I Care About Personality Not Looks

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    okaaaay. as much as you want to deny it,

    there has to be some level of attractiveness between you and someone else in order for you to continue your relationship & it being strong. you aren't going to be with someonr SOLEY because of their looks.. you just aren't going to bang an ugly chick/guy.. right!? not every day...
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    Personality is what matters most to me.

    If you look good but have a ****** personality, that automatically makes you ugly in my eyes....dating someone with good looks but a horrible personality is never a good thing. Date someone for who they truly are, not just how they look
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 16, 2015

    This so me .. You can be very cute

    but with a dry asf personality lol
    uglygirl76 uglygirl76
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2015

    this is no joke. she could honestly be the most

    attractive women in the world but I won't go there unless her sense of humor is off the charts xD
    krimzzen krimzzen
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2016

    I Don't Care About Popularity.

    I Live In Reality. based On Originality. Forget Looks. I Respect Personality :) Your looks may grab my eye, but your personality will hold my heart.
    ApacheKuruk ApacheKuruk
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Apr 18, 2015
    Selma17 Selma17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2015

    There's more than what you see on the surface.

    He's not just good looking he has a heart! He accepts his responsibilities and is a veritable knight in shining armour. Sound familiar?
    Banyousbabe Banyousbabe
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 25, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    A good conversation is way more attractive

    than good looks. I think people forget that sometimes.
    Sim90 Sim90
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jan 30, 2016

    People say they do ..

    . But surely you can amend someone's personality to your liking. I mean if someone wants you as a friend or a lover either way they would be happy and willing to change. But what this post is about that people care about looks probably more than your personality as I've had...
    PositiveStateOfMind PositiveStateOfMind
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Feb 28, 2016

    ''I Care About Personality Not Looks.

    '' No matter what you look like i'd still talk to you, I'd never ignore someone because of how they look.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 26, 2016

    When you fall for someone's personality,

    everything about them becomes beautiful :)
    Roseebee Roseebee
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    The things we observe superficially are just

    that; they are false impressions that don't tell you anything about the person until you get to know them. People aren't as beautiful as they look. I can't speak for everyone but I certainly wouldn't choose to be with someone just for their looks. Anybody can love your looks but...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 5, 2016

    Personality matters more

    than looks. A dirty homeless guy can have a heart of gold while a guy in a suit and tie can be a real devil.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Oct 21, 2015

    20/03/2016 - Sure looks attract you to a person

    but end of the day for me it's all about personality and how that person makes me feel. That is what makes them more attractive to me, not their looks. If only it was the case for everyone.
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2016

    Beauty comes from within.

    It doesn't matter if you're a male or female because it's try for both genders. I care more about someone's personality then their looks though because if they have a beautiful soul then they will have a beautiful body.
    Flowerchild666 Flowerchild666
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    You know how when you first meet a person you

    get that automatic snap judgement.... y'know... easy on the eye or not so much. Well, after you've gotten to know the person a little don't you find that if they're in the easy on the eye category and they turn out to be mean-spirited or spout constant negativity you begin to...
    LadyTreen LadyTreen
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2016

    I don't understand how people could date someone

    who they're not attracted to physically, at all. I care about both personality and looks. I can't be with someone who I'm not attracted to emotionally / mentally, and I can't be with someone who I'm not attracted to physically. Personality and looks are both equally...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    It should always be about personality.

    I have three best friends who are complete opposites of each other in every way. Everyone is different and unique. Looks are just the package we come in.
    KellerKing13 KellerKing13
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    Sometimes, looks help,

    BUT, someday we'll all get old, and we won't look as good as we do now. But in my opinion, I'd choose personality over looks any day
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    12 Responses May 9, 2015

    A group of us decided to do an early dinner at

    a nicer restaurant on the water in a resort beach town. In fact the drive took us through a number of beach communities. It was not long before a comment was made about the relative state of dress (or undress) that some of the bathing suits revealed. One in particular was a...
    nuwalker nuwalker
    66-70, M
    1 Response Apr 7, 2016

    A pretty face can capture my attention

    but only a beautiful mind can hold it.
    MissingMistake MissingMistake
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    There were plans to do a long dissertation on

    why I care more about personality than looks but there was a distraction on Facebook that I'd rather address. The thing was a group of posts that the point being that 200 pound girls should not wear bikinis, crop tops, leggings or booty shorts. Thankfully, someone took the...
    nuwalker nuwalker
    66-70, M
    1 Response Apr 5, 2016

    funny how so many people care about looks more

    than anything else, it therefore means physicality makes you 50% there already, you just need the personality and you're good...wow, so 'ugliness' as many put it means you are 50% NOT there, but if you have a great personality you will get there, but that means you will still be...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2016

    sorry if im not responsive just busy with work .

    message me and I'll be sure to get back to you as soon as I can
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph
    22-25, F
    Feb 27, 2016

    If I cant click in your head

    why the hell would I care what you look like, the mind is more important to me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    I don't give anyone in life the time of day

    unless they capture my mind
    Pk3456 Pk3456
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    We all age and bits go south - that's life.

    But personality can and is empowered throughout life and is a real beauty that matures!!
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    I'm intrigued by how engaging a woman is.

    Especially during a random conversation, sharing are own ideologies on things.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 10, 2016

    Okay I hope this doesn't make me a terrible

    person. I care 95% about there personality and 5% about looks.
    PassionateFlames PassionateFlames
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Feb 9, 2016

    For me, personality is what it is all about.

    Who cares about how someone looks. The problem with many people is that they don't talk to someone that does not look good so many guys/girls never get the chance. I guess that is why I try to look my best.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    Anybody who thinks any other is shallow,

    give me a nice guy anyday over a preeening peacock
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    I care about your thoughts.

    I care about what makes you happy, angry, and sad. I care about sharing laughter, and also tears with you. I care about how your hands would touch me in comfort, in desire, in love. I care about your compassion for others. I care about all your strengths and also your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Feb 5, 2016

    I like a sexy lady as much

    as the next guy but at the end of the day ,if we cants have a mind blowing conversation then what's the point .as we get older our beauty starts to sag and shrink in some cases but our personality keeps getting better and better
    Thebakers Thebakers
    41-45, M
    Feb 21, 2016

    Some people on here need a picture of you

    before they talk to you, meanwhile the guy I really like is someone I started liking before I even knew what he looked like.
    PriscilaG PriscilaG
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    You can be a supermodel

    but if your personality is ugly you ain't got a chance. if your beautiful on the inside it truly shows on the outside. Beauty lies within the person.
    BarbiesMan BarbiesMan
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015

    Im not perfect and nor do i want to be.

    . . . . im crazy cooky spontanious fun and bubbly often the person my friends turn to for support because im honest and reliable . . . i try to love myself for all that i am but lately i feel very judged by my looks. . . . i look sad tired unhappy on the outside and i feel it on...
    212panda 212panda
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    I think I'm really weird in the sense

    that I can literally find something beautiful in everyone. In their words, their actions, their looks, the way they go about things, their views.. Just anything. I go after people's personality rather than looks..
    CassandraLynn96 CassandraLynn96
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2015

    Looks is shiiitt (sometimes) looks like an angel

    but ur personality like a devil ? LOL!
    Vey16 Vey16
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    I just want the person to have a personality

    that matches mine. I love it when the person is sweet, kind, funny, and loving :3
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2016

    I wish tat people who have trouble

    communicating would shutup!
    1ramrod 1ramrod
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 14, 2016

    What's the point of having pretty

    and handsome you look if your personality is ugly. You're ugly. - Beauty attracks the eye but personality captures the heart.
    melodyyyy melodyyyy
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 24, 2016

    so im demisexual. talk about some bs.

    ..while growing up all my buds were experiencing sex while i was wondering what was wrong with me. see i am attracted to beautiful woman just like the next. the part i later learned in life was that to be sexually atracted i mist firt be emotionally attracted. there has to be an...
    Jake1399 Jake1399
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Feb 13, 2016

    I don't judge females on their looks ,

    it's all about their personalities and how they carry themselves , that's why I fell in love with my wife
    jayjay388 jayjay388
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 11, 2016
    agirlwholikesherdaddy agirlwholikesherdaddy
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 19, 2016

    I always had a preference in what I like to see

    on a man but personality outshines it all. I recently met a guy who's pretty much my dream guy , tall , white, handsome, great body(I like different body types as well) along with blue eyes but he was such a douche that it pained me to carry on the conversation, he was impolite...
    GabbyWoodBerry GabbyWoodBerry
    18-21, F
    Feb 28, 2016

    Everyone is beautiful in their own way

    but there's nothing comparable to the attractiveness of a good personality. Just the liveliness and warmth of their personality is enough to give you shivers. You can almost physically feel their good spirit and it's impossible to ignore how caring and engaging they are in...
    GoldenRoses GoldenRoses
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2016
    Twinkiss Twinkiss
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    SO true. My husband, whom I love dearly,

    is FAR from being "my type". It's his personality and love for us that I fell for. I don't regret it in the least and have no desire to look at another man that way. He's come into his own.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    I've found that for people

    that would be classed as attractive by society, if they have an ugly personality I am not attracted to them and don't find them good looking. But I've seen some guys who are classed as ugly and if they have a good personality, I find them really attractive. For example this guy...
    Itslauryn Itslauryn
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 5, 2016

    Someone might be textbook pretty

    or handsome, but if they're an a-hole or a biatch, then to me they're ugly. Pretty is as pretty does.
    OrSuze OrSuze
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    Beauty radiates from the inside out.

    Physical appearance is a superficial thing that changes with age and frankly if you don't have the personality, your looks will mean nothing. I believe that a great mind, a warm heart, self confidence, and compassion for others are the most beautiful things you can find in a...
    nikaXo nikaXo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2015

    First and Foremost,I Can Only Speak From My

    Life Experiences and Perspectives.I Have Been Around,As Well As Have Has Some Of The Most Beautiful and Sexy Women Known To Man.Well,That Is Til They Opened Their Mouths and Absolutely Nothing,But,Pure Unadulterated Ugliness Fell Out. A Few Of My Ex's Weren't Exactly The Most...
    BIGGSKEET BIGGSKEET
    46-50, M
    Jan 6, 2016

    Well maybe both I think

    both are important in a relationship
    chzrnchfries chzrnchfries
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2016

    I am feed up of guys

    who think that it is ok to rate a girl/woman out of a score of 10. When are these guys going to realise that there is more to us women than the way we look. We do have personalities so why not try to get to know us first because you straight away judge us on our appearance.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 26, 2015
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