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I Chose Not To Care

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    People Change. I Leave.

    People dont chose to change. Normally it just happens. Just like that and the person you thought you knew is something you cant recognize anymore. Althow they didn't chose to change , you can chose weather to deal with that or not. I chose to leave. That doesnt make me a bad...
    thequeenofpain thequeenofpain 16-17, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Caring Is A Two Way Street...

    I used to be the most quiet, meek and easily manipulated little daisy on the grass. I didn't believe in evil incarnate, even after my experiences with sexual abuse and unknowingly being "the other woman". Four years on from the past betrayal, as I send this last parcel to my...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    I am married to an incredible man. When we met he warned me of his disability. To look at him, you would never know he suffers from debilitating back and spinal pain. Yet, he...
    hedymorris hedymorris 46-50, F Apr 3

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    if i live if i die i just dont care its meaningless to me im 27 and i feel like ive lived way too long every day is just harder then the last and i dont know how much more i can...
    briinthezone86 briinthezone86 26-30, M 28 mins ago

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    i know we can be happy on our own.. we got life, work, hobbies, friends.. sometimes we even choose to be solitude to get happiness.. but having someone who love and care for you is...
    Tella84 Tella84 26-30, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    In a world filled with plenty of people to call buddys how many people are there that are worthy to be called a friend indeed? I have experienced for myself the difference between...
    AWeber123 AWeber123 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    So I've come to the conclusion no one in my life really cares about me, because if they did, they would know me better. If they did, they would be there for me, not just leave...
    xMina97x xMina97x 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    She looked at me and said "you really did love him, he really was your first love" in that moment it seemed as though the world just paused as I smiled and thought of every memory...
    loverspoem93 loverspoem93 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I don't care what people think... I don't even care if people think I care what people think. I don't care if people think I think they think I care what they think. I just don't...
    AlexiaGotAManofGod AlexiaGotAManofGod 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    So this is what my mom just said to me, as exact as I possibly can recite it: "I was just at the highschool the other day, and why is it that everyone else looks decent, and you're...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    When to hunt Health-related CareWhen to get in touch with the medical doctorBleeding from your rectum or anus is never normal and although hemorrhoids are the commonest explanation...
    Logan1849lno2 Logan1849lno2 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    Im a very sensitive person, not sure if people can see that, but i am. I wish i didnt care the fact that my whole existence kinda depends of who i am with or if a guy cares for me...
    FunnyEnglish FunnyEnglish 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Some people say this to guard them really caring. I think a lot of people do and I think it becomes obvious sometimes through their emotional responses. There are some things I...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I have demonstrated I don't care about the pervert EP community that don't like I get their stories remove that promote ********* content. They are upset they don't have the same...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 27

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    I was put into care when I was 11. I never had a 'normal' or structured family life before that, but it was still a massive shock. My parents split up, and me mam moved countries...
    ruthlala ruthlala 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I want someone to care about me. Someone who is not obligated by blood. Someone who is not doing it for their own benefit. I just want someone to care about me and truly care. No...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F Apr 10

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    Hmmmm......what is the best way to make someone realise that u care him/her.....??? I try my best (at least according to me) to give attention,care ,love n specially respect the...
    Mughee Mughee 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Yes yes, I am independent, I don't NEED to be taken care of, but its a lovely feeling to be with a man that WANTS to take care of me. I have never had it before in previous...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I am always afraid of hurting those who I care about, and those who care about me. I am always afraid that I am going to do, or say something that will hurt them, that is why I...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I care way to much. I apologize for their actions so they stay. I'm their shoulder when they need to talk. But when push comes to shove..... nobody is their to care about me. I...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I always seem to care to much about people.im not even sure how it happends it just does.i always love more, i always care more,i always want to hangout more,talk more.i need to...
    cutealex21 cutealex21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I feel like no one cares. Like everyone just fakes that they care. That they tell me they care but the really don't. I feel hated, lied to and betrayed. ;-(
    Abb50 Abb50 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Are you still worriesd about woshing the wool yarn.The type of yarn used to knit your garment will determine the best way to care of it. If you’ve done the work yourself, refer...
    liqian liqian 18-21, F Apr 3

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    In all honesty, I do appreciate people who legitimately care. I know not everybody out there understands panty-lovers, or nudists for that matter. It's nice to THINK people care...
    jsdiapsfjidpa jsdiapsfjidpa 22-25, M Apr 9

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    There's this one boy...he's pretty cute, sweet, and relaxed. Everyone says that I can do much better. Maybe looks wise, I can. But personality wise, I can't. People judge me...
    AnimeFanGrrl AnimeFanGrrl 13-15, F Mar 20

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    Like i'm gay so what?why some people have to judge you?why do you care?do i care if you like dogs or cats? It's not like i'm hitting on you just because i'm gay you know. In fact...
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I know that many of people out there are struggling with this thing called life. It really does suck sometimes, and we often feel like no one cares, so I just wanted to say, hey, I...
    DreamOfRain DreamOfRain 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Do you believe that my dreams come true ...... or is it the era of miracles ..... Rejoice with me all I've found after the lean years of love ... Woman full description of her...
    sayedhadhood20 sayedhadhood20 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I think I need a new career path. I've been pressured with what I have lately. My work doesn't fulfill me, nor my dreams. I talked to my Mom and she told me that I should continue...
    Squididaddle Squididaddle 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I've never been able to pay a bill with other people's opinions or compliments. I'm a loner so I don't need to have lots of friends. There are some people whose opinions matter but...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 29

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    My birthday is in three days. I came to school on monday, today and I new that I told none of my friends when my birthday is. So i didn't expect them to know. I decided to tell...
    lifeislife12 lifeislife12 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I tend to care about people who could care less about me. Hurts sometimes.
    bluebutterfly13 bluebutterfly13 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I care too much, and I end up getting hurt. I'm always the one let down, left behind or given for granted and I hate it. I'm always the one who tries to make up after quarrels, who...
    mynameisarianna mynameisarianna 16-17, F Apr 2

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    That tittle really describes me.. Maybe also you guys.. When we cares, he/she say "you're so possessive!" But when we try to not text him(if me..i just change my phone mode into...
    Alvin1225 Alvin1225 16-17, M Apr 3

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    I tend to care too much about the people that I do actually care about, and its rarely reciprocated...
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Just left...doesn't text me or want to talk. Anytime I try and be nice and see how he's doing he'll be short and just act like he doesn't care. Why did you even come in my life...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I care so ******* much about everybody around me. I'm insanely clingy and I can attach to people so quick that I just don't know how to rid myself it I get hurt (in relationships...
    bxttlebxrn bxttlebxrn 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I'm crazy protective over people I love and care about. I am loyal. I'll have your back. I'll defend you. When I hear someone talk smack on someone I love and care about, I'll...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I'm done wishing he would care, done hoping he will man up, done just WAITING. It feels like I'm always WAITING. Done with broken promises, his selfish wants and ways, done with...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm tired of remembering what we did. I'm tired of caring about you so much. I'm just so sick of it. It makes me upset. In a way, I want it back, but I doubt you do too. Why would...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Well I have never thought of myself as being a Royalist. Far from it actually, but today Kate and Wills visited our city. Having just watched this evenings local news on television...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't care anymore about anything so I'm not going to act like I care
    g0ne g0ne 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really don't care, now it doesn't mean that I'm not going to jump in bed with any of you dimwits, I just don't care!
    KawaiiBoy KawaiiBoy 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My Grandma is 84 with Dementia I have been taking care of her 6 days a week for about a year now and her and I are best friends now. We talk all day. She needs help using the...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am so happy to have Friends who really care about me and who I really care about them too I love to have friends and if you want to be my friend come on and be my friend and talk...
    JadelynThompson2121 JadelynThompson2121 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Unless they are red with anger, green with envy, or blue with cold, or something like that. Then I will certainly care.
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I want to foster children even though I have 2 of my own. But I don't have enough room right now. People have told me because I am epileptic that I can't do foster care. I don't...
    dewife2005 dewife2005 26-30, F Mar 20

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    id love to have someone care enough to chase me (not literally) when I run from my feelings. to tell me its going to be ok. to tell me they need me. to make me accept their...
    hallowedwillow hallowedwillow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I am back if anyone cares.........
    Darci13 Darci13 61-65, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    Since 2011, I've been taking care of my grandmother. For the first year, it looked as though she wasn't going to make it for very long. Now, she's just a few weeks shy of turning 9...
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