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I Continuely Put Others Before Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 213 People

    All the Time

    Have you ever experienced the kind of love that rips you apart?. He was that love to me. He still that love to me. It's one of those things that you can't go thru life without. Today I was watching "The Bridges of Madison County", and I understood why it made me cry so...
    caritus caritus 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    Always

    I always put everyone else before me. I am never number 1 in my life. I am always going to put people before me, and nothing about that is ever going to change. I will always put my friends, my family, everyone before me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 6, 2009

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    Mostly My Children

    I would say it applies to most mothers though , we go without to give our children things , three of mine are grown up now , but still if they need anything at all then yes i'll put them before myself always ..
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 18, 2009

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    I'll Be Stopping That Nonsense

    I need to learn the right ratio! How much of me for me and how much for everyone else?
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Putting Others Before Me

    I often find myself putting others before me.  The problem is that often times, I don't take care of myself.  I need to learn balance in this.
    troubled28 troubled28 26-30, F Sep 16, 2007

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    Always

    I always think other people have needs that are more important than mine.  When I was in law school, I worked at a gas station.  I would sometimes work double shifts when people asked me to.  Then,  I would come home to a pile of homework and have to stay up...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2007

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    No Friends

    i always feel that i should put others before me so then they feel like i'm a great friend and will continue to be friends with me. If i worry about myself before others, i feel like people will think i'm selfish and a horrible friend.
    syntheticxtasy syntheticxtasy 16-18, F Aug 18, 2007

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    Left Behind.

    I'm getting impatient. When will someone acknowledge me and actually realize that i too have needs. The number of times i've been taken advantage might be the same as the number of strands of hair on my head.
    peacenik peacenik 16-18, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2007

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    Definitely In This Situation....

    Maybe I shouldn't write this as I had some bad comments from people before but going to take the risk anyway. I had a colleague who made a real effort to befriend me as I looked after her baby son in my daycare. She used to say him and her loved me, act very mothering towards me...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    New Era

    I think I've mentioned this somewhere else before but I do. Everyone comes to me with their problems and I do enjoy helping them all. I love ti see them smile when I say something right, when things turn out well or just when I hear them laugh. Yet when I have my own problems I...
    CleoShilu CleoShilu 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Ever since I was a kid I've been told that being who you are is the best way to make friends and find loved ones. Be true to who you are and all good will come. Im 22 years old...
    patssnc92 patssnc92 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 8

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    I was happy lying in a bed donating my blood for the very first time before I fainted by standing right away lol, anyone has felt the knowing when you going to faint? lol
    Sal89 Sal89 22-25, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Nothing beats putting some hot led down range like shooting a .243! Of course a number of other weapons would be nice. I've been in several tanks but never fired the 'ol thing!
    AmericanKnight AmericanKnight 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    I am writing this incase anyone else finds themselves in a similar situation . . . Please do not worry about me, I have been free of this relationship for 7 years now. I am a lot...
    elimarie7 elimarie7 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    So today is a very emotional day. My dog has been sick for a while and my family and I found it best if we put him down. We can see he's in pain and I'd hate to prolong his torture...
    Delicateflower98 Delicateflower98 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Where is the compassion for others? I've spent a while on and off reading various stories on here. The sadness and depression as a result of what others have endured or are...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    Matthis936h6fu1 Matthis936h6fu1 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    Logan3691wjw1 Logan3691wjw1 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    My cat died the other night, & I'm heartbroken... I'm also traumatized by the botched euthanasia, he had to endure! Cubby was my best friend! I've never been so bonded to an...
    Katherinespost Katherinespost 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've worked in and with the public my entire life.As a teen bagging groceries to a retail athletic footwear and apparel outlet manager.So I read people very well and can tell when...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Why? Because I know that the most reliable person for me is me. If I let myself down because I didn't achieve a goal, deadline, or a task then it's me that I need to contend with...
    Nyx1978 Nyx1978 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Just a few words about myself and why I joined... I have a lot of life changes happening at the moment. This means I am often stressed with not many a person to speak to about...
    HTreaty HTreaty 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I consider myself a soldier. A soldier saving anyone who needs help. Helping people is like breathing to me. I also like danger, struggles, hardships because it makes me stronger...
    Stormeye1996 Stormeye1996 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I pretend to be happy for others. I smile and I am nice to everyone. When my friends become fake and stab others in the back. I bite my lip and say nothing. On the inside...
    Ginger1313 Ginger1313 13-15, F Jan 15

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    I always seem to put myself after others, I can never think of myself, I'm way too generous.
    Chrism404 Chrism404 18-21, M 7 Responses Jan 16

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    Yes. People tend to "share" what others have told them in confidence. I've been burned before :( That's why I only "share" information that i don't mind people to know. The super...
    Platana2100 Platana2100 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    By people, I mean me. I keep hurting the one I love most, and it's going to tear us apart if I cannot change. My boyfriend is a smart, empathetic, logical, sensible man. I am an...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Anthony8147jwj6 Anthony8147jwj6 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Mainly because a surgeon's time is valuable, enterprise-oriented price cut centers have Lower costs by eradicating the surgeon from most of the process. The Preliminary...
    Ryan2693yly2 Ryan2693yly2 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I love when people are up and going from my wisdom and accommodation. Even though I am surprisingly unrelated to many, as a child I have "prayed" to God, Though I was just talking...
    IntrovertCat IntrovertCat 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I can't stand smart @ss people, no you're not better than anyone, and don't try to "out-wit" or "out-smart" us either bc I will put you down on behalf of everyone who agrees with...
    slimvince slimvince 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Little "disclaimer" I've noticed quite often people add me to their circle, but apparently without any motivation, anything we could've in common, or even just the mere intention...
    mat4 mat4 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I was in the fifth grade when it happened. The car I was travelling in had stopped and I got off so, that I could go and sit in the back. As soon as I opened the door, the driver...
    EvanescentIridescent EvanescentIridescent 16-17, F Jan 11

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    as a teenager...nothing special. though like every other teen, i was convinced no one else had felt what i felt.. i was in love but it was not returned. i didn't know how to...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    it's now 2015. I'm not going to say "I hope you have a good year" because that's impossible. Everybody has their ups and downs because that's what life is all about. You have to...
    buttonsandbowsx buttonsandbowsx 13-15, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Im just lonely i guess im starting to hate new years eve too i wondered why people hated it now I see why lol..hell of a freaking year it's been to say the least..its funny i guess...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Well to make it seem that u knkw I've helped and put a smile on someone's face. I say good morning to strangers ask how they are and same to teachers and stuff. I try to be kind...
    Sk13k Sk13k 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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