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I Dated a Married Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 131 People

    Back In 1986

    I was dating a 29yr married man. I was 19 at the time. Did i love him? NO, was merely looking for an out of my situation at the time. He taught me alot including his wife. She taught me to make sure i get everything in black & white, some proof, evidence for blackmail later. He...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    I Did And I Regret It

    I dated a married man for about a month... we were colleagues and I had separated from my ex-husband, and was very vulnerable. Not to excuse my self I am just mentioning some of the "reasons" I had to do it. I regret it, a lot. I separated from my ex-husband after founding out...
    luzme luzme 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Lied to By a Married Man With a Pregnant Wife

    A very cute guy from work followed me into my break room and asked me out.  Of course i asked all the right questions.  ARe you married, have kids, where are you from.  How many sisters/brothers do you have.  Etc... But what i got was what i would find out...
    corngirl101 corngirl101 36-40, F 4 Responses May 15, 2009

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    toodles21 toodles21 41-45, F May 17, 2015

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    I Truly Feel In Love For the First Time...with a Married Man!

    " I dated a Married Man"...It all started one night 3 years ago when I, reluctantly, went to my friends birthday party. I say reluctantly, because I was tired and sun burnt from a day of fishing in the hot sun... I wanted nothing more than a cool shower and my bed! The...
    butterfly1202 butterfly1202 26-30 3 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    Embarrassing. But this is what is all about,

    right? I was walking my dog and I was coming back home when I saw my neighbor . He said he needed help from inside so I did. He told me it was on the top shelf . It was a box of chocolates he bought from his wife to give as a present when she would return from her trip. I gave...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 31, 2015

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    Teach Me the Way

     About ten years ago I was in college, majoring in English. Looking to find a bit of a social life, I joined the English club, which was run by the head of the Writing Center. I found the geeky pals and fun with word games and writing prompts that I expected. What I didn't...
    cutefactory cutefactory 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I Was the Other Woman...

    and it was the best love i've ever had. no one has made me happier, known me better, or let me be myself as much as he did.  I'll never regret it, only the fact that he couldn't bring himself to leave.  Everything I'd ever wanted in a man, plus, was embodied in him...
    simplycherie simplycherie 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    My Love Was True

    Yes, I have dated a married man. In fact, we lived together for over a year before I found out he was married. He came home every night; paid the bills, cooked and cleaned, told me he loved me every day, and the sex was out of this world. So why would I have even...
    pbbrown pbbrown 46-50 Oct 21, 2008

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    Vampire

    Well here goes, I met this great guy so to speak six months ago , we talked and texted often I ,should have trusted my gut about him I see that now , so here is a list that might help u see these emotional vam pires for who they are .He only texed, if I tried to call I had to...
    Rivechan Rivechan 31-35 Nov 19, 2012

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2014

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    My Experience

    When I was 22 I dated a 35 year guy. He told me he was divorced but the children still lived with him because his ex was having trouble. Since he didn’t want his children to know he was seeing other women we had to sneak around a lot. I would only go round his place during the...
    FoxyH FoxyH 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Ex-periance

      Met this guy , at night,  felt like I floated right to him , my intentions were not to hook up at all , I had other intentions, to get something I wanted..  We sat out front , on his porch and it surprised me that he drank the same beer as I did, King Cobra. ...
    jenaciesoto jenaciesoto 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2007

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    I am 23. I started talking to this mm 4 months

    ago. He is 32. He been married for 10 years. I have been in a verbal abuse relationship for 8 years. I thought i was nothing and still to this day think im nothing. Anyway i gave into this mm. First it was all about friends with benefits. I was ok with that i guess. Then maybe a...
    pinkstar06 pinkstar06 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Made a Mistake??

    I fell in love...in real love with an uncommon man, a very charming, not my type kinda of man. He was a married man. I fell in love and of course I was too deep in when I realized I couldnt walk away from it, even though I tried but maybe not hard enough. I undoubtedly believed...
    Lika Lika 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    My husband is a good man, his job is 24/7 on call plus scheduled 8 hr days. I never know when he will be home, change plans, or show up for our child. I chose to marry him at 18...
    Ineedlovetoo Ineedlovetoo 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    You pushed me down into the sadness I can surrender no truth down into this barren waste of a desert a wanderer, cast itself alone I begged you with no certain circumstance To...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M 5 hrs ago

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    i know its wrong but there's more to it than how it looks like. he's not happy with her, and i feel sorry for him for the way she has been treating her even before i came. he said...
    meandmyloudmind meandmyloudmind 31-35, F 6 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    contd ..so turns out mum died hed was devasted his father took ill at funeral too. so I txt him suggested we meet he said how ..so I said if u wanna stop seen n me tell me he txt...
    lemonsorbet51 lemonsorbet51 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    met him on line 3yrs ago just hook up sex only time putast I was feeling it was time maybe to end it move on he was having family probs home .so my thoughts got put aside he said...
    lemonsorbet51 lemonsorbet51 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    I too have an mm. And it's a similar situation except that I am and will always be a secret. I do not want more, I like that I have my own life and he has his.
    Mmforme Mmforme 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I find it amazing how many married women will go to bed with me. Many of them are freaks in bed and really get into it. A lot of these women are from out of town. Many are...
    selectivefun1000 selectivefun1000 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have been married to my N for 16 years. Last summer I went to see a counselor and after about 5 minutes she told me he was a N. Her next question I thought was kind of funny. She...
    beckyls beckyls 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I met him online. We dated. We fell in like. We fell in love. On the 1 year anniversary of our first date we got married. We are happy. I love happy endings!
    southerncaviar southerncaviar 56-60, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm in love with him,we've been go through this hard time for the past two years,i love him more than I've ever loved a man.he's special he loved his wife,but he loves me too.we...
    Sallina71 Sallina71 26-30 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi Guys, I need advice on how to get over a married woman I have been having an affair with for over 3 years. It all started when i began to give her tennis lessons at the country...
    soccerguy1989 soccerguy1989 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Who was also a manager at my place of work
    moodynpretty moodynpretty 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 30

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    Ok here goes....I used to be on here years ago but decided to quit because I thought I would be able to sort out my life ...but seemingly to no avail. So here is my story. I am...
    worldtravels123 worldtravels123 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    This is only partly about me, and my marriage. More importantly it's a summary of info that my wife and I stumbled upon a few years ago and it has been very helpful to us, and many...
    bbbboink bbbboink 56-60, M 6 Responses Jan 29

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    Well, I'm just going to spill my guts about the whole thing. I will preface this with the fact that for the past year I've felt like my husband and I have no connection at all. It...
    Rands664 Rands664 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I feel like having someone to stand me against the wall and look at me directly in my eyes very closely and tell me how much he loves me. In a very passionate manner, from deep of...
    Diego79 Diego79 36-40, F Jan 25

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    I have been married for just 3 years today (25 Jan) and having one daughter aged 2. Since our marriage, we don't really have sex much often. It's not that either of us having an...
    nazrule11 nazrule11 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    well im dating a guy 5 years younger than me and I'll say he treated me way better than the guy I dated was 5 years older than me. I just hope when time passes he doesn't get bored...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 22-25, F Jan 24

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    My ex-girlfriend, actually. We dated for years, split, and stayed friends. Now we are both in sexless marriages, and we've ended up quietly taking care of our needs with each other...
    ilc67 ilc67 46-50, M Jan 24

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    I can honestly say I wish I had never gotten married. we had our daughter a yr ago, and she has been so lazy for the last year. she sits around and does nothing all day long when...
    idkw2 idkw2 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    The heading "....Than Unhappily Married" is an understatement. Twice during my mid-adult years, my parents pressured me to seriously consider marrying a woman. Granted, a great...
    Dreamboy12 Dreamboy12 56-60, M Jan 23

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    I just can't take myself there. I prefer a man who's not taken. I'm selfish and like my man to myself as I would hope he's selfish and prefer to have me all to himself. I will chat...
    kittyluv78 kittyluv78 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Actually every woman/girl I've dated, including my ex, was younger than me. :-)
    tiger3cub8 tiger3cub8 46-50, M Jan 23

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    Really can't wait to get married ... But at the same time I wanna wait . I don't want to rush anything I see so many marriages fail . I always thought if you fell in love you...
    reddmarie reddmarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    This is an incident that has caught me by surprise, and shock. Yesterday was the first time I met with a client because I had to present him at court. After the hearing, I...
    mareliberum mareliberum 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Have you dated younger woman ??
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I don't know why, but I always seem to be a magnet for married men. I've had many who would flirt with me online and offline. I've also notice when I go places by myself, I would...
    CaliTexan37 CaliTexan37 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 22