I Date Outside of My Race

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    I honestly have no preference

    when it comes to dating a girl of a certain race. I'll date her for her personality. Not her skin color. Why? Because her personality tells me a story that her skin color can't.
    Romanticrebirth Romanticrebirth
    26-30, M
    Feb 7

    I find myself more interested in white men

    than my own race (blk). What's scares me is that I don't know what to say to them.
    BrittTHart BrittTHart
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    Never The Same

    I have never dated a black guy, where I live is manly white guys, I'm not sure dating a black guy is something I would do tbh .. I think I may be a cocoanut
    alexbby alexbby
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 8, 2013

    I don't know why but I seem to like dating

    outside my race. It's like there are just more advantages with dating other races. I don't have a particular race in mind because I date any race because of the culture and the upbringing which just seems wonderful. From what I've seen on YouTube, many cultures have a rich and...
    Romanticrebirth Romanticrebirth
    26-30, M
    Mar 7, 2014

    My perfect woman: Latino

    or Indian Intelligent, creative and knows her own mind hopes to start a family eventually with the right partner If you think this is you send me a message I'm looking for a spark
    klain45 klain45
    26-30, M
    Apr 17, 2014
    Directioner70 Directioner70
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 2

    I wish the internet had been around

    when i was younger so i could have met girls from all different places of the world. Dont get me wrong....a sweet little blonde or red headed girl next door tyoe is still interesting but im finding myself soooo attracted to difcerent cuktures and to darker features....big brown...
    Dylan326 Dylan326
    61-65, M
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014
    Movienight Movienight
    Mar 3

    Dating outside my race isn't taboo

    or anything. Besides, other races seem interesting to me.
    MisunderstoodGirl69 MisunderstoodGirl69
    13-15, F
    May 19, 2015

    Why Older Guys Are Better

    The older I get the more I think that men over 35 are much better. Now what I mean by that is I think the older we get the more we get it. I think I understand everything better life relationships mt work everything. When it comes to relationships and women I believe once you...
    Pro4424 Pro4424
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jun 16, 2012

    I Do But I Don't

    I consider myself raceless and a universal soul. My mother is English but has haplotype K blood, which places her origins in Iran or there abouts, my fathers Jamaican but has Scottish, Tao Indian and African heritage, A mutation on my blood gives me a African Mali connection, so...
    queenlion queenlion
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2012

    I Love Interracial Relationships!

    I am very open minded and enthusiastic about interracial relationships! I love learning about different cultures and enjoy all kinds of different foods and cuisines as well as music, dancing, culture and customs. I love dating white women, black women, Asian women, Hispanic...
    bighungryshark bighungryshark
    41-45, M
    Oct 17, 2012

    It was a while ago but I remembered the first

    time I dated outside my race. My family doesnt care but friends were like stick to your own race, you know his family wont like you. I dated a greek guy. It was different but I had fun, I always had a hard time saying his last name but It made our dating life funny. I am...
    LiveLoveLaugh978 LiveLoveLaugh978
    22-25, F
    Mar 18

    I'm Hispanic and I think most Hispanic women

    are gorgeous but as in a relationship or dating, i just don't get along with women of my own race. That sounds a bit racist now that I think of it but its not hurtful thoughts towards dating women of the same race I just prefer to date outside of my race because being introduced...
    misternobrain misternobrain
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2014

    I have been dating outside of my race

    for a couple of years now. I am pregnant by a black guy as well. I am having his twin biracial baby sons in a few days. I love interracial relationships. Yes, I have gone black and not coming back.
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2014

    So.. I Date Outside My Race?

    Yes, I date outside my race. I am black but I like white, Asian, Italian, and all others! I accept all other men. As long as they met my criteria personality-wise.. Outside appearance doesn't matter as much. Black guys aren't out of the picture! I still do like black!
    kennedyhensen46 kennedyhensen46
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2013

    I am generally not attracted to caucasian men

    though I am a caucasian woman. I simply do not find the white skin tone attractive it looks feminine in my eyes. I am almost repulsed by pale men and I wish I had a deeper explanation as to why. I am attracted to black men and Hispanic men mainly. I do not date black men who can...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 2, 2015

    I have been dating outside my race

    for three decades now. I love and enjoy their individual and beautiful BBCs , that is a given, but I love how they put life's struggles, strife, racism, and discrimination behind them. They are positive and look to the future and not behind them. I put many things behind me...
    femalecelebratingfreedom femalecelebratingfreedom
    46-50, F
    May 25, 2014


    I've always been more interested in dating other races and nationalities (I guess I'm too interested in cultures/languages not to!) and all my boyfriends has been of a different ethnicity, lol. I dont know why, it just happened like that. I dont have a "thing" for a certain race...
    untethered90 untethered90
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

    I Can't Help Who I'm Attracted To

    I have nothing against my own race. I've dated blacks, whites, and hispanics. But I can't help who I'm attracted to. Everyone has their preferences appearance wise. When you first see someone, you don't think "wow, they have a great personality". You see their appearance first...
    BruklynM BruklynM
    18-21, F
    Nov 10, 2013

    What a terrible experience is all I can say!

    I once dated a black man who was mentally abusive, he also tore my insides out! It's true what they say about black men! I've dated two Latino men and they thought I was a slave, cook, clean, and preform sexual acts on demand. I felt like a monkey that does tricks! Not that I...
    JessL84 JessL84
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 5, 2014

    I only date white girls,

    hispanic girls,an lightskin girls, i love white girls they are just so beautiful, i love hispanic girls they are just so sexy, i love lightskin girls they r so cute
    moet16 moet16
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

    I always date ouyside of my race

    and I don't give a f*/& what mu parents say!
    Misry33 Misry33
    22-25, T
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    White girls only...some asian too

    but I usually only date white girls...I can't see nyself dating my own race. The black girls where I'm from are all against white girls "taking thier men"
    cmicsilvels cmicsilvels
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2014

    Is It Me ?

    I've dated outside my race before , but when it comes to meeting New people I find that there is like A stigma or awkwardness that prevents guys of other races from approaching me . .. Do you guys understand what I mean ? If so why is that ?
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Aug 5, 2013

    I don't care about ethnicity all I do is learn

    to love someone who truly cares about me and loves me for the whole life I have and my past or if I fall in love with someone! :)
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 24, 2015

    I have been dating outside my race

    for over 30 years. I first started at age 13 with a black guy. I went to the junior and senior proms with black guys. I dated both black and white guys in college. I married a white man at age 24. I was 9 months pregnant when we got married. My husband shares me with two...
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2014

    At the end of the day!

    Why the hell do we have female and male different nationalities, ethnicities, backgrounds colors, interests, dislikes, beliefs etc if we're not supposed to mingle and date and make love etc. it doesn't make sense!
    kamachulu kamachulu
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    I missed a woman day to be honest I have not

    been in love for long time, so I kind don't know all this staff , so I **** it up ! Unintentionally , than when we take it last night she was telling me that she feeling sad specially that all her gf friends they had great time with there Partners , and I can feel and hear that...
    Haqbany32 Haqbany32
    41-45, M
    Mar 9

    Race Is A Lie

    I belong to the human race.
    bluewatersgirl bluewatersgirl
    41-45, F
    May 16, 2012

    last gf i had was Irish Trinidadian

    and Australian. she was great and fun. plus i love the looks we got. since I'm African, Japanese and German. multicolor people rule!!
    EquilibreHippie EquilibreHippie
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    Never Have I Ever

    ...dated a white, American girl. I would date white girls obviously when I was in high school because, well, there's not a whole lot of racial diversity in Eastern Europe besides "them." I've been with black girls, Indian girls, Filipino girls, Lebanese girls, and...
    Tricz Tricz
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

    Even though I am married I date outside my

    white race. I date black men with a nice BBC. I am with them 2 or 3 times a week.
    nudistwifeandmother nudistwifeandmother
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Sep 19, 2014

    I have been dating outside my race

    for 23 years now. I love and adore men outside my race. We always have a great time when dating. We are always in agreement on what to do and where to go for dates.
    momnakedingarden momnakedingarden
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2014

    I Love Dating Period

    For the past 37 years that I have been on this planet, I have dated both in and out of my race for 23 years. In both races, I have found great catches, average catches, and no catches at all ever. For me, it just depended upon what I wanted to accomplish in life. I chose the...
    blacksinglemom blacksinglemom
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2013

    I like white boys a lot

    but I feel as if none like me & bring me down when I feel rejected ..
    muhhryaa muhhryaa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2014

    Loving Different Race

    You know falling in love is really a magic itself why because you dont know when this struck you and who you will be attracted because our heart never stop admiring others heart when it beats for the woman or man you like it never stop and it blossom to wonderful relationship...
    tawam tawam
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Dec 1, 2011

    I Can't Date Black Men.

    The reason why??? Oh my God, you'll have to sit down with a cup of coffee to hear this, but I won't go there. I have befriended every type of black man there is from the elite and well-versed to the poor and uneducated, and all in between. I do not get along with black men and I...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Jan 16, 2010

    love is love and has nothing to do with race.

    God created love and man made religion. And most people are not enough open minded to see it. I don't mind date outside of my race...
    babyboy1808 babyboy1808
    22-25, M
    Mar 2

    I like all races.People

    who say I only like this particular race weird me out
    martinez93 martinez93
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I Can Only Speak For Myself But It Is Where My Heart Is

    I think Black men are simply more attractive, more handsome, better attitude, more masculine, more interesting in general. They are still real men in my feminine female mind.Yes, I am white, a white woman who wants to be with Black men.Oh, sure their skin color is electrifying...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Mar 3, 2012

    I'm a white guy who prefers to date non-white

    women. I mean no disrespect to white women, I've met many beautiful, sexy, intelligent and funny white women but physically I'm more attracted to black, Indian, Middle eastern, Latin and Asian women. I guess I just have a taste for the exotic.
    EarthWalkerMan EarthWalkerMan
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 30, 2015

    Whatever Tickles Your Pickle

    i have always been attracted to black and latino men.  not too many times have i been attracted to white men, but thats just my preference.  oh, and i'm white, by the way.  i have come across adversity of course.  whenever i hear people say racism is going...
    snobunny826 snobunny826
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 25, 2007

    My fiance is part Italian,

    British, German and Irish.I always preferred white men.Of course I don't have nothing against any other race but I just love me some white chocolate lol
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I'm Light she's Dark I don't notice

    as too spell bound by her capturing my heart so I cast mine out to her so she's knows she's got mine captured as well we're a love story that's gonna tell the world how we became Euphoric lovers covering all topics
    deleted deleted
    Dec 21, 2014

    Rainbow Love

    My type of men involve the following. I love brains. I like a guy who is clever and intelligent. He can speak of a range of different subjects with lissome efforts. He is mentally independent and owns strong beliefs that govern his life. I love assertiveness. Although he is...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2013

    I am American Indian.

    .. I like candlelight dinners with low light, soft music, and a nice lady to share it with... so good
    3rdday 3rdday
    51-55, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    Well, I WOULD... if I could get a date to begin

    with... XD Single forever, eh...?
    Boulier Boulier
    18-21, F
    Jan 29, 2015

    I have dated outside my race

    for 17 years now. I absolutely love white men and they love me too. I have been married for four years now and we have three beautiful biracial babies.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2014
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy
    26-30, M
    Jun 9, 2015
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