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I Date Older Men

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    Has any woman experienced this

    and has felt an ill feeling about it. "I only date young (insert race) women" "Because older (insert race) woman are so jaded and not so liberal. That sits strange with me, I've heard that be an "issue" with other men. It's a bit condescending, if you ask me. All of the...
    LwrenSD LwrenSD 26-30, F 2 Responses May 30

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 14 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    I dated my first older guy

    when I was 18; he was 45. We met at a party and got to talking; had a one night stand that turned into a year long relationship. When he broke up with me (to move to China), I was 19 when he left and a month later I met a really handsome software architect from India. He was 47...
    nnm122 nnm122 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    The sex is just so much better.

    :p Mature guys dont rush things, know what they are doing, and just are....better lol
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    AN30 AN30 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 22

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    I only date older guys,

    mainly because they are more mature than guys my age.
    TropicalIslandForever TropicalIslandForever 13-15, F 5 Responses May 18

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    I'd definitely date an older man.

    No offense to the younger men but I've dealt with both growing up & it's just so much simpler & way less drama.
    girlNextdoor7 girlNextdoor7 31-35, F 10 Responses Jun 14

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    I have a boyfriend who is 25

    but I am obsessed with being with older men. My favorite.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 12

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    I've found the man of my dreams: He's older

    (actually the oldest I've ever dated but his health is amazing. He still runs everyday!), he's wise, gives great advice and enjoys teaching and being nurturing. He spoils me whenever he can and always checks in to see if I'm "ok". He's slept with men and would do it again but...
    LwrenSD LwrenSD 26-30, F 1 Response May 25

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    Last night I went on my first date in a while.

    ..I'm 20, he is 39. The most natural thing in the world, like breathing. It was fantastic. I was accused the other day of dating older men for the money. It incensed me. Ill agree that a facet of their charm is that by a ripened age they've usually accomplished a degree of...
    yourtheocean yourtheocean 18-21, F 14 Responses May 18

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    Older Men Are Quite Amazing

    I have always loved older men. I don't know exactly why (as in psychologically) i've never had father issues (mine is always there for me).... i just love the feeling of an older man being infatuated with me and treating me as though i'm this great reward they've recieved...
    petitelolita petitelolita 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    Age is just a number I just love when

    that number is over 40 :-)
    LipsOfAnAngel89 LipsOfAnAngel89 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    spunkyfun spunkyfun 31-35, M Jun 15

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 34 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I got hooked to older guys

    when I was about 17. Until then I had sex with guys my age, which was ok. But the first time I had sex with a mature experienced man....was awesome. So I continued with that. :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    slumdograchel slumdograchel 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 9

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    Why I date older men over younger.

    1. Older guys don't bring drama with them. 2. I'm not going to find out about someone else your still seeing. 3. Older guys take their job seriously and don't expect me to support them when they're too lazy to work. 4. I can go on for hours. Lol :)
    justabutterfly88 justabutterfly88 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    Yes I'm 15 ( soon 16)

    and yes I date older men in their 20's. No I didn't choose this but it just happened it's just a how I feel. For some reason I find boys younger than me undesirable! They just don't catch my eye. I know that I should be careful since I'm "young" and some men might try to take...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 8 Responses Jun 16

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    I have daddy issues. It's not a secret.

    And I'm okay with it. I'm always looking for an authoritative figure in my life. As I got older, and my hormones kicked up, it dawned on me the appeal of older men. At first I was guys younger than I was. They were immature, overly emotional, and lazy. Even guys my own age and...
    LiberalArtsLover LiberalArtsLover 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    I'm from Chicago and would want to have a

    sexual relationship with an older man. 40-70 years of age. I'm 22 years old.
    Redangel69 Redangel69 22-25, F 31 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    candysissyfag candysissyfag 26-30, T 4 Responses May 25

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    Older Men? Perfect

    My experiences with guys are almost with older men. I only been with three guys around my age, the others were all at least 20 years older than me. I don't like the skinny ones, i prefer men with beer belly, maybe hairy too. I don't think i have daddy issues...they are simply my...
    girl18889 girl18889 18-21, F 59 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    New post up! Uh beware though.

    ..that's all I'm saying...
    slumdograchel slumdograchel 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 10

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    I wanna meet someone older

    than me, that's got an amazing personality. :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jun 6

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    Some people find it weird,

    but to me it feels just natural. Mature men are usually more secure in themselves, and have life experience. Makes them more fun to be with.
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Hello! Bbw, 18! I can help you in many ways

    for 10 dollars ;) message me! I'll be waiting. xoxo
    youngbbw youngbbw 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    some one talk to me ?

    ? I'm bored and like older men
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 4

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    HeyMicki HeyMicki 18-21, F 19 Responses May 12, 2014

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    I don't really date them,

    I just screw them.
    Slutwife1023 Slutwife1023 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    WyoDoug WyoDoug 46-50, M May 26

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    lolitanymphette lolitanymphette 26-30, F 5 Responses May 24

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    I date older men because I love listening to

    them, and appreciate their wisdom. I find them more handsome, and full of stories that make my imagination race. Older men can make a commitment, something many my age cannot, and they are comfortable with responsibility. I have found, in general that they make better lovers...
    ChloeGenovar ChloeGenovar 22-25, F 14 Responses May 25

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    jade1996j jade1996j 18-21, F 4 Responses May 18

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    Is it bad if I am attracted to older guys?

    I know I am young but I have always been attracted to my dad's friends, my dad and his friends are around 45. I often have dreams about being plowed by older men and wanting to obey their every command.
    slavegirlshelbs slavegirlshelbs 16-17, F 10 Responses Feb 11

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    I've always been attracted to older men.

    I believe they'll always satisfy me better- mentally, emotionally, physically. Lets not forget, boys may be cute but men are SEXY. Enough Said
    PainfullyShy714 PainfullyShy714 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Junecc11 Junecc11 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    I am going to meet my man pretty soon

    and spend the weekend with him he knows how unexperienced I am and is ready to train me sexually I can't wait for him! I never thought I'd ever do something like this but oh well
    dae234 dae234 16-17, F 5 Responses May 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15

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    I Love My Older Men

    I have always dated older men.  I was not trying to fill a void that my absent "father" left me with or anything else, I have just always found myself attracted to them.  The older men I date are mature and responsible, yet still like to go out and live life...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 13 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    I'm laying on my couch,

    just on my phone. I hear someone at the door. "MAINTENANCE!!" I just up and get to the door and he says ... "Oh, I'm so sorry.. Your door was ajar!! I just pushed it and it opened!" "I must hadn't closed it all the way." I said. He's always so nice to me. One day he also gave me...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 21 Responses Jan 31, 2014

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I kind of only date older men.

    ...older men are more mature and know how to take care of women. Unlike boys.
    sabrinajonas sabrinajonas 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 15

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    I've been dating a lot of guys in their

    thirties lately and they just haven't been having that same touch as an even older guy that may be in their 40s or 50s. I miss it :(
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    always loved older men ever

    since i was a young girll, something about them makes me go crazyyy(: they make more money, better in bed, know how to treat a lady. just perfect
    isabelleeee isabelleeee 18-21, F 15 Responses Dec 20, 2014