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    I cheated on the love of my life,

    I wanted so much more because the relationship hadn't changed in a year. She wants to work it out but I don't know if it will work out. I'm trying to make amends for what I've done. Everywhere I look people say I should break up with her or she should break up with me. She won't...
    PurpleJay PurpleJay 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Well, the expected happened.

    I told my gf I cheated and she took her stuff and left. I feel like sh*t. I know, my own fault. Goodnight world.
    nattybushamy nattybushamy 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm Not Proud But I've Done It

    I met my boyfriend when I was 21 while working at a swimming pool where I live, he was 24, very handsome and athletic. For the first year we were together everything seemed exciting and different, but it soon felt the same as other relationships I had been in. He didn't have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    I Cheated

    I’ve always despised cheaters, but yet I am one. I’ve been married 7 years. With my husband for 11 years. My husband had gotten promoted at work.. and with that came late hours and lots of traveling. I love my husband. He’s an incredible man. I am blessed to have him in my...
    blueteacup blueteacup 31-35, F 24 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    I've been so flirtatious with him from the

    first time I met him. There is almost always alcohol involved when we see each other. He is a good friend of my husbands. Last night we were together at a party and he pulled me aside away from the party so that we were completely alone. He kept hugging on me and touching my...
    kbishere kbishere 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 2

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    my whole life you can say was pretty easy I

    understood things alot of other didn't from a very young age up until this day but when I started dealing with boys my first relationship I was cheated on,for about 6 moths I was in a huge depression I moved on,onto to someone new first as friends then an actual lover during the...
    sluttycapricorn sluttycapricorn 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for over 9 years now, and we have lived together nearly 1 year. Just over 6 months ago I got in touch with an old flame… BIG mistake. No matter how many times I told myself that nothing would happen, it did. And this is what happened: I'm in a very loving relationship. My...
    loira3777 loira3777 26-30 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I Cheated On My Husband

    I cheated on my husband over a year ago and it went on over several months. My husband is never here for me emotionally. It was at an emotional time in my life as my dad was dying. I met this other man quite by chance and friendship grew quickly into a sexual relationship. This...
    joolz52 joolz52 56-60, F 5 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I'm 17 and a junior. My boyfriend

    who I have been dating for 4 month is also a junior. 3 weekends ago I went with some friends to my friends cabin at Lake Tahoe. So we got there and were drinking on the beach And we invited about 6 boys in to hangout. Me being h•••y and drunk I picked a guy who was 21 to...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 9 Responses Oct 6

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    I decided to not to tell him.

    I know it will hurt him "if he finds out" but having $3x like the kind I had in my last story is too good to just stop. Something about it and then getting dropped off 30 minutes after at my bf's house hair still messy and kissing him with the taste of the guys €um in my mouth...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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    I had a colleague who I had always thought was

    amazing, hot, and funny. While on a recent trip away, we got drunk and ended up in bed together, not quite sex but close enough. And now I can't get her out of my head. I love my girlfriend, and feel bad about this but I cannot stop thinking about the other person. Who is also...
    londoner2011 londoner2011 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Today. I ate a lot when I wasn't supposed to do

    so. I felt so guilty. If only I could just vomit it. Im pressuring myself because I'm getting impatient already.
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 2

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    Well I finally got the guts to tell my boyfriend

    that i cheated on him in November I couldn't hold on to it any longer and it killed me everyday. I told him there were so many times where I wanted to tell him but I just couldn't at that moment. He obviously didn't take it so well and we got into this huge argument and all that...
    Kwolfleg Kwolfleg 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    So I met this girl I've been talking to

    for over 4 years. She had the sexiest legs and the cutest voice. I took a quick plane trip down to meet her. We had a lovely dinner and drinks and I invited her back to my hotel room to watch some games. I started massaging her and she leaned back and her scent was...
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 2

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    I cheated with my wife's best friend.

    She was going thru a divorce and we were out at a bar with my wife and my wife's best friend and the best friend's sister. We got really buzzed and my wife left early. I went to her friend's house with her friend and sister. I had fantasizes about doing both of them many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 8

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    My stomach is in nots.

    I cheated on my boyfriend with a celebrity last weekend. I feel terrible but I couldn't help it. It was like nothing else mattered when I did it but immediately after I can't eat, can't sleep, can't stop shaking.. Just want to cry. I feel terrible but opportunities like that...
    kaylee84 kaylee84 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    No Guilt

    I don't feel guilty for cheating- and this is terrible! I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy, he's the best I could ever ask for. Well, most of the time. And I'm madly, extremely in love with him. But anyway, I also have this ex. I had sex with him on the second day of our...
    ObsidianOre ObsidianOre 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend And He Hit Me Please Give Me Some Advice

    Okay a couple nights ago I went clubbing and saw a gorgeous looking guy. I sat down and had a drink with him and halfway through I realized this was a guy my boyfriend hated but he was so hot I couldn't resist I left and was too drunk to go home and realized I had a housekey to...
    hbic3595 hbic3595 22-25, F 68 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    The Guilt Doesn't Go Away...ever

    i cheated on my boyfriend of three years with my best friend. this was three months ago. I feel like i destroyed my entire life and can not get past the guilt and pain of losing someone who i still love deeply. The guilt is like hell because regradless of what i do--i know...
    shnufairy shnufairy 18-21 10 Responses Mar 12, 2009

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    Caught Up In The Moment

    Let me start at the beginning. My wife and I are high school sweethearts. We have been married for 40+ years now. Her best friend in high school named Anna was also one of her bridesmaids. Anna was shorter than my wife and had larger breasts and a very nice ***. She was also...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 3 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    Was Feeling Lonely And Met Up With One Of My Old Flings

    Last night I met up with an old fling that I had. He was still really into me but I only use him because he was great at oral sex. And now this guy won't stop texting me. I already told him I'm still with my boyfriend and I don't ever want a relationship with him other than being...
    xoxoluvu xoxoluvu 26-30, F 16 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    I woke up naked, with a hangover,

    in another girl's bed this morning. So yeah...
    nattybushamy nattybushamy 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I fell in love with and married a Marine.

    We weren't living together during our engagement as he was stationed in California and I was in Texas. Unfortunately he was to be deployed 2 weeks after our wedding. So I decided to stay in Texas and finish things up with my job before I moved to CA on his return. One Saturday...
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 28

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    I Cheated And It Broke My Heart. Don'T Do It If You Are Thinking About It!

    First and fore most, I am not trying to validate the fact that I cheated. I hold myself fully responsible for my actions and the outcome that unfolded. I was 6 months pregnant with my third child and my husband cheated on me. I befriended a man that was ten years older than me...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    ive been cheated from this dam crap site i just

    wrote this long life experience took about 30 min and wen to scroll down and it vanished wow im upset !! to be continued i guess
    robhawkness robhawkness 26-30, M Nov 26

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    Success

    I have been married for 15 years and like most people on these boards I had many issues with my wife. I was angry so many times with how she would "nag" me about my mother and my situation with my fathers illness (he had cancer and passed away a year ago) but what I learned in...
    JohnChoo79 JohnChoo79 31-35 21 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Our long distance relationship became rocky.

    He couldn't trust me because he knew i had a "flirtatious" personality, and because he found out i was talking to a crush on facebook. In order to "fix" our relationship, he thought it would be best if he kept me away from guys. I could not talk to them or hang out with them. He...
    ninipoo ninipoo 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    Technically....

    I told him I want a divorce, he kicked me out with only my coat, purse and cell phone, I called my friend, she picked me up and we went to a couple of bars. Once the bars closed, we went to her new place and sort of got a little crazy. Oops
    livelustlove livelustlove 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I cheated on my husband with another guy

    while we were separated (still is) and he completely blew up on me and called me a ***** even though we aren't technically together. Some people just like hogging the good ones I guess. I told him to get over it...
    MaryAlias MaryAlias 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 14

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    I'll be the first one to admit

    that I am not good at committing myself to a relationship, no matter how much I like and care for him. I guess my problem is that whenever I see a man who I think is hot or I'm attracted to, I want to be with him that very moment. I only cheated on a boyfriend one time and...
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 31

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    Over the summer my boyfriend

    and I were visiting family so we were apart most of the time. We fought a lot but we still stayed together. We have been together for 4 years and I love him. I cheated on him. I got back to town earlier then him and hooked up with his Bestfriend. I haven't told him because I don...
    Serenity369 Serenity369 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I just need somewhere to release this pain

    that has been growing inside of my heart. I just don't know how to love the proper way. It's me, I don't know what I want. I end up hurting the people I love, just for another person I don't want to hurt. This is why I want to better myself, and not cheat in the next...
    distanceandspace distanceandspace 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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    Yup... I felt like a total a*shole.

    ... I still miss the guy I cheated on... I did it cuz idk the second one came up on me an he knew I was taken but still liked me but my first boyfriend followed my gay Instagram and saw that I used my other bf as actual bf and he saw... We had a long discussion then he finally...
    coolyogaykid coolyogaykid 13-15, M Dec 9

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    I did something entirely selfish

    and wrong last week, I cheated on my boyfriend. I don't want to talk about that though, what I want to talk about is how it has changed our relationship or more accurately how it hasn't. I assumed that cheating would change everything yet nothing has changed. I still feel the...
    Niikah Niikah 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 25

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    I was in a relationship

    for about 6 months when I got really depressed and confused. I didn't want to admit to anybody that I felt that way so I made mistakes and ended up sending nude pictures to strangers online. I told my boyfriend and we made up. But a few months ago it almost happened again...
    mmsag mmsag 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I cheated years ago but lately the guilt is

    overwhelming. We have the perfect relationship so I don't want to say anything to ruin it but I can't stand not telling him..
    bakerv bakerv 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    You Never Know What You Have...

    ....until it's gone. I was with this great guy when I was 21 and he was 20. We wanted kids, a life together, the whole nine yards. I cheated on him with this guy that I barely even knew. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, my thoughts are incredibly scattered). Straight up, my...
    InPlaidWeTrust InPlaidWeTrust 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I have no excuse. I was young,

    immature, selfish, and narcissistic. To this day I remain ashamed of my behavior. My daughter's parents are divorced because of my behavior. I shall never do it again.
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 24

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    uh I need advise I messed things up.

    .. I feel like I am two timing.... My current boyfriend/ex boyfriend... he lately barely talked to me for a month he was gone in japan and its an long distance relationship... the months before that was his exam time...so not much talking either.. so we had a lot of fights...
    sahikat sahikat 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    No Under 18s!! I Cheated Dirty (; And I Don't Regret Any Of It!

    It was a breathtaking moment. I watched as my boyfriend left the room to go to the bathroom. I was left alone with another boy, who was more attractive than my own boyfriend. With a wicked grin, he nodded at me. Smiling shyly, I nodded back. He moved closer to me. I leaned...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith 16-17 8 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Hello I'm 23 yr old and my boyfriend is 25.

    .. We are currently not officially together but we been for 3 years and still working on us. but last night while I was in the shower he went through my phone and saw a text mssg of my sugar daddy. Okay so he left on a trip today and when he was in the airport he called me and...
    cabramacho cabramacho 22-25, M Oct 29

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    This Is Why

    asking to be loved the way I needed it... not being loved the way I needed it... not wiling to let go of you because I still wanted you to love me... thinking maybe I was not worthy of love... someone showing me a taste of what I was wanting... giving in because not strong enough...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    The First Time ...

    we got together in private was at 8 am , he seemed really nervous and I really thought he was going to back out on the whole thing. I told him 'we don;t have to do this if you don't want to go through with it' -- but he assured me that he had waited a really long time for this...
    southernheat southernheat 51-55, F 8 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    In the past, I cheated on all my ex boyfriend.

    It seems that once I started seeing sign of a red flag, I deliberately start searching for a new man instead of trying to work things out. I guess in some way, I gave up the idea of trying to put team work in, when there's a conflict in the situation. I went through years of...
    gingerbunni gingerbunni 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 3

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    Up until 2 weeks ago,

    I was in a fresh, new relationship for a little over a month. I met him last year at my job and I've had the biggest "crush" on him ever since then. Just this year he told me he started having feelings for me, and decided to make me his girlfriend! His FIRST girlfriend at that...
    Milan207 Milan207 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    I cheated on my bf of 2 years

    and he found out. We've broken up but he has decided to try and see if he could forgive/forget what I did. To be honest, I think one of the reasons I made out with that guy was because I liked the attention. It made me feel beautiful and desirable. I hate it. I've decided to...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I cheated on my husband 2 months ago with my ex.

    Here is the deal. I met my ex 6 years ago, we had amazing chemistry but for some reason we had a miss communication and we stopped talking Nov.2009 the following year i met my now husband in June we dated but never felt a connection like i did with my ex. We ended up having...
    latinaBonita latinaBonita 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    Cheating With Women

    I've been married for 6 years. I've always been attracted to women as well. On nights out, or nights in, with my girl friends, sometimes I'd end up sleeping with or just making out with one or more of the girls. So tech. I've cheating on my husband several times with women. I do...
    BiBiJenna BiBiJenna 26-30, F 24 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    This is the most stressful thing I have ever

    had to handle in my life, yet I'm handling it and even making it worse, I believe. I had posted before in the sexless marriage category and took the advice of some; we were suppose to get married in October but I made the decision to cancel, not break up, until our issues were...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I'm I confused now. I know the right thing to

    do is never do it again. But my gf has been away all weekend, and I find myself in the other girl's bed yet again, right now. She feels so right. I'm feeling so wrong. Cliche as that sounds. Can't I have both?
    nattybushamy nattybushamy 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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