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I Caught My Wife Having Sex

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    Las Vegas

    after a night out on the town and getting pretty drunk. Me, my wife and my best friend came back to the hotel. I went to go take a shower and when I came back out of the shower. my wife and friend were going at it on one of the beds. I remember saying "you started without me...
    guitarman54 guitarman54 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    Charlie Came Early ...

    I knew my wife had been seeing a mutual friend of ours for about six months, mostly when she went out of town. He was semi-retired, she was bored and wanted company. In fact, I had heard them ******* once when she didn't hang up the phone good. I could hear pretty clearly what...
    playswellwithothers playswellwithothers 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    Caught With Another Woman

    About 2 years ago ac ouple my wife and I knew divorced. Jim moved away and Mindy was at our house most every night. Which was not a problem since my wife and I both really like her being around.Mindy did go out on dates but nothing serious. She did state that she has not gotten...
    mkieffer mkieffer 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 24, 2010

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    Married To Lara

    So did I.. it was great!
    marriedtolara marriedtolara 26-30 4 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    Business Deal?

    So technically not my wife, my fiancee... but I totally busted her a couple of months ago. Her and I go to the gym almost every night, and I have never understood why it is we can't go to the same one. I go to a very nice one a little farther away from the house, while she goes...
    WhamSam20 WhamSam20 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    My **** Wife

    not once but many times i have caught her red handed getting ****** by others first i used to get angry and beat her up then now its become a part of life
    leevanchoo leevanchoo 31-35, M 2 Responses May 21, 2012

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    Caught Her At A Party

    We had some friends over one Saturday night for a cookout. Everyone was drinking and listening to music. People were in the house and back yard talking and having fun. Late in the evening I went upstairs to use the bathroom and noticed our bedroom door was closed. I opened...
    memmaker memmaker 56-60, M May 25, 2013

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    The First Time I Caught My Now Ex-wife

                     I came home early and unexpected from work since I drive truck for a living I always kept odd hours away from home.   I got a load that delivered at the Power Plant less than an hour from the house.    I usually called if I was coming thru or...
    bugged10 bugged10 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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