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I Cheated On My Wife

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    Cheat And Love It!!

    Love ******* behind my wife's back! It is sooo hot and no I don't regret it at all!
    ppaulllmmm511 ppaulllmmm511 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    I'm Pretty Sure I Have A Problem.

    Truth is I have cheated on my wife hundreds of times over the 19 years we've been together. I suppose I should feel bad but for some reason I don't. I want to use this site to recount the stories or at least as many as I can remember. I met my wife at a local night club. We...
    Franks1313 Franks1313 41-45, M Nov 13, 2013

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    I Cheated On My Wife.. Many Times... Now We Are Getting Divorced And I Want Her Back

    .....when i met her i knew she was the one.... we fell in love. i acted like a **** a lot and pretended i wasnt bothered about her but whenever she tried to leave me or she pulled away i would panic and pull her back to me. we got married and bought a home, and fell pregnant with...
    worthlessman worthlessman 31-35, M Oct 16, 2013

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    I Am Cheating...But I Would Prefer To Have A Complete Marriage

    I am married. I met a girl...actually she met me. She was VERY nice, and VERY friendly. She took a liking to me right off. I told her that I was married, and that I wanted to stay married. I never told her that I loved her, but it didn't matter...she could tell. After we stopped...
    7gj7 7gj7 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I Cheated And I Cant Stand Myself

    So i been married for five years and i have two beautiful daughters that i am crazy about. My wife is the perfect woman, she cooks, cleans, and takes outstanding care of my girls. Minus the fights we been in which i now realize was mostly my fault, i have had a happy life. We are...
    cjollie cjollie 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    I didn't mean for it to happen.

    It just did. It wears my day off and I was home drinking coffee when there was a knock on the door, it was my wife's best friend. She was upset and was looking for my wife to talk to. I let her in and gave her some coffee and asked her what was wrong. She told me her boyfriend...
    Gravellemelissa Gravellemelissa 41-45, M Jan 5

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    And I Lost Everything

    I married young. I was still in my horomonal rages, and even though I had a wife and child, I somehow got it into my head that I could have more. I cheated online. Now many people would say that's not real cheating, but in the end it's what the victim considers that matters...
    redeem26 redeem26 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Perspective

    I didn't cheat on my wife. I was the other woman for a short time. But I want to gain insight on what is inside the man's head ... that's why I'm paying attention to this group ...
    twinker twinker 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 28, 2010

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    I Didn't Mean To Cheat

    My wife and I have been married for 16 years and I never wanted to cheat. I am one of three VP's and I went to the office party and had a bit too much to drink. Serena, from Personnel, offered to drive me home. I am an average white guy in my mid thirties and she is a tall...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 21, 2011

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    I had a affair on my wife

    after a 11 year realtionship. I want this to wok our between us badly. We are 10 months in the supposed healing process and she still is having visual memories of the two of us together and no we are 3 days into a sepration and i do not want to let go.
    aharrison435 aharrison435 31-35, M Jan 5

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    Cheated On My Wife With Her Best Friend

    So recently I cheated on my wife with her best friend. We were both absolutely wasted (yeah I know, not the best excuse) and met up on a night out. We didn't meet up with the intention of anything happening though, we're just both good friends is all. Anyway we spent the rest of...
    HarrowR HarrowR 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    I Cheated On My Wife And I Don'T Feel Guilty

    All through my life I have been faithful to my wives; they left me for other men. Now on marriage #3 after 12 years I am the cheater. We don't have children in the home or from the marriage. Maybe I'm having a mid life crisis, but I am seeing two married women while still being...
    JSlider JSlider 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    I Cheated And Hate Myself...

    I cheated on my wife 15 years ago. She just learned about it one month ago. What I did was horrible and unforgiveable. To state the facts (and this was hard for me to write because it made me that much more accountable): After living together 3 years, married for 2 with a 1...
    healing4us healing4us 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2012

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    I Wanted to Be a "Sugar Daddy"

    I responded to an ad on CL from a girl looking for a "benefactor" to help her with bills while her income was down.  She worked in real estate and hadn't sold a house in a while.  I agreed to meet her for lunch.  I wanted to check out what this was like...
    ep6209 ep6209 41-45 Jul 25, 2008

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    Sex Addict?

    I have cheated on my wife of 9 years, 3 times.  I currently am sleeping with another married woman and feel like I am falling in love with her.  My marriage is pretty much sexless because of my wife's health reasons and I am not attracted to her anymore (gained a...
    cincychillin cincychillin 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I Cheat And Love It.

    Once in awhile i hit up a dirty ***** i know for some side ***** when the wife is laggy or not putting out. This other ***** does what i say and lets me do whatever i want. There is nothing better than pulling a woman's hair back and telling her "get on your knees and suck my...
    socialdkiller socialdkiller 22-25, M Jul 16, 2013

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    My Cheating Story

    I didn't really set out to cheat but I guess I've always been more into the chase than the catch. My wife and I married when we were both in grad school and I was still working in a bar. Most of the other staff were young and nice to look at but that was the extent of my...
    conradcook conradcook 36-40 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    This Is How It All Started And Why I Became A Sissy For My Wife.

    I was working at my part time job and this girl kept flirting with me. After several months of this, one thing led to another and we went out for drinks. At the time my wife was away on a short business. I seen nothing wrong with having a few drinks with a co-worker but ended up...
    transformedsissy transformedsissy 31-35 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    She Was a Hotwife

    About four years ago, I found a woman who was absolutely gorgeous from the interenet.  She was married to a doctor and he liked her to have sex with guys and come home and tell him about it.  She was 5'2", 110 lbs. and had 32 D **** that stood right up there. ...
    fclaig fclaig 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 10, 2007

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    I Cheated and Regret It

    I have been working away from my wife for almost one year, we are on different continents. The other night I found my self having sex with another women. The thrill of the chase got me and nothing else mattered. Alcohol was involved but I don't use that as an excuse. Now I fell...
    sunny1011 sunny1011 31-35 3 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    I cheated on my wife of 20 years back in 2011.

    I felt I was not getting the attention I deserved from her or the "I love you" from her. So I sought it elsewhere. We have made up and went through counselling and I cant stop lying to her now. I ran into the woman I cheated on her with in the grocery store and had a...
    pwilson68 pwilson68 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    This happened two nights ago.

    I am a married man and this incident has given me mixed feelings of both guilt and pleasant sexual thoughts. I was on a business trip the past week and two nights back, I decided to visit a massage parlour on my last night at the city. This one was close to my hotel, and it...
    rahulv rahulv 26-30, M 6 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Hottest Story In My Inbox...

    There was never any question in either of our minds. From the moment that we met the electricity was there, the heat, sizzling between us like live current, arcing whenever our eyes met, our fingers touched. You sensed the fires raging just beneath my veneer of reserve...
    younglover89 younglover89 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    Affair

    I cheated on my wife last year. I had a 5 month affair with an old girlfriend. i regret doing this to my wife and im looking for help in how to make it up to her. I was a fool for cheating on her and want her back.
    woodyweb woodyweb 51-55, M 6 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I Had An Affair With My Wife's Good Friend

    I had always been attracted to her. She was a beautiful woman and that coupled with her personality had always drawn me to her. I had stolen glances over the years, and she had caught me a few times looking at her. I was always the married guy, and married to her friend at...
    Shooter66 Shooter66 36-40 3 Responses Sep 30, 2011

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    Deployed

    while in Afghanistan, I was going through a lot Of mental ********. another soldier( female) an I became Good friends. One night while watching movies. One thing led to another and we went to far. I Started at one point thinking I was having feelings For her. I know now I was...
    Chud7814 Chud7814 36-40 1 Response Nov 28, 2011

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    It Happens to the Best of Us

    I was in this relationship with this girl and she was absolutely crazy. She was controlling, possessive and insanely jealous of every single one of my friends. I couldn't do anything or go anywhere without her cuz she assumed I'd cheat on her. She said the one thing that would...
    SoulScreamer SoulScreamer 21-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2008

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    I Cheated

    About 2 years ago i cheated on my wife. The other person was her sister. She is the total oposite of my wife, which is what made it more exciting. She was willing to try anything, and i mean anything. After a year, i suddenly realised what a jerk i had been. I broke it off...
    weebos weebos 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Yes

    I was out of town last week for a conference.  My wife has this internet friend in the town I was at.  She has never met this friend. I will call her Lori.  Well wife suggested Lori and I meet for dinner, she knows these conference things can get boring.  I...
    lookin4fun lookin4fun 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Cheated On My Wife With Her Best Friend

    So recently I cheated on my wife with her best friend. We were both absolutely wasted (yeah I know, not the best excuse) and met up on a night out. We didn't meet up with the intention of anything happening though, we're just both good friends is all. Anyway we spent the rest of...
    HarrowR HarrowR 26-30, M Mar 21, 2013

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    Well, last week we celebrated (not really,

    but whatever!) our first year of marriage. The past year our attempts to have sex didn't work out, mostly thanks to her and her lame excuses. We are still virgins! Thanks to suggestions from a couple of people on here, I decided to talk to her about getting professional help...
    rahulv rahulv 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    My wife Do you know my wife? Of course not I keep her in secret because she is special All men who lay eyes on her Will try to steal her but they will failed My wife is not like...
    broskidude broskidude 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    I am the wife of a United States Marine. I am also the ex-girlfriend of another Marine, who cheated on me for a year while I waited patiently and faithfully for him at home...
    HeatherMD02 HeatherMD02 18-21 2 Responses Aug 11

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    This is a big fantasy of mine, I would get some help getting my wife to bed after she got drunk, then watch as the other guy looks over her body and starts to feel her up, looking...
    southlincsvoyeur southlincsvoyeur 46-50, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I would like to find a mentor to help me through his process of further convincing my wife and watching her with someone else.. If anyone can be that mentor I would appreciate it
    Justtryn2understand Justtryn2understand 36-40, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I had been talking for a while before he finally decided to ask me out the other day. Let me tell you a little bit about him. He has had a...
    unluckiestginger unluckiestginger 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My first normal-ish relationship and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been a year with, with one of my sisters good friends, who is also in a relationship. The connection we had, was passionate and thrilling...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Second experience with being cheated on. The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Long story short; he cheated. pissed off some mutual friends of the mistress. so they messaged me telling me of the child as a way to get back at him, they were hoping that I would...
    SilentRider SilentRider F Aug 14

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    I so want to just trust my wife. But every time she is out of my sight my mind starts wondering what she is doing. I just want to believe her. She likes to sugarcoat everything to...
    fishin4eyes fishin4eyes 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    My now ex wife and I were married 8 years all of them happy I thought I loved her we had to kids I loved being a dad and tried hard to be a good one. I tried hard for my ex too I...
    lovetoswim69 lovetoswim69 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Little jerk cheated on my with my "friend" i beat them senseless before tossing them out
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I have been with my bf for 4 yrs. I found out he cheated once just because the other girl found out about me and confronted me about it. They've been going out for 6 mos. He left...
    justmezel justmezel 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    I cheated....... My way through highschool. And I'm going to continue to cheat all senior year. Don't worry, I don't plan on doing anything serious like being a doctor or...
    tootaloo tootaloo 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 3

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    I always have an irrational fear that I'm being cheated on and it scares me cause I don't wanna confront him and I be right
    hickksey hickksey 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I cheated on my bf with his brother and I loved it ! Now I don't kno what to do
    bix101 bix101 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I cheated 8 yrs ago. He was abusive emotionally. We worked on our marriage even had another baby. She's 5 now. 4 months ago he told me he never forgave me and wants a divorce. He...
    jen120709 jen120709 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 10