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I Currently Hate My Husband

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    Is Everyone Telling My Story???

    I've read many of the stories in this subject and I can pull a little from each, I have the drunk, miserable, hateful, self-centered,VERBALLY ABUSIVE husband and I can't believe there are so many of us out there!!!Reasoning for staying money, assets,fear,kids they all add up...
    crazyfedup crazyfedup 41-45 3 Responses Oct 28, 2008

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    I Am Married To A Great Man...and I Hate Him

    He friendly, nice, considerate, open minded, easy going, would do anything for me.   We have been together for 18 years now, since we were both in our mid 20's.    I hate that he will not even discuss selling our house. I hate that he still smokes.  I...
    sallysuewho sallysuewho 41-45, F 20 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Fix the Car.....two Weeks Later

    I'm really angry, you would think having transport would be a priority, but no, he gets to use the work car.  Mr Tightwad tried to fix it himself, to save money, but found he couldn't. Now it is sitting in the driveway and he is waiting for a mechanic to miraculously appear...
    MrsTightWad MrsTightWad 41-45 2 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    Just Sick of My Husband

    We have been married for 4 years. And I just found out I'm pregnant 5 months ago. He is very close to his family and it seem like he never puts me or are needs as a couple first. Now that I am expecting I don't want my baby to take a back seat to his family to . I am sick of it...
    bittakiss bittakiss 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2009

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    Wonder If Dying Would Be Better Than This....

    I just never thought my life would be like this. I don't just currently hate my husbad, but i always hate him. He has caused so much pain, and suffering in the five years we have been together. First it was physical abuse. He would spit in my face, give me a black eye, once...
    naeglemom naeglemom 26-30 3 Responses Nov 17, 2008

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    Hope For Abussive Marriages

    I  currently have no love for my husband.   I really don't think if I ever did. I can't look back on good times between us because they aren't there.  I have been married nearly 30 years.  Instead of dwelling on the multiple problems I focused on raising our...
    Hopeandpray Hopeandpray 56-60, F Feb 1, 2010

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    When Is It Time to Leave?

    He wants me to shut up, so here I am.  An anonymous writer on the internet because I can no longer speak with him.  He's always hated being questioned by me, I guess if my faith in him falls in the slightest he just shuts down.  I have to address that it takes two...
    Yukichan Yukichan 21-25, F 25 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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    I Just Dont Know Anymore.

    As I'm writing this tears are welling up in eyes, I'm so tired of my husbands verbal abuse. today is a clear cut example of it, he was changing my sons diaper and needed help, i said that i was busy to do it yourself. he blows up and calls me endless names. our whole relationship...
    NinaOregon NinaOregon 22-25 3 Responses May 30, 2009

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    His Cancer Can't Come Back Soon Enough

     He is a self-centered, abusive bastard, who never lets up on a chance to tell me that I cause all the problems in our lives. Tonight was no different. It was my fault that he set off the fire alarms, my fault for not wanting to eat the undercooked meat, my fault for leaving...
    kalamazoogal kalamazoogal 41-45 2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Love & Hate seems to be a consistent battle in

    my marriage. One day I hate him and the next I love him. I know no relationship is perfect, but I'm so tired of the ups and downs. I know the kinks will work themselves out eventually but right now I hate him.....:(
    rememberme1983 rememberme1983 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    My Husband Is So Pathetic

    I can't stand him anymore he is an alcoholic bully. He moans about everything and hates everyone he picks on people all the time he thinks because he works all day he can get drunk and rant and rave every night. He has no friends and has nearly chased all mine away he tries to...
    anon141 anon141 36-40 3 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    My husband is really mean

    and keeps Threatening to harm me. He hasn't laid a hand on me except one time in the last 2 yrs before then it was very frequent. It's Easter and in front if his two small children he threatened to kill me on 3 separate occasions because I "ruined" their vacation by me not...
    Annalie705 Annalie705 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20

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    I Hope Writing This Out Will Make Me Feel Better

    I have given up everything for my husband. College, a career, my body. I am pregnant with my 5th child ns if I could leve I would. He has hurt me so badly that I hate him. My state prohibits divorce while pregnant bu I will count down the days until I can be free of him and the...
    Dunlak5 Dunlak5 31-35 4 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    I Cant Stand My Husband

    He is a pig, he cheated on me on numerous ocassions, why am I staying with him, he makes me sick, that pig. Oink, Oink
    Wendy13baby Wendy13baby 46-50 3 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    Just Once I Would Like To Start A Trip Without A Meltdown

    Well here I am at the computer. My bags are in the car. They were packed and loaded last night. We have had THREE WEEKS to get ready for this trip. We agreed that flying was cheaper than driving. I have been ready for days. Once again, HIS bags are not even packed. He...
    CountingToTen CountingToTen 56-60 2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    My Husband Is Verbally Abusive to My Son

    I hate my husband. Every night, it's the same thing. My son and I are home, he's working on homework, I'm working on my computer and the ******* walks in and all the peace and quiet is disrupted. My husband is verbally abusive to my son. My defenseless little 10 year old...
    hubbyhater hubbyhater 46-50, F 12 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    I am amazed at how many people have serious

    problems in marriage/relationships. Each time I think the grass has got to be greener on the other side, I search things eg the web or this site and lots of other people are in the same boat. I have not been happy in my relationship for some time now, but then it seems most...
    mdsilent mdsilent 31-35, F Nov 8

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    How Do I Hate Thee? Let Me Count The Ways!

    I haven't liked my husband in a very long time and have really begun to HATE him within the past 6 months. We've been married over 9 years and have 4 kids aged 2-8. I'm a stay at home mom which to him means that I have every day off. He is selfish and is trying to live like a...
    brianisaloser brianisaloser 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Hate Feels Terrible

    I hate my husban. We have a blended home. He sits on his *** when my kids are here and suddenly wakes up when his come. Alot of the responsibility lies on me. I finally have started to dissassociate. he blames me for everything. Says I am too negative. I try to be happy but...
    Jellybean7676 Jellybean7676 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2012

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    I Hate My Husband

    I am so pissed at my husband. He is FInacially irresbosable. He is a Horrible Father. And an even worse HUSBAND. He is never home.  We have a 10 month old daughter that he see for maybe 20 min at lunch time and 30 min at dinner than he goes off rambling with his loser...
    KittenMiller KittenMiller 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    I Am So Tired Of The Crap...

    really.  my husband picks me apart...for stupid reasons.  this time, it's Christmas and he is mad because when we gave my parents a gift I was telling them what I thought they'd enjoy about it and now his stupid *** is insulting me and saying that I ...
    downwithhubby downwithhubby 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    I Hate Him So Much I Just Might Snap Soon

    I grew up in a really abusive household. I married my husband and was so in love with him I ignored some really huge things wrong with his personality. I was just grateful to have found someone who loved me at last, and I had fun with. But things started to go wrong before we...
    messmonster messmonster 26-30, F 2 Responses May 6, 2012

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    "i Hate My Husband"..............

    I hate my hisband of 20 years. I have one wonderful daughter out of all this. He is abusive He says i am worthless,stupid, lazy, and too tupid to earn money for m lifeyself. ( I nhave a broken hip) How in Gods name can i go to work with a broken hip! No Hope , No life...
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F 29 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Hopeless and Helpless

      I am a stay at home mom. My husband and I have been together for sixteen and a half years. We have three boys ages 19, 18, and 13. When my husband and I met, he was a single father of a two year old and I was a single mother of an almost 3 year old. Neither of our oldest...
    Pidgie Pidgie 46-50, F 4 Responses May 12, 2009

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    I Hate When He Comes Home

    We've been married for about 5 years but together for at least 18 and 3 boys. Ages 2, 8, & 12. I leave him in my mind at least 3 times a year. I have my own money saved up. I have been shopping for houses. I've cheated, he's cheated. We are not speaking civilly. I hate him...
    TLO TLO 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    Needing to Vent...

    I'm the sole breadwinner for the family of three small boys with a stay at home father.  I make a good living, being a teacher of ten years.  I'm supporting my husband through college now while he tends to our boys at home. My husband isn't verbally or...
    lucygoosey lucygoosey 31-35 8 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Conselling Doesn't Work

    Once again I cant find the thing I need. Why? It either been thrown away or placed somewhere else. Sabotage.The dishwasher is loaded by him every day. But he will not clean a bench.He will vaccume occasionally but will not wash a floor.He will wash a load of washing. But make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    WILL Not Stop Yelling

    I need to vent.  My husband is horrible to deal with on the weekdays.  As I type, he is currently yelling at me and he will probably continue for the next 10 minutes.  He loves to just get on me, get on me, get on me. 
    AlwaysMrRight AlwaysMrRight 26-30 4 Responses Jan 22, 2009

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    How Did You Get So Happy ?

    Lately when I am out and about I see couples holding hands , and pregnant women everywhere hugging and kissing . And I know in my heart that they are in love. But cant help but to think that they are just pretending but only because my married life is crappy.I can't help but to...
    babysocks86 babysocks86 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2012

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    My husband is young and drunk a lot,

    its irritate me, we have a big debt in the banks and I didn't have courage to leave him whitout know how we'll pay this.
    Prosperidade Prosperidade 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    He's so lazy. His day consist of; Wake up get

    mad or smoke, which ever comes first, play the video game, smoke, eat, sleep, get mad, smoke. He just wants nothing for his future, and we have five children. He's way too jealous and controlling. I had to quit college. He still has his ex girlfriend's name on him, which still...
    blahh88 blahh88 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    I Hate Him But Will Stay For the Kids. Because here in LA it would be safer.

    I hate him and would love to escape from this marriage but we have 3 kids.  I have seen what divorce does to kids and I will not do that to my kids.  So I fake it.  I fake being happy, I fake being in love, I fake everything (yes everything). Looking back to...
    2bnumb 2bnumb 31-35 18 Responses Nov 2, 2008

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    I just had twin boys almost 12 weeks ago,

    and I feel like I want a divorce now. Wish I had done it years ago. Now, I'm asking myself why I had children with this idiot. He is so immature, stupid, has a chip on his shoulder. I know it could be hormonal, and a lot of people feel like they hate their husband after...
    solstice7 solstice7 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I haven't written on here in a very long time.

    5 years nearly. I signed back in out of curiosity, to see what myself from 5 years ago was saying. My mind was blown. Five years ago my problems were the same as they are now, except for a few minor changes. I am still married, recently separated, finally! In five years...
    texaswoman832 texaswoman832 22-25 5 Responses Mar 8

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    My Husband Is a Drunk

    My husband has always drank, but since he started working from home a couple of years ago he has gotten even worse.  He starts drinking right when he wakes up.  He generally falls asleep sometime during the day for half an hour or an hour and then starts all over again...
    papermoon papermoon 46-50 5 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    Is This a Man Thing?

    I use to think that I would always love and be in love with my husband. Over the past 2 years it has started to show that I can't stand to even be in the same room as him. His idea of helping me clean house is loading the dishwasher. He won't even do that unless I...
    lonelywife05 lonelywife05 26-30 5 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    The Bill Cunningham Show is seeking couples in crisis.Free trip to NYC--airfare, hotel and food per diem provided.Show tapes Thursday, Oct. 20mgreen@billcunninghamshow.com or 212-419-7459. 
    tvproducer7459 tvproducer7459 31-35 Oct 17, 2011

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    I Am Still Seaching

    I am single and i am loking for a good woman?
    tutud62 tutud62 22-25 May 27, 2011

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    Please I Need Your Opinion

    i hate my husband becasue he always tries to be the mom of our daughter. we just had a miscarriage but even before that it was like we're competing to take care of her. tonight he is puttig her to sleep and i think i am going to lose my mind. she's 5 and im tired of fighting. im...
    hibbertaj hibbertaj 31-35 3 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    Im really just so done with him.

    Its been 12 years of marriage and not one ounce of emotional support what so ever. He makes me handle all the 'issues' that arise because he's too much of a ***** to just handle things. So, while im handling 100% of the stresses he questions why i am so stressed or why i am...
    FutureFreedom FutureFreedom 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I Want to Toss My Hubbie Right Now

    I would so love to toss my hubbie out right now....I am so tired of living the way that we are living right now... Five years ago...we lost our apartment...he did not want to pay one month in advance when we had the money...and then I lost my job...we were late with the rent...
    singer1960 singer1960 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 3, 2008

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    He Makes Me Sick!

    My husband just makes me sick, I can't stand being around him. I try to stay away from him as much as I can, usually in a separate room, avoid talking to him and coming near me is my reoccurring daily goal. I hate when he tries to touch me, kiss me or have sex with me. It all...
    evilflower evilflower 36-40, F 16 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    My Husband Is So Selfish

    My husband just came home with a brand new, $23,000 truck, which he bought against my wishes. I am so angry with him. We had discussed this and had agreed to wait until I am finished with my bachelor's degree (May 2009).  I am in school full-time and raising our...
    n2maynard n2maynard 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    My Husband shouting on my three years boy the

    boy become anger on me say no to me , and afraid of his father nerves most of time when my husband is around what I have to do this its emotionally abusing ?
    Dinimimi Dinimimi 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    A Pile of Resentment

         I've been with my husband for 6 years, married for 4 of them.  Before we got married, I thought his guitar playing, his goofiness, and 'alternative' thinking were charming personality traits.  Now that I've been with him so long, it's like I've...
    Growl Growl 22-25 2 Responses May 26, 2009

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    He Disgusts Me!

    I have been married for over 8 years and 5 of them have been hell. From being an addict to pain killers, a lazy *** who has gotten fat and don't take care of himself to a computer geek that is where he spends his time and now he is not even showering regularly. I want a...
    shannonshay shannonshay 31-35 2 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    He's Emotionally Stunted

    I just hate my husband...he used to be so sweet and whatever but now, he's cold and blah.....he told me he doesn't want more kids (I have 2 step sons) and I am shocked...previously, this idiot said he wanted another in the future but now he's like "no"...so I am...
    thatgirl3 thatgirl3 26-30 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    I Hate My Husband!!!

    Ok, so we married almost 10 years ago. He was a large guy back then. We had dated/lived together for 7 months and I was ready to end it, when I found out that I was pregnant. I also had suspicions that he was cheating on me. Well, we got married and his "girlfriend" called him...
    lovelessmarriage2 lovelessmarriage2 41-45, F 5 Responses May 28, 2012

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    Help please. I have come to this place where I have made an appointment with a lawyer. I'm just tired. I wanted so badly to keep our family together so that I could see my babies...
    Regrets1230 Regrets1230 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    It's a long story, but I rejoined this site specifically to talk about this. I'm so confused right now. I love my husband, he's not a bad guy, but the passion and the 'in love...
    JustSymone JustSymone 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    My Mom calls me ranting about how her computer doesn't work. It keeps crashing. So since I don't know what I'm actually doing. I just know the computer here doesn't crash when it...
    raylynn24 raylynn24 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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