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I Caused Someone to Quit Loving Me

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    Destroying My Other Half...

    I've been on this vicious cycle for so long... I've forgotten what it really feels like to love. I met him when I was 19, love at first sight sort of thing. We were inseparable, instant connection, envy of all our friends. It just felt like he's my other half. Nursing school came...
    ravendana ravendana 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Love Ruined

    I lost my lover and soulmate because I got myself adicted to ********.  
    glendab glendab 61-65, M 2 Responses May 6, 2008

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    I Did.

    I feel the guilt everyday. People would say forget about it, move on with life. I know I will move on with my life but don't push me. You don't understand how I feel. I am the only who knows what I'm going through.
    anschel anschel 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    I Nagged Alot Because I Wanted Him Here, But All It Did Was Push Him Farther Away

    I have never wrote on something like this before but I'm sitting here at 4:35 in the morning and I know he is out with HER. I have been with him for 6 years, since I was 17. We have a beautiful daughter. He has always provided financially but isnt there emotionally. I have had...
    kaida22 kaida22 22-25 2 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    I Wish I Knew Why?

    To this day he's never admitted it.  He's never said it out loud.  I've wondered if it would give me peace and closure if I knew the real reason why someone that was once passionate about me no longer was.  Was it something that I did or didn't do?  The thing is when it was...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    My Family

    They don't love me anymore. Not my parents, not my brothers. The people who were supposed to love and protect me are now the ones I need to be protected from. Great reasons that hate, I deserve it, after all I ruind their lives. Now they just want me to go away.
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2008

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    Tanner and I were together one year and known each other for 4 almost 5 years. Even thought I am only 17 I thought Tanner was "the one." He and I talked about getting married and everything. We WERE in love. I have severe depression and am bipolar. He just couldn't stand or...
    MaggotGirl666 MaggotGirl666 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    It's A Hard Pill To Swallow

    But everyone I have ever lost and everyone that doesn't love me anymore, I drove them to feel that way. I've cheated on some of the best women in the world and there is no excuse for it, but it is the truth just the same. I turned my back on the raising my parents gave me and...
    letmeusethisname letmeusethisname 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 4, 2010

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    Thecoolsjames

    am 8 yerads old i love imlive and sex sex sex
    jamesgadson jamesgadson 22-25 Nov 9, 2010

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    Only Everyone...

    Too many know what its like to wake up one day and realize the world isn't what you thought it was, that everything in it you though was real isn't. The same goes for love and those we love, to wake up one day and find all the people you cared about and thought cared...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 9 Responses May 12, 2008

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    What have I done?

    He wasnt my real brother...but he was there just like any brother would be, the brother I never had, and the brother I always wished for. He promised to protect me and understand. And for once, I actually believed. There wasnt any sign of betrayel in his voice, in his eyes and...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F Jul 17, 2010

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    I Broke My Friend

    I had a female friend,Rachel, how i often went to when i was depressed. She couldn't take it anymore. I thought i was in love with her so when she did i attempted suicide. I later told her that and she couldn't handle it. I haven't heard from her in 3 weeks. I really do hope she...
    LeFackAttack LeFackAttack 16-17 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    I Don't Like To...

    ...dwell on it these days, but yes...I caused my ex-girlfriend to stop loving me. We used really love each other. But then I started to make a few mistakes that really hurt her (no cheating or anything like that...I would NEVER do that.). With the mistakes came the arguing, and...
    kbarr82 kbarr82 31-35, M Nov 13, 2010

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    I have known my boyfriend for years. We finally got together approximately two years ago. Before we realised how we felt about one another we spent loads of time together because...
    K504lois K504lois 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Someone once asked me in a group discussion, "Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?" The people before me had all said, "To have loved and lost of course...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I got out of a relationship a while back where there wasn't any trust or respect. I am the type of guy that gets invested in a relationship and will give or do anything to please...
    menke2nathan menke2nathan 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    Loving someone is hard not easy bc loving someone hurts and you have to deal with loving someone knowing that they don't love you sucks, seeing them with another girl or boy hurts...
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'm not gonna judge anyone of you, you have your reasons. I talked for a girl (or he/she/it) for a whole year before I found out that this person was fake. Found her on a gay site...
    Revelations90 Revelations90 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    If I knew loving you was a mistake If I knew loving you will cause this whole pain If I knew loving you will feel like a heart attack If I knew loving you will break my heart If I...
    Romyyy Romyyy 18-21, M Aug 19

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    Today would have been my Grandmother's 94th birthday. I miss her more than any words could convey, and think of her often. She was an incredible, strong, funny, and generous soul...
    Indigolesbian70 Indigolesbian70 41-45, F Sep 4

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    i have been searching for someone who will be loving and caring send me loving texts do any say sweet things be honest with me and give things that mean alot to me a shot someone...
    justashyguy87 justashyguy87 26-30, M a week ago

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    I remember thinking about her while sitting on the sidewalk. Of course, I can never think too hard about her without breaking down, so I have to keep it at a minimum. When a close...
    EthanFisher EthanFisher 16-17 7 hrs ago

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    MemoFarghly MemoFarghly 18-21, M 1 Response 35 mins ago

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    Approximately three years ago I made a profile on a dating site. I met a male on that site who was around my age. Maybe three or four years younger than me. We communicated on-line...
    ValentinePena ValentinePena 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    I desperately want to be close to someone. I'm a 20 year old student who has never had a large group of friends. I have two close guy friends who are like brothers to me, but of...
    wanderer623 wanderer623 18-21, M Sep 10

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    What's so special about us? Only that we've never been able to run away from each other, for 8 years. We'll never stop loving, we'll never stop hurting, we'll never stop believing...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Aug 29

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    Do u judge me for loving more then one. For me to genuinely whole heatedly love them. To want to be with them, cherish them, protect them, spoil them, and make the truly happy...
    FalseEcho FalseEcho 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Up to this point, my life has been all about loving/caring about people that don't love or care about me. I started out as a hopeless romantic, waiting for prince charming to...
    angelique422 angelique422 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Your hair, your face, your beautiful eyes...I want to tell you how strikingly beautiful you are every day, but I can't. Because you have someone in your life already, even though...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've kept a secret from you. You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 18

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    I'm tired of wondering. I feel like I'm lost somewhere between science and fantasy. I just want to be with someone who sees the world the way I do. Someone who loves me for the...
    danii92 danii92 18-21, F Aug 19

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    I want a real friend that is true to me all the time. I get along with just about anyone but I don't have any close friends anymore. I don't have anyone that I can just be open...
    fishin4eyes fishin4eyes 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 26

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    I have been married for 10 years, together for 14. My husband and I have two children together. Almost our entire relationship he has worked two jobs, almost never home and even...
    dragonflydreams dragonflydreams 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I have this ex, he has ruined my life but i still love him slightly, i left him nearly a year ago and went into depression, and now taking anti depressants, he just messaged me...
    korsakris korsakris 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    I love her so much. But she has feelings for someone else. I haven't stopped crying sense Saturday. Actually writing this right now my eyes are watery. I went back to school today...
    NotTheRealMe99 NotTheRealMe99 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I stopped cutting and I am very glad about that. But now that school has started I feel bad again because I see all those faces again that caused the damage in me. Those girls who...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I stopped cutting and I am very glad about that. But now that school has started I feel bad again because I see all those faces again that caused the damage in me. Those girls who...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I will be. I'm very loving and obedient. I mean, don't get me wrong, I have my own life, but I will be a trusting and loving wife who obeys a loving husband, as long as it isn't...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Sep 1

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    he's amazing and sweet and the day u meet someone just a little close to how awesome he is is the day that I'm not loving him a.k.a NEVA lmao
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    My life has been completely turned upside down and inside out over the course of the last 2 years. Why? Because I fell in love with a married man that I connected with on every...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I gave all my pipes and supplies away. This time is serious and with Gods help I will quit this addiction. So far day three and I'm suffering from 0 withdraw symptoms (quitting by...
    Midnightchorus Midnightchorus 18-21, M Sep 5

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    I have this crush on this girl with me at work. She's really pretty, but the problem is it would never work because from two very different backgrounds and our personalities are...
    elpsy elpsy 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    You were once kind, gentle, and caring. You comforted me when I felt alone. You gave me affection when no one else could or would...I made myself vulnerable to you...I love you.I...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Sep 6

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    Hello to all i would just like to write a few words about someone very special i have met here. It has been a very long time since i have been this happy and plesased since J has...
    uncorkyoursoul uncorkyoursoul 70+, M Sep 7

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    My story begins in May of 2014. I had a small circle of friends online with which I hanged out with regularly, like every single day, even if it was to talk about our daily life...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    May I be filled with loving kindness,
May I be well,
May I be peaceful and at ease,
May I be happy (or free from suffering.)

May you be filled with loving kindness...
    coolsmile coolsmile 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I always thought that I am an unemotional person who doesn't get too sad or depressed with whatever happens. But, recently all this changed with an incident where I hurt a person...
    amiabadguy amiabadguy 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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