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I Cheated On My Boyfriend With My Ex

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    I just need to write all of this out.

    Just to help myself really, sometimes reading what you write helps. About six months ago my ex called me he had met me on the road and just decided to call. I had not heard from him in over a year. When we was together it was on again off again, see other people get back...
    drd08 drd08 22-25, F Feb 22

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend (fiancee) and I were together for 4 years.  I had cheated on him and broke up with him a year into our relationship, but ended up wanting him back so we talked it out and got back together a month later.  Now 3 years later I did it again.  I thought I...
    sweetiepie98 sweetiepie98 26-30 3 Responses May 8, 2009

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    Kinda, Sorta Not Really

    My ex and I are still close, (even though he lives half a world away) and we still love each other. It's not easy knowing who your soulmate is and not being able to be with them. Anyways, I had planned a trip to where he lives. Bought the plane ticket, had my accomadations...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Drunk Cheated With Ex

    So, me and my new boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I broke up with my ex of 2 1/2 years a couple weeks before my new boyfriend and I started dating. I still have feeling for my ex and he does as well, but we are still friends... anyway, I had a couple friends over to...
    JessyChu JessyChu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend

    Last Sunday, I cheated on my boyfriend for the first time.  I went to see my ex and we kissed and almost made love (had sex would be more appropriate). Now, I'm confused because I don't feel anything for my ex, but I'd like to see him again (he changed, he's a better person...
    Bgirlsd Bgirlsd 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Cheated With My Ex

    I broke up with my ex, then two days later i met an amazing guy. We got really fully on quickly and after only two weeks he was my bf. I slept with my ex bf twice at the start of our relationship. We have now been together for 6 weeks and he has found out what happened. I...
    becbeer1 becbeer1 18-21 4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

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    I Guess I Wasn't Ready.

    I started dating this very nice guy a year after a really bad break up. Like so bad that someone ended up in jail and the hospital. It was super hard relationship to get over due to it ending so violently and out of nowhere. When I started dating this new guy, I felt that he...
    dominoq dominoq 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2012

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    (Didn't do it with my ex) 2 years in it

    and through it all. But what keeps me going everyday is you. It was us that are in it and get through our situations everyday. Our relationship is true and so beautiful in my eyes and I can only hope for the best in others as well. But I will keep expecting the worst. (Just...
    blabla1717 blabla1717 16-17, F Mar 14

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    Not Guilty

    basicaly i went out wit my ex on off for 2 years and then i started a relationship with my new partner of 4months but hes been angry and upsetting me alot. Snapping at me and hasnt bothered tryin and cant(small) satisfy me in bed for a few months but yer he makes me feel guilty...
    louise19 louise19 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    I knew I was setting myself up

    for disaster when I had said yes for the ride home. "Take me straight home." I thought. & of course, we were headed in the right direction. No.. This isn't right. Why were we turning? Turn back. It's that way. The car lights went off. He started to play. To tease. Bit my...
    Emilyelephants Emilyelephants 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I Don't Know What to Do!!!

    My high school sweetheart came back into my life after we'd lost contact years ago-6 to be exact(After his mother passed wawy and he had to move away). I have a boyfriend whom I thought I loved and could see a future with, I resisted all my exes attempts to get me to be...
    MissLonesum MissLonesum 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    okay so first off i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for about 2 months now. he is an amazing guy and everything and i really like him. But my ex of 2 1/2 years messages me on facebook and told me he missed me. He was absolutetly the love of my life. he was my high school...
    barbie9892 barbie9892 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    Clingy, Untrustworthy Psyco Ex.

    Well, I'm a t***. But, aren't we all? For me, it's a love hate relationship. For him, I'm just the psyco ex willing to have terrible sex with him. Any time. Any place. But it's not the sex, I couldn't give two s**** less about the sex, it's nothing to me really. He's cruel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    Lost Soul Mate

    I have lived with the father of my child for 6 years. We have been engaged for over 2 years. I live 14 hours from my home town. I was back over the new years holiday, sick family memeber. I went to my ex. I needed him. He is my true love. I am living a lie! I want to be with...
    dwarn359 dwarn359 26-30 6 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    Cheated On My Boyfriend

    I cheated on my boyfriend of 9 years. We are childhood sweethearts since I was 15. He is the most wonderful and caring boyfriend I could ever wish for. I have never been or thought about anyone else apart from my boyfriend besides a guy I met before. I am aware I was only 15 but...
    87female 87female 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    I Was Drunk....

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, and i love him so much, i would happily spend the rest of my life with him. But 3 weeks ago he went to italy for his aunties wedding and i went to a party. I got very drunk and went clubbing after. Three days after the party my best...
    Nat424 Nat424 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2009

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    :'( I Just Cheated On My Bf With My Ex...

    I love my ex so much and I just cheated on my boyfriend with him when my boyfriend was out of the state...neither one of them are talking to me...not to mention they are cousins...I don't know if my ex hates me...or if my boyfriend knows...but either way my life is about to...
    Blahblee Blahblee 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Hi everyone, First thank you for reading this post. Second I apologize for the run-on sentences. I have been very depressed for the past few months and don't know where else to...
    flowersmakemehappy flowersmakemehappy 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    My boyfriend cheated on me before Christmas i was absolutely devastated. We tried moving on from it. We spoke about it many times. Its always on the back of my mind. i haven't...
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    I'm a ****** girlfriend. I've never not cheated.
    ksnaps ksnaps 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    I love having 2 men in my life. I have a husband and a boyfriend. They don't know about each other. I will always have 2 men in my life.
    wetnwilds wetnwilds 26-30 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I didn't physically cheat on my boyfriend, just flirting over text with another guy (say what you will) but I feel I didn't do anything wrong and I know I kinda did. We are still...
    krorenae krorenae 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Every relationship I've ever had the guy has cheated on me. Now I'm single with trust issues.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    Hello everyone... Seriously.. How do u move on after being cheated on.. It has been 2 freaking years. I am still with my boyfriend (the cheater) but we keep on fighting and...
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    My boyfriend has emotionally cheated so far. I am not sure if he has had sex with anyone else but he says he hasn't. So far I believe him on that but I don't believe him on the...
    AdaLove17 AdaLove17 26-30 Mar 29

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing...
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    I had sex with my friends boyfriend on my first time. My boyfriend and my friend don't know. I also have had sex with my teacher! I don't mind giving you a go. Give me your number...
    Awsum123 Awsum123 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    My boyfriend of 7 years has no respect for me. We have a beautiful little girl that's about to be 2 next month. I always catch him spying on his exes and other random girls. I've...
    Ireallycantsay Ireallycantsay 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 27

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    She's still thinks she with him, I keep on telling her no. That wired because my bf show me the message he sent to her saying they are over and that his with him. I don't know if...
    andy159 andy159 18-21 1 Response Apr 5

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    My boyfriend of three years ,cheated on me at the start of the year, i only found out by looking on Facebook and on his profile it had got in a relationship with another woman...
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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
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    I think every chick likes to be with other girls now and then, especially when you're going through an oral sex drought with the boyfriend. I cheated last weekend after some beers...
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    HurtGirl95 HurtGirl95 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I was with my ex for a year and a half. Three weeks ago I caught him cheating. I found out it was going on for 5 months. I'm completely heartbroken. At the beginning he kept...
    Jnelleamber Jnelleamber 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hello, this is my first experience on here. I wanted to share something that has lingered in my heart for a very long time till this very day. Most people think of cheating as an...
    halieghnicole halieghnicole 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    My best friend has HPV, I've known her since I was 14. She told me last night how scared she was that she's having another biopsy tomorrow. She had an irregular pap, a year after...
    StrayMouse StrayMouse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    So "E" and I met shortly after high school via his college roommate who is still one of our mutual bestfriends. I was in massage school, he was a freshman in a four year college...
    wildsunflowerpetals wildsunflowerpetals 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So basically me and my boyfriend went through a rough point about a week ago and he said and done stuff that hurt me a lot. He broke up with me and then later told me he made a...
    cb180696 cb180696 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I have been cheated on many times I'm sure. The first and most memorable was my first love. Cheated on me 3x and that 3rd time I cheated on him and boy did that feel good. He...
    GreekGoddesz GreekGoddesz 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    being cheated on wasn't the part that pissed me off the most though. it's more of my attitude towards people & finding it hard to trust anyone afterwards. after being cheated on...
    corona135 corona135 22-25 2 Responses 3 days ago

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