I Dated a Married Man

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    Well here goes, I met this great guy so to speak six months ago , we talked and texted often I ,should have trusted my gut about him I see that now , so here is a list that might help u see these emotional vam pires for who they are .He only texed, if I tried to call I had to...
    Rivechan Rivechan
    Nov 19, 2012

    I had a couple, and each of them only lasted

    for 1 date. Lol. One was a doctor, he was an assistant to a surgeon who operated me about 9 years ago, I think. He was in charge for post-surgery care. He was a gentle, calm and steady man. After I was sent home, I somehow managed keep in touch in phone calls, until one day I...
    ChannelingTruth ChannelingTruth
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 6

    Back In 1986

    I was dating a 29yr married man. I was 19 at the time. Did i love him? NO, was merely looking for an out of my situation at the time. He taught me alot including his wife. She taught me to make sure i get everything in black & white, some proof, evidence for blackmail later. He...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 30, 2010
    toodles21 toodles21
    41-45, F
    May 17, 2015

    Embarrassing. But this is what is all about,

    right? I was walking my dog and I was coming back home when I saw my neighbor . He said he needed help from inside so I did. He told me it was on the top shelf . It was a box of chocolates he bought from his wife to give as a present when she would return from her trip. I gave...
    deleted deleted
    May 31, 2015

    Lied to By a Married Man With a Pregnant Wife

    A very cute guy from work followed me into my break room and asked me out.  Of course i asked all the right questions.  ARe you married, have kids, where are you from.  How many sisters/brothers do you have.  Etc... But what i got was what i would find out...
    corngirl101 corngirl101
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 15, 2009

    My Experience

    When I was 22 I dated a 35 year guy. He told me he was divorced but the children still lived with him because his ex was having trouble. Since he didn’t want his children to know he was seeing other women we had to sneak around a lot. I would only go round his place during the...
    FoxyH FoxyH
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 13, 2011

    Made a Mistake??

    I fell in love...in real love with an uncommon man, a very charming, not my type kinda of man. He was a married man. I fell in love and of course I was too deep in when I realized I couldnt walk away from it, even though I tried but maybe not hard enough. I undoubtedly believed...
    Lika Lika
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2007

    I Truly Feel In Love For the First Time...with a Married Man!

    " I dated a Married Man"...It all started one night 3 years ago when I, reluctantly, went to my friends birthday party. I say reluctantly, because I was tired and sun burnt from a day of fishing in the hot sun... I wanted nothing more than a cool shower and my bed! The...
    butterfly1202 butterfly1202
    3 Responses Oct 14, 2008

    Teach Me the Way

     About ten years ago I was in college, majoring in English. Looking to find a bit of a social life, I joined the English club, which was run by the head of the Writing Center. I found the geeky pals and fun with word games and writing prompts that I expected. What I didn't...
    cutefactory cutefactory
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    I Did And I Regret It

    I dated a married man for about a month... we were colleagues and I had separated from my ex-husband, and was very vulnerable. Not to excuse my self I am just mentioning some of the "reasons" I had to do it. I regret it, a lot. I separated from my ex-husband after founding out...
    luzme luzme
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2013

    My Love Was True

    Yes, I have dated a married man. In fact, we lived together for over a year before I found out he was married. He came home every night; paid the bills, cooked and cleaned, told me he loved me every day, and the sex was out of this world. So why would I have even...
    pbbrown pbbrown
    Oct 21, 2008


      Met this guy , at night,  felt like I floated right to him , my intentions were not to hook up at all , I had other intentions, to get something I wanted..  We sat out front , on his porch and it surprised me that he drank the same beer as I did, King Cobra. ...
    jenaciesoto jenaciesoto
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2007

    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2014

    I am 23. I started talking to this mm 4 months

    ago. He is 32. He been married for 10 years. I have been in a verbal abuse relationship for 8 years. I thought i was nothing and still to this day think im nothing. Anyway i gave into this mm. First it was all about friends with benefits. I was ok with that i guess. Then maybe a...
    pinkstar06 pinkstar06
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2013

    I Was the Other Woman...

    and it was the best love i've ever had. no one has made me happier, known me better, or let me be myself as much as he did.  I'll never regret it, only the fact that he couldn't bring himself to leave.  Everything I'd ever wanted in a man, plus, was embodied in him...
    simplycherie simplycherie
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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