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I Date Older Men

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    I think/know the reason I date older men.

    My dad left when I was 2, came back when I was 8. Never really gave me attention just try to buy my love. Never did he try and understand me. Yes, he provided for me financially. And he still does from time to time I just want him to know my favorite color. I want to be...
    ohwee12 ohwee12 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship

    with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway.... He is nothing like anyone I have ever dated before. There's no guesswork as to what he wants - I don't have to read his mind or wonder if...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 19

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and I am dating a 27 year old guy. Most of you probably think he must be a ********* and that he wants to take advantage of me, but he actually thought I was older before we even started seeing each other. People make a big deal about age difference, but at the end of the day, I...
    sevencats sevencats 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I like older men. I don't mean 2-3 years.

    I means guys that are 6 or more years older. But I can't find one that won't judge me based on my age. I want an older mature cute man. Does he even exist?
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most effective dating website which is committed to cater the needs of those people who would like to meet someone who is significantly older or...
    cindycc14 cindycc14 26-30, F Mar 14

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    Junetangcc17 Junetangcc17 22-25, F Mar 20

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    I love older men! I have the most fun with

    older men! I'm 21 and love men double my age the oldest guy I've ****** is 55 when I was 19! I love how masterful they are!
    littlesubmissive littlesubmissive 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm from Chicago and would want to have a

    sexual relationship with an older man. 40-70 years of age. I'm 22 years old.
    Redangel69 Redangel69 22-25, F 26 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm Gonna Get It For This

    I date older men because I find that they have to be older to be at the same level as we are. Ok I'm so just kidding... I haven't dated in so freakin long I wouldn't know what to do. I can say that a lot of the guys I used to date were considerably older. I was 17 and...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 21 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    You Have No Idea.

    Not just older, but often married, as well. I've determined that I'm attracted to the talent, intelligence, wit, and looks of older men. I've found it to be much more socially acceptable in England than in the US (have lived both places). My first kiss was with a man 40 years...
    umgebung umgebung 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    Am new here am 19 years old I love older people

    ! I want a boyfriend from Nogales Arizona that's older then me .
    briannabio briannabio 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Neveroutofsight1901 Neveroutofsight1901 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Why Older Men Are Appealing

    I went to school at a younger age than mostly everyone I know, so I tend to hang out with an older crowd anyway. I hate the age period that I'm in-- partway between home and school, floating around doing nothing, partying, living on Kraft Dinner and being poor. It's fun but...
    shayla shayla 19-21, F 5 Responses Apr 2, 2007

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    I've always been attracted to older men.

    I believe they'll always satisfy me better- mentally, emotionally, physically. Lets not forget, boys may be cute but men are SEXY. Enough Said
    PainfullyShy714 PainfullyShy714 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    i am 36 year old guy from michigan I'll talk

    to anyone (any age) about anything if you are in interesting to chat and get know me better as friend or much more. please message me. i would love hear you
    wheelchairdavid35 wheelchairdavid35 36-40, M Mar 11

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    I love older men ❤️💚💜💙💛 I wanna

    date a guy who's 22 or older ❤️💚💜💙💛
    briannabio briannabio 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Im 27, in a relationship,

    but looking for an older man to take care of me online ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Well where do I start.

    ... I have always liked older men and especially men in uniform so I'm actually seeing a pilot and when I first met him he was nice then we slept together he was really dirty and I liked it but I regretted it after coz of the things he was texting me I felt like he didn't respect...
    bella132 bella132 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 32 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    i am new member on here

    for while. i am 36 year old guy from michigan. i am looking for young girl/woman also i am open to any ages for talk about everything from my disabled, your problem, your dreams/fantasy and much more. I'd love to hear from you if your interested? please message me
    wheelchairdavid35 wheelchairdavid35 36-40, M Mar 17

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    I prefer older men. I find

    that most of the time they treat me with more respect and dignity than a frat boy.
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 15 Responses Mar 17

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    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Older Men Are Quite Amazing

    I have always loved older men. I don't know exactly why (as in psychologically) i've never had father issues (mine is always there for me).... i just love the feeling of an older man being infatuated with me and treating me as though i'm this great reward they've recieved...
    petitelolita petitelolita 22-25, F 10 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    I Am Totally In Love With An Older Man

    I have always liked older men. Maybe it is because they aren't so immature.  If your dating a man in his thirties then he probably has the mental capacity of one in there 20's.  While my experience of dating men my age seems like I am babysitting.  Anyways he is 17...
    crissybabehh crissybabehh 22-25 8 Responses Jun 19, 2010

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    I'm 19 (20 this year)

    and I met a guy who's 37. I thought he was younger than he really was and he thought I was older. I've always liked older guys but this one is by far my biggest age gap. He doesn't look old at all though and he's very active and in better shape than I am. We get along better...
    Jackson2033 Jackson2033 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    sexysammy468 sexysammy468 18-21, F Feb 18

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    AN30 AN30 13-15, F 8 Responses Mar 15

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    I guess this is slightly a vast topic.

    I date older men (about 13 years max,) reason being is, despite getting along with people my own age. I am not a fan of clubbing nor drinking, which majority do find that as the normal socialising routine. I haven't drank for about a year, which helps me to focus and keep in...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 5

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    Miss 18

    I just turned 18 and i find myself being attracted to older men, (most of the time it's the other way around though) my current boyfriend is 26 and really to tell the truth i'm tired of having to be miss 21 and i'm only 18, you know acting older than you really are just to make...
    cancer06 cancer06 16-18, F 9 Responses Sep 4, 2006

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    I have daddy issues. It's not a secret.

    And I'm okay with it. I'm always looking for an authoritative figure in my life. As I got older, and my hormones kicked up, it dawned on me the appeal of older men. At first I was guys younger than I was. They were immature, overly emotional, and lazy. Even guys my own age and...
    LiberalArtsLover LiberalArtsLover 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 7

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    My Younger Wife

    Y ou would think with 4 kids in the house that I would be far from lonely. The last 2 years have been the worst but also some of the best of my life. My wife passed away in March of 2007 from a unknown heart problem. She was the reason I got up every morning and the...
    ycsoco ycsoco 36-40, M 12 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    I do…. But notice how i said date,

    and not to bang them and just because i like dating older guys that doesnt mean grandpas and people that can be my father.. Im not into any of that crap.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Met up with a 54 year old man of I sketch

    (cyber chat thing) and we had dirty sex for ages until he called it of because of his daughter:-( looking for another older man to have dirty sex with? I am 21!!!
    EmilyRevell1423 EmilyRevell1423 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I'm 33, just want to chat with a younger woman

    (over 19 please) about everything and nothing. See where we end up.
    sergie1980 sergie1980 31-35, M Mar 1

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    I like an older man not by a lot a few years

    tho they are mature an know how to treat you instead of men your age who just act stupid
    Wannabeaprincess Wannabeaprincess 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    A Few Months To Sixteen Years.

    My experience is quite limited really, but when thinking about my relationship with my older ex lover I am thoughtful of social anthropological thought considerations. Age can never be an acceptable division in real terms simply because love is blind. I was sixteen when my...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    I Never Thought It Would Get This Far.

    Ever since I was young, I played games on my computer. Online games. First person shooters. I was always around guys growing up through this hobby because men were the majority of the people who played these games. Men would flirt and talk dirty and I was simply offended until...
    badgirl13942 badgirl13942 16-17, F 20 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    Not a whole lot older,

    beyond 10 years is maybe a bit creepy for me, but I hate guys my own age!
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    chriscc19 chriscc19 22-25, F Mar 6

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    My ex boyfriend was more

    than 30 years older than me, while I thought that he was too old for me, I found myself captivated to him by his words and gentleness, the way he talk to me makes him look sophisticated and intelligent, it wasn't hard for me to fall in love with him. We had many things in common...
    Alitakate Alitakate 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most effective dating website which is committed to cater the needs of those people who would like to meet someone who is significantly older or...
    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I'm looking for an older woman,

    30 and up .... who is also looking for a chat partner to talk about everything and anything ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Feb 18

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    I Love My Older Men

    I have always dated older men.  I was not trying to fill a void that my absent "father" left me with or anything else, I have just always found myself attracted to them.  The older men I date are mature and responsible, yet still like to go out and live life...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 15 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    Only because they understand a bit more

    and are slightly more mature than those of my age. Of course, you have those that aren't, but the ones I find are respectable, intellectual, and wonderful to talk to. Just wish I could find that again.
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Why I date older men over younger.

    1. Older guys don't bring drama with them. 2. I'm not going to find out about someone else your still seeing. 3. Older guys take their job seriously and don't expect me to support them when they're too lazy to work. 4. I can go on for hours. Lol :)
    justabutterfly88 justabutterfly88 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 15

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    I Used to Date Older Men.

    I feel compelled to edit this story, because several people have written in objection to my sentiments about dating older men. I'd like to emphasize what I've said in my post, which is that these two men played a significant role in my life, and I appreciate them for the love...
    PatientRapunzel PatientRapunzel 31-35, F 13 Responses Aug 26, 2006

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you, making older men feel younger in return. Typically, women mature at a faster rate than men do and sometimes a 50 year old man is more compatible...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 19

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    I don't really date them,

    I just screw them.
    Slutwife1023 Slutwife1023 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 24

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    No wonder . In today's world less

    and less men deserve to be called real men and young boys for the most don't have it at all.
    khenpal khenpal 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I do not know why I prefer to date older men, but I always seem to be more attracted to them. I never really have gone out with a guy younger than 23. Yet, 23 seemed unsatisfying...
    PlurDan PlurDan 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Boys of my age are unexperienced and I don´t want to waste my time in being their teacher, lol. Older ones are mature and can give me what I need. I love to be kept by them...