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    Ah Why?

    Only recently, 4 days ago I have cheated on my boyfriend. I don't even know how it happened! I am in a happy relationship for over two years now. Everything is going well, not perfect but good. We're both very busy, so we don't see each other much apart from sleeping in the same...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    ???

    I cheated before it was last year when I had the love of my life. The night before we broke up I agent to a frends hours and I met this s girl. We had a few drinks then sleep with eachouthere. Then next day at school we were making out when my girl friend walked in and seen that...
    Bicarter Bicarter 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    Help!

    I'm in an extremely complicated situation, or maybe I am just so messed up. I really could use any sort of advice on this. I have been on and off with my boyfriend for 5 years, and we are currently in a long distance relationship. I will be seeing him in a month. I live very...
    FlirtyQwerty FlirtyQwerty 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    Would You Get Involved With A Married Person?

    When someone who is married is available for another relationship, it is a sign that the marriage is troubled. I think that the vast majority of people don’t know what to do when they are in a troubled marriage. For most people, therapy is not an option, either because they...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Cheating Diaries

      I feel like I am so done with this. I am done feeling like this. Kissing you is amazing, you and I both know that for a fact. The electricity when your hands caress my skin and the deep desire we both have to be with each other again, a desire that we have been working on...
    LostinLustandLove LostinLustandLove 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    I Don'T Understand

    I really don't understand cheaters especially when in a long distance military relationship. My girlfriend gets to go out and hoe around then is constantly suspicious and paranoid of me doing it. I've been nothing but faithful honest and loyal, yet she continues to do this...
    Yakuza2979 Yakuza2979 31-35, M 7 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is Breaking My Heart. Please Help!

    Recently I've found out that my boyfriend of almost 5 years has basically been cheating on me. I found out by grabbing his phone. He because enraged that i took his phone and actually ripped my shirt while trying to get it back. I went through it to find that he had an app called...
    brittneyyyannn brittneyyyannn 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    I just had a abortion

    after finding out my fiancé cheated on me for the past 7 months. He was lying all the time. He had another girlfriend right before proposing to me. He continue to sleep with her after knowing there is a baby on the way. He uses excuses to kick me and my family out of our...
    Jenny0817 Jenny0817 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Onwards

    Being cheated on hurts. When I discovered the truth I fell to my knees and howled like a dog, no tears, just painful noise. Wine put me to sleep. I woke just after 3 am with a tortuous jolt – run! I really needed to run. I ran through the streets of London, the physical...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith 41-45, M Dec 2, 2010

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    I'm in sociology class

    and my teacher said, "statistically men cheat more.But in reality women cheat more.They just don't get caught as often."My teacher is male.
    Marwil4real Marwil4real 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    So Much For My "Happy Ending."

    Well, my ex and I met in college and ended up moving in together a year after we started dating. The relationship was the most "normal" and functional/healthy relationship I had ever been in. Of course we had our fights but from what I understand, that's normal. After 2 and a...
    xochristie xochristie 22-25 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    Why Do You Affair Down

    Married women tend to have affair partners who are lower than their husbands. My wife cheated me with the POS fixing our bathroom for many years before i caught her. I have an MBA, am a business owner, bodybuilder, and fun. He is a loser with 5 kids. Is it a power trip to be...
    Sigmamale Sigmamale 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I Cheated On My Bf Of 4yrs

    We've been dating for 4.5 years but I just am checked out of the relationship. He still propositions sex but I always turn him down as I am unattracted to him. I do want out of the relationship. I cheated with a guy who I find very attractive and will probably do it again. He...
    piknight piknight 18-21 7 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Cheating Is Cool

    Yeah cheating is so cool. My wife cheated on me for two years she only just came out and told me. She wanted to be with someone else and wanted me out of the way. My children are now devastated I see them maybe once a fortnight at best. They hate living with her because she is...
    Tobyboyce Tobyboyce 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    Lost Love

    Back in 2002 I met my husband Derek(alias). We hit it off and have been together ever since besides a few breakups here and there. We have four beautiful kids. One year after I met my Derek we had a bad breakup. During the breakup I met a gorgeous man at a night club i will call...
    che8tr che8tr 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I Have Cheated

    I have also cheated and I cant help it but I want to do it again. I dont think that i am the faithful type but that is because I have never been able to live. I do feel bad in a way but then I think about how he ha cheated on me in the past so I let it go from there.
    misfit misfit 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2007

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    After Being Married For 7 Months...I Find Out He Cheated Before We Were Married

    Here is my story. It is a long one. I am 26 years old and started dating my husband 6 years ago. He is 29. From the beginning everything about our relationship seemed too good to be true. Seriously I thanked God every night for bringing him to me. His parents and my parents are...
    gina1907 gina1907 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I Cheated On My Best Friend

    i had sex with my best friend's boyfriend while he was drunk and it was awesome i do not feel remorse or anything , am i wrong?
    Angelicaangeline Angelicaangeline 22-25, F 15 Responses May 24, 2013

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    What Is Considered Cheating?

    I have been married for eight years now,   recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into  our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was staying at a motel...
    Tkevin Tkevin 46-50, M 34 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    I Cheated

    Recently my boyfriend of 2 years has gotten a job that's been taking all of his time..and since then I started hanging out with an old friend...I've had sex with this friend twice and I don't even feel bad about it 😩
    FuglyDucking FuglyDucking 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    Is It Inevitable?

    I have never cheated - never while dating, "going steady", or married. I never thought I could. I have had the sound moral foundation that kept me strong and the willingness to go to my wife with any desire or other bit of communication. It makes sense in all ways to avoid...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 9 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    Ten Years Later

    Its been nearly ten years since I discovered my first long term boyfriend cheated on me and he left me. It still affects me to this day, I can hardly believe I am saying that. This week I have been finding it really hard to deal with and have been having some severe flashbacks. I...
    tenyearsonstillhurting tenyearsonstillhurting 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Mistake Or Not Mistake.

    My story is strange i dont know if many of you have heard one like it im not too sure. Im a young Girl live in the uk, i started going out when i was 15. im only a year older. I met a guy at this bar in my town. i caught his eye, he bought me a drink we got talking. Hes a asain...
    chelsm chelsm 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    Cheating

    Cheating,Not for me,In any form,It’s unfair,I can’t stand it,If you cheat,You’re no friend of mine.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2012

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    Cheater

    i married two years ago to my college love, but we've always lived apart. i cheated on him with an officemate. i cheated for 3 months in total. 5 months if you consider chatting cheating. some months ago, me and the guy had some falling out - i dont talk to him anymore ,and...
    graziaomailley graziaomailley 26-30, F 10 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I Am Cheating.

    I am cheating and I know it is destroying my marriage, but the sad thing is that I am okay with it. I had a rocky start with my husband prior to us getting married. He cheated on me the first few months we were together, he put me through hell. There were so many instances that I...
    amity amity 21-25, F Dec 12, 2007

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    To Cheat Or Not To Cheat

    So I made a deal with my husband. He can tell me that he cheated on me without the fear of leaving him if he agrees that I can also cheat on him. However many number of times he cheats, I get the same amount of chance. Do you think he would tell me if he cheated or still lie...
    bossay bossay 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Same Story Diffrent Guys.

    You did it again. Wash that mouth out with listerine so he doesn't  taste the other. That look. You knew. He knew. Retreat into the dark.  Be the animals you are. End it. Before the peices begin to unfurl. You  can't. Your possesed. Push. Bite. Lust. Regret. Caged...
    AKukeLover AKukeLover 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    It's 10:58 in the evening

    and I'm here in my room... It's cheating time. I am smoking with my favorite cigarette. I want to release my depression by means of this... Sharing my crazy thoughts.
    DarcyMendez DarcyMendez 18-21, M Dec 3, 2013

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    Can it be considered cheating

    when we haven't had sex in six months?
    pbell71 pbell71 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I support cheaters too some level.

    ..support i mean i tend too go into the history of who drew the other away. I dont judge cheating , i try too figure who caused it and support them as best I can. I dont really call it cheating i call it reaching out because they are treated so badly at home. Be...
    meg5012 meg5012 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I Think He Is Cheating On Me

    my boyfriend is going to work with his uncle but all they are doing is scrapping things to make money. he is leaving at noon and staying out until nine at night there is no scrap yard open past four so you tell me what the hell is going on it makes no sense to me. i need help how...
    junebug2012 junebug2012 26-30 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    I Don't Know Why I Cannot Be Faithful?

    I don't know why I cannot be faithful?  I mean I want to be I love my husband very much but I am the type of person who just isn't satified with one lover.  I don't leave him for them we just hook up and go our own way when were done.  I have even tried swinging...
    cuddliekitten cuddliekitten 16-18, F 22 Responses Feb 2, 2007

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    Really ? My Bestfriend ?

    He was the perfect guy. I loved him more then anything. Well all of that ended when I found out he was cheating on me. with my best friends. Me and her were great friends. We've known each other when we were in diapers. I was playing on my boyfriend's phone when he was knocked...
    BunnerBumBum BunnerBumBum 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    No Regrets

    I am currently involved with a married woman and I am married also.  This is not my first affair.  It is about sex and it is about more than sex.   Unfortunately, we only see each other once a month and sometimes less due to the distance between us.  We...
    jaybird50 jaybird50 56-60 5 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    Three Different Girls. Am I Unlucky Or Are All Girls The Same?

    First girl she was my first gf age 17 I meet her online we had fun back then. When started talking to her I soon found out she had a bf when I first meet her but was unhappy being with him. After few months talking and getting closer she broke up her bf at the time. He wasn't a...
    Poikjm Poikjm 22-25 3 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    Betrayal

    I hav been in relationships but fr the first tym i fell madly in luv wid a guy...na ten months relation...he was 4 years elder to me...a magical luv relation...it was alll sooo good...though v did fite many tyms...it wld gt compensatd...fr d first tym i cried fr a prsn..wantd to...
    shona4ever shona4ever 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    Downhill Relationship Cheating Bad.

    I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. I love him and he loves me or so I think. He sometimes sends me mixed signals. He would act mad and push me away from him and then come back to me to say sorry. He has cheated two times. I have forgiven him because I love...
    Goldfish339 Goldfish339 22-25 3 Responses May 4, 2013

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    He Cheated Twice...i May Or May Not Have Damaged A Few Things Before Leaving, Lol. Now Im The Psycho. Hmmm. Thoughts?

    Hey all, Im going to share my story here...cause mainly i need to vent and also want to know what other people think about my actions. So, met this man two years ago...we started dating. He was sperated, I was seperated. We clicked and hit it off. Stated to get serious...the...
    kbee0605 kbee0605 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    To All The Cheaters Out There (Need Someone To Talk To?)

    need someone to confide in are you feeling the guilt of cheating??do u need to lift the burden and share your troubles......or is it time you made a decission?? Get involved with this SPACE....... Lets hear your troubles... and we will give answers...
    insomnia1970 insomnia1970 41-45, M Sep 27, 2013

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    Wifes New Boyfriend

    My wife meet dave on cragslust he was 22 she's 45. Nice bod big legs and *** big ****.she meet him at her s house he had a 11inch black ****. I watched hm eat her out and pinch her nipples. I watched his **** slide in and out of her *****.she weather in ecstasy and enjoyed...
    fedzzz1169 fedzzz1169 56-60, M Nov 3, 2013

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    How To Be A Success At Being A Cheater!!

    To be a successful cheater, you first of all must not have a conscience. Number two, you must be able to believe all the lies you tell...this is necessary in order to act as if your not lying. Number three, in order to be a success at cheating you have to pick exactly the same...
    AnonymouslyYoursToo AnonymouslyYoursToo 41-45 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    So I'm falling for the guy I'm cheating on my

    husband with. Many problems with this I know but one is that he is in a relationship to. He is very unhappy and stays for his child but I know he has some small feelings for me. I don't know whether to leave my husband and see if he'll leave his fiancé. Or if I should just give...
    420hella 420hella 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Cheating Diaries: 3

    He im's me today at work with these lyrics and says that they say it all. This is what he wants. Him and I. Torture. Torture. Torture. "Tangled Up In You" You're my world The shelter from the rain You're the pills That take away my pain You're the light That helps me...
    LostinLustandLove LostinLustandLove 26-30, F May 16, 2012

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    My Nightmare

    We have been married three years this year and have been through alot, my husband and I . Only one year after being together we got married . It was a tough road because only two weeks into being together he got locked up and I ended up cheating on him , he forgave me and we...
    MrsStewart27 MrsStewart27 26-30 1 Response Mar 27, 2013

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    Dying Inside

    My husband is a compulsive cheater....1st time begged me back it was a mistake even though lasted 3 months...2nd time he was drunk, 1 night stand apparently and tried to kill himself as I left him but took him back after 2 months because he was so distraught, 3 yrs on and just...
    Kimmie40 Kimmie40 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F Apr 10

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    So a couple days ago I went on my first vacation with a man ever, my boyfriend of over 1 year. 1 Year 3 months to be exact. The second day of vacation I received a friend request...
    awkward11 awkward11 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I take issue with cheating! There is nothing more painful than to find out the person you trusted was not protecting your relationship. That they were able to fall into ugly lure...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 3 Responses Apr 9

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    it's been 3 year i am with my fiancer! couple of months ago i got this guy who was one of is good friend write me on fb saying that my fiancer is cheating on me! at work since he...
    alexee10 alexee10 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing...
    charl28 charl28 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Ok. So I'm worried that my fiancé might cheat on me again. We are in the military. He was on duty and I was at home. I started thinking about a lot of things. I always think when...
    Jaazaniah Jaazaniah 26-30, F Apr 8

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    So I have a boyfriend and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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