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I Considerate of Other Peoples Feelings

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    Feeling Important

    A friend on EP sent me a message and she has been going through a rough time in her life.  She is visiting family members and one comment that she made to me is that her family makes her feel important.  Valued and appreciated.  This got me thinking about the...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    Considerate of Others Feelings

    i try to consider other peoples feelings am quite astute at working them out but i act on impulse and this gets me into trouble and sometimes its as if the others dont exist which is harsh and quite selfish i dont mean to be im just unaware so i can be very good at tuning in or...
    claracluck claracluck 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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    You No....................................................

    You no when you have hit rock bootem and there is no getting back up...I have no will to fight anymore and especially when i don't want to be here anymore............That says it all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Jul 16, 2011

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    I'm So Discouraged With People

    I feel like I always go out of my way to do the right thing for others, put myself in their shoes and do what I would want done. I guess I figured when it came down to it, some time it would be paid back to me.  Yesterday, I ran to my friends house, when I got there...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2008

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    Remember the Golden Rule?

         I probably am to considerate of others feelings. I rather not say anything than argue, make someone mad or act out my  negative feelings at work. It is easier for me to find a common ground than argue. Besides remember the Golden Rule? Do on to...
    moonwalker moonwalker 46-50, F 1 Response May 15, 2008

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    I Don't Really Tell It Like It Is All the Time...

    I think everyone would agree that they appreciate it when someone is honest with them. Unfortunately, there are those who like to promote themselves as the straight-talking, "tell it like it" is types who offer their pearls of wisdom, like a self-appointed Solomon...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    I Was Too Considerate Of Others Feelings For Way Too Long

    I was being the mature good one while they gossiped and plotted and back stabbed me with lies and games ... I was silent ... now I realise the mistake I made trusting these people and I regret my considerate caring sensitive nature and how these people plotted against me to ruin...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F Jan 4, 2013

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    Being Considerate of Others

    I try to consider other peoples feeling when i do something to them.then i know how they feel about it and try not to do it again. Other people that i have seen don't have good driving ediquittte or you hold the door for them to be friendly and you get a look. But...
    awakened awakened 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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     I Try to Be. ...

     I try to be. Sometimes I'm not very good at it. But I'm definitely more considerate than some people. People can be so mean!
    Manders Manders 18-21, F May 14, 2008

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    I Am a Little Confused By T...

    I am a little confused by the wording of this question, so I will clarify. I think I am a considerate person who takes into account the feeling of those around me. I believe in Karma, the law of three and the golden rule. This means treating others as I would like to be...
    autumnmoon autumnmoon 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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    I Get My Feelings Hurt Easi...

    I get my feelings hurt easily, so I try to always be considerate of other peoples feelings.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F May 14, 2008

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    I'm Extremely Considera...

    I'm extremely considerate of other people's feelings, but only when I feel I need to be. For example, I don't hide the truth from someone because I want them to feel better, I tell them what I think about them and the situation. people grow that way and become more mature. I'm...
    Sparklepaws Sparklepaws 18-21, M 1 Response May 14, 2008

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    Some People Aren't

    I always thought that everyone was considerate. My best friend has shown me that it's not true. I love him dearly and he is a true friend. But he can be really inconsiderate sometimes. He was never taught/ never picked up on a lot of social customs and he's not very intuitive...
    NaomiZero NaomiZero 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    Being Considerate Goes a Long Way

    i think this is a very important characteristic to have and not enough people are considerate. it makes me so unnerved watching people (especially people I know/am related to) be so inconsiderate to others. And it doesn't just stop at people, but animals too. Maybe I am too...
    Thinkdom Thinkdom 22-25, F May 15, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    i used to think about people reactions and thinking upon an issue i am concerned to even i am the person who got hurt but after some time i start analyzing their feelings too,i am...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I'm very compassionate. Some may say I'm too compassionate but it's one of God's gifts to me and I'll gladly accept it and use it for only good :)
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jun 29

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    I love my children... no matter what and wouldn't miss a day with them! But OTHER peoples' kids? No babysitting, no running around my house, no parroting your idiot parents...
    MooMooKittyKat MooMooKittyKat 31-35, F Jul 5

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    I've been dealing with depression for quite a while now. Much of which stems from a recent failed attempt at starting a relationship with someone I REALLY liked. (I won't use the...
    silentcynic silentcynic 22-25, M Jun 27

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    Parents who do not take the time to discipline their children when they are young, deserve the kind of grown children they eventually get. Some may turn out fine, but I reckon that...
    kent1973 kent1973 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    My Step-Mom's kid is so f***ing annoying! Every time I see him I get the feeling of taking my life. My Step-Mom knows nothing about teaching kids, and she thinks she does but I...
    catbradley catbradley 13-15, M Jun 24

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    I that my kids to school I whot spanka lot of then the need a spanking long and hard one
    geoff47 geoff47 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 30

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    A few years ago I traded wife pictures with another guy, it was very enjoyable. Bother of us are "older" and the pictures were from when our wives were younger. Keep in mind this...
    ridel ridel 61-65, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Seriously like wild little kids who run around the stores screaming or parents who don't at least attempt to make their kid stop crying in public. And I hate when people say "they...
    kaylalexi kaylalexi 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I put other peoples happiness over my own, to an extreme fault; sure it in turn makes me happy, but I can't stand being such a giver when I'm giving to someone selfish as I can't...
    seriouslysarcastic seriouslysarcastic 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    When I fall in love, I repeatedly look for problems, sometimes manufacturing them out of whole cloth and sometimes dramatically exaggerating either the magnitude or the...
    DominicRain DominicRain 41-45, M 11 hrs ago

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    I'm 16, a senior in my high school. I'm gay. And I have feelings for my straight friend but sometimes I am ignoring her. Because maybe i love her. Sometimes I hate her. After a few...
    RionWolf RionWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    i grew up being inspired by these man and woman they had a beautiful house cars ,their children going to best schools and getting married to wealthy men then boom 30 years later...
    TEBOGO1992 TEBOGO1992 26-30 Jul 7

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    It Started simply enough. We were friends at work. Laughing, joking. I'm a guy's girl so I would sit with him and other Co workers and just shoot the breeze. Somewhere it changed...
    nmurch37 nmurch37 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I am always surprised with the double character of people. Those people who act nice in front of us and back bites with other people. I mean what they get by doing that. They take...
    Simplegirlstory Simplegirlstory 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hello EP! This is my first post here. I have spent a lot of time reading others experiences and have found comfort in knowing that there are so many others in a similar situation...
    JulyBug JulyBug 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 3

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    I live in a town. This town was so completely made me can't be myself. I used to be what others want to be. Cause if not, u'll be have "no friends". Well, I went in a high school...
    Vienne97 Vienne97 16-17, F Jul 9

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    It starts. After a month of silence he's back and we met up this morning. Nice long chat, except I am stronger now than before. I tell him we see each other less to move on as he...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 28

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    I used to be apart of this youth group where we would get together on the weekends to visit elderly people at their homes and clean, vacuum, wash, iron, etc for them. I went with...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T Jun 29

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    I need to send this to my mm. I am in a place where I don't know what he wants. He went on vacation from work and I found out he proposed to his gf. I was broken when I found out...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 12

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    Not so sure if I want to see him tomorrow. At home or at work. Even though I knew, I'm just in shock that it's real now. As a friend before anything I should be happy for him. And...
    kc5316 kc5316 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I am in awe of the "politician" types who can walk into a room full of strangers, shake their hands, introduce each other and an hour later remember each and every person they just...
    Beaver318 Beaver318 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    Hey, I'd been having a relationship for the last year with a guy who is married. He and his wife have a little boy together. His wife found out about the affair and immediately...
    Andrea32f Andrea32f 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 5

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    I have CIDP- I am 21. I was diagnosed last year after being wrongly diagnosed for two years. My main problem is severe pain- it started with pinching feelings in my toes and slowly...
    dobermanlady93 dobermanlady93 18-21, F Jun 25

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    A guy liked me he proposed me and being in a relationship with other guy i didnt care much abt the other guy's feelings i got in a relationship with him. And today i love him and...
    anishak anishak 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I am new here. I found EP and it has been just in time. You women are so strong and brave for posting your experiences. Not many understand the emotional trauma of being the other...
    lostanddistraught lostanddistraught 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Here I am again adding yet another journal like entry. The last 2 months was like a blur and went by so fast. I have just been dealing with life in general and taking things one...
    Lauryn0114 Lauryn0114 31-35, F Jul 7

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    As I've been reading other stories on here I've been noticing that quite a few of us are OW to men we work with. As much as I have feelings for my MM, I feel like our feelings and...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Sometimes I wish I could go back to December and not have texted him that night, so he wouldn't have told me he had feelings for me......so I wouldn't have known. I wish I could...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am feeling mad today..... I haven't heard from him since Saturday morning.....and I haven't expected to. I drunk texted him Saturday night.....he didn't respond. I'm mad at...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I told him today that I thought he should leave his other, especially since she's threatening to take his kid, then I apologized for being out of line. I really have no business...
    SeraphineL SeraphineL 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Ok so it's really annoying when someone plays with your feelings.This girl I know, at first it was like she is so into me and now I know she still likes me but she acts as if she...
    Ashashby Ashashby 18-21, M Jun 25

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