I Cheated

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    I cheated. There I said it.

    It is something that I am not proud of, and is something I regret. I think about the bridges I have burned, and mourn for the relationships lost due to it. My peers, friends, boyfriend, and the person I cheated with. I had always been and still am a hopeless romantic. I was in...
    thewalkingcello thewalkingcello
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    I fell in love with and married a Marine.

    We weren't living together during our engagement as he was stationed in California and I was in Texas. Unfortunately he was to be deployed 2 weeks after our wedding. So I decided to stay in Texas and finish things up with my job before I moved to CA on his return. One Saturday...
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    I've been lonely in my marriage

    for quiet some time. I've been married for 15 years and while my husband is a good guy and takes care of me in every way, he neglects to important categories...emotional and physical. He is addicted to his Xbox and I usually am alone most nights. I had heard about Craigslist...
    abbydallas abbydallas
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    I Cheated And It Broke My Heart. Don'T Do It If You Are Thinking About It!

    First and fore most, I am not trying to validate the fact that I cheated. I hold myself fully responsible for my actions and the outcome that unfolded. I was 6 months pregnant with my third child and my husband cheated on me. I befriended a man that was ten years older than me...
    emerald11 emerald11
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 9, 2013

    I cheated on my husband with Brad my married

    older brother and I never regretted it. I am still cheating on Ted my hubby with Brad and others. Ted never suspected it and still sees me as the loving wife of his.
    Ambermomcheat Ambermomcheat
    26-30, F
    52 Responses Jan 4, 2016

    Cheating With Women

    I've been married for 6 years. I've always been attracted to women as well. On nights out, or nights in, with my girl friends, sometimes I'd end up sleeping with or just making out with one or more of the girls. So tech. I've cheating on my husband several times with women. I do...
    BiBiJenna BiBiJenna
    26-30, F
    21 Responses Sep 8, 2013


    I have been married for 15 years and like most people on these boards I had many issues with my wife. I was angry so many times with how she would "nag" me about my mother and my situation with my fathers illness (he had cancer and passed away a year ago) but what I learned in...
    JohnChoo79 JohnChoo79
    20 Responses Apr 10, 2011

    So my lover and I are going to the Caribbean

    for Christmas and New Years. I'm so happy I'm gonna be spending the holidays with a real man and am blessed to have my bf's mom covering for me ☺️
    Jasmine8888 Jasmine8888
    22-25, F
    Oct 19, 2015

    so I started sleeping with my husbands cousin

    in October of 2015 and it continued until April 2016. First of all I know it's bad blah blah blah. I started growing feelings for this guy and he got married this weekend and told me that we weren't going to do it anymore I fell sorta crushed and hurt and I can't talk to anyone...
    Texangal123 Texangal123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2016

    I cheated with my wife's best friend.

    She was going thru a divorce and we were out at a bar with my wife and my wife's best friend and the best friend's sister. We got really buzzed and my wife left early. I went to her friend's house with her friend and sister. I had fantasizes about doing both of them many...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2014

    Hi I'm new to EP and I want to state right off

    the bat that I'm a horrible person and I condemn myself but I have strong sexual urges and women have a right to express themselves too! Well I've cheated on my bf before, he's a nice guy but he's simply horrible in bed. I admit I stay with him because his family is wealthy. I...
    Jasmine8888 Jasmine8888
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 13, 2015

    Was Feeling Lonely And Met Up With One Of My Old Flings

    Last night I met up with an old fling that I had. He was still really into me but I only use him because he was great at oral sex. And now this guy won't stop texting me. I already told him I'm still with my boyfriend and I don't ever want a relationship with him other than being...
    xoxoluvu xoxoluvu
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Aug 24, 2013

    I got caught cheating on 3 different gfs.

    In High School my gf's friend got with me and told my gf. She sent pictures of me wearing her thong and ones of my d*** to all her friends who sent them to a lot of people. In college my roommate walked in on me getting f***** with a strap on by a girl on our floor and told...
    trampstampguy90 trampstampguy90
    26-30, M
    Feb 25, 2016

    My husband had an affair,

    i got very upset when i found about it and left the home to stay with my parents There I met my old friend, old friendship started again and we started to talk and go out. My husband in the meantime regretted what happened and wanted me back. One evening I was sitting with my...
    mansikashyap mansikashyap
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Mar 26, 2016

    So, yeah. I spent a good portion of my life

    being a liar and cheater, doing and saying whatever I had to just to get what I wanted out of life. Now, after full disclosure, I'm in a start over mode and I am fighting like hell to not be the same guy I was. WARNING to those of you who still do it under the cover of...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    So I cheated, as did most people

    that are part of this group. I had a year and a half long affair with a coworker. I'm a teacher, and she taught in the room next door to me. We used to **** just about everyday in my classroom during our prep period. It was the hottest sex I've ever had. We didn't meet on any...
    Murdock1985 Murdock1985
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    I'm 17 and a junior. My boyfriend

    who I have been dating for 4 month is also a junior. 3 weekends ago I went with some friends to my friends cabin at Lake Tahoe. So we got there and were drinking on the beach And we invited about 6 boys in to hangout. Me being h•••y and drunk I picked a guy who was 21 to...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    Not on my boyfriend but,

    on my ex husband and basically every long-term relationship I've had....I felt justified each time. I was married once before to an alcoholic. He would disappear for days at a time, take all the money out of the bank. Who does that? So, that was his weakness. If I wanted to be...
    simplysusan01 simplysusan01
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    I cheated on my wife.

    I do regret it. She knows...I told her.
    fferret fferret
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    I'm new to this site,

    I just really need an outlet right now. So here we go. It's been over a year and a half now. But I cheated on the love of my life. I know so many people say they're not the type or it was a one off, and for me It truly was. I am not that person! I KNOW that I'm not. My boyfriend...
    silverrae silverrae
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 30, 2016

    Well not really. We had a deal

    that I could be with other guys if I wanted. So I did. Hubby was mad but got over it. Now he's turned on by it.
    deleted deleted
    16 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I would like E to chat with a woman on

    why you cheated. I'm actually interested in trying to get my wife to cheat on me.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    My boyfriend at the time was a total *******.

    He was controlling and always tried to tell me what to do. He would log onto my Facebook and if he saw a guy had messaged me, he would lose his mind, and cuss me out. It pissed me off because I can't help that other people messaged me. That was beyond my control. I tried to...
    DeluxedEdition DeluxedEdition
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    I was in a new relationship with L,

    but I got scared and slept with his best friend. I'm struggling to forgive myself and wish L would take me back tbh.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    I didn't cheat. But I am looking

    for people that have cheated on their partners & yet you love them still so much badly.. But you couldn't pass yourself to bring anymore hurt to your other half anymore. That's why you gave up. I really want to know the inner thoughts of the cheater :'( Ps: my bf cheated on me...
    jzyxbsok jzyxbsok
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    TOP 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

    10. The relationship isn't THAT serious. In the beginning, you may find yourself in a brand new relationship, you're just dating but you really like the guy but you aren't quite sure if you want to be exclusive, men, you better not take too long to figure it out and seal the...
    VegaLove VegaLove
    31-35, F
    38 Responses Dec 9, 2008

    I cheated on my husband with another guy

    while we were separated (still is) and he completely blew up on me and called me a ***** even though we aren't technically together. Some people just like hogging the good ones I guess. I told him to get over it...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    Most of the time people will tell you 'No

    matter the reason you still cheated and you're a bad person for it'. No doubt, I'm not writing this to be looked at as some hero for doing what I did. But I do want to be heard...at the very least. I found an amazing guy he is so tall and handsome and sweet as honey. I'd come...
    FeelAgain FeelAgain
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 26, 2016

    I decided to not to tell him.

    I know it will hurt him "if he finds out" but having $3x like the kind I had in my last story is too good to just stop. Something about it and then getting dropped off 30 minutes after at my bf's house hair still messy and kissing him with the taste of the guys €um in my mouth...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    I remember it so dang well.

    We were talking on a park bench about something silly both laughing about the topic and then he paused looked at me and brought his head close to mine and kissed me. His tender lips moist, his fingers entangled in my hair, our lips and tongue just dancing together in slow...
    junejax2000 junejax2000
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    I cheated on my husband with an old friend of

    mine. My husband and I rarely ever have sex and if we do I'm always the one who initiates. I haven't had a sex in over a week...and that was with my friend. I have mixed emotions about it all, but I think I really don't feel that bad because of how our relationship has been. He...
    darkcomesoon darkcomesoon
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

    If there is a such thing

    as a serial cheater I believe I am one
    Braceface22 Braceface22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2015

    I did when my ex girlfriend all she did

    accusing me. I was being Scolded by her so I did it then when We got caught I dump her ***.
    Aphrodite1195 Aphrodite1195
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2015

    I feel guilty now but at the time we was in a

    huge fight and I left with my child I called my friend and went to his house we had sex a few times that night and morning I came home the next day
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    I was going through a hard time

    when it happened. This guy, he was always there. Much like a big brother to me. I invited him over, because my boyfriend couldn't come, and I needed someone to talk to. He talked to me about the problems I was having, and then he changed the subject. We talked about everything...
    hopelessambitions hopelessambitions
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    I recently cheated and I never in a million

    years thought I would. I don't even fully understand my feelings. I feel terrible about what I did to my partner because I love him so much, but the passion hasn't been what it used to and I was working late with a male coworker and we were just talking and then one thing led to...
    Cierrawr Cierrawr
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    You Never Know What You Have...

    ....until it's gone. I was with this great guy when I was 21 and he was 20. We wanted kids, a life together, the whole nine yards. I cheated on him with this guy that I barely even knew. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, my thoughts are incredibly scattered). Straight up, my...
    InPlaidWeTrust InPlaidWeTrust
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 29, 2012

    I've been so flirtatious with him from the

    first time I met him. There is almost always alcohol involved when we see each other. He is a good friend of my husbands. Last night we were together at a party and he pulled me aside away from the party so that we were completely alone. He kept hugging on me and touching my...
    kbishere kbishere
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Nov 2, 2014

    I Cheated On My Husband

    I cheated on my husband over a year ago and it went on over several months. My husband is never here for me emotionally. It was at an emotional time in my life as my dad was dying. I met this other man quite by chance and friendship grew quickly into a sexual relationship. This...
    joolz52 joolz52
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    I returned to EP once again.

    I cheated on my boyfriend with someone on line. I feel terrible and I needed to write it somewhere. I'm not cheating anymore but I miss him.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    I've been sleeping with another man

    for the last year. I have no guilt. It's just sex. I know the difference. He satisfies me, my husband doesn't.
    LostAndConfused95 LostAndConfused95
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    If someone kissed me,

    but I didn't kiss back is that still cheating if I pushed that person off of me.??
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    All together I've had 4 real boyfriends,

    excluding the random guys I just had sex with. I cheated on all of them except the first one. After awhile I guess I just got bored of the relationship and wanted to have some fun on the side. I'm kinda still like this with the guy I'm with now. Though I don't think it counts...
    Dagwood420 Dagwood420
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2016

    Why cheat? If you want to be with someone else

    then spare the other person's feelings and dump him/her. Guy or girl if you cheat you're a piece of ****
    RunDMC7 RunDMC7
    18-21, M
    Feb 5, 2015

    I love my boyfriend. We've been together

    for four years and hes truely the best thing in my life. But love isn't enough and keeping secrets gives me a thrill.
    AliceKeeps AliceKeeps
    26-30, F
    27 Responses Feb 23, 2015

    I've been unhappy in my long distance

    relationship for around a year. He can be very manipulative and controlling of me, and we argue an unhealthy amount. I keep telling him I'm not happy and that this relationship isn't right, but whenever I say this he buries his head in the sand, tells me I'm being nasty or...
    thisisstrangelyhot thisisstrangelyhot
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2016

    This story started when I turned 17.

    I started dating the guy I lost my virginity to when I turned 16. Took six months after the events in my first story to get close to a guy. I was still dating (for this story his name will be John), he was almost 18 and worked part time outside of school. Between his job and...
    SaraBlaze SaraBlaze
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2016

    I fell in love with another boy

    while I was in a relationship. I broke up with the guy, was kissed by the boy and kissed him back, then got back with the guy. I have felt like **** ever since that happened. I was so cruel.
    katexlin katexlin
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    This Is Why

    asking to be loved the way I needed it... not being loved the way I needed it... not wiling to let go of you because I still wanted you to love me... thinking maybe I was not worthy of love... someone showing me a taste of what I was wanting... giving in because not strong enough...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2013

    I cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend

    i really want to end things with my boyfriend but he pulls the suicide card when i try and i dont know what to do im not gonna stop cheating i know thats for sure......
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    I cheat, then I go tell my bf.

    And we reenact what happened. It made our sexlife amazing!
    BraveNewError BraveNewError
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2015

    I agree with some upset men here about the

    womens' excuses to cheat. Cheating is one of the harshest things you could do to a man who loves a woman, and a woman's excuse or as some women say, need "for attention, passion, etc." is a bit juvenile just because it is satisfying our selfish pleasure, like a child goes after...
    smalley1 smalley1
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    No Under 18s!! I Cheated Dirty (; And I Don't Regret Any Of It!

    It was a breathtaking moment. I watched as my boyfriend left the room to go to the bathroom. I was left alone with another boy, who was more attractive than my own boyfriend. With a wicked grin, he nodded at me. Smiling shyly, I nodded back. He moved closer to me. I leaned...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith
    6 Responses May 25, 2012

    Well I went through with it!

    It was even more exciting that I could have imagined! It was so good!!! He was much more of a freak than my husband has ever thought of being! Just what I was looking for!
    sallypaige sallypaige
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 31, 2015

    hayy girl ?? chat me ,

    im single alone
    stevenliant28 stevenliant28
    22-25, M
    Feb 11, 2016
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