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I Date Older Men

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    Is it bad if I am attracted to older guys?

    I know I am young but I have always been attracted to my dad's friends, my dad and his friends are around 45. I often have dreams about being plowed by older men and wanting to obey their every command.
    slavegirlshelbs slavegirlshelbs 16-17, F 11 Responses Feb 11

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    Here sit the cat and I on another winter's eve.

    ......looking for a fun online woman friend to get us through the cold nights and maybe more. We are both fun to know. So, warm us up with your kind hugs, please. J
    jackinva jackinva 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm laying on my couch,

    just on my phone. I hear someone at the door. "MAINTENANCE!!" I just up and get to the door and he says ... "Oh, I'm so sorry.. Your door was ajar!! I just pushed it and it opened!" "I must hadn't closed it all the way." I said. He's always so nice to me. One day he also gave me...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 19 Responses Jan 31, 2014

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    looking for an older guy to chat with

    and by older I don't mean you 18 year olds anywhere from 30-50 msg me
    wildatheart1 wildatheart1 18-21, F 17 Responses Feb 24

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 15 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    Some people find it weird,

    but to me it feels just natural. Mature men are usually more secure in themselves, and have life experience. Makes them more fun to be with.
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    my man has been away

    for a week now and I miss him crazily! he is ill and "not allowed to use his phone" in a hospital in London. I worry though, how can he not call me in 3 days?! We normally talk everyday... It is driving me crazy as I can't reach him either.
    sexijai sexijai 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I've been dating a lot of guys in their

    thirties lately and they just haven't been having that same touch as an even older guy that may be in their 40s or 50s. I miss it :(
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Princess12111 Princess12111 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I love executive men

    that aren't afraid to make executive decisions but still will have a soft spot for me. I reciprocate.
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    Age is just a number I just love when

    that number is over 40 :-)
    LipsOfAnAngel89 LipsOfAnAngel89 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    I'm from Chicago and would want to have a

    sexual relationship with an older man. 40-70 years of age. I'm 22 years old.
    Redangel69 Redangel69 22-25, F 31 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Older Men Are Quite Amazing

    I have always loved older men. I don't know exactly why (as in psychologically) i've never had father issues (mine is always there for me).... i just love the feeling of an older man being infatuated with me and treating me as though i'm this great reward they've recieved...
    petitelolita petitelolita 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    I like older men and want to

    either be the other woman or just date the man in public
    forevercarol forevercarol 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 36 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I like older men. I don't mean 2-3 years.

    I means guys that are 6 or more years older. But I can't find one that won't judge me based on my age. I want an older mature cute man. Does he even exist?
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    CanadianGentleman76 CanadianGentleman76 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    I have daddy issues. It's not a secret.

    And I'm okay with it. I'm always looking for an authoritative figure in my life. As I got older, and my hormones kicked up, it dawned on me the appeal of older men. At first I was guys younger than I was. They were immature, overly emotional, and lazy. Even guys my own age and...
    LiberalArtsLover LiberalArtsLover 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    I've always been attracted to older men.

    I believe they'll always satisfy me better- mentally, emotionally, physically. Lets not forget, boys may be cute but men are SEXY. Enough Said
    PainfullyShy714 PainfullyShy714 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    Hope 2015 is a great year

    for everyone. Happy New Year from Georgia.
    maconguy44 maconguy44 46-50, M Dec 31, 2014

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    I want to be with an older man.

    Possibly be the other woman or just date the guy in public
    ilovemen23 ilovemen23 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 17

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    I am currently "seeing" a guy

    who is 9 years my senior and yet I feel like I'm the mature one.
    cheryyl cheryyl 18-21, F 50 Responses Mar 5

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    older men...my ultimate weakness.

    handsome, wise, can help you solve almost any problem, and their very experienced. what more could a girl ask for? ;) xoxo.
    babyynurse babyynurse 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    HeyMicki HeyMicki 18-21, F 20 Responses May 12, 2014

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    Why I date older men over younger.

    1. Older guys don't bring drama with them. 2. I'm not going to find out about someone else your still seeing. 3. Older guys take their job seriously and don't expect me to support them when they're too lazy to work. 4. I can go on for hours. Lol :)
    justabutterfly88 justabutterfly88 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    AN30 AN30 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    flawlxsskay flawlxsskay 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    The sex is just so much better.

    :p Mature guys dont rush things, know what they are doing, and just are....better lol
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I kind of only date older men.

    ...older men are more mature and know how to take care of women. Unlike boys.
    sabrinajonas sabrinajonas 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 15

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    Once I tried it, I got hooked lol.

    Mature men are often more secure in themselves, and experienced....
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I have a boyfriend who is 25

    but I am obsessed with being with older men. My favorite.
    BoyToyBritney BoyToyBritney 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    Love to share my girl.

    Shoot me a message if your interested in borrowing her for a while.
    MasterDomNick MasterDomNick 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I prefer older men. I find

    that most of the time they treat me with more respect and dignity than a frat boy.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    do girls date older men bc no one their age

    will date them and older men will pretty much date any younger girl bc of the fact they are younger?
    tattedariel tattedariel 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 20

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    I haven't dated a guy my age

    since middle school. Older men are mature, intelligent, courteous, and are much more attractive. Best of all, they know what they want, and go for out. Boys my age can't even keep a decent conversation going.
    Queenofnothing Queenofnothing 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Older Men? Perfect

    My experiences with guys are almost with older men. I only been with three guys around my age, the others were all at least 20 years older than me. I don't like the skinny ones, i prefer men with beer belly, maybe hairy too. I don't think i have daddy issues...they are simply my...
    girl18889 girl18889 18-21, F 62 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I got hooked to older guys

    when I was about 17. Until then I had sex with guys my age, which was ok. But the first time I had sex with a mature experienced man....was awesome. So I continued with that. :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F Jan 28

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    "He is handsome, sweet,

    funny, kind, caring, loving, compassionate and most importantly, he treats me like I'm the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to him... so what if it's coming from someone from another decade? Should I refuse it? How can I not love a man like that?"
    sexijai sexijai 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 11

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    trust me, i'm probably not feeling it

    if you treat me like i know nothing and you're like old as a freaking bat. please just 👐.
    flawlxsskay flawlxsskay 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I don't really date them,

    I just screw them.
    Slutwife1023 Slutwife1023 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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