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    I Cant Stop It, When Ever I Feel So Depressed an

    even Suicidal, And Then A Friend Is UpSet I Force My Feelings Away And Help My Friends, But While Im Helping I Just Feel Eveen Worse But I Still Push The Feelings Away 🌼Kitten🌼
    SweetAngelFrostPup SweetAngelFrostPup 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2014

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    codydobb codydobb 16-17, F Apr 4, 2014

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    I'm Too Nice

    I've spent most of my life being taken advantage of. This is because I'm trusting and caring of other people. Too much so. I wish I could develop a tough exterior and not be so affected by the issues of others. Case in point, when stories of animal or child abuse come on the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    When Everything Stings...

    There was a man who saw a bee floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the bee stung him. The man still tried to get the bee out of the water, but the stung him again, another man nearby told him to stop. But he said: "It is in the...
    Misch Misch 22-25, F Apr 12, 2012

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    I Need Your Help!

    Ok, my friend has fallen for a tenth grader and she is in seventh!!! they have been texting for two years and have fallen head over heels for each other! She wanted my advice on what to do but idk what to say or do other than be there for her!! she is younger than me so idk her...
    heartbroken15 heartbroken15 16-17, F May 14, 2013

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    I imagine only in my world this can be

    but I'm sure it's a very common experience. Very rarely do I connect with others especially those I find judgmental. Very seldomly do I find a man who prays. Someone who loves and is honest. My heart is broken. want is the truth. When I have nothing left to say, I wish you well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16, 2014

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    Always....

    If I truly care about you, it is unconditional. Even if you lie to me, backstab me, take advantage, act moody and thoughtless, I still care. And I hate that. It makes me come across as weak and like I have a sign on my head saying *Take advantage, do what you want to me. I will...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2011

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    Ever since my mom's passing,

    who was my best friend, I got to see who my real friends and family are, and not to mention how strong I can be when I bring my situation to Christ. The thing I hate about myself is that I care sooooooo much about people, put them first before myself, and yet when I'm in...
    GarnetRoses GarnetRoses 22-25, F Mar 2

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    I Realised To Late I Gave Too Much Credit For Others

    especially my realtives ... I used to feel sorry for other people a lot and I would cry for them and they probably didnt even like me I have cried over many people suffering and I remember a little boy in PNG he couldn;t walk I just felt like hugging that boy and giving him any...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 6, 2011

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    It's Always Been Him

    It's been three years since I met him... Nearly Two Years since we first got together...and eleven months since we broke up.... and I've gotta say... I miss him sooooooo much... He's changed a lot... yes... I know.... but it's not who he is that I'm in love with... not who he was...
    SouthernPrincess29 SouthernPrincess29 16-17, F 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    When your ex texts you say sorry

    for all the **** he put me through. And all I say is **** off ******* 👊 bad day... :L
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I hate how I care too much about people

    when they don't care about me at all
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Jul 29, 2014

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    People..

    I hate really like telling people how I honestly feel cause I hate hurting peoples feelings and what they will think about me. I also have a hard time standing up for myself specially with people I find close to me.
    punkishgreeny punkishgreeny 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    I care too much and never get the same back.

    It's it just too much for people to take the time?
    Babyneedsherdaddy Babyneedsherdaddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    Working with Alzheimer's patients has

    introduced me to loss. I care for all of the residents I am blessed to visit with every week. They unwillingly call me their daughter and I tear up when they hold my hand and ask me to never leave their side. But what happens when I'm forced to let them go?
    stayhappyitsmadi stayhappyitsmadi 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2014

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    Loss Of Control

    I used to be the "got to" person among my friends. Whenever there was a problem that needed fixing or someone needed a shoulder to cry on, I was there. I was proud of my position, it gave me purpose and a sense of self-satisfaction. I never realised how little I cared...
    AnOpenBook AnOpenBook 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2009

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    My "friends" struggle to remember my name

    but I would give up my life for them. Is it bad to love people when they don't even want you in their life? There's many things going through my mind when I think about how my friends don't really care about me. I can't stay mad at them even when they hurt me. I end up taking...
    TryingToLiveLife TryingToLiveLife 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Uhh Don'T Kno

    have been hurt for caring to much about people lately it's like a habit some people say it's a good habit but it actually hurts me when I see someone cry , I just can't bear seeing that person cry because I don't want them to go what I went through some people say I have a...
    lonelybeast1346 lonelybeast1346 13-15, F Nov 22, 2013

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    I don't mind caring about other people

    but i hate it when I loose that person. When i show my caring side towards them I just can't stop thinking about them.... When I try to text them and they don't text me back in like 1 or 2 hours, that side kicks in and I get worried and depressed. I don't like showing my caring...
    drs0307 drs0307 18-21, F Apr 2, 2014

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    :/ it's all my fault.

    .. I'm having a bad day, your having a bad day lets leave it at that eh?
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I love helping people.

    People i dont even know. I hate seeing people in pain or depressed. I try to help everyone who is suicidal because life is worth it. I was saved and now im very happy. I wish everyone could stop being depressed.
    Stressed14 Stressed14 16-17, M Jul 3, 2014

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    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Nov 17, 2014

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    The positive side to this,

    is that when someone I know has walked almost the same path as me I'll try my hardest to make it easier for them. I go out of my way to remain their friend and if they are going through a crisis, I'll be the first one there. Sometimes I screw it up by getting too involved or I...
    DaFufinator DaFufinator 18-21, M Aug 30, 2014

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    Lost contact with someone a week

    and a few days ago.. So worried about what might've happened..
    KujoTheNeko KujoTheNeko 16-17, M Jan 16

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    You know what I find funny? That there was a point in time where you had a best friend and told them everything and now they dont even text to see if you're okay or even text you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 7

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    And I'm one of those people but I'm not prepared to be poor .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    When I was young I was brought up constantly being told that money was scarce and that we couldn't spare even a single dollar on "unnecessary" things. This has roots in the...
    BenignSoul BenignSoul 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    It is essential and certainly makes life easier, but ultimately it only leads half way down the road to happiness
    Procrastin8 Procrastin8 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why do i care so much i guess its just who i am. Some log off and do not give a second thought to those on line for me that has never ever been the case. I care too much for people...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 17 Responses Apr 3

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    I think I care too much about the people who couldn't give less than 2shits about me, and my existence and sometimes knowing that. I end up crying myself to sleep... Especially...
    QueenofIceandRoses QueenofIceandRoses 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I feel like I care too much for the wrong people and for the wrong things. Every single ******* time i start to care for someone they take advantage of it and act like they don't...
    Photographybrat Photographybrat 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Who is worse. Those who care too much. Or those who hurt the caring for profit.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Even though I it seems like I don't care about what anyone thinks, I do care and I care way too much. i stopped smoking weed because it makes the anxiety unbearable to the point of...
    HLeeT HLeeT 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I care way too much and take everything too seriously. And nothing can take the pain away that I feel from my let downs at least nothing I've found yet.
    ReneeTay ReneeTay 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    i think too much. my brain hurts. i get paranoid. i am going insane.
    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    In my head and heart, I tend to distance myself from former and current friends and acquaintances; in reality, then, I spend my effort trying to feel fulfilled doing things alone...
    amarian amarian 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    A few years ago I made a friend at work and soon after another friend, who I may or may not have had a crush on...okay I totally did and the first friend knew it. Unbenounced to me...
    ChristinaWrites ChristinaWrites 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    About me, about, what I do or don't do, and even about the guy I THINK I'd like to date...
    Naockey Naockey 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm fed up of caring wish I could be like everyone else, just not give a **** and carry on as normal. Every person that walks into my life makes me feel worthless and not good...
    GhostGirl97 GhostGirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Lol. Lmao. Too often. Lol. Have begged God to lessen it. Did drugs. Tried medications. And my caring grew. Plus rage grew. So many deluded critics...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 10

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    WTFFFF! Sooo many people I talk to, I never get a text form them first... What the actual fučk? Am I not good enough to talk to you? Okay.. Thanks for that.
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    The more you care the more you get hurt and the more you have too lose
    Sw33love Sw33love 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Killed a bug. Shed it two times. Then killed it. And felt bad. Went to pick up glass. To make amends. But still feel horrid. And hate the people who caused it...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 4

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