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I Care Too Much About People

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    I Need Your Help!

    Ok, my friend has fallen for a tenth grader and she is in seventh!!! they have been texting for two years and have fallen head over heels for each other! She wanted my advice on what to do but idk what to say or do other than be there for her!! she is younger than me so idk her...
    heartbroken15 heartbroken15 16-17, F May 14, 2013

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    I love helping people.

    People i dont even know. I hate seeing people in pain or depressed. I try to help everyone who is suicidal because life is worth it. I was saved and now im very happy. I wish everyone could stop being depressed.
    tribetown tribetown 16-17, M Jul 3

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    I care too much and never get the same back.

    It's it just too much for people to take the time?
    Babyneedsherdaddy Babyneedsherdaddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    It's Always Been Him

    It's been three years since I met him... Nearly Two Years since we first got together...and eleven months since we broke up.... and I've gotta say... I miss him sooooooo much... He's changed a lot... yes... I know.... but it's not who he is that I'm in love with... not who he was...
    SouthernPrincess29 SouthernPrincess29 16-17, F 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    codydobb codydobb 16-17, F Apr 4

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    Working with Alzheimer's patients has

    introduced me to loss. I care for all of the residents I am blessed to visit with every week. They unwillingly call me their daughter and I tear up when they hold my hand and ask me to never leave their side. But what happens when I'm forced to let them go?
    stayhappyitsmadi stayhappyitsmadi 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    Always....

    If I truly care about you, it is unconditional. Even if you lie to me, backstab me, take advantage, act moody and thoughtless, I still care. And I hate that. It makes me come across as weak and like I have a sign on my head saying *Take advantage, do what you want to me. I will...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2011

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    People..

    I hate really like telling people how I honestly feel cause I hate hurting peoples feelings and what they will think about me. I also have a hard time standing up for myself specially with people I find close to me.
    punkishgreeny punkishgreeny 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    The positive side to this,

    is that when someone I know has walked almost the same path as me I'll try my hardest to make it easier for them. I go out of my way to remain their friend and if they are going through a crisis, I'll be the first one there. Sometimes I screw it up by getting too involved or I...
    DaFufinator DaFufinator 18-21, M Aug 30

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    I Realised To Late I Gave Too Much Credit For Others

    especially my realtives ... I used to feel sorry for other people a lot and I would cry for them and they probably didnt even like me I have cried over many people suffering and I remember a little boy in PNG he couldn;t walk I just felt like hugging that boy and giving him any...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 6, 2011

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    Uhh Don'T Kno

    have been hurt for caring to much about people lately it's like a habit some people say it's a good habit but it actually hurts me when I see someone cry , I just can't bear seeing that person cry because I don't want them to go what I went through some people say I have a...
    lonelybeast1346 lonelybeast1346 13-15, F Nov 22, 2013

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    When Everything Stings...

    There was a man who saw a bee floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the bee stung him. The man still tried to get the bee out of the water, but the stung him again, another man nearby told him to stop. But he said: "It is in the...
    Misch Misch 22-25, F Apr 12, 2012

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    I imagine only in my world this can be

    but I'm sure it's a very common experience. Very rarely do I connect with others especially those I find judgmental. Very seldomly do I find a man who prays. Someone who loves and is honest. My heart is broken. want is the truth. When I have nothing left to say, I wish you well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16

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    I hate how I care too much about people

    when they don't care about me at all
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Jul 29

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    Loss Of Control

    I used to be the "got to" person among my friends. Whenever there was a problem that needed fixing or someone needed a shoulder to cry on, I was there. I was proud of my position, it gave me purpose and a sense of self-satisfaction. I never realised how little I cared...
    AnOpenBook AnOpenBook 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2009

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    I don't mind caring about other people

    but i hate it when I loose that person. When i show my caring side towards them I just can't stop thinking about them.... When I try to text them and they don't text me back in like 1 or 2 hours, that side kicks in and I get worried and depressed. I don't like showing my caring...
    drs0307 drs0307 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I'm Too Nice

    I've spent most of my life being taken advantage of. This is because I'm trusting and caring of other people. Too much so. I wish I could develop a tough exterior and not be so affected by the issues of others. Case in point, when stories of animal or child abuse come on the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Hmm. I thought I was mostly over that. Well, now I know my next step. I was originally supposed to have the weekend off, which is rare, since evidently I'm the only person they...
    OneEarth2 OneEarth2 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 13

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    I don't always say a lot of things about how I care too much about people who have been around me and I probably do the same thing when I realize they had already hurt me. This is...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I'm guilty of caring too much about people. They see me as a nice giving person but no one ever stops to give to me in return. Once people get what they want or need from you, they...
    FireQueen10 FireQueen10 22-25, F Sep 13

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    I care too much about others i go out my way for people and most don't even appreciate it.
    RoughLife88 RoughLife88 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Everyone wants acceptance and approval. I worry too much about what others perceive me as that I get self-conscious about anything that I do. It's hard to obtain a careless...
    anitamigna anitamigna 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I care and think about people I first met . When they don't texts me I get worried. Thinking what I done why they not responding. I cry sometimes. I'm so desperate to find love. I...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm just beginning to think I cared too much... That's what just happened....
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    What I like about drinking is that after a few drinks I don't care about the critics. They say I drink too much, I eat too much, beer has too many calories, I shouldn't wear this...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    When you do this "couldn't care less" act. Your hurting yourself by hurting others When you act like you don't care about a person who cares so much for you it hurts them deeply I...
    HisMsLane HisMsLane 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    I think I trust too much actually. I use to, if I just met you, give you my complete trust. Until you broke it, you had it. A lot of people break things when they didn't have to...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In my life i was born to be a noce person i tend to care about people i get attached to alot actually quite protective always seemed to give love even tho i didnt always get it...
    Queen1993 Queen1993 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I don't exactly know why. I guess it's because I'm a very sensitive person. I'm fragile and my feelings hurt easily. I always wanted to be one of those people who didn't care what...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm GREAT at pretending to not care what people think. But inside I am very fluid. It is important for me to realize that I am easy to influence because if I don't, then what...
    pinkcyclopsowl pinkcyclopsowl 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Actually I don't care one bit unless they have significant value to me. Other than that, screw them we are all going to die one day so why bother caring what they think.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I dont care about physical comments but if someone talk about my 'life'(job, relationships etc.) it makes me so angry.
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I used to have a friend a kind of people that uses everyone for her own benefits no matter how. I was too kind and too naive to face her with her lies. The day i was no longer of...
    thesunlover thesunlover 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    why do I care about you so much? you're just 1 in 7,000,000,000. no, you're my 1 in 7,000,000,000.
    thefandomthief thefandomthief 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    After a while it becomes exhausting and you just want to take some time for yourself. Always worrying about everyone else and taking care of their needs can take its toll. Wish...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    If you knew I cared about you..... :,(
    Emoheartbroken Emoheartbroken 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    People say I'm heartless and I'm always seen smiling, but I'm actually a super sensitive person.
    Riukkuyo Riukkuyo 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ever loved someone so much, no matter what, you'll always be there for that person?
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Ever loved someone so much, no matter what, you'll always be there for that person?
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    So today i decided to throw my gf a surprise party.. The problem with that is, she never wants to do anything. Not even leave the ******* house.. I told her my friend was going to...
    young4orce young4orce 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    10 Encouraging Bible Verses About Helping Others It is in the nature of all of us to be selfish and want to put our own needs and desires before others. The Bible gives clear...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    I'd love to have a tougher skin, and shrug things off, but I can't.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Is it worth it? I'm beginning to think it isn't.
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend just broke up with me. He says he has a lot of things to do and he doesn't have the time for me. We live far away but I was the one who would drive to his house and...
    Valc02 Valc02 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everything , that happen from past to current is in my mind , because i wonder what if that will happen today or when will it happen , or is it going to happen again !
    AliseaBerry69 AliseaBerry69 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Is it really too much to expect so much more from another person? I didn't use to think that expecting a spouse to love you, be there for you, or simply talk to you would be too...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I drink abit too much for my age but who cares ?! Who cares if one day i drink too much and don't wake up, no one would give a crap. It takes away memories and replace them with...
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    The memories of my childhood are so special to me. Thanks to my father, he chose me to be his daughter. He could of had a son. He could of picked a girl with blonde hair...but he...
    Eyedontgiveahoot Eyedontgiveahoot 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate when people shout, when they talk loud and even if they just close the door loudly. I can't stand too much noise, it just makes me uncomfortable. I get sad and scared at the...
    ParkerFewer ParkerFewer 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago