I Could Never Forgive a Cheating Partner

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    How Can I Forgive A Husband Who Cheats On Me For A Long Time.

    The original plan when we met that wonderful person that we came to love so much was to live happily ever after. Too often, over time, tension mounts between the spouses. Left untended, which is usually the case, bitterness and unforgiveness creep in. The division between the...
    MarcyTan MarcyTan
    46-50, F
    Jul 29, 2012

    After 10 yrs of marriage i am sepereated from

    my wife... We had been together forever and at about 4 or 5 yrs she cheated on me while i was on deployment... I tried to forget it...but that only made things worse.. I tried to burry it for 5 yrs... But it only made thiga worse and made me second guess everythingg she said...
    carl34 carl34
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 5, 2015

    I Am The Cheater And Cannot Stop

    I walked into this **** theater and twenty minutes later walked out with a couple. I just walked right up to them and asked if they wanted to party. He said yes and I followed them to their apartment. I walked into their apartment a little nervous cause the had not said a word...
    mexmale76 mexmale76
    Oct 21, 2012

    If You Don't Love Me Enough to Be Faithful, You Just Don't Love Me Enough

    And if that's the case then I would rather we end it, so I can find someone who does love me enough and you can be with the person you really want. To say that someone cheated because they didn't want to hurt the other person by leaving, is really the most ridiculous excuse I've...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    Mar 7, 2009

    I Could Never

    I never have experience this situation and I don't know if I would be able forgiving him or not.  I think a person needs being in the shoes to really understand or know how to feel.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2011

    He Slept With His Best Friends Wife And Continued Sexting Her While We Were Together

    So I've been dating my bf for about a year and things were amazing.....until I found out he'd had an affair with his best friends wife (purely sexual based). The fact alone that he did that to one of his closest friends in his friends own bed I cant get over. I feel like douche...
    Kimmiec Kimmiec
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 26, 2013

    I Love Her But I Cant Seem To Forgive Or Trust Her

    I have been married to my wife for 30 years. We were engaged at 19 and married at 21. We were hopelessly in love, or so I thought, at the time - what ever that happens to mean when you are 19. About a year after we were married I went on a 1 week trip with friends into the wilds...
    midlifecrisis1 midlifecrisis1
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2011

    Cheating-How Can You Forgive?

    The simple answer is that you can forgive but you can never forget, from the moment you find out about your partners infedelity, the core of your relationship is gone forever.. you can move forward after infedelity but there is always the nagging doubt that they will do it again...
    alli1234 alli1234
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2009

    Forgive? Maybe...forget? I Said Forget You!

    This happened a very long time ago. I was dating a woman, and I really liked her. I started to feel things for her rather quickly. It didn't last long, and as time would tell, there was a reason why.Every time I'd call, sometimes she'd get a little jittery. I had no clue why. She...
    oneslimmess oneslimmess
    5 Responses Apr 20, 2011

    Some Days I Want To Stay, But Others I Dont

    My husband and I have been married for 4 years now and got married too young. We were only dating for 6 months when we found out we were pregnant. I was 18 and he was 19. We got married and he joined the military so we could support our family by ourselves. I am a stay at home...
    suzy23 suzy23
    22-25, F
    Jul 13, 2012

    Hurt To The Core

    Im still cant believe he cheated on me. I cry everyday. When will this pain go away?
    MeSheHer MeSheHer
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

    Don't Know How To Forgive.......

    5-6 weeks into our relationship my partner cheated on me with a girl that had wanted a relationship with him but he had never wanted her. He was drunk and she was straight. He had gone to bed in a spare room and she had come in and slipped into the bed. He didn't say no, it...
    lorakeet123 lorakeet123
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2010

    Never Have and Never Will

    Yes, I've been cheated on, a few times before. And once, I did try to forgive that person... but I just couldn't get past it! When a person cheats, no matter the "reason", it's most unforgivable. I can never trust that person again. And the person doesn't look so good...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 7, 2009
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