I Care Too Much About People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 517 People

    Loss Of Control

    I used to be the "got to" person among my friends. Whenever there was a problem that needed fixing or someone needed a shoulder to cry on, I was there. I was proud of my position, it gave me purpose and a sense of self-satisfaction. I never realised how little I cared...
    AnOpenBook AnOpenBook
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2009

    I Realised To Late I Gave Too Much Credit For Others

    especially my realtives ... I used to feel sorry for other people a lot and I would cry for them and they probably didnt even like me I have cried over many people suffering and I remember a little boy in PNG he couldn;t walk I just felt like hugging that boy and giving him any...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Mar 6, 2011

    Uhh Don'T Kno

    have been hurt for caring to much about people lately it's like a habit some people say it's a good habit but it actually hurts me when I see someone cry , I just can't bear seeing that person cry because I don't want them to go what I went through some people say I have a...
    lonelybeast1346 lonelybeast1346
    16-17, F
    Nov 22, 2013
    codydobb codydobb
    18-21, F
    Apr 4, 2014

    I imagine only in my world this can be

    but I'm sure it's a very common experience. Very rarely do I connect with others especially those I find judgmental. Very seldomly do I find a man who prays. Someone who loves and is honest. My heart is broken. want is the truth. When I have nothing left to say, I wish you well...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 16, 2014

    I Need Your Help!

    Ok, my friend has fallen for a tenth grader and she is in seventh!!! they have been texting for two years and have fallen head over heels for each other! She wanted my advice on what to do but idk what to say or do other than be there for her!! she is younger than me so idk her...
    heartbroken15 heartbroken15
    18-21, F
    May 14, 2013

    Always....

    If I truly care about you, it is unconditional. Even if you lie to me, backstab me, take advantage, act moody and thoughtless, I still care. And I hate that. It makes me come across as weak and like I have a sign on my head saying *Take advantage, do what you want to me. I will...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 10, 2011

    I Cant Stop It, When Ever I Feel So Depressed an

    even Suicidal, And Then A Friend Is UpSet I Force My Feelings Away And Help My Friends, But While Im Helping I Just Feel Eveen Worse But I Still Push The Feelings Away.
    PrincessMarshmellow PrincessMarshmellow
    18-21, F
    Dec 3, 2014

    People..

    I hate really like telling people how I honestly feel cause I hate hurting peoples feelings and what they will think about me. I also have a hard time standing up for myself specially with people I find close to me.
    jessjess0625 jessjess0625
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2009

    :/ it's all my fault.

    .. I'm having a bad day, your having a bad day lets leave it at that eh?
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3
    16-17, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    Working with Alzheimer's patients has

    introduced me to loss. I care for all of the residents I am blessed to visit with every week. They unwillingly call me their daughter and I tear up when they hold my hand and ask me to never leave their side. But what happens when I'm forced to let them go?
    stayhappyitsmadi stayhappyitsmadi
    18-21, F
    Apr 30, 2014

    I don't mind caring about other people

    but i hate it when I loose that person. When i show my caring side towards them I just can't stop thinking about them.... When I try to text them and they don't text me back in like 1 or 2 hours, that side kicks in and I get worried and depressed. I don't like showing my caring...
    drs0307 drs0307
    16-17, F
    Apr 2, 2014

    When your ex texts you say sorry

    for all the **** he put me through. And all I say is **** off ******* 👊 bad day... :L
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3
    16-17, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    Ever since my mom's passing,

    who was my best friend, I got to see who my real friends and family are, and not to mention how strong I can be when I bring my situation to Christ. The thing I hate about myself is that I care sooooooo much about people, put them first before myself, and yet when I'm in...
    GarnetRoses GarnetRoses
    26-30, F
    Mar 2, 2015

    My "friends" struggle to remember my name

    but I would give up my life for them. Is it bad to love people when they don't even want you in their life? There's many things going through my mind when I think about how my friends don't really care about me. I can't stay mad at them even when they hurt me. I end up taking...
    TryingToLiveLife TryingToLiveLife
    18-21, F
    Jan 17, 2015

    Lost contact with someone a week

    and a few days ago.. So worried about what might've happened..
    KujoTheNeko KujoTheNeko
    16-17, M
    Jan 16, 2015

    When Everything Stings...

    There was a man who saw a bee floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the bee stung him. The man still tried to get the bee out of the water, but the stung him again, another man nearby told him to stop. But he said: "It is in the...
    Misch Misch
    22-25, F
    Apr 12, 2012

    I care too much and never get the same back.

    It's it just too much for people to take the time?
    Babyneedsherdaddy Babyneedsherdaddy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

    The positive side to this,

    is that when someone I know has walked almost the same path as me I'll try my hardest to make it easier for them. I go out of my way to remain their friend and if they are going through a crisis, I'll be the first one there. Sometimes I screw it up by getting too involved or I...
    DaFufinator DaFufinator
    22-25, M
    Aug 30, 2014

    It's Always Been Him

    It's been three years since I met him... Nearly Two Years since we first got together...and eleven months since we broke up.... and I've gotta say... I miss him sooooooo much... He's changed a lot... yes... I know.... but it's not who he is that I'm in love with... not who he was...
    SouthernPrincess29 SouthernPrincess29
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 4, 2012

    I love helping people.

    People i dont even know. I hate seeing people in pain or depressed. I try to help everyone who is suicidal because life is worth it. I was saved and now im very happy. I wish everyone could stop being depressed.
    Stressed14 Stressed14
    18-21, F
    Jul 3, 2014

    I'm Too Nice

    I've spent most of my life being taken advantage of. This is because I'm trusting and caring of other people. Too much so. I wish I could develop a tough exterior and not be so affected by the issues of others. Case in point, when stories of animal or child abuse come on the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 24, 2012
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