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    I cheated with my fiancee's cousin.

    I have been with my fiancee for about 4 years now. I love her and we have had a really good relationship. The only problem is that she is nowhere near as **** as her cousin. Her cousin is hot and has a great body while my fiancee is slightly overweight. My fiancee and my cousin...
    uiop969 uiop969 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I didn't do anything to bad cause I technically

    had permission to do so but I did in private and he doesn't know anything about it but I ended up fooling around with a former co worker one night after heavily drinking.... I feel awful but not to much about it
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 8 Responses May 1, 2014

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    I cheated on my boyfriend.

    I'm not sure how I should tell him... :( I still love him, and I had no affection towards the guy I cheated with, should I call him and tell him or wait until I visit him in his home state? And the cheating was only one time.
    throughourowneyes throughourowneyes 18-21, F 6 Responses May 1

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    I haven't seen my boyfriend in about a month,

    we're both super busy and our schedules have been conflicting. I have a friend and coworker who I have been getting closer to. It started with us being friends, then close friends, then into an innocent mutual crush. From a crush we both developed feelings for each other...
    Madixi Madixi 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    I have been married for 15 years and like most people on these boards I had many issues with my wife. I was angry so many times with how she would "nag" me about my mother and my situation with my fathers illness (he had cancer and passed away a year ago) but what I learned in...
    JohnChoo79 JohnChoo79 31-35 20 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    I'll be the first one to admit

    that I am not good at committing myself to a relationship, no matter how much I like and care for him. I guess my problem is that whenever I see a man who I think is hot or I'm attracted to, I want to be with him that very moment. I only cheated on a boyfriend one time and...
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I cheated before but I think it was

    because I felt so confined... I wasn't happy and acted out selfishly, in a way I wasn't proud of but ultimately I learned to never settle in a relationship where my needs aren't being met.
    ladysapio ladysapio 22-25, F 1 Response May 30

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    I cheat, then I go tell my bf.

    And we reenact what happened. It made our sexlife amazing!
    BraveNewError BraveNewError 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    I decided to not to tell him.

    I know it will hurt him "if he finds out" but having $3x like the kind I had in my last story is too good to just stop. Something about it and then getting dropped off 30 minutes after at my bf's house hair still messy and kissing him with the taste of the guys €um in my mouth...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I am not using this as a statement of pride,

    I can assure you it is entirely the opposite. I never enjoyed lying, hiding or sneaking around and I loved my husband very much. I was foolish and thought it was the only way. After my husband found out, we began to rebuild our marriage and it continues to get better and...
    Looking4Oz Looking4Oz 26-30, F 3 Responses May 17

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    couldn't help it, I'm sorry I don't know

    why I did it, I'm not proud of it I gave in became weak to the thrill. I don't recommend it the feeling only lasts a few days the after effects last a lifetime. Thanks for reading
    someonesjuliet someonesjuliet 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    IIDave95II IIDave95II 18-21, M 2 Responses May 6

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    The First Time ...

    we got together in private was at 8 am , he seemed really nervous and I really thought he was going to back out on the whole thing. I told him 'we don;t have to do this if you don't want to go through with it' -- but he assured me that he had waited a really long time for this...
    southernheat southernheat 51-55, F 8 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Should I tell him? I treat him like ****

    because I can't live with myself and i want him to leave me. I can't bear to break up with him. He's my rock. I don't want to hurt him anymore but he would never leave me because he feels that whenever i try to leave him without giving him a good reason, its because I suffer...
    thisbasicbsh thisbasicbsh 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 21

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    hmg21699 hmg21699 18-21 2 Responses May 10

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    I feel guilty now but at the time we was in a

    huge fight and I left with my child I called my friend and went to his house we had sex a few times that night and morning I came home the next day
    newfounddream newfounddream 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    I cheated on my husband with my friends husband.

    I've felt guilty ever since. I don't think I'll sleep with anyone besides him again. But I do like to flirt.
    notyourgirl notyourgirl 36-40, F 4 Responses May 17

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    I fell in love with and married a Marine.

    We weren't living together during our engagement as he was stationed in California and I was in Texas. Unfortunately he was to be deployed 2 weeks after our wedding. So I decided to stay in Texas and finish things up with my job before I moved to CA on his return. One Saturday...
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    My story starts in the summer

    after my final year of school when I reconnected with a former girlfriend from high school....we proceeded to have an extremely intense physical fling all summer without the knowledge of her boyfriend. We then had an open relationship for 6 months until we became exclusive...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20

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    I Cheated And It Broke My Heart. Don'T Do It If You Are Thinking About It!

    First and fore most, I am not trying to validate the fact that I cheated. I hold myself fully responsible for my actions and the outcome that unfolded. I was 6 months pregnant with my third child and my husband cheated on me. I befriended a man that was ten years older than me...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I cheated on my husband today.

    ... I'm not proud of it but a part of me is. I love him with all my heart I would never intentionally hurt him. So this is what happened: I left my class today and went to the men's room. The stall and a board piece where the toilet paper used to be. It fell and the guy in the...
    spencer369 spencer369 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Well, I don't know where to start.

    . I'm 19 and live in London.. Basically back in 2010/2011 I started speaking to a boy (I'll call him E) on fb who I found out lived quite close to me and I shared mutual friends with, at first there was no attraction there for me but then we started speaking almost everyday and...
    Ceecee19x Ceecee19x 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I love my boyfriend. We've been together

    for four years and hes truely the best thing in my life. But love isn't enough and keeping secrets gives me a thrill.
    AliceKeeps AliceKeeps 26-30, F 33 Responses Feb 23

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    I am 22 years old and I cheated on my boyfriend

    just 2 months into our relationship. The guy I cheated on with was 9 years older, divorced and had a 5 year old daughter. He was also a successful architect who lived in a stunning house and drove a hot car. I met him last December when we all went out clubbing. I was with my...
    HazelLancaster HazelLancaster 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 10

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    TOP 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

    10. The relationship isn't THAT serious. In the beginning, you may find yourself in a brand new relationship, you're just dating but you really like the guy but you aren't quite sure if you want to be exclusive, men, you better not take too long to figure it out and seal the...
    VegaLove VegaLove 31-35, F 39 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    Yeah... So I cheated.

    .. In the math test. I know! I'm really bad
    Zarahaider18 Zarahaider18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I cheated. and I feel bad about it.

    I just got so caught up in the moment. I forgot about my fiancé been together for five years and about to get married. I ruined it worst of all he in the Air Force. We been together since high school. He was the perfect boyfriend and fiancé and partner in every single way. But...
    Somechick47 Somechick47 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    I'm 17 and a junior. My boyfriend

    who I have been dating for 4 month is also a junior. 3 weekends ago I went with some friends to my friends cabin at Lake Tahoe. So we got there and were drinking on the beach And we invited about 6 boys in to hangout. Me being h•••y and drunk I picked a guy who was 21 to...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 10 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I've been so flirtatious with him from the

    first time I met him. There is almost always alcohol involved when we see each other. He is a good friend of my husbands. Last night we were together at a party and he pulled me aside away from the party so that we were completely alone. He kept hugging on me and touching my...
    kbishere kbishere 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    My boyfriend at the time was a total *******.

    He was controlling and always tried to tell me what to do. He would log onto my Facebook and if he saw a guy had messaged me, he would lose his mind, and cuss me out. It pissed me off because I can't help that other people messaged me. That was beyond my control. I tried to...
    DeluxedEdition DeluxedEdition 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    The guy I cheated on with my boyfriend just

    snapped chatted me since I blocked his number from my phone. Should I reply and tell him I'm done? Or just ignore him? I mean if I really meant anything he'd come to my house and try to talk to me or something. Right?
    Boppoutt Boppoutt 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    I've been lonely in my marriage

    for quiet some time. I've been married for 15 years and while my husband is a good guy and takes care of me in every way, he neglects to important categories...emotional and physical. He is addicted to his Xbox and I usually am alone most nights. I had heard about Craigslist...
    abbydallas abbydallas 36-40, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I slept with my best friends boyfriend.

    I'm kind of confused because I don't even feel guilty which I thought I would, it was really fun and I think I'd happily do it again. Anyone gone through anything similar or have any pointers?
    xAnna92x xAnna92x 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 30

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    You Never Know What You Have...

    ....until it's gone. I was with this great guy when I was 21 and he was 20. We wanted kids, a life together, the whole nine yards. I cheated on him with this guy that I barely even knew. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, my thoughts are incredibly scattered). Straight up, my...
    InPlaidWeTrust InPlaidWeTrust 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I've always had a knack

    for computers. Ever since I was 12, computers interested me. So I spent my free time either studying modern (For the time) security software and basic coding, as well as multiple programs used in security. I was always pretty good in tech and math, I usually got low marks on my...
    Rylle Rylle 18-21, M 1 Response May 14

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    Why cheat? If you want to be with someone else

    then spare the other person's feelings and dump him/her. Guy or girl if you cheat you're a piece of ****
    RunDMC7 RunDMC7 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    So today I've cheated on my test,

    got caught. but surprisingly, I wasn't scared to face the consequences, when I went to speak to my teacher, she told me what will happen and that they'll tell my parents, she also asked why. i know what i did was wrong, she can punish me, everyone can, but I didn't do it to get...
    tantinaaaa tantinaaaa 16-17, F May 8

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    Was Feeling Lonely And Met Up With One Of My Old Flings

    Last night I met up with an old fling that I had. He was still really into me but I only use him because he was great at oral sex. And now this guy won't stop texting me. I already told him I'm still with my boyfriend and I don't ever want a relationship with him other than being...
    xoxoluvu xoxoluvu 26-30, F 14 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    This Is Why

    asking to be loved the way I needed it... not being loved the way I needed it... not wiling to let go of you because I still wanted you to love me... thinking maybe I was not worthy of love... someone showing me a taste of what I was wanting... giving in because not strong enough...
    psychomagnet psychomagnet 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Dear husband I was devoted to him

    but I don't see him only the streets can keep HIM my son was born into greatness but it was a nightmare when I was pregnant the lies the cheating being alone in my marriage at 22 it shouldn't feel like a death wish I was so filled with hate sometimes I wish you were dead I felt...
    LuxuriousBitch LuxuriousBitch 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    No Under 18s!! I Cheated Dirty (; And I Don't Regret Any Of It!

    It was a breathtaking moment. I watched as my boyfriend left the room to go to the bathroom. I was left alone with another boy, who was more attractive than my own boyfriend. With a wicked grin, he nodded at me. Smiling shyly, I nodded back. He moved closer to me. I leaned...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith 16-17 7 Responses May 25, 2012

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    I'm starting to feel the guilt of it all now.

    ..I've tried to end my relationship on several occasions simply because I felt we weren't seeing eye to eye and other factors were included as well. When times are good I feel like my heart is all in and when they're bad I'm ready to jump ship....he's tried to fix the...
    DirtyDianah DirtyDianah 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I cheated on my husband with another guy

    while we were separated (still is) and he completely blew up on me and called me a ***** even though we aren't technically together. Some people just like hogging the good ones I guess. I told him to get over it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    We weren't together

    for too long. He kissed his friend after three months of being in a relationship with me. He admitted it a week later and my response was I'd get him back twice as hard. Two months later I did and I regret it. I lost him, and I still love him so much..
    jac408 jac408 18-21, F Mar 29

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    i just cheated on my wife with another married

    man in a park. he drives a service van and there were other cars there so we had sex in the back. a car parked beside us as he was doing it and the guy got out and watched as i got pounded. was not a cop or i would have definatly been arrested.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 1

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