I 'd Rather Be Sad Than Bitter

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    Once upon a time there was light in my life

    >_< Now there's only love in the dark -_-' There's nothing I can say, it's a total eclipse of the heart O_O Brain: What's going on here o_O Me: Oh Hello Magz Brain ^_^ Brain: -_-' I have that song stuck in my head >_< It's a good song ^_^' But boy is it stuck in my head >__...
    SquirrellyGal2493 SquirrellyGal2493
    22-25
    Feb 17, 2014

    But I will be indignant about certain things,

    and I will express it from time to time. Those who don't like that, don't have to read it.
    GreenButtercup GreenButtercup
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2014

    A Thousand Times

    i would have my heart broken a thousand times to keep experiencing love than to shut down to become a bitter old shrew... to learn from a love lost is much more a beautiful thing to live a life of a bitter wretch who only dreams of love once shared but who will never share it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    I will never become one of those people

    who become bitter with the world just because I have been through some hard times. I may be sad, but I can work on becoming a happier person.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    Now i know that break-up is equivalent to Women

    having Labor, only in my case it's EMOTIONAL LABOR coz u just don't know know where the heck all the pain comes from...
    lengloi lengloi
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2014

    Sadness and bitterness have a huge contrast

    between one another. Bitterness is extremely difficult to just shake off. In fact, in some situations, it is inescapable. But it depends on the person. Some people may never become bitter. Some people may become bitter and then eventually snap out of it. Some people may...
    ole0005 ole0005
    13-15, F
    20 Responses Jan 10, 2015

    I will never let bitterness rule my heart

    where lOve had Once been and turn me intO mOnster..
    Macherry Macherry
    22-25, F
    May 27, 2014

    After the high, I huddled in

    and realized that the momentary bliss had passed me by It felt like a wave, crashing down a foundation resounding with doubt An innocently guilty coy uncertainty that made my gut turn inside and out To suffer any longer is a disservice to the beauty that makes up her very...
    Rabbittarius Rabbittarius
    26-30, M
    Mar 10

    For years, I was an embittered soul

    who drudged through life thinking that I was owed something. Finally, I awakened to realize that bitterness takes away the beauty of who you are. I was watching a television show the other night (rare for me since I'm anti-television -- it was a cooking show competition...
    aepteewS aepteewS
    41-45
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    I rather be sad than bitter

    because at least if your sad ..then it will last a small portion of your time but if your bitter ...then you will get sick.
    gresto12 gresto12
    26-30
    Dec 28, 2013

    But I am bitter. I life is a mess

    and it is not even my fault.
    Profweird Profweird
    22-25, M
    Dec 12, 2014

    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2
    26-30, M
    Jul 22, 2014

    I would rather be sad

    than bitter as to be bitter causes bitterness in your life that will poison it to its core and if your sad its a simple case of changing what makes you sad and being happy. Bitterness it harder to fix or change.
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 9, 2014
    Kingdarkroom Kingdarkroom
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    My girl and I are not together at the moment,

    but we live together. We sleep in the same bed, she walk around me me hall naked all day but won't allow me to touch her at alllllll. We been in this situation for 2 weeks n is not changing. I've gotten her a few gifts to make her feel better n is not working. She tell me she...
    jay305 jay305
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 30, 2014

    I miss my relationship with my ex.

    It's not that I miss him I just miss 'us' and I'm afraid I will never find anything like that with someone new. The big problem is, I don't like anyone else either. How do you move on when.. You just feel empty. I am losing interest in everything and it doesn't help that my home...
    anticadiee anticadiee
    18-21, F
    Nov 4, 2015

    Being bitter about something is really just

    pointless, it does nothing but encourage hate and resentment!. Only pain comes with it so why?, why do we have bitter people?. I know why but I am not asking people to tell me 'THE' answer, I want to know what other people think on 'why' people stay bitter. Being bitter does...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 2, 2014

    I've been sad for so long over my Moms

    alzheimers and abuse. She passed away in our home with the years old blackened scars still visible. As my Husband and I lay on the floor of a viewing room at the funeral home where my Mom was laid out for our own forensic purposes, camera in hand, I finally shed a few tears...
    Molly2350 Molly2350
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014

    unsure how they differ

    yet i have the echo of each
    miimii0069 miimii0069
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2015

    “Everyone is a little bitter.

    We're born bitter. The personality itself is really just a very complex defense mechanism. A reaction to the first time someone said: "No you can't.” ― Marc Maron, Attempting Normal
    Fn0rd Fn0rd
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2014

    Truth

    The name of this group says it all. It's so easy to be bitter, and hurt others when you are feeling sad, lonely, or down and depressed. When feeling all four at the same time it makes it very difficult not to hurt others. I don't want to be that guy, keeping to myself seems like...
    Slashrattlenroll Slashrattlenroll
    41-45, M
    Nov 22, 2013

    A Quote I Found

      Love is a gamble! Sometimes you win, other time you lose. But no matter what  your cards are in this gamble, whether spades or diamonds; remember never ever play with the "Heart."  Love can leave us bitter when it ends or we can be sad for a brief...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Feb 26, 2010
    SocialHermit SocialHermit
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2015
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch
    31-35, F
    Oct 6, 2014

    The ideal type of sad is the aesthetic.

    To not do anything, but to experience it, it could be a Chopin Nocturne, a movie, book or contemplation of something in a slightly detached manner. Bitterness on the other hand is the whiskey that does not even taste good, and which one is continually throwing up from.
    Nest37 Nest37
    36-40, M
    Sep 5, 2014
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney
    18-21, F
    Mar 18, 2015

    Sadness can be overcome.

    There will always be something there, to make you smile.....to make you laugh. Bitterness will eat away your body, your mind, your soul.
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Feb 3, 2014

    Bitterness makes you weak

    and dependent on what causes it, it is a hunger that needs food all the time. Sadness is temporary, sometimes it caresses, sometimes it slaps on your face, but finally goes away.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 6, 2014

    I have terrible anger issues,

    it scares myself and mainly people around me. Whenever I lose my temper, and sometimes at the little things, I yell and throw stuff around and I just get REALLY scary. The thing is that I'm a pretty calm person and if anyone else feels hurt or scared I feel terrible for them! I...
    PineconePople PineconePople
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2013

    Sadness is more natural

    than being bitter. Sadness is always in the heart, because so much is wrong with the world. Bitterness is something you have to conjure up. People shouldn't hold on to bitterness, it just make life worse. If you are really sad, just cry, because bitterness will only harden...
    economysafe economysafe
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2014

    This Group Has It Dead Center Perfect

    Truth Be told,Id rather not feel either of these emotions but sadness comes to Us all unasked for,unwanted.Bitterness,is something We invite in and hold on tight to.Not long after We embrace bitterness,We allow hate in.Hate turns into a cancer that We cant get rid of,Sadness in...
    The1960texan The1960texan
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 12, 2013

    Bitterness may lead you to ultimate destruction.

    It gives you a bright idea to say things people would rather not hear/know. It often leads to break-ups. On the other hand, sadness is just a "generic feeling of pain" which can be treated by a sincere SORRY. Sad people remains there composure, and definitely they wont say harsh...
    wildrose1806 wildrose1806
    22-25
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    My last words I said to my mother "You will

    grow old alone and bitter". In all my years growing up, I have never seen my mother cry or be sad an emotion I have always thought she had the unability to express. Looking back, and experiencing my own sadness, I can finally understand why my mother became a bitter person...
    Jay04Sch Jay04Sch
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2014

    Going Against The Grain

    It has come to my attention that there are many angry people out there, quick to jump to conclusions and failing to hear the reasoning behind it. It also made me think about all things that have happened to me, how I react in comparison to others. When something is directly...
    Linxer Linxer
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 31, 2010

    Bitterness consumes people,

    I have seen several time sin my life. Sadness is only temporary, eventually the sadness will lift and your life will change. Bitterness grows with time
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2014

    To be sad is better than bitterness.

    Bitterness affects you deeply.It affects your relationships with others.So to be sad is better than being bitter.
    booklover87 booklover87
    51-55, F
    Jul 10, 2014

    Bitter is regret that fills bones,

    a sour taste in the mouth, despise towards what has gone wrong, wanting to change it, thinking it could have worked out better. I'm still the latter, but is it possible that it'd be wistful, rather than bitter? I have no sour feelings, no anger, only regret.
    Fuzzies Fuzzies
    61-65, M
    1 Response Feb 21, 2015

    I would rather be happy

    but if those are my only options, has to be sad rather than bitter.
    marriedup marriedup
    56-60, M
    Dec 11, 2014

    I'd rather my own day

    than someone elses
    savigirl14 savigirl14
    16-17, F
    Jan 6, 2015

    I remember the first time I found out he had an

    affair. When I confronted him about it he asked me: 'So what are you going to do, go to the room and cry?' I was almost 9 months pregnant. I was crushed, the man I loved looked at me with soulless eyes. I went to my mom and dad that night, I never said a word, not to him and not...
    Lee124 Lee124
    41-45, F
    16 Responses Mar 28

    Why am I sad? Because I know life is sad.

    It will always be sad. We are conditioned by the money we have, by our health, the place where we were born, the habits we learn, the face and body we were born with. These things are so defying that there's few things that we can actually take charge of. And that's why I'm sad...
    Fn0rd Fn0rd
    36-40, F
    Feb 25, 2014
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