I Care Too Much, That Is How I Get Hurt

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    i am what some doctors call emotioanally

    retarted (i dont talk to docs anymore) and i push away from everyone cuz once i have.a real friend i cant do one thing witgout feeling bad about it i tryed everthing to make it up to my friend when all i did was accedently hurt her feelings and it not just sadness if my friend...
    emo22mystic emo22mystic
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2016

    And this is how he rolls: Lies,

    lies, lies, sweet, lies, lies, lies, **** off, lies, lies, lies, love you, lies, lies, lies, i'm sorry, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies, lies.
    neverlosethatfeeling neverlosethatfeeling
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    I told you I miss you.

    .. You had not a clue as to how hard admitting that was for me. You blamed me for us not talking, when you knew it was the other way around. I accepted it. You said you don't care, once. I tried to brush it off, saying you were just in a bad mood.. You said you didn't care...
    Almostmadeit Almostmadeit
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2015

    Happens every time pouring your heart out to

    someone and they treat you like crap 😔
    ZaharaRlove ZaharaRlove
    18-21, F
    Jan 16, 2016

    I care so much about others,

    I know that for a fact. It's just so hard sometimes to care about everyone. When I go on EP and look at people's profiles and their experiences, I want to find out more about their personality and likes and dislikes, but most of the time I see people who are struggling with life...
    notthatoneguy notthatoneguy
    16-17, M
    4 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    It's just me. i start developing feelings

    for you and i try not to care so much but it ends up kicking me in the face.
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2016

    The easiest way to not get hurt is to not care ,

    but that's the hardest thing to do
    oJosepho oJosepho
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    I gotta stop drowning

    for people who won't even get into the damn water for me.
    weirduo weirduo
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    Don't get involved with a person

    that is younger than you,unless you want to be on an emotional roller coaster!!!!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    And sometimes you just gotta stop drowning

    for people who won't even get in the water for you. At the end of the day, you just have yourself.
    lucerein lucerein
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    I always care to much about people

    and I would do anything for someone I care about and stop everything for someone just to talk to them and just be there for them but I never get that back and now I keep feeling like I'm losing her I'm losing my best friend and it makes me feel so alone and empty inside like no...
    Vrl1022 Vrl1022
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    I wear my heart on my sleeve

    and It gets hurt more often. Maybe its why i choose to isolate so im not getting hurt again.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I'm tired of being used by people

    and then just thrown away.
    DesiresMore DesiresMore
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    And that is why I couldn't be successful in a

    customer service job. I cared too much about the customers' problems and felt badly when I couldn't fix them. When I told many of my customers that we weren't able to do what they were asking us to do (such as eliminate certain charges from their bills or shorten the amount of...
    TeresaRudolph71 TeresaRudolph71
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    I always end up caring

    for people more than they will ever care for me. I make them important in my life while I am just another replaceable friend. It sucks but hey, I can only take a chance and hope to find someone who can make me feel special and can actually make me feel like I matter.
    bluesky1223 bluesky1223
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Oct 30, 2015

    I know some thing are not my problem

    but I can't help it.I don't want anyone hurt
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    My crush... *sigh* I try to text him.

    ..he takes an eternity to text back. The last time I texted him, he didn't even take two minutes to answer... I think of him constantly and can't wait to see him face to face again. I really like him...he's flirted with me and everything...I really hope he is genuine, but... is...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 6, 2015

    guys, I really need some advise.

    I have a weird experience in my office. well, everybody welcomed me so well when I started working a year ago. I made friends so easily and even got close to 3 friends. I care for them, we made so many memories, we had fun that I never had before, Everything was "too" nice that...
    KayAbbey KayAbbey
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    I had a "friend" who was really a life-sucker

    and a douchebag. Yet I'm the loser who actually stayed and put up with it all and kept being nice and understanding. I'm really stupid. Naive, nice, understanding, polite, apologetic, forgiving, caring, peaceful, quiet, shy, always thinking about the other person - not all bad...
    maybemaybenotwhat maybemaybenotwhat
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    I learned to care people not

    because I'm a good person, but because I know how it feels when no one cares -_-
    bR0k3nWings bR0k3nWings
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    I care too much about what people think of me

    which makes me get hurt not knowing how to stop caring about anything.
    breakinghope breakinghope
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016
    Exita Exita
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    So I said earlier that I posted "that's ironic"

    on my Ex's post and she deleted the comment so now I put "that's cool if you want to delete my comment, but you and I both know it's true" now we wait again *comment gets deleted again*
    UnitedStatesAirman UnitedStatesAirman
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    It hurts when you think about someone care

    about him and consider him important but he does not think of you that way.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    I swear, falling in love is one of the best

    feelings ever. thinking the person you love feels that way about you is even better. having to cope with the newfound information that the person you love was using you is the worst feeling ever
    gummyofallbears gummyofallbears
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Oct 31, 2015
    SharoofRushdi SharoofRushdi
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016

    When the best part of your day is sleeping,

    because nothing can hurt you when you're asleep..
    YouBrokeMe YouBrokeMe
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2015

    I wish I could let tears fall down to clean

    and clear my soul and heart. I get hurt over and over again. I know it's my fault, I know I just need to stop letting people hurt me... I always look and care the wrong way...
    mimiromy mimiromy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2016

    Why are some people so insensitive in the sense

    they can say or tell you anything and expect you to not feel bad or get offended because they think they won't feel the same way as you from the things they have to say. You might think you have the right to not care about how others feel but try taking a second to put yourself...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher
    22-25, F
    May 9, 2015

    Maybe if I was a cold hard ***** to people then

    I wouldn't get hurt constantly, but my soul is to nice. I try not to care but it's to hard cause I'm just way too nice.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    You know I tried to care about you

    and I still do but it sucks and it it hurts more than you probably care to think about when I'm the only one who cares
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    Fuc,k the liers who say they love you

    but they really don't Fuc,k the pretenders who'll make you believe when nothing true Fuc,k the maniacs who'll do everything to score Fuc,k those best friends who make you fall for them and be shock when you do. They even have the nerve to hug you while your heart is breaking and...
    mysticalexis224 mysticalexis224
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2016

    Over and over and over again.

    I'm stupid. You'd think I learn but I can't help it. I'll always care about every friend that touches my life, no matter how much they hurt me. I'm very forgiving maybe in some ways that's actually a weakness.
    christy0909 christy0909
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    I hate myself for being me.

    .for being thoughtful to someone.just because I care too much...and now I am the one who really hurt..
    ehcehc26 ehcehc26
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 20, 2015

    So my Ex dumped me and the VERY next day she

    was dating someone else (this was weeks ago) and it's been getting to me very badly and she posted on her Facebook page "after a break up, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damage until healed. And the other one is already in another relationship" I commented "talk...
    UnitedStatesAirman UnitedStatesAirman
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    Perhaps one of the worst thing is knowing you

    were willing to try but you were never even an option. You were just someone to pass the time with until they found someone else. This is why rule number 1 is to NEVER get ATTACHED.
    LionPrincess03 LionPrincess03
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I'm sorry I need to rant.

    I'm so sick of caring about people and do anything for them and feeling like **** for it! Why do I feel bad for caring!?
    funblondee funblondee
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    Ahhhh omfg always crying over stupid ****

    that doesn't matter with friends! I always thinks I'm annoying them or letting them down in someway!
    haydenkayy haydenkayy
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2016

    I have this tendency of caring too much.

    I would do anything for the people that matter to me and are important to me. Sometimes it causes me to get hurt because I care more than they do. It sucks. I definitely going to try not to make that mistake again.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 7, 2016

    why did I let myself fall

    for her. it was so stupid and I knew it and now I'm just hurt. I need to give up on love altogether . I think I just might...
    SolGryn SolGryn
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    I wear my heart on my sleeve.

    ..wish I owned a different shirt but I don't...
    311trixie 311trixie
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    i had a best friend. cared

    for him like a best friend should. but he didnt understand. he used me up and through me in the dumps if you get my expretion. but he used me and it hurts i know. but dont look back keep moving forwards. dont look back, youll only cause more hurt in your heart and soul.
    LoneWolfLogan LoneWolfLogan
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    Unfortunately, I am probably one of the most

    caring people you will ever meet in your life. I say unfortunately because that is how I get hurt the most. I would say without a doubt it's one of my worst flaws. I'm working to be more selective on the people I care most about. But once you've shown your true colors-who YOU...
    jessjess0625 jessjess0625
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    I have just accepted the fact

    that its just apart of who I am.
    Knightt15 Knightt15
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    I can't help but to care about someone

    who used to make me happy. Somehow though, he always seemed to make me feel like I don't matter anymore. I can't get him out of my head. I just want to stop thinking about how our lives could've turned out if I would've forgiven him just one last time. I could've just kept...
    emmareneee emmareneee
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    I had a broken heart

    and I managed to fix it, grew strong and I was fine, happy. Then there was you. You made me happier. made me feel loved. Then the truth came out and there goes my heart. I fixed it, only for you to break it. Everyday... almost. With such sweet words... music to my ears.. but...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    Ohhh there are many people

    who dislike to be liked by someone! If you are fortunate or unfortunate enough to be that person, acknowledge it and accept it as it is and move on. Move on to a different path and don't get yourself hurt! I am sorry if I've ever made your day hard.
    whyacinth whyacinth
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    Ugh do you know what it's like having someone

    say that they don't have anyone but you have been there for them for as long as you remember ?? Yea well I do and it sucks trust. I cared to much for this girl she was my best friend I would always pick up the pieces when her boyfriend would break them and she doesn't appreciate...
    11shanaynay 11shanaynay
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 21, 2016

    people says love is the most powerfuk weapon

    which can break the ego and all stuff but sometimes love become the most dangerous weapon which can broke u soo badly that i might not able to stand up again
    grovernik grovernik
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    Less friends, less bs.

    Keep your circle small, and cans cold
    Kurlzz3Tears Kurlzz3Tears
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 7, 2015

    Thankyou for makin it hard to sleep

    and easy to cry. Thankyou for all the pain. Thankyou for the sick feeling in my stomach and making my days stressful. Thankyou for being the only one thing that my mind can really think about. for controlling my life like this. Thankyou for not always wanting to talk to me and i...
    niks0894 niks0894
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Jun 25, 2015
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