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I Can't Wait to Divorce Him

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    The Papers Are Signed.....

    I married a man 8 1/2 months ago. He was great the first 4 months, then the last three months had been a nightmare !! Fortunately, I was able to get him out of my house and he willing signed the unconteststed divorce papers, which will be personally delivered to the lawyer...
    jeezlouise jeezlouise 41-45 3 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Sign Here. Torn pages of my life.

    Ripped to pieces in the muddy **** you smashed them into. Burnt and frail in parts never to be salvaged. A huge chunk of it is still stuck on the bottom of your shoe from when you walked all over me. Tears stains and shame smear the happy memories. You made sure to destroy them...
    BunniesCry BunniesCry 31-35, F Nov 9, 2014

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    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    After 8 years of being the shittiest father,

    husband and role model my mom is FINALLY gathering enough courage to divorce her piece of **** high school sweetheart. I happy to get rid of him and I'm happy that my mom stood up to him. I'm probably gonna have to move out of my house and go to an apartment or something smaller...
    NPkid44 NPkid44 18-21, M Aug 4, 2014

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    Can't Wait

    In the beginning It was hard for me to believe my husband wanted to end our marriage after 6 yrs. of dating and 30 yrs. of marriage. At 1st I still had loved him but as time went by I hate him with a passion for what he has done to me and the family. Sometimes I wish he would...
    Sportsmom1 Sportsmom1 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Telling him in 6 days

    that it's over and crossing my fingers he will go without a fight! Have planned a week off work to be with my kids after he goes, hoping for an easy transition. Wishing on a star for a clean break that changes my life forever!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    Get Me Outta Here!!!

    I'm outta here as sooon as I can support myself!!! Married 3 years and what a nightmare!!!!!! He cannot seem to live with out lying, hiding money, yelling, lying some more!!! Incapable of answering questions, past cheater from first marriage!!! Though she did deserve it I must...
    jmsuttonstuartsucks jmsuttonstuartsucks 22-25 1 Response Sep 18, 2009

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    Solicitor Monday

    I've an appointment with a solicitor on Monday to get the ball rolling. We've been seperated over a year now but having met someone recently I know I want to get started on the divorce proceedings - the sooner the better. Fortunately we have no children or assets to quibble...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    After two years of research,

    writing and polishing, my first ebook for women on male narcissists is finally finished. Since the book started with the questions I got from you, dear ladies of Experience Project, I decided to exclusively share with you first a link to my ebook. The book's is called "Naked...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    I Used To Blame Myself...

    I used to think it had to be me, the reason why my husband cheated and lied.  Then I realized the truth, there are men who can't handle someone who is too good for them.  I heard someone say," A guy who gets a girl who is like a Porsche, but is really only qualified for a Ford...
    luxgirl luxgirl 22-25, F Sep 10, 2011

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    What a Waste!

    Just had it, really had it. The straw that broke the camels back has just been layed down. And I am done, finished, finito! So where to go from here? I have spent 11 yrs working my butt off to take care of three children. I used to work full time but HE wanted to try something...
    gerrynchappster gerrynchappster 36-40 2 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Im happy to say my divorce was finalized last

    friday morning 8/1. I hope to start a fresh new beginning on the right foot this time. :)
    Givemeareasontoturnbackaround Givemeareasontoturnbackaround 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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