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I Can't Wait to Divorce Him

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    Solicitor Monday

    I've an appointment with a solicitor on Monday to get the ball rolling. We've been seperated over a year now but having met someone recently I know I want to get started on the divorce proceedings - the sooner the better. Fortunately we have no children or assets to quibble...
    MementoMori1983 MementoMori1983 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    Get Me Outta Here!!!

    I'm outta here as sooon as I can support myself!!! Married 3 years and what a nightmare!!!!!! He cannot seem to live with out lying, hiding money, yelling, lying some more!!! Incapable of answering questions, past cheater from first marriage!!! Though she did deserve it I must...
    jmsuttonstuartsucks jmsuttonstuartsucks 22-25 1 Response Sep 18, 2009

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    The Papers Are Signed.....

    I married a man 8 1/2 months ago. He was great the first 4 months, then the last three months had been a nightmare !! Fortunately, I was able to get him out of my house and he willing signed the unconteststed divorce papers, which will be personally delivered to the lawyer...
    jeezlouise jeezlouise 41-45 3 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Sign Here. Torn pages of my life.

    Ripped to pieces in the muddy **** you smashed them into. Burnt and frail in parts never to be salvaged. A huge chunk of it is still stuck on the bottom of your shoe from when you walked all over me. Tears stains and shame smear the happy memories. You made sure to destroy them...
    BunniesCry BunniesCry 31-35, F Nov 9, 2014

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    Im happy to say my divorce was finalized last

    friday morning 8/1. I hope to start a fresh new beginning on the right foot this time. :)
    Givemeareasontoturnbackaround Givemeareasontoturnbackaround 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    After 8 years of being the shittiest father,

    husband and role model my mom is FINALLY gathering enough courage to divorce her piece of **** high school sweetheart. I happy to get rid of him and I'm happy that my mom stood up to him. I'm probably gonna have to move out of my house and go to an apartment or something smaller...
    NPkid44 NPkid44 18-21, M Aug 4, 2014

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    I Used To Blame Myself...

    I used to think it had to be me, the reason why my husband cheated and lied.  Then I realized the truth, there are men who can't handle someone who is too good for them.  I heard someone say," A guy who gets a girl who is like a Porsche, but is really only qualified for a Ford...
    luxgirl luxgirl 22-25, F Sep 10, 2011

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    My Dear Fellow Ladies, We've all spent too much of our time with men that didn't deserve it. I know our time is valuable so I'll be to the point. I need your advice! After years of all kinds of experiences, I'm putting the finishing touches on a new e-book that's all about...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    What a Waste!

    Just had it, really had it. The straw that broke the camels back has just been layed down. And I am done, finished, finito! So where to go from here? I have spent 11 yrs working my butt off to take care of three children. I used to work full time but HE wanted to try something...
    gerrynchappster gerrynchappster 36-40 2 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Can't Wait

    In the beginning It was hard for me to believe my husband wanted to end our marriage after 6 yrs. of dating and 30 yrs. of marriage. At 1st I still had loved him but as time went by I hate him with a passion for what he has done to me and the family. Sometimes I wish he would...
    Sportsmom1 Sportsmom1 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Telling him in 6 days

    that it's over and crossing my fingers he will go without a fight! Have planned a week off work to be with my kids after he goes, hoping for an easy transition. Wishing on a star for a clean break that changes my life forever!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    After two years of research,

    writing and polishing, my first ebook for women on male narcissists is finally finished. Since the book started with the questions I got from you, dear ladies of Experience Project, I decided to exclusively share with you first a link to my ebook. The book's is called "Naked...
    NarcissistTruth NarcissistTruth 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    It's hard not to. He was my friend, the only guy I could talk to about anything. We shared so much about ourselves to each other and I fell in love with him. Yet I messed up, I got...
    soulfulmuse soulfulmuse 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I can't stand those people who are so impatient about texting . they will text you and then a minute later they will be adding question marks and asking if you are there . Like...
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 21 Responses 3 days ago

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    Many years ago now I went to an event and met someone there who I felt was pretty interesting. He was a poet and artist so we exchanged info and have kept in touch sort of through...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    For the past few months, all I've been doing is eating out with my friends, and when I'm not eating out I don't eat very healthy. So recently I've realized that I can't see my...
    rubberduxk rubberduxk 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sorry for my broken english So I've had a long-term relationship like 4 years.. i don't know if you could call it long-term but for me this is the longest relationship i've ever...
    Escc Escc 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I didn't wait and till this day I wish I had of. Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex, but it makes things so complicated. No one can just have a simple relationship anymore. Going into...
    Livers95 Livers95 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a friend who recently asked me why I've been aloof lately. I just told him that I wasn't, I just been doing my stuff but and I'm always up to hang out with him if he wants...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i once was with a group of people and we were talking and I was asked by a guy who I would never date and I said quietly "not you" but it was heard and it was never forgotten even...
    loreto789 loreto789 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Every day is just the same broken record. Get up, see my mum off to work, and spend the day at home alone. I try to keep myself busy by gardening, getting some decorating done or...
    blvckhvart blvckhvart 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I cant especially the Australian one this year as Im hoping to be a complete woman and will really enjoy showing my body off, Ill be at the beach in my tiny bikini as much as I can...
    SeptGurl2015 SeptGurl2015 46-50, T 2 Responses Jun 26

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    What do you do when you feel you had the one you are meant to spend your life with, and you let them walk away? Our paths were going in different directions. He had his reasons why...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I started right around my 13 birthday can't really remember if it was before or after but yeah
    fenrirandimpachi fenrirandimpachi 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    We were once close friends...now? I don't even know if he sees me as a classmate anymore, whether he sees me as nothing... With my emotions died away, I can't feel the hurt, the...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    It's so wrong to like him but I can't help it. He's perfectly perfect. Words aren't enough to explain how thankful I am that I met him.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I didn't know that I was in love with him. Then I broke up with him because of reasons outside our relationship. A mutual friend was being a real pain to me, and she was in total...
    lillyforever4 lillyforever4 16-17, F Jun 20

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    I keep replaying the night before he left over and over in my head. We were just sitting in his car from 1:00 am until 4:00 am.. Just talking about everything. Just enjoying that...
    kelsiex920 kelsiex920 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Want life to remove me. In between wanting to expedite that.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Jun 16

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    A while back, me and my friend were hanging out with this guy. He kept flirting with us,i wanted to leave.But i didn't want to leave my friend alone with this creep. So we were...
    muffin125 muffin125 18-21, F Jun 16

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    Hello, My story is destroying me little by little, I got married in 2009, I was happily married for the three first years, until I discovered how my ex wife started to lose...
    brokenwinggggg brokenwinggggg 26-30, M Jun 16

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    Hello, My story is destroying me little by little, I got married in 2009, I was happily married for the three first years, until I discovered how my ex wife started to lose...
    brokenwinggggg brokenwinggggg 26-30, M Jun 16

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    Sometimes life just isn't fair. I broke up with my boyfriend of six years at the end of December. Things had been slowly breaking down for over a year and the stress of it all had...
    HoldYahHead HoldYahHead 22-25, F Jun 15

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    My partner and I (we're coming up on our first year together) are renting out rooms in my disabled mother-in-law's house. At first, we got along well. She was motherly, sweet, and...
    grenadoman grenadoman 18-21, M Jun 15

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    From hero to zero, that's what one of my friend called me. I 'got something only to loose it later. i can't stand even the slightest pressure. I was a very good writer that can...
    hatemymum hatemymum 18-21, M Jun 15

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    I tried everything, nothing works. I still think about you daily, you are always on my mind. I don't know how this happened or why. It's been months, and you hardly talk to me...
    Cample Cample 18-21, T Jun 15

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    3 years ago over FB I reconnected with a high school friend. we found we had a lot in common. our spouses were gone a lot...we were lone with the kids so may days. he had a young...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 12

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    Okay so I met this guy on May 2nd for the very first time and from that moment, I felt an insane connection to him. I feel a pull so strong that it makes me think about him...
    juliehg juliehg 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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