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I Can't Wait to Divorce Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 36 People

    What a Waste!

    Just had it, really had it. The straw that broke the camels back has just been layed down. And I am done, finished, finito! So where to go from here? I have spent 11 yrs working my butt off to take care of three children. I used to work full time but HE wanted to try something...
    gerrynchappster gerrynchappster 36-40 2 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Sign Here. Torn pages of my life.

    Ripped to pieces in the muddy **** you smashed them into. Burnt and frail in parts never to be salvaged. A huge chunk of it is still stuck on the bottom of your shoe from when you walked all over me. Tears stains and shame smear the happy memories. You made sure to destroy them...
    BunniesCry BunniesCry 31-35, F Nov 9, 2014

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    Im happy to say my divorce was finalized last

    friday morning 8/1. I hope to start a fresh new beginning on the right foot this time. :)
    Givemeareasontoturnbackaround Givemeareasontoturnbackaround 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    Solicitor Monday

    I've an appointment with a solicitor on Monday to get the ball rolling. We've been seperated over a year now but having met someone recently I know I want to get started on the divorce proceedings - the sooner the better. Fortunately we have no children or assets to quibble...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    Telling him in 6 days

    that it's over and crossing my fingers he will go without a fight! Have planned a week off work to be with my kids after he goes, hoping for an easy transition. Wishing on a star for a clean break that changes my life forever!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    I Used To Blame Myself...

    I used to think it had to be me, the reason why my husband cheated and lied.  Then I realized the truth, there are men who can't handle someone who is too good for them.  I heard someone say," A guy who gets a girl who is like a Porsche, but is really only qualified for a Ford...
    luxgirl luxgirl 22-25, F Sep 10, 2011

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    The Papers Are Signed.....

    I married a man 8 1/2 months ago. He was great the first 4 months, then the last three months had been a nightmare !! Fortunately, I was able to get him out of my house and he willing signed the unconteststed divorce papers, which will be personally delivered to the lawyer...
    jeezlouise jeezlouise 41-45 3 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    After 8 years of being the shittiest father,

    husband and role model my mom is FINALLY gathering enough courage to divorce her piece of **** high school sweetheart. I happy to get rid of him and I'm happy that my mom stood up to him. I'm probably gonna have to move out of my house and go to an apartment or something smaller...
    NPkid97 NPkid97 18-21, M Aug 4, 2014

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    Get Me Outta Here!!!

    I'm outta here as sooon as I can support myself!!! Married 3 years and what a nightmare!!!!!! He cannot seem to live with out lying, hiding money, yelling, lying some more!!! Incapable of answering questions, past cheater from first marriage!!! Though she did deserve it I must...
    jmsuttonstuartsucks jmsuttonstuartsucks 22-25 1 Response Sep 18, 2009

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    After two years of research,

    writing and polishing, my first ebook for women on male narcissists is finally finished. Since the book started with the questions I got from you, dear ladies of Experience Project, I decided to exclusively share with you first a link to my ebook. The book's is called "Naked...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    Can't Wait

    In the beginning It was hard for me to believe my husband wanted to end our marriage after 6 yrs. of dating and 30 yrs. of marriage. At 1st I still had loved him but as time went by I hate him with a passion for what he has done to me and the family. Sometimes I wish he would...
    Sportsmom1 Sportsmom1 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    I have five months till i leave high school and i cannot wait. I can't wait to see the back of half these people and these past five years have been hell. I'm just going to try and...
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    This was my dream. At the time, it was the guy that I fell head over heels for. In the dream, we were married and had two kids. A seven year old, blonde, girl, and a brown, curly...
    stretch25 stretch25 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I dream of laying in bed at night next to my one true love, with my head on his chest, just listening to him breathe; thinking how lucky I am. But then I wake up to a sad reality...
    stretch25 stretch25 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I'm nervous for 2015! Life changes so much for me! First of all I'm going on a diet. Secondly we are getting a puppy 😬 I don't like dogs once so ever but I'm doing it for the...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Isn't it sad when your friends talk you out of suicide more than your own family?
    Kailenalovesyou Kailenalovesyou 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    It's funny how the start of the new year can make you ambitious and ready to seize the day and change your life for the better. I hope that in June I feel the same! I want to work...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    When they're sick I have to be the one to take care of them, when I'm sick it's my fault in some way and they shouldn't have to do anything. I try to be grateful for my family...
    birdoparadise birdoparadise 22-25 a week ago

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    Guys not to freak you out or anything but 2+0+1+5=8. That's the exact amount of nipples Hitler would've had if had 6 more nipples!!!!!
    JoshKilbride JoshKilbride 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    The good things of this year is about my marriage,and my son <3 And some work things,the rest sucks.
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F Jan 1

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    :P Yay it's *drumroll* 2015!
    MonkeyGirl0909 MonkeyGirl0909 13-15, F Jan 2

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    to feel that love and care of a special women in my life need that agin
    daquick daquick 22-25, M Jan 2

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    This summer I get to spend 2weeks with my father in law alone working on his business plan and seeing the sites where he lives. 2 werks alone ... let the f*cking and s*cking begin...
    Oralqueen4you Oralqueen4you 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I've just got done reading the first book and moving on to the second! It's such an exciting book and honestly a turn on
    Lyinginthesun Lyinginthesun 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I was kissed tonight :) About a month shy of ten years :)
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm so happy right now. I have all day off of work today... Tomorrows my birthday!!! And then I have all of Wednesday off. Niiiiiiice!!! :)))
    missANONYMOUS13 missANONYMOUS13 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Ottawa Naturist loud and proud!
    Captain2015 Captain2015 22-25, M Jan 19

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    Tomorrow is gonna be laugh, bc me and my bff are going to a "fastelavn fest" (Danish tradition) and we are dressing up as punks, and we've decided to take the bus to the place haha...
    jeyhere jeyhere 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am going to be 30 in 16 days. I have 2 wonderful children who are my world. I grew up in a rough home, moved out at 16. I felt I had to, or I was going to end up just like my...
    sohurtnow sohurtnow 26-30 Jan 15

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    I am so hopelessly in love with this guy I met a little over a year ago. I met him through a friend and since then we have really bonded and gotten close. He tells me things he has...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 18

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    I can't sleep because I'm excited for tomorrow. I'll be at home alone with my sister. I won't have my guardian breathing down my neck. I really hate her. I don't think i'll sleep...
    ImYourLady ImYourLady 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Reading through this website helped me so much with my recent situation, that I felt the need to contribute somehow and hope it helps others in return. A little background about...
    guywithnoname guywithnoname 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why can't you leave me alone! You've dug your grave.. You ruined what we had... You've both made us suffer.... Part of me just wants to go up to you, hug you and tell you, I want...
    catho catho 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    I never thought i would find myself still inlove with him after 15years. Gosh so ridiculous right! After all these years we want eachother more than we've wanted any other person...
    solongago2 solongago2 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    "I'm so lonely... Maybe I should find somebody," my own conscience said to me. Quickly abolishing the thought, I shook my head fiercely. "I'll wait for him. He's the only one I...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F Jan 3

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    Every time I google this is, it takes me to kids websites. My parents have progressed beyond fighting to not acknowledging each other at all. I am 24 and feel like I've spent my...
    exp3ditions exp3ditions 22-25, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Marry meet everyone, Its been a long time since i posted anything on here. Well let me begin. I am still with my boyfriend, and we are about to make it our first year together...
    sabedoria sabedoria 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    My heart will always belong to my first love Paul. We were at school then I heard he fancied another girl so I dropped him without giving him a chance to explain. As I got older I...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Let's just start this out by saying im a 12 year old girl living in a the big city of downtown Baltimore. Anyways, I should tell my story This happened two weeks ago. Its been...
    destroyaaaa destroyaaaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    Look at you stupid ex-husband! Trying hard to follow me like a desperate guy! You are worth nothing to me! I dedicate my devotion and love to a guy better than you stupid! Because...
    DawnS87 DawnS87 26-30, F Jan 18

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    Years ago I met this beautiful girl, who became a close friend of mine. We spent time together on a regular basis, I'd even watch as she would get flirtatious with other men and I...
    steampunkBeverage steampunkBeverage 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I am 19 and lost my virginity a few weeks ago. I love the guy that I gave it to, but ever since I was younger I was taught to wait until marriage. I known it was my decision for me...
    iwillfly iwillfly 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been a top student in my school before i graduated into the working world. I've always been a quiet person, which i think is mostly caused by my bad experiences during...
    samwicher samwicher 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    Ran across this poem I wrote just before my divorce. Nice to know that is not me any more. In the darkness I curl up…. It covers me and shields me from the memories The words...
    sckimmy sckimmy 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014