I Currently Hate My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 304 People

    Conselling Doesn't Work

    Once again I cant find the thing I need. Why? It either been thrown away or placed somewhere else. Sabotage.The dishwasher is loaded by him every day. But he will not clean a bench.He will vaccume occasionally but will not wash a floor.He will wash a load of washing. But make...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

    I just had twin boys almost 12 weeks ago,

    and I feel like I want a divorce now. Wish I had done it years ago. Now, I'm asking myself why I had children with this idiot. He is so immature, stupid, has a chip on his shoulder. I know it could be hormonal, and a lot of people feel like they hate their husband after...
    solstice7 solstice7
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    My Husband Is So Pathetic

    I can't stand him anymore he is an alcoholic bully. He moans about everything and hates everyone he picks on people all the time he thinks because he works all day he can get drunk and rant and rave every night. He has no friends and has nearly chased all mine away he tries to...
    anon141 anon141
    36-40
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2008

    My Husband Is So Selfish

    My husband just came home with a brand new, $23,000 truck, which he bought against my wishes. I am so angry with him. We had discussed this and had agreed to wait until I am finished with my bachelor's degree (May 2009).  I am in school full-time and raising our...
    n2maynard n2maynard
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Nov 9, 2008

    "i Hate My Husband"..............

    I hate my hisband of 20 years. I have one wonderful daughter out of all this. He is abusive He says i am worthless,stupid, lazy, and too tupid to earn money for m lifeyself. ( I nhave a broken hip) How in Gods name can i go to work with a broken hip! No Hope , No life...
    Anto815 Anto815
    46-50, F
    29 Responses Mar 5, 2011

    I Hope Writing This Out Will Make Me Feel Better

    I have given up everything for my husband. College, a career, my body. I am pregnant with my 5th child ns if I could leve I would. He has hurt me so badly that I hate him. My state prohibits divorce while pregnant bu I will count down the days until I can be free of him and the...
    Dunlak5 Dunlak5
    31-35
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2011

    It's almost 1 am....I have to get up at 4 am

    for work. My jerk husband always teased the dog at bedtime because it's his idea of fun. So the dog sleeps in our bed. And is crowding me out, so I reached down to touch him as I usually do and the dog normally moves over. He bit me 3 times. No blood but it still left red marks...
    Karj Karj
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    Fix the Car.....two Weeks Later

    I'm really angry, you would think having transport would be a priority, but no, he gets to use the work car.  Mr Tightwad tried to fix it himself, to save money, but found he couldn't. Now it is sitting in the driveway and he is waiting for a mechanic to miraculously appear...
    MrsTightWad MrsTightWad
    41-45
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2009

    Hope For Abussive Marriages

    I  currently have no love for my husband.   I really don't think if I ever did. I can't look back on good times between us because they aren't there.  I have been married nearly 30 years.  Instead of dwelling on the multiple problems I focused on raising our...
    Hopeandpray Hopeandpray
    56-60, F
    Feb 1, 2010

    I Cant Stand My Husband

    He is a pig, he cheated on me on numerous ocassions, why am I staying with him, he makes me sick, that pig. Oink, Oink
    Wendy13baby Wendy13baby
    46-50
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2013

    It's a Saturday and there are

    so many things that needs to be done in my home. My husband is a carpenter and I am the primary bread winner in our family. I loathe the fact that he hasn't paid his share in our family expenses since December and I have been picking up after his slack. More absurd is the...
    crystal828 crystal828
    31-35, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    .I got married and 5 years on

    and I can never trust him, but my child loves his father and divorce is going to destroy everyone around me....i wish i could have a time machine.....living in a cycle of thoughts of distrust and lies ....depression ...i feel like the ugliest woman on the planet......i just...
    welobibo welobibo
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2015

    My husband is really mean

    and keeps Threatening to harm me. He hasn't laid a hand on me except one time in the last 2 yrs before then it was very frequent. It's Easter and in front if his two small children he threatened to kill me on 3 separate occasions because I "ruined" their vacation by me not...
    Annalie705 Annalie705
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2014

    My husband is so mean.

    He always says I am cold and show no emotions. He says he used to show emotions and then just stopped cause I wasn't. I moved across the country for him and helped him with his addiction issues. He has been so unsupportive of me. I have made so many sacrifices. I have a tough...
    madsams madsams
    26-30, F
    Jul 14, 2015

    I can't stand when he touches me

    or kisses me. I hate that I feel like his possession and that I can't say "don't do that" because he gets pouty. I just wish he would go away! I don't want to be married to him anymore. Everything he does gets under my skin!
    Strugglemuch Strugglemuch
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    Love & Hate seems to be a consistent battle in

    my marriage. One day I hate him and the next I love him. I know no relationship is perfect, but I'm so tired of the ups and downs. I know the kinks will work themselves out eventually but right now I hate him.....:(
    rememberme1983 rememberme1983
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

    I am amazed at how many people have serious

    problems in marriage/relationships. Each time I think the grass has got to be greener on the other side, I search things eg the web or this site and lots of other people are in the same boat. I have not been happy in my relationship for some time now, but then it seems most...
    mdsilent mdsilent
    31-35, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    I Hate When He Comes Home

    We've been married for about 5 years but together for at least 18 and 3 boys. Ages 2, 8, & 12. I leave him in my mind at least 3 times a year. I have my own money saved up. I have been shopping for houses. I've cheated, he's cheated. We are not speaking civilly. I hate him...
    TLO TLO
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2009

    Just Once I Would Like To Start A Trip Without A Meltdown

    Well here I am at the computer. My bags are in the car. They were packed and loaded last night. We have had THREE WEEKS to get ready for this trip. We agreed that flying was cheaper than driving. I have been ready for days. Once again, HIS bags are not even packed. He...
    CountingToTen CountingToTen
    56-60
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

    He's so lazy. His day consist of; Wake up get

    mad or smoke, which ever comes first, play the video game, smoke, eat, sleep, get mad, smoke. He just wants nothing for his future, and we have five children. He's way too jealous and controlling. I had to quit college. He still has his ex girlfriend's name on him, which still...
    blahh88 blahh88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2013

    Hopeless and Helpless

      I am a stay at home mom. My husband and I have been together for sixteen and a half years. We have three boys ages 19, 18, and 13. When my husband and I met, he was a single father of a two year old and I was a single mother of an almost 3 year old. Neither of our oldest...
    Pidgie Pidgie
    46-50, F
    4 Responses May 12, 2009

    He's Emotionally Stunted

    I just hate my husband...he used to be so sweet and whatever but now, he's cold and blah.....he told me he doesn't want more kids (I have 2 step sons) and I am shocked...previously, this idiot said he wanted another in the future but now he's like "no"...so I am...
    thatgirl3 thatgirl3
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

    My Husband shouting on my three years boy the

    boy become anger on me say no to me , and afraid of his father nerves most of time when my husband is around what I have to do this its emotionally abusing ?
    Dinimimi Dinimimi
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    The Bill Cunningham Show is seeking couples in crisis.Free trip to NYC--airfare, hotel and food per diem provided.Show tapes Thursday, Oct. 20mgreen@billcunninghamshow.com or 212-419-7459. 
    tvproducer7459 tvproducer7459
    31-35
    Oct 17, 2011

    Please I Need Your Opinion

    i hate my husband becasue he always tries to be the mom of our daughter. we just had a miscarriage but even before that it was like we're competing to take care of her. tonight he is puttig her to sleep and i think i am going to lose my mind. she's 5 and im tired of fighting. im...
    hibbertaj hibbertaj
    31-35
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2010

    How Did You Get So Happy ?

    Lately when I am out and about I see couples holding hands , and pregnant women everywhere hugging and kissing . And I know in my heart that they are in love. But cant help but to think that they are just pretending but only because my married life is crappy.I can't help but to...
    babysocks86 babysocks86
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2012

    He Makes Me Sick!

    My husband just makes me sick, I can't stand being around him. I try to stay away from him as much as I can, usually in a separate room, avoid talking to him and coming near me is my reoccurring daily goal. I hate when he tries to touch me, kiss me or have sex with me. It all...
    evilflower evilflower
    36-40, F
    16 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    I Hate Him So Much I Just Might Snap Soon

    I grew up in a really abusive household. I married my husband and was so in love with him I ignored some really huge things wrong with his personality. I was just grateful to have found someone who loved me at last, and I had fun with. But things started to go wrong before we...
    messmonster messmonster
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2012

    I haven't written on here in a very long time.

    5 years nearly. I signed back in out of curiosity, to see what myself from 5 years ago was saying. My mind was blown. Five years ago my problems were the same as they are now, except for a few minor changes. I am still married, recently separated, finally! In five years...
    texaswoman832 texaswoman832
    22-25
    5 Responses Mar 8, 2014

    When Is It Time to Leave?

    He wants me to shut up, so here I am.  An anonymous writer on the internet because I can no longer speak with him.  He's always hated being questioned by me, I guess if my faith in him falls in the slightest he just shuts down.  I have to address that it takes two...
    Yukichan Yukichan
    22-25, F
    25 Responses Oct 13, 2008

    Needing to Vent...

    I'm the sole breadwinner for the family of three small boys with a stay at home father.  I make a good living, being a teacher of ten years.  I'm supporting my husband through college now while he tends to our boys at home. My husband isn't verbally or...
    lucygoosey lucygoosey
    31-35
    8 Responses Nov 15, 2008

    Hate Feels Terrible

    I hate my husban. We have a blended home. He sits on his *** when my kids are here and suddenly wakes up when his come. Alot of the responsibility lies on me. I finally have started to dissassociate. he blames me for everything. Says I am too negative. I try to be happy but...
    Jellybean7676 Jellybean7676
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2012

    My husband is young and drunk a lot,

    its irritate me, we have a big debt in the banks and I didn't have courage to leave him whitout know how we'll pay this.
    Prosperidade Prosperidade
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2014

    I Am Still Seaching

    I am single and i am loking for a good woman?
    tutud62 tutud62
    22-25
    May 27, 2011

    I have the most inconsiderate,

    cold hearted ******* husband in the world. The emotional wear and tear he puts me through kills me more and more each day. I stay with a smile on my face because he is a great father to our three children and I do not want them coming from a split home. I still have this fantasy...
    ibs555 ibs555
    26-30, F
    May 10, 2015

    Wonder If Dying Would Be Better Than This....

    I just never thought my life would be like this. I don't just currently hate my husbad, but i always hate him. He has caused so much pain, and suffering in the five years we have been together. First it was physical abuse. He would spit in my face, give me a black eye, once...
    naeglemom naeglemom
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 17, 2008

    I Hate Him But Will Stay For the Kids. Because here in LA it would be safer.

    I hate him and would love to escape from this marriage but we have 3 kids.  I have seen what divorce does to kids and I will not do that to my kids.  So I fake it.  I fake being happy, I fake being in love, I fake everything (yes everything). Looking back to...
    2bnumb 2bnumb
    31-35
    18 Responses Nov 2, 2008

    My Husband Is Verbally Abusive to My Son

    I hate my husband. Every night, it's the same thing. My son and I are home, he's working on homework, I'm working on my computer and the ******* walks in and all the peace and quiet is disrupted. My husband is verbally abusive to my son. My defenseless little 10 year old...
    hubbyhater hubbyhater
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Jan 20, 2009

    I Am Married To A Great Man...and I Hate Him

    He friendly, nice, considerate, open minded, easy going, would do anything for me.   We have been together for 18 years now, since we were both in our mid 20's.    I hate that he will not even discuss selling our house. I hate that he still smokes.  I...
    sallysuewho sallysuewho
    41-45, F
    19 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    Is This a Man Thing?

    I use to think that I would always love and be in love with my husband. Over the past 2 years it has started to show that I can't stand to even be in the same room as him. His idea of helping me clean house is loading the dishwasher. He won't even do that unless I...
    lonelywife05 lonelywife05
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 6, 2009

    I Hate My Husband!!!

    Ok, so we married almost 10 years ago. He was a large guy back then. We had dated/lived together for 7 months and I was ready to end it, when I found out that I was pregnant. I also had suspicions that he was cheating on me. Well, we got married and his "girlfriend" called him...
    lovelessmarriage2 lovelessmarriage2
    41-45, F
    5 Responses May 28, 2012

    How Do I Hate Thee? Let Me Count The Ways!

    I haven't liked my husband in a very long time and have really begun to HATE him within the past 6 months. We've been married over 9 years and have 4 kids aged 2-8. I'm a stay at home mom which to him means that I have every day off. He is selfish and is trying to live like a...
    brianisaloser brianisaloser
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 21, 2009

    His Cancer Can't Come Back Soon Enough

     He is a self-centered, abusive bastard, who never lets up on a chance to tell me that I cause all the problems in our lives. Tonight was no different. It was my fault that he set off the fire alarms, my fault for not wanting to eat the undercooked meat, my fault for leaving...
    kalamazoogal kalamazoogal
    41-45
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2009

    Is Everyone Telling My Story???

    I've read many of the stories in this subject and I can pull a little from each, I have the drunk, miserable, hateful, self-centered,VERBALLY ABUSIVE husband and I can't believe there are so many of us out there!!!Reasoning for staying money, assets,fear,kids they all add up...
    crazyfedup crazyfedup
    41-45
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2008

    Im really just so done with him.

    Its been 12 years of marriage and not one ounce of emotional support what so ever. He makes me handle all the 'issues' that arise because he's too much of a ***** to just handle things. So, while im handling 100% of the stresses he questions why i am so stressed or why i am...
    FutureFreedom FutureFreedom
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2014

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