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I Dated a Bunch of Losers

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    Simply the Wrong Guys

    I think I am going after all the wrong guys. I always want what I can't have, but isn't that true with everyone? My first boyfriend, Jay, was really sweet and wonderful, but it turned out that neither of us liked each other more than a friend. The next was Stuart, he was amazing...
    breakingbenjamin67 breakingbenjamin67 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2007

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    Who's The Victim Here?

    I've dated a couple losers, but only one really sticks out in my mind. I haven't talked to him (by choice) in 1.5 years. I was reminded of his existence yesterday- when he had the balls to call me after about a year of silence. I was driving with my current boyfriend (W), who...
    hardware hardware 22-25, F Apr 14, 2011

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    Funny Story

    i'm browsing experience groups and i stumble upon "I've dated a bunch of losers" and i think Oh thats me.....i need to join this group....haha and i went to click the me too and I was already a part of this group...hehe
    worthmorethanyoutreatedme worthmorethanyoutreatedme 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    Guys

    the the guy i havee dated was pretty much losers the last one was named shane and he broke up with me cause of his mom said so now he is dating two girls and they are both my friens but when i try to tell them about that they dont listen to me what do i do now??
    ladonna14 ladonna14 13-15, F Jun 8, 2009

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    I am 48, married for 29 yrs to a wonderful woman. I have two grown daughter ers and a 6 yr old granddaughter. My oldest and her husband and our granddaughter live with us. It is great having my granddaughter there all the time. She is my little buddy. I have had quite a few...
    Elkhunter64 Elkhunter64 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    All the Wrong Ones

    i was always attracted to the 'bad boy' type,,,the meaner, tougher, cooler they looked, the more i wanted them *sighs* i think to some degree i still am.  I shallowly, hee hee,,,always wanted a tall, dark, MUSCULAR guy that stood over me, overpowered me and i could swing...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2007

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    They weren't losers, I couldn't find the

    appropriate topic to post this under 😅 but my story is that the guys I like never like me back so I end up dating guys that I'm not really interested in. It sucks because I know I'm leading them on and the relationships end really quickly. I just don't want to die alone that...
    rainyannyan rainyannyan 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Bad Boys

    I typically date musicians (which is probably my first mistake right there lol) the thing is, I'm a musician and am very passionate about it and I want to date someone who is in love with music like I am... maybe I'm just down, but these guys have all treated me crappy in...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88 18-21, F Apr 20, 2008

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    And...a List...

    Raliegh: This kid I dated when I was in 9th grade. We were only dating for around a month when he started saying that he loved me and wanted to marry me. Needless to say, I freaked out. He then started to make up all these sob stories and try and get my mom to let him live with...
    pinkspikes pinkspikes 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    Oh Man!

    You name it and I've dated them!! Talk about issues lol! Now I'm not judgemental - really I'm not, but these guys just were something else! One guy I dated used was a brother of a guy friend I had. At first he seemed really decent.... then little parts of his life came out...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2008

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    It's Necessary.

    I know exactly what I DON"T want in a man. Maybe I'm unsure of what I do want but I know which red flags I'm looking for. That can only be beneficial.   ....Right? Ha
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F Nov 18, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    It may include me too but 99.9 percent men on ep are losers for sure !!!! I know i expect men pouncing on me cuz of my story boy i stirred the bee hive lol
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 12 Responses Oct 10

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    One time I was in junior high and we were in the locker room. I was changing out of my gym clothes, when a bunch of guys grabbed me took my underwear off and threw me into the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 23

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    One time I was in junior high and we were in the locker room. I was changing out of my gym clothes, when a bunch of guys grabbed me took my underwear off and threw me into the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 23

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    im currently dating my best friend. im away at college and he is back home. it has gotten kinda rough. i know we can make it, but these nights of fighting have to stop. i really...
    Kjbrady Kjbrady 18-21, F Sep 22

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    Great to see al thoose weirdo,desperate,funny,wanting,searching,talking,sharing,cheeting,confessing,dreaming people together,a real party for the mind,an eye opener and the proof...
    zwellie zwellie 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    My mom used to punish me all of the time by stripping me naked in public. One time we went to my sisters school to picker her up. I was about seven and she was in junior high. We...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 23

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    Tomorrow night is my second "date" with Jacob. It's homecoming after the football game at his school. From what he's told me, we will go to the game and then to the dance...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Eventually, I would like to get everything down, but I'll lay down the bare bones here. My ex broke up with me then told me she had cancer. I was devastated. I felt horrendously...
    TheManInBlack1836 TheManInBlack1836 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    8 girls ina gorup including me. Every one of us is unique in a way, but together we're like a big family. There's Veronica, Jocelyn, Tess, Elaine, Bryna, Cherry and Jia Hui(no...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F Oct 1

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    So I feel like I need to say this story I've been keeping it in so long and guys/girls wonder why I can't date them it's because of this guy... I don't know how to let go...I've...
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I have never been in a serious relationship. Nor have I ever had a crush. There are times in the present and the past where I wanted a relationship. I do not have an urge to...
    Makalaster Makalaster 18-21, T Oct 8

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    Okay, So Around When I was 13, I Had Got On Facebook, And I Had This Boyfriend, we was messaging as usual (inboxing) and out of nowhere this guy (21 year old) messaged me saying...
    thatyoungkidd thatyoungkidd 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    And don't want to for a few years or so. There are certain goals I need to achieve before I would be ready to date such as eliminating **** from my life (it's not nearly as bad as...
    Philonous Philonous 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 50 mins ago

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    I'm scared I took a bunch of my pills even tho I know I didn't
    sydneycaroline sydneycaroline 16-17, F 39 mins ago

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    'Tis true. Sometimes that big chocolate covered piece of coconut tries to squeeze it's way into the bunch. Like a real a**hole. F*** you coconut, f*** you.
    SweetKrazyChill SweetKrazyChill 26-30, F 34 mins ago

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    “Because we began Virgin Atlantic, 16 of our seventeen initial competitors have long gone from enterprise (no prizes for naming the one particular who is still our rival...
    Wendolynce106 Wendolynce106 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    I don't know where to even begin. My life has been a tumultuous failure thus far. I'm 23. In that23 years there has been nothing but heartache, failure and misery. I suppose there...
    MissManaged MissManaged 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    I met a girl in 7th grade (she was in 8th). I was an awkward loser, and she was pretty and popular. We became friends a year later, after she moved to high school and I was still...
    captaintwig captaintwig 18-21, M Oct 8

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     So I just read that Anita Sarkeesian received yet another death threat, this time for doing a discussion at a university, and someone threatened to cause "the biggest mass...
    SourQueen SourQueen 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    THE GOP HAS NO HEALTH PLAN. THE GOP HAS NO JOB PLAN. THE GOP HAS NO PLAN TO PASS LEGISLATION. THE GOP HAD A PLAN TO MAKE OBAMA A 1-TERMER. THE GOP LOST. THE GOP ARE LOSERS. THE GOP...
    wombat456 wombat456 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 9

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    I'll try to make this simple, uncomplicated and as short as possible :) But I know it won't be, but it's interesting I think :p Annnd I would love ya if you respond and help me out...
    Maihowl Maihowl 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I'll try to make this simple, uncomplicated and as short as possible :) But I know it won't be, but it's interesting I think :p Annnd I would love ya if you respond and help me out...
    Maihowl Maihowl 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I am Asian. I was raised by family members who were themselves of mixed parentage. Most of them married outside our 'race'. It was so normal to us. And besides we live in a multi...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why did my bf pick me We dated then broke up He dated this girl She was beautiful and she was shorter than him She was a girly girl She wears make-up and she was just idk...
    lovelyweird lovelyweird 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I dated and had relationships with women for about 10 years before entering at ten-year committed relationship with a man. We live together now, but are in the process of...
    itspirit itspirit 36-40, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Ok so Im so happy that I'm talking to hugo/high school sweetheart i really like him now.The crazy thing is that we dated before in high school and during the time i dated him i...
    Goldcandle Goldcandle 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    I have seen another rerun episode of Wizards Of Waverly Place and it reminded me of my favorite episode of the series, one that deals with the emotionally impacting controversy of...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    This post is about the people I've met in Cambodia thus far. In general, the Cambodian people are a friendly bunch. Honestly I think it's been painted rather differently for me, I...
    N1C07A5 N1C07A5 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    So the beginning of senior year started out pretty awesome...I had my friends back and we were all cool, we were our own group again. Unlike how last year ended (hardly anyone got...
    beautifulher beautifulher 18-21, F Oct 7

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    My story is probably similar to a lot of people's but I just wanted to get it out there in the world to tell somebody how I feel. I've grown up in what many would call the...
    goodloot3 goodloot3 22-25, M 5 Responses Oct 10

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    In hindsight, I could have done many things differently. In reality this is what became of my life... I was born in the 70's and am a middle child. I have an older brother and...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    In hindsight, I could have done many things differently. In reality this is what became of my life... I was born in the 70's and am a middle child. I have an older brother and...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Think of all the pervs on this site, and I am the only member of this group. That's the thing I have against all these sex crazed losers on here, they're boring, no imagination...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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      We are the music makers, And we are the dreamers of dreams, Wandering by lone sea-breakers, And sitting by desolate streams;— World-losers and world-forsakers, On whom the...
    WhosGoingToStopMe WhosGoingToStopMe 31-35, F Sep 25

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    I think people who take drugs are losers. I don't have a problem with people drinking alcohol, but getting drunk only makes you look dumb. It's embarrassing to see someone like...
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 7 Responses Sep 26

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