkisu474 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I'm such an unhappy person, and have been for long enough now, that my face has taken on the appearance of a permanent frown or scowl. I have no reason to smile. Leave me be.
    RelayedDeaction RelayedDeaction 26-30, M a week ago

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    Which is most nights lately
    guideme2truth guideme2truth 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    la fatigue. my bones and muscles ache and yell as if to scream the words i dare not say myself. my lips shushes them with pain killers i eat i eat as if to fill the empty spaces...
    UnusualAngel UnusualAngel 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    It's so annoying- If I'm sleeping next to someone who is snoring, you best believe I will slap them or plug their nose and cover their mouth or yell if you snore in the same room...
    SunshineAnderson13 SunshineAnderson13 22-25, F Feb 11

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    I hate Valentines Day with a passion. A fiery passion like no other.
    AnarchyOfAthena AnarchyOfAthena 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    No matter where you go or what you do, you live your entire life within the confines of your head.
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Please please, I don't wanna live anymore. Today was a terrible day, and I wish I could just delete everything from my memory that happened (actually not only today, but this whole...
    ABACDEE ABACDEE 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Nobody wants to read or hear negative thoughts or messages. Can't tell friends, family and can't post on social networks. Who do I tell? No one. It's hard to keep everything to...
    alone03 alone03 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    I can't tell anybody about it, I have avoidant personality disorder and one of the symptoms are difficulties telling people about it in fear of rejection. I think my parents will...
    xForgottenOne xForgottenOne 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    How many of us on this app are true introverts and don't even know it. I say this because I myself learned about this about a year ago with the help of some new friends. For the...
    diamondgirl07 diamondgirl07 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    can't tell if the loud noises are coming from the kitchen, roof, or nextdoor... either way I'm a chicken
    keke8714127 keke8714127 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    It has to be completely dark when I want to sleep, I even cover my eyes with a black shirt or so when I want to take a nap during the day. My sleeping habit sucks, I wake up too...
    rainygirl1992 rainygirl1992 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    It feels good to type everything down here.. I have been keeping everything to myself and it is getting harder to manage but I am sure that I can seek advises from other persons...
    Zenalia Zenalia 18-21, F Feb 23

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    It has been over five years now, and has taken me this long to come close to accepting it. I just don't get it though. Let me explain. About five years ago I was under lots of...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 13

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    so a year and a half ago I started a relationship with someone that in no way should have ever been thought of but it was and it happened and at first it started out as just sex...
    sissieblue sissieblue 31-35, F Feb 20

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    My husband says things to me that really hurt. When I tell him that what he said has hurt me, he gives me a half-assed apology. If I tell you that you hurt me, please don't say...
    babygirl42priceless babygirl42priceless 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    "Can't" is the wrong word... it feels odd... like driving a play car... :D
    Brokenshadowwings Brokenshadowwings 31-35, F 13 hrs ago

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    I asked everyone on here how to keep my mind off of him...I've everything suggested and more...and It all just doesn't work...I wear a fake smile all the time at school and he now...
    ChrisLN99 ChrisLN99 13-15, M Feb 8

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    I don't know when this feeling began, exactly, but I do know that it hasn't let up once ever since. Not even a little. We've spoken every single day for the past six months. Every...
    paranoidbird paranoidbird 26-30, F Feb 14

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    seems like Me and my mom will never get along. it's always her word against mine. I just can't connect with her she always finds a way to twist my words around to make it looks...
    bittersweet18 bittersweet18 18-21, F Feb 16

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    I'm a gay guy in my sophomore year of high school. At the beginning of my freshman year in high school I saw a boy named Josh in my multi-media design class. I kinda liked him at...
    smellyfeetguy20 smellyfeetguy20 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can't stand being with my boyfriend any longer, but I don't know if I can leave him...I'm too afraid to let go. So this is our story: We're at a long distance relationship...
    Bitterlove Bitterlove 16-17, F Feb 10

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    I'm kind of glad people can't read my thoughts sometimes. I just find learning about certain things, or doing research on certain things, that "normal" people wouldn't really find...
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F 18 Responses 4 days ago

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