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    This Is Why

    asking to be loved the way I needed it... not being loved the way I needed it... not wiling to let go of you because I still wanted you to love me... thinking maybe I was not worthy of love... someone showing me a taste of what I was wanting... giving in because not strong enough...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Well I went through with it!

    It was even more exciting that I could have imagined! It was so good!!! He was much more of a freak than my husband has ever thought of being! Just what I was looking for!
    sallypaige sallypaige 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2015

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    alliecc11 alliecc11 26-30, F Aug 4, 2015

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    I cheated on my husband with another guy

    while we were separated (still is) and he completely blew up on me and called me a ***** even though we aren't technically together. Some people just like hogging the good ones I guess. I told him to get over it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Not on my boyfriend but,

    on my ex husband and basically every long-term relationship I've had....I felt justified each time. I was married once before to an alcoholic. He would disappear for days at a time, take all the money out of the bank. Who does that? So, that was his weakness. If I wanted to be...
    simplysusan01 simplysusan01 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2015

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    I recently cheated and I never in a million

    years thought I would. I don't even fully understand my feelings. I feel terrible about what I did to my partner because I love him so much, but the passion hasn't been what it used to and I was working late with a male coworker and we were just talking and then one thing led to...
    Cierrawr Cierrawr 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    I Cheated On My Husband

    I cheated on my husband over a year ago and it went on over several months. My husband is never here for me emotionally. It was at an emotional time in my life as my dad was dying. I met this other man quite by chance and friendship grew quickly into a sexual relationship. This...
    joolz52 joolz52 56-60, F 7 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I returned to EP once again.

    I cheated on my boyfriend with someone on line. I feel terrible and I needed to write it somewhere. I'm not cheating anymore but I miss him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 11, 2015

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    I remember it so dang well.

    We were talking on a park bench about something silly both laughing about the topic and then he paused looked at me and brought his head close to mine and kissed me. His tender lips moist, his fingers entangled in my hair, our lips and tongue just dancing together in slow...
    junejax2000 junejax2000 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2015

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    Not proud of it and have done it more

    than once. Less than 5 times. Do I feel guilty? A little, but I am also a human that has needs like affection, attention and passion.
    NJBeachGuy NJBeachGuy 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 14, 2015

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    I cheated on my current bf with an ex twice.

    He keeps asking about it, but I dont want to hurt his feelings.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 26, 2015

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    I've been so flirtatious with him from the

    first time I met him. There is almost always alcohol involved when we see each other. He is a good friend of my husbands. Last night we were together at a party and he pulled me aside away from the party so that we were completely alone. He kept hugging on me and touching my...
    kbishere kbishere 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Cheating With Women

    I've been married for 6 years. I've always been attracted to women as well. On nights out, or nights in, with my girl friends, sometimes I'd end up sleeping with or just making out with one or more of the girls. So tech. I've cheating on my husband several times with women. I do...
    BiBiJenna BiBiJenna 26-30, F 22 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    Why cheat? If you want to be with someone else

    then spare the other person's feelings and dump him/her. Guy or girl if you cheat you're a piece of ****
    RunDMC7 RunDMC7 18-21, M Feb 5, 2015

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    If someone kissed me,

    but I didn't kiss back is that still cheating if I pushed that person off of me.??
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    Cheated on my ex for

    so many different reasons that don't even matter now with one guy. Still with the man I cheated on him with though. I don't regret my actions just that I didn't break it off with him sooner.
    justfloatingby2day justfloatingby2day 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2015

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    My boyfriend at the time was a total *******.

    He was controlling and always tried to tell me what to do. He would log onto my Facebook and if he saw a guy had messaged me, he would lose his mind, and cuss me out. It pissed me off because I can't help that other people messaged me. That was beyond my control. I tried to...
    DeluxedEdition DeluxedEdition 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 9, 2015

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    in my first year of college I cheated on my

    boyfriend whom I've been with since high school... now we're graduating from the same college together. I've been pushing this down for a really long time because I've never told him, but it's really starting to eat at me. If I told him now it would do more harm than good... we...
    SplendidChai SplendidChai 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    Success

    I have been married for 15 years and like most people on these boards I had many issues with my wife. I was angry so many times with how she would "nag" me about my mother and my situation with my fathers illness (he had cancer and passed away a year ago) but what I learned in...
    JohnChoo79 JohnChoo79 31-35 20 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    I agree with some upset men here about the

    womens' excuses to cheat. Cheating is one of the harshest things you could do to a man who loves a woman, and a woman's excuse or as some women say, need "for attention, passion, etc." is a bit juvenile just because it is satisfying our selfish pleasure, like a child goes after...
    smalley1 smalley1 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2015

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    I'll be the first one to admit

    that I am not good at committing myself to a relationship, no matter how much I like and care for him. I guess my problem is that whenever I see a man who I think is hot or I'm attracted to, I want to be with him that very moment. I only cheated on a boyfriend one time and...
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    No Under 18s!! I Cheated Dirty (; And I Don't Regret Any Of It!

    It was a breathtaking moment. I watched as my boyfriend left the room to go to the bathroom. I was left alone with another boy, who was more attractive than my own boyfriend. With a wicked grin, he nodded at me. Smiling shyly, I nodded back. He moved closer to me. I leaned...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith 16-17 7 Responses May 25, 2012

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    You Never Know What You Have...

    ....until it's gone. I was with this great guy when I was 21 and he was 20. We wanted kids, a life together, the whole nine yards. I cheated on him with this guy that I barely even knew. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, my thoughts are incredibly scattered). Straight up, my...
    InPlaidWeTrust InPlaidWeTrust 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I fell in love with and married a Marine.

    We weren't living together during our engagement as he was stationed in California and I was in Texas. Unfortunately he was to be deployed 2 weeks after our wedding. So I decided to stay in Texas and finish things up with my job before I moved to CA on his return. One Saturday...
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    So my lover and I are going to the Caribbean

    for Christmas and New Years. I'm so happy I'm gonna be spending the holidays with a real man and am blessed to have my bf's mom covering for me ☺️
    Jasmine8888 Jasmine8888 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2015

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    I cheated on my husband with an old friend of

    mine. My husband and I rarely ever have sex and if we do I'm always the one who initiates. I haven't had a sex in over a week...and that was with my friend. I have mixed emotions about it all, but I think I really don't feel that bad because of how our relationship has been. He...
    darkcomesoon darkcomesoon 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    I was going through a hard time

    when it happened. This guy, he was always there. Much like a big brother to me. I invited him over, because my boyfriend couldn't come, and I needed someone to talk to. He talked to me about the problems I was having, and then he changed the subject. We talked about everything...
    hopelessambitions hopelessambitions 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    I did when my ex girlfriend all she did

    accusing me. I was being Scolded by her so I did it then when We got caught I dump her ***.
    Aphrodite1195 Aphrodite1195 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

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    I cheat, then I go tell my bf.

    And we reenact what happened. It made our sexlife amazing!
    BraveNewError BraveNewError 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 20, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    natalieccaa natalieccaa 26-30, F Jan 5

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    I was in a new relationship with L,

    but I got scared and slept with his best friend. I'm struggling to forgive myself and wish L would take me back tbh.
    FJolly97 FJolly97 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    I Cheated And It Broke My Heart. Don'T Do It If You Are Thinking About It!

    First and fore most, I am not trying to validate the fact that I cheated. I hold myself fully responsible for my actions and the outcome that unfolded. I was 6 months pregnant with my third child and my husband cheated on me. I befriended a man that was ten years older than me...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I decided to not to tell him.

    I know it will hurt him "if he finds out" but having $3x like the kind I had in my last story is too good to just stop. Something about it and then getting dropped off 30 minutes after at my bf's house hair still messy and kissing him with the taste of the guys €um in my mouth...
    k4rlie k4rlie 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I cheated on my husband with Brad my married

    older brother and I never regretted it. I am still cheating on Ted my hubby with Brad and others. Ted never suspected it and still sees me as the loving wife of his.
    Ambermomcheat Ambermomcheat 26-30, F 64 Responses Jan 4

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    I've been lonely in my marriage

    for quiet some time. I've been married for 15 years and while my husband is a good guy and takes care of me in every way, he neglects to important categories...emotional and physical. He is addicted to his Xbox and I usually am alone most nights. I had heard about Craigslist...
    abbydallas abbydallas 36-40, F 15 Responses Jun 27, 2015

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for ten years now.. I really love him and next year I will marry him.. But sometimes I just don't get enough affection from him and so I began to cheat on him last year, in a phase when we had almost no real physical contact with each other and became more and more just like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    I've been sleeping with another man

    for the last year. I have no guilt. It's just sex. I know the difference. He satisfies me, my husband doesn't.
    LostAndConfused95 LostAndConfused95 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 2, 2015

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    I love my boyfriend. We've been together

    for four years and hes truely the best thing in my life. But love isn't enough and keeping secrets gives me a thrill.
    AliceKeeps AliceKeeps 26-30, F 29 Responses Feb 23, 2015

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    Hi I'm new to EP and I want to state right off

    the bat that I'm a horrible person and I condemn myself but I have strong sexual urges and women have a right to express themselves too! Well I've cheated on my bf before, he's a nice guy but he's simply horrible in bed. I admit I stay with him because his family is wealthy. I...
    Jasmine8888 Jasmine8888 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    If there is a such thing

    as a serial cheater I believe I am one
    Braceface22 Braceface22 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2015

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    So I cheated, as did most people

    that are part of this group. I had a year and a half long affair with a coworker. I'm a teacher, and she taught in the room next door to me. We used to **** just about everyday in my classroom during our prep period. It was the hottest sex I've ever had. We didn't meet on any...
    Murdock1985 Murdock1985 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    So, yeah. I spent a good portion of my life

    being a liar and cheater, doing and saying whatever I had to just to get what I wanted out of life. Now, after full disclosure, I'm in a start over mode and I am fighting like hell to not be the same guy I was. WARNING to those of you who still do it under the cover of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    Well not really. We had a deal

    that I could be with other guys if I wanted. So I did. Hubby was mad but got over it. Now he's turned on by it.
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 19 Responses Aug 19, 2015

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    I cheated with my wife's best friend.

    She was going thru a divorce and we were out at a bar with my wife and my wife's best friend and the best friend's sister. We got really buzzed and my wife left early. I went to her friend's house with her friend and sister. I had fantasizes about doing both of them many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    My husband and I have

    both cheated on each other at some point in our relationship. He's been with multiple people, while I see the same person. He told me once that it made it worse that I keep going back to the same guy. I don't see it that way. would you?
    therealher1 therealher1 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2015

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