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I Cheated On My Boyfriend With My Ex

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    Last Sunday, I cheated on my boyfriend for the first time.  I went to see my ex and we kissed and almost made love (had sex would be more appropriate). Now, I'm confused because I don't feel anything for my ex, but I'd like to see him again (he changed, he's a better person...
    Bgirlsd Bgirlsd 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend (fiancee) and I were together for 4 years.  I had cheated on him and broke up with him a year into our relationship, but ended up wanting him back so we talked it out and got back together a month later.  Now 3 years later I did it again.  I thought I...
    sweetiepie98 sweetiepie98 26-30 3 Responses May 8, 2009

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    I Was Drunk....

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, and i love him so much, i would happily spend the rest of my life with him. But 3 weeks ago he went to italy for his aunties wedding and i went to a party. I got very drunk and went clubbing after. Three days after the party my best...
    Nat424 Nat424 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2009

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    I just need to write all of this out.

    Just to help myself really, sometimes reading what you write helps. About six months ago my ex called me he had met me on the road and just decided to call. I had not heard from him in over a year. When we was together it was on again off again, see other people get back...
    drd08 drd08 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    :'( I Just Cheated On My Bf With My Ex...

    I love my ex so much and I just cheated on my boyfriend with him when my boyfriend was out of the state...neither one of them are talking to me...not to mention they are cousins...I don't know if my ex hates me...or if my boyfriend knows...but either way my life is about to...
    Blahblee Blahblee 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Not Guilty

    basicaly i went out wit my ex on off for 2 years and then i started a relationship with my new partner of 4months but hes been angry and upsetting me alot. Snapping at me and hasnt bothered tryin and cant(small) satisfy me in bed for a few months but yer he makes me feel guilty...
    louise19 louise19 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    I Cheated!!!!!!

    okay well to start out my name is rachel and my boyfriends name is tim.we have been dating since 8/04/09 and well he is prude, and he doesn't like to do much with girls, and i liked him becuase i just got out of a bad relationship with a guy that cheated on me 3 times in one...
    Mistakes101 Mistakes101 13-15 Sep 7, 2009

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    Drunk Cheated With Ex

    So, me and my new boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I broke up with my ex of 2 1/2 years a couple weeks before my new boyfriend and I started dating. I still have feeling for my ex and he does as well, but we are still friends... anyway, I had a couple friends over to...
    JessyChu JessyChu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    I started going out with my ex last Xmas

    and we dated for about 6 months it was a very intense and fiery relationship both were jealous and he was manipulative and was going through a very tough time. Which made him have to see a councillor which he has been doing. I then started going out with the perfect man after...
    poppymck poppymck 22-25, F 1 Response May 27

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    (Didn't do it with my ex) 2 years in it

    and through it all. But what keeps me going everyday is you. It was us that are in it and get through our situations everyday. Our relationship is true and so beautiful in my eyes and I can only hope for the best in others as well. But I will keep expecting the worst. (Just...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    i have an ex that I still work with at my job.

    He has been married for a few years now but we still are together sometimes. We had sex today when we went out for lunch.I feel so guilty knowing what I have done but I also feel weak knowing I will do it again.
    laurapyt laurapyt 41-45, F 19 Responses May 7

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    Lost Soul Mate

    I have lived with the father of my child for 6 years. We have been engaged for over 2 years. I live 14 hours from my home town. I was back over the new years holiday, sick family memeber. I went to my ex. I needed him. He is my true love. I am living a lie! I want to be with...
    dwarn359 dwarn359 26-30 6 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    Kinda, Sorta Not Really

    My ex and I are still close, (even though he lives half a world away) and we still love each other. It's not easy knowing who your soulmate is and not being able to be with them. Anyways, I had planned a trip to where he lives. Bought the plane ticket, had my accomadations...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Clingy, Untrustworthy Psyco Ex.

    Well, I'm a t***. But, aren't we all? For me, it's a love hate relationship. For him, I'm just the psyco ex willing to have terrible sex with him. Any time. Any place. But it's not the sex, I couldn't give two s**** less about the sex, it's nothing to me really. He's cruel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    Cheated With My Ex

    I broke up with my ex, then two days later i met an amazing guy. We got really fully on quickly and after only two weeks he was my bf. I slept with my ex bf twice at the start of our relationship. We have now been together for 6 weeks and he has found out what happened. I...
    becbeer1 becbeer1 18-21 4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    I Don't Know What to Do!!!

    My high school sweetheart came back into my life after we'd lost contact years ago-6 to be exact(After his mother passed wawy and he had to move away). I have a boyfriend whom I thought I loved and could see a future with, I resisted all my exes attempts to get me to be...
    MissLonesum MissLonesum 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    okay so first off i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for about 2 months now. he is an amazing guy and everything and i really like him. But my ex of 2 1/2 years messages me on facebook and told me he missed me. He was absolutetly the love of my life. he was my high school...
    barbie9892 barbie9892 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    I knew I was setting myself up

    for disaster when I had said yes for the ride home. "Take me straight home." I thought. & of course, we were headed in the right direction. No.. This isn't right. Why were we turning? Turn back. It's that way. The car lights went off. He started to play. To tease. Bit my...
    Emilyelephants Emilyelephants 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I Came Clean To My Boyfriend

    I went to visit some friends a few hours away. My ex knew I was going to be in town and he came over. The we went to a bar and I got really drunk. (I was with my ex only for a few months back in HS. We never kissed or anything and it offended me. So I always wanted to.) So when...
    runws64 runws64 26-30, F Sep 1, 2013

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    Cheated On My Boyfriend

    I cheated on my boyfriend of 9 years. We are childhood sweethearts since I was 15. He is the most wonderful and caring boyfriend I could ever wish for. I have never been or thought about anyone else apart from my boyfriend besides a guy I met before. I am aware I was only 15 but...
    87female 87female 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It really sucks. The day I found out it was still early he was sleeping in our bed and I was playing Poppit on his smart phone I did it all the time but that day pops up a new...
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F Sep 17

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    I did something entirely selfish and wrong last week, I cheated on my boyfriend. I don't want to talk about that though, what I want to talk about is how it has changed our...
    Niikah Niikah 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I think my friend and room mate is a Sociopath. I have known her at a distance for roughly 4 years, and we (my boyfriend included) have lived together for about 6 months. So lets...
    allyjayx allyjayx 18-21, F Sep 14

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    I was cheated on by my ex, I had this 30 year old women messaging me telling me that she was going to come to my house and kill me, and that she was going to set my house on fire...
    Carliew Carliew 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    im ready to have a boyfriend not just i want it, but it seems like every guy that i met is not worth it.
    tzfanya tzfanya 18-21, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    just thinking about this puts so much anger back into my soul.... you're going to think I'm the biggest idiot after reading this,but here goes.... I was fifteen years old. He was...
    jaycer jaycer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    So my bf , well now exbf cheated on me. I had an emotional break down weeks ago , so I was kinda distant with him. First I took it well , I guess I didn't react at all, I just...
    A727 A727 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    His name is Andrew. He's not the best looking guy out there, but I've known him for 10 years so far. I realized that I loved him over summer (June of 2014, this year) I would...
    AutumnKitty AutumnKitty 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    My coworker Tim and I became very close in the past month. When he first started working at my store, the security guard and I had a lot of fun at his expense because we thought he...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I was in a relationship for about 6 months when I got really depressed and confused. I didn't want to admit to anybody that I felt that way so I made mistakes and ended up sending...
    mmsag mmsag 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 6

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    So yeah. I'd thought id do this to see what's up. If anything, this is for the laugh and giggles of how lame I am. A bit about me: I'm 22 and I work with youth full time. I'm...
    HakuAvalon HakuAvalon 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    My girlfriend was on holiday when a friend called me and said to me that my girlfriend cheated on me. We were together for about 4 months when i learned the news. The period when...
    Hitman21 Hitman21 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    My story begins in May of 2014. I had a small circle of friends online with which I hanged out with regularly, like every single day, even if it was to talk about our daily life...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 8

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    I really don't know why I miss him because he cheated on me and he hurt me. I trusted him. He'd always say he loves me, but I guess he didn't..
    LakiraC LakiraC 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and he is my life but the guy before me was a jerk. He had sex with someone in my bed whilst I was at work luckily I was left off work...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    I really do love him, There's no doubt about it, But how much more do I need to realize he's the reason for my unhappiness? I don't know what more proof I need. He's lied...
    ThatOneSadGirl ThatOneSadGirl 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I've never cheated! I've been cheated on though. Cheaters never seem to get the concept of how much pain they inflict on others! Cheating is selfish... Just be single if you want...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I've been cheated on by my partner of 6 years. To make things worse were married, have a child together, and I'm the bread winner. I would think my spouse would at least be nice...
    reinventingyourexit reinventingyourexit 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have been cheated on more times than I can count, I feel that person wasn't meant to be mine if he cheated on me in the first place. Yes it hurts but you know there is someone...
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    My wife cheated on me and lied about it for years. I used to ask her all the time and she denied it. I found out by calling her bluff years later she did do it (she admitted it...
    RealColonelMustard RealColonelMustard 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My EX cheated on me with my 1st best friend . I forgave him and my best friend and then he cheated on me with my other best friend. That's why have begun to have serious doubts on...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 10 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    The last guy i dated cheated on me. With a dude.
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 40 Responses Sep 3

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    I'll never understand why people cheat. My wife cheated because I talked to an ex. Clearly her cheating was more hurtful than me talking to an ex. Yet I do not feel an urge to...
    Dartanian Dartanian 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    Yep sadly ALL my girlfriends cheated on me! Why? Phew still not 100% sure about that, mostly they said that people cant fall in love with me. Strange cuz after weeks or months they...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    my ex cheated on me for two years ✌️
    mablerylee mablerylee 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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