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I Chose Not To Care

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    People Change. I Leave.

    People dont chose to change. Normally it just happens. Just like that and the person you thought you knew is something you cant recognize anymore. Althow they didn't chose to change , you can chose weather to deal with that or not. I chose to leave. That doesnt make me a bad...
    thequeenofpain thequeenofpain 16-17, F Jul 11, 2012

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    Caring Is A Two Way Street...

    I used to be the most quiet, meek and easily manipulated little daisy on the grass. I didn't believe in evil incarnate, even after my experiences with sexual abuse and unknowingly being "the other woman". Four years on from the past betrayal, as I send this last parcel to my...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    I don't see the point of judging someone based on something they can't change. Chose who you talk to based on their personality, not how cute they are. Because in the end, you have...
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    I think the best solution in life is to just simply not care! Not sure how to do that as of yet. But it does seem logical. If I don't care about her,then maybe it won't hurt when I...
    pecos666 pecos666 36-40, M Mar 30

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    I love you so much and I don't care if I am hurting by you. But your hurting by her, you don't care neither. Yes, maybe you really do like her a lot but why? She cheated on you...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I feel like I care too much for the wrong people and for the wrong things. Every single ******* time i start to care for someone they take advantage of it and act like they don't...
    Photographybrat Photographybrat 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Why do i care so much i guess its just who i am. Some log off and do not give a second thought to those on line for me that has never ever been the case. I care too much for people...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 17 Responses Apr 3

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    Even though I it seems like I don't care about what anyone thinks, I do care and I care way too much. i stopped smoking weed because it makes the anxiety unbearable to the point of...
    HLeeT HLeeT 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I am simple careing dont wear loads of make up infact i dont wear any i wear what i like i dont care if people laugh at me or make fun i am who i am and i wont change for no one i...
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    Careful what you choose to do, I may not care to see this through. I will take any risk that is presented to me. Just know from death my gift allows me esp. People have warned, but...
    Isis27 Isis27 36-40 Apr 3

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    I really don't... Some people obsess and become all fan girl over them. I mean, I like certain actors and all that stuff, but I only care about them when they're in the movie and...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I'm fed up of caring wish I could be like everyone else, just not give a **** and carry on as normal. Every person that walks into my life makes me feel worthless and not good...
    GhostGirl97 GhostGirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Dad's doing better. But he's a long shot from being okay.. I'm frustrated at the lack of help with Dad. My sister is, too. My brother says there's no money to hire help and the...
    Harley53 Harley53 61-65, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I'm willing to go above and beyond for people, people don't do anything for me but try to take advantage of my kindness, Love and caring is about someone is an action, you cannot...
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    I just really don't care anymore. I don't care if I'm alive and it sucks because I don't want to feel this way but I don't care and it's really bringing me down. I'm going through...
    autumnraiin autumnraiin 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    That's right. I don't care about a person's sexuality, I won't judge. It dosen't change the person you are. I don't care if you're gay, straight or bi, or anything else you are...
    OKPunk OKPunk 18-21, M Mar 28

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    Four years ago when I was deciding what to do with the rest of my life I was seriously considering a vocal career, such as being the lead singer of a band. I love to kareokee to...
    Ayunir Ayunir 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Wrong. I do care. It's a part of your identity and therefore it matters to me. Does that mean I'll judge you for it? No, not at all. I don't like you because you're straight or...
    BrokenMelodies BrokenMelodies 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Even when you're going through your toughest times. Even when you baled on me when I needed you most, I still care. There are only a few people I really care about, and I need you...
    blindangel92 blindangel92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Are there any support groups out there for spousal caregivers? The only one I could find online - wellspouse.org - does not have a group in my area. I've been caring for my wife...
    02K30 02K30 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm 15 and I really don't care about age, now don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about me dating a sugar daddy, but I'm saying like I wouldn't care if the guy I liked/loved was 18...
    bigotaku bigotaku 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Psychotherapist and translator. In fact, I am at the beginning in my life and career. I have dreamed of being a psychotherapist since I was about 13 or 14, and now I have my own...
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    Old routines of sleeping around for food and/or room n' board are over now. I should have been more careful. Some times I have a hard time forgetting so when get down thinking...
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    Celebrities don't care what we do either. So why should we care about them? They're human like us -.-
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    stuff them. stuff their words back down their throats. I only care about those I love and what they think. Other than that, I do not care what the rest thinks. I am happier that...
    meetmeinthepouringrain meetmeinthepouringrain 22-25, M Apr 5

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    My dogs have not judged me for being broke they loved me through the good and the bad that's why I care about my dogs, and I don't care about people in general.My dogs give me...
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Sometimes my own thoughts make me panic, but having someone tell me it's going to be okay makes a lot of difference. When I try to tell it to myself, it's not as powerful, like it...
    soul7 soul7 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Not just since I live in it and like that it's necessary but because I think it's the least humanity can do: Be careful. After all we already take so much space, don't we? Anyway...
    lillianpace lillianpace 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 9

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    People don't have sympathy for others or try to understand what someone else is going through, I realize they don't care about me I stopped feeling sorry and having empathy for...
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M Apr 18

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    i actually do have an older brother but i feel like the more grown up. he wasnt there to care for men be a role.model... but okok not everyone has a sibbling. i appreciate it. and...
    energymustmove energymustmove 18-21, F Apr 18

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    I have an older sister, but that isn't the same. I want an older brother to care for me and be like a second father when most of the time my dad isn't, I want an older brother to...
    awayfromlife awayfromlife 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    You're ignoring me, & it sucks. :( Person number three in just a matter of weeks. I really shouldn't care. No big deal. I hardly know you. It just sucks to make a connection...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I try to not complain. I try to lift my chin and pitch in. But to be taken care of, to be protected and cherished. it would be so nice if I could be taken care of and not be taken...
    shyshewolf shyshewolf 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why should worry or care about other people opinion. Not caring I know that I can't get hurt
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 27

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    Just a reminder if you've had a bad day I'm here and love you no matter who you are. Take care of yourself, listen to music or make tea, curl up and watch a show, anything that...
    yeshomo yeshomo 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28