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I Could Never Cheat On a Partner

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    I Would Never Ever

    Cheat on a significant other. This isn't to offend or degrade anyone who has, this is my preference and my opinion about cheating. I just don't get the point. I've been cheated on by every boyfriend I've had in the past and thats okay because I've healed and moved on from this...
    AmazinglyAmazing AmazinglyAmazing 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Would Feel Too Bad

    I could never do such a thing; I would simply at best always regret it. Even if I did get away with it, feel too guilty. I have never had a partner and if I do (or when depending on one's perception), I would remain loyal no matter what. Since I have been single my entire life, I...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Nov 17, 2013

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    Ouch

    I don't know! I simply don't know!
    123ct 123ct 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Theres always a possibility

    that a person can attracted to another. It's not wrong. But When You Are In A Commitment? You should discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and it's okay. As long as you don't nurse the feeling, and won't do something about it. Border line between...
    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I never had a girlfriend before

    and I still don't have one but if I get one I will love her unlit the end I will never cheat on someone because I finding cheating dusting
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M Aug 1

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    How naive to say 'never'.

    You don't know what you'll do in 5 or 10 or 20 years. Things are not always black and white. What if, on your honeymoon your husband suffers a serious accident and becomes a quadriplegic. Would you, at 25 become celibate? If you chose to have a physical affair would that be...
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I Could Never Do This

    I don't think I could hate someone enough to do this to them. Its been done to me and it sent me over the edge. I would never wish anyone to feel like I've felt. My ex wife cheated on me... a lot. I didn't know at the time how much, and I don't really know the truth to this day...
    Twillback Twillback 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2010

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    I Don'T Like It When People Say "Other Fish In The Sea"

    When you are single, obviously there are a lot of potential people that could be compatible with you and lead to a great relationship. However, when you are in a relationship, people shouldn't be thinking about this. In my opinion, if you are in a relationship, you should...
    LonelyGirl1230 LonelyGirl1230 22-25, F May 23, 2013

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    Morals Come Natural To Me

    I was married to a lady that had issues with intimacy. We did not have pre marital sex. So i found out she was not telling me the truth about her sexual desires, really the lack there of... so this was hard to accept but in a marriage you must be faithful. It felt kinda like...
    Justjim40 Justjim40 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2012

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    I Can't Fathom It

    Cheating is something that I'd never tolerate because its something that I'd never, never do. Even the thought of cheating leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2008

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    not saying im perfect

    or that if you cheat your some awful person or anything. I can understand why, even if it is wrong. I just could never cheat on someone I love. The guilt would drive me to insanity.
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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    Not Everyone Is Ready For A Relationship

    "Many people enter relationships thinking that they can have the benefits of a relationship with another, like sex at hand for instance, closeness when they want it, a companion when they feel they'd like one. All other 'things' aren't important even if it's important to you...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F Aug 16, 2013

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    I found myself in a position to cheat on my

    boyfriend... Someone say the things I did were cheating. I had found a friend that I could talk about anything with, including sexual topics. At first none of it was personal and it was the type of conversation you may have with your best friend. But then he said he like me, and...
    Acacia21 Acacia21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    If I Don't Love You Enough to Be Faithful, I Just Don't Love You Enough

    And we shouldn't be together and we need to go our separate ways. You need to find someone who does love you that much and I need to find someone I love that much. No one HAS to cheat, you can always end one relationship before you start another. If you have found someone else...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    Anthonyverdin Anthonyverdin 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    Both Sides Of The Story

    I really want to be able to say this.I thought I was the kind of person who could never, ever, ever cheat on a partner. But it turns out that all it took was four months of distance, some alcohol, and the right situations. I was (and am) so ashamed, and looking back, I feel I'm...
    cismar1 cismar1 18-21, F Mar 6, 2012

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    Being An Air Force Girlfriend.

    Being an air force girlfriend has opened my eyes to soooo many different things, but one thing is for certain; i would NEVER cheat on my airman, Nathaniel Stroud. I grew up with him, and we are both in a military family. A few years down the road i had to move away, I'm...
    kybird kybird 16-17, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I Could Never Cheat On My Partner

    I love my boyfriend to much i will never cheat on him.
    apples24 apples24 46-50, F May 5, 2012

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    Should i tell her how i feel?

    ? I want to say it very bad but i just dont know how things are gonna turn out.
    yoshiyang yoshiyang 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I Just Don't Understand Why...

    If you truly love someone, why would you cheat? If you truly love someone, then that person should be your everything, your world, your life. I could never see myself cheating on someone I love.
    DaysEJole DaysEJole 18-21, M Dec 16, 2012

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    I don't think I could ever cheat on someone

    because that would require another person to find me attractive and as of right now trying to get one is already hard enough
    LcplSkeens LcplSkeens 18-21, M Jan 10

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    I Just Can't...

    I Really like her...she makes me happy and I respect her very much and even if she may get on my nerves at time and we talk little. I still can't she's too good to me I simply can't. I thought I had something deep and profund to say about the subject... but I don't.... I like her...
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 2 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Been cheated on. Cant cause

    that pain. Would rather attack a lovers acts.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Not In My Nature

    It doesn't seem right. I've always been faithful to the few relationships I have had. If something's wrong, then I tell them, and we try to work things out. I try my utmost all the time to be honest. Even if you don't think you're in love with your partner or something, I think...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 31, 2011

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    The Reason I Would Never Cheat.

    I would hate to be cheated on by someone am in a relationship with. It would break my heart if that happens to me. I think it's just right that i don't cheat on my partner if i don't want to get cheated on. Secondly, i would only be with someone i care about and who meets all my...
    tosinsamuel3 tosinsamuel3 26-30, M Jun 11, 2012

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    ....

    Trust is too important to me for me to turn around and betray his with someone else. I always tell my partner if there is someone else I am interested in. I even tell him when I flirt.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    The Aftermath Of Infedelity

    I've been cheated on in the past. Just knowing what that feels like has kept me faithful all these years. That is a line I would never cross. The thought of what it could do to my partner and the consequences that follow is more than enough to keep me in check. Unfortunately I...
    Danialva Danialva 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2011

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    If I wasn't into it anymore I would tell them

    rather than hurt them they aren't doing anything wrong and I shouldn't either it just wasn't meant to be
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Love

    ‎"Love, child! What else? You will find it and lose it, again and again. And with each finding and each loss, you will become more than before. What you make of it is yours to choose." - Kushiel's Scion What is love? I find it and lose it again and again. I define, and...
    theologian theologian 18-21, M Dec 16, 2012

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    In the Face of Temptation I Am Loyal

    One of my employees has admitted that he finds me very attractive.  I originally thought "oh how inappropriate" but since then I've realized that we have real sparks between us. My marriage is on the rocks, and has been for two years.  My husband and I have...
    Puzzle Puzzle 21-25, F 17 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    My boyfriend has cheated on me twice in the

    past. I wish I could hurt him the same way he's hurt me but could never get myself to do it even if I had the chance. It's the worst kind of pain and I could never put him through it even though he's done it to me. Why do I have to be so kind?
    ashley719 ashley719 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 29

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    Sometimes i want a gf

    and i wanna make her happy.
    yoshiyang yoshiyang 16-17, M Jul 29

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    LifeIsSoGood14 LifeIsSoGood14 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Not Anymore Anyway

    Ok i did cheat once, but not until she cheated on me, and made it obvious she wanted to cheat on me.I was engaged to her, we were together for 5 years, she had some friends back to her house, we were having fun.A guy we had been chatting to a few times was in a local bar we...
    MadeInHell MadeInHell 41-45 Feb 10, 2013

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    I Would Never Cheat.

    I don't understand how a person can cheat on their partner. I could never do something like that. If you get the urge to cheat on your partner, then it's time to end the relationship But no, they want their cake and to eat it too.
    CreedenceGold CreedenceGold 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    i could never cheat on my boyfriend,

    we have been through so much together, we have lost three babys, had some more bad news and ups and downs. i love my boyfriend to bits hes my world and we have been together for 7 years and 8 months. hes my best friend and i would never lose him. we are getting married in 2016...
    westlife213 westlife213 22-25, F Apr 5

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    Very Faithful

    I WAS married to a man that cheated not one not twice but three time!! he was living with the last one and I NEVER knew!!! I would NEVER put anyone through the pain I went thru and my innocent children who's lives he TRIED to destroy. His loss not ours!!
    irishgurl01 irishgurl01 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    How Could Anyone Possibly Do This?

    It just doesn't make any sense to me. It's not even a possibility that would ever cross my mind. I would never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever cheat on someone. I don't know what could drive someone to betray the trust of a...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 17, 2008

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    I Could Never

    i could never cheat on my parthner . i could never cheat on her . she is my everything .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2009

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    What Do You Call Cheating ?

    i was once told by somebody that cheating was something you couldn't tell your partner about.so is cheating something you have to let others set the bar for you. ? i mean where does cheating start ? looking at a guy/girl and thinking..omg i so would love to...watching **** alone...
    redste redste 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    Nasty

    I hate hearing stories about significant others cheating. It just makes me sick. When a person cheats it just pitiful and disgusting, especially when they are married. Their should be no excuse for cheating, never. If you're unhappy, fix it. Stressed out? Find out what stresses...
    2young4marriage 2young4marriage 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Cheating

    I don't understand why people would cheat on there partners. I think if you are thinking about cheating then you shouldn't be together to begin with.
    Maz1980 Maz1980 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    I Have Cheated On A Partner.... But!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I could never cheat on a man who I care for and I know he cares for me!!!!There is a HUGE difference!!!!! 
    pixelita pixelita 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    It can be possible if someone cheats on me

    but i would never cheat on anyone cause i think cheating on a good girl who loves you and respects you is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Too Much Harm

    I am committed to my wife, now sometimes I am mad at her, but even then, I would never cheat on her!  Besides the fact that I made commitment to her, and that commitment was to the death, I have seen too many families ripped apart by affairs.  I know that it would...
    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 18 Responses Apr 2, 2008

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    Nah. Hard enough trying to keep one

    relationship going let alone more!!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    Would Never Ever Cheat!!

    its one of the worst things ever!!! i mean, i completely hate guys that cheat!! i mean, if you find yourself a beautiful woman, its a priviledge, and even more so that she choses you over every other guy!! the least a guy in this position can do is be faithful, and show the woman...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Im gonna confess all my feelings to this girl

    that i love with my entire heart. I hope. Really really hope. That she says yes. And i also pray. She is beautiful in everyway. And her personality is beautiful. I love her with everything i got. And her being such a beautiful girl i dont wanna let her go. I love her and will...
    yoshiyang yoshiyang 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    I've never cheated! I've been cheated on though. Cheaters never seem to get the concept of how much pain they inflict on others! Cheating is selfish... Just be single if you want...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Never cheated. I always viewed cheaters as cowardly and pathetic and I'm neither of those things.
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Now that polyamory has come for me to modify it if needed. Lmao.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    Cant. My body goes elsewhere
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    Just face it. A guy who has all the respect and has all the center of attention gets a beautiful girl. If you're laid back and quiet than you're left with no luck. They always fall...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M Aug 31