I Care About What Others Think of Me

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    It Makes A Difference

    I care, most assuredly, about what impression I make on others. But at the same time, I'm not going to let anyone walk all over me like blacktop on a street. I had three replies to my Proud To Be An American posts. I was trying to point out to those who say they hate America...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine
    61-65, F
    Jun 12, 2013

    Ha

    I'm one of those people who say "I don't care what people think about me" when in reality, a lot of things really kill my self esteem, which i'm already lacking. I put on a real tough front to avoid letting people know it's harmed me, because i will never give anyone...
    katrinaweinar katrinaweinar
    18-21, F
    Jun 8, 2009

    I Care What Others Think.

    Just writing this I have anxieties. What will people say? What are they going to think of it..better yet what will they think of me? But recently I was at my dads house and had NOTHING to do and since I came back I decided I wouldn't sit in the house. So i have tried to get out a...
    TheLilThings TheLilThings
    16-17, F
    Mar 24, 2008

    Too Much....

    I am obsessed with what people think of me. I worry all the time that they are saying negative things about me behind my back, that they think I am lazy,look abnormally young, too shy, standoffish or nervous. I worry that they would judge me if they knew that I am 25, the eternal...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 19, 2011

    Don't We All?

    I mean, it would be nice to be one of those people that "claim" that they don't care about what others think of them, but taken to the extreme, wouldn't they just be sociopaths? I exaggerate of course, but it would be nice to have some kind ego-insulation against the rest of the...
    Tuva Tuva
    31-35, M
    Dec 7, 2010

    I just that I have always struggled with this.

    My hubby does care what others think and I totally admire him for it. My successes and failures really goes right to my heart. My husband can get all types of awards and not even give a **** and when he criticized he listens but it does not go to his heart. I get so depressed...
    isis360of7 isis360of7
    36-40, F
    Mar 18, 2014

    What You Think Of Me

    If I did; I would have committed suicide a long time ago.  By me still being here, proves something.  In other words, people can judge me, criticize me, bring me down, make fun of me...I know who I am and if you don't like it...then it is your problem.  I haven't done or said...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    Aug 9, 2011

    It Really Matters

    I am constantly being evaluated, but I constantly fail the test.
    meh3 meh3
    18-21
    Oct 12, 2012

    Far Too Much,

    I always have been and no doubt always will be very consicious of wat people think of me, be it my personality or my looks, sad i know i just cant seem to stop myself
    sammy120 sammy120
    22-25, F
    May 19, 2008

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    People usually tell me pretty lies than talk about me behind my back or guys call me offensive names ..lol
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    Sure tell me what u think about me, be honest
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