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    Growing up I always wondered

    if my dad spanked my mom and if so was it similar to mine. A couple years ago when I was 12 I found our for sure. I came home from a friends house earlier than I said I would and my parents bedroom door was shut and the belt that hangs in the hall outside my room was not there...
    doodlebug224 doodlebug224 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    How do you get through the days

    when you feel snappy and just want your own way?
    Renewedspirit15 Renewedspirit15 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 11

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    Why am I loving being a submissive wife?

    Because I am not a man, nor manly in any way. I am a woman...all woman. I love a door being opened for me. I enjoy the honor he gives me as his wife. I enjoy giving the tough choices to my husband who is more comfortable making them. I enjoy the love and protection my...
    bobbieshae bobbieshae 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Domestic Discipline For Woman Who'S Husband Says NO

    I am a Christian and a long time spanker of women who feel the need for a spanking - NOT SEX. I have helped many women who want direction and discipline in what some say Domestic Discipline from their HOH. However for many different reasons the husband says that he is not...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 7 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Relatively new to this lifestyle,

    although I felt this way for a very long time in support of Christian Domestic Discipline.. I can totally take spanking and other punishment, and I would submit to whatever he wanted me to do or told me to do...However...I can't take ignoring... that is too incredibly painful...
    hauntd hauntd 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Just starting CDD next Friday.

    .. My wife is an angel. Like seriously. We grew up together, and drifted apart after dating in Jr High. we rekindled after I went to college, and married. Throughout the first couple years, she was always asking, doing little things. I did not understand it, this was not 1960...
    Captkirkk Captkirkk 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Of course many do not understand the way of

    life. When they completely submit to their husbands than they will understand the love and intimacy in this lifestyle. This is not abuse or whatever in fact it's very legal in many places with consent. It is a way that a woman can stay on target and make her home and her life...
    mymasterwants mymasterwants 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    Something has to be done about the posers here.

    I understand that every online group is going to have a certain degree of fakers, but the DD groups have way more than most. So heres my message to the posers......GTF off this site!! this is EP and supposed to be for posting real life experiences. It is NOT a place to indulge...
    DDIowa DDIowa 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 31

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    So a few days ago was a family reunion.

    Dear Wife likes to go there and show off our kids and grand kids to my brother and sister but for many reasons each of our kids had something else to do. I decided that we would go anyways and Dear Wife didn't like that at all. She sulked and dragged her feet until we were an...
    HippyJoe HippyJoe 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I got pulled over for not wearing a seatbelt.

    My husband is out of town until Friday. He told me to write a page of sentences "I will always wear my seatbelt." And that I will receive further discipline when he gets home. :( He said I don't pay enough attention when I'm driving and he's not going to tolerate carelessness...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    There was a time when a woman knew

    that taking a spanking from someone was a good thing. That it meant that, whether she was being spanked by her boyfriend, husband, or her boss, that it was done for her own benefit. That it wasnt done out of sexual desire but it was happening because someone actually cares about...
    DDIowa DDIowa 36-40, M Jul 29

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    Okay, so this is my quandary.

    My husband and I have been slowly moving towards Domestic discipline. It's just not consistent right now. We are busy. Three kids, all in sports, Hubby work long hours, I am mostly home but will be opening a home based business soon. My question is, how do you gentleman...
    Renewedspirit15 Renewedspirit15 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Though I am on the other end of the discipline

    spectrum I enjoy chatting with Domestic Discipline wives. They have such wonderful perspectives!
    MissAbi4 MissAbi4 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 18

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    Before my husband were married,

    I had shared with my parents the fact that I wanted DD to be a part of our marriage. Although I was a little nervous to discuss this openly at first it was a blessing to be able to talk about it. My dad made a special paddle and presented it to us as a wedding present. That...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I'm an alpha woman very used to do whatever I

    want and rule my house. I only wish my man dominates me because I feel that deep inside I'm really a submissive wife. My defiant attitude is a scream for him to take control over me but he is so tender and gentle that it makes things worst. I really need DD life style and...
    SillyAndStubborn SillyAndStubborn 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 6

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    I approve of Domestic Discipline.

    I believe that the wife/girlfriend is to be subject and obedient to the husband/boyfriend and when needed, be obedient to punishment. I also believe that the husband is to love his wife and sacrifice for her, even his life if called upon, just as Christ died for his bride, the...
    stryper1 stryper1 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm having a hard time being submissive again.

    It's destroying us. I feel like he can't maintain his role of HOH if he's being a jerk to the kids or acting like a messy teenager. It's just really hard to let go when I feel like he's in the wrong in being mean to the kids or something. Like last night our oldest came into...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    thanks for letting me join.

    Im a single 57 year old disciplinarian looking for a honest,loyal,faithfull woman looking for a DD relationship. ive been a disciplinarian for 30+ years. All of my previous relationships have been DD. Im located in lower michigan and she must be willing to visit occasionally or...
    spankyouhard spankyouhard 56-60, M 7 Responses Jul 10

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    I discovered CDD almost by accident

    when I was dating my now Dear Wife. We had gone out for the evening and she was acting out a bit. As we were approaching the door of the establishment we were going to she made a rude comment and I gave her a playful spank on the butt. She stopped outright and gave me a hug...
    HippyJoe HippyJoe 56-60, M 2 Responses May 16

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    I am in process of converting to Christianity

    and i have been reading Bible every day and also i just learn about Christian Domestic Discipline, i am in age that i am ready to marry and i wish to start my family exactly how bible told us as husband as head of family and hose and wife as his servant but i try to find a site...
    ppourzand ppourzand 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 31

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    Christian Domestic Discipline for Women's choice

    I am a Christian but am here to help you if you feel the need that spanking would help you in your life. If you want to be the best woman of God you can be then let's this help you. You don't need to be married to feel Christian Discipline. I have heard ' physical punishment...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    I'm thinking I need to have a talk with my bf

    soon on this subject. I want him to help hold me accountable for certain things I struggle with. Of course there must be some boundaries since we're not married though.
    emdavis emdavis 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 27

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     had to grab my ankles

    and get 15 swats with a paddle today because I wore these short to Walmart. I still haven't found a good site to get anything new. I realized when I but them on it wasn't the best of ideas but I was in a rush. So instead of taking my time and picking something better or asking I...
    ShaylaLoved ShaylaLoved 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I've been in a DD relationship

    for 2 years now. Anyone want to talk feel free to message me! :-)
    LauraAria LauraAria 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    Mtbtg Mtbtg 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    any body know where I can get a spanking paddle

    to use for a decent price and is durable or have an old one they can spare to give away?? I'm in desperate need of one for my submissives and my little sister
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I haven't had a spanking in a long time.

    But yesterday I was crabby and didn't follow the rules so. . . I got one. It really does change my attitude. Thanks! Attitude adjuster is such a good title for our little friend.
    teachermama24 teachermama24 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    This is my lifestyle.

    I'm looking for other wives also in this lifestyle to become friends with.
    MistiA MistiA 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 27

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    My parents explained it to me

    and I think it is a good way. I am proud of my mum and dad
    bethany2402 bethany2402 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    My husband and I are looking into getting back

    into a CDD lifestyle. We've tried it in the past but never fully committed and failed at it. We have been talking lately about it and are serious this time about turning our relationship into a CDD relationship, but have no supporters because we're scared of telling our family...
    HisBabyGirl64 HisBabyGirl64 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Can anybody tell me where I can find

    appropriate clothing for myself my husband said he going to start tearing my behind up for wearing leggings out of the house all the time... PLEASE HELP!
    ShaylaLoved ShaylaLoved 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 20

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    Yesterday was such a good day.

    ....today not so much! As of now, the day is half over and I have yet to cross anything off my schedule. Ugh.............Im just enjoying Netflix and a day without the children!!!!!!!!
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Friends in CDD Brand new to CDD.

    Please message this account to fellowship with my wife and I. We would love to find others to speak with and compare experiences.
    Captkirkk Captkirkk 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    We need to start having a sense of community in

    the CDD community again. Nearly all the blogs and forums are gone because everyone got scared theyd get found out after all the media attention a couple years ago. I understand why that happened, but it's a couple of years later and nothing even close to cdd community has...
    DDIowa DDIowa 36-40, M 6 Responses Jul 29

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    Attention Florida girls : 19F Dom seeking 16+

    female submissives according to the Fl law sect 800.04(4)(b)
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I want so badly to start this!

    I think it would truly help my marriage in so many ways but I don't know how to go about it. My husband is not the dominant one and is irresponsible and isn't a "man" yet (or so I feel) he's a bit arrogant instead of confidant. I'm hoping these things will change over time and I...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 28

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    Now is a good time to set some goals

    for yourself to achieve during the upcoming new year. Be sure to write them down and share them with a trusted accountability partner. It is important to have an accountability partner who understands your goals and how they can apply the proper motivation and encouragement to...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    that's for having me here.

    I'm a single christian male 57 looking for a single female wanting a domestic discipline relationship and is located close to lower Michigan or willing to relocate. please see my profile and add if interested. thanks again.
    spankyouhard spankyouhard 56-60, M 1 Response May 26

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    My Family

    Thank you for reading my story. I am a married man my wife is also on ep listed as JosesBabyGirl. I am an ER Nurse and amy is a medical office manager. We are a strict HoH family. We strive to live in accord with Eph. 5:21-25. We are raising 2 daughters who grew up being spanked...
    amysdaddy amysdaddy 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    I have not been punished in a few months

    now . I feel its coming . I have been letting my mouth do to much talking . I have been getting a few warnings and some looks by my HOH . The other day he did give me a swat as he was leaving for work . That one slap hurt for hours so when he said "Be good" I knew he really...
    princessandravensmom princessandravensmom 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I am a submissive wife.

    My role is to obey and please my husband but sometimes I want my needs to be put first. Does that make me rebelious? How can I be submissive and make my wants and needs clear within my CDD? Or does this lifestyle mean what I want is not important?
    Kell2015 Kell2015 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    Here is a recap of Bible passages you may enjoy.

    Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife even as Christ is head of the church, his body and is himself, its saviour. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also should wives submit to their husbands in everything...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Here is a recap of Bible passages you may enjoy.

    Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife even as Christ is head of the church, his body and is himself, its saviour. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also should wives submit to their husbands in everything...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Hello, I am happily married to my wife.

    we both believe in traditional values and cdd. My wife needs a husband, who takes care for her needs. Before we got married we agreed on this and I promised to take care. We've tried to set up rules and consequences. But it is hard for me, to keep it up. Sometimes I am not sure...
    clueless5102 clueless5102 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 22

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    Ok, I got my first spanking ever tonight

    and I have a question: How in the world do you guys endure 10+ whacks? I got one, just ONE with the belt and it took my breath away and then only 5 more with his bare hand but it hurt so bad I thought I was going to die!! I read all the time how you all are getting like 20-30...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 30

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    How did you find your husband?

    I been looking but men I age don't understand this they thinks it all about sex and don't get it
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 7 Responses <