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I Date Outside of My Race

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    Why Not?

    Its not the race that makes a person, its the soul that makes them. A persons soul is the one I fall for, not anything else. Yes, we all have our opinions on who we are physically attracted to, and have a spark with. The main spark is who you are together, what makes you one with...
    realityvsdream realityvsdream 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    Boyfriend Of Different Race

    I have a boyfriend who is of a different race. I don't think it's a big deal lol. Race shouldn't matter anyway.
    turbur turbur 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    Never Have I Ever

    ...dated a white, American girl. I would date white girls obviously when I was in high school because, well, there's not a whole lot of racial diversity in Eastern Europe besides "them." I've been with black girls, Indian girls, Filipino girls, Lebanese girls, and...
    Tricz Tricz 21-25, M 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Is It Me ?

    I've dated outside my race before , but when it comes to meeting New people I find that there is like A stigma or awkwardness that prevents guys of other races from approaching me . .. Do you guys understand what I mean ? If so why is that ?
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 19 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Loving Different Race

    You know falling in love is really a magic itself why because you dont know when this struck you and who you will be attracted because our heart never stop admiring others heart when it beats for the woman or man you like it never stop and it blossom to wonderful relationship...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Interesting

    I've always been more interested in dating other races and nationalities (I guess I'm too interested in cultures/languages not to!) and all my boyfriends has been of a different ethnicity, lol. I dont know why, it just happened like that. I dont have a "thing" for a certain race...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    I Keep An Open Mind

    I've dated Korean, Chinese, Jamaican, Turkish ( blonde hair blue eyed hottie) and white. I don't have a preference per se. For me it's about chemistry.
    sp3gold sp3gold 36-40, M Oct 12, 2013

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    I Feel Like Im Not Attracted To My Own

    Whenever I see guys I either look at the Black or Asian especially black guys. Don't get me wrong I don't have no problem with my own kind there are so nice people I know like most of my friends. I actually have ex bf's who are white I wasn't always like this I feel like this...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    I have dated outside my race

    for 17 years now. I absolutely love white men and they love me too. I have been married for four years now and we have three beautiful biracial babies.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I Can't Help Who I'm Attracted To

    I have nothing against my own race. I've dated blacks, whites, and hispanics. But I can't help who I'm attracted to. Everyone has their preferences appearance wise. When you first see someone, you don't think "wow, they have a great personality". You see their appearance first...
    BruklynM BruklynM 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    My perfect woman: Latino

    or Indian Intelligent, creative and knows her own mind hopes to start a family eventually with the right partner If you think this is you send me a message I'm looking for a spark
    klain45 klain45 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Oreos..

    I'm really starting to hate being with white men cause all they want is $ex. it goes the same for black but they at least have passion about it. I tried dating white guys and I cant do it. I guess Im more into variety and being different so I either go out with Spanish or black...
    Shadowroza Shadowroza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Globe Trotter Haha!

    I've dated guys from South Africa, Italy, Australia, New Zealand, the Philippines, Ghana, Mexico, Puerto Rico, Iraq, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, and many parts of the United States. I definitely don't discriminate lol.
    lissyk17 lissyk17 18-21 4 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    I can't really say this 100%,

    since I've only ever dated two guys. The first one was a quarter black, and my current boyfriend is Hispanic. I am as white as you come. But that's fine, most of my friends are all different races.
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    When You Thought You Were Dating

    Me and this guy have been flirting for a while now. I known this guy for three years and he's always been trying to get with me. He's always been asking me out but I'd always brush him off. A week or two ago he asked me again and this time I was thinking of yes just never said...
    lilmrswiffy lilmrswiffy 16-17, M Nov 24, 2013

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    My Past, My Present, My Future.

    When I was 13 years old and in junior high, I had no friends. I was anti-social and didn't even interact with my family. I tried committing suicide but obviously I didn't succeed. I am kind of happy that it didn't. I was on an anime (Japanese cartoon) streaming site looking...
    vampiremint8 vampiremint8 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2013

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    I absolutely date outside my race

    and have been doing so for a year now. I love dating black guys and it is not just because of the BBC either. I enjoy the way I am treated by them when we are together.
    hillaryateenagefemale hillaryateenagefemale 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    Skin Tone

    I don't care what color your skin is or where you're from as long as we get along and like each other thats all that matters
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2013

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    All The Time

    all ways did .not to be diffrent or any thing but im so attracted to men with dark hair and accents and swarthy good looks.....i have found its super difficult ,right now im in the south ,and here people still think black, and white dating is a huge thing.......lol no give me a...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    White Guy Lover

    I've always had a fetish for Caucasian men. Their are so many handsome ones out their. They seem to like me more then black guys . Black guy I've been around only got after the big booty chicks I'm not one them . Sense I talk proper they think I'm weird. White guys don't seem to...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    Melted Pot

    I was raised not to be racist, in fact I find it really stupid to judge someone because of their nationality. We're all just people living life, and everyone deserves the same amount of respect. I am Mexican, Italian, and Irish. I've dated white guys, Mexican guys, black guys...
    EmylovesBen EmylovesBen 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Never The Same

    I have never dated a black guy, where I live is manly white guys, I'm not sure dating a black guy is something I would do tbh .. I think I may be a cocoanut
    alexbby alexbby 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    I Do But I Don't

    I consider myself raceless and a universal soul. My mother is English but has haplotype K blood, which places her origins in Iran or there abouts, my fathers Jamaican but has Scottish, Tao Indian and African heritage, A mutation on my blood gives me a African Mali connection, so...
    queenlion queenlion 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    So.. I Date Outside My Race?

    Yes, I date outside my race. I am black but I like white, Asian, Italian, and all others! I accept all other men. As long as they met my criteria personality-wise.. Outside appearance doesn't matter as much. Black guys aren't out of the picture! I still do like black!
    kennedyhensen46 kennedyhensen46 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    I Love Dating Period

    For the past 37 years that I have been on this planet, I have dated both in and out of my race for 23 years. In both races, I have found great catches, average catches, and no catches at all ever. For me, it just depended upon what I wanted to accomplish in life. I chose the...
    blacksinglemom blacksinglemom 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I only date white girls,

    hispanic girls,an lightskin girls, i love white girls they are just so beautiful, i love hispanic girls they are just so sexy, i love lightskin girls they r so cute
    moet16 moet16 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    I am open to other races.

    this does not mean I am accepted by others. I like men of all races, cultures or religion. I think anything is possible with compromise and hard work. I am not ashamed of my race, I would not put down whom I am. I am wanting to understand to be understood and to take delight in...
    tandee tandee 31-35 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm Hispanic and I think most Hispanic women

    are gorgeous but as in a relationship or dating, i just don't get along with women of my own race. That sounds a bit racist now that I think of it but its not hurtful thoughts towards dating women of the same race I just prefer to date outside of my race because being introduced...
    misternobrain misternobrain 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Dating outside of my race

    or ethnicity has so far been my experience. I was always particularly attracted to Caucasian women and recently Asian women. As a black male, I never felt the need to be constrained by race or ethnicity. From what I have heard, and even seen, there are some black women that...
    NinjaGuide321 NinjaGuide321 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    Other Race

    I have dated outside my race since I was 16. I have always been attracted to other races. I have nothing against the brothers. Its just my preference. Im currently looking. What I love about other is the ambition and the drive. They are romantic and adventrous.
    swirlingindallas swirlingindallas 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2013

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    Usually You See This But Wat About This?

    You walk down the street and you see more and more interracial couples now a days. That's awesome. Except it's always the black guys with some kind of different type of woman. Actually, i shouldn't say always but mostly. Well, i am dating a white guy. We have been together for...
    LuckieCharmz93 LuckieCharmz93 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    I Have to

    I date outside my race because it would be almost impossible to date inside my race, such is the multiplicity of my pedigree... I am Louisiana Creole, or at least that's what I choose to identify as.  Typically, LA Creoles are a mixture of Native American, African, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 9, 2007

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    I date outside of my race

    because I am tired of the constant insults hurled at me from guys of my own race.
    Lemondrops25 Lemondrops25 26-30, F Dec 8, 2013

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    Definitely!

    I am a black lesbian from Cape Town South Africa and i definitely love me some white chocolate lol! It is strange really...I do not intentionally exclude black women but my dating history speaks for itself. Perhaps it is the social setting that provides the opportunity for me to...
    ByTheWillowTree ByTheWillowTree 26-30 Jul 22, 2013

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    Changing To Liking Asian Men

    I have only dated outside my race, I enjoyed the contrast of beautiful brown skin against my white skin ummm. But have only dated one other race, but now I am drawn to Asians. I find them extremely attractive, and I love light skin and brown. Interesting I have never liked a...
    lovehutz lovehutz 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    I don't know why but I seem to like dating

    outside my race. It's like there are just more advantages with dating other races. I don't have a particular race in mind because I date any race because of the culture and the upbringing which just seems wonderful. From what I've seen on YouTube, many cultures have a rich and...
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M Mar 7

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    The three boyfriends Ive had dated,

    were all "outside my race". I'm Puerto Rican and the first boyfriend I had, was Caucasian (American). The second boyfriend I had was of mixed race mixed with Italian, Black, a little bit of Chinese and White. And the. My third and last boyfriend is half Peruvian and half
    kalaniesmommy143 kalaniesmommy143 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I only date white guys

    and occasionaly mexicans.. I just love interacial relationships and im deff gunna pop out some mixed babies with one of them lol.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Race Is A Lie

    I belong to the human race.
    bluewatersgirl bluewatersgirl 41-45, F May 16, 2012

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    Whatever Tickles Your Pickle

    i have always been attracted to black and latino men.  not too many times have i been attracted to white men, but thats just my preference.  oh, and i'm white, by the way.  i have come across adversity of course.  whenever i hear people say racism is going...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 21-25, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    I Dated a Mexican Once

    but i dont think that counts as 'outside my race' since technically i am part mexican. other than that though, its been only white guys. not cause i'm racist or anything. i grew up in a small town that was prominently white. there were some mexicans, but mostly gansta. i'm...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2008

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    I Can't Date Black Men.

    The reason why??? Oh my God, you'll have to sit down with a cup of coffee to hear this, but I won't go there. I have befriended every type of black man there is from the elite and well-versed to the poor and uneducated, and all in between. I do not get along with black men and I...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    Rainbow Love

    My type of men involve the following. I love brains. I like a guy who is clever and intelligent. He can speak of a range of different subjects with lissome efforts. He is mentally independent and owns strong beliefs that govern his life. I love assertiveness. Although he is...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    I Can Only Speak For Myself But It Is Where My Heart Is

    I think Black men are simply more attractive, more handsome, better attitude, more masculine, more interesting in general. They are still real men in my feminine female mind.Yes, I am white, a white woman who wants to be with Black men.Oh, sure their skin color is electrifying...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    I date black men because no other race has ever payed me any attention and as well I am attracted to black men
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Because black men are the only race that I find attractive (not discriminating just my personal preference). They're passionate about what they love. They're tall, the way they...
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My Wacky Race car is still on the drawing board but it will be called the - Rolls CanHardly Special and it will be driven by Grounds Keeper Nanoose. It will look exactly like the...
    Nanoose Nanoose 51-55, M Mar 20

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    I think that there is too many people looking for relationships through this app/website, if you're looking for someone special, go to a bar/library/club/blind date. But honestly...
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    So there I was outside her parents house in the car making out with her , couldn't hold it anymore and whizzed on a big oak tree five feet away. I think that was our last date .
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    My last date we went to dinner and walked around campus. We found a bench under some trees and made out for hours. A very sensual date. More please.
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    So my boyfriend bought a ticket for us to go to a dinner, a 100 dollar dinner! He saved his money for me! Anyway, we went to our lunchroom, which was set up fancy. After we ate...
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