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    I didn't do anything to bad cause I technically

    had permission to do so but I did in private and he doesn't know anything about it but I ended up fooling around with a former co worker one night after heavily drinking.... I feel awful but not to much about it
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 8 Responses May 1, 2014

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    No Under 18s!! I Cheated Dirty (; And I Don't Regret Any Of It!

    It was a breathtaking moment. I watched as my boyfriend left the room to go to the bathroom. I was left alone with another boy, who was more attractive than my own boyfriend. With a wicked grin, he nodded at me. Smiling shyly, I nodded back. He moved closer to me. I leaned...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith 16-17 7 Responses May 25, 2012

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    My story starts in the summer

    after my final year of school when I reconnected with a former girlfriend from high school....we proceeded to have an extremely intense physical fling all summer without the knowledge of her boyfriend. We then had an open relationship for 6 months until we became exclusive...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20

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    Two weeks ago I ****** my friends flatmate.

    Last week I did it again. It's not a big deal except my friends are the OHs friends and this is the first time I've been so close to spilling my secrets. It's not a big deal except that I can't think of anything else. His lips, his hands, his taste in my mouth. It's not a big...
    AliceKeeps AliceKeeps 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    I Cheated And It Broke My Heart. Don'T Do It If You Are Thinking About It!

    First and fore most, I am not trying to validate the fact that I cheated. I hold myself fully responsible for my actions and the outcome that unfolded. I was 6 months pregnant with my third child and my husband cheated on me. I befriended a man that was ten years older than me...
    emerald11 emerald11 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I did this to myself really.

    I thought I wanted something that looked so good. The beauty was amazing and so pleasing to my eyes, not that yours wasn't, hers was just different, and my shallow mind took the bait. How could I do such harm to you, the woman who loved me unconditionally, the woman who gave me...
    MyPaperMoon MyPaperMoon 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I love my boyfriend. We've been together

    for four years and hes truely the best thing in my life. But love isn't enough and keeping secrets gives me a thrill.
    AliceKeeps AliceKeeps 26-30, F 31 Responses Feb 23

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    I cheated on my boyfriend.

    I'm not sure how I should tell him... :( I still love him, and I had no affection towards the guy I cheated with, should I call him and tell him or wait until I visit him in his home state? And the cheating was only one time.
    throughourowneyes throughourowneyes 18-21, F 6 Responses May 1

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    I was fighting my gf once

    and my friend was over and have always had a crush on him, said it was time to take him home....when we got to his place we had "fun" and it was like nothing ice ever experienced!
    lizzyObeth lizzyObeth 18-21, T 1 day ago

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    I cheated before but I think it was

    because I felt so confined... I wasn't happy and acted out selfishly, in a way I wasn't proud of but ultimately I learned to never settle in a relationship where my needs aren't being met.
    ladysapio ladysapio 22-25, F 1 Response May 30

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    I'm starting to feel the guilt of it all now.

    ..I've tried to end my relationship on several occasions simply because I felt we weren't seeing eye to eye and other factors were included as well. When times are good I feel like my heart is all in and when they're bad I'm ready to jump ship....he's tried to fix the...
    DirtyDianah DirtyDianah 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    TOP 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

    10. The relationship isn't THAT serious. In the beginning, you may find yourself in a brand new relationship, you're just dating but you really like the guy but you aren't quite sure if you want to be exclusive, men, you better not take too long to figure it out and seal the...
    VegaLove VegaLove 31-35, F 39 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    You Never Know What You Have...

    ....until it's gone. I was with this great guy when I was 21 and he was 20. We wanted kids, a life together, the whole nine yards. I cheated on him with this guy that I barely even knew. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense, my thoughts are incredibly scattered). Straight up, my...
    InPlaidWeTrust InPlaidWeTrust 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    So today I've cheated on my test,

    got caught. but surprisingly, I wasn't scared to face the consequences, when I went to speak to my teacher, she told me what will happen and that they'll tell my parents, she also asked why. i know what i did was wrong, she can punish me, everyone can, but I didn't do it to get...
    tantinaaaa tantinaaaa 16-17, F May 8

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    Should I tell him? I treat him like ****

    because I can't live with myself and i want him to leave me. I can't bear to break up with him. He's my rock. I don't want to hurt him anymore but he would never leave me because he feels that whenever i try to leave him without giving him a good reason, its because I suffer...
    thisbasicbsh thisbasicbsh 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 21

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    Well I went through with it!

    It was even more exciting that I could have imagined! It was so good!!! He was much more of a freak than my husband has ever thought of being! Just what I was looking for!
    sallypaige sallypaige 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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    I cheated on a my ex name Sandy back in 2012

    she got pissed she wrecked, all Of New Jersey, NYC, DE if I know she would of went crazy I never gone there. That her in picture.
    GreekJerseyGirl GreekJerseyGirl 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 11

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    I've been lonely in my marriage

    for quiet some time. I've been married for 15 years and while my husband is a good guy and takes care of me in every way, he neglects to important categories...emotional and physical. He is addicted to his Xbox and I usually am alone most nights. I had heard about Craigslist...
    abbydallas abbydallas 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 27

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    couldn't help it, I'm sorry I don't know

    why I did it, I'm not proud of it I gave in became weak to the thrill. I don't recommend it the feeling only lasts a few days the after effects last a lifetime. Thanks for reading
    someonesjuliet someonesjuliet 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Dear husband I was devoted to him

    but I don't see him only the streets can keep HIM my son was born into greatness but it was a nightmare when I was pregnant the lies the cheating being alone in my marriage at 22 it shouldn't feel like a death wish I was so filled with hate sometimes I wish you were dead I felt...
    LuxuriousBitch LuxuriousBitch 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Ok this question is for older men.

    For the ones who have had an affair did you go thru a mid life crisis? Or did you go thru something maybe at work or personal? If so even if your affair had been over and you were just friends if you were going thru something major in your life and very stressed out did you...
    devin456 devin456 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Was Feeling Lonely And Met Up With One Of My Old Flings

    Last night I met up with an old fling that I had. He was still really into me but I only use him because he was great at oral sex. And now this guy won't stop texting me. I already told him I'm still with my boyfriend and I don't ever want a relationship with him other than being...
    xoxoluvu xoxoluvu 26-30, F 14 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    My boyfriend at the time was a total *******.

    He was controlling and always tried to tell me what to do. He would log onto my Facebook and if he saw a guy had messaged me, he would lose his mind, and cuss me out. It pissed me off because I can't help that other people messaged me. That was beyond my control. I tried to...
    DeluxedEdition DeluxedEdition 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm 17 and a junior. My boyfriend

    who I have been dating for 4 month is also a junior. 3 weekends ago I went with some friends to my friends cabin at Lake Tahoe. So we got there and were drinking on the beach And we invited about 6 boys in to hangout. Me being h•••y and drunk I picked a guy who was 21 to...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 10 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I decided to not to tell him.

    I know it will hurt him "if he finds out" but having $3x like the kind I had in my last story is too good to just stop. Something about it and then getting dropped off 30 minutes after at my bf's house hair still messy and kissing him with the taste of the guys €um in my mouth...
    k4rlie k4rlie 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    So i ****** up.. I cheated with my best friends

    sister. So now im single and friendless.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 6

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    I cheat, then I go tell my bf.

    And we reenact what happened. It made our sexlife amazing!
    BraveNewError BraveNewError 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    I've been so flirtatious with him from the

    first time I met him. There is almost always alcohol involved when we see each other. He is a good friend of my husbands. Last night we were together at a party and he pulled me aside away from the party so that we were completely alone. He kept hugging on me and touching my...
    kbishere kbishere 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    The First Time ...

    we got together in private was at 8 am , he seemed really nervous and I really thought he was going to back out on the whole thing. I told him 'we don;t have to do this if you don't want to go through with it' -- but he assured me that he had waited a really long time for this...
    southernheat southernheat 51-55, F 8 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Well I finally got the guts to tell my boyfriend

    that i cheated on him in November I couldn't hold on to it any longer and it killed me everyday. I told him there were so many times where I wanted to tell him but I just couldn't at that moment. He obviously didn't take it so well and we got into this huge argument and all that...
    Kwolfleg Kwolfleg 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    susancc12 susancc12 26-30, F Jul 13

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    IIDave95II IIDave95II 18-21, M 2 Responses May 6

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    I cheated on my ex girlfriend

    when I came home she always accusing me of stuff. I got tired of it so I tired breaking up with her. But she wouldn't take it. It took me cheating get her leave me alone.
    Katina91 Katina91 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Yeah... So I cheated.

    .. In the math test. I know! I'm really bad
    Zarahaider18 Zarahaider18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I cheated with my wife's best friend.

    She was going thru a divorce and we were out at a bar with my wife and my wife's best friend and the best friend's sister. We got really buzzed and my wife left early. I went to her friend's house with her friend and sister. I had fantasizes about doing both of them many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I cheated on my husband with another guy

    while we were separated (still is) and he completely blew up on me and called me a ***** even though we aren't technically together. Some people just like hogging the good ones I guess. I told him to get over it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Technically....

    I told him I want a divorce, he kicked me out with only my coat, purse and cell phone, I called my friend, she picked me up and we went to a couple of bars. Once the bars closed, we went to her new place and sort of got a little crazy. Oops
    livelustlove livelustlove 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I haven't seen my boyfriend in about a month,

    we're both super busy and our schedules have been conflicting. I have a friend and coworker who I have been getting closer to. It started with us being friends, then close friends, then into an innocent mutual crush. From a crush we both developed feelings for each other...
    Madixi Madixi 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    I fell in love with and married a Marine.

    We weren't living together during our engagement as he was stationed in California and I was in Texas. Unfortunately he was to be deployed 2 weeks after our wedding. So I decided to stay in Texas and finish things up with my job before I moved to CA on his return. One Saturday...
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    Why cheat? If you want to be with someone else

    then spare the other person's feelings and dump him/her. Guy or girl if you cheat you're a piece of ****
    RunDMC7 RunDMC7 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    No Guilt

    I don't feel guilty for cheating- and this is terrible! I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy, he's the best I could ever ask for. Well, most of the time. And I'm madly, extremely in love with him. But anyway, I also have this ex. I had sex with him on the second day of our...
    ObsidianOre ObsidianOre 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    Cheating With Women

    I've been married for 6 years. I've always been attracted to women as well. On nights out, or nights in, with my girl friends, sometimes I'd end up sleeping with or just making out with one or more of the girls. So tech. I've cheating on my husband several times with women. I do...
    BiBiJenna BiBiJenna 26-30, F 23 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    I'll be the first one to admit

    that I am not good at committing myself to a relationship, no matter how much I like and care for him. I guess my problem is that whenever I see a man who I think is hot or I'm attracted to, I want to be with him that very moment. I only cheated on a boyfriend one time and...
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I was so happy with my girlfriend.

    I just got out of a 2 year long relationship with a guy who ended up cheating on me and breaking me. Then I got out of that and then not long after got together with her. The day her and I got together I saw messages my ex had sent me and caved. I messaged him and we became...
    allysonyo allysonyo 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I feel guilty now but at the time we was in a

    huge fight and I left with my child I called my friend and went to his house we had sex a few times that night and morning I came home the next day
    newfounddream newfounddream 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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