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I 'd Rather Have No Sex Than Lousy Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 515 People

    Why bother with lousy sex?

    If you just want to get off go play with yourself.  Sex should be a lot of fun without boundaries on pleasure.  Try it all and with the right partner it can even become a spiritual experiece as the two of you etwine your sexual energies together to become one in the moment.
    Jericho7 Jericho7
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    if it was lousy, I grab his arms

    and handcuff them to the bed. A good slap to teach him I don't want lousy sex. A blindfold on his eyes to cut off distractions and let his kinky mind working, I want dirty thoughts. Then we can resume.
    Classjenny Classjenny
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2014

    If you are not completely comfortable with

    yourself and what you want, you have no hope of satisfying an experienced lover who'll no doubt leave disappointed. I've come to recognize that even the smallest nuances of faking or glossing quickly over parts are a total show stopper. For women out there - this from a guy...
    BConnect BConnect
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    You're damn right....

    with the last relationship I had, our sex life was hot and cold...at this stage in my life....being in my prime... in my early 40's.....its time that the next relationship I have, the sex should be mind-blowing, head board... banging...and so fantastic that we're both spent, and...
    sistahgirl39 sistahgirl39
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    Satisfaction must be diligently found,

    given, to every woman! We have to submit, so we should get what we desire most!
    Shintaro95 Shintaro95
    18-21, F
    Jul 28, 2014

    when all she wants to do is

    for the act of making love to be over, I have wasted my time. anyone else experienced this?
    trogen4u trogen4u
    51-55
    Jun 6, 2015

    {Good Sex} I like good pleasurable sex.

    I would rather just have sex with myself than have some *** just ram his **** in me and ***! I like to please and be pleased. Don't [add] me and ask me to *Throat ***** before you have said three frigging words to me! Guys have no damn manners! I keep saying to EP...
    Andielee Andielee
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Dec 19, 2013

    Consuming

    Sympathy, routine, duty. These are some of the reasons why sex is initiated or tolerated in a long term relationship.  They are also some of the circumstances when I won't consent to sex.  For me, sex has to be passionate, enthusiastic and all consuming.  I don't...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2010
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 9, 2013

    This is hilarious. It sounds really reasonable,

    but after all these years without any.. I think I would find lousy sex incredible!
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels
    46-50, M
    Sep 24, 2014

    I would rather cuddle with you naked

    and caress every inch of your body... and maybe a little more... than having sex...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71
    41-45, M
    Jun 23, 2014

    I just like to have fun,

    no censorship, no stupid pop up adds. Just write about true stuff that happens when the lights go out... If you know what I mean ;-) I also like to talk and play in the community over at secreterotica . com It's fun and friendly, no pop up adds. Totally free The library is...
    lucylollipop lucylollipop
    31-35, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    The old adage is that masturbations like a game

    of bridge, if you have a good hand you don't need a partner. *Looks down* well hello there sexy.... which one of you is it tonight baby? *cheesy grin*
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 25, 2015

    If my mind and my imagination are not involved

    then there is no way my body will respond.
    HarlequinDance HarlequinDance
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2014

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 3, 2015

    What can I say? I'm a guy.

    .. There's no such thing as lousy sex! Lol
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 5, 2014

    Me To

    But dammit tell me just don't say your busy. lol this is a great group.
    PTMAN PTMAN
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2010
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