I 'd Rather Fall In Love With Someone's Personality Than Looks

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    How someone acts and what they believe is far

    more important to me than their appearance, although I would prefer some modesty and self respect in how they look.
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    3 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    There's so, so much more to a person

    than appearance. Attraction from looks is just a bonus, but they will fade, it's just chance that they happen to appear beautiful. Looks fade but your personality will remain, so make sure you have one. Exist to make a difference and love with your heart, not your eyes. That's...
    EternalShy EternalShy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    I love all gals for their personality.

    Everyone is beautiful and can be loved. But I dont want a gal thats beautiful on the outside. I want one thats beautiful on the inside. Looks dont matter to me.
    jackdragon22399 jackdragon22399
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    I couldn't agree more!

    I've seen physically attractive people who turned me right off the second they opened their mouths! Someone who may only be marginally physically attractive can become hot stuff in an instant if I find they are smart with an awesome personality. That changes everything. Being...
    LaVidaSombra LaVidaSombra
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2014

    if i get to know you

    and start to like you that's good i don't go hey she looks hot I'll go for her i believe if i meet someone it will just happen and not just based on looks but everybody looks at looks first cause your set up on a blind date first thing when you walk in would be wow they look...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34
    22-25, M
    Mar 18, 2016

    is there really any other way to fall in love

    with someone? one doesn't fall in love with looks that is falling in lust. Noone has ever looked at a woman with curves in all the right places, legs up to here, perfect smile, and say....I could have the most beautiful life with that woman. never! You are bated with looks, and...
    geekygirl2 geekygirl2
    26-30, F
    14 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    so i know that looks

    and stuff is something people look for while looking for a relationship... i on the other hand am not like that. what matters to me is personality. i know alot of people agree with me just to say it and to sound like a good person, but i really mean it. my boyfriend asked me...
    alyssapenn32 alyssapenn32
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2016

    Looks are definitely important in the beginning,

    but what's in your heart is what's important. I would prefer to live with someone I can converse with than someone who looks nice.
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    Jan 16, 2016

    I joined this group because I was talking to

    this guy the other day and he told me that women will only date a man who is tall. What are your thoughts on this? I told him that my boyfriend was shorter than me and he said I'm not normal which thanks and then he told me that feminists don't care about men so I told him I'm...
    sexysmeagol sexysmeagol
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2016

    I am a sensitive girl

    and i like to have my own space, I also have OCD because i like everything to be perfect
    ItsMeWilly5656 ItsMeWilly5656
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    My boyfriend has always said people call him

    ugly, even his family. His ex girlfriend even told him he wasn't good looking but had a great personality. I don't understand this because I think my boyfriend is sexy and so handsome. A lot of girls would probably say he's ugly but to me he's the most handsome man in the world...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses May 17, 2015

    I'm starting to like someone

    and I dont even know what they look like lol :L
    Rachel282 Rachel282
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    Have you ever, meet someone new

    and instantly feel an attraction towards them? Well I did, I currently am attracted to this guy. Physically, he's not attractive at all ( I don't mean to criticize him but it's the truth) and I have no idea what his personality is like since he's just an acquaintance after all...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses May 2, 2015

    my boyfriend is a chubby guy.

    .its not a health risk currently. he isn't fat, just bigger. I love him dearly and could care less if he had a six pack or not( I wouldn't argue if he did though ;)) at work people call me a chubby chaser and make jokes about chicken fingers. it bothers me for a moment and then...
    taylormorgan2113 taylormorgan2113
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Dec 10, 2014
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    4 Responses May 9, 2015
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    6 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    I find a lot of people physically attractive,

    but finding people mentally and spiritually attractive is different and much harder for me.
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    2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    beauty attract eyes..

    ..personality attract heart.
    foodloverpeople foodloverpeople
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 4, 2016

    If I click well with someone,

    that is much more important to me than anything else.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Oct 31, 2015
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 14, 2015

    I believe that a persons physical appearance is

    fleeting. But their personality will always be there even when they're old and loose their youthful appearance. That is what I feel is important.
    stewart2256 stewart2256
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2016

    Yes thats what really matters this is the best

    quote I have seen on here yet
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    Jan 20, 2016

    If i think you have a great personality,

    you could be the weirdest looking person & id still think you were cute
    TahirC TahirC
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    Well, I have a weakness to blue eyes however I

    like funny, interesting, curious, adventurous, kind and smart guys. Those guys who make life interesting and better are hard to find.
    belseg belseg
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    Personality over looks.

    . It's ironic how we convince ourselves that we love someone for personality and looks is a bonus and in some cases that is very much true but sometimes if you just think about it, looks was the physical attraction while personality is how you begin to place an opinion of them...
    Anonymouslovelife Anonymouslovelife
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    To say looks don't matter at all would be a lie.

    To some degree, looks are important to me. However, I'll never fall in love with someone who's physically attractive, but has a terrible personality. At the same time, I'll never refuse to be with someone merely because of their looks. If you have an amazing personality and we...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    Looks are only skin deep,

    true beauty comes from within.
    Kittygirl17 Kittygirl17
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    Sometimes its not looks

    that causes me to notice something. Its how they hold themselves. How they talk to others and me. Looks can be deceiving, but actions never are.
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 5, 2015

    Chat with me? with my the same age.

    Im 13, I just really need somone.
    Kially Kially
    16-17, F
    Dec 31, 2015

    ...and when I like someones personality,

    they turn pretty in my mind even if they aren't especially good looking. The inside affects the outside. Even if I like someones looks, as soon as they upset me they look ugly to me.
    Vakuum Vakuum
    16-17, T
    1 Response Oct 24, 2015

    I wish meeting someone

    who feels the same as me
    AutoLove0 AutoLove0
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 18, 2016

    They can be the most aesthetically pleasing

    person I've ever met, but if they have a horrible personality an would treat me just as bad, then I want no part. I think looks are just a bonus.
    HaliCali HaliCali
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2015
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    What's the point of loving someone

    if you love them for how they look instead of how they act? You don't love them for them in that case. Looks are temporary. You never loved them if you can't be with them because their face was burned in a firy car crash. Would you be with someone who beat you daily, just...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand
    4 Responses May 3, 2015

    Yeah. If you can wrap yourself around what's

    going on in my head, you're pretty much golden. I hate it when people try to figure me out. There just simply isn't any rhyme or reason to me. I just am. If you get that and are like that you're someone special
    NoDaveParty NoDaveParty
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 11, 2016

    Personality always makes a woman sexy.

    If I wanted looks I would just buy one of those 5000 dollar sex dolls
    jarocho jarocho
    22-25, M
    Mar 16, 2016
    joydeepjd joydeepjd
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    The young get older and looks change

    but personalty pretty much stays the same. So instead of falling in love with someone just because they are pretty really get to know them because their personalty may suck.. Plus you maybe missing out on the person your meant to be with just because they don't quite fit into...
    nyx39 nyx39
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    Beauty of looks fade away .

    . But a beautiful Personality never dies :)
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    6 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    Well, I tried this & at the end of the day they

    all treat me the same. Once I show them love & give it up. They screw me over. Knowing that they treated me wrong still tries to talk & associate theirselves with me. Sometimes I wonder what am I not doing right..
    aubreylovell aubreylovell
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 19, 2015
    teachocolate teachocolate
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    My partners are both incredible to me.

    I mean, obviously I'm super attracted physically to them both. But I know the thing that really made me fall in love with my husband was not his super sexy beard or his adorable smirk. It was his ability to be the sweetest, most understanding and unique individual I've ever...
    GlitterJules GlitterJules
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    im not going to say looks don't matter,

    but for me personally is way more important
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    8 Responses May 25, 2015

    I ALWAYS fall for the smaller pieces of a person

    than the big picture of a person. I habitually find fascinating, interesting and beautiful things about a person on the inside of them rather then the outside of them.
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    4 Responses Oct 17, 2015

    My friends say I need to stop dating average

    but I don't see the people (I'm bi so guys and gals) I pursue as average. I've dated guys that have weighed over 200lbs and they have super fun personalities and they get me into video games. I've dated girls shorter than my mom and we dance the night away.The only thing I can't...
    fkmylife7 fkmylife7
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 7, 2015

    Honestly I don't know I look at the personality

    like I'm suppose to but I've dated for the heart and yet they was still ****** towards me
    animegurl3085 animegurl3085
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    I would rather be respected

    for my personality and heart than what I look like. Looks fade overtime but the kindness in someones heart is forever beautiful.
    foreveralone22 foreveralone22
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    You can change your looks,

    but your personality is your forever, you are who you are! Looks is skin deep, but your personality goes down to your soul!
    texas2themax texas2themax
    Apr 1, 2016

    If someone has one of those great,

    brilliant minds and a pure personality, I just find myself drawn to them. There is something so irresistable about a great conversationalist.♡
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    1 Response Dec 30, 2015
    kell177 kell177
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    True Story: There was this guy name Josh

    I went to school with, he was really quite, nobody liked him, everybody picked on him or bullied him. He was the nerd, the geek, the guy that girls didn't find attractive, "the loner", but let me tell you something, he had THE BEST personality EVER, and he was beautiful inside...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses May 8, 2015

    why does it even matter all the time like I get

    you have to look presentable somewhat but when a girl starts telling you I only like you with short hair is she even worth the time I want a girl who will like me for who I am as a person a human being some people these days are so judgemental thats why im single
    aaronpayne aaronpayne
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    I'm ready to explore your mind

    and see where it takes us? whose interested?
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    4 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    How DARE you tell me I'm getting old,

    as if my physical appeal is the sum of me! I am so much more than how I look that I am sorry for you in your shallow and empty perception of life and the love I thought we shared. My beauty is still visible to those who know my heart and it's depth of kindness and care...
    Tanjamaree Tanjamaree
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Mar 9, 2016

    You can be as beautiful

    as Da Vinci's Mona Lisa but if you are as shallow and superficial as Kim Kardashian, then all that beauty amounts to nothing. Just an empty ornamental shell ...good for attracting unwanted attention and fickle encounters, not much use for you.
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    7 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    We all know that looks was the first thing

    that make us attracted to a person but its the personality that make us fall in love with them. I have two guys in my life that I can't 4get aside from my family. One is "j" whom I like because of his looks but I still don't know his personality and there's "D" whom at first its...
    shyrem shyrem
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015
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