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I Cheated On My Wife

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    Perspective - I didn't cheat on my wife. I was the other woman for a short time. But I want to gain insight on what is inside the man's head ... that's why I'm paying attention to...
    twinker twinker 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 28, 2010

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    I didn't mean for it to happen. It just did. It wears my day off and I was home drinking coffee when there was a knock on the door, it was my wife's best friend. She was upset and...
    Gravellemelissa Gravellemelissa 41-45, M Jan 5

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    Hottest Story In My Inbox... - There was never any question in either of our minds. From the moment that we met the electricity was there, the heat, sizzling between us like live...
    younglover89 younglover89 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    So my wife made a comment referring to my affair I had two years ago about the city we were driving to. I asked why would you want to bring it up it say that she said. Because I...
    howtostopthepain howtostopthepain 36-40, M Mar 30

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    Deployed - while in Afghanistan, I was going through a lot Of mental ********. another soldier( female) an I became Good friends. One night while watching movies. One thing led to...
    Chud7814 Chud7814 36-40 1 Response Nov 28, 2011

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    I Had An Affair With My Wife's Good Friend - I had always been attracted to her. She was a beautiful woman and that coupled with her personality had always drawn me to her. I had...
    Shooter66 Shooter66 36-40 3 Responses Sep 30, 2011

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    I Cheat And Love It. - Once in awhile i hit up a dirty ***** i know for some side ***** when the wife is laggy or not putting out. This other ***** does what i say and lets me do...
    socialdkiller socialdkiller 22-25, M Jul 16, 2013

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    Sex Addict? - I have cheated on my wife of 9 years, 3 times.  I currently am sleeping with another married woman and feel like I am falling in love with her.  My...
    cincychillin cincychillin 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I Cheated And I Cant Stand Myself - So i been married for five years and i have two beautiful daughters that i am crazy about. My wife is the perfect woman, she cooks, cleans, and...
    cjollie cjollie 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    And I Lost Everything - I married young. I was still in my horomonal rages, and even though I had a wife and child, I somehow got it into my head that I could have more. I...
    redeem26 redeem26 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    My Cheating Story - I didn't really set out to cheat but I guess I've always been more into the chase than the catch. My wife and I married when we were both in grad school and I...
    conradcook conradcook 36-40 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Wife And I Don'T Feel Guilty - All through my life I have been faithful to my wives; they left me for other men. Now on marriage #3 after 12 years I am the cheater...
    JSlider JSlider 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Cheat And Love It!! - Love ******* behind my wife's back! It is sooo hot and no I don't regret it at all!
    ppaulllmmm511 ppaulllmmm511 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    I Cheated On My Wife.. Many Times... Now We Are Getting Divorced And I Want Her Back - .....when i met her i knew she was the one.... we fell in love. i acted like a **** a lot and...
    worthlessman worthlessman 31-35, M Oct 16, 2013

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    This happened two nights ago. I am a married man and this incident has given me mixed feelings of both guilt and pleasant sexual thoughts. I was on a business trip the past week...
    rahulv rahulv 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I'm Pretty Sure I Have A Problem. - Truth is I have cheated on my wife hundreds of times over the 19 years we've been together. I suppose I should feel bad but for some reason I...
    Franks1313 Franks1313 41-45, M Nov 13, 2013

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    I cheated on my wife of 20 years back in 2011. I felt I was not getting the attention I deserved from her or the "I love you" from her. So I sought it elsewhere. We have made...
    pwilson68 pwilson68 41-45, M Jan 18

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    Yes - I was out of town last week for a conference.  My wife has this internet friend in the town I was at.  She has never met this friend. I will call her Lori. ...
    lookin4fun lookin4fun 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    I Am Cheating...But I Would Prefer To Have A Complete Marriage - I am married. I met a girl...actually she met me. She was VERY nice, and VERY friendly. She took a liking to me...
    7gj7 7gj7 46-50, M Jul 10, 2013

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    This Is How It All Started And Why I Became A Sissy For My Wife. - I was working at my part time job and this girl kept flirting with me. After several months of this, one thing...
    transformedsissy transformedsissy 31-35 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    It Happens to the Best of Us - I was in this relationship with this girl and she was absolutely crazy. She was controlling, possessive and insanely jealous of every single one of...
    SoulScreamer SoulScreamer 21-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2008

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    I Cheated And Hate Myself... - I cheated on my wife 15 years ago. She just learned about it one month ago. What I did was horrible and unforgiveable. To state the facts (and...
    healing4us healing4us 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2012

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    I Didn't Mean To Cheat - My wife and I have been married for 16 years and I never wanted to cheat. I am one of three VP's and I went to the office party and had a bit too much to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 21, 2011

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    I Wanted to Be a "Sugar Daddy" - I responded to an ad on CL from a girl looking for a "benefactor" to help her with bills while her income was down.  She worked in...
    ep6209 ep6209 41-45 Jul 25, 2008

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    Affair - I cheated on my wife last year. I had a 5 month affair with an old girlfriend. i regret doing this to my wife and im looking for help in how to make it up to her. I was a...
    woodyweb woodyweb 51-55, M 6 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I had a affair on my wife after a 11 year realtionship. I want this to wok our between us badly. We are 10 months in the supposed healing process and she still is having visual...
    aharrison435 aharrison435 31-35, M Jan 5

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    Cheated On My Wife With Her Best Friend - So recently I cheated on my wife with her best friend. We were both absolutely wasted (yeah I know, not the best excuse) and met up on a...
    HarrowR HarrowR 26-30, M Mar 21, 2013

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    She Was a Hotwife - About four years ago, I found a woman who was absolutely gorgeous from the interenet.  She was married to a doctor and he liked her to have sex with guys...
    fclaig fclaig 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 10, 2007

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    I Cheated - About 2 years ago i cheated on my wife. The other person was her sister. She is the total oposite of my wife, which is what made it more exciting. She was willing to...
    weebos weebos 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    I Cheated and Regret It - I have been working away from my wife for almost one year, we are on different continents. The other night I found my self having sex with another women...
    sunny1011 sunny1011 31-35 3 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    Cheated On My Wife With Her Best Friend - So recently I cheated on my wife with her best friend. We were both absolutely wasted (yeah I know, not the best excuse) and met up on a...
    HarrowR HarrowR 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    Yes i was the wife of a man that cheated on me, Husband that cheated with my best friend ,She was married to his best they grow up to-gather did everything to gather, that night...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Well for the last 10 years I have been married and over the last 3 years I now fear my wife emotionally. Since we had our first child life has slowly gone to ****. After our first...
    cyborg333 cyborg333 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    When I proposed to my wife, I knew she had social anxiety and body image issues, but I had no idea that her mental condition was this bad. The doctors haven't diagnosed her with...
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    I have been married for four years now and I have always been a faithful wife and mom. I have no intention of every cheating on my husband. He takes care of me in every respect...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    It all happened yesterday. I went out to a work dinner party and we had free drinks from my boss. We all got wasted drunk. There was a new coworker from Texas and him and I got...
    hellsvien hellsvien 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I have been with my wife now for 30 years and I don't think I can take it anymore. She has cheated on me three times but I forgot and forgave. I forgave her because we have four...
    jsk007 jsk007 46-50, M Apr 4

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    I have been cheated on many times I'm sure. The first and most memorable was my first love. Cheated on me 3x and that 3rd time I cheated on him and boy did that feel good. He...
    GreekGoddesz GreekGoddesz 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my abusive bf. I've lived with him 3000 miles from my home and family for 2 years now. He is insanely jealous and short tempered, also very immature and likes to start...
    Jevely Jevely 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I will write about this. I actually kind of want to have at least one story for each experience I've got listed, but I doubt I will ever manage all of that. I will preface the...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me with one of her coworkers. We'd been together for over two years. I'm so lost and confused. I feel so weak and unloved...
    MrStayPositive MrStayPositive 22-25, M 7 Responses Mar 18

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    I thought everything was perfect in my relationship, I had given up my family and my home to be with the girl, but not long afterwards she cheated on me with someone I know (and...
    Kurt18 Kurt18 18-21, M Mar 19

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    Long story short: I found out my (then) fiancé had cheated on me. I decided to forgive and fight through it. We got married. I found out that it had happened again, so we sought...
    seatothebay seatothebay 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I've been cheated on by my boyfriend they were signs there and I kept asking him to tell me the truth because if not the truth will come out, well it did I was hurt cuss him out...
    cara12345 cara12345 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    My boyfriend cheated on me last year. Long story short, he slept with her in our flat, in our bed I should say, and I found out the next day when I found him hypo-glycemic. That...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Over the course of our relationship these past 7 years we have up and downs and now it seems like everything's goes downhill again. My fiancé has an ex who is really close with...
    odalisr odalisr 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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