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I Check Out Your Profile Before I Add You

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    Common Sense

    If you send me a friend request or if I have noticed a comment of yours to one of my stories or to that of a friend's then I will check out your profile before I consider adding you to my very small circle of friends.  It isn't about arrogance.  It is about finding people who...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2012

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    if you don't have stories,

    face photo or have some sexual experiences,i don't add you.
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I used to not check before adding anyone

    which I regret. I just spent a good amount of time removing people from my circle, and will possibly remove more. If your entire profile is sexual or I can not view your profile, you will be removed. From now on Im checking peoples profile out before I decide to add them.
    Shyness03 Shyness03 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Well I do as often as possible,

    though sometime I impulsively press add beforehand.... So if I ever do this & you question my reasons based on my interests & experiences which will certainly not be to everyone's tastes.... Please forgive my impetuous clicking on occasion... I thank you :)
    sexyspanker sexyspanker 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Before You Add Me To Your Circle Read This!

    I will not add you if you have any nudes/explicit photos and stories. Also I do not date older men. So don't even bother messaging me if you are 30-50+ unless you are a nice guy or girl not a pervert. I'm not lesbian or bi i'm straight. Also I will never send out nudes. And if...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Do I Ever !!

    I mean...why would I add you IF we have nothing or very little in common? Why would I even consider it if you've been around EP for a while but haven't bothered to add a story, share a common experience, make a confession, answer a question or even up rate or like something I've...
    RobertaS RobertaS 36-40, F 18 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    What I See Before Adding

    1. u should have sufficient no. of experiences 2. ur profile shud not be very recent 3. if u hv shared experiences thats better 4. u shud posted pics 5. if u hv cmmntd on my stories,u r an instant add 6. u shud have good english n u should not sound too desperate and look for cam...
    lonelyheena lonelyheena 22-25, F 17 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    After seeing how fncked up some people are (Not

    just the guys the girls are pretty fncked too). I do inspections before I add people and/or accept messages. For guys: I don't add guys with a perverted history that's about as worse as it gets. For Girls: I won't add them if they're in certain groups. I don't mind provocative...
    MrSpecify MrSpecify 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Some people are just weird.

    I'll befriend almost anyone but, I will definitely check your profile out first. I may not be your cup of tea and you may not be mine! I get the weirdest msgs in my inbox and I block immediately. My block list is extremely long and it'll get longer. Don't be weird people!
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    Most men who have added

    or messaged me are solely interested in getting to know my breast size or if I live in x so I can hook up with y.
    Todesengel Todesengel 18-21, T 4 Responses Jun 14

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    You Bet Your Sweet Bippy I Do... :)

    But it's because I actually want to interact with my friends on EP. And when I say interact...I do not mean...skype...or cyber...or have phone sex. *rolls eyes* I want to read your stories...and get to know you as a person...and I want you to read my stories...and get to know me...
    KassieKat KassieKat 46-50, F 8 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    Generally if you have anything I deem creepy

    or are over the age of 21, I won't add you. I'm 16. I don't need that weirdness.
    QuietViolets QuietViolets 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    When messaging someone on EP,

    do you say they're beautiful because you think they have an amazing personality and you've taken the time to read their stories on here? Or do you hope for the best that the person you're talking to is remotely attractive and will feel the same way about you? Don't tell me I'm...
    juniper12 juniper12 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 1, 2014

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    No stories, all experiences are sexual,

    and no pic = No add and possible block depending on what you message me.
    93Armand 93Armand 22-25, F 7 Responses May 19

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    most important... your profile page is

    autobiographical. it is how you see yourself.
    bethsmiles bethsmiles 22-25, F 1 Response May 21

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    if you're a male, whom is also new to ep with

    rather suggestive or randomly added experiences(not hard to tell), and has a circle of young females with selfie profile pics, then I'm not adding you, no way in hell <3
    SammiSakura SammiSakura 13-15, F Jun 13

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    Why

    Do you contact me? If you're lonely and need an ear or a virtual shoulder to cry on, I'm here for you. I love people and love to help in any way I can. I have lived quite a bit, had a lot of tough experiences and more good ones than I can count. I'm living my life with an open...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    *block*

    Heres the rules... No urine, diapers or crap groups, unless they're hate groups. I dont want to add you if your over 70, a guy, and most of your groups are about ******* everything that moves, you should be in a retiring home. Pretty much, because i cant be ****** writing down...
    brogan16 brogan16 18-21, F 14 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    lmtnmn lmtnmn 31-35, M Jun 25, 2014

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    Read This!

    I am really a good guy, it is not just my name on here. If you wanna cuss and get mad and let people have it, I really don't want friends like that. I hate Drama and I am recently divorced and my emotions go up and down but I will never be mean. I will respect anyone's opinions...
    GoodGuy40 GoodGuy40 41-45, M Oct 20, 2013

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    Who The Frig Just Added Me To Their Circle.

    When I see a new Fan I always take the time to read their page. I look at your Groups your Stories your Friends and how you market yourself on EP. I am only looking for platonic friends. The number of friends I have does not concern me I would much rather have quality friends who...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    I always make the mistake of accepting the

    message before checking the profile. I should really check your profile before adding someone or messaging them..
    adriana0102 adriana0102 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I would be updating my circle of friends real

    soon... Would be adding or deleting...
    Charmeeee Charmeeee 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    boom991 boom991 16-17, M Jun 13

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    I am not interested in adding someone to my

    friends list, that does not have any posted stories or confessions, a decent avatar and a blanked profile. I want to know the inner workings. I prefer friends that agree that it is OK to disagree with them and will not just post something and immediately block me. Also...
    Hotdog798 Hotdog798 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    I always do........ if I see a lot of sexual

    content...which I do not judge!! but that makes me wonder why are you messaging me? I already posted a story on here not here for sexual reasons...if I wanted that go those kinds of sights....so yes I check....what makes you want to come to my EP world I always ask...and when I...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response May 3

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    jenneruz jenneruz 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    At least get an avatar.

    I don't add empty profiles :/
    MadNocturnes MadNocturnes 18-21, F May 26

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    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 5 Responses Apr 30

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    So, if you want me to accept your message

    request, write something. Show me that you are an intelligent person. No guarantees I'll accept, but I will read what you write.
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 5 Responses May 21

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    I always check out profiles

    before I add someone to my circle or start messaging them a lot. I usually got through the first 3 pages of experiences. I think that's enough to get a good feel of someone. And if someone only has 1 or 0 experiences I will not add them. And if you're under 18 I won't add you. I...
    GirlLearningHowToSmile GirlLearningHowToSmile 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    I absolutely check out your profile

    before I add you. Sometimes I will even check out your profile before I heart a comment you posted. This is a decision I made not long after joining EP and I have tried to stick by it. It is mostly to avoid negative people and perverts. I will also check out your circle. If you...
    kayblue kayblue 36-40, F 9 Responses May 19

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    Everyone should read profiles

    before they add anyone...some just want to see your pictures...they don't really WANT to talk to you or be friends with you. Some are just scammers or creepers...the ones who don't have any groups or who don't have any stories, or don't have any "real" information about...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I do, every time I get an add request.

    Questioning why? So many blank profiles. Please just give me something!
    Alexandra4u Alexandra4u 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 3

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    Converted Converted 46-50, M Mar 25

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    I even look at yr circle

    and who you interact with the most.. yeah, me weird.. not judging but I think there's a truth when they said, a man's closest friends says a lot about him..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 5 Responses Jun 4

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    Lately, I haven't really been checking out the

    profiles of people who add me to their circle or message me, because I'm not going to base my conclusion on what they've experienced in life. Hell, I'm the last to judge. It's only by how you handle life. You, as an individual, may inspire me to press on or to think twice...
    NaomiSunshine NaomiSunshine 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    Yup, I check for a lack of weird sexual stuff

    and whether or not you've made posts. The age doesn't really matter that much.
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Jan 4

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    I do, there are many things I look to see

    if you have or do not have.
    orchidangel orchidangel 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 10

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    Well these creeps just crawl out of the

    woodwork unexpectedly. I added a young man to my circle a day or two ago. He asked me today why I added him. I told him that his comments on my post had depth and he showed concern for animals. He seemed like a caring and sensitive young man. I also checked his profile and it...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 14 Responses Mar 8

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    What's the point of adding someone

    if you don't have any stories to share? It's also awkward when most of your experiences are very perverted. You love to lick feet, sniff underwear and cuddle puppies......I'm sure you're a serial killer.
    imasweetheart imasweetheart 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Everytime!! I prefer those

    that write a variety of stories, have varied experiences, but most important to me........"you're real".
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 9 Responses Feb 8

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    btiny13 btiny13 13-15, F 2 Responses May 6

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    checking if you just wanted to have

    that friends of yours increased in number.. And doesn't add people without stories.
    gwenllian gwenllian 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I don't know why - cause I don't share my

    private feel'ns but to a few - but, everyday, I get requests to send me a message or, worse yet, plop me down, without leave, into a stranger's circle. I always look at the person's profile page; and in do'n so, I wonder what they saw that led them to think we had anything...
    bethsmiles bethsmiles 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Yep, I check profiles.

    I enjoy reading your stories and learning something about you, even if your lifestyle is different than mine. I never just add people to my circle. If I find your page interesting, I'm courteous enough to note you and I'd appreciate the same. Let's start a short dialogue and...
    EtherealEquinox EtherealEquinox 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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