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I Caused Someone to Quit Loving Me

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    What have I done?

    He wasnt my real brother...but he was there just like any brother would be, the brother I never had, and the brother I always wished for. He promised to protect me and understand. And for once, I actually believed. There wasnt any sign of betrayel in his voice, in his eyes and...
    PorcelainChinaDoll PorcelainChinaDoll 16-17, F Jul 17, 2010

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    Destroying My Other Half...

    I've been on this vicious cycle for so long... I've forgotten what it really feels like to love. I met him when I was 19, love at first sight sort of thing. We were inseparable, instant connection, envy of all our friends. It just felt like he's my other half. Nursing school came...
    ravendana ravendana 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    I Did.

    I feel the guilt everyday. People would say forget about it, move on with life. I know I will move on with my life but don't push me. You don't understand how I feel. I am the only who knows what I'm going through.
    anschel anschel 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    I Don't Like To...

    ...dwell on it these days, but yes...I caused my ex-girlfriend to stop loving me. We used really love each other. But then I started to make a few mistakes that really hurt her (no cheating or anything like that...I would NEVER do that.). With the mistakes came the arguing, and...
    kbarr82 kbarr82 31-35, M Nov 13, 2010

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    I Wish I Knew Why?

    To this day he's never admitted it.  He's never said it out loud.  I've wondered if it would give me peace and closure if I knew the real reason why someone that was once passionate about me no longer was.  Was it something that I did or didn't do?  The thing is when it was...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    My Family

    They don't love me anymore. Not my parents, not my brothers. The people who were supposed to love and protect me are now the ones I need to be protected from. Great reasons that hate, I deserve it, after all I ruind their lives. Now they just want me to go away.
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2008

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    I Nagged Alot Because I Wanted Him Here, But All It Did Was Push Him Farther Away

    I have never wrote on something like this before but I'm sitting here at 4:35 in the morning and I know he is out with HER. I have been with him for 6 years, since I was 17. We have a beautiful daughter. He has always provided financially but isnt there emotionally. I have had...
    kaida22 kaida22 22-25 2 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    am 8 yerads old i love imlive and sex sex sex
    jamesgadson jamesgadson 22-25 Nov 9, 2010

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    Love Ruined

    I lost my lover and soulmate because I got myself adicted to ********.  
    glendab glendab 61-65, M 2 Responses May 6, 2008

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    I Broke My Friend

    I had a female friend,Rachel, how i often went to when i was depressed. She couldn't take it anymore. I thought i was in love with her so when she did i attempted suicide. I later told her that and she couldn't handle it. I haven't heard from her in 3 weeks. I really do hope she...
    LeFackAttack LeFackAttack 16-17 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Only Everyone...

    Too many know what its like to wake up one day and realize the world isn't what you thought it was, that everything in it you though was real isn't. The same goes for love and those we love, to wake up one day and find all the people you cared about and thought cared...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 9 Responses May 12, 2008

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    It's A Hard Pill To Swallow

    But everyone I have ever lost and everyone that doesn't love me anymore, I drove them to feel that way. I've cheated on some of the best women in the world and there is no excuse for it, but it is the truth just the same. I turned my back on the raising my parents gave me and...
    letmeusethisname letmeusethisname 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 4, 2010

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    Tanner and I were together one year and known each other for 4 almost 5 years. Even thought I am only 17 I thought Tanner was "the one." He and I talked about getting married and everything. We WERE in love. I have severe depression and am bipolar. He just couldn't stand or...
    MaggotGirl666 MaggotGirl666 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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