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I Date Outside of My Race

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    My perfect woman: Latino

    or Indian Intelligent, creative and knows her own mind hopes to start a family eventually with the right partner If you think this is you send me a message I'm looking for a spark
    klain45 klain45 26-30, M Apr 17, 2014

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    Whatever Tickles Your Pickle

    i have always been attracted to black and latino men.  not too many times have i been attracted to white men, but thats just my preference.  oh, and i'm white, by the way.  i have come across adversity of course.  whenever i hear people say racism is going...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    At the end of the day!

    Why the hell do we have female and male different nationalities, ethnicities, backgrounds colors, interests, dislikes, beliefs etc if we're not supposed to mingle and date and make love etc. it doesn't make sense!
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 13, 2014

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    Loving Different Race

    You know falling in love is really a magic itself why because you dont know when this struck you and who you will be attracted because our heart never stop admiring others heart when it beats for the woman or man you like it never stop and it blossom to wonderful relationship...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    I wish the internet had been around

    when i was younger so i could have met girls from all different places of the world. Dont get me wrong....a sweet little blonde or red headed girl next door tyoe is still interesting but im finding myself soooo attracted to difcerent cuktures and to darker features....big brown...
    Dylan326 Dylan326 61-65, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    I absolutely date outside my race

    and have been doing so for a year now. I love dating black guys and it is not just because of the BBC either. I enjoy the way I am treated by them when we are together.
    hillaryateenagefemale hillaryateenagefemale 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    Rainbow Love

    My type of men involve the following. I love brains. I like a guy who is clever and intelligent. He can speak of a range of different subjects with lissome efforts. He is mentally independent and owns strong beliefs that govern his life. I love assertiveness. Although he is...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F Jun 19, 2013

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    I have dated outside my race

    for 17 years now. I absolutely love white men and they love me too. I have been married for four years now and we have three beautiful biracial babies.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    I have been dating outside my race

    for 23 years now. I love and adore men outside my race. We always have a great time when dating. We are always in agreement on what to do and where to go for dates.
    momnakedingarden momnakedingarden 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    I Can Only Speak For Myself But It Is Where My Heart Is

    I think Black men are simply more attractive, more handsome, better attitude, more masculine, more interesting in general. They are still real men in my feminine female mind.Yes, I am white, a white woman who wants to be with Black men.Oh, sure their skin color is electrifying...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    I am open to other races.

    this does not mean I am accepted by others. I like men of all races, cultures or religion. I think anything is possible with compromise and hard work. I am not ashamed of my race, I would not put down whom I am. I am wanting to understand to be understood and to take delight in...
    tandee tandee 31-35 2 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    I only date white girls,

    hispanic girls,an lightskin girls, i love white girls they are just so beautiful, i love hispanic girls they are just so sexy, i love lightskin girls they r so cute
    moet16 moet16 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Is It Me ?

    I've dated outside my race before , but when it comes to meeting New people I find that there is like A stigma or awkwardness that prevents guys of other races from approaching me . .. Do you guys understand what I mean ? If so why is that ?
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I can't really say this 100%,

    since I've only ever dated two guys. The first one was a quarter black, and my current boyfriend is Hispanic. I am as white as you come. But that's fine, most of my friends are all different races.
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    Never Have I Ever

    ...dated a white, American girl. I would date white girls obviously when I was in high school because, well, there's not a whole lot of racial diversity in Eastern Europe besides "them." I've been with black girls, Indian girls, Filipino girls, Lebanese girls, and...
    Tricz Tricz 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    White girls only...some asian too

    but I usually only date white girls...I can't see nyself dating my own race. The black girls where I'm from are all against white girls "taking thier men"
    cmicsilvels cmicsilvels 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    I wouldnt have chosen the word "race"

    but okay! I'm one of these...i'm only attracted by people that dont look like me or come from my world if i may say...i'm a caucasian guy lover...and i cant help it...it pains me to turn down guys that arent attractive to me even tho they seem perfect or really great....hell...
    octoberspring octoberspring 26-30, F Jan 22, 2014

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    I have been dating outside my race

    for three decades now. I love and enjoy their individual and beautiful BBCs , that is a given, but I love how they put life's struggles, strife, racism, and discrimination behind them. They are positive and look to the future and not behind them. I put many things behind me...
    femalecelebratingfreedom femalecelebratingfreedom 46-50, F 1 Response May 25, 2014

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    Well, I WOULD... if I could get a date to begin

    with... XD Single forever, eh...?
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    last gf i had was Irish Trinidadian

    and Australian. she was great and fun. plus i love the looks we got. since I'm African, Japanese and German. multicolor people rule!!
    EquilibreHippie EquilibreHippie 22-25, M Jul 11

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    I have been dating outside my race

    for over 30 years. I first started at age 13 with a black guy. I went to the junior and senior proms with black guys. I dated both black and white guys in college. I married a white man at age 24. I was 9 months pregnant when we got married. My husband shares me with two...
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2014

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    I find myself more interested in white men

    than my own race (blk). What's scares me is that I don't know what to say to them.
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    I Do But I Don't

    I consider myself raceless and a universal soul. My mother is English but has haplotype K blood, which places her origins in Iran or there abouts, my fathers Jamaican but has Scottish, Tao Indian and African heritage, A mutation on my blood gives me a African Mali connection, so...
    queenlion queenlion 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I Refuse To Date My Race!

    Here it goes! I believe meeting other people is very fascinating. I love to know other cultures and get involved with them. I was born in Puerto Rico, a beautiful Caribbean island to the west of the virgin islands. Though I was born and raised in my culture I really never felt...
    OutcastedDaughter OutcastedDaughter 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    I Feel Like Im Not Attracted To My Own

    Whenever I see guys I either look at the Black or Asian especially black guys. Don't get me wrong I don't have no problem with my own kind there are so nice people I know like most of my friends. I actually have ex bf's who are white I wasn't always like this I feel like this...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    I Love Interracial Relationships!

    I am very open minded and enthusiastic about interracial relationships! I love learning about different cultures and enjoy all kinds of different foods and cuisines as well as music, dancing, culture and customs. I love dating white women, black women, Asian women, Hispanic...
    bighungryshark bighungryshark 41-45, M Oct 17, 2012

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    I Love Dating Period

    For the past 37 years that I have been on this planet, I have dated both in and out of my race for 23 years. In both races, I have found great catches, average catches, and no catches at all ever. For me, it just depended upon what I wanted to accomplish in life. I chose the...
    blacksinglemom blacksinglemom 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I'm Hispanic and I think most Hispanic women

    are gorgeous but as in a relationship or dating, i just don't get along with women of my own race. That sounds a bit racist now that I think of it but its not hurtful thoughts towards dating women of the same race I just prefer to date outside of my race because being introduced...
    misternobrain misternobrain 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    I only date white guys

    and occasionaly mexicans.. I just love interacial relationships and im deff gunna pop out some mixed babies with one of them lol.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2014

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    Race Is A Lie

    I belong to the human race.
    bluewatersgirl bluewatersgirl 41-45, F May 16, 2012

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    I'm Light she's Dark I don't notice

    as too spell bound by her capturing my heart so I cast mine out to her so she's knows she's got mine captured as well we're a love story that's gonna tell the world how we became Euphoric lovers covering all topics
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 21, 2014

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    So.. I Date Outside My Race?

    Yes, I date outside my race. I am black but I like white, Asian, Italian, and all others! I accept all other men. As long as they met my criteria personality-wise.. Outside appearance doesn't matter as much. Black guys aren't out of the picture! I still do like black!
    kennedyhensen46 kennedyhensen46 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    rejectedhighly rejectedhighly 22-25, M Jun 9

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    I like white boys a lot

    but I feel as if none like me & bring me down when I feel rejected ..
    muhhryaa muhhryaa 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    Dating outside my race isn't taboo

    or anything. Besides, other races seem interesting to me.
    MisunderstoodGirl69 MisunderstoodGirl69 13-15, F May 19

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    I Dated a Mexican Once

    but i dont think that counts as 'outside my race' since technically i am part mexican. other than that though, its been only white guys. not cause i'm racist or anything. i grew up in a small town that was prominently white. there were some mexicans, but mostly gansta. i'm...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2008

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    I don't care about ethnicity all I do is learn

    to love someone who truly cares about me and loves me for the whole life I have and my past or if I fall in love with someone! :)
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response May 24

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    Interesting

    I've always been more interested in dating other races and nationalities (I guess I'm too interested in cultures/languages not to!) and all my boyfriends has been of a different ethnicity, lol. I dont know why, it just happened like that. I dont have a "thing" for a certain race...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Mar 1, 2014

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    I Can't Date Black Men.

    The reason why??? Oh my God, you'll have to sit down with a cup of coffee to hear this, but I won't go there. I have befriended every type of black man there is from the elite and well-versed to the poor and uneducated, and all in between. I do not get along with black men and I...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    What a terrible experience is all I can say!

    I once dated a black man who was mentally abusive, he also tore my insides out! It's true what they say about black men! I've dated two Latino men and they thought I was a slave, cook, clean, and preform sexual acts on demand. I felt like a monkey that does tricks! Not that I...
    JessL84 JessL84 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    Why Older Guys Are Better

    The older I get the more I think that men over 35 are much better. Now what I mean by that is I think the older we get the more we get it. I think I understand everything better life relationships mt work everything. When it comes to relationships and women I believe once you...
    Pro4424 Pro4424 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    I have been dating outside of my race

    for a couple of years now. I am pregnant by a black guy as well. I am having his twin biracial baby sons in a few days. I love interracial relationships. Yes, I have gone black and not coming back.
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    My fiance is part Italian,

    British, German and Irish.I always preferred white men.Of course I don't have nothing against any other race but I just love me some white chocolate lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9

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    I like all races.People

    who say I only like this particular race weird me out
    martinez93 martinez93 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 9

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    I am generally not attracted to caucasian men

    though I am a caucasian woman. I simply do not find the white skin tone attractive it looks feminine in my eyes. I am almost repulsed by pale men and I wish I had a deeper explanation as to why. I am attracted to black men and Hispanic men mainly. I do not date black men who can...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 2