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    Considerate of Others Feelings

    i try to consider other peoples feelings am quite astute at working them out but i act on impulse and this gets me into trouble and sometimes its as if the others dont exist which is harsh and quite selfish i dont mean to be im just unaware so i can be very good at tuning in or...
    claracluck claracluck 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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    Being Considerate of Others

    I try to consider other peoples feeling when i do something to them.then i know how they feel about it and try not to do it again. Other people that i have seen don't have good driving ediquittte or you hold the door for them to be friendly and you get a look. But...
    awakened awakened 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    Feeling Important

    A friend on EP sent me a message and she has been going through a rough time in her life.  She is visiting family members and one comment that she made to me is that her family makes her feel important.  Valued and appreciated.  This got me thinking about the...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    You No....................................................

    You no when you have hit rock bootem and there is no getting back up...I have no will to fight anymore and especially when i don't want to be here anymore............That says it all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Jul 16, 2011

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    I Am a Little Confused By T...

    I am a little confused by the wording of this question, so I will clarify. I think I am a considerate person who takes into account the feeling of those around me. I believe in Karma, the law of three and the golden rule. This means treating others as I would like to be...
    autumnmoon autumnmoon 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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    I Was Too Considerate Of Others Feelings For Way Too Long

    I was being the mature good one while they gossiped and plotted and back stabbed me with lies and games ... I was silent ... now I realise the mistake I made trusting these people and I regret my considerate caring sensitive nature and how these people plotted against me to ruin...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F Jan 4, 2013

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    I Don't Really Tell It Like It Is All the Time...

    I think everyone would agree that they appreciate it when someone is honest with them. Unfortunately, there are those who like to promote themselves as the straight-talking, "tell it like it" is types who offer their pearls of wisdom, like a self-appointed Solomon...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    I'm Extremely Considera...

    I'm extremely considerate of other people's feelings, but only when I feel I need to be. For example, I don't hide the truth from someone because I want them to feel better, I tell them what I think about them and the situation. people grow that way and become more mature. I'm...
    Sparklepaws Sparklepaws 18-21, M 1 Response May 14, 2008

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    Some People Aren't

    I always thought that everyone was considerate. My best friend has shown me that it's not true. I love him dearly and he is a true friend. But he can be really inconsiderate sometimes. He was never taught/ never picked up on a lot of social customs and he's not very intuitive...
    NaomiZero NaomiZero 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    I Get My Feelings Hurt Easi...

    I get my feelings hurt easily, so I try to always be considerate of other peoples feelings.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F May 14, 2008

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     I Try to Be. ...

     I try to be. Sometimes I'm not very good at it. But I'm definitely more considerate than some people. People can be so mean!
    Manders Manders 18-21, F May 14, 2008

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    I'm So Discouraged With People

    I feel like I always go out of my way to do the right thing for others, put myself in their shoes and do what I would want done. I guess I figured when it came down to it, some time it would be paid back to me.  Yesterday, I ran to my friends house, when I got there...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2008

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    Being Considerate Goes a Long Way

    i think this is a very important characteristic to have and not enough people are considerate. it makes me so unnerved watching people (especially people I know/am related to) be so inconsiderate to others. And it doesn't just stop at people, but animals too. Maybe I am too...
    Thinkdom Thinkdom 22-25, F May 15, 2008

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    Remember the Golden Rule?

         I probably am to considerate of others feelings. I rather not say anything than argue, make someone mad or act out my  negative feelings at work. It is easier for me to find a common ground than argue. Besides remember the Golden Rule? Do on to...
    moonwalker moonwalker 46-50, F 1 Response May 15, 2008

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