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I Could Have Avoided The Whole Mess If I Had Only

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    ...remained quiet! One thing I have realized over my 4 decades of life is that if I keep quiet I normally do not make waves and keep the stress and drama out of my life. The problem comes when I forget this and speak up much too loudly
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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