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 | cuckedbikaren wrote on 06:19PM at Sep 23rd, 2009 We recently started cuckolding and I am very turned on by her getting ****** by another man while I am watching, but uncomfortable with repeating with the same man. I like the mild humiliation the first time with a relative stranger, but can't handle it more than once. I am also worried she will get to attached if she has a steady bf. Has anyone else had this problem? How did you deal with?
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 | voyeurbob wrote on 02:45PM at Sep 26th, 2009 I can understand your concerns here. Here is what our experience has been. We have found that having a steady partner has many advantages. We both know and trust this guy. We know he can be depended on to satisfy my wife and put on a good performance for me to watch. He likes to call me a few days before our "date" to tell me all the things he is going to do to my wife. This allows me to enjoy the anticipation of what is to come. (No pun intened). He has become a close friend of ours, and although my lovely wife really loves having sex with him it has never become a romantic relationship. It's all about sex for the three of us.
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 | mwchesubbi4black wrote on 03:10AM at Nov 27th, 2009 both are great!!!
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 | ranger462 wrote on 10:18AM at Jan 3rd, 2010 She has had steady people in her group. They mostly work at the same company. I have known about all of them.
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| glynn012954 wrote on 01:03PM at Feb 6th, 2010 My wife likes has had both through the years, but Random is what she enjoys most. She claims all men **** differently and she enjoys the surprise they each bring to her. I admit I love the details as well cause as the saying goes missionary gets dull after a while.
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 | Beg4U2Laugh wrote on 01:47PM at Feb 6th, 2010 Talk with the guy because many women prefer regulars. In fact talk with your wife too, does she prefer regulars? If she does, you must adapt. If you prefer a light level of humiliation then explain this to the guy. I've taken the bull to lunch a number of times to get on the same page with him. Doing so may grow the experience for you too.
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| oldsucker352 wrote on 01:59PM at Feb 28th, 2010 My wife liked a lot of different guys, but was hurt if they didn't repeat the experience. Also, she was put out if the guy didn't make love, just sex.
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 | wifeincharge wrote on 02:51AM at Mar 20th, 2010 my Wife likes and does both. She usually has 5 guys She sees at any time. 1-2 are steadies and the others are guys She picks up for one or two sessions. i know who the steadies are, but i only know how many are the random/casual guys. She likes the variety but also enjoys the guys She can trust.
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 | Mercator wrote on 06:19AM at Apr 29th, 2010 For us it's always a random guy. When we set out on this road we agreed to never allow anything resembling emotions to develop with the guys she went with. We select a guy from a swinging site, meet him at a hotel, and then disappear from that guy's life. I think she enjoys meeting strangers to **** - it's so uncomplicated that way. One of my fantasies is for us to get her a steady guy that will have frequent bareback access to her - but that's just a fantasy!
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 | kirstin4441 wrote on 09:40AM at Sep 27th, 2011 i like haveing a steady sex partner,it allows me to go bareback,and i enjoy his company.it makes my husband both horny and humiliated at the same time.as we go out in public a lot.
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 | subexecutive wrote on 10:10AM at Nov 27th, 2011 I have been a cucklold for over 15 years and in all that time she has just had a few lovers. She tells me that I would ruin it if I was present so I never had been. Some loves she has for many years. She prefers someone she can trust and who knows how to pleasure her.
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| chasmiler wrote on 10:28AM at Dec 29th, 2011 we have had both, she has current fb fot over 1 1/2 yr they get together atleast 2times per month , like having a business meeting in a sense they enjoy each other as they spend all day making love, when its over they go about daily activities, but set date. is cool, we all 3 enjoy it they enjoy it for what it is fun!
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 | ronsmsn wrote on 08:27AM at May 2nd, 2012 My wife has a long-term lover that she has had for 3 years now. I am never present, they prefer quality time without me present. After such a long time they are now very close emotionally, which was difficult for me at first but my wife reasured me that she could love two men at the same time and had no interest in damaging our marriage. She deliberately wanted a long and emotionally close relationship with her lover, she says it feels more meaningful.
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 | sensualsoul wrote on 08:42AM at May 2nd, 2012 My ex and I always chose men who we knew would not turn out to be a steady thing. We both knew that the relationship would not turn romantic. read my stories and you'll see how we handled it. One peculiar thing about this dynamic is that her sexual encounters always became more satisfying to both of us as we approached the end of her sexcapades. She told me the sex was always hotter towards the end. I gues it was because she knew she would never see him again.
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 | ganjassaurus wrote on 12:05AM at Jun 8th, 2012 I have been a cuck for about 7 years now. She started with a steady but he was not the only one she was doing. Along these 7 years she's had about 10 different partners 3 being steady. The good thing about the steadies is that she is more relaxed and enjoy the sex better since they already know what each other likes and dislikes are. At the moment she has one steady who does her bareback and that is also a plus.
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 | Knottyboyqs wrote on 09:16PM at Jan 2nd, 2013 Interesting question...when i asked my wife to have a 3some with a man I was unaware of the cuckold role. I just wanted to watch her be ****** by another guy. My wife placed an ad on a personals site looking for a third and received over 300 replies the first few days it went out. She spent sometime calling the ones back that intereted her and arranged to meet a few for drinks. The first guy we met for lunch she hit it off well with. The first time he came over we sat in our tv room watching ba The thing was she had made arrangements with a few other guys to meet which we did and over the next few months we had many random encounters. Some were very exciting and a few were just ok. I was always excited to watch another guy **** her but she wasn't as always as thrilled. The first guy started coming around occasionally and she also made arrangements for us to meet him on occasion. By the end of the summer (after about 4 months of going through her list) her first lover was a steady. He was coming over to our house regularly and staying a few days at a time. I often had to work during this time so they spent quite a bit of time alone together. This is when the cuckolding really started.
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