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I Date Older Men

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    I like what they could offer,

    I like being spoiled and they are usually a better lay. I still new with men but the men I've been with so far love to teach and I love to learn.
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12

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    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M Jun 11

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    I date older men because they are more

    experienced and most of them know how to treat a women and satisfy their needs
    Peanut2589 Peanut2589 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    "when I was 20/21 where I casually dated older

    men (32, 38, and 41). It never got serious with any of them, but they all treated me very well. I've always been mature for my age, and it just came naturally to date men in their 30s. It was definitely not a bimbo/dirty old man situation, but thinking back 20/21 is an awfully...
    ChangBending ChangBending 22-25, F 3 Responses May 5

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    You know what they say.

    . A man's mental age is 5 years delay of their actual age. I like to go at least 5 or 7 years older, they are more matured and intelligent and experienced.
    Lucy185 Lucy185 26-30, F 1 Response May 20

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    The reason I like dating older men is

    because I enjoy being treated like a person. Not an object.
    ashizz ashizz 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was told by my father

    that whom I've only seen a dozen times since I was born that he didn't like the fact that I was dating someone a few years older than me. And that's coming from someone who messes around with girls in their early 20's. Hypocrite much?
    mielem mielem 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 23

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    I Love My Older Men

    I have always dated older men.  I was not trying to fill a void that my absent "father" left me with or anything else, I have just always found myself attracted to them.  The older men I date are mature and responsible, yet still like to go out and live life...
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 15 Responses Nov 29, 2006

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    I like older guys but seeing someone

    who is 16 or 17 and seeing a guy old enough to be her grandfather hit on her is just 😷
    uhhke uhhke 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    Something happened in my past (see other posts)

    and I've developed a love for older men!
    audiogasm audiogasm 13-15, M Apr 23

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    I'm from Chicago and would want to have a

    sexual relationship with an older man. 40-70 years of age. I'm 22 years old.
    Redangel69 Redangel69 22-25, F 34 Responses Jan 10

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    Why I date older men over younger.

    1. Older guys don't bring drama with them. 2. I'm not going to find out about someone else your still seeing. 3. Older guys take their job seriously and don't expect me to support them when they're too lazy to work. 4. I can go on for hours. Lol :)
    justabutterfly88 justabutterfly88 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 15

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    I love younger girls.

    They give me a confidence
    csg0219 csg0219 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a 17 year old girl

    and I am dating a 27 year old guy. Most of you probably think he must be a ********* and that he wants to take advantage of me, but he actually thought I was older before we even started seeing each other. People make a big deal about age difference, but at the end of the day, I...
    sevencats sevencats 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I am in need of an older mans wise

    and courteous nature.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love executive men

    that aren't afraid to make executive decisions but still will have a soft spot for me. I reciprocate.
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm Gonna Get It For This

    I date older men because I find that they have to be older to be at the same level as we are. Ok I'm so just kidding... I haven't dated in so freakin long I wouldn't know what to do. I can say that a lot of the guys I used to date were considerably older. I was 17 and...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 21 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    ksmith670 ksmith670 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    You Have No Idea.

    Not just older, but often married, as well. I've determined that I'm attracted to the talent, intelligence, wit, and looks of older men. I've found it to be much more socially acceptable in England than in the US (have lived both places). My first kiss was with a man 40 years...
    umgebung umgebung 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    Teen girls hit me up

    if your on the east coast
    dsmith9448 dsmith9448 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    ksmith955 ksmith955 26-30, M Jun 15

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    Older Men? Perfect

    My experiences with guys are almost with older men. I only been with three guys around my age, the others were all at least 20 years older than me. I don't like the skinny ones, i prefer men with beer belly, maybe hairy too. I don't think i have daddy issues...they are simply my...
    girl18889 girl18889 18-21, F 70 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I prefer older men because guys my age just

    seem like children to me. I'll be honest not all you older guys are much better sometimes though lol I only go up about 10 years so that I don't end up dating someone the same age as my dad, I find that weird, so older than 30 guys I'll chat but don't try anything, please...
    angelofthe88keys angelofthe88keys 18-21, F 13 Responses May 17

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    My oldest boyfriend was 24.

    He was hot!!! My parents weren't very thrilled though.
    peachesNkittens peachesNkittens 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't really date them,

    I just screw them.
    Slutwife1023 Slutwife1023 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    ksmith955 ksmith955 26-30, M Jun 15

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    I enjoy having someone in my life

    who knows that it takes two people to make a relationship work and not just one and I think that comes with maturity.
    dfabsar dfabsar 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I know most of you are gonna judge me

    but I need help. I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been seeing this guy, nathan, from work who is 27. To keep things short, nathan started talking to me thinking I was older, but realized just how young I was when we started dating and we both decided not to let the age difference...
    sevencats sevencats 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 25

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    I Used to Date Older Men.

    I feel compelled to edit this story, because several people have written in objection to my sentiments about dating older men. I'd like to emphasize what I've said in my post, which is that these two men played a significant role in my life, and I appreciate them for the love...
    PatientRapunzel PatientRapunzel 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 26, 2006

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 36 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    June4U June4U 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 8

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    Looking for a daughter

    or a younger girl
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My ex boyfriend was more

    than 30 years older than me, while I thought that he was too old for me, I found myself captivated to him by his words and gentleness, the way he talk to me makes him look sophisticated and intelligent, it wasn't hard for me to fall in love with him. We had many things in common...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    dracycc11 dracycc11 26-30, F May 14

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    HeyMicki HeyMicki 18-21, F 37 Responses May 12

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    I love younger girls of all ages,

    they are just incredible
    csmith989 csmith989 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Never Thought It Would Get This Far.

    Ever since I was young, I played games on my computer. Online games. First person shooters. I was always around guys growing up through this hobby because men were the majority of the people who played these games. Men would flirt and talk dirty and I was simply offended until...
    badgirl13942 badgirl13942 16-17, F 20 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    AN30 AN30 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 15

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    I prefer older men. I find

    that most of the time they treat me with more respect and dignity than a frat boy.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 16 Responses Mar 17

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    Older Men Are Quite Amazing

    I have always loved older men. I don't know exactly why (as in psychologically) i've never had father issues (mine is always there for me).... i just love the feeling of an older man being infatuated with me and treating me as though i'm this great reward they've recieved...
    petitelolita petitelolita 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    I'm laying on my couch,

    just on my phone. I hear someone at the door. "MAINTENANCE!!" I just up and get to the door and he says ... "Oh, I'm so sorry.. Your door was ajar!! I just pushed it and it opened!" "I must hadn't closed it all the way." I said. He's always so nice to me. One day he also gave me...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    I love older men! I have the most fun with

    older men! I'm 21 and love men double my age the oldest guy I've ****** is 55 when I was 19! I love how masterful they are!
    littlesubmissive littlesubmissive 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 20

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    I think/know the reason I date older men.

    My dad left when I was 2, came back when I was 8. Never really gave me attention just try to buy my love. Never did he try and understand me. Yes, he provided for me financially. And he still does from time to time I just want him to know my favorite color. I want to be...
    ohwee12 ohwee12 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Daddyslilfrenchgirl Daddyslilfrenchgirl 22-25, F 12 Responses Mar 19

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    Older Menz usually have their stuff together

    and usually know exactly what they want. Less time for games.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    Johnsmith4u Johnsmith4u 36-40, M Jul 1

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    I've always been attracted to older men.

    I believe they'll always satisfy me better- mentally, emotionally, physically. Lets not forget, boys may be cute but men are SEXY. Enough Said
    PainfullyShy714 PainfullyShy714 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    I have daddy issues. It's not a secret.

    And I'm okay with it. I'm always looking for an authoritative figure in my life. As I got older, and my hormones kicked up, it dawned on me the appeal of older men. At first I was guys younger than I was. They were immature, overly emotional, and lazy. Even guys my own age and...
    LiberalArtsLover LiberalArtsLover 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    I've been going out with this guy

    since January he's 24 almost 25 and I'm 18 he's amazing and funny and caring and has respect for me and doesn't treat me different because of our age difference. And he makes me feel so special We have sex but after he likes to cuddle and talk too he doesn't just get what he...
    lovely224 lovely224 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    My Younger Wife

    Y ou would think with 4 kids in the house that I would be far from lonely. The last 2 years have been the worst but also some of the best of my life. My wife passed away in March of 2007 from a unknown heart problem. She was the reason I got up every morning and the...
    ycsoco ycsoco 36-40, M 12 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    ksmith956 ksmith956 26-30, M Jun 15

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    I like older men. I don't mean 2-3 years.

    I means guys that are 6 or more years older. But I can't find one that won't judge me based on my age. I want an older mature cute man. Does he even exist?
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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