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    Being cheated on hurts. When I discovered the truth I fell to my knees and howled like a dog, no tears, just painful noise. Wine put me to sleep. I woke just after 3 am with a tortuous jolt – run! I really needed to run. I ran through the streets of London, the physical...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith 41-45, M Dec 2, 2010

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    Want To Sneak Around?

    New update on this story. What you read below is now over, it was a bittersweet ending. I have since found somebody here on ep. We've been chatting for a month now, and have gotten to know each other very well. i have told her more things than anybody else, including the girl in...
    Here4u72 Here4u72 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    the husband cheated on his wife

    and one night he came clean about his affair they have two children's and they when to marriage counseling, and thing was get back to normal, then his wife lost her job at the lawyer office , then she start working for a new lawyer, a month when by they start having affair...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Find It Hot

    I find it hot to be a week with my gal having nice sex and suddenly one day go crazy drinking having another stranger in bed and have de excitement of tasting exploring and learning from her sex feel what she is like,smell something different,taste something different see another...
    wensdel wensdel 22-25, M Sep 25, 2013

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    I Cheated On My Best Friend

    i had sex with my best friend's boyfriend while he was drunk and it was awesome i do not feel remorse or anything , am i wrong?
    Angelicaangeline Angelicaangeline 22-25, F 16 Responses May 24, 2013

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    Downhill Relationship Cheating Bad.

    I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. I love him and he loves me or so I think. He sometimes sends me mixed signals. He would act mad and push me away from him and then come back to me to say sorry. He has cheated two times. I have forgiven him because I love...
    Goldfish339 Goldfish339 22-25 3 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Raneth Raneth 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    He Cheated Twice...i May Or May Not Have Damaged A Few Things Before Leaving, Lol. Now Im The Psycho. Hmmm. Thoughts?

    Hey all, Im going to share my story here...cause mainly i need to vent and also want to know what other people think about my actions. So, met this man two years ago...we started dating. He was sperated, I was seperated. We clicked and hit it off. Stated to get serious...the...
    kbee0605 kbee0605 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    After Being Married For 7 Months...I Find Out He Cheated Before We Were Married

    Here is my story. It is a long one. I am 26 years old and started dating my husband 6 years ago. He is 29. From the beginning everything about our relationship seemed too good to be true. Seriously I thanked God every night for bringing him to me. His parents and my parents are...
    gina1907 gina1907 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Lost Love

    Back in 2002 I met my husband Derek(alias). We hit it off and have been together ever since besides a few breakups here and there. We have four beautiful kids. One year after I met my Derek we had a bad breakup. During the breakup I met a gorgeous man at a night club i will call...
    che8tr che8tr 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    What Is Considered Cheating?

    I have been married for eight years now,   recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into  our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was staying at a motel...
    Tkevin Tkevin 46-50, M 35 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    I Am Cheating.

    I am cheating and I know it is destroying my marriage, but the sad thing is that I am okay with it. I had a rocky start with my husband prior to us getting married. He cheated on me the first few months we were together, he put me through hell. There were so many instances that I...
    amity amity 21-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    So I'm falling for the guy I'm cheating on my

    husband with. Many problems with this I know but one is that he is in a relationship to. He is very unhappy and stays for his child but I know he has some small feelings for me. I don't know whether to leave my husband and see if he'll leave his fiancé. Or if I should just give...
    420hella 420hella 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Cheating Is Cool

    Yeah cheating is so cool. My wife cheated on me for two years she only just came out and told me. She wanted to be with someone else and wanted me out of the way. My children are now devastated I see them maybe once a fortnight at best. They hate living with her because she is...
    Tobyboyce Tobyboyce 36-40, M 7 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    Would You Get Involved With A Married Person?

    When someone who is married is available for another relationship, it is a sign that the marriage is troubled. I think that the vast majority of people don’t know what to do when they are in a troubled marriage. For most people, therapy is not an option, either because they...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Ten Years Later

    Its been nearly ten years since I discovered my first long term boyfriend cheated on me and he left me. It still affects me to this day, I can hardly believe I am saying that. This week I have been finding it really hard to deal with and have been having some severe flashbacks. I...
    tenyearsonstillhurting tenyearsonstillhurting 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Is It Inevitable?

    I have never cheated - never while dating, "going steady", or married. I never thought I could. I have had the sound moral foundation that kept me strong and the willingness to go to my wife with any desire or other bit of communication. It makes sense in all ways to avoid...
    SomeWiseMan SomeWiseMan 36-40, M 9 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    Really ? My Bestfriend ?

    He was the perfect guy. I loved him more then anything. Well all of that ended when I found out he was cheating on me. with my best friends. Me and her were great friends. We've known each other when we were in diapers. I was playing on my boyfriend's phone when he was knocked...
    BunnerBumBum BunnerBumBum 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    Cheater

    i married two years ago to my college love, but we've always lived apart. i cheated on him with an officemate. i cheated for 3 months in total. 5 months if you consider chatting cheating. some months ago, me and the guy had some falling out - i dont talk to him anymore ,and...
    graziaomailley graziaomailley 26-30, F 10 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Help!

    I'm in an extremely complicated situation, or maybe I am just so messed up. I really could use any sort of advice on this. I have been on and off with my boyfriend for 5 years, and we are currently in a long distance relationship. I will be seeing him in a month. I live very...
    FlirtyQwerty FlirtyQwerty 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I Think He Is Cheating On Me

    my boyfriend is going to work with his uncle but all they are doing is scrapping things to make money. he is leaving at noon and staying out until nine at night there is no scrap yard open past four so you tell me what the hell is going on it makes no sense to me. i need help how...
    junebug2012 junebug2012 26-30 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    Mistake Or Not Mistake.

    My story is strange i dont know if many of you have heard one like it im not too sure. Im a young Girl live in the uk, i started going out when i was 15. im only a year older. I met a guy at this bar in my town. i caught his eye, he bought me a drink we got talking. Hes a asain...
    chelsm chelsm 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    Cheating

    Cheating,Not for me,In any form,It’s unfair,I can’t stand it,If you cheat,You’re no friend of mine.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2012

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    I'm in sociology class

    and my teacher said, "statistically men cheat more.But in reality women cheat more.They just don't get caught as often."My teacher is male.
    Marwil4real Marwil4real 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    I Don't Know Why I Cannot Be Faithful?

    I don't know why I cannot be faithful?  I mean I want to be I love my husband very much but I am the type of person who just isn't satified with one lover.  I don't leave him for them we just hook up and go our own way when were done.  I have even tried swinging...
    cuddliekitten cuddliekitten 16-18, F 22 Responses Feb 2, 2007

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    I Cheat On My Wife....

    I know i have a problem which is embarrasing. I like to cheat on my wife and I don't know why, i was abandoned by my mother when i was one year old so i have a very hard time trusting women. I guess that is the reason why i cheat. she is a good women but our sex life is just not...
    theprojects theprojects 31-35, M 17 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    You Never Think You Will

    never in a billion years do you think you would or will, or even talk to another person intimately. but circumstances can lead you quickly out of control. if the person that is pursuing you has a great deal of patience and determination, it seems anything is possible. now, I...
    njdianenj njdianenj 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    I Cheated On My Bf Of 4yrs

    We've been dating for 4.5 years but I just am checked out of the relationship. He still propositions sex but I always turn him down as I am unattracted to him. I do want out of the relationship. I cheated with a guy who I find very attractive and will probably do it again. He...
    piknight piknight 18-21 7 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    I just had a abortion

    after finding out my fiancé cheated on me for the past 7 months. He was lying all the time. He had another girlfriend right before proposing to me. He continue to sleep with her after knowing there is a baby on the way. He uses excuses to kick me and my family out of our...
    Jenny0817 Jenny0817 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Can it be considered cheating

    when we haven't had sex in six months?
    pbell71 pbell71 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Naughty or just living life through experience ?

    ?? I recently bought a house with my long term girlfriend who I love very much. I haven't been a good boy in the past but I've never hurt this person. This was meant to be a fresh start, a process of growing up!!! We have been in the flat for a month and got everything sorted...
    r2theo2theb r2theo2theb 31-35, M a week ago

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    Betrayal

    I hav been in relationships but fr the first tym i fell madly in luv wid a guy...na ten months relation...he was 4 years elder to me...a magical luv relation...it was alll sooo good...though v did fite many tyms...it wld gt compensatd...fr d first tym i cried fr a prsn..wantd to...
    shona4ever shona4ever 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    How To Be A Success At Being A Cheater!!

    To be a successful cheater, you first of all must not have a conscience. Number two, you must be able to believe all the lies you tell...this is necessary in order to act as if your not lying. Number three, in order to be a success at cheating you have to pick exactly the same...
    AnonymouslyYoursToo AnonymouslyYoursToo 41-45 1 Response Jul 29, 2013

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    No Regrets

    I am currently involved with a married woman and I am married also.  This is not my first affair.  It is about sex and it is about more than sex.   Unfortunately, we only see each other once a month and sometimes less due to the distance between us.  We...
    jaybird50 jaybird50 56-60 5 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    To All The Cheaters Out There (Need Someone To Talk To?)

    need someone to confide in are you feeling the guilt of cheating??do u need to lift the burden and share your troubles......or is it time you made a decission?? Get involved with this SPACE....... Lets hear your troubles... and we will give answers...
    insomnia1970 insomnia1970 41-45, M Sep 27, 2013

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    To Cheat Or Not To Cheat

    So I made a deal with my husband. He can tell me that he cheated on me without the fear of leaving him if he agrees that I can also cheat on him. However many number of times he cheats, I get the same amount of chance. Do you think he would tell me if he cheated or still lie...
    bossay bossay 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Not Sure.

    Well I have been chatting with over Skype and video chatting with a friend back home in Hawaii, Chelsey Agbayani. Anyway she and I were talking about meeting each other for a few drinks when I planned to go back home in December. Anyway my girlfriend seems fumed that I'm talking...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is Breaking My Heart. Please Help!

    Recently I've found out that my boyfriend of almost 5 years has basically been cheating on me. I found out by grabbing his phone. He because enraged that i took his phone and actually ripped my shirt while trying to get it back. I went through it to find that he had an app called...
    brittneyyyannn brittneyyyannn 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    Same Story Diffrent Guys.

    You did it again. Wash that mouth out with listerine so he doesn't  taste the other. That look. You knew. He knew. Retreat into the dark.  Be the animals you are. End it. Before the peices begin to unfurl. You  can't. Your possesed. Push. Bite. Lust. Regret. Caged...
    AKukeLover AKukeLover 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    I Have Cheated

    I have also cheated and I cant help it but I want to do it again. I dont think that i am the faithful type but that is because I have never been able to live. I do feel bad in a way but then I think about how he ha cheated on me in the past so I let it go from there.
    misfit misfit 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 3, 2007

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    Why Do You Affair Down

    Married women tend to have affair partners who are lower than their husbands. My wife cheated me with the POS fixing our bathroom for many years before i caught her. I have an MBA, am a business owner, bodybuilder, and fun. He is a loser with 5 kids. Is it a power trip to be...
    Sigmamale Sigmamale 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Wifes New Boyfriend

    My wife meet dave on cragslust he was 22 she's 45. Nice bod big legs and *** big ****.she meet him at her s house he had a 11inch black ****. I watched hm eat her out and pinch her nipples. I watched his **** slide in and out of her *****.she weather in ecstasy and enjoyed...
    fedzzz1169 fedzzz1169 56-60, M Nov 3, 2013

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    Most people are shocked to discover their

    partner has cheated on them. It is a very powerful negative surprise. It is an event that eventually changes a person's perception of trust and relationships in general. Cheating hurts because it basically an act that tells you "you are no good for me anymore, i've already...
    Psychicadivser Psychicadivser 31-35, F Jun 14

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    It's 10:58 in the evening

    and I'm here in my room... It's cheating time. I am smoking with my favorite cigarette. I want to release my depression by means of this... Sharing my crazy thoughts.
    DarcyMendez DarcyMendez 18-21, M Dec 3, 2013

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    Ah Why?

    Only recently, 4 days ago I have cheated on my boyfriend. I don't even know how it happened! I am in a happy relationship for over two years now. Everything is going well, not perfect but good. We're both very busy, so we don't see each other much apart from sleeping in the same...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    Okay EP users I need some guy help

    or advice. Well I know this guy he is a really good friend because he listens to me when Im upset. He is also kind,sweet,single and don't forget to mention gorgeous! We met through a friend-on Facebook(we have never met in person). Well I have a boyfriend. Don't get me wrong I...
    Skinnylove99 Skinnylove99 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    So Much For My "Happy Ending."

    Well, my ex and I met in college and ended up moving in together a year after we started dating. The relationship was the most "normal" and functional/healthy relationship I had ever been in. Of course we had our fights but from what I understand, that's normal. After 2 and a...
    xochristie xochristie 22-25 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    I Cheated

    Recently my boyfriend of 2 years has gotten a job that's been taking all of his time..and since then I started hanging out with an old friend...I've had sex with this friend twice and I don't even feel bad about it 😩
    FuglyDucking FuglyDucking 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Hello, I'm Rose ( Not real name ) I recently found out that this guy I have been talking too for months has been cheating on his Gf with me... I had no clue at all that he had...
    BieberBabe13 BieberBabe13 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    My boyfriend am I live together we have a terriable history of him cheating on me. And recently we broke up due to my insecurities .. I cannot get over him cheating ig has damaged...
    Italiangangstress Italiangangstress 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Do I cheat? My girlfriend has been cheating on me throughout the summer with another man. She believes I am the love of her life, but recognizes that she has an unhealthy need for...
    MediPhil MediPhil 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 2