I Christian Domestic Discipline

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    There was a time when a woman knew

    that taking a spanking from someone was a good thing. That it meant that, whether she was being spanked by her boyfriend, husband, or her boss, that it was done for her own benefit. That it wasnt done out of sexual desire but it was happening because someone actually cares about...
    DDIowa DDIowa
    36-40, M
    Jul 29, 2015

    Got smart with my husband in front of guests

    this afternoon. I got a very long lesson after they left from my husband too.
    southernlady32 southernlady32
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    Here is a recap of Bible passages you may enjoy.

    Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife even as Christ is head of the church, his body and is himself, its saviour. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also should wives submit to their husbands in everything...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    We've been living CDD

    for a little over a year now and I feel like we're worse off than we used to be sometimes. The spankings only make me angry unless I want them. And I really don't want them anymore. I don't want to feel like this. Any suggestions?
    punkert1999 punkert1999
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 24, 2016

    I approve of Domestic Discipline.

    I believe that the wife/girlfriend is to be subject and obedient to the husband/boyfriend and when needed, be obedient to punishment. I also believe that the husband is to love his wife and sacrifice for her, even his life if called upon, just as Christ died for his bride, the...
    stryper1 stryper1
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    Hello all! My wife (juskeepswimming) asked me

    to join to help us further in our journey in DD. We're still struggling so any feedback from HOH's of how you maintain your role and any important things I should take into consideration. She says I've been too lenient and has been having these temper tantrums which I find...
    HerFirmHand HerFirmHand
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    Currently looking for

    that one to have this lifestyle with! I am very new to it.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2015

    I am curious about this,

    as a few of my EP friends are members of 'domestic discipline' groups here. Is it an American movement? I'm trying to make sense of it.
    ProfessorYaffle ProfessorYaffle
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2016

    So a few days ago was a family reunion.

    Dear Wife likes to go there and show off our kids and grand kids to my brother and sister but for many reasons each of our kids had something else to do. I decided that we would go anyways and Dear Wife didn't like that at all. She sulked and dragged her feet until we were an...
    HippyJoe HippyJoe
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    Looking for answers to CDD.

    Where do j start? How do I approach my husband and tell him I think our marriage needs this. I want to tame my sinful behavior and submit completely to him.
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    I'm having such a hard time tonight.

    I lost my mother five months ago, and had a strong reminder of her absence today, which caused me to be short with my Husband when he and our eldest son came home. I've basically been crying/on the verge of tears since 8:30. I've also said some unkind things to him. I know...
    MsTinaJo MsTinaJo
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    Of course many do not understand the way of

    life. When they completely submit to their husbands than they will understand the love and intimacy in this lifestyle. This is not abuse or whatever in fact it's very legal in many places with consent. It is a way that a woman can stay on target and make her home and her life...
    mymasterwants mymasterwants
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    I never knew what my life was missing!

    My husband and I have agreed to the lifestyle after much prayer. I reached out to you and many other for answers and guidance. My husband and I are aggressively marching down this path. We have set up an extensive list of rule and obligations. And will be doing daily maintenance...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    My fiancé is an extremely conservative

    Christian who wants to be the HoH and wants a submissive wife but I believe that's only cuz of what's in The Bible. How can I let him know I'm looking for more? Any ideas?
    Karameek Karameek
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Feb 28, 2016

    I think domestic discipline needs to be more

    prevalent is society. Not beating but spanking discipline. There is a difference.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    What if a husband is not doing his duty

    properly by not earn enough for kids education, smoking and drinking in front of kids, wear his clothes properly and left the door open while peeing and constantly keep shouting and disrespect his wife? Can a wife spank him and teach him DD then?
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    My parents explained it to me

    and I think it is a good way. I am proud of my mum and dad
    bethany2402 bethany2402
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    Got my first spanking

    since I had Andrew tonight got sassy with the hubby at dinner
    southernlady32 southernlady32
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    I live in a very conservative place

    and even though at the moment I have never had a boyfriend when I do get one and its serious and official my dad will give him permission to spank me. My school practices domestic discipline too, the school is associated with the church and a lot of people I go to church with...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Feb 18, 2016

    I am a single woman and I find it

    so difficult to find someone that understands and shares my thoughts about CDD. How would I find someone that shares my beliefs?
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    Something has to be done about the posers here.

    I understand that every online group is going to have a certain degree of fakers, but the DD groups have way more than most. So heres my message to the posers......GTF off this site!! this is EP and supposed to be for posting real life experiences. It is NOT a place to indulge...
    DDIowa DDIowa
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    Hello all. My wife and I have been actively

    practicing domestic discipline for almost every 20 years. Sometimes it can feel as though it is tough to find others to commiserate with. This site is great. Would love to talk, guide, mentor, etc anyone who can gain from my experience and of course learn from others as well...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 9, 2016

    my wife spanked me with my shoes

    because I didn't kept my shoes properly at its place yesterday evening. She keeps me Disciplined. She is Head at her work place.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015

    DD is not only for women.

    men also need to learn DD. Rules should be equal for both. otherwise it is called abuse or BDSM fantasies, not DD.
    tinatimeto tinatimeto
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2016

    I'm thinking I need to have a talk with my bf

    soon on this subject. I want him to help hold me accountable for certain things I struggle with. Of course there must be some boundaries since we're not married though.
    emdavis emdavis
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Feb 27, 2015

    Why am I loving being a submissive wife?

    Because I am not a man, nor manly in any way. I am a woman...all woman. I love a door being opened for me. I enjoy the honor he gives me as his wife. I enjoy giving the tough choices to my husband who is more comfortable making them. I enjoy the love and protection my...
    bobbieshae bobbieshae
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2014
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 7, 2016

    I am in so much trouble

    when my boyfriend gets home. Damn it. :(
    CountryLady21 CountryLady21
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 19, 2016

    My husband and I are looking into getting back

    into a CDD lifestyle. We've tried it in the past but never fully committed and failed at it. We have been talking lately about it and are serious this time about turning our relationship into a CDD relationship, but have no supporters because we're scared of telling our family...
    HisBabyGirl64 HisBabyGirl64
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2014

    I'm lucky that I'm still recovering just

    smarted off to my husband. He had a lol in his eye that says I'm in trouble later
    southernlady32 southernlady32
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2015

    we have fallen out of it unfortunately.

    work, kids life. we really don't even see each other anymore... maybe one day again.
    Sunnflower00408 Sunnflower00408
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2016

    I am looking to get into a christian domestic

    discipline relationship. I have been married twice and after doing some research I see what has been missing. I do believe that a husband should punish his wife for doing wrong. If anyone is in Oklahoma or surrounding areas and is serious about a relationship please send me a...
    skeeterbite70 skeeterbite70
    46-50, F
    Oct 20, 2015

    Such a roller coaster this has been.

    I told him the other night that I don't know if we will work; that we need to just co-exist for the kids until things either get better or March 1st comes and we call it quits. I set that date because we've been struggling for 3 years. If it's not significantly better by then...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    So I have asked a similar question on another

    group but with all the comparisons to children being punished how can the wives not feel like over grown children? Needing boundaries throwing tantrums? Not wanting responsibilities? Before getting hostile with me please know that I am in a similar relationship so I am not...
    sindyloub sindyloub
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2016

    Who wrote the bible?

    when was it written? before human existence on earth or after? any strong proof that God had written it with his or her own hand and signed it?
    tinatimeto tinatimeto
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jan 16, 2016

    What are the benefits

    and challenges of incorporating 'domestic discipline' into your relationship? I am looking for feedback from couples who have been living this lifestyle for some time. My wife and I have been trying it for a while and have found it to be positive on the whole but not a simple...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    Before my husband were married,

    I had shared with my parents the fact that I wanted DD to be a part of our marriage. Although I was a little nervous to discuss this openly at first it was a blessing to be able to talk about it. My dad made a special paddle and presented it to us as a wedding present. That...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    Ok, I got my first spanking ever tonight

    and I have a question: How in the world do you guys endure 10+ whacks? I got one, just ONE with the belt and it took my breath away and then only 5 more with his bare hand but it hurt so bad I thought I was going to die!! I read all the time how you all are getting like 20-30...
    juskeepswimming juskeepswimming
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Apr 30, 2015

    I'm new to this and currently looking

    for a Christian man who is into this like me! Been patient with the whole dating scene, will find him one day!
    deleted deleted
    Nov 22, 2015

    Hi I'm John, 40 and happily married to my wife

    of 20 years. A major part of our happiness is practicing CDD. We believe that loving, strict, and firm discipline helps us in maintaining a happy home. I joined this site to find like minded people who would enjoy talking or being mentored if they are just starting out. I'm...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2016

    I got pulled over for not wearing a seatbelt.

    My husband is out of town until Friday. He told me to write a page of sentences "I will always wear my seatbelt." And that I will receive further discipline when he gets home. :( He said I don't pay enough attention when I'm driving and he's not going to tolerate carelessness...
    TractorGirl93 TractorGirl93
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 4, 2014

    We have neighbors so close I can hear their tv.

    I am so embarrassed and humiliated when I get in trouble. They judge us and don't like my husband. He doesn't care, but i do. We have a blind turner that keeps it more quiet but I'm afraid they hear everything.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 15, 2016

    Domestic Discipline For Woman Who'S Husband Says NO

    I am a Christian and a long time spanker of women who feel the need for a spanking - NOT SEX. I have helped many women who want direction and discipline in what some say Domestic Discipline from their HOH. However for many different reasons the husband says that he is not...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232
    61-65, M
    7 Responses May 4, 2013

    Though I am on the other end of the discipline

    spectrum I enjoy chatting with Domestic Discipline wives. They have such wonderful perspectives!
    MissAbi4 MissAbi4
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    Very interested in this life style

    but how do I find a partner?
    luna2306 luna2306
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    My Family

    Thank you for reading my story. I am a married man my wife is also on ep listed as JosesBabyGirl. I am an ER Nurse and amy is a medical office manager. We are a strict HoH family. We strive to live in accord with Eph. 5:21-25. We are raising 2 daughters who grew up being spanked...
    amysdaddy amysdaddy
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Jan 13, 2013

    My wife and I both came from households

    that were the complete opposite of what one would consider when they think of a domestic discipline household. They were liberal, the men were bossed around, the women ruled, and the familial discord was very high. We knew even before we were married that domestic discipline...
    William11301981 William11301981
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    Are there any couples in San Diego?

    Married 25 years Dd for 4 months. looking for friends
    elizabeth9w1e elizabeth9w1e
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2016

    So often there is so much judgement on here.

    If DD is taking place between consenting adults, whose business is it to judge and condemn. My wife recently lied to me about some financial matters. She felt very guilty and knew what the consequences were. She received a harsh session with the strap followed by the cane. Yes...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2016

    Disrespect not acceptable!

    Last night we went to a party at a honeb with church friends. I can't remember all if it but hubby says I drank too much and distepectedv him and others. I have allot of apologizing to do today . Lisa
    Lisa1971 Lisa1971
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    Single dad would love to find a single mom

    who wants to live a CDD lifestyle fulltime.
    pennmaster pennmaster
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    Growing up I always wondered

    if my dad spanked my mom and if so was it similar to mine. A couple years ago when I was 12 I found our for sure. I came home from a friends house earlier than I said I would and my parents bedroom door was shut and the belt that hangs in the hall outside my room was not there...
    doodlebug224 doodlebug224
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 18, 2014
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