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I Cheated On My Boyfriend With My Ex

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend (fiancee) and I were together for 4 years.  I had cheated on him and broke up with him a year into our relationship, but ended up wanting him back so we talked it out and got back together a month later.  Now 3 years later I did it again.  I thought I...
    sweetiepie98 sweetiepie98 26-30 3 Responses May 8, 2009

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    I Don't Know What to Do!!!

    My high school sweetheart came back into my life after we'd lost contact years ago-6 to be exact(After his mother passed wawy and he had to move away). I have a boyfriend whom I thought I loved and could see a future with, I resisted all my exes attempts to get me to be...
    MissLonesum MissLonesum 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Cheated With My Ex

    I broke up with my ex, then two days later i met an amazing guy. We got really fully on quickly and after only two weeks he was my bf. I slept with my ex bf twice at the start of our relationship. We have now been together for 6 weeks and he has found out what happened. I...
    becbeer1 becbeer1 18-21 4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    i have an ex that I still work with at my job.

    He has been married for a few years now but we still are together sometimes. We had sex today when we went out for lunch.I feel so guilty knowing what I have done but I also feel weak knowing I will do it again.
    laurapyt laurapyt 41-45, F 20 Responses May 7

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    Cheated On My Boyfriend

    I cheated on my boyfriend of 9 years. We are childhood sweethearts since I was 15. He is the most wonderful and caring boyfriend I could ever wish for. I have never been or thought about anyone else apart from my boyfriend besides a guy I met before. I am aware I was only 15 but...
    87female 87female 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    I started going out with my ex last Xmas

    and we dated for about 6 months it was a very intense and fiery relationship both were jealous and he was manipulative and was going through a very tough time. Which made him have to see a councillor which he has been doing. I then started going out with the perfect man after...
    poppymck poppymck 22-25, F 1 Response May 27

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    :'( I Just Cheated On My Bf With My Ex...

    I love my ex so much and I just cheated on my boyfriend with him when my boyfriend was out of the state...neither one of them are talking to me...not to mention they are cousins...I don't know if my ex hates me...or if my boyfriend knows...but either way my life is about to...
    Blahblee Blahblee 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    Last Sunday, I cheated on my boyfriend for the first time.  I went to see my ex and we kissed and almost made love (had sex would be more appropriate). Now, I'm confused because I don't feel anything for my ex, but I'd like to see him again (he changed, he's a better person...
    Bgirlsd Bgirlsd 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    i cant help it. im missing my ex badly lately.

    for almost two years i have no communication with my ex and its been a month my airman started txting me. i cant believe im still attracted to him. he makes me feel the real satisfaction. i love my tiny baby boyfriend, maybe im just not happy with him coz of his shortcomings.
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    Not Guilty

    basicaly i went out wit my ex on off for 2 years and then i started a relationship with my new partner of 4months but hes been angry and upsetting me alot. Snapping at me and hasnt bothered tryin and cant(small) satisfy me in bed for a few months but yer he makes me feel guilty...
    louise19 louise19 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    I Came Clean To My Boyfriend

    I went to visit some friends a few hours away. My ex knew I was going to be in town and he came over. The we went to a bar and I got really drunk. (I was with my ex only for a few months back in HS. We never kissed or anything and it offended me. So I always wanted to.) So when...
    runws64 runws64 26-30, F Sep 1, 2013

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    (Didn't do it with my ex) 2 years in it

    and through it all. But what keeps me going everyday is you. It was us that are in it and get through our situations everyday. Our relationship is true and so beautiful in my eyes and I can only hope for the best in others as well. But I will keep expecting the worst. (Just...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    I Cheated!!!!!!

    okay well to start out my name is rachel and my boyfriends name is tim.we have been dating since 8/04/09 and well he is prude, and he doesn't like to do much with girls, and i liked him becuase i just got out of a bad relationship with a guy that cheated on me 3 times in one...
    Mistakes101 Mistakes101 13-15 Sep 7, 2009

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    I Was Drunk....

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, and i love him so much, i would happily spend the rest of my life with him. But 3 weeks ago he went to italy for his aunties wedding and i went to a party. I got very drunk and went clubbing after. Three days after the party my best...
    Nat424 Nat424 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2009

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    Clingy, Untrustworthy Psyco Ex.

    Well, I'm a t***. But, aren't we all? For me, it's a love hate relationship. For him, I'm just the psyco ex willing to have terrible sex with him. Any time. Any place. But it's not the sex, I couldn't give two s**** less about the sex, it's nothing to me really. He's cruel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    Lost Soul Mate

    I have lived with the father of my child for 6 years. We have been engaged for over 2 years. I live 14 hours from my home town. I was back over the new years holiday, sick family memeber. I went to my ex. I needed him. He is my true love. I am living a lie! I want to be with...
    dwarn359 dwarn359 26-30 6 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    I just need to write all of this out.

    Just to help myself really, sometimes reading what you write helps. About six months ago my ex called me he had met me on the road and just decided to call. I had not heard from him in over a year. When we was together it was on again off again, see other people get back...
    drd08 drd08 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    okay so first off i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for about 2 months now. he is an amazing guy and everything and i really like him. But my ex of 2 1/2 years messages me on facebook and told me he missed me. He was absolutetly the love of my life. he was my high school...
    barbie9892 barbie9892 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    Drunk Cheated With Ex

    So, me and my new boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I broke up with my ex of 2 1/2 years a couple weeks before my new boyfriend and I started dating. I still have feeling for my ex and he does as well, but we are still friends... anyway, I had a couple friends over to...
    JessyChu JessyChu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Kinda, Sorta Not Really

    My ex and I are still close, (even though he lives half a world away) and we still love each other. It's not easy knowing who your soulmate is and not being able to be with them. Anyways, I had planned a trip to where he lives. Bought the plane ticket, had my accomadations...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I knew I was setting myself up

    for disaster when I had said yes for the ride home. "Take me straight home." I thought. & of course, we were headed in the right direction. No.. This isn't right. Why were we turning? Turn back. It's that way. The car lights went off. He started to play. To tease. Bit my...
    Emilyelephants Emilyelephants 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I love you!!!! Your mine and only mine http://youtu.be/LPgvNlrBfb0
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    My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now, and from pretty early on we both discussed out sexuality. The fact that we were both bi curious, her more so than me, and we...
    redstar22 redstar22 22-25 a week ago

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    I have learned so much fro my past two experiences. I always stayed away from younger men because of the misconception that they were less mature and more prone to cheat. I have...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Breaking up with a guy you've been dating for 3months Well at first I thought I was ready for a relationship and then last week I call him my exes name which has made me realise I...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    we was in relationship from 1 and half year. one day she said me that she want to go for a moive with one of her friend ( a boy) i have no problem with it so i said yess... after 5...
    Annki777 Annki777 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    Not sure how to frame this but my wife has never been a eager giver of oral until about 5 years ago. She only gave a little as foreplay, never to completion. I returned one...
    Joboo6 Joboo6 51-55, M 6 hrs ago

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    Last night my boyfriend and I were at a club with our friends. We had a couple of drinks, we were just buzzed. Something happened where he got jealous over who I was talking to and...
    lessonlearn3d lessonlearn3d 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I did something entirely selfish and wrong last week, I cheated on my boyfriend. I don't want to talk about that though, what I want to talk about is how it has changed our...
    Niikah Niikah 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 25

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    I am nearly 18, iv been with my boyfriend since i was 14 and i have never had feelings for someone the way i have him, i love him. Recently i found out he cheated on me, with my...
    hurtseveryday hurtseveryday 16-17, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I went out with my very first boyfriend he cheated on me with at least 5 girls
    cutiepieeeee cutiepieeeee 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I was told more about my partner cheating on me turns out he slept with his mistress twice but I have such a hard time believing that anyone have any advice. Thank you
    reinventingyourexit reinventingyourexit 22-25, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I was cheated on by my ex, I had this 30 year old women messaging me telling me that she was going to come to my house and kill me, and that she was going to set my house on fire...
    Carliew Carliew 18-21, F Sep 29

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    He cheated on me with my friend and she knew he was cheated on me with her I wanted to kick his a** and burn him My friends I was mad at but were still friends
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend I've been with a year keeps not ringing me for days doesn't text me anymore but claims he loves me, he changes his temper so quick it can go from I love you to in a...
    butterfly1200 butterfly1200 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    This is the first time I'm telling this story. I don't want sympathy and I'm sure a lot of you will think I'm stupid. I have a boyfriend. His name is, let's call him, Stephen. I've...
    thatgirl0926 thatgirl0926 18-21, F Oct 11

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    just thinking about this puts so much anger back into my soul.... you're going to think I'm the biggest idiot after reading this,but here goes.... I was fifteen years old. He was...
    jaycer jaycer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    So my bf , well now exbf cheated on me. I had an emotional break down weeks ago , so I was kinda distant with him. First I took it well , I guess I didn't react at all, I just...
    A727 A727 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    I'm 17 and a junior. My boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 month is also a junior. 3 weekends ago I went with some friends to my friends cabin at Lake Tahoe. So we got there...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 10 Responses Oct 6

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    It's been nearly a year since he went to jail. It was a terrible time in my life. I would have panic attacks, and I couldn't be anywhere that he used to be. I loved him more than I...
    Greenadikt1 Greenadikt1 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    We dated for 3 years.. And I have him every single part of me, but it was never enough. He cheated on me. I caught him with hickies on his neck and messages between him and other...
    frenchinhaleyoursins frenchinhaleyoursins 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm not sure if it's emotionally abusive, but it hurts either way. She had a lot of **** as a child, an alcoholic verbally abusive father, an emotionally distant often absent...
    PinkNailPolish PinkNailPolish 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I was in a relationship for about 6 months when I got really depressed and confused. I didn't want to admit to anybody that I felt that way so I made mistakes and ended up sending...
    mmsag mmsag 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I am looking for a boyfriend who's nice kind and won't cheat Ive been cheated on in the past and have trust issues
    NicoleSmith1031 NicoleSmith1031 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3

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