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I Check Out Your Profile Before I Add You

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    About Me And About U

    First English is not my first language and I use google translate a lot. I work in the fields and some times I sell my body. But just because I do that don't expect me to send u nude pictures skype or have sex with u. I will never post pictures of myself, all the pictures I...
    Mex1canescort Mex1canescort 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Its Got To Be More Than Sex

     I check just to see if you're a pervert(love having sex with your mum/child... hello?!),if you're racist,violent(you love to kill small animals? serial killer anyone?),potential stalker( i'm just getting to know you and  you want to know where exactly i live..Street...
    mocha39 mocha39 22-25, F 15 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Of Course, I Do ...

    Why, when I know nothing ... and I mean absolutely nothing ... about you would I accept your friend request ... just out of the blue??If you haven't commented on any of my stories ... if I haven't seen any of your comments anywhere ... if your profile is basically empty or has...
    AllAboutLaffs AllAboutLaffs 61-65, M 14 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    More like before I even reply.

    I don't want to talk to creeps and pervs. DONT MESSAGE ME PERVERTED MESSAGES!!!!!!!!!!
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    For the past few days I been chatting with one

    of my Instagram followers. Seems like a very nice guy, very chilled and down to earth for some reason I decided to google his name, and for my surprise I find out that he's an Ex con who was arrested a few years ago for forcing a 5 year old kid to give him oral sex, now I don't...
    Jjjguy Jjjguy 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    If your experience's are similiar to mine

    and we are around the same age👍
    Promisesarebullshit Promisesarebullshit 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Before You Add Me To Your Circle Read This!

    I will not add you if you have any nudes/explicit photos and stories. Also I do not date older men. So don't even bother messaging me if you are 30-50+ unless you are a nice guy or girl not a pervert. I'm not lesbian or bi i'm straight. Also I will never send out nudes. And if...
    MKM17 MKM17 16-17, F 11 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    LiyaR LiyaR 18-21, F Mar 14

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    What I Do When I Visit Profiles

    IF the profile has some nasty avie pic of a body part...I dont even bother looking at their profile. I actually report some of them to EP and then block them. When I dont know someone the first thing I see is if they have a little red flag. If the profile has some adult content...
    surrealreality surrealreality 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Yes I do. I don't just add anybody.

    If you're profile is all sexual or if you're a grown man friends with underage girls I won't add you. I work with kids and find that highly inappropriate. I'm also not into breeders. You're NOT a dog! If you have a well rounded profile with stories and things to say then...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 10

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    *block*

    Heres the rules... No urine, diapers or crap groups, unless they're hate groups. I dont want to add you if your over 70, a guy, and most of your groups are about ******* everything that moves, you should be in a retiring home. Pretty much, because i cant be ****** writing down...
    brogan16 brogan16 18-21, F 16 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    I Check You Out

    I do check out your profile. It doesn't mean I will reciprocate. I would like my friends to have a range of experiences, not just sex. If that's all you're interested in, then I'm not interested. Nor am I fan of any of the other  pee and poo fetishes. I use the toilet, but I do...
    Becnme Becnme 56-60, F 11 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    Yeah if you have interesting experience on your

    profile I'll defiantly add you 👌
    2luvjocy 2luvjocy 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 15

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    Do I Ever !!

    I mean...why would I add you IF we have nothing or very little in common? Why would I bother if you've been around EP for a while but haven't bothered to add a story, share a common experience, make a confession, answer a question or even up rate or like something I've posted...
    RobertaS RobertaS 36-40, F 14 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Yes.i will look at every story,

    your activity,your friends.then i will proceed to contact ur friends to make sure your real.then,i will stalk you online for about 2 days...then possibly add u.though,this does not apply to everyone.only to those i find suspicious
    AmberLovesRabbits AmberLovesRabbits 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 20

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    There are a lot of...

    WIERD... people on here, so I check just to reassure myself...
    WatchOutItsKyle WatchOutItsKyle 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    Because it is a sensible thing.

    .. Not that everything that I do is sensible. LOL!
    IamMarah IamMarah 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Common Sense

    If you send me a friend request or if I have noticed a comment of yours to one of my stories or to that of a friend's then I will check out your profile before I consider adding you to my very small circle of friends.  It isn't about arrogance.  It is about finding people who...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 2, 2012

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    Haha idk but I always check ur pic

    before I add anybody ... I'm pretty sure we all do !!!!lol
    rebrosa rebrosa 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I always check profile.

    To see if we have same thing going on.
    Solobox Solobox 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    A note about adding me: I am not interested in

    any sort of sexual anything with anyone on this site. If that is your reason for adding me, look elsewhere. Likewise, if your interests and posts are loaded with fetish-related material and you try to add me, I won't add back. Don't take it personally. I am also not here to...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Read This!

    I am really a good guy, it is not just my name on here. If you wanna cuss and get mad and let people have it, I really don't want friends like that. I hate Drama and I am recently divorced and my emotions go up and down but I will never be mean. I will respect anyone's opinions...
    GoodGuy40 GoodGuy40 36-40, M Oct 20, 2013

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    Hi, just a gay man here in Utah,

    it's hard at times with all the things that being gay in such a Mormon state. What's the big deal what anyone does or is, I feel that's there or my personal business. I just want everyone to be happy regardless of what your believe.
    Slcmoabparis Slcmoabparis 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Because I am a cautious woman,

    I will check out you profile before I add you to my circle of friends. There are so many people who wanted to be added and they have nothing in common with the person who wants to add them. This is crazy and nuts. I will not add you unless we have something in common. If...
    susan33109 susan33109 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Is it possible for ppl to have a profile pic

    before they add me to their circle?
    tfire09 tfire09 16-17, M Jan 31

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    If you add me, I'll probs poke around your

    profile and read a few of your stories and check out some of the groups your in, then still not add you back. Tis nothing personal. I just don't normally add people. I really doubt that anyone who adds me after I post this story will read this. Oh well. 
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I get messages and random people

    that add me all the time. I wont add you if i see that all you are doing is adding people and have no experiences and your profile looks suspicious to me :P
    Batsandstars Batsandstars 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I will look at your profile

    and judge if you are friending me for the sole purpose of sexual related intentions or are a perv sorry no add
    Imbatgirl Imbatgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Bofl, yesss. Don't take it personally.

    Just making sure you're not weird 😊
    AyeItsKat AyeItsKat 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Please ...... I do not want to know about what

    there is below your belt. I'm not oriented about the privacy of your bedroom. I want to know nothing about your life in bed or in places police tolerated but morals disapprove (lol). If you are a nudist, it's good for you, I prefer to dress myself to not catch cold. Your wife...
    Kaddath Kaddath 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 22

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    When messaging someone on EP,

    do you say they're beautiful because you think they have an amazing personality and you've taken the time to read their stories on here? Or do you hope for the best that the person you're talking to is remotely attractive and will feel the same way about you? Don't tell me I'm...
    juniper12 juniper12 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    Not That It Matters

    Some of my friends in my circle made the first step and added me 1st and some of them I made the first step and added them. But nonetheless, I checked them out. I don't add someone just because they add me first. I keep my circle small for a reason but I am very willing to...
    SirLaughalots SirLaughalots 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Please Read This Before Requesting An Add

    I check out your profile before adding you, just as you check out mine. No I don't read everything but, if you have not joined any groups, have not written any stories or asked any questions or not answered any either... Chances are extremely high I won't add you. I look at what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Who The Frig Just Added Me To Their Circle.

    When I see a new Fan I always take the time to read their page. I look at your Groups your Stories your Friends and how you market yourself on EP. I am only looking for platonic friends. The number of friends I have does not concern me I would much rather have quality friends who...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 14 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Bless Your Kinky Soul

    Someone just added me whose profile is all about infantile fetish stuff.  Can you imagine!  He must have liked my old grandmotherly face!  Kind of makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, doesn't it?    It just goes to show!  I ...
    LilAnnie LilAnnie 56-60, F 29 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Common Ground

    While I am flattered by being fanned, I feel I should point out that I do check out profiles to see if I have anything in common with you before I add you. In general, I would like you to have at least 5 experiences in common with me, and for you to have at least a few stories...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Before you add me read this.

    I will check your profile. I will read your experiences and I want to get to know who you are. So please read mine as well. I have been through a lot in my life and my real life is starting to come together better than I could have ever imagined. I'm not here for sex talk or...
    GoodGuy40 GoodGuy40 36-40, M Jan 29

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    Today I was minding my own business on this site

    and suddenly I got a message from someone who I had never seen before, all I will say is he had a very alarming profile picture, the second message he sent me was about where I lived so after I received that I went straight to his profile. Turns out he is a fifty year old...
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 7

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    butthumbs butthumbs 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Read This Before You Add Me.

    Finally, I shall write a story about this and put it on my top 8 experiences, because it's starting to bug the hell out of me. I have probably over a hundred fans... people fan me every day. Why? I do not know. However, I only have 23 friends. What does THIS tell you...
    flyawayhome flyawayhome 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    I usually check 3-4 pages of experiences

    before I decide if I can add you or not. As well as, sometimes check the pictures to see. Here to make friends, not cyber or any of that junk.
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Sometimes, just by reading your profile I know

    I won't get along with you. Really just saves time and energy. Plus some of those typical get-to-know-you questions are answered in your profile. So I definitely check it.
    kels789 kels789 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I Always Do

    I don't block people, in order to avoid that I always do check your profile for certain things before I add you in my circle. If I am happy with my guts feeling then I will add you or sent you a friend request. Yes! You are more welcome to do the same thing. Please accept my kind...
    jssp jssp 41-45, F 2 Responses May 20, 2013

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    I am not a collector,

    I like to engage with my circle so it would be hard to have time to do justice with a large circle
    long4u long4u 56-60, M Mar 3

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    Why

    Do you contact me? If you're lonely and need an ear or a virtual shoulder to cry on, I'm here for you. I love people and love to help in any way I can. I have lived quite a bit, had a lot of tough experiences and more good ones than I can count. I'm living my life with an open...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Before adding anyone to my circle of friends,

    I will personally scrutinize your profile on EP and then make a final decision to allow you in my circle. I will not be pressured to add anyone without this procedure being done. This is not only wise but you can save yourself a lot of trouble from the worthless perverts...
    funandlovingfemale funandlovingfemale 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 13

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    You Better Believe It.

    If I think you are a creeper, I wont add you.
    MsPetrichor MsPetrichor 22-25, F Apr 3, 2013

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    Selective

    I always read someone's profile before adding them.Your stories and experiences give me an idea of who you are.Also looking for similarities,and other things we might share.I like to see interaction.I want to know the person that request me.I'll weed out those that are just...
    yrral32 yrral32 61-65, M 3 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    Or even talk to you. I'm not snobby

    but if u don't have a profile and just made one up to talk to chicks I'm not talking to u. I like stuff on ur profile so we can talk about it and get to know one another better. 😃
    pantiesandstockins pantiesandstockins 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    Definitely I do that

    before I add you... I respect people... So I accept decent thoughts from friends...
    chethaki chethaki 22-25, F Apr 10

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    I always check out profiles

    before I add someone to my circle or start messaging them a lot. I usually got through the first 3 pages of experiences. I think that's enough to get a good feel of someone. And If only have 1 or 0 experiences I will not add you. And if you're under 18 I won't add you. I have a...
    GirlLearningHowToSmile GirlLearningHowToSmile 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    If most of your experiences are about s-e-x,

    I don't add back. That's not what I came to EP for. And if your profile picture is something dirty, I don't even glance at your profile.
    ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    Related Experiences

    You have to know guys! I'm not a stalker but before I answer your message I check you out first. I like to text people who are REAL and they have REAL profile pictures!! Sooo don't...
    Annablake Annablake 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Read, Please!!! I am writing this not because I think I'm all that, or that you would be privileged to have me in your circle. I'm writing this because I feel I need to. I came...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 13 Responses Mar 25

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    If your profile picture is nude or a picture of you in your crusty undees yuck
    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F Apr 11

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    Actually, i plundered it. while you were sleeping, (or were at least looking the other way) I unabashedly took what you offered. I alternately drank it in greedily, and sipped...
    SweetKiester SweetKiester 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 26

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