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    It's been a while since I posted here

    so I thought I'd do an update! My Hoh has decided that he doesn't want me to swear anymore. He says it's disrespectful to him, which I completely agree with! It's been tough (old habits die hard) but after multiple sessions with the belt I'm finally getting there! He's been so...
    MrsLauraA MrsLauraA 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Currently looking for

    that one to have this lifestyle with! I am very new to it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    I approve of Domestic Discipline.

    I believe that the wife/girlfriend is to be subject and obedient to the husband/boyfriend and when needed, be obedient to punishment. I also believe that the husband is to love his wife and sacrifice for her, even his life if called upon, just as Christ died for his bride, the...
    stryper1 stryper1 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 15, 2015

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    Thank you to everyone

    who gave me advice and explained to me exactly what CDD is! I hope to find a man capable of being a true HOH :)
    LiaMichele LiaMichele 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    My husband and I are looking into getting back

    into a CDD lifestyle. We've tried it in the past but never fully committed and failed at it. We have been talking lately about it and are serious this time about turning our relationship into a CDD relationship, but have no supporters because we're scared of telling our family...
    HisBabyGirl64 HisBabyGirl64 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    DD is not only for women.

    men also need to learn DD. Rules should be equal for both. otherwise it is called abuse or BDSM fantasies, not DD.
    tinatimeto tinatimeto 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Looking for answers to CDD.

    Where do j start? How do I approach my husband and tell him I think our marriage needs this. I want to tame my sinful behavior and submit completely to him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 31, 2015

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    So a few days ago was a family reunion.

    Dear Wife likes to go there and show off our kids and grand kids to my brother and sister but for many reasons each of our kids had something else to do. I decided that we would go anyways and Dear Wife didn't like that at all. She sulked and dragged her feet until we were an...
    HippyJoe HippyJoe 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2015

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    I have spoke to my husband about adding DD to

    our relationship and he has spanked me a couple of times but mostly as foreplay and not for punishment. I wish we were able to fully add this dynamic to our relationship.
    TnSubmissiveWife TnSubmissiveWife 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 10, 2015

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    My Family

    Thank you for reading my story. I am a married man my wife is also on ep listed as JosesBabyGirl. I am an ER Nurse and amy is a medical office manager. We are a strict HoH family. We strive to live in accord with Eph. 5:21-25. We are raising 2 daughters who grew up being spanked...
    amysdaddy amysdaddy 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    It has been a few months

    since my husband and I have tried this lifestyle. With a lot of trial and error we managed to work out what works for us. Hubby lives away for work so punishment was a bit tricky. We tried having a spanking once a month and that didn't work out since it was a lot for me to...
    Kell2015 Kell2015 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

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    Got smart with my husband in front of guests

    this afternoon. I got a very long lesson after they left from my husband too.
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    Though I am on the other end of the discipline

    spectrum I enjoy chatting with Domestic Discipline wives. They have such wonderful perspectives!
    MissAbi4 MissAbi4 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 18, 2015

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    I'm new to this and currently looking

    for a Christian man who is into this like me! Been patient with the whole dating scene, will find him one day!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 22, 2015

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    So I have asked a similar question on another

    group but with all the comparisons to children being punished how can the wives not feel like over grown children? Needing boundaries throwing tantrums? Not wanting responsibilities? Before getting hostile with me please know that I am in a similar relationship so I am not...
    sindyloub sindyloub 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Are there any couples in San Diego?

    Married 25 years Dd for 4 months. looking for friends
    elizabeth9w1e elizabeth9w1e 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Here is a recap of Bible passages you may enjoy.

    Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife even as Christ is head of the church, his body and is himself, its saviour. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also should wives submit to their husbands in everything...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

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    Hello all! My wife (juskeepswimming) asked me

    to join to help us further in our journey in DD. We're still struggling so any feedback from HOH's of how you maintain your role and any important things I should take into consideration. She says I've been too lenient and has been having these temper tantrums which I find...
    HerFirmHand HerFirmHand 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 30, 2015

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    There was a time when a woman knew

    that taking a spanking from someone was a good thing. That it meant that, whether she was being spanked by her boyfriend, husband, or her boss, that it was done for her own benefit. That it wasnt done out of sexual desire but it was happening because someone actually cares about...
    DDIowa DDIowa 36-40, M Jul 29, 2015

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    I have just married a man I love,

    but he wants us to use domestic discipline and I don't really understand it. I need help!
    LauraCSpank LauraCSpank 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 10, 2015

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    Why am I loving being a submissive wife?

    Because I am not a man, nor manly in any way. I am a woman...all woman. I love a door being opened for me. I enjoy the honor he gives me as his wife. I enjoy giving the tough choices to my husband who is more comfortable making them. I enjoy the love and protection my...
    bobbieshae bobbieshae 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    So often there is so much judgement on here.

    If DD is taking place between consenting adults, whose business is it to judge and condemn. My wife recently lied to me about some financial matters. She felt very guilty and knew what the consequences were. She received a harsh session with the strap followed by the cane. Yes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I'm thinking I need to have a talk with my bf

    soon on this subject. I want him to help hold me accountable for certain things I struggle with. Of course there must be some boundaries since we're not married though.
    emdavis emdavis 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 27, 2015

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    Hi I'm John, 40 and happily married to my wife

    of 20 years. A major part of our happiness is practicing CDD. We believe that loving, strict, and firm discipline helps us in maintaining a happy home. I joined this site to find like minded people who would enjoy talking or being mentored if they are just starting out. I'm...
    JJones05051981 JJones05051981 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    Single dad would love to find a single mom

    who wants to live a CDD lifestyle fulltime.
    pennmaster pennmaster 36-40, M Dec 12, 2015

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    Before my husband were married,

    I had shared with my parents the fact that I wanted DD to be a part of our marriage. Although I was a little nervous to discuss this openly at first it was a blessing to be able to talk about it. My dad made a special paddle and presented it to us as a wedding present. That...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I think domestic discipline needs to be more

    prevalent is society. Not beating but spanking discipline. There is a difference.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 20, 2015

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    I'm lucky that I'm still recovering just

    smarted off to my husband. He had a lol in his eye that says I'm in trouble later
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2015

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    Got my first spanking

    since I had Andrew tonight got sassy with the hubby at dinner
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    Growing up I always wondered

    if my dad spanked my mom and if so was it similar to mine. A couple years ago when I was 12 I found our for sure. I came home from a friends house earlier than I said I would and my parents bedroom door was shut and the belt that hangs in the hall outside my room was not there...
    doodlebug224 doodlebug224 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Ok, I got my first spanking ever tonight

    and I have a question: How in the world do you guys endure 10+ whacks? I got one, just ONE with the belt and it took my breath away and then only 5 more with his bare hand but it hurt so bad I thought I was going to die!! I read all the time how you all are getting like 20-30...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 30, 2015

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    spankyouhard5 spankyouhard5 56-60, M Nov 2, 2015

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    I got pulled over for not wearing a seatbelt.

    My husband is out of town until Friday. He told me to write a page of sentences "I will always wear my seatbelt." And that I will receive further discipline when he gets home. :( He said I don't pay enough attention when I'm driving and he's not going to tolerate carelessness...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    My wife and I both came from households

    that were the complete opposite of what one would consider when they think of a domestic discipline household. They were liberal, the men were bossed around, the women ruled, and the familial discord was very high. We knew even before we were married that domestic discipline...
    William11301981 William11301981 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    since my mother was primarily the

    disciplinarian in our house growing up and my huby's not really wanting to spank me for punishment if been wondering if a female disciplinarian isn't the right answer for me
    TnSubmissiveWife TnSubmissiveWife 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 12, 2015

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    Hello all. My wife and I have been actively

    practicing domestic discipline for almost every 20 years. Sometimes it can feel as though it is tough to find others to commiserate with. This site is great. Would love to talk, guide, mentor, etc anyone who can gain from my experience and of course learn from others as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 9

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    My parents explained it to me

    and I think it is a good way. I am proud of my mum and dad
    bethany2402 bethany2402 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 4, 2015

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    Who wrote the bible?

    when was it written? before human existence on earth or after? any strong proof that God had written it with his or her own hand and signed it?
    tinatimeto tinatimeto 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 16

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    What are the benefits

    and challenges of incorporating 'domestic discipline' into your relationship? I am looking for feedback from couples who have been living this lifestyle for some time. My wife and I have been trying it for a while and have found it to be positive on the whole but not a simple...
    Mfg61 Mfg61 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    I never knew what my life was missing!

    My husband and I have agreed to the lifestyle after much prayer. I reached out to you and many other for answers and guidance. My husband and I are aggressively marching down this path. We have set up an extensive list of rule and obligations. And will be doing daily maintenance...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 5

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    Very interested in this life style

    but how do I find a partner?
    luna2306 luna2306 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    Domestic Discipline For Woman Who'S Husband Says NO

    I am a Christian and a long time spanker of women who feel the need for a spanking - NOT SEX. I have helped many women who want direction and discipline in what some say Domestic Discipline from their HOH. However for many different reasons the husband says that he is not...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 7 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I haven't had a spanking in a long time.

    But yesterday I was crabby and didn't follow the rules so. . . I got one. It really does change my attitude. Thanks! Attitude adjuster is such a good title for our little friend.
    teachermama24 teachermama24 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2015

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    I am looking to get into a christian domestic

    discipline relationship. I have been married twice and after doing some research I see what has been missing. I do believe that a husband should punish his wife for doing wrong. If anyone is in Oklahoma or surrounding areas and is serious about a relationship please send me a...
    skeeterbite70 skeeterbite70 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2015

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    my wife spanked me with my shoes

    because I didn't kept my shoes properly at its place yesterday evening. She keeps me Disciplined. She is Head at her work place.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 30, 2015

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