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I Could Never Cheat On a Partner

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 3,089 People

    KimmeeNicole KimmeeNicole 41-45, F Nov 8, 2014

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    how do u fix a relationship

    after being cheated on?
    ChangingLife2015 ChangingLife2015 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F Aug 12, 2015

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    How Could Anyone Possibly Do This?

    It just doesn't make any sense to me. It's not even a possibility that would ever cross my mind. I would never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever cheat on someone. I don't know what could drive someone to betray the trust of a...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 17, 2008

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    breionagray breionagray 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2015

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    Nah. Hard enough trying to keep one

    relationship going let alone more!!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Aug 1, 2014

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    I can never cheat. Its the worst gut wrenching

    feeling anybody could have. It truly hurts and I have no desire to or put pain on who im with. That's immoral.
    Michelle41011 Michelle41011 41-45, T 2 Responses Aug 17, 2015

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    How naive to say 'never'.

    You don't know what you'll do in 5 or 10 or 20 years. Things are not always black and white. What if, on your honeymoon your husband suffers a serious accident and becomes a quadriplegic. Would you, at 25 become celibate? If you chose to have a physical affair would that be...
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    LifeIsSoGood14 LifeIsSoGood14 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 17, 2014

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    Anthonyverdin Anthonyverdin 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 15, 2014

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    Theres always a possibility

    that a person can attracted to another. It's not wrong. But When You Are In A Commitment? You should discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and it's okay. As long as you don't nurse the feeling, and won't do something about it. Border line between...
    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    I have only had one relationship

    and that is with the one I have married. I couldn't ever cheat on her. I wasn't raised that way. My parents taught and showed us what is expected. There are many times I may want to cheat. But what I want and what I need are not the same. I couldn't live with myself knowing I...
    Gambler715 Gambler715 51-55, M Dec 16, 2015

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    I think cheating is one of the worst things you

    can ever to do someone. especially when you tell them you love them or like them alot. cheating on someone is so bad and I think it's low. if you really want to be with them, be loyal. don't go sneaking around with others. Be a good boyfriend/girlfriend. don't lie to them and be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    i never cheated in the past

    relationships single right now wont lie cheating is tempting a hot girl not ordinary girl comes near you she knows you have girlfriend yet whispers near your ear i want you really hard to control trust me lol
    lostpagesofM lostpagesofM 18-21, M a week ago

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    Ouch

    I don't know! I simply don't know!
    123ct 123ct 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I could never EVER bring myself to cheat on a

    partner, the pain and experience itself brought on by cheating is one of the worst pains to go through whether your male or female and having been a victim of it myself and witnessed it in front of me I don't see why I should have to bestow that upon a partner myself, why I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    My parents divorced when I was ten.

    Dad was cheating. It altered the lives of seven people,not just the two spouses but the five children. Dad went and lived his own life, showing up on holidays but never there when I needed a dad. Flash forward to now. I've been with my wife for 16 years. I thought we would be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    Not Anymore Anyway

    Ok i did cheat once, but not until she cheated on me, and made it obvious she wanted to cheat on me.I was engaged to her, we were together for 5 years, she had some friends back to her house, we were having fun.A guy we had been chatting to a few times was in a local bar we...
    MadeInHell MadeInHell 41-45 Feb 10, 2013

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    not saying im perfect

    or that if you cheat your some awful person or anything. I can understand why, even if it is wrong. I just could never cheat on someone I love. The guilt would drive me to insanity.
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I never had a girlfriend before

    and I still don't have one but if I get one I will love her unlit the end I will never cheat on someone because I finding cheating dusting
    dominick5 dominick5 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 1, 2014

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    I try to live my life on a certain code of

    honor one of respect, and one of trust. sure, I'm not perfect, but I'm not a bad guy either. I love her. I have never cared about anyone in my life as much as I do her. you couldn't get me to break her trust like that with a gun to my head.
    mrweerd mrweerd 26-30, M Feb 12, 2015

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    Just like it says, I think I never could,

    even if I wanted to. I'm brought up by a woman who thought honesty and truthfulness is the highest good. It rubbed on me and I would not be able to act like nothing happened, but admiting it would ruin my marriage so I simply will never cheat...
    AdBlue AdBlue 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2015

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    I Just Can't...

    I Really like her...she makes me happy and I respect her very much and even if she may get on my nerves at time and we talk little. I still can't she's too good to me I simply can't. I thought I had something deep and profund to say about the subject... but I don't.... I like her...
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 2 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Because my mind pushes confess Before any

    action. Even before seroquel.
    JustBipolarMe JustBipolarMe 46-50, M Mar 22, 2015

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    I've had mixed views on this

    since I was younger. But I wouldn't dare do such a thing to my Partner. I'd never judge anyway of course, but in my opinion its disrespectful and I could never do such a thing.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 16-17, M Oct 23, 2015

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    I could never do it. I think it is one of the

    worst things you could do to your partner. It ruins the trust they have for people. It ruins how they see relationships. If you aren't happy then leave before you so something stupid. Thats what I think
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    No matter if we were married

    or not, how serious our relationship were or how many children we had, I WOULD NEVER EVER STAY WITH A CHEATER!!! My partner isn't allowed to cheat me at all and if he does, I can't forgive it and leave immediately. I love myself more than some dumb, arrogant and weak man! Of...
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2015

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    If I Don't Love You Enough to Be Faithful, I Just Don't Love You Enough

    And we shouldn't be together and we need to go our separate ways. You need to find someone who does love you that much and I need to find someone I love that much. No one HAS to cheat, you can always end one relationship before you start another. If you have found someone else...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I would NEVER EVER EVER cheat.

    .. You can cheat on me but I can't and I won't... I just don't see the point of cheating... It sounds idiotic and stupid...
    RagingDemon29 RagingDemon29 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 14, 2015

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    seems so fruitless...

    personally speaking, when I am in a relationship, everyone else becomes grey blobs of personality that float around...cheating is disgusting and I have no idea how anyone could ever do it.
    Curiouscatbug Curiouscatbug 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2015

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    Every night you are the last person I say

    goodnight too, you are the first person I lay my eyes upon when I wake up.I made my choice a long time ago, with every season that change as the years go by I will be by your side forever.Every time life threw us a curve ball it only strengthened our bond and made us stronger...
    Jay04Sch Jay04Sch 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2015

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    i could never cheat anyone coz i know how its

    feels to be getting cheated
    Dreck007 Dreck007 18-21, M Jul 3, 2015

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    My dad cheated on my mother

    and abandoned me, her, and my sister when I was 3 months old. Not only do I see it as wrong but if I did it that would make me like him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 16, 2015

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    In the Face of Temptation I Am Loyal

    One of my employees has admitted that he finds me very attractive.  I originally thought "oh how inappropriate" but since then I've realized that we have real sparks between us. My marriage is on the rocks, and has been for two years.  My husband and I have...
    Puzzle Puzzle 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    Or I could never forgive

    and stay with a partner that cheated. In light I what I've recently experienced (see other experience) I think I'm never going to say "I Could Never...." ever again!!!! If you've never experienced a particular situation, you don't know what you might do until you are staring it...
    Hope1985 Hope1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Yeh I would struggle to get one person never

    mind 2 so they wouldn't even have to worry about me cheating
    mollbear mollbear 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 24, 2015

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    My boyfriend has cheated on me twice in the

    past. I wish I could hurt him the same way he's hurt me but could never get myself to do it even if I had the chance. It's the worst kind of pain and I could never put him through it even though he's done it to me. Why do I have to be so kind?
    ashley719 ashley719 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    I Could Never Do This

    I don't think I could hate someone enough to do this to them. Its been done to me and it sent me over the edge. I would never wish anyone to feel like I've felt. My ex wife cheated on me... a lot. I didn't know at the time how much, and I don't really know the truth to this day...
    Twillback Twillback 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2010

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    pinkhappysparkle pinkhappysparkle 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    Im gonna confess all my feelings to this girl

    that i love with my entire heart. I hope. Really really hope. That she says yes. And i also pray. She is beautiful in everyway. And her personality is beautiful. I love her with everything i got. And her being such a beautiful girl i dont wanna let her go. I love her and will...
    yoshiyang yoshiyang 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    Never say never. It's easy to say I'd never

    do this, that or the other. But when faced with a sexless marriage and temptation comes knocking on your door and is discreetly offered to you on a silver platter - would you still NEVER cheat? I hope to never be faced with that challenge, I just think it's silly to assume that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11, 2015

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