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I Check Out Your Profile Before I Add You

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    Yes, I check out profiles

    before I add "friends" and before I respond to personal messages as well. Just a precaution to avoid some wasting time on some of the nonsense on here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 22

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    About Me And About U

    First English is not my first language and I use google translate a lot. I work in the fields and some times I sell my body. But just because I do that don't expect me to send u nude pictures skype or have sex with u. I will never post pictures of myself, all the pictures I...
    Mex1canescort Mex1canescort 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    It's quality not quantity

    when it comes to friends.... We only friend those with similar interests.
    WeJeepTopless WeJeepTopless 36-40 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Do I Ever !!

    I mean...why would I add you IF we have nothing or very little in common? Why would I bother if you've been around EP for a while but haven't bothered to add a story, share a common experience, make a confession, answer a question or even up rate or like something I've posted...
    RobertaS RobertaS 36-40, F 14 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    I like people who put some thought into their

    stories and take time to elaborate on their experiences. People who just click the "me too" button and move on don't really interest me, with a very few exceptions. Those being the ones who have made an effort to communicate with me.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M Jun 4

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    Yes I do. I don't just add anybody.

    If you're profile is all sexual or if you're a grown man friends with underage girls I won't add you. I work with kids and find that highly inappropriate. I'm also not into breeders. You're NOT a dog! If you have a well rounded profile with stories and things to say then...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 10

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    I always check out profiles

    before I add someone to my circle or start messaging them a lot. I usually got through the first 3 pages of experiences. I think that's enough to get a good feel of someone. And if someone only has 1 or 0 experiences I will not add them. And if you're under 18 I won't add you. I...
    GirlLearningHowToSmile GirlLearningHowToSmile 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 15

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    lmtnmn lmtnmn 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I always look at other peoples profiles

    before I add them. I look for friends in common. Groups in common and which types of them are they in. I also look to see if they are writing stories as this is what makes me know about what the person is like.
    Jessica1967 Jessica1967 41-45, T 1 Response May 30

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    I usually check 3-4 pages of experiences

    before I decide if I can add you or not. As well as, sometimes check the pictures to see. Here to make friends, not cyber or any of that junk.
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    I just don't want any creepers

    that I'm following. To be honest if you have any interests in per say "diapers" or "kinky stuff" you're a creep. And I'm not gonna be following you back. Needless to say, I don't follow any of y'all back unless I have a good conversation goin on with you. I ain't having any...
    Southernpanda Southernpanda 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Yes I do!! And I don't add people

    that have a lot of kids on there profile. You are old enough to know that you should not be friending all those little girls.
    Backroadskindagirl Backroadskindagirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I don't all wats add u

    but I will search through ur while profile b4 I talk to u if I don't like it then I just ignore u.
    ThaQueen1 ThaQueen1 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Because I am a cautious woman,

    I will check out you profile before I add you to my circle of friends. There are so many people who wanted to be added and they have nothing in common with the person who wants to add them. This is crazy and nuts. I will not add you unless we have something in common. If...
    susan33109 susan33109 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    Yep, I check profiles.

    I enjoy reading your stories and learning something about you, even if your lifestyle is different than mine. I never just add people to my circle. If I find your page interesting, I'm courteous enough to note you and I'd appreciate the same. Let's start a short dialogue and...
    EtherealEquinox EtherealEquinox 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 3

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    I Read Your Stories First!

    If you add me, I'll most likely accept/add you but I really appreciate those who take a look at my stories and experiences first. Despite my experiences being very sexual, I'm not interested in having a sexual conversation with just anyone! I want to get to know you and your...
    xbitemylipx06 xbitemylipx06 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Before You Add Me To Your Circle Read This!

    I will not add you if you have any nudes/explicit photos and stories. Also I do not date older men. So don't even bother messaging me if you are 30-50+ unless you are a nice guy or girl not a pervert. I'm not lesbian or bi i'm straight. Also I will never send out nudes. And if...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Please Read This Before Requesting An Add

    I check out your profile before adding you, just as you check out mine. No I don't read everything but, if you have not joined any groups, have not written any stories or asked any questions or not answered any either... Chances are extremely high I won't add you. I look at what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Definitely I do that

    before I add you... I respect people... So I accept decent thoughts from friends...
    chethaki chethaki 22-25, F Apr 10

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    Read This Before You Add Me.

    Finally, I shall write a story about this and put it on my top 8 experiences, because it's starting to bug the hell out of me. I have probably over a hundred fans... people fan me every day. Why? I do not know. However, I only have 23 friends. What does THIS tell you...
    flyawayhome flyawayhome 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Sorry if it 'offends' you,

    but it's there for more than one reason
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I try to see if the people can be trustworthy

    and what I'm looking for in a person to talk to before I add them because I don't need someone to talk to that I can't relate to at all or if they are fake
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M Jul 22

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    I'll stalk your profile first.

    . you don't have to impress me or anything... - oh wait , you kinda do! Well as long as you're perv free then I'll consider. I have so many waste of space people on my friends list who add you and then you never hear back from them again.... :/ Dude if I wanted acquaintances I...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 10

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    I have been given rules o

    who I add and who I do not by my owner/wife. If a female requests a friendship I will add her automatically since she is naturally superior to me and am therefore obligated to obey. A male must have stories or experiences shared so that I may know more about them before I may...
    AndiSissy AndiSissy 51-55, M 6 Responses Mar 8

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    Not A Serial Adder- I check out your profile

    to see what kind of a person you are. If I see that there is only topics of an explicit nature then no, I am not going to add you. As you may be able to notice, my friends list is exclusively for those who have had the guts to give me more than a 'hello, how are you...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    i dont trust many many ppl on this

    so i check ur profile first
    wolfy152374 wolfy152374 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    Common Sense

    If you send me a friend request or if I have noticed a comment of yours to one of my stories or to that of a friend's then I will check out your profile before I consider adding you to my very small circle of friends.  It isn't about arrogance.  It is about finding people who...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 2, 2012

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    alisemichelle alisemichelle 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    What I See Before Adding

    1. u should have sufficient no. of experiences 2. ur profile shud not be very recent 3. if u hv shared experiences thats better 4. u shud posted pics 5. if u hv cmmntd on my stories,u r an instant add 6. u shud have good english n u should not sound too desperate and look for cam...
    lonelyheena lonelyheena 22-25, F 20 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    Of Course, I Do ...

    Why, when I know nothing ... and I mean absolutely nothing ... about you would I accept your friend request ... just out of the blue??If you haven't commented on any of my stories ... if I haven't seen any of your comments anywhere ... if your profile is basically empty or has...
    AllAboutLaffs AllAboutLaffs 61-65, M 14 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    Every time. Send me a message

    or just add me and your name will show up in those little icons up there to the right. I will always read your message but the next step is to go through your profile. If it's shallow, has no stories and no real sense of common ground I will move on, but I will not add you. The...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 8 Responses May 12

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    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I Do Not Add Everyone That Asks

    I will check your profile and see what groups you have listed. See which groups you have written stories in.  Then I will decide. 1) if your profile shows more sexual comments then anything else I will most likely not add you 2) if you are interested in diapers or other such...
    nudistguyny nudistguyny 70+, M 4 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    Or even talk to you. I'm not snobby

    but if u don't have a profile and just made one up to talk to chicks I'm not talking to u. I like stuff on ur profile so we can talk about it and get to know one another better. 😃
    pantiesandstockins pantiesandstockins 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    *block*

    Heres the rules... No urine, diapers or crap groups, unless they're hate groups. I dont want to add you if your over 70, a guy, and most of your groups are about ******* everything that moves, you should be in a retiring home. Pretty much, because i cant be ****** writing down...
    brogan16 brogan16 18-21, F 15 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    You Bet Your Sweet Bippy I Do... :)

    But it's because I actually want to interact with my friends on EP. And when I say interact...I do not mean...skype...or cyber...or have phone sex. *rolls eyes* I want to read your stories...and get to know you as a person...and I want you to read my stories...and get to know me...
    KassieKat KassieKat 46-50, F 8 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    I check out profiles thoroughly

    before adding people to my circle. First I read your stories. If you don't have any, I'll see what your experiences are. If they're limited, I will look through your activities. If you have no stories, no experiences, or no activity, you won't be added. If everything on your...
    XxVivaLaBellaxX XxVivaLaBellaxX 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 18

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    How come no one adds a profile picture?

    I don't just judge by looks. But I do want to know what you look like and if you are somewhat attractive.
    SydneyGrace94 SydneyGrace94 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 27

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    It's always good to check a profile

    before adding but I also try not to judge too harshly.
    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Whenever I see people add me in their circles,

    I always look at their profile. If they're good, I'll add them back..... but for those who have pervert-like groups like men in their 40's and added me, I don't add them back. I tell people why did they add me. Also, if a gay guy asked if I'm gay, I'm DEFINITELY not adding them...
    xHAKIMgot3HUNNAx xHAKIMgot3HUNNAx 16-17, M May 20

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    If you're really cute I'm gonna continue to

    check out your profile after I've added you
    markhazard77 markhazard77 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I'm only interested in friendship

    and support for LGBTQ community. If don't have any experiences to share I'm not interested in adding you..... NO MEN
    femmeme femmeme 36-40, F Jul 30

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    I Check You Out

    I do check out your profile. It doesn't mean I will reciprocate. I would like my friends to have a range of experiences, not just sex. If that's all you're interested in, then I'm not interested. Nor am I fan of any of the other  pee and poo fetishes. I use the toilet, but I do...
    Becnme Becnme 56-60, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    If you have those gross experiences I might

    as well block you. By gross experiences I mean those horny ones.
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Read This!

    I am really a good guy, it is not just my name on here. If you wanna cuss and get mad and let people have it, I really don't want friends like that. I hate Drama and I am recently divorced and my emotions go up and down but I will never be mean. I will respect anyone's opinions...
    GoodGuy40 GoodGuy40 41-45, M Oct 20, 2013

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    Who The Frig Just Added Me To Their Circle.

    When I see a new Fan I always take the time to read their page. I look at your Groups your Stories your Friends and how you market yourself on EP. I am only looking for platonic friends. The number of friends I have does not concern me I would much rather have quality friends who...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 13 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    I get messages and random people

    that add me all the time. I wont add you if i see that all you are doing is adding people and have no experiences and your profile looks suspicious to me :P
    Batsandstars Batsandstars 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Common Ground

    While I am flattered by being fanned, I feel I should point out that I do check out profiles to see if I have anything in common with you before I add you. In general, I would like you to have at least 5 experiences in common with me, and for you to have at least a few stories...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2011

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    I’ve been coming around E.

    P. for years now. I know that makes me sound old – to be fair I haven’t been a spring chicken for a long time. I bit too leathery and tough to chew on now, though in reality it’s more flab you’ll grab with me these days. I don’t remember if there was a particular...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    When messaging someone on EP,

    do you say they're beautiful because you think they have an amazing personality and you've taken the time to read their stories on here? Or do you hope for the best that the person you're talking to is remotely attractive and will feel the same way about you? Don't tell me I'm...
    juniper12 juniper12 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    Why

    Do you contact me? If you're lonely and need an ear or a virtual shoulder to cry on, I'm here for you. I love people and love to help in any way I can. I have lived quite a bit, had a lot of tough experiences and more good ones than I can count. I'm living my life with an open...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Oh this one is sooooooo true !!! Please check my profile and experiences before saying hi !!!!!
    emmajayne40 emmajayne40 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    Is this a new breed of troll?
    cozyuptothefire cozyuptothefire 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 16

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