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I Could Not and Would Not Cheat On Him

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    Hypocrit

    I've had some problems with cheating in the past. The problems didn't lie in my having sex with not-my-partner. The problems lay in my emotional affairs. I didn't really understand the difference between male friends that you were super close with, and males that should not be...
    vanillaicecream vanillaicecream 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2009

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    If I am with someone,

    I am committed. I am loyal, respectful, and honest to that person. I couldn't live with myself if I cheated on someone. The only thing I would be worried about is THEIR feelings and how I hurt them. Not my own
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F Aug 5, 2014

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    I Honor My Vows Because......."

       I love my husband. I wouldn't cheat regardless of the circumstances. There have been men who have befriended me in my life, that thought they would be able to "get in my pants" I have always told my husband the truth, and he's honest and upfront with me. The really...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2011

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    Not Possible For Me....

    Its impossible for me to Cheat on the man that I Love. I Just can't do it, something in me, won't allow it, and I just will not do it. Even if I could cheat on him, I never would. he means way too much to me. Nothing in this world is worth risking losing the man I Love. He is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 19, 2010

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    He Means To Much

    I have been cheated on a couple of times in the past. I remember how much it hurt when i found out. The guys would alwys come to me as if nothing ever happened and i think thats what made me so sick. I met my current boyfriend through a friend at work, and its been 2 years and...
    Lifeoutofashes Lifeoutofashes 22-25 Nov 8, 2010

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    Cheating.

    I would never cheat on my boyfriend. I think it's a terrible thing, if someone wants to cheat, they don't deserve a relationship imo.I've been with my boyfriend 2 years and 2 months and I wouldn't dream of cheating. No one compares to my guy ^___^
    emmabell14 emmabell14 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Its Not Even An Option

    Cheating, to me, in general is just inconceivable but with him its like...no one else exists. I couldn't even see my self with someone else much less actually being with another. I'm too loyal and committed to our family for something like that.
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    Cheater Pants On Fire

    seriously, why do people feel the tendency to be in a relationship when they have more urge to cheat? if you wanna cheat always, most of the time and the biggest part in your life is to cheat, don't involve yourself in a relationship cause you are gonna hurt your partner. just be...
    LovelessAdvocate LovelessAdvocate 22-25, F Jul 22, 2010

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    Tea26 Tea26 26-30 15 hrs ago

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    summertimesadness16 summertimesadness16 22-25, F Jan 3

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