I Cheated On My Boyfriend With My Ex

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    Drunk Cheated With Ex

    So, me and my new boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I broke up with my ex of 2 1/2 years a couple weeks before my new boyfriend and I started dating. I still have feeling for my ex and he does as well, but we are still friends... anyway, I had a couple friends over to...
    JessyChu JessyChu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2012

    i cant help it. im missing my ex badly lately.

    for almost two years i have no communication with my ex and its been a month my airman started txting me. i cant believe im still attracted to him. he makes me feel the real satisfaction. i love my tiny baby boyfriend, maybe im just not happy with him coz of his shortcomings.
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    Cheated With My Ex

    I broke up with my ex, then two days later i met an amazing guy. We got really fully on quickly and after only two weeks he was my bf. I slept with my ex bf twice at the start of our relationship. We have now been together for 6 weeks and he has found out what happened. I...
    becbeer1 becbeer1
    18-21
    5 Responses Feb 28, 2009

    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2012

    I Don't Know What to Do!!!

    My high school sweetheart came back into my life after we'd lost contact years ago-6 to be exact(After his mother passed wawy and he had to move away). I have a boyfriend whom I thought I loved and could see a future with, I resisted all my exes attempts to get me to be...
    MissLonesum MissLonesum
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

    I Came Clean To My Boyfriend

    I went to visit some friends a few hours away. My ex knew I was going to be in town and he came over. The we went to a bar and I got really drunk. (I was with my ex only for a few months back in HS. We never kissed or anything and it offended me. So I always wanted to.) So when...
    runws64 runws64
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2013

    Lost Soul Mate

    I have lived with the father of my child for 6 years. We have been engaged for over 2 years. I live 14 hours from my home town. I was back over the new years holiday, sick family memeber. I went to my ex. I needed him. He is my true love. I am living a lie! I want to be with...
    dwarn359 dwarn359
    26-30
    6 Responses Jan 7, 2009

    I just need to write all of this out.

    Just to help myself really, sometimes reading what you write helps. About six months ago my ex called me he had met me on the road and just decided to call. I had not heard from him in over a year. When we was together it was on again off again, see other people get back...
    drd08 drd08
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2014

    Clingy, Untrustworthy Psyco Ex.

    Well, I'm a t***. But, aren't we all? For me, it's a love hate relationship. For him, I'm just the psyco ex willing to have terrible sex with him. Any time. Any place. But it's not the sex, I couldn't give two s**** less about the sex, it's nothing to me really. He's cruel...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 21, 2012

    This was actually a couple of days ago,

    my boyfriend of 11 months is on holiday for 3 weeks and I have to be honest, I've not been completely sure about the relationship recently. We're both moderately depressed, and I've suffered with severe depression in the past. We both stress each other out occasionally and I...
    confuzzled411 confuzzled411
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    Last Sunday, I cheated on my boyfriend for the first time.  I went to see my ex and we kissed and almost made love (had sex would be more appropriate). Now, I'm confused because I don't feel anything for my ex, but I'd like to see him again (he changed, he's a better person...
    Bgirlsd Bgirlsd
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jul 28, 2009

    I knew I was setting myself up

    for disaster when I had said yes for the ride home. "Take me straight home." I thought. & of course, we were headed in the right direction. No.. This isn't right. Why were we turning? Turn back. It's that way. The car lights went off. He started to play. To tease. Bit my...
    Emilyelephants Emilyelephants
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2014

    Cheated On My Boyfriend

    I cheated on my boyfriend of 9 years. We are childhood sweethearts since I was 15. He is the most wonderful and caring boyfriend I could ever wish for. I have never been or thought about anyone else apart from my boyfriend besides a guy I met before. I am aware I was only 15 but...
    87female 87female
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Nov 19, 2012

    I Cheated!!!!!!

    okay well to start out my name is rachel and my boyfriends name is tim.we have been dating since 8/04/09 and well he is prude, and he doesn't like to do much with girls, and i liked him becuase i just got out of a bad relationship with a guy that cheated on me 3 times in one...
    Mistakes101 Mistakes101
    13-15
    Sep 7, 2009

    I Was Drunk....

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, and i love him so much, i would happily spend the rest of my life with him. But 3 weeks ago he went to italy for his aunties wedding and i went to a party. I got very drunk and went clubbing after. Three days after the party my best...
    Nat424 Nat424
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Aug 30, 2009

    :'( I Just Cheated On My Bf With My Ex...

    I love my ex so much and I just cheated on my boyfriend with him when my boyfriend was out of the state...neither one of them are talking to me...not to mention they are cousins...I don't know if my ex hates me...or if my boyfriend knows...but either way my life is about to...
    Blahblee Blahblee
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2012

    I Don't Know What To Do

    okay so first off i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for about 2 months now. he is an amazing guy and everything and i really like him. But my ex of 2 1/2 years messages me on facebook and told me he missed me. He was absolutetly the love of my life. he was my high school...
    barbie9892 barbie9892
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2012

    I started going out with my ex last Xmas

    and we dated for about 6 months it was a very intense and fiery relationship both were jealous and he was manipulative and was going through a very tough time. Which made him have to see a councillor which he has been doing. I then started going out with the perfect man after...
    poppymck poppymck
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    Not Guilty

    basicaly i went out wit my ex on off for 2 years and then i started a relationship with my new partner of 4months but hes been angry and upsetting me alot. Snapping at me and hasnt bothered tryin and cant(small) satisfy me in bed for a few months but yer he makes me feel guilty...
    louise19 louise19
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 9, 2012

    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend (fiancee) and I were together for 4 years.  I had cheated on him and broke up with him a year into our relationship, but ended up wanting him back so we talked it out and got back together a month later.  Now 3 years later I did it again.  I thought I...
    sweetiepie98 sweetiepie98
    26-30
    3 Responses May 8, 2009

    Well I haven't but I want to.

    I broke up with my ex 6 years ago. For the past 2 years he has been trying to get close to me again but I always reject him. All of a sudden I want him so bad now I fantasize about him all the time but I have a boyfriend who I've never been with for 1 year.
    ugg90 ugg90
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2012

    Kinda, Sorta Not Really

    My ex and I are still close, (even though he lives half a world away) and we still love each other. It's not easy knowing who your soulmate is and not being able to be with them. Anyways, I had planned a trip to where he lives. Bought the plane ticket, had my accomadations...
    Melody08 Melody08
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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