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I Dated a Married Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 121 People

    I Was the Other Woman...

    and it was the best love i've ever had. no one has made me happier, known me better, or let me be myself as much as he did.  I'll never regret it, only the fact that he couldn't bring himself to leave.  Everything I'd ever wanted in a man, plus, was embodied in him...
    simplycherie simplycherie 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    I am 23. I started talking to this mm 4 months

    ago. He is 32. He been married for 10 years. I have been in a verbal abuse relationship for 8 years. I thought i was nothing and still to this day think im nothing. Anyway i gave into this mm. First it was all about friends with benefits. I was ok with that i guess. Then maybe a...
    pinkstar06 pinkstar06 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Made a Mistake??

    I fell in love...in real love with an uncommon man, a very charming, not my type kinda of man. He was a married man. I fell in love and of course I was too deep in when I realized I couldnt walk away from it, even though I tried but maybe not hard enough. I undoubtedly believed...
    Lika Lika 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2007

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    I Truly Feel In Love For the First Time...with a Married Man!

    " I dated a Married Man"...It all started one night 3 years ago when I, reluctantly, went to my friends birthday party. I say reluctantly, because I was tired and sun burnt from a day of fishing in the hot sun... I wanted nothing more than a cool shower and my bed! The...
    butterfly1202 butterfly1202 26-30 3 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    My Love Was True

    Yes, I have dated a married man. In fact, we lived together for over a year before I found out he was married. He came home every night; paid the bills, cooked and cleaned, told me he loved me every day, and the sex was out of this world. So why would I have even...
    pbbrown pbbrown 46-50 Oct 21, 2008

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    My Experience

    When I was 22 I dated a 35 year guy. He told me he was divorced but the children still lived with him because his ex was having trouble. Since he didn’t want his children to know he was seeing other women we had to sneak around a lot. I would only go round his place during the...
    FoxyH FoxyH 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2014

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    Lied to By a Married Man With a Pregnant Wife

    A very cute guy from work followed me into my break room and asked me out.  Of course i asked all the right questions.  ARe you married, have kids, where are you from.  How many sisters/brothers do you have.  Etc... But what i got was what i would find out...
    corngirl101 corngirl101 36-40, F 5 Responses May 15, 2009

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    Teach Me the Way

     About ten years ago I was in college, majoring in English. Looking to find a bit of a social life, I joined the English club, which was run by the head of the Writing Center. I found the geeky pals and fun with word games and writing prompts that I expected. What I didn't...
    cutefactory cutefactory 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Ex-periance

      Met this guy , at night,  felt like I floated right to him , my intentions were not to hook up at all , I had other intentions, to get something I wanted..  We sat out front , on his porch and it surprised me that he drank the same beer as I did, King Cobra. ...
    jenaciesoto jenaciesoto 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2007

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    Back In 1986

    I was dating a 29yr married man. I was 19 at the time. Did i love him? NO, was merely looking for an out of my situation at the time. He taught me alot including his wife. She taught me to make sure i get everything in black & white, some proof, evidence for blackmail later. He...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    Vampire

    Well here goes, I met this great guy so to speak six months ago , we talked and texted often I ,should have trusted my gut about him I see that now , so here is a list that might help u see these emotional vam pires for who they are .He only texed, if I tried to call I had to...
    Rivechan Rivechan 31-35 Nov 19, 2012

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    I Did And I Regret It

    I dated a married man for about a month... we were colleagues and I had separated from my ex-husband, and was very vulnerable. Not to excuse my self I am just mentioning some of the "reasons" I had to do it. I regret it, a lot. I separated from my ex-husband after founding out...
    luzme luzme 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I found EP specifically because I am a married man who is now in an affair with an OW. I stumbled across EP when I was googling for people with similar experiences. And in no...
    DeepXP DeepXP 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 14

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    My best friend and I went to Cuba for Christmas vacation. She had just completed her divorce and I was recently separated from my husband. My divorce will be final in the next few...
    CafeAuLeah CafeAuLeah 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    My co worker and I have been working together for close to a year and he is married and he asked me out today. He always flirts but never actually came out and said anything. I...
    mnc13085 mnc13085 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 26

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    I can't agree this more. I dislike married man talk to single ladies because they are lonely?? Give me a brake. I never wanna let them use me again. Just stay away from me. And...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F Mar 29

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    I tried to fight it, but I've fallen in love with a married man. He says I am the love of his life. We've only been together a few months. He is married with a 6 month old baby. I...
    uncloudedliberty uncloudedliberty 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm not quite sure if posting here will help me or not, and I realize that some responses will judge me, but I am sitting alone crying and not sure where to turn because as others...
    Julianne2222 Julianne2222 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I have been having an affair with a married man for 6 months now, the worst and best is that it's a complete secret, something I could never talk about with any of my friends. I...
    kittykitt kittykitt 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    Need some advice I'm married to a great sexy woman for 14 years. I think I've screwed around and let myself fall in love with a man I met. it's driving me crazy. He is also in a...
    txcowby8 txcowby8 41-45, M 5 Responses Apr 14

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    I have been in this affair with my MM for 6 months now. it's been a whirlwind of emotions of course. when we first met, I did not know he was married. about 4 months in and I...
    button3 button3 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    We work together. I always found him attractive but he was married. I love his personality. We began flirting. Then soon began asking each other the "who would you rather...
    OneStonedGirl OneStonedGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hi I'm new to the group. I comment a bit on another group but haven't felt like opening up yet. I should start by saying I am also married. In a way I feel like it's easier because...
    xoxoblueskyxoxo xoxoblueskyxoxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    why not???? is it because men become boring once they get married?
    wiredwolf wiredwolf 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    She sits just outside my office every day and I can't help but smile each time I pass by...she is about 20 years younger than me but each time we exchange even the simplest of...
    Micky7288 Micky7288 56-60 1 Response Mar 30

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    Today he kissed me again. I asked him if he was going to let me kiss him again. He wanted to but wasn't sure if I wanted to. It was 3am we went out for our cigarette break. He...
    OneStonedGirl OneStonedGirl 31-35, F Mar 31

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    I knew from a very young age that I was different from other people as far as thinking about boys. Back in the 70s it was not in least bit ok for same sex to be together, so like...
    masterbaker2 masterbaker2 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Yes. Yes. Yes. Older married men 😍😍😍😍
    idontbelongeanywhere idontbelongeanywhere 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    caraccaa caraccaa 26-30, F Apr 7

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I had an affair. It's been over a year. I don't think of him every minute anymore. He's still very much in my life. We were friends for many years before it grew. We did and do...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    It's crazy when I really stop and think about what I'm doing in my life and why am I in this situation. Am I a bad person? Is this supposed to teach me a lesson? How far will this...
    Starrzalign Starrzalign 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Yo ofrezco e invoco esta oración al espíritu del desespero y al santo ángel de la guarda de ella (decir nombre) y al santo ángel de la guarda él, (decir nombre) para que...
    anonimato anonimato 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    And just like that, it's over. He leaves for his overseas job assignment on Wednesday. It was a rough week - our schedules weren't lining up and I was afraid I wasn't going to...
    sarabear7 sarabear7 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I paused our get togethers after experiencing feelings of doubt a few weeks ago. Even though we only communicate via text, he seemed to know something was up (I've wondered more...
    sarabear7 sarabear7 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Today he asked me if I missed him this weekend. I didn't want to answer. The reason I'm so emotionally unavailable is because I don't say things out loud. It has only been a few...
    OneStonedGirl OneStonedGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    So we're back to this again! My MM's living situation with his family has been a little shaky for the past couple of months. For me it was great because we have been spending...
    button3 button3 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    who I work with... this is the first time he's warn his ring.... It's definitely a lot harder, to keep your self glued together at work, than it is at home. :'( I really just...
    lmjw1990 lmjw1990 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    MM didn't come to work today.. Out with his wife so I can't even text him. Sigh. Being the other woman is tough.
    complicatedsimplicity complicatedsimplicity 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 6

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    We had plans to see each other this morning. He was going to leave work to meet me for lunch after I got out of class. I haven't heard from him at all today. He probably got...
    littlewallflower1 littlewallflower1 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Hey if you do not mind I would like advice on this I am in my teens and I think this guy is my true love. He has taught me guitR lessons since I was 15. He has kids and a family...
    figureskate26 figureskate26 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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