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I Date Older Men

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    I am looking for a young woman

    who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for, anything from simple sex to the "daddy daughter" thing. I may even be open to you living with me!
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M Aug 28

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    Not very much older,

    but for example I'm 15 and my bf is 17.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    dsmith9448 dsmith9448 26-30, M Aug 7

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    My oldest boyfriend was 24.

    He was hot!!! My parents weren't very thrilled though.
    peachesNkittens peachesNkittens 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    I have daddy issues. It's not a secret.

    And I'm okay with it. I'm always looking for an authoritative figure in my life. As I got older, and my hormones kicked up, it dawned on me the appeal of older men. At first I was guys younger than I was. They were immature, overly emotional, and lazy. Even guys my own age and...
    LiberalArtsLover LiberalArtsLover 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    I'm Gonna Get It For This

    I date older men because I find that they have to be older to be at the same level as we are. Ok I'm so just kidding... I haven't dated in so freakin long I wouldn't know what to do. I can say that a lot of the guys I used to date were considerably older. I was 17 and...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 21 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    ksmith955 ksmith955 26-30, M Jun 15

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    I love older men! I have the most fun with

    older men! I'm 21 and love men double my age the oldest guy I've ****** is 55 when I was 19! I love how masterful they are!
    littlesubmissive littlesubmissive 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 20

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    My ex boyfriend was more

    than 30 years older than me, while I thought that he was too old for me, I found myself captivated to him by his words and gentleness, the way he talk to me makes him look sophisticated and intelligent, it wasn't hard for me to fall in love with him. We had many things in common...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I'm 19 (20 this year)

    and I met a guy who's 37. I thought he was younger than he really was and he thought I was older. I've always liked older guys but this one is by far my biggest age gap. He doesn't look old at all though and he's very active and in better shape than I am. We get along better...
    Jackson2033 Jackson2033 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    ksmith956 ksmith956 26-30, M Jun 15

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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating .

    Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and attitude, while they live together. According to new findings by researchers at Stanford and the University of California-Santa Barbara, β€œIt...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    HeyMicki HeyMicki 18-21, F 36 Responses May 12

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    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I date older men because they are more

    experienced and most of them know how to treat a women and satisfy their needs
    Peanut2589 Peanut2589 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    Older Men? Perfect

    My experiences with guys are almost with older men. I only been with three guys around my age, the others were all at least 20 years older than me. I don't like the skinny ones, i prefer men with beer belly, maybe hairy too. I don't think i have daddy issues...they are simply my...
    girl18889 girl18889 18-21, F 69 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    Johnsmith4u Johnsmith4u 36-40, M Jul 1

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    Older Men Are Quite Amazing

    I have always loved older men. I don't know exactly why (as in psychologically) i've never had father issues (mine is always there for me).... i just love the feeling of an older man being infatuated with me and treating me as though i'm this great reward they've recieved...
    petitelolita petitelolita 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    ksmith955 ksmith955 26-30, M Jun 15

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    I prefer older men because guys my age just

    seem like children to me. I'll be honest not all you older guys are much better sometimes though lol I only go up about 10 years so that I don't end up dating someone the same age as my dad, I find that weird, so older than 30 guys I'll chat but don't try anything, please...
    angelofthe88keys angelofthe88keys 18-21, F 13 Responses May 17

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    Looking for a daughter

    or a younger girl
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I love younger girls.

    They give me a confidence
    csg0219 csg0219 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    One of the most obnoxious things I hear: "He

    must forget about you constantly!"
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    jameshmartin jameshmartin 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I prefer older men. I find

    that most of the time they treat me with more respect and dignity than a frat boy.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 16 Responses Mar 17

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    I love executive men

    that aren't afraid to make executive decisions but still will have a soft spot for me. I reciprocate.
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I was told by my father

    that whom I've only seen a dozen times since I was born that he didn't like the fact that I was dating someone a few years older than me. And that's coming from someone who messes around with girls in their early 20's. Hypocrite much?
    mielem mielem 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 23

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    fetishdrummer fetishdrummer 61-65, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I am in need of an older mans wise

    and courteous nature.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 28

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    Why I date older men over younger.

    1. Older guys don't bring drama with them. 2. I'm not going to find out about someone else your still seeing. 3. Older guys take their job seriously and don't expect me to support them when they're too lazy to work. 4. I can go on for hours. Lol :)
    justabutterfly88 justabutterfly88 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 15

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    June4U June4U 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 8

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    I like older men. I don't mean 2-3 years.

    I means guys that are 6 or more years older. But I can't find one that won't judge me based on my age. I want an older mature cute man. Does he even exist?
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 37 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I Love My Older Men

    I have always dated older men.  I was not trying to fill a void that my absent "father" left me with or anything else, I have just always found myself attracted to them.  The older men I date are mature and responsible, yet still like to go out and live life...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 15 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    I enjoy having someone in my life

    who knows that it takes two people to make a relationship work and not just one and I think that comes with maturity.
    dfabsar dfabsar 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 15 Responses Mar 19

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    Or I have in the past usually dated older men.

    The largest age gap was 11 years. Couple times they were just a few years older than me. I do prefer older but a huge gap is not a requirement. Right now i can not even imagine starting any kind of intimate relationship with a guy. I have done fwb before but i don't plan on...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I Used to Date Older Men.

    I feel compelled to edit this story, because several people have written in objection to my sentiments about dating older men. I'd like to emphasize what I've said in my post, which is that these two men played a significant role in my life, and I appreciate them for the love...
    PatientRapunzel PatientRapunzel 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 26, 2006

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    The reason I like dating older men is

    because I enjoy being treated like a person. Not an object.
    ashizz ashizz 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 24

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    I've been dating a lot of guys in their

    thirties lately and they just haven't been having that same touch as an even older guy that may be in their 40s or 50s. I miss it :(
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 28

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    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    I'm laying on my couch,

    just on my phone. I hear someone at the door. "MAINTENANCE!!" I just up and get to the door and he says ... "Oh, I'm so sorry.. Your door was ajar!! I just pushed it and it opened!" "I must hadn't closed it all the way." I said. He's always so nice to me. One day he also gave me...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 31

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    ITSDONENOW ITSDONENOW 41-45, M Jun 11

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    I'm from Chicago and would want to have a

    sexual relationship with an older man. 40-70 years of age. I'm 22 years old.
    Redangel69 Redangel69 22-25, F 37 Responses Jan 10

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    Just turned 40 here in AZ.

    .. Recently divorced:.
    sexhibit74 sexhibit74 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    ksmith670 ksmith670 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    AN30 AN30 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 15

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    I've been going out with this guy

    since January he's 24 almost 25 and I'm 18 he's amazing and funny and caring and has respect for me and doesn't treat me different because of our age difference. And he makes me feel so special We have sex but after he likes to cuddle and talk too he doesn't just get what he...
    lovely224 lovely224 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    I don't really date them,

    I just screw them.
    Slutwife1023 Slutwife1023 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    I've always been attracted to older men.

    I believe they'll always satisfy me better- mentally, emotionally, physically. Lets not forget, boys may be cute but men are SEXY. Enough Said
    PainfullyShy714 PainfullyShy714 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 10

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