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I Considerate of Other Peoples Feelings

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    I'm Extremely Considera...

    I'm extremely considerate of other people's feelings, but only when I feel I need to be. For example, I don't hide the truth from someone because I want them to feel better, I tell them what I think about them and the situation. people grow that way and become more mature. I'm...
    Sparklepaws Sparklepaws 18-21, M 1 Response May 14, 2008

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    I Get My Feelings Hurt Easi...

    I get my feelings hurt easily, so I try to always be considerate of other peoples feelings.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F May 14, 2008

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    Being Considerate of Others

    I try to consider other peoples feeling when i do something to them.then i know how they feel about it and try not to do it again. Other people that i have seen don't have good driving ediquittte or you hold the door for them to be friendly and you get a look. But...
    awakened awakened 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    I'm So Discouraged With People

    I feel like I always go out of my way to do the right thing for others, put myself in their shoes and do what I would want done. I guess I figured when it came down to it, some time it would be paid back to me.  Yesterday, I ran to my friends house, when I got there...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2008

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     I Try to Be. ...

     I try to be. Sometimes I'm not very good at it. But I'm definitely more considerate than some people. People can be so mean!
    Manders Manders 18-21, F May 14, 2008

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    Being Considerate Goes a Long Way

    i think this is a very important characteristic to have and not enough people are considerate. it makes me so unnerved watching people (especially people I know/am related to) be so inconsiderate to others. And it doesn't just stop at people, but animals too. Maybe I am too...
    Thinkdom Thinkdom 22-25, F May 15, 2008

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    Some People Aren't

    I always thought that everyone was considerate. My best friend has shown me that it's not true. I love him dearly and he is a true friend. But he can be really inconsiderate sometimes. He was never taught/ never picked up on a lot of social customs and he's not very intuitive...
    NaomiZero NaomiZero 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    I Am a Little Confused By T...

    I am a little confused by the wording of this question, so I will clarify. I think I am a considerate person who takes into account the feeling of those around me. I believe in Karma, the law of three and the golden rule. This means treating others as I would like to be...
    autumnmoon autumnmoon 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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    I Don't Really Tell It Like It Is All the Time...

    I think everyone would agree that they appreciate it when someone is honest with them. Unfortunately, there are those who like to promote themselves as the straight-talking, "tell it like it" is types who offer their pearls of wisdom, like a self-appointed Solomon...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    You No....................................................

    You no when you have hit rock bootem and there is no getting back up...I have no will to fight anymore and especially when i don't want to be here anymore............That says it all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Jul 16, 2011

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    I Was Too Considerate Of Others Feelings For Way Too Long

    I was being the mature good one while they gossiped and plotted and back stabbed me with lies and games ... I was silent ... now I realise the mistake I made trusting these people and I regret my considerate caring sensitive nature and how these people plotted against me to ruin...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F Jan 4, 2013

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    Remember the Golden Rule?

         I probably am to considerate of others feelings. I rather not say anything than argue, make someone mad or act out my  negative feelings at work. It is easier for me to find a common ground than argue. Besides remember the Golden Rule? Do on to...
    moonwalker moonwalker 46-50, F 1 Response May 15, 2008

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    Feeling Important

    A friend on EP sent me a message and she has been going through a rough time in her life.  She is visiting family members and one comment that she made to me is that her family makes her feel important.  Valued and appreciated.  This got me thinking about the...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    Considerate of Others Feelings

    i try to consider other peoples feelings am quite astute at working them out but i act on impulse and this gets me into trouble and sometimes its as if the others dont exist which is harsh and quite selfish i dont mean to be im just unaware so i can be very good at tuning in or...
    claracluck claracluck 41-45, F May 15, 2008

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    So I feel like my MM has been acting a little different this time around. He is to willing to let me stay at his place. I don't feel comfortable doing that really. But he keeps...
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    Oh man I'm falling again. I was doing so well, the friend zone was safe for me. I didn't let him know that I'm pulling away because I'm tired of being put on the back burner. He...
    123Frozen 123Frozen 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    Is timing everything is a relationship? I think it is in my case. D: I met my friend back in March after a few months of hanging out and texting. He confessed he had feelings for...
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    I just got home from being with my MM since 1:30. At first all we did was running around doing work stuff that needed done and then we went to have some drinks. It was there were i...
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    kikimarie1978 kikimarie1978 36-40, F 48 Responses Oct 20

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    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 21

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    I believe in treating others the way you want to be treated. I people that are priorities in my life but I'm nice to everyone. I'll do anything I can to help. I'm not selfish. I...
    R3dheadbrit18 R3dheadbrit18 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    So update...I had the SG sleep on it...I asked him to be honest with me about his feelings even if he things it will hurt my feelings after that night. I told him I think we were...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Oct 6

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    Everyone is guilty of comparison to others. After a little lesson I learned in youth group and a good fasting I realized three things 1) I compared myself more than I thought in...
    directorskittish directorskittish 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    I have bad genes. I think it is my responsibility to the human race to die without reproducing so the race can improve in the future, the bad physical features and my Tourettes and...
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 20

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    I absolutely try to smile the most I can just to brighten up peoples' day publicly. I'm a very friendly person and am always smiling according to my family and teachers :) I...
    GivePeaceAChance3 GivePeaceAChance3 13-15 6 days ago

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    hi, upon reading some of the experiences for days here in EP i decided to share a bit of my life.. I met this man on-line, i decided to find someone on-line because there are lots...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Get ready for a LONG post! This was this morning, the last time we talked/ will talk. He and his W were messaging me. Initially it was her who messaged me, but I begged for him to...
    jyj78 jyj78 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 18

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    They will try to teach you to think your way out of feelings, they will try to argue rationally about feelings They will tell you that you make yourself worse by thinking...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    #1 I couldn't be and neither he wanted me to be! He just confessed his love to me, in the lost moment of the lost life. Somehow he says, I complete him. I make everything easy and...
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    Dealing with emotions is not what I want to do and felt this way for very long time. I'm in denial I run from my feelings hide from my thoughts. I think I'm progressing but still...
    Janisoneluv Janisoneluv 26-30, F Oct 5

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    Hi Are you suffering due to a breakup? Are you tired of feeling down and struggling to move on? If you have gone through a breakup, you will surely agree that it can be...
    blue963 blue963 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I've ended up going back to him, we had a huge conversation after he ended it with me. We both missed each other, and whilst my feelings are stronger for him, he still has...
    BlackFox05 BlackFox05 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I have been in a relationship for 4 years. He was so close to perfection for so long, but here recently, he has been very depressed and there isn't a lot of communication. He has...
    anonymouslymysterious anonymouslymysterious 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 17

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    #9 [not the other woman] Yesterday .. while crying the lose of my friend .. I could tell why I was so in pain and anger too, a new realisation came clear to me: Yes I love him...
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