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I Considerate of Other Peoples Feelings

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 331 People

    I'm So Discouraged With People

    I feel like I always go out of my way to do the right thing for others, put myself in their shoes and do what I would want done. I guess I figured when it came down to it, some time it would be paid back to me.  Yesterday, I ran to my friends house, when I got there...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2008

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    I Get My Feelings Hurt Easi...

    I get my feelings hurt easily, so I try to always be considerate of other peoples feelings.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F May 14, 2008

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    Being Considerate Goes a Long Way

    i think this is a very important characteristic to have and not enough people are considerate. it makes me so unnerved watching people (especially people I know/am related to) be so inconsiderate to others. And it doesn't just stop at people, but animals too. Maybe I am too...
    Thinkdom Thinkdom 22-25, F May 15, 2008

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    You No....................................................

    You no when you have hit rock bootem and there is no getting back up...I have no will to fight anymore and especially when i don't want to be here anymore............That says it all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Jul 16, 2011

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    Some People Aren't

    I always thought that everyone was considerate. My best friend has shown me that it's not true. I love him dearly and he is a true friend. But he can be really inconsiderate sometimes. He was never taught/ never picked up on a lot of social customs and he's not very intuitive...
    NaomiZero NaomiZero 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    Being Considerate of Others

    I try to consider other peoples feeling when i do something to them.then i know how they feel about it and try not to do it again. Other people that i have seen don't have good driving ediquittte or you hold the door for them to be friendly and you get a look. But...
    awakened awakened 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    I Don't Really Tell It Like It Is All the Time...

    I think everyone would agree that they appreciate it when someone is honest with them. Unfortunately, there are those who like to promote themselves as the straight-talking, "tell it like it" is types who offer their pearls of wisdom, like a self-appointed Solomon...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    Remember the Golden Rule?

         I probably am to considerate of others feelings. I rather not say anything than argue, make someone mad or act out my  negative feelings at work. It is easier for me to find a common ground than argue. Besides remember the Golden Rule? Do on to...
    moonwalker moonwalker 46-50, F 1 Response May 15, 2008

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    Considerate of Others Feelings

    i try to consider other peoples feelings am quite astute at working them out but i act on impulse and this gets me into trouble and sometimes its as if the others dont exist which is harsh and quite selfish i dont mean to be im just unaware so i can be very good at tuning in or...
    claracluck claracluck 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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     I Try to Be. ...

     I try to be. Sometimes I'm not very good at it. But I'm definitely more considerate than some people. People can be so mean!
    Manders Manders 18-21, F May 14, 2008

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    I'm Extremely Considera...

    I'm extremely considerate of other people's feelings, but only when I feel I need to be. For example, I don't hide the truth from someone because I want them to feel better, I tell them what I think about them and the situation. people grow that way and become more mature. I'm...
    Sparklepaws Sparklepaws 18-21, M 1 Response May 14, 2008

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    Feeling Important

    A friend on EP sent me a message and she has been going through a rough time in her life.  She is visiting family members and one comment that she made to me is that her family makes her feel important.  Valued and appreciated.  This got me thinking about the...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    I Am a Little Confused By T...

    I am a little confused by the wording of this question, so I will clarify. I think I am a considerate person who takes into account the feeling of those around me. I believe in Karma, the law of three and the golden rule. This means treating others as I would like to be...
    autumnmoon autumnmoon 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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    I Was Too Considerate Of Others Feelings For Way Too Long

    I was being the mature good one while they gossiped and plotted and back stabbed me with lies and games ... I was silent ... now I realise the mistake I made trusting these people and I regret my considerate caring sensitive nature and how these people plotted against me to ruin...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F Jan 4, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It's like I can see myself from other peoples view points.. this is so crazy but it's like I just know what they're thinking of me… like if I'm acting like a happy pretty girl...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I found EP a week or so ago and so far it's nice, got some really nice contacts but also some weirdos and pervs. Would love it if people would just respect someone choices. I...
    Feelfree77 Feelfree77 41-45, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    One of the problems of dealing with other people is that they come with a specific point of view. Often based on their experiences, which is fair enough. But unless you know what...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Oct 29

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    People tells me that I am cute and all but I fell like they are lying. Because some of my friend were saying good in front of my fave but gossip **** about my behind my back and I...
    Clobusan123 Clobusan123 16-17, F Oct 29

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    Why can I see people's comments after I've blocked them? I am seeing them on other peoples threads. Does it only block them from posting on mine?
    greeneyes2232 greeneyes2232 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    It's the way I was raised. Help others, serve others, my wants or needs will take care of themselves. Maybe that's why I am good at my job in customer service. But on a selfish...
    cocanola cocanola 41-45, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I haven't logged in to write for a long while, l don't really need to write my thoughts and feelings down on EP anymore but this group is where l found alot of comfort and...
    gigglelicious gigglelicious 36-40, F 10 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So he's disappeared. Poof! We were texting yesterday and he sent his last text about 12:30 yesterday afternoon then stopped responding. This is a first. And today is a NC day when...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Understanding the Anger Understanding what anger is. Do we really want to manage our anger...
    Create63 Create63 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 26

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    I just got home from being with my MM since 1:30. At first all we did was running around doing work stuff that needed done and then we went to have some drinks. It was there were i...
    Chicadelcaribe Chicadelcaribe 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 24

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    We should all respect woman and protect from bad peoples and take care :)
    vyjhala vyjhala 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I absolutely try to smile the most I can just to brighten up peoples' day publicly. I'm a very friendly person and am always smiling according to my family and teachers :) I...
    GivePeaceAChance3 GivePeaceAChance3 13-15 Oct 24

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    hi, upon reading some of the experiences for days here in EP i decided to share a bit of my life.. I met this man on-line, i decided to find someone on-line because there are lots...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 29

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    If you want mine I'll send it to you. Other wise leave yours below. It's cliche to say but I'm fun to talk to. I can give you a fun fact you probably didn't know about your...
    js182 js182 22-25, M Nov 5

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    Twenty-six years, I was infatuated with a man that didn't have the same feelings for me. I still think of him often, but he broke my heart. I was so taken with him and told him how...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    1 day and 33 peoples are blocked my me,they are just useless *******
    amazinglyyours amazinglyyours 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    They will try to teach you to think your way out of feelings, they will try to argue rationally about feelings They will tell you that you make yourself worse by thinking...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F Oct 24

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    #1 I couldn't be and neither he wanted me to be! He just confessed his love to me, in the lost moment of the lost life. Somehow he says, I complete him. I make everything easy and...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 25

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    I'm not sure of what's happening. I'm not sure if it's GSA, I mean, I assume it is. I'm confused about it and maybe if I share my experience, I can figure it out better. I'm a boy...
    Noahtuk Noahtuk 26-30, M Oct 29

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    I have recently broke up with my mm . Its been 3 painful weeks no contact I see him at work its the worst. He says he want me but wont leave for his child.everything was fine and...
    rubazai rubazai 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 2

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    Two steps forward, one step back. I know a lot of you must experience this with your MM. As you all know, we don't talk about our feelings. We started this strictly as a fun...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    #9 [not the other woman] Yesterday .. while crying the lose of my friend .. I could tell why I was so in pain and anger too, a new realisation came clear to me: Yes I love him...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 30

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    I seldom have difficulty dealing with my own feelings, negative or otherwise. Only on the rare occasion I'm having trouble identifying emotion or source does this give me pause...
    niklb niklb 41-45, F Nov 9

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    I study social work and for years and years I thought some feeling that I had were very wrong! `You just are not alowed to think this or feel that..` that´s what I used to tell...
    MendyNL MendyNL 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I know I tend to get very emotionless & careless about others around me ... it really bothers everyone I can tell, but I can't help it ... I don't really like feelings you know...
    happygribi happygribi 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I think it's really annoying when somebody lets you know that they need help by being an a**hole, or doing things that they know will **** you off. I see this so often. Dealing...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 25

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    “I call this an amazing life we’re all living.”Possessed By Paul JamesIt’s sweet and bitter, constantly felt and occasionally understood. The foundation of...
    GoodSignMan GoodSignMan 26-30, M Oct 28

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    I'm wondering about how much you know about your MM's spouse? My MM and I maybe a little strange, or maybe not. We talk about our family with each other. Even though I live over...
    whynot13 whynot13 46-50, F 16 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Last night, quietly, he walked through my mind As I lay searching for sleep. His soft hand reached out, he whispered my name As he brushed a tear from my cheek. And then those...
    Raicel Raicel 26-30, F Oct 26

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    Tell me how i can turn My feelings on and off?Tell me how I can turn my good heart into a cold heart ? Feeling very into feelings and I hate it.
    peachy115 peachy115 51-55, F 5 Responses Oct 27

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    My new man admitted he was falling for me... And that the word "THE WORD" hovering delicately behind his lips ... Held in the by only the biting of his tongue... What? I feel it...
    jupsta jupsta 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 30

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    I hate talking about my feelings because i feel like a burden to others. I'm more of a listener than a talker, but the times that I'm a talker, no ones a listener.
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 31

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