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I Cheated

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    This is probably one of my confession,

    but I'm prone to cheating. It's not the andrenaline that I'm trying to gain, I just feel more content when I do... like all my problems are gone. I was talking to my ex the other day, and I never realize how much I have changed since. I am now very jaded, I can't keep a guy...
    gingerbunni gingerbunni 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    I Do Not Recommend Cheating

    I cheated on my long term boyfriend (we are not together anymore). We were together for 11 years. I cheated on him with another woman when we had been together for about 9 years at that point. He knew that I had cheated on him. He did not know for some time though. When the levy...
    marisolmarisolmarisol marisolmarisolmarisol 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    I cheated on a girl that was wonderful

    and perfect and the whole 9 yards. Luckily, she never found out and we're still together
    oMeGa260 oMeGa260 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My sister set me up with a guy,

    the only thing is, after texting for months, i still didnt see him and he went to the same school. So, if he was even real, then i cheated. I just wonder who ever i was really texting..
    KiraAnkoku71 KiraAnkoku71 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    Is It Still Cheating?

    This has been on my mind heavy, so afraid that my bf will find out. Early this year I started a new job but I don't work their anymore, I became really close with a guy there. He adored me and treated me with much respect. I loved talking to him bc he's a great listener. At the...
    Milly8 Milly8 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    I Cheated

    I married at 19 to what I thought was the love of my life. (my first and only boyfriend ever at the time). It was a long distance relationship fro the first two years. I cheated once in that time, because me and who I thought was my best friend were in an unspoken contest to see...
    13cupcakes 13cupcakes 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I did. I never thought I could ever be capable

    of. Now regret is following me everywhere I go. Regret of having feelings for someone else, feelings for someone who is not even a possible love, someone who lives so far away, someone I may never see again, but someone who understands me. Someone who takes the time to ask me...
    mboni mboni 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I cheated on my bf of 3 yrs.

    ..but I live with my him. I want to tell him the truth but I'm not sure if I'd be making a mistake.
    MsScaredOfLonely MsScaredOfLonely 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    No Guilt

    I don't feel guilty for cheating- and this is terrible! I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy, he's the best I could ever ask for. Well, most of the time. And I'm madly, extremely in love with him. But anyway, I also have this ex. I had sex with him on the second day of our...
    ObsidianOre ObsidianOre 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    I had sex with my men's cousin 3 years ago & he

    stills complains but he still making love to me do he love me ?
    Revelyn Revelyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Ok first things first this is a gay story.

    Just a warning for the people who don't like reading about that. I've been with my partner for almost 8 years and its a great relationship. I'm still just as in love as when we met of course that love has evolved into something more mature but you get the point. Anywho we came...
    Lost881803 Lost881803 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2013

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    UGH... Regret!

    I have been with my boyfriend and father of my son for about 14 months now. Out of those 14 months we have only been together physically for about 2 1/2 months (not just sexually but because he was in jail) and I cheated on him twice. He is SO in love with me and I don...
    desolate0creek desolate0creek 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    It Was A Simple Innocent Touch, I Had No Idea Where It Would Lead

    I have been only married for 22 months, and I love my wife dearly, but we are so dissimilar that we have a very difficult time communicating in a meaningful way. Our backgrounds are different, our interests are different, the way we express ourselves is different, etc...So we've...
    ConfusionAbounds ConfusionAbounds 26-30, M Oct 18, 2013

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    I cheated with my wife's best friend.

    She was going thru a divorce and we were out at a bar with my wife and my wife's best friend and the best friend's sister. We got really buzzed and my wife left early. I went to her friend's house with her friend and sister. I had fantasizes about doing both of them many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 8

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    What Do I Do/Say???

    I was unfaithful to my wife about 5 years ago. I noticed recently that she still visits the woman's Facebook page almost every day, as well as her family and friends. I also found a folder containing hundreds of photos of this woman on the computer. What do I do? I've told...
    husbandandfather1 husbandandfather1 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    The Guilt Doesn't Go Away...ever

    i cheated on my boyfriend of three years with my best friend. this was three months ago. I feel like i destroyed my entire life and can not get past the guilt and pain of losing someone who i still love deeply. The guilt is like hell because regradless of what i do--i know...
    shnufairy shnufairy 18-21 10 Responses Mar 12, 2009

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    A Word On Monogamy

    It seems to me that women experience a much greater level of guilt when cheating then men do. Why is it that we continue to reinforce. It's idea that women are naturally monogamous when it seems like every other day, there's a new statistic about women cheating as much as men...
    SleepyMalo SleepyMalo 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    I drank too much at a party ,

    and I ****** up pretty hardcore. I am in a relationship with a boy who cared deeply for me and I cheated. I feel like trash. I'm not gay I'm bisexual and this is the second time happening . Every guy I date I cheat with a girl.. I don't understand why....
    BlueD93 BlueD93 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    TOP 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

    10. The relationship isn't THAT serious. In the beginning, you may find yourself in a brand new relationship, you're just dating but you really like the guy but you aren't quite sure if you want to be exclusive, men, you better not take too long to figure it out and seal the...
    VegaLove VegaLove 31-35, F 40 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    I'm going with my boyfriend 3 years now

    and everything's okay but like a year and a half ago I cheated on him with his bestfriend, he doesn't no about it we kept it a secret but i don't no what way to feel about it I don't regret it I just don't no what way to feel?
    xkiwi xkiwi 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    Whats Wrong With Me: I Have Cheated So Many Times But Love My Husband

    I met the man who is my husband when I was 14. From that first summer I have always cheated on him with other guys. I love the attention as I have low self esteem and they get me all excited. There has been 8 guys in 12 years. I have not had sex with any of them as I have...
    nevereversometimes nevereversometimes 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    I just need somewhere to release this pain

    that has been growing inside of my heart. I just don't know how to love the proper way. It's me, I don't know what I want. I end up hurting the people I love, just for another person I don't want to hurt. This is why I want to better myself, and not cheat in the next...
    distanceandspace distanceandspace 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    I Cheated On My Wife, Biggest Regret Of My Life

    ive been with my wife for 7 years, married for 2, we have a beautiful daughter aged 4. Like most relationships we have our problems. About a year ago i added to them. Finding it hard to stay happy, which then affected our sex life, about 8 times in a year. I took it to heart and...
    fordie35 fordie35 36-40, M 11 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    it wasnt technically cheating

    since were not dating but i hooked up with someone else. i was drunk. hes done it before too. but now he thinks things are different and im not sure if hes gonna look at me the same. your my best friend i dont know what im going to do if i lose you. THIS IS WHY YOU EITHER DATE...
    drugs666 drugs666 16-17, F Dec 25, 2013

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    I'm a lesbian, and my fiancé

    and I were engaged for almost a year before I kissed another woman. We had been having our issues. She's a surgeon and I'm classical musician, so we never really saw much of each other, despite living together. We were distant, but I loved her and didn't want to end it. I...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    The First Time ...

    we got together in private was at 8 am , he seemed really nervous and I really thought he was going to back out on the whole thing. I told him 'we don;t have to do this if you don't want to go through with it' -- but he assured me that he had waited a really long time for this...
    southernheat southernheat 51-55, F 8 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    I'm Cheating

    I've met a man that is from a very different background than me. at first we were friends but there was something about him. We went to lunch - safe and public right ?I let him kiss me that day and I melted. The next day he invited me over. I shouldn't have gone but I did. I...
    bbtwelve bbtwelve 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    So Stupid. I Hate Feeling This

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him to death We were out at a party on Friday night and were going nuts with alcoholy and a bit of drugs. I ended up in the bathroom with another friends boyfriend. We didnt have sex, just some touching. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 25, 2009

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    Well I finally got the guts to tell my boyfriend

    that i cheated on him in November I couldn't hold on to it any longer and it killed me everyday. I told him there were so many times where I wanted to tell him but I just couldn't at that moment. He obviously didn't take it so well and we got into this huge argument and all that...
    Kwolfleg Kwolfleg 22-25, F Jan 9

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    Caught Up In The Moment

    Let me start at the beginning. My wife and I are high school sweethearts. We have been married for 40+ years now. Her best friend in high school named Anna was also one of her bridesmaids. Anna was shorter than my wife and had larger breasts and a very nice ***. She was also...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for over 9 years now, and we have lived together nearly 1 year. Just over 6 months ago I got in touch with an old flame… BIG mistake. No matter how many times I told myself that nothing would happen, it did. And this is what happened: I'm in a very loving relationship. My...
    loira3777 loira3777 26-30 3 Responses Jan 27

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    You Never Know What You Have...

    ....until it's gone. I was with this great guy when I was 21 and he was 20. We wanted kids, a life together, the whole nine yards. I cheated on him with this guy that I barely even knew. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, my thoughts are incredibly scattered). Straight up, my...
    LenaDoll LenaDoll 26-30, F 13 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I Cheated

    I’ve always despised cheaters, but yet I am one. I’ve been married 7 years. With my husband for 11 years. My husband had gotten promoted at work.. and with that came late hours and lots of traveling. I love my husband. He’s an incredible man. I am blessed to have him in my...
    blueteacup blueteacup 31-35, F 25 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend And He Hit Me Please Give Me Some Advice

    Okay a couple nights ago I went clubbing and saw a gorgeous looking guy. I sat down and had a drink with him and halfway through I realized this was a guy my boyfriend hated but he was so hot I couldn't resist I left and was too drunk to go home and realized I had a housekey to...
    hbic3595 hbic3595 22-25, F 62 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    I cheated on my boyfriend of 6 months with one

    of my best friends boyfriends. I lost my virginity and my mind. It's hard even now and I still struggle with this mistake, I've been called every name in the book and after this mistake I questioned everything about myself. I forgot who I was, then I lost who I was. Still trying...
    haleyrae haleyrae 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Success

    I have been married for 15 years and like most people on these boards I had many issues with my wife. I was angry so many times with how she would "nag" me about my mother and my situation with my fathers illness (he had cancer and passed away a year ago) but what I learned in...
    JohnChoo79 JohnChoo79 31-35 21 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Our separation has mainly to do with me

    cheating on him 7 years ago. I can't believe I did that and now my family is breaking up.
    kschulz73 kschulz73 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    This Is Why

    asking to be loved the way I needed it... not being loved the way I needed it... not wiling to let go of you because I still wanted you to love me... thinking maybe I was not worthy of love... someone showing me a taste of what I was wanting... giving in because not strong enough...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Okay, I need someone's help.

    I'm in a long distance relationship and when me and my boyfriend want to do sexual thing we do it virtually, for example when we kiss we go *kisses you* Anyways, I did it virtually with another guy, is that cheating?
    SilentScreamer0 SilentScreamer0 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm Not Proud But I've Done It

    I met my boyfriend when I was 21 while working at a swimming pool where I live, he was 24, very handsome and athletic. For the first year we were together everything seemed exciting and different, but it soon felt the same as other relationships I had been in. He didn't have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    I didn't physically cheat on my boyfriend,

    just flirting over text with another guy (say what you will) but I feel I didn't do anything wrong and I know I kinda did. We are still together but I feel he shouldn't have been surprised. Ever since we hit our 2 year anniversary he doesn't give me attention or affection. When...
    krorenae krorenae 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Regret Always Comes Late

    I cheated on my 2 years boyfriend last year around may. we had a long distance relationship. he was in USA and Im in indonesia. I cheated on him while I'm working in malaysia in hotel. I just knew this indonesia guy as well, same age with me and I cheated with him and suddenly I...
    anjalouise anjalouise 18-21 5 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    No Under 18s!! I Cheated Dirty (; And I Don't Regret Any Of It!

    It was a breathtaking moment. I watched as my boyfriend left the room to go to the bathroom. I was left alone with another boy, who was more attractive than my own boyfriend. With a wicked grin, he nodded at me. Smiling shyly, I nodded back. He moved closer to me. I leaned...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith 16-17 8 Responses May 25, 2012

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    I think one of the worst things

    that has come out of cheating and ending my relationship, is that I'm in love with the woman I cheated with... It makes me feel like such a horrible person. I'm not though. I would've taken a bullet for my fiancé, so I try to think over and over again about how I could've...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I Cheated And It Broke My Heart. Don'T Do It If You Are Thinking About It!

    First and fore most, I am not trying to validate the fact that I cheated. I hold myself fully responsible for my actions and the outcome that unfolded. I was 6 months pregnant with my third child and my husband cheated on me. I befriended a man that was ten years older than me...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I cheated on my bf of 2 years

    and he found out. We've broken up but he has decided to try and see if he could forgive/forget what I did. To be honest, I think one of the reasons I made out with that guy was because I liked the attention. It made me feel beautiful and desirable. I hate it. I've decided to...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I don't know how to explain mine

    and Tyler's (my partners) situation, but we aren't dating but we kind of are? We dated for four years then broke April 2012. Since then we've been intimate still and treating each other like bf gf but not like an official dating. Well the summer of 2012 I had sex with my...
    MescudiLove MescudiLove 18-21, F Jan 23

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    Cheating With Women

    I've been married for 6 years. I've always been attracted to women as well. On nights out, or nights in, with my girl friends, sometimes I'd end up sleeping with or just making out with one or more of the girls. So tech. I've cheating on my husband several times with women. I do...
    BiBiJenna BiBiJenna 26-30, F 18 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    In the past, I cheated on all my ex boyfriend.

    It seems that once I started seeing sign of a red flag, I deliberately start searching for a new man instead of trying to work things out. I guess in some way, I gave up the idea of trying to put team work in, when there's a conflict in the situation. I went through years of...
    gingerbunni gingerbunni 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    bd693 bd693 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    Cheated And Feel So Much Guilt...

    I just recently had a one night stand with a friends friend and I know it was so utterly stupid and I've never felt so much guilt before because I've never cheated on my boyfriend or past boyfriends ever! I don't know what to do and how to tell my boyfriend what I had done...
    Kwolfleg Kwolfleg 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    My husband cheated on me with prostitutes. Two a month ago, and once in 2012, when we were separated. He had that one come to our house while our kids were sleeping upstairs. These...
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    I have been cheated on many times I'm sure. The first and most memorable was my first love. Cheated on me 3x and that 3rd time I cheated on him and boy did that feel good. He...
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    I cheated on my abusive bf. I've lived with him 3000 miles from my home and family for 2 years now. He is insanely jealous and short tempered, also very immature and likes to start...
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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I thought everything was perfect in my relationship, I had given up my family and my home to be with the girl, but not long afterwards she cheated on me with someone I know (and...
    Kurt18 Kurt18 18-21, M Mar 19