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I Date Outside of My Race

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    Even though I never get the chance to

    because my parents are always finding out about who I'm dating and ruin everything .
    jacedrew jacedrew 16-17, M Aug 2

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    Interesting

    I've always been more interested in dating other races and nationalities (I guess I'm too interested in cultures/languages not to!) and all my boyfriends has been of a different ethnicity, lol. I dont know why, it just happened like that. I dont have a "thing" for a certain race...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    What a terrible experience is all I can say!

    I once dated a black man who was mentally abusive, he also tore my insides out! It's true what they say about black men! I've dated two Latino men and they thought I was a slave, cook, clean, and preform sexual acts on demand. I felt like a monkey that does tricks! Not that I...
    JessL84 JessL84 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 5

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    When You Thought You Were Dating

    Me and this guy have been flirting for a while now. I known this guy for three years and he's always been trying to get with me. He's always been asking me out but I'd always brush him off. A week or two ago he asked me again and this time I was thinking of yes just never said...
    lilmrswiffy lilmrswiffy 18-21, M Nov 24, 2013

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    I am open to other races.

    this does not mean I am accepted by others. I like men of all races, cultures or religion. I think anything is possible with compromise and hard work. I am not ashamed of my race, I would not put down whom I am. I am wanting to understand to be understood and to take delight in...
    tandee tandee 31-35 3 Responses Jan 9

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    My perfect woman: Latino

    or Indian Intelligent, creative and knows her own mind hopes to start a family eventually with the right partner If you think this is you send me a message I'm looking for a spark
    klain45 klain45 26-30, M Apr 17

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    I Refuse To Date My Race!

    Here it goes! I believe meeting other people is very fascinating. I love to know other cultures and get involved with them. I was born in Puerto Rico, a beautiful Caribbean island to the west of the virgin islands. Though I was born and raised in my culture I really never felt...
    OutcastedDaughter OutcastedDaughter 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    I only date white guys

    and occasionaly mexicans.. I just love interacial relationships and im deff gunna pop out some mixed babies with one of them lol.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Changing To Liking Asian Men

    I have only dated outside my race, I enjoyed the contrast of beautiful brown skin against my white skin ummm. But have only dated one other race, but now I am drawn to Asians. I find them extremely attractive, and I love light skin and brown. Interesting I have never liked a...
    lovehutz lovehutz 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    I have been dating outside of my race

    for a couple of years now. I am pregnant by a black guy as well. I am having his twin biracial baby sons in a few days. I love interracial relationships. Yes, I have gone black and not coming back.
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I absolutely date outside my race

    and have been doing so for a year now. I love dating black guys and it is not just because of the BBC either. I enjoy the way I am treated by them when we are together.
    hillaryateenagefemale hillaryateenagefemale 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I Keep An Open Mind

    I've dated Korean, Chinese, Jamaican, Turkish ( blonde hair blue eyed hottie) and white. I don't have a preference per se. For me it's about chemistry.
    sp3gold sp3gold 36-40, M Oct 12, 2013

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    Why Not?

    Its not the race that makes a person, its the soul that makes them. A persons soul is the one I fall for, not anything else. Yes, we all have our opinions on who we are physically attracted to, and have a spark with. The main spark is who you are together, what makes you one with...
    realityvsdream realityvsdream 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    White girls only...some asian too

    but I usually only date white girls...I can't see nyself dating my own race. The black girls where I'm from are all against white girls "taking thier men"
    cmicsilvels cmicsilvels 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    So.. I Date Outside My Race?

    Yes, I date outside my race. I am black but I like white, Asian, Italian, and all others! I accept all other men. As long as they met my criteria personality-wise.. Outside appearance doesn't matter as much. Black guys aren't out of the picture! I still do like black!
    kennedyhensen46 kennedyhensen46 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Oreos..

    I'm really starting to hate being with white men cause all they want is $ex. it goes the same for black but they at least have passion about it. I tried dating white guys and I cant do it. I guess Im more into variety and being different so I either go out with Spanish or black...
    Shadowroza Shadowroza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Dating outside of my race

    or ethnicity has so far been my experience. I was always particularly attracted to Caucasian women and recently Asian women. As a black male, I never felt the need to be constrained by race or ethnicity. From what I have heard, and even seen, there are some black women that...
    NinjaGuide321 NinjaGuide321 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    Never The Same

    I have never dated a black guy, where I live is manly white guys, I'm not sure dating a black guy is something I would do tbh .. I think I may be a cocoanut
    alexbby alexbby 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    I Feel Like Im Not Attracted To My Own

    Whenever I see guys I either look at the Black or Asian especially black guys. Don't get me wrong I don't have no problem with my own kind there are so nice people I know like most of my friends. I actually have ex bf's who are white I wasn't always like this I feel like this...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    At the end of the day!

    Why the hell do we have female and male different nationalities, ethnicities, backgrounds colors, interests, dislikes, beliefs etc if we're not supposed to mingle and date and make love etc. it doesn't make sense!
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I have dated outside my race

    for 17 years now. I absolutely love white men and they love me too. I have been married for four years now and we have three beautiful biracial babies.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Whatever Tickles Your Pickle

    i have always been attracted to black and latino men.  not too many times have i been attracted to white men, but thats just my preference.  oh, and i'm white, by the way.  i have come across adversity of course.  whenever i hear people say racism is going...
    snobunny826 snobunny826 21-25, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I Love Interracial Relationships!

    I am very open minded and enthusiastic about interracial relationships! I love learning about different cultures and enjoy all kinds of different foods and cuisines as well as music, dancing, culture and customs. I love dating white women, black women, Asian women, Hispanic...
    bighungryshark bighungryshark 41-45, M Oct 17, 2012

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    I Can Only Speak For Myself But It Is Where My Heart Is

    I think Black men are simply more attractive, more handsome, better attitude, more masculine, more interesting in general. They are still real men in my feminine female mind.Yes, I am white, a white woman who wants to be with Black men.Oh, sure their skin color is electrifying...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    I'm Hispanic and I think most Hispanic women

    are gorgeous but as in a relationship or dating, i just don't get along with women of my own race. That sounds a bit racist now that I think of it but its not hurtful thoughts towards dating women of the same race I just prefer to date outside of my race because being introduced...
    misternobrain misternobrain 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I have been dating outside my race

    for three decades now. I love and enjoy their individual and beautiful BBCs , that is a given, but I love how they put life's struggles, strife, racism, and discrimination behind them. They are positive and look to the future and not behind them. I put many things behind me...
    femalecelebratingfreedom femalecelebratingfreedom 41-45, F 1 Response May 25

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    I can't really say this 100%,

    since I've only ever dated two guys. The first one was a quarter black, and my current boyfriend is Hispanic. I am as white as you come. But that's fine, most of my friends are all different races.
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Loving Different Race

    You know falling in love is really a magic itself why because you dont know when this struck you and who you will be attracted because our heart never stop admiring others heart when it beats for the woman or man you like it never stop and it blossom to wonderful relationship...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    I Can't Date Black Men.

    The reason why??? Oh my God, you'll have to sit down with a cup of coffee to hear this, but I won't go there. I have befriended every type of black man there is from the elite and well-versed to the poor and uneducated, and all in between. I do not get along with black men and I...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    I wouldnt have chosen the word "race"

    but okay! I'm one of these...i'm only attracted by people that dont look like me or come from my world if i may say...i'm a caucasian guy lover...and i cant help it...it pains me to turn down guys that arent attractive to me even tho they seem perfect or really great....hell...
    octoberspring octoberspring 26-30, F Jan 22

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    Why Older Guys Are Better

    The older I get the more I think that men over 35 are much better. Now what I mean by that is I think the older we get the more we get it. I think I understand everything better life relationships mt work everything. When it comes to relationships and women I believe once you...
    Pro4424 Pro4424 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Real Story

    Found myself not on the same vib with those back home. For some reason, they couldnt understand why im going out with foreigners. I do not think theres any wrong with it. By coincident, i have never going out with anyone from my race.
    ketogluta ketogluta 22-25 Aug 23, 2013

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    I Do But I Don't

    I consider myself raceless and a universal soul. My mother is English but has haplotype K blood, which places her origins in Iran or there abouts, my fathers Jamaican but has Scottish, Tao Indian and African heritage, A mutation on my blood gives me a African Mali connection, so...
    queenlion queenlion 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I have been dating outside my race

    for over 30 years. I first started at age 13 with a black guy. I went to the junior and senior proms with black guys. I dated both black and white guys in college. I married a white man at age 24. I was 9 months pregnant when we got married. My husband shares me with two...
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I have been dating outside my race

    for 23 years now. I love and adore men outside my race. We always have a great time when dating. We are always in agreement on what to do and where to go for dates.
    momnakedingarden momnakedingarden 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 5

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    Never Have I Ever

    ...dated a white, American girl. I would date white girls obviously when I was in high school because, well, there's not a whole lot of racial diversity in Eastern Europe besides "them." I've been with black girls, Indian girls, Filipino girls, Lebanese girls, and...
    Tricz Tricz 21-25, M 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Is It Me ?

    I've dated outside my race before , but when it comes to meeting New people I find that there is like A stigma or awkwardness that prevents guys of other races from approaching me . .. Do you guys understand what I mean ? If so why is that ?
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I Dated a Mexican Once

    but i dont think that counts as 'outside my race' since technically i am part mexican. other than that though, its been only white guys. not cause i'm racist or anything. i grew up in a small town that was prominently white. there were some mexicans, but mostly gansta. i'm...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2008

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    Melted Pot

    I was raised not to be racist, in fact I find it really stupid to judge someone because of their nationality. We're all just people living life, and everyone deserves the same amount of respect. I am Mexican, Italian, and Irish. I've dated white guys, Mexican guys, black guys...
    EmylovesBen EmylovesBen 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    Okay, I don't see how its racist to want to

    date outside of your race. There are some people that would never date outside of their race. Does that make them racist? It seems nobody has a problem if you "stick to your own kind". But if a white guy is holding hands with a black women, oh no, we're in trouble here because...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I only date white girls,

    hispanic girls,an lightskin girls, i love white girls they are just so beautiful, i love hispanic girls they are just so sexy, i love lightskin girls they r so cute
    moet16 moet16 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Race Is A Lie

    I belong to the human race.
    bluewatersgirl bluewatersgirl 41-45, F May 16, 2012

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    I date outside of my race

    because I am tired of the constant insults hurled at me from guys of my own race.
    Lemondrops25 Lemondrops25 26-30, F Dec 8, 2013

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    I don't know why but I seem to like dating

    outside my race. It's like there are just more advantages with dating other races. I don't have a particular race in mind because I date any race because of the culture and the upbringing which just seems wonderful. From what I've seen on YouTube, many cultures have a rich and...
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M Mar 7

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    White Guy Lover

    I've always had a fetish for Caucasian men. Their are so many handsome ones out their. They seem to like me more then black guys . Black guy I've been around only got after the big booty chicks I'm not one them . Sense I talk proper they think I'm weird. White guys don't seem to...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    I Can't Help Who I'm Attracted To

    I have nothing against my own race. I've dated blacks, whites, and hispanics. But I can't help who I'm attracted to. Everyone has their preferences appearance wise. When you first see someone, you don't think "wow, they have a great personality". You see their appearance first...
    BruklynM BruklynM 16-17, F Nov 10, 2013

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    Rainbow Love

    My type of men involve the following. I love brains. I like a guy who is clever and intelligent. He can speak of a range of different subjects with lissome efforts. He is mentally independent and owns strong beliefs that govern his life. I love assertiveness. Although he is...
    JeuneCirque JeuneCirque 18-21, F Jun 19, 2013

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    I Love Dating Period

    For the past 37 years that I have been on this planet, I have dated both in and out of my race for 23 years. In both races, I have found great catches, average catches, and no catches at all ever. For me, it just depended upon what I wanted to accomplish in life. I chose the...
    blacksinglemom blacksinglemom 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    It can be so exhausting. Sometimes I wonder if it is harder to date someone with depression than it is to actually have depression. I have to battle it too. I have a choice to...
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    ^^^^^ Pic Above^^^^^^ Are you ******* kidding me? "black people's attitude"?!? "born playing the race card"?!? No I'm not black but I find this totally out of line. She (as well as...
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    So, I am Native American and where I live there are plenty of them. Many of my friends are hispanic and to them, my race is a joke. I constantly hear how Native Americans are...
    anonn93 anonn93 18-21 2 Responses Aug 27

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