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I Can't Wait to Divorce Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    What a Waste!

    Just had it, really had it. The straw that broke the camels back has just been layed down. And I am done, finished, finito! So where to go from here? I have spent 11 yrs working my butt off to take care of three children. I used to work full time but HE wanted to try something...
    gerrynchappster gerrynchappster 36-40 2 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    I Used To Blame Myself...

    I used to think it had to be me, the reason why my husband cheated and lied.  Then I realized the truth, there are men who can't handle someone who is too good for them.  I heard someone say," A guy who gets a girl who is like a Porsche, but is really only qualified for a Ford...
    luxgirl luxgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    The Papers Are Signed.....

    I married a man 8 1/2 months ago. He was great the first 4 months, then the last three months had been a nightmare !! Fortunately, I was able to get him out of my house and he willing signed the unconteststed divorce papers, which will be personally delivered to the lawyer...
    jeezlouise jeezlouise 41-45 3 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Telling him in 6 days

    that it's over and crossing my fingers he will go without a fight! Have planned a week off work to be with my kids after he goes, hoping for an easy transition. Wishing on a star for a clean break that changes my life forever!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    Can't Wait

    In the beginning It was hard for me to believe my husband wanted to end our marriage after 6 yrs. of dating and 30 yrs. of marriage. At 1st I still had loved him but as time went by I hate him with a passion for what he has done to me and the family. Sometimes I wish he would...
    Sportsmom1 Sportsmom1 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Sign Here. Torn pages of my life.

    Ripped to pieces in the muddy **** you smashed them into. Burnt and frail in parts never to be salvaged. A huge chunk of it is still stuck on the bottom of your shoe from when you walked all over me. Tears stains and shame smear the happy memories. You made sure to destroy them...
    BunniesCry BunniesCry 31-35, F Nov 9, 2014

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    Im happy to say my divorce was finalized last

    friday morning 8/1. I hope to start a fresh new beginning on the right foot this time. :)
    Givemeareasontoturnbackaround Givemeareasontoturnbackaround 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Solicitor Monday

    I've an appointment with a solicitor on Monday to get the ball rolling. We've been seperated over a year now but having met someone recently I know I want to get started on the divorce proceedings - the sooner the better. Fortunately we have no children or assets to quibble...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    My husband is a psychopath.

    He has no remorse or accountability for his actions. He had numerous affairs, lied and deceived me from the day we married. His family knew what he was doing. Even helped him. He has stolen from me with the help of his family for 20 years. When I divorce him I'll divorce them as...
    trinny61 trinny61 51-55, F Aug 16

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    After two years of research,

    writing and polishing, my first ebook for women on male narcissists is finally finished. Since the book started with the questions I got from you, dear ladies of Experience Project, I decided to exclusively share with you first a link to my ebook. The book's is called "Naked...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F Aug 11, 2014

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    Get Me Outta Here!!!

    I'm outta here as sooon as I can support myself!!! Married 3 years and what a nightmare!!!!!! He cannot seem to live with out lying, hiding money, yelling, lying some more!!! Incapable of answering questions, past cheater from first marriage!!! Though she did deserve it I must...
    jmsuttonstuartsucks jmsuttonstuartsucks 22-25 1 Response Sep 18, 2009

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    After 8 years of being the shittiest father,

    husband and role model my mom is FINALLY gathering enough courage to divorce her piece of **** high school sweetheart. I happy to get rid of him and I'm happy that my mom stood up to him. I'm probably gonna have to move out of my house and go to an apartment or something smaller...
    NPkid44 NPkid44 18-21, M Aug 4, 2014

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    Is he a narcissist? One year

    after I published the ebook Naked Narcissist, many women wrote me about the effect it had on their thinking and how it gave them the needed push to make a positive change. Dear Experience Project ladies, just wanted to say thank you once again as that kind of ebook wouldn't be...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F Aug 13

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    I'm sick of the stress! Being married to the idiot that I am brings so much stress and drama into my life it's unreal. I'm 38+1 weeks pregnant and I have his family causing so much...
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    I am in love,with someone I cant have. it took me months to just even recognize the feelings, how can I love somebody I never thought I would even like? a complete opposite to what...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Tejaschick Tejaschick 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    My ex boyfriend was broken. 10 years older than me and his life was a mess. He couldn't stay away from drinking he already ruined his life because of it. He had no drivers license...
    beanie1417 beanie1417 22-25, F a week ago

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    We shouldn’t be together. Culturally, we are so diverse. Age, we are a decade apart. Location, across the world from one another. Relationship, too complicated to explain. But...
    MyHeart4You MyHeart4You 46-50, F a week ago

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    Jayscar67 Jayscar67 13-15, F Aug 19

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    As a follow up, my ex got out of jail. And immediately following his release, he started with the incessant calling. Sending cards and poems and love letters everyday. I had a PFA...
    blackbeautygirl51 blackbeautygirl51 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    MutedVoice MutedVoice 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Everything was amazing.. I really thought he was the one.. And I love him so much, I don't even understand how I love someone so much, it's weird, the first time I ever talked to...
    erxnio erxnio 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    There is someone I care about about there. I Think about him a lot. About being with him. About how much he deserves kindness in the face of some pretty unkind people. About unkind...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I'm in love with one of my best guy friends. I think he loves me back but I also think he loves his ex still and can't get over her. He acts like he loves me and then the next...
    basketballlove99 basketballlove99 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    A license plate, a guest visitor, a baseball game on at lunch! Reminders of you are everywhere I look. I can't get away from you!!!!! . Wait, I'm not trying to!!! LOL!
    MrFoolery MrFoolery 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I just kept on running, runny, running trying to find out who I was. I would go a distance but it wasn't far enough But now I'm standing straight and know exactly who I am.
    alyssanar123 alyssanar123 13-15, F Aug 12

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    yes i totally cant wait to get a brazilian butt lift and rhinoplasty
    mayhemharmony mayhemharmony 26-30, F Aug 12

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    My perfect man <3 where would i be without you
    DrDeathDefying DrDeathDefying 18-21, F Aug 10

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    This might be long for some so just bear with me. My life has sucked for most of it. I know now as an adult I have to make my own decisions and get myself out of this hell hole...
    Drake3030 Drake3030 26-30, M Aug 9

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    Kisses I loved, kisses I've lost. Perhaps it is just not meant to be. What do I do with all this potential inside my heart? I am so tired of meaningless acts or be treated less...
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    wow! What a statement/ a name of this group....giggling... no way I am opening that door. ;-) I can wait.... feel blessed, in me doing so! lol...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F Aug 8

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