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I Dated a Married Man

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    Vampire

    Well here goes, I met this great guy so to speak six months ago , we talked and texted often I ,should have trusted my gut about him I see that now , so here is a list that might help u see these emotional vam pires for who they are .He only texed, if I tried to call I had to...
    Rivechan Rivechan 31-35 Nov 19, 2012

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    I Did And I Regret It

    I dated a married man for about a month... we were colleagues and I had separated from my ex-husband, and was very vulnerable. Not to excuse my self I am just mentioning some of the "reasons" I had to do it. I regret it, a lot. I separated from my ex-husband after founding out...
    luzme luzme 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Teach Me the Way

     About ten years ago I was in college, majoring in English. Looking to find a bit of a social life, I joined the English club, which was run by the head of the Writing Center. I found the geeky pals and fun with word games and writing prompts that I expected. What I didn't...
    cutefactory cutefactory 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I am 23. I started talking to this mm 4 months

    ago. He is 32. He been married for 10 years. I have been in a verbal abuse relationship for 8 years. I thought i was nothing and still to this day think im nothing. Anyway i gave into this mm. First it was all about friends with benefits. I was ok with that i guess. Then maybe a...
    pinkstar06 pinkstar06 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Ex-periance

      Met this guy , at night,  felt like I floated right to him , my intentions were not to hook up at all , I had other intentions, to get something I wanted..  We sat out front , on his porch and it surprised me that he drank the same beer as I did, King Cobra. ...
    jenaciesoto jenaciesoto 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2007

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    Made a Mistake??

    I fell in love...in real love with an uncommon man, a very charming, not my type kinda of man. He was a married man. I fell in love and of course I was too deep in when I realized I couldnt walk away from it, even though I tried but maybe not hard enough. I undoubtedly believed...
    Lika Lika 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2007

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    Back In 1986

    I was dating a 29yr married man. I was 19 at the time. Did i love him? NO, was merely looking for an out of my situation at the time. He taught me alot including his wife. She taught me to make sure i get everything in black & white, some proof, evidence for blackmail later. He...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    I Was the Other Woman...

    and it was the best love i've ever had. no one has made me happier, known me better, or let me be myself as much as he did.  I'll never regret it, only the fact that he couldn't bring himself to leave.  Everything I'd ever wanted in a man, plus, was embodied in him...
    simplycherie simplycherie 19-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    Lied to By a Married Man With a Pregnant Wife

    A very cute guy from work followed me into my break room and asked me out.  Of course i asked all the right questions.  ARe you married, have kids, where are you from.  How many sisters/brothers do you have.  Etc... But what i got was what i would find out...
    corngirl101 corngirl101 36-40, F 5 Responses May 15, 2009

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    I Truly Feel In Love For the First Time...with a Married Man!

    " I dated a Married Man"...It all started one night 3 years ago when I, reluctantly, went to my friends birthday party. I say reluctantly, because I was tired and sun burnt from a day of fishing in the hot sun... I wanted nothing more than a cool shower and my bed! The...
    butterfly1202 butterfly1202 26-30 3 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    My Love Was True

    Yes, I have dated a married man. In fact, we lived together for over a year before I found out he was married. He came home every night; paid the bills, cooked and cleaned, told me he loved me every day, and the sex was out of this world. So why would I have even...
    pbbrown pbbrown 46-50 Oct 21, 2008

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    My Experience

    When I was 22 I dated a 35 year guy. He told me he was divorced but the children still lived with him because his ex was having trouble. Since he didn’t want his children to know he was seeing other women we had to sneak around a lot. I would only go round his place during the...
    FoxyH FoxyH 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Well tonight I was drunk and my married man came to watch me shoot pool. (I'm I a pool league) of course his wife came with him since I'm friends with his wife. We were all talking...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    Long story short, I'm inlove with a married man, who's 32. I'm 17 btw, he has a daughter who's one, his wife is due with their second child in a few months, and me and this man...
    Princessjaa Princessjaa 16-17, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had an affair with a married man.. At first I didn't know that until he told me after we started to get serious! I'm a 18 yr old guy who is gay. He is very DL which his wife didn...
    avabooboo avabooboo 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Married and had an affair with a married man at work. We've been trying to keep the friend thing going, talking occasionally, but when I think I'm over it those feeling come...
    artist7 artist7 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love him and he loves me. It was supposed to be a fling. I would never be involved with a married man... I was turned off when I first met him then he became my boss and I had to...
    EssAyyRrr EssAyyRrr 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    I was having an affair with a married man since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I am a married man and a few women have come to me asking for more than a friendship. I have turned them down but I have been tempted... Should I just give in and have a great time...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 7

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    i love a guy.. i'm loving him since 5 years.. n he love me too.. but i behaved in such a way that he never knew that i love him.. after 5 long years i decided to confess.. since he...
    9lilly 9lilly 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I met him almost 18 months ago, it was lightening.. incredible chemistry immediately. I had never experienced anything like it in my life... I remember the day, I remember...
    Scorpionchild Scorpionchild 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    On 17th of April I met a guy on the street I was driving my car with my cousin and he was in his car beside me on the traffic stop sign , he asked me to stop and we started...
    sisikuci sisikuci 26-30, F Jul 11

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    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am married for 11 years now and have 4 beautiful children. Everyone who knows me thinks i have a perfect life.. and i do.. except of being MADLY in love with another man!! He...
    solo1411 solo1411 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I met this guy two months ago and we fell head over heels in love. The only problem is that he has been married for 16 years and told me that he is getting his affairs in order...
    lovesick2014 lovesick2014 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I am bold and liberal mature married male from India. My age 62 my wife age 60 . I would like to have friendship with you along with my wife. If you can visit India. respond and...
    sedusemywife sedusemywife 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I met this guy at a Fashion show, we never really spoke much but exchanged business cards. he later added me on skype and we'd converse daily ever since. When we had our first date...
    mwichkins mwichkins 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    A new guy stared at my job and immediately started pursuing me. I thought he was awesome, but I knew he was married so I didn't give in... Until he fed me a bunch of garbage about...
    fucknshit fucknshit 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    ARE YOU AN OLDER MAN SEEKING A YOUNG WOMAN? "Datingayounerwoman.com is a newly launched unique dating service, which helps young girls looking for older men or vice-versa...
    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I'm obviously messing up their marriage. He is obviously messing up mine .. So to me it seems clear we need to throw some water on this fire but neither of us seem motivated to do...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Ok, so we have only had sex once. I kind of feel betrayed because when we met he was insistent upon his ring being from a surf shop and meaningless. He wooed me and asked me on...
    amandapanda88 amandapanda88 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Quick update: after a couple weeks of no communication between us, he called today. I decided to answer, after all the things am going thru i needed to hear his voice. We talked...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I think it's like playing with fire or gambling. If you don't take a risk you will never know. If you do be prepared for some consequences. In the end it could be amazing or end up...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Thank God for my children. If I didn't have them, I would never had pulled myself out of bed today. I just want to die right now.
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    He was my everything, my perfect connection, he said the same about me, and yet now he is able to put me on limited contact and I feel lost and alone and confused. How can people...
    Kaspeers Kaspeers 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    This morning I am angry. Where do they get off bringing us into their world, getting us to fall in love with them and trust them and then just cutting us out like we are nothing...
    Kaspeers Kaspeers 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I think it might be time to end things. He isn't available for me (obviously) and I think maybe the thrill is fading. Our weekly trysts are almost like a chore. If I don't feel...
    Specificity Specificity 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    One day, whether you are 17 34 or 65 you will stumble upon someone who will start a fire in you that cannot die. However, the saddest most awful truth you will ever come to find...
    JaneBloodyAusten JaneBloodyAusten 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    A week ago I was working late (I waitress at a restaurant) and we were starting to close up My boss Called me to his office and told me I was doing a great job and said one of the...
    AlleyAuchter AlleyAuchter 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    If you are married and try to flirt with me or whatever that is inappropriate keep it moving. I will not talk to a married man that made a sacred vowel before God, I feel like its...
    bootsie85 bootsie85 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    I can understand how people romanticize marriage and build it up with words like commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, etc. A marriage in itself doesn’t actually have the power to...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    First off, let me say that I'm not looking to be with a married man or someone who has a girlfriend...not my thing. I'm seeking a single guy to be a Friend with Benefits. Why...
    air2fire air2fire 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I am looking for a married man to talk with on this ?
    lisapaige93 lisapaige93 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 5

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    We aren't engaged yet but we are planning the wedding. It is very different and not traditional at all. To start we are getting married at a Renaissance Faire in 2017. We both have...
    BabyFox1995 BabyFox1995 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 19yrs in that time i have watched as my marriage went from one of romance and passion to a one sided affair. I have tried for the past 3 years everything...
    monty71 monty71 41-45, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm married for 11 years and have 2 beautiful young children. My husband and I have grown apart. after a long career, I became a stay at home mom at least until my youngest is in...
    Llynne12 Llynne12 41-45, F Jul 1

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    I have been divorced for a little over a year from a man who had a destructive personality disorder and who had had an affair...and recently got the courage to start putting myself...
    hometowngirl211 hometowngirl211 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I was raised a Jehovahs Witness. That proved be a hardship in my life when it came to accepting who i was as a person. From a very young age, I new I was gay. I used to get the...
    akg27 akg27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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