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I Cheated On My Boyfriend With My Ex

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    okay so first off i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for about 2 months now. he is an amazing guy and everything and i really like him. But my ex of 2 1/2 years messages me on facebook and told me he missed me. He was absolutetly the love of my life. he was my high school...
    barbie9892 barbie9892 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    Last Sunday, I cheated on my boyfriend for the first time.  I went to see my ex and we kissed and almost made love (had sex would be more appropriate). Now, I'm confused because I don't feel anything for my ex, but I'd like to see him again (he changed, he's a better person...
    Bgirlsd Bgirlsd 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Kinda, Sorta Not Really

    My ex and I are still close, (even though he lives half a world away) and we still love each other. It's not easy knowing who your soulmate is and not being able to be with them. Anyways, I had planned a trip to where he lives. Bought the plane ticket, had my accomadations...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    I started going out with my ex last Xmas

    and we dated for about 6 months it was a very intense and fiery relationship both were jealous and he was manipulative and was going through a very tough time. Which made him have to see a councillor which he has been doing. I then started going out with the perfect man after...
    poppymck poppymck 22-25, F 1 Response May 27

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    I just need to write all of this out.

    Just to help myself really, sometimes reading what you write helps. About six months ago my ex called me he had met me on the road and just decided to call. I had not heard from him in over a year. When we was together it was on again off again, see other people get back...
    drd08 drd08 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I Was Drunk....

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, and i love him so much, i would happily spend the rest of my life with him. But 3 weeks ago he went to italy for his aunties wedding and i went to a party. I got very drunk and went clubbing after. Three days after the party my best...
    Nat424 Nat424 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2009

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    Drunk Cheated With Ex

    So, me and my new boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I broke up with my ex of 2 1/2 years a couple weeks before my new boyfriend and I started dating. I still have feeling for my ex and he does as well, but we are still friends... anyway, I had a couple friends over to...
    JessyChu JessyChu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Clingy, Untrustworthy Psyco Ex.

    Well, I'm a t***. But, aren't we all? For me, it's a love hate relationship. For him, I'm just the psyco ex willing to have terrible sex with him. Any time. Any place. But it's not the sex, I couldn't give two s**** less about the sex, it's nothing to me really. He's cruel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    Lost Soul Mate

    I have lived with the father of my child for 6 years. We have been engaged for over 2 years. I live 14 hours from my home town. I was back over the new years holiday, sick family memeber. I went to my ex. I needed him. He is my true love. I am living a lie! I want to be with...
    dwarn359 dwarn359 26-30 6 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    i cant help it. im missing my ex badly lately.

    for almost two years i have no communication with my ex and its been a month my airman started txting me. i cant believe im still attracted to him. he makes me feel the real satisfaction. i love my tiny baby boyfriend, maybe im just not happy with him coz of his shortcomings.
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I knew I was setting myself up

    for disaster when I had said yes for the ride home. "Take me straight home." I thought. & of course, we were headed in the right direction. No.. This isn't right. Why were we turning? Turn back. It's that way. The car lights went off. He started to play. To tease. Bit my...
    Emilyelephants Emilyelephants 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    :'( I Just Cheated On My Bf With My Ex...

    I love my ex so much and I just cheated on my boyfriend with him when my boyfriend was out of the state...neither one of them are talking to me...not to mention they are cousins...I don't know if my ex hates me...or if my boyfriend knows...but either way my life is about to...
    Blahblee Blahblee 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    I Don't Know What to Do!!!

    My high school sweetheart came back into my life after we'd lost contact years ago-6 to be exact(After his mother passed wawy and he had to move away). I have a boyfriend whom I thought I loved and could see a future with, I resisted all my exes attempts to get me to be...
    MissLonesum MissLonesum 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    I Came Clean To My Boyfriend

    I went to visit some friends a few hours away. My ex knew I was going to be in town and he came over. The we went to a bar and I got really drunk. (I was with my ex only for a few months back in HS. We never kissed or anything and it offended me. So I always wanted to.) So when...
    runws64 runws64 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2013

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    Not Guilty

    basicaly i went out wit my ex on off for 2 years and then i started a relationship with my new partner of 4months but hes been angry and upsetting me alot. Snapping at me and hasnt bothered tryin and cant(small) satisfy me in bed for a few months but yer he makes me feel guilty...
    louise19 louise19 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend (fiancee) and I were together for 4 years.  I had cheated on him and broke up with him a year into our relationship, but ended up wanting him back so we talked it out and got back together a month later.  Now 3 years later I did it again.  I thought I...
    sweetiepie98 sweetiepie98 26-30 3 Responses May 8, 2009

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    Cheated With My Ex

    I broke up with my ex, then two days later i met an amazing guy. We got really fully on quickly and after only two weeks he was my bf. I slept with my ex bf twice at the start of our relationship. We have now been together for 6 weeks and he has found out what happened. I...
    becbeer1 becbeer1 18-21 4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    I Cheated!!!!!!

    okay well to start out my name is rachel and my boyfriends name is tim.we have been dating since 8/04/09 and well he is prude, and he doesn't like to do much with girls, and i liked him becuase i just got out of a bad relationship with a guy that cheated on me 3 times in one...
    Mistakes101 Mistakes101 13-15 Sep 7, 2009

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    Cheated On My Boyfriend

    I cheated on my boyfriend of 9 years. We are childhood sweethearts since I was 15. He is the most wonderful and caring boyfriend I could ever wish for. I have never been or thought about anyone else apart from my boyfriend besides a guy I met before. I am aware I was only 15 but...
    87female 87female 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    (Didn't do it with my ex) 2 years in it

    and through it all. But what keeps me going everyday is you. It was us that are in it and get through our situations everyday. Our relationship is true and so beautiful in my eyes and I can only hope for the best in others as well. But I will keep expecting the worst. (Just...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    And I love him more than anything even when he's being difficult.
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    well I was always the black sheep of the family. You know like getting the fault of everything and being called ugly and useless for the first 15 years of your life kinda messes up...
    kkkmmm123 kkkmmm123 18-21, F Dec 6

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    Worst Christmas ever. I sent my Christmas with my wife who at times felt like she was elsewhere mentally and emotionally. All I really wanted for Christmas was her being happy...
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    Lately, I've been testing the waters for if my boyfriend is ready for commitment or not. We've been together two years, and I can't explain why I feel that he's the one. We've been...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I really loved him yet he decided to hurt me. It was on a Wednesday, he told me he was going somewhere to meet his mom at first I didn't believe because he had a very close...
    kaie13 kaie13 18-21, F 57 mins ago

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    I suppose this is equally a question as it is an experience. I need to have the experience to express in detail what happened, and what has resulted -what I've become. I need...
    CatherineGray CatherineGray 16-17, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    It's been a while and I can't take this off my chest! I've been trying... Trying so hard and sometimes things are good! Other times it feels like I have a knife stuck in my chest...
    willgetbetter willgetbetter 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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    Im with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now.I have never cheated on him and we both love each other very much. But recently the sex and generally our relationship got boring. We...
    adoreu12 adoreu12 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I know this is so chliché and what not bur I really feel terrible, being here without a guy at my side. You know, I ask myself: Whats wrong with me? Almost everyone I happen to...
    sadxvibes sadxvibes 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    Yup... I felt like a total a*shole.... I still miss the guy I cheated on... I did it cuz idk the second one came up on me an he knew I was taken but still liked me but my first...
    coolyogaykid coolyogaykid 13-15, M Dec 9

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    So I just really need to vent about this stuff so this is going to be a pretty long post... But in a nutshell my boyfriend cheated on me and has lied multiple times about girls he...
    TaeDD TaeDD 22-25, F Dec 3

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    we met during our highschool days and been together for more or less 8 years.. we never fight. we always have fun and been happy all the time.. we are just as simple couple as...
    izzaerguiza izzaerguiza 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    i want a boyfriend so bad i want someone to say i love you all the time and care for me i need love i need someone to cuddle with and care for and no one fake my heart is broken...
    Vincent312072 Vincent312072 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    So, this is kind of a long story, but I really just need to get it off my chest. I haven't had anyone to talk to about all this. This whole thing started with my boyfriend texting...
    TaeDD TaeDD 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Not much to say other than I recently just got cheated on, and I really don't know what to do with myself or the questions I have that no one can really answer. Wrapping my head...
    Panoramicdemon Panoramicdemon 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    I met my the most perfect guy in november 2013. I was 14 and a freshman at that time. He was a junior in a relationship with this girl. He was so cute and so funny, we always...
    mjglynn mjglynn 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Hello everybody, and thank you for taking the time to read my experience and give me a piece of mind. To start, I'll talk about a little of my background. 5 years ago, I found...
    misschillax misschillax 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    So my storys a little different. I fell in love with my bestfriend and after 2 years we started dating. We dated for 2years and our relationship was going great, he was the perfect...
    gkelyyy gkelyyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    I feel like I'm a funking monster who can't keep her impulses from manifesting. when I'm around this one person I have this crazy urge to grab him and make out with him like crazy...
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    But neither my ex-boyfriend nor the girl he cheated with (one of my friends) know
    LittleRed2016 LittleRed2016 16-17, F Dec 16

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    Since being told my boyfriend (now ex since I broke up with him) cheated on me, my anxiety has been going crazy and hard to manage :/
    Kiolat Kiolat 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I dont even know why, he cheated on me. I hate him so much yet love him at the same time. He was constantly putting up with my crap, he never got mad at me , but i always got mad...
    EmoAngelOfLight EmoAngelOfLight 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Most of the time everything is going well, but sometimes I really do hate him. He was the sweetest guy for a year and a half, but 3 days after he went off to university, he...
    rainierainrain rainierainrain 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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