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I Care Too Much About People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 360 People

    Loss Of Control

    I used to be the "got to" person among my friends. Whenever there was a problem that needed fixing or someone needed a shoulder to cry on, I was there. I was proud of my position, it gave me purpose and a sense of self-satisfaction. I never realised how little I cared...
    AnOpenBook AnOpenBook 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2009

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    I Realised To Late I Gave Too Much Credit For Others

    especially my realtives ... I used to feel sorry for other people a lot and I would cry for them and they probably didnt even like me I have cried over many people suffering and I remember a little boy in PNG he couldn;t walk I just felt like hugging that boy and giving him any...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 6, 2011

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    I Need Your Help!

    Ok, my friend has fallen for a tenth grader and she is in seventh!!! they have been texting for two years and have fallen head over heels for each other! She wanted my advice on what to do but idk what to say or do other than be there for her!! she is younger than me so idk her...
    heartbroken15 heartbroken15 16-17, F May 14, 2013

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    I care too much and never get the same back.

    It's it just too much for people to take the time?
    Babyneedsherdaddy Babyneedsherdaddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    Working with Alzheimer's patients has

    introduced me to loss. I care for all of the residents I am blessed to visit with every week. They unwillingly call me their daughter and I tear up when they hold my hand and ask me to never leave their side. But what happens when I'm forced to let them go?
    stayhappyitsmadi stayhappyitsmadi 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I imagine only in my world this can be

    but I'm sure it's a very common experience. Very rarely do I connect with others especially those I find judgmental. Very seldomly do I find a man who prays. Someone who loves and is honest. My heart is broken. want is the truth. When I have nothing left to say, I wish you well...
    stainedlove143 stainedlove143 31-35, F Jun 16

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    I don't mind caring about other people

    but i hate it when I loose that person. When i show my caring side towards them I just can't stop thinking about them.... When I try to text them and they don't text me back in like 1 or 2 hours, that side kicks in and I get worried and depressed. I don't like showing my caring...
    drs0307 drs0307 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I'm Too Nice

    I've spent most of my life being taken advantage of. This is because I'm trusting and caring of other people. Too much so. I wish I could develop a tough exterior and not be so affected by the issues of others. Case in point, when stories of animal or child abuse come on the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    codydobb codydobb 16-17, F Apr 4

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    People..

    I hate really like telling people how I honestly feel cause I hate hurting peoples feelings and what they will think about me. I also have a hard time standing up for myself specially with people I find close to me.
    punkishgreeny punkishgreeny 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    Always....

    If I truly care about you, it is unconditional. Even if you lie to me, backstab me, take advantage, act moody and thoughtless, I still care. And I hate that. It makes me come across as weak and like I have a sign on my head saying *Take advantage, do what you want to me. I will...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2011

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    When Everything Stings...

    There was a man who saw a bee floundering around in the water. He decided to save it by stretching out his finger, but the bee stung him. The man still tried to get the bee out of the water, but the stung him again, another man nearby told him to stop. But he said: "It is in the...
    Misch Misch 22-25, F Apr 12, 2012

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    Uhh Don'T Kno

    have been hurt for caring to much about people lately it's like a habit some people say it's a good habit but it actually hurts me when I see someone cry , I just can't bear seeing that person cry because I don't want them to go what I went through some people say I have a...
    lonelybeast1346 lonelybeast1346 13-15, F Nov 22, 2013

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    It's Always Been Him

    It's been three years since I met him... Nearly Two Years since we first got together...and eleven months since we broke up.... and I've gotta say... I miss him sooooooo much... He's changed a lot... yes... I know.... but it's not who he is that I'm in love with... not who he was...
    SouthernPrincess29 SouthernPrincess29 16-17, F 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    I love helping people.

    People i dont even know. I hate seeing people in pain or depressed. I try to help everyone who is suicidal because life is worth it. I was saved and now im very happy. I wish everyone could stop being depressed.
    tribetown tribetown 16-17, M Jul 3

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    Related Experiences

    I don't know why but I am too much into watching philosophical movies and feel like knowing so much about people. I have lost the sense of being "ignorant and unaware". Now it...
    unexpectedtraveller unexpectedtraveller 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    This is when I get hurt, I am a very emotional person with a lot of feelings! I can get attached to someone very quickly! Sometimes I realise but other times i dont until i get...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    It kind of varies. I care about everything, and then all of a sudden you can throw anything at me and I won't react much as if it takes too much effort. I probably do care at one...
    Katami Katami 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I think too much and that's why I always end up hurting myself than the other person. I'm no goody two shoes but I don't know why I seem to always be occupied with thoughts...
    MoonMusicLover22 MoonMusicLover22 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 15

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    I feel like I do so much for everybody.. And they don't even notice. I always end up getting hurt in the end but that never stops me from helping them still.. Sometimes I just wish...
    bebe805 bebe805 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Imagine this: you have a business trip in which you have to leave home for a month to meet and interact with another branch of your company. Now, imagine you're a closeted...
    youtubeninja youtubeninja 18-21, F Jul 15

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    Recently, me and my husband eloped and of course, my parents and family members were not okay with it. It got to the point where I was beginning to regret making the decision of...
    sarashay sarashay 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I can't help it as that is how i feel when see someone need help in anything. I get like pretty fast to help them out and dang. I find myself hurt from knowing i should stop caring...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 15

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    i am studying to be a doctor, so i'm not sure how these are bad qualities. in any case, they are one of the main reasons that my boyfriend broke up with me. it has left me reeling...
    flutterby75012 flutterby75012 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Love Old Cars and Trucks I Dont Know Much About Them Though
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    I either push the people I care most about away or I get too attached to people who don't care about me
    lizshiv lizshiv 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    It's so scary to think about how much I care. How much I've let my walls down around you. All I want is to love you, be there for you, and make you happy. I've had to put a lot of...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Sometimes I wish I were a selfish self-centered as*hole so I wouldn't get hurt so often. But no matter how much bitterness I've experienced so far, my heart just won't stop caring...
    greypurple87 greypurple87 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    It takes me a lot to post something. Many times, I have erased after typing and gone back to reading other posts. I just feel that I am revealing myself too much and that I should...
    Brokenhurricane Brokenhurricane 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    So the past few years, I've pretty much cleaned up my act. I've basically halted recreational drug use and do immense amounts of work. My goal is get into a PhD program and get...
    tigreemodela tigreemodela 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    i can just express my feelings and opinion and just everything through writing, i'm really bad at talking about what i think and feel. often people think i'm lazy or don't have an...
    wanderingwoods wanderingwoods 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I startes thinking too much when i was 17 an came across dating long distance. Im insecure about my image so i always thought why would she like me if i didnt like me? Whenever it...
    troubledB troubledB 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm too quiet in person, but get the feeling I message others too much on line. I'm sorry and it would help if someone talked to me first or managed a good way to tell me I'm...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 10

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    And it feels like life is passing me by. I aspire to change this drastically in 2-3 months. It's going to happen. It needs to happen. Life isn't all about money. If anything...
    aburns aburns 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Way way too much. I'm constantly worried about something, or someone
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F Jul 13

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    there is good in all of us ,i think i simply love too much , so much in fact that it makes me feel too ******* sad
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M Jul 16

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    I don't know if it too much or not. Either or I can't get enough of it :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 25

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    There is too much interesting and fun movies and series to watch
    lindahe lindahe 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I need way too much sleep. I can't wake up in the morning because I don't want to. Other nights I can't stop thinking long enough to sleep...
    gingerbetch gingerbetch 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I Use The Internet Too Much!!! 😑... One day without Internet... Feels like a month!!! (Kind of like a year!)
    Dawb183 Dawb183 13-15, F Jul 3

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    I hate how im overly protective, and overly jealous. I get too attached and i end up ******* things up. I loved too much and now i know they felt like i was taking their life away...
    LoveeIsLife LoveeIsLife 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I went into work early this morning because I never went to sleep last night. I was sick of laying there....and being busy is what I do best these days. Now I'm exhausted and...
    Triscuitan Triscuitan 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    i dnt know why today my mind wandering too much ?
    shiva76 shiva76 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't know what to do. My eyes are hurting badly. I am crying too much. Nothing seems to help me. I want to stop crying and escape from depression. I want to live normal life. I...
    themosthated themosthated 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Why do i think too much? Answers.
    cheffAri cheffAri 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Nearly 1:00 in the morning. Too much going through my mind. Grieving and lonely. Tomorrow will be brighter. Tomorrow will be better. If only tomorrow would come.
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Oh yes I was that girl, that girl that cared what people thought of her. I cared Somuch that I was never able to express how I felt, I was always worried what people would think of...
    itsjustbrit itsjustbrit 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    In grade four, I feel in love with a boy in my class.I had a crush on another, so he slowly lost his feelings for me and I paid less attention to him. Now in grade nine I realized...
    arcticSoul97 arcticSoul97 13-15, F Jul 5

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    This year I met a boy on EP he's adorable he is now my boy friend but he can't text that much I sit and stare at my phone all day waiting for text and when I get one I reply and...