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I Cheated

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    I'm in the same situation.

    .. I'm so broken
    kascey2421 kascey2421 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 5

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    Would you forgive a cheater?

    Of they swore away their past
    kascey2421 kascey2421 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 6

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    I Cheated On My Boyfriend And He Hit Me Please Give Me Some Advice

    Okay a couple nights ago I went clubbing and saw a gorgeous looking guy. I sat down and had a drink with him and halfway through I realized this was a guy my boyfriend hated but he was so hot I couldn't resist I left and was too drunk to go home and realized I had a housekey to...
    hbic3595 hbic3595 22-25, F 67 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Husband

    I cheated on my husband over a year ago and it went on over several months. My husband is never here for me emotionally. It was at an emotional time in my life as my dad was dying. I met this other man quite by chance and friendship grew quickly into a sexual relationship. This...
    joolz52 joolz52 56-60, F 5 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I feel so bad about it.

    I still think about it even though my girlfriend forgave me. I'll never forgive myself. I wish I could just stay away from girls. Being a cheater is in my blood. My dad cheated on my mom
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Something I Never Thought I Could Bring Myself To Do

    But I did lol. Don't get me wrong I know it's wrong and I don't want to hurt him because I know exactly how it feels. I'm a very loyal person but after being cheated on multiple times by my boyfriend of 5 years I just got tired of playing the victim. I started cheating to get...
    jiltedxxxjilting jiltedxxxjilting 18-21 2 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    I cheated on the love of my life,

    I wanted so much more because the relationship hadn't changed in a year. She wants to work it out but I don't know if it will work out. I'm trying to make amends for what I've done. Everywhere I look people say I should break up with her or she should break up with me. She won't...
    PurpleJay PurpleJay 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    So I've never been in like a real relationship

    before just open relationships. So I'm not used to being loyal. But I found this guy, tho he is younger than me & I fell head over heels. We stopped talking & then one day he just asked me out & w/o hesitating I said yes. Well the next night I went out & partied & made out with...
    SapphireR SapphireR 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I know what i did was completely horrible

    and just disgusting The fact that i dont feel as bad as i should makes me despise myself more Justifying anything in conflict to moral judgement is disgusting I know what i should do: tell juan the truth. Everything. Spit out everything to him. Every lie, every emotion...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I'll be the first one to admit

    that I am not good at committing myself to a relationship, no matter how much I like and care for him. I guess my problem is that whenever I see a man who I think is hot or I'm attracted to, I want to be with him that very moment. I only cheated on a boyfriend one time and...
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I didn't do anything to bad cause I technically

    had permission to do so but I did in private and he doesn't know anything about it but I ended up fooling around with a former co worker one night after heavily drinking.... I feel awful but not to much about it
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 10 Responses May 1

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    Technically....

    I told him I want a divorce, he kicked me out with only my coat, purse and cell phone, I called my friend, she picked me up and we went to a couple of bars. Once the bars closed, we went to her new place and sort of got a little crazy. Oops
    livelustlove livelustlove 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I can't stop crying..

    . Why did I do it? How could I do something so awful to both my boyfriend and my ex... Why must I crave more... Why am I so weak? Everyone hates a cheater so everyone should hate me.
    feralady feralady 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    A Word On Monogamy

    It seems to me that women experience a much greater level of guilt when cheating then men do. Why is it that we continue to reinforce. It's idea that women are naturally monogamous when it seems like every other day, there's a new statistic about women cheating as much as men...
    SleepyMalo SleepyMalo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    TOP 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

    10. The relationship isn't THAT serious. In the beginning, you may find yourself in a brand new relationship, you're just dating but you really like the guy but you aren't quite sure if you want to be exclusive, men, you better not take too long to figure it out and seal the...
    VegaLove VegaLove 31-35, F 39 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    All last night and half of this day I spent my

    time with an old friend from school Usually this would be fine but it went from us chilling to us making out and touching each other EVERYWHERE It all happened really fast and it was totally unexpected Im not sure where to go from here because to be honest I enjoyed myself,it...
    hukah hukah 16-17 Jul 12

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    Caught Up In The Moment

    Let me start at the beginning. My wife and I are high school sweethearts. We have been married for 40+ years now. Her best friend in high school named Anna was also one of her bridesmaids. Anna was shorter than my wife and had larger breasts and a very nice ***. She was also...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 3 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    I cheated on my boyfriend,

    whom i have been a year with, with one of my sisters good friends, who is also in a relationship. The connection we had, was passionate and thrilling. We both didnt know why it happened at the moment(s), cause it occurred more than once. But as i look back now, i realize my...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I decided to not to tell him.

    I know it will hurt him "if he finds out" but having $3x like the kind I had in my last story is too good to just stop. Something about it and then getting dropped off 30 minutes after at my bf's house hair still messy and kissing him with the taste of the guys €um in my mouth...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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    This is the most stressful thing I have ever

    had to handle in my life, yet I'm handling it and even making it worse, I believe. I had posted before in the sexless marriage category and took the advice of some; we were suppose to get married in October but I made the decision to cancel, not break up, until our issues were...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I cheated years ago but lately the guilt is

    overwhelming. We have the perfect relationship so I don't want to say anything to ruin it but I can't stand not telling him..
    bakerv bakerv 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for over 9 years now, and we have lived together nearly 1 year. Just over 6 months ago I got in touch with an old flame… BIG mistake. No matter how many times I told myself that nothing would happen, it did. And this is what happened: I'm in a very loving relationship. My...
    loira3777 loira3777 26-30 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I Cheated

    I’ve always despised cheaters, but yet I am one. I’ve been married 7 years. With my husband for 11 years. My husband had gotten promoted at work.. and with that came late hours and lots of traveling. I love my husband. He’s an incredible man. I am blessed to have him in my...
    blueteacup blueteacup 31-35, F 25 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    No Guilt

    I don't feel guilty for cheating- and this is terrible! I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy, he's the best I could ever ask for. Well, most of the time. And I'm madly, extremely in love with him. But anyway, I also have this ex. I had sex with him on the second day of our...
    ObsidianOre ObsidianOre 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    You Never Know What You Have...

    ....until it's gone. I was with this great guy when I was 21 and he was 20. We wanted kids, a life together, the whole nine yards. I cheated on him with this guy that I barely even knew. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, my thoughts are incredibly scattered). Straight up, my...
    InPlaidWeTrust InPlaidWeTrust 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I just need somewhere to release this pain

    that has been growing inside of my heart. I just don't know how to love the proper way. It's me, I don't know what I want. I end up hurting the people I love, just for another person I don't want to hurt. This is why I want to better myself, and not cheat in the next...
    distanceandspace distanceandspace 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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    I did something entirely selfish

    and wrong last week, I cheated on my boyfriend. I don't want to talk about that though, what I want to talk about is how it has changed our relationship or more accurately how it hasn't. I assumed that cheating would change everything yet nothing has changed. I still feel the...
    Niikah Niikah 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 25

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    This Is Why

    asking to be loved the way I needed it... not being loved the way I needed it... not wiling to let go of you because I still wanted you to love me... thinking maybe I was not worthy of love... someone showing me a taste of what I was wanting... giving in because not strong enough...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    In the past, I cheated on all my ex boyfriend.

    It seems that once I started seeing sign of a red flag, I deliberately start searching for a new man instead of trying to work things out. I guess in some way, I gave up the idea of trying to put team work in, when there's a conflict in the situation. I went through years of...
    gingerbunni gingerbunni 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Well I finally got the guts to tell my boyfriend

    that i cheated on him in November I couldn't hold on to it any longer and it killed me everyday. I told him there were so many times where I wanted to tell him but I just couldn't at that moment. He obviously didn't take it so well and we got into this huge argument and all that...
    Kwolfleg Kwolfleg 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I cheated on my bf of 2 years

    and he found out. We've broken up but he has decided to try and see if he could forgive/forget what I did. To be honest, I think one of the reasons I made out with that guy was because I liked the attention. It made me feel beautiful and desirable. I hate it. I've decided to...
    ColorMe101 ColorMe101 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    No Under 18s!! I Cheated Dirty (; And I Don't Regret Any Of It!

    It was a breathtaking moment. I watched as my boyfriend left the room to go to the bathroom. I was left alone with another boy, who was more attractive than my own boyfriend. With a wicked grin, he nodded at me. Smiling shyly, I nodded back. He moved closer to me. I leaned...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith 16-17 8 Responses May 25, 2012

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    I cheated on my husband with another guy

    while we were separated (still is) and he completely blew up on me and called me a ***** even though we aren't technically together. Some people just like hogging the good ones I guess. I told him to get over it...
    MaryAlias MaryAlias 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 14

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    I'm Not Proud But I've Done It

    I met my boyfriend when I was 21 while working at a swimming pool where I live, he was 24, very handsome and athletic. For the first year we were together everything seemed exciting and different, but it soon felt the same as other relationships I had been in. He didn't have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 3

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    I need a young woman

    that likes older men! I'm serious!!!
    SCJohnny SCJohnny 61-65, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Cheating With Women

    I've been married for 6 years. I've always been attracted to women as well. On nights out, or nights in, with my girl friends, sometimes I'd end up sleeping with or just making out with one or more of the girls. So tech. I've cheating on my husband several times with women. I do...
    BiBiJenna BiBiJenna 26-30, F 23 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    I Want To Cheat Again

    My boyfriend for a year now was my everything when we first started dating. But about 7 months into it we started to hate eachother, and at about 8 months he left me for another girl while i was heartbroken. A couple weeks later I took him back. But he's put his hands on me too...
    NewtonD NewtonD 16-17 3 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    I Cheated And It Broke My Heart. Don'T Do It If You Are Thinking About It!

    First and fore most, I am not trying to validate the fact that I cheated. I hold myself fully responsible for my actions and the outcome that unfolded. I was 6 months pregnant with my third child and my husband cheated on me. I befriended a man that was ten years older than me...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I cheated on my husband,

    then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an emotionally abusive person. I was extremely depressed, and stressed, and didn't know yet that it was because of my husband. I...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I cheated....... My way through highschool.

    And I'm going to continue to cheat all senior year. Don't worry, I don't plan on doing anything serious like being a doctor or something. I'll be okay.
    tootaloo tootaloo 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 3

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    I have cheated on my partner .

    I hate myself and i regret doing this . But can i fix everything? I really in love with my partner :'(
    Wasanmid Wasanmid 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 2

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    Success

    I have been married for 15 years and like most people on these boards I had many issues with my wife. I was angry so many times with how she would "nag" me about my mother and my situation with my fathers illness (he had cancer and passed away a year ago) but what I learned in...
    JohnChoo79 JohnChoo79 31-35 21 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Hello I'm 23 yr old and my boyfriend is 25.

    .. We are currently not officially together but we been for 3 years and still working on us. but last night while I was in the shower he went through my phone and saw a text mssg of my sugar daddy. Okay so he left on a trip today and when he was in the airport he called me and...
    cabramacho cabramacho 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I'm 17 and a junior. My boyfriend

    who I have been dating for 4 month is also a junior. 3 weekends ago I went with some friends to my friends cabin at Lake Tahoe. So we got there and were drinking on the beach And we invited about 6 boys in to hangout. Me being h•••y and drunk I picked a guy who was 21 to...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 10 Responses Oct 6

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    I cheated with my wife's best friend.

    She was going thru a divorce and we were out at a bar with my wife and my wife's best friend and the best friend's sister. We got really buzzed and my wife left early. I went to her friend's house with her friend and sister. I had fantasizes about doing both of them many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I cheated on my girlfriend.

    I kissed and made out with countless girls in the club. Since then i didnt talk to her and we ended up breaking up. I was drunk but i knew exactly what i was doing. The guilt is now buried but still cant get over it. Girls are beautiful. Long distance kills me.
    khulan03 khulan03 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I was in a relationship

    for about 6 months when I got really depressed and confused. I didn't want to admit to anybody that I felt that way so I made mistakes and ended up sending nude pictures to strangers online. I told my boyfriend and we made up. But a few months ago it almost happened again...
    mmsag mmsag 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    i cheated on my girlfriend.

    . i honestly do love her so so so much. but i went over to the house of the girl i used to really like, but she never liked me back before but when we would hang out a lot, this one time i went over we just ended up kissing, and then i got on too of her and started kissing her...
    supernava supernava 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    My now ex was out of town

    for the weekend and I met this guy at lowes. I was looking for a new ceiling fan and asked him about them or whatever. So he helped me out and stuff. He asked me for my number but I was do caught off guard by the question I just kinda nervously have it to him. Soooo the next day...
    ConfidentLee ConfidentLee 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    The First Time ...

    we got together in private was at 8 am , he seemed really nervous and I really thought he was going to back out on the whole thing. I told him 'we don;t have to do this if you don't want to go through with it' -- but he assured me that he had waited a really long time for this...
    southernheat southernheat 51-55, F 8 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    I had sex with my men's cousin 3 years ago & he

    stills complains but he still making love to me do he love me ?
    Revelyn Revelyn 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    The Guilt Doesn't Go Away...ever

    i cheated on my boyfriend of three years with my best friend. this was three months ago. I feel like i destroyed my entire life and can not get past the guilt and pain of losing someone who i still love deeply. The guilt is like hell because regradless of what i do--i know...
    shnufairy shnufairy 18-21 10 Responses Mar 12, 2009

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