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I Can't Tell When a Woman Is Flirting

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    Wait...was She Just....?

    I may as well be called Captain Oblivious when it comes to being flirted with. I tend to assume that she's just being friendly or is a naturally flirty person and has no real interest in me. It's only later that I begin to wonder if there was anything more to it. There...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 41-45, M 7 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    The First Time I Could Tell

    Hey everyone! This is my story about the first time I could tell when someone was flirting with me. There is this girl in my class I was pretty sure was into me, she always laughed at my jokes, she made active efforts to approach me and talk to me. This made me think she was a...
    JonathanBean20 JonathanBean20 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2012

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    How To Tell A Woman Is Flirting

    1. she keeps LOOKING at you like she wants to lick your face 2. she keeps eye contact 3. she asks you questions to figure out if you like the cute things she does 4. she offers you a treat 5. she tells you a somewhat corny joke or pickup line (hook, line) 6. she touches you...
    SJLuxon SJLuxon 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    Nani?!

    Sigh, why are women are difficult to understand?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    Flirt

    I am very book smart, in fact genius level in math. I am very dumb when it comes to women and subtle hints.Unless a woman makes it very overt I do not seem to be able to catch on.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    I don't have the slightest clue.

    Be it in messages or an actual real encounter I am going to miss every action she does. For me, it'd be so much easier if she just held up a sign saying "I like you" or whatever message she's trying to send. Sure it's not subtle or coy but if she's trying that route I'm going...
    shoreguyct shoreguyct 41-45, M Feb 16

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    I Need My Glasses

    I'm not very good at reading signs.  I really can't interpret when a woman is flirting with me as opposed to just being nice.  They seem to be pretty much the same thing.  Overt flirting is another thing.  I can see that but that is really more like hitting on...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 29 Responses Jun 8, 2007

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    Darcy

    Well, it's kind of ironic because I just joined this group earlier today, and then I had this exact problem a few minutes ago. So there was this girl named Darcy that I met, and it seemed that she was OBVIOUSLY flirting. She wasn't just being all vague and subtle. She talked...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Its Easy

    All Women Flirt. Those Little smiles. A Hand on your arm left slightly too long Leaning just too close to you when they do not need to and so on and so on :-) All day every day Just Love Women
    rgreener rgreener 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    i'm not ease with girls i always wanna date

    girls and women, but they always say no laurent
    steack2 steack2 41-45, M Apr 23

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    I Think A Girl Was Flirting With Me But I Can't Tell

    today i was in town buing some art supplies, and i whent to till to pay for some charcol and paints, there was only a young-ish girl there, she smiled and said can i help you. so i whent up and gave her the supplies, while she was scanning the things she started talking to me, i...
    Soren66 Soren66 18-21, T 2 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Not That One Would

    but I wouldn't have the first clue if a woman was flirting with me
    loneranger loneranger 31-35, M Aug 26, 2008

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    I Thikn She's Flirting.. But She Has a B/f??

    Okay I go to college with this girl who's in my class and she is soooooo cute and smart and seems very sweet. Well theo ther day, the professor pauired us up into groups!!!!!!!!! which I thought was amazing. anyways, we had to answer 6 questions and she started talking about some...
    Southpaw85 Southpaw85 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 2, 2008

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