I Dated An Older Guy

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 187 People

    Short and Not-so-sweet

    I was on vacation in Australia when I met Brad. We were both on the same tour group and for the first 5 days didn't pay much attention to each other. He was 30 and I was 22. I have no interest in older guys, so although I found him attractive, I let the older girls on my tour...
    Rexxar Rexxar
    22-25, F
    Aug 31, 2007

    I fell in love with a friend,

    and had to end it when I realized our relationship would never go anywhere. Maybe it was me, or not. All I felt was loneliness in the end and I couldn't continue. He will be 52 this year, I am 25. We have always had respect for each other and even though we felt a connection...
    AliceWilde AliceWilde
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    i dated few older guys there kool they dont act

    like kids my age thats what i like
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12
    1 Response Nov 27, 2014

    Half Your Age, But Twice As Good

    Dave, Dave, Dave, I love the way you look at me when I played stupid. I love the way you sigh and smile with your eyes closed in the morning when it is time to get up and I would rub your tummy. I love the way you pretended you thought we have a future. I love the way your...
    krista krista
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2007
    InnerEgo InnerEgo
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    The oldest I ever dated was a 30 yr old.

    . He was actually hot lol.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 11, 2015

    I am 13 and I date a guy a lot older

    than me. Sadly we have to hide it. But love doesnt know numbers. I know he loves me and i know i love him. No doubt about it.
    LoveDoesntKnowAge LoveDoesntKnowAge
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    i dated few older guys there ok

    but they lived to far away only problem
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12
    Nov 13, 2015

    I went on a date with a guy tonight.

    He's 42. Is never been on a date with an older guy before but it was fun. I met him online and got on well. He took me to a lovley Chinese place and then for some drinks. It was a great night and so much more grown up than the guys I normally date.
    Ldalg Ldalg
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    He is 5 years and some months older

    than me. I haven't told anybody but friends because parents would flip out being that its not legal in my state, but I really do care about him and i can tell he cares about me. Plan on moving in together on my 18th birthday when i become legal. He well be 22, he's 21 now.
    omgimme omgimme
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

    ...who was more than 20 years older.

    I miss him sometimes.
    kozzu kozzu
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2014

    I dated a guy who was 10 years older.

    It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids
    Mar 30, 2014

    Maria Gaga

    In college, I dated a classmate of mine for three months. I was 18 and he was 28. He was rugged and less boyish looking. I fell in love with him in an instant but it wasn’t working and he eventually ended it. Later on i realized i was not a priority in his life. But that’s...
    pokpoksaalak pokpoksaalak
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2012

    Mixed feelings about this.

    I love older guys, don't get me wrong, but when I was 14 I dated a guy eight years older. I was too blinded by hormones to see why this wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. Five years of a crappy, abusive on-off relationship took it's toll. For sure.
    emiveritas emiveritas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2014


    He was approximately 4 months older than me :P
    righteouschica righteouschica
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 26, 2012

    I was 16, he was 21. Parent found out

    and flipped the **** out...
    Ablebodied Ablebodied
    18-21, F
    Sep 1, 2014

    Went on a 2nd date with this older guy

    and didnt know what to wear so went for little black dress and heels. we went for a few drinks then he took me back to his house where he had made us a candle lit meal. it was great and such a gentleman. we talked for hours and had a lot to drink. he asked if id like to stay...
    Ldalg Ldalg
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Oct 24, 2014
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2015

    I dated a man who was 12 years older

    than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never would that make me an entirely different and wiser person than my age suggested. So age really doesn't matter, it's your life story that...
    captaintera captaintera
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2014

    I dated an older guy

    when I was 15!!! Yeah crazy I know!! He was in a rock band so that was attractive of coarse!! We dated for two years on and off he has always had my back even when I didn't deserve it.. I told my best friend about it she met him and ended up being disgusted and totally cut me...
    Tammy420 Tammy420
    22-25, F
    Nov 14, 2014

    Fell "in love" at fifteen To a dude in his

    early twenties He gave me a false identity My tendency for playing victim Took in all that caused me to feel inflected I build me a wall to keep out the negative criticism Recorded everything to keep you interested Everything done was misleading Only if I could...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    I was a late life baby

    for my parents and an only child. My parents were lifelong home nudist. And they saw no need to change things just because I came a long. It was a open household and we shared the family bed. They raised me the same way. As I grew up I was always around older people. After my...
    baldeaglemomm baldeaglemomm
    31-35, F
    35 Responses Jan 21, 2015
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