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I Care Too Much About People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 561 People

    I hate how I care too much about people

    when they don't care about me at all
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Jul 29, 2014

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    Lost contact with someone a week

    and a few days ago.. So worried about what might've happened..
    KujoTheNeko KujoTheNeko 16-17, M Jan 16

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    When Everything Stings...

    There was a man who saw a bee floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the bee stung him. The man still tried to get the bee out of the water, but the stung him again, another man nearby told him to stop. But he said: "It is in the...
    Misch Misch 22-25, F Apr 12, 2012

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    I Realised To Late I Gave Too Much Credit For Others

    especially my realtives ... I used to feel sorry for other people a lot and I would cry for them and they probably didnt even like me I have cried over many people suffering and I remember a little boy in PNG he couldn;t walk I just felt like hugging that boy and giving him any...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 6, 2011

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    codydobb codydobb 16-17, F Apr 4, 2014

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    Always....

    If I truly care about you, it is unconditional. Even if you lie to me, backstab me, take advantage, act moody and thoughtless, I still care. And I hate that. It makes me come across as weak and like I have a sign on my head saying *Take advantage, do what you want to me. I will...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2011

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    Ever since my mom's passing,

    who was my best friend, I got to see who my real friends and family are, and not to mention how strong I can be when I bring my situation to Christ. The thing I hate about myself is that I care sooooooo much about people, put them first before myself, and yet when I'm in...
    GarnetRoses GarnetRoses 22-25, F Mar 2

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    The positive side to this,

    is that when someone I know has walked almost the same path as me I'll try my hardest to make it easier for them. I go out of my way to remain their friend and if they are going through a crisis, I'll be the first one there. Sometimes I screw it up by getting too involved or I...
    DaFufinator DaFufinator 18-21, M Aug 30, 2014

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    :/ it's all my fault.

    .. I'm having a bad day, your having a bad day lets leave it at that eh?
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I'm Too Nice

    I've spent most of my life being taken advantage of. This is because I'm trusting and caring of other people. Too much so. I wish I could develop a tough exterior and not be so affected by the issues of others. Case in point, when stories of animal or child abuse come on the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    I don't mind caring about other people

    but i hate it when I loose that person. When i show my caring side towards them I just can't stop thinking about them.... When I try to text them and they don't text me back in like 1 or 2 hours, that side kicks in and I get worried and depressed. I don't like showing my caring...
    drs0307 drs0307 18-21, F Apr 2, 2014

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    When your ex texts you say sorry

    for all the **** he put me through. And all I say is **** off ******* 👊 bad day... :L
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I Cant Stop It, When Ever I Feel So Depressed an

    even Suicidal, And Then A Friend Is UpSet I Force My Feelings Away And Help My Friends, But While Im Helping I Just Feel Eveen Worse But I Still Push The Feelings Away 🌼Kitten🌼
    SweetAngelFrostPup SweetAngelFrostPup 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2014

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    People..

    I hate really like telling people how I honestly feel cause I hate hurting peoples feelings and what they will think about me. I also have a hard time standing up for myself specially with people I find close to me.
    punkishgreeny punkishgreeny 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    I Need Your Help!

    Ok, my friend has fallen for a tenth grader and she is in seventh!!! they have been texting for two years and have fallen head over heels for each other! She wanted my advice on what to do but idk what to say or do other than be there for her!! she is younger than me so idk her...
    heartbroken15 heartbroken15 16-17, F May 14, 2013

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    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2014

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    Loss Of Control

    I used to be the "got to" person among my friends. Whenever there was a problem that needed fixing or someone needed a shoulder to cry on, I was there. I was proud of my position, it gave me purpose and a sense of self-satisfaction. I never realised how little I cared...
    AnOpenBook AnOpenBook 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2009

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    Uhh Don'T Kno

    have been hurt for caring to much about people lately it's like a habit some people say it's a good habit but it actually hurts me when I see someone cry , I just can't bear seeing that person cry because I don't want them to go what I went through some people say I have a...
    lonelybeast1346 lonelybeast1346 13-15, F Nov 22, 2013

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    It's Always Been Him

    It's been three years since I met him... Nearly Two Years since we first got together...and eleven months since we broke up.... and I've gotta say... I miss him sooooooo much... He's changed a lot... yes... I know.... but it's not who he is that I'm in love with... not who he was...
    SouthernPrincess29 SouthernPrincess29 16-17, F 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    My "friends" struggle to remember my name

    but I would give up my life for them. Is it bad to love people when they don't even want you in their life? There's many things going through my mind when I think about how my friends don't really care about me. I can't stay mad at them even when they hurt me. I end up taking...
    TryingToLiveLife TryingToLiveLife 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Working with Alzheimer's patients has

    introduced me to loss. I care for all of the residents I am blessed to visit with every week. They unwillingly call me their daughter and I tear up when they hold my hand and ask me to never leave their side. But what happens when I'm forced to let them go?
    stayhappyitsmadi stayhappyitsmadi 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2014

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    I love helping people.

    People i dont even know. I hate seeing people in pain or depressed. I try to help everyone who is suicidal because life is worth it. I was saved and now im very happy. I wish everyone could stop being depressed.
    Stressed14 Stressed14 16-17, M Jul 3, 2014

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    I imagine only in my world this can be

    but I'm sure it's a very common experience. Very rarely do I connect with others especially those I find judgmental. Very seldomly do I find a man who prays. Someone who loves and is honest. My heart is broken. want is the truth. When I have nothing left to say, I wish you well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16, 2014

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    I care too much and never get the same back.

    It's it just too much for people to take the time?
    Babyneedsherdaddy Babyneedsherdaddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    Money....Money....Money! Great song! But I digress... money is the root of all evil: of that, I am certain. I have never had more than I needed nor have I desired more than I...
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    Many people have acquired an unquenchable thirst for money and power. This is now a world that revolves around greed and materialism. We're basically living a life similar to that...
    ThatOneGemini ThatOneGemini 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    What about friends? about Family? About having fun? Money is of course important but it is not everything and you can't buy everythinng you really need in life.
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    When I've been talking to someone for too long, I become too empathic, which leads me to care too much about a person's well-being as if they're a sibling or something. I think...
    XantheoftheStar XantheoftheStar 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The problem that I have is that I tend to keep the bad things people say in, and never let in the good things, despite the fact that I know that the good things said to me about me...
    jray16 jray16 13-15, M a week ago

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    I care too much and i end up getting hurt..its like im here to get hurt instead of anyone i know
    1phoenix1 1phoenix1 22-25, M 1 Response May 10

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    The problem with me is that I care to much. It doesn't matter if someone has hurt me, abused me, abandoned me, if I know that person, or if I don't know the person, I will always...
    SuicideSmile SuicideSmile 18-21, F May 21

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    I've notice i care to much lately. i didn't use to. why is it that i have to always care about people more then they care for me. its not fair. I'm sure i sound like a child right...
    miakajones2001 miakajones2001 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I start to like somebody, I idolise him. I can only awesome things about the person. I cannot find any fault or can too easily ignore it. I fall head over heels but it's over...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 10

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    Why are some people so insensitive in the sense they can say or tell you anything and expect you to not feel bad or get offended because they think they won't feel the same way as...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    In this world there is something missing, it is caring. Now we are too busy to solve our own problems that we forget about others, we forgot how to listen to others, we forgot...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F May 18

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    People made fun out off my hair. My hair was reaching till like my elbows and I liked it but people started to call me hairy or gave me such nicknames as chubacca. I felt alone...
    jeednorrozec jeednorrozec 13-15, F 3 Responses May 16

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    My own younger brother lives in a different state and won't talk to me. he hngs up when I call. he won't text me back. we won't say I love you or goodnight. it hurts. it hurts more...
    XxautychanxX XxautychanxX 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I try to make people happy when I shouldn't and I always end up getting Screwed in the long run :( but I have to help so? Idk what to do
    CrystalMuffins CrystalMuffins 13-15, F 5 Responses May 10

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    every night I come hone and isolate myself. I try not to take my day out on my family so they don't hurt me. I know its bad to keep isolated. but every night I have a new scar or a...
    Sadiemay523 Sadiemay523 18-21, F 3 Responses May 14

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    sometimes I just cannot care... it's just the person that I am and I always end up being the hurt one... anyone agree?
    ItsBaddie ItsBaddie 18-21 2 Responses May 21

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    Temporal values is placing a higher value on possessions position power or personal goals than on relationships with others The focus is usually on my rights my needs and my goals...
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M Apr 30

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    Well I hope you enjoy your weekend! take care :)
    Tripp93 Tripp93 18-21, M 3 Responses May 15

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    I wished more people spread the power of love and compassion instead of hatred, or disregard for others. Instead of tossing others aside to simply achieve goals.
    eatthekids1stplease eatthekids1stplease 18-21, M May 18

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    Said it wasn't for the sex, still dipped on me. Said you were really down for me, still dipped. Said you changed, still dipped. Said you really wanted this, still dipped. Could've...
    constancerainey constancerainey 18-21, F May 6

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