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I Dated a Bunch of Losers

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    All the Wrong Ones

    i was always attracted to the 'bad boy' type,,,the meaner, tougher, cooler they looked, the more i wanted them *sighs* i think to some degree i still am.  I shallowly, hee hee,,,always wanted a tall, dark, MUSCULAR guy that stood over me, overpowered me and i could swing...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2007

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    Simply the Wrong Guys

    I think I am going after all the wrong guys. I always want what I can't have, but isn't that true with everyone? My first boyfriend, Jay, was really sweet and wonderful, but it turned out that neither of us liked each other more than a friend. The next was Stuart, he was amazing...
    breakingbenjamin67 breakingbenjamin67 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2007

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    Oh Man!

    You name it and I've dated them!! Talk about issues lol! Now I'm not judgemental - really I'm not, but these guys just were something else! One guy I dated used was a brother of a guy friend I had. At first he seemed really decent.... then little parts of his life came out...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2008

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    Bad Boys

    I typically date musicians (which is probably my first mistake right there lol) the thing is, I'm a musician and am very passionate about it and I want to date someone who is in love with music like I am... maybe I'm just down, but these guys have all treated me crappy in...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88 18-21, F Apr 20, 2008

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    Funny Story

    i'm browsing experience groups and i stumble upon "I've dated a bunch of losers" and i think Oh thats me.....i need to join this group....haha and i went to click the me too and I was already a part of this group...hehe
    worthmorethanyoutreatedme worthmorethanyoutreatedme 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    And...a List...

    Raliegh: This kid I dated when I was in 9th grade. We were only dating for around a month when he started saying that he loved me and wanted to marry me. Needless to say, I freaked out. He then started to make up all these sob stories and try and get my mom to let him live with...
    pinkspikes pinkspikes 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    It's Necessary.

    I know exactly what I DON"T want in a man. Maybe I'm unsure of what I do want but I know which red flags I'm looking for. That can only be beneficial.   ....Right? Ha
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F Nov 18, 2007

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    Empty

    I am 48, married for 29 yrs to a wonderful woman. I have two grown daughter ers and a 6 yr old granddaughter. My oldest and her husband and our granddaughter live with us. It is great having my granddaughter there all the time. She is my little buddy. I have had quite a few...
    Elkhunter64 Elkhunter64 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    Who's The Victim Here?

    I've dated a couple losers, but only one really sticks out in my mind. I haven't talked to him (by choice) in 1.5 years. I was reminded of his existence yesterday- when he had the balls to call me after about a year of silence. I was driving with my current boyfriend (W), who...
    hardware hardware 22-25, F Apr 14, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    All the guys I dated I always thought were nice and the good kind. I meet men that were into church, good with their families, polite, respectful, and sweet. These men went out...
    brownbluelips26 brownbluelips26 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    She wasn't so much mean as he was a smart ***. It was a guy I dated who has recently I've his PhD in mathematics philosophy. He speaks down to everyone and cannot handle stress...
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I was in a mental hospital. I received a letter saying that my boyfriend had committed suicide because he was stressed out about me being gone and that all my so what called...
    morganmavina morganmavina 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I dated a man who was 12 years older than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I dated a guy who was 10 years older. It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 18-21 Mar 30

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    When I was 28, I dated a fun, energetic 18 year old for about 4 months. It was just a fling, and was never very serious, but we had a lot of fun before she moved off to college.
    txaggie00 txaggie00 31-35, M Apr 9

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    I think I have feelings for someone that I met online, but haven't met in person yet. Anyone with similar experiences to share?
    aprettybrowneyedgirl aprettybrowneyedgirl 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 19

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    They held high religious values and they some how found out I'm an atheist and yea it didn't turn out to good they made up reasons like a motorcycle is dangerous our she drinks to...
    Imbatgirl Imbatgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Girls can be ******** to guys too, it's not always the innocent girl in the relationship getting hurt- guys get hurt all the time but they're not allowed to show it, so i will in...
    Gerald6 Gerald6 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I met my current boyfriend online on twitter. I've had my reservations about online dating since Catfish came out , but he seemed great, so I though "hey, what the heck, why miss...
    peaceloveindigo peaceloveindigo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I actually met him online. He lived in Europe and I in the US. We fell madly in love, and were in a long distance relationship for 2.5 yrs before I finally was strong enough to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 27

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    and it was so ****** up i really regret it. i can never be the same after him. i feel so disgusting. i feel used and abused and just ******
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    One brother, then the other. Extremely different actually. I think I got the evil one first, but the last one is a confessed murderer... Hmm
    lambertsgrin lambertsgrin 31-35, F Apr 2

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    But I got very sick for a week n she broke up since she said she felt like I placed her on the back burner
    funphd funphd 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    When I was sixteen I embarked on a 15 year fling with a man 20 years older. He took me home on the first night and just gave me oral. It rocked my world. A lot to be said for...
    36EGirl 36EGirl 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 3

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    I used to say i'd nvr date anyone under 18 until I met my ex and by the time she told me how young she was just short of 16 i'd already fallen hard for her obviously we had to be...
    bonzie87 bonzie87 26-30, M Apr 6

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    Whoever knew me before I decided I was gay knows who adrian was
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F Apr 9

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    I first met her when I moved primary school we got on quite well at first I was not attracted to her but one day that all changed I don't know how it happened I just got this...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I am so self conscious and have so much social anxiety I never had the courage to date somone
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Never been on a date which really isn't surprising when you consider the fact that guys don't approach me. Dating seems fun, hopefully I'll get to do it soon😊 I haven't really...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I was a teenager in the early to mid 1980's the time when it felt like HIV was going to be a world wide epidemics you'd see in one of those zombie films. I'm not a perfectly...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    And I really don't have the desire to do so. Sure, I find some white men attractive, but its not instantaneous, I almost have to force it.
    roMANtic14 roMANtic14 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Hawaii (favorite!), Oregon, Washington, Colorado (2nd) Kansas, Illinois, Indiana, Michigan, Texas, Louisiana, Mississippi, Georgia, Florida (3rd), The Carolinas, West Virginia...
    SgrKtn420 SgrKtn420 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's definitely more so the unavailable than don't like me. In this story I'm going to talk about several different guys. I'll mention their name at the beginning of each story...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    ...and he is not my husband! I fell out of love with my husband 5 years(?) into the marriage. He traveled a lot with his job and we were in the middle of building our home,leaving...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    By normal, I mean families who aren't like the Brady Bunch. My family is pretty darned perfect. I mean, we have color coded wash towels and iPads. We have assigned seats at the...
    ashleycorson ashleycorson 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    Some people are born in the state of ignorance and never leave that address !!! I work with a bunch of em....lol No use in being stupid unless you can prove it !!!
    AgingGracefully AgingGracefully 51-55, M 3 hrs ago

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    This just came to my mind and I could stop thinking of it. •Suicide/Self Injuring• I have a friend who injures herself so that she can get peace in her and stop thinking of...
    Planetweird Planetweird 16-17, F Mar 29

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    TMI.... Or not enough? A week ago I had no idea what renal colic was. I knew it was bad and not something I wanted. A week ago a baby was still not entirely out of the question...
    owchimama owchimama 31-35, F Mar 25

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    ok so this is long. sorry:) so it all started at the begging of this year (i had known him last year but only like his name) he was in my hr and we got talking and just hit it off...
    IsaAAE IsaAAE 13-15, F Mar 26

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    I have seen and experienced my fair share of things in life. Paranormal things has always been an interest and is inherently in the family. I also trained at my uncles development...
    Valtielislord Valtielislord 18-21, M Mar 27

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    My story is super long I hope someone can Help me out wit my experience ? When I was in middles school I was overweight maybe even obese and I had a hard time getting guys...
    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    So my ex (who claimed he still liked me) is now dating one of my kind of distant friends. We only dated for one day, but we broke up because he "wasn't ready for a relationship...
    gracetheface gracetheface 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So my ex (who claimed he still liked me) is now dating one of my kind of distant friends. We only dated for one day, but we broke up because he "wasn't ready for a relationship...
    gracetheface gracetheface 13-15, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    "Day-O (The Banana Boat Song)" Day-o, day-o Daylight come and me wan' go home Day, me say day, me say day, me say day Me say day, me say day-o Daylight come and me wan' go home...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I try so hard to find a good guy who is just genuinely a good person but when I do find someone I can connect to I find I'm never attracted to them, they can be extremely good...
    wonderwall12 wonderwall12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I mostly have trust issues because of bad past relationships. In my entire 18 years of living, I've dated 3 people. The first guy I dated for 2 years and he broke up with me via...
    agm0829 agm0829 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have a hard time falling in love . I've dated a guy for months but I never fell in love with him. He was in love with me because I was his first real girlfriend . Any guy I've...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    So long story short I dated a sociopath for 3 years. worst experience of my life. He destroyed everything about me....for fun. I was so helplessly in love with someone who didnt...
    IndependentGrl IndependentGrl 18-21, F