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I Cheated On My Wife

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    I cheated on my wife last year. I had a 5 month affair with an old girlfriend. i regret doing this to my wife and im looking for help in how to make it up to her. I was a fool for cheating on her and want her back.
    woodyweb woodyweb 51-55, M 6 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Wife And I Don'T Feel Guilty

    All through my life I have been faithful to my wives; they left me for other men. Now on marriage #3 after 12 years I am the cheater. We don't have children in the home or from the marriage. Maybe I'm having a mid life crisis, but I am seeing two married women while still being...
    JSlider JSlider 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Cheated On My Wife With Her Best Friend

    So recently I cheated on my wife with her best friend. We were both absolutely wasted (yeah I know, not the best excuse) and met up on a night out. We didn't meet up with the intention of anything happening though, we're just both good friends is all. Anyway we spent the rest of...
    HarrowR HarrowR 26-30, M Mar 21, 2013

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    This happened two nights ago.

    I am a married man and this incident has given me mixed feelings of both guilt and pleasant sexual thoughts. I was on a business trip the past week and two nights back, I decided to visit a massage parlour on my last night at the city. This one was close to my hotel, and it...
    rahulv rahulv 26-30, M 6 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I Cheat And Love It.

    Once in awhile i hit up a dirty ***** i know for some side ***** when the wife is laggy or not putting out. This other ***** does what i say and lets me do whatever i want. There is nothing better than pulling a woman's hair back and telling her "get on your knees and suck my...
    socialdkiller socialdkiller 22-25, M Jul 16, 2013

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    I Cheated

    About 2 years ago i cheated on my wife. The other person was her sister. She is the total oposite of my wife, which is what made it more exciting. She was willing to try anything, and i mean anything. After a year, i suddenly realised what a jerk i had been. I broke it off...
    weebos weebos 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    I Cheated On My Wife.. Many Times... Now We Are Getting Divorced And I Want Her Back

    .....when i met her i knew she was the one.... we fell in love. i acted like a **** a lot and pretended i wasnt bothered about her but whenever she tried to leave me or she pulled away i would panic and pull her back to me. we got married and bought a home, and fell pregnant with...
    worthlessman worthlessman 31-35, M Oct 16, 2013

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    Deployed

    while in Afghanistan, I was going through a lot Of mental ********. another soldier( female) an I became Good friends. One night while watching movies. One thing led to another and we went to far. I Started at one point thinking I was having feelings For her. I know now I was...
    Chud7814 Chud7814 36-40 1 Response Nov 28, 2011

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    I didn't mean for it to happen.

    It just did. It wears my day off and I was home drinking coffee when there was a knock on the door, it was my wife's best friend. She was upset and was looking for my wife to talk to. I let her in and gave her some coffee and asked her what was wrong. She told me her boyfriend...
    Gravellemelissa Gravellemelissa 41-45, M Jan 5

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    I Am Cheating...But I Would Prefer To Have A Complete Marriage

    I am married. I met a girl...actually she met me. She was VERY nice, and VERY friendly. She took a liking to me right off. I told her that I was married, and that I wanted to stay married. I never told her that I loved her, but it didn't matter...she could tell. After we stopped...
    7gj7 7gj7 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I Cheated And Hate Myself...

    I cheated on my wife 15 years ago. She just learned about it one month ago. What I did was horrible and unforgiveable. To state the facts (and this was hard for me to write because it made me that much more accountable): After living together 3 years, married for 2 with a 1...
    healing4us healing4us 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2012

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    Well, last week we celebrated (not really,

    but whatever!) our first year of marriage. The past year our attempts to have sex didn't work out, mostly thanks to her and her lame excuses. We are still virgins! Thanks to suggestions from a couple of people on here, I decided to talk to her about getting professional help...
    rahulv rahulv 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I Had An Affair With My Wife's Good Friend

    I had always been attracted to her. She was a beautiful woman and that coupled with her personality had always drawn me to her. I had stolen glances over the years, and she had caught me a few times looking at her. I was always the married guy, and married to her friend at...
    Shooter66 Shooter66 36-40 3 Responses Sep 30, 2011

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    Hottest Story In My Inbox...

    There was never any question in either of our minds. From the moment that we met the electricity was there, the heat, sizzling between us like live current, arcing whenever our eyes met, our fingers touched. You sensed the fires raging just beneath my veneer of reserve...
    younglover89 younglover89 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    I had a affair on my wife

    after a 11 year realtionship. I want this to wok our between us badly. We are 10 months in the supposed healing process and she still is having visual memories of the two of us together and no we are 3 days into a sepration and i do not want to let go.
    aharrison435 aharrison435 31-35, M Jan 5

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    It Happens to the Best of Us

    I was in this relationship with this girl and she was absolutely crazy. She was controlling, possessive and insanely jealous of every single one of my friends. I couldn't do anything or go anywhere without her cuz she assumed I'd cheat on her. She said the one thing that would...
    SoulScreamer SoulScreamer 21-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2008

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    I'm Pretty Sure I Have A Problem.

    Truth is I have cheated on my wife hundreds of times over the 19 years we've been together. I suppose I should feel bad but for some reason I don't. I want to use this site to recount the stories or at least as many as I can remember. I met my wife at a local night club. We...
    Franks1313 Franks1313 41-45, M Nov 13, 2013

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    I Wanted to Be a "Sugar Daddy"

    I responded to an ad on CL from a girl looking for a "benefactor" to help her with bills while her income was down.  She worked in real estate and hadn't sold a house in a while.  I agreed to meet her for lunch.  I wanted to check out what this was like...
    ep6209 ep6209 41-45 Jul 25, 2008

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    She Was a Hotwife

    About four years ago, I found a woman who was absolutely gorgeous from the interenet.  She was married to a doctor and he liked her to have sex with guys and come home and tell him about it.  She was 5'2", 110 lbs. and had 32 D **** that stood right up there. ...
    fclaig fclaig 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 10, 2007

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    My Cheating Story

    I didn't really set out to cheat but I guess I've always been more into the chase than the catch. My wife and I married when we were both in grad school and I was still working in a bar. Most of the other staff were young and nice to look at but that was the extent of my...
    conradcook conradcook 36-40 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    I Cheated and Regret It

    I have been working away from my wife for almost one year, we are on different continents. The other night I found my self having sex with another women. The thrill of the chase got me and nothing else mattered. Alcohol was involved but I don't use that as an excuse. Now I fell...
    sunny1011 sunny1011 31-35 3 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    I Didn't Mean To Cheat

    My wife and I have been married for 16 years and I never wanted to cheat. I am one of three VP's and I went to the office party and had a bit too much to drink. Serena, from Personnel, offered to drive me home. I am an average white guy in my mid thirties and she is a tall...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 21, 2011

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    Cheat And Love It!!

    Love ******* behind my wife's back! It is sooo hot and no I don't regret it at all!
    ppaulllmmm511 ppaulllmmm511 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    This Is How It All Started And Why I Became A Sissy For My Wife.

    I was working at my part time job and this girl kept flirting with me. After several months of this, one thing led to another and we went out for drinks. At the time my wife was away on a short business. I seen nothing wrong with having a few drinks with a co-worker but ended up...
    transformedsissy transformedsissy 31-35 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    Yes

    I was out of town last week for a conference.  My wife has this internet friend in the town I was at.  She has never met this friend. I will call her Lori.  Well wife suggested Lori and I meet for dinner, she knows these conference things can get boring.  I...
    lookin4fun lookin4fun 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Sex Addict?

    I have cheated on my wife of 9 years, 3 times.  I currently am sleeping with another married woman and feel like I am falling in love with her.  My marriage is pretty much sexless because of my wife's health reasons and I am not attracted to her anymore (gained a...
    cincychillin cincychillin 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I cheated on my wife of 20 years back in 2011.

    I felt I was not getting the attention I deserved from her or the "I love you" from her. So I sought it elsewhere. We have made up and went through counselling and I cant stop lying to her now. I ran into the woman I cheated on her with in the grocery store and had a...
    pwilson68 pwilson68 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Cheated On My Wife With Her Best Friend

    So recently I cheated on my wife with her best friend. We were both absolutely wasted (yeah I know, not the best excuse) and met up on a night out. We didn't meet up with the intention of anything happening though, we're just both good friends is all. Anyway we spent the rest of...
    HarrowR HarrowR 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    I Cheated And I Cant Stand Myself

    So i been married for five years and i have two beautiful daughters that i am crazy about. My wife is the perfect woman, she cooks, cleans, and takes outstanding care of my girls. Minus the fights we been in which i now realize was mostly my fault, i have had a happy life. We are...
    cjollie cjollie 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    Perspective

    I didn't cheat on my wife. I was the other woman for a short time. But I want to gain insight on what is inside the man's head ... that's why I'm paying attention to this group ...
    twinker twinker 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 28, 2010

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    And I Lost Everything

    I married young. I was still in my horomonal rages, and even though I had a wife and child, I somehow got it into my head that I could have more. I cheated online. Now many people would say that's not real cheating, but in the end it's what the victim considers that matters...
    redeem26 redeem26 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for years. We have been dating for 2. A few months ago we signed a lease and moved to a new town. A week after moving in together we get...
    angrynhyrt angrynhyrt 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    I miss my wife who left about 1 year and 1/2 ago. We had a good marriage until my sister and her friends reinforced her belief i had cheated on her. I did not and for a while i...
    mikenmikena mikenmikena 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    So, I married one of my former teachers. He is twenty years older than I am. Of course this means he has had sex with more people than I have. I am his third former student, but...
    Hushgirl Hushgirl 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    ~I have been cheated on several times in my life. By different people. The first time it happened, the guy I was with was a **** head and sleazy, and I didn't really care but I did...
    Starliteyes24 Starliteyes24 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    my life has gone upside down from the day i have saw my wife kissing our neighbour in a park.i dont know why destiny has made me to see it,it would be better if i have not...
    sachinwaitin4u sachinwaitin4u 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Two days after we got married my husband cheated on me with his ex who left him 6 months before he met me and after we married she came back to him and he cheated on me with her...
    jennny098765 jennny098765 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Funny thing is I got caught 1 min after but it did not matter. I broke everything I believed in and stand for and the guilt will haunt me.....but..the universe works in strange...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Ive been cheated on more then enough times by several guys. Including the one I chose to stay with after I knew he cheated.
    celenahodgson celenahodgson 16-17, F Jul 8

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    Although, I feel I tried my hardest to break up with someone and let go of them they wouldn't allow me to. I cheated two years ago and I still feel guilty. All my friends left me...
    ActiveHalo ActiveHalo 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I had been married for four months before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It...
    krk314 krk314 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    well that's a lie. i think to be cheated on, you have to have been in a seriousness relationship so I guess it's not even a possibility that I've been cheated on fml
    amyrobbyy amyrobbyy 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    My first normal-ish relationship and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    well once again my happyness was shattered... by a blind self center nieve man who I am still in love with.... if not one but 5 people 5 see our actions and have the same...
    kaysdee kaysdee 26-30, F Jul 10

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    My husband never loved me. Our marriage was like an arrangement...he needed help, and I wanted to love (in retrospect, had I viewed it this way, I would not have married at all...
    mrswittywhit mrswittywhit 26-30, F 14 Responses Jul 22

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    What sucks the most is that I had to figure it out. All I ever wanted from the guys that cheated on me was the respect to come out in the open and say it to my face. You could tell...
    sonarlove sonarlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    i cheated on my girlfriend.. i honestly do love her so so so much. but i went over to the house of the girl i used to really like, but she never liked me back before but when we...
    supernava supernava 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I cheated on my girlfriend. I kissed and made out with countless girls in the club. Since then i didnt talk to her and we ended up breaking up. I was drunk but i knew exactly what...
    khulan03 khulan03 18-21, F 1 Response