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I Dated An Older Guy

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    ...who was more than 20 years older.

    I miss him sometimes.
    kozzu kozzu 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Mixed feelings about this.

    I love older guys, don't get me wrong, but when I was 14 I dated a guy eight years older. I was too blinded by hormones to see why this wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. Five years of a crappy, abusive on-off relationship took it's toll. For sure.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I went on a date with an older guy the other

    night. I thought he was only a few years older. Turns out he's 13 years older than me and I'm not sure how to feel. Some friends are cool with it while others say he's too old.
    Evain121 Evain121 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    Short and Not-so-sweet

    I was on vacation in Australia when I met Brad. We were both on the same tour group and for the first 5 days didn't pay much attention to each other. He was 30 and I was 22. I have no interest in older guys, so although I found him attractive, I let the older girls on my tour...
    Rexxar Rexxar 21-25, F Aug 31, 2007

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    InnerEgo InnerEgo 16-17, T 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Justin Michael Torres

    I was 11 & he was 16. We dated for about 3 months. Then he cheated on me... I broke up with him cause my mom made me... His full name is Justin Michael Torres & He lives in Alhambra,CA & he goes to Alhambra high school. If anyone can hurt him or make him feel bad for what he did...
    stargirl322 stargirl322 18-21, F Mar 4, 2013

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    I dated a guy who was 10 years older.

    It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 22-25 Mar 30

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    I dated a man who was 12 years older

    than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never would that make me an entirely different and wiser person than my age suggested. So age really doesn't matter, it's your life story that...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I was 16, he was 21. Parent found out

    and flipped the **** out...
    achantal achantal 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Went on a 2nd date with this older guy

    and didnt know what to wear so went for little black dress and heels. we went for a few drinks then he took me back to his house where he had made us a candle lit meal. it was great and such a gentleman. we talked for hours and had a lot to drink. he asked if id like to stay...
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 24

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    i dated few older guys there kool they dont act

    like kids my age thats what i like
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12 13-15 1 Response Nov 27

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    Yepp.

    He was approximately 4 months older than me :P
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I went on a date with a guy tonight.

    He's 42. Is never been on a date with an older guy before but it was fun. I met him online and got on well. He took me to a lovley Chinese place and then for some drinks. It was a great night and so much more grown up than the guys I normally date.
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22

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    I dated an older guy

    when I was 15!!! Yeah crazy I know!! He was in a rock band so that was attractive of coarse!! We dated for two years on and off he has always had my back even when I didn't deserve it.. I told my best friend about it she met him and ended up being disgusted and totally cut me...
    Tammy420 Tammy420 18-21, F Nov 14

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    Half Your Age, But Twice As Good

    Dave, Dave, Dave, I love the way you look at me when I played stupid. I love the way you sigh and smile with your eyes closed in the morning when it is time to get up and I would rub your tummy. I love the way you pretended you thought we have a future. I love the way your...
    krista krista 21-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    2 years ago, I dated my favorite local actor.

    I was 31 and he is 44. He enrolled in our Capoeira class, although I am a fan and starstrucked I didn't showed him that. He chatted with me after the training, discovered we had so many things in common, he said he enjoyed our conversation. He got my number, called me...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F Oct 27

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    Maria Gaga

    In college, I dated a classmate of mine for three months. I was 18 and he was 28. He was rugged and less boyish looking. I fell in love with him in an instant but it wasnโ€™t working and he eventually ended it. Later on i realized i was not a priority in his life. But thatโ€™s...
    pokpoksaalak pokpoksaalak 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    I Love Older Guy

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at AgeSingle.com. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together for about 6...
    dateolder dateolder 26-30, F Sep 3, 2013

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    I fell in love with a friend,

    and had to end it when I realized our relationship would never go anywhere. Maybe it was me, or not. All I felt was loneliness in the end and I couldn't continue. He will be 52 this year, I am 25. We have always had respect for each other and even though we felt a connection...
    AliceWilde AliceWilde 22-25, F Dec 8

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    Ever since I was 12 years old, I've had this attraction towards older guys. I remember thinking a few of my older teachers were insanely attractive, some an easy 20 years older...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 26

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    The reason why is because I like older guys are. Or at least from the older guys I've talked to. They appear grounded, a life lived ahead of them, and successful/mature. It's a big...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Just for clarification, "older guys" is not synonymous with old men. The attraction comes from experience, maturity, stability and security. There also has to be a physical...
    DebbieG17 DebbieG17 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 26

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    I'm quite young buy I love how much most older guys respect for women. I love older guys. I date guys up to 49
    chelsiesaar12 chelsiesaar12 18-21, F 21 Responses 6 days ago

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    hey if any older guys wanna hmu dm me. love to meet you guys x
    sayhayy sayhayy 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 23

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    Older guys simply love them please msg me
    kiarathelady111 kiarathelady111 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    I don't know why, but I've always liked older guys; I guess it's because they know how to treat a lady :) I am also attracted to the intelligence, maturity, stability and...
    DrKittyNinjaBunny DrKittyNinjaBunny 16-17, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    I love to **** older guys ๐Ÿ˜ the dominate feature of them makes me so horny ๐Ÿ˜
    roughloverxoxo roughloverxoxo 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 26

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    I want all the older guys on here to message me what you want to do to me. I've been a very naughty girl today
    adynamia adynamia 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 26

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    21 Looking for an older guy to talk with (;
    Kbrown428 Kbrown428 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 27

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    It all started when I was 14. I was a freshman in highschool and none of the boys caught my attention, the teachers did. Most of them were in their 30s and 40s. I never told my...
    anonymouschild7 anonymouschild7 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 29

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    I like older guys bc they can buy me alcohol & there is a 50/50 chance that they know what their doing with their **** at that point
    trashspice trashspice 16-17, F 11 Responses Dec 1

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    I love older guys they know what to do and when to do it and how to do it
    keya9002 keya9002 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    So, I know I'm really young, I'm 15. But I like older guys. It all started last year when I noticed how attractive some of my teachers and friend's dads actually were. Some were in...
    AquamarineT AquamarineT 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    note to self some older guys way rude. .. aren't they supposed to more mature.. oh well
    BootyHadMeLikeDamn BootyHadMeLikeDamn 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    Hey all. I'm 17 and I absolutely love older guys. They're so attractive and mature and cute.
    xxxmcrxxx xxxmcrxxx 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have always liked older guys too!
    Princess12111 Princess12111 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I dated one once & it was great! The downside is that he was a womanizer. I wish I could find one who would like to settle down
    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have always been attracted to guys older than myself, ever since I can remember. I don't really know why, but it's part of who I am. I get a lot of hate and misunderstanding from...
    DrKittyNinjaBunny DrKittyNinjaBunny 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 24

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F Dec 8

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    I just really like guys that are a few years younger than me, up to my age or possibly a year or so older, depending on their looks. I have my eyes on a kid in the grade below me...
    sblp2017 sblp2017 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I like a guy that is 7 YEARS older than me . I don't really mind but many of my friends think it's weird and impossible ...
    mintzxz mintzxz 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm attracted to men 20 years my senior and older... I have a Daddy complex... Sorry guys who are in their teens and 20s. You can't really do much for me! ^-^
    ExoticXDarkness ExoticXDarkness 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Have always preferred men to be 10-20 years older than me. Find them sexier and funnier and just all round better. Had a few older boyfriends and were much better relationships...
    clareg clareg 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I really enjoy conversation with older men. In my own experiences they are attentive, accepting, and very easy to get along with long term. I love that these days a lot of older...
    ElieHanok ElieHanok 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 30

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    Sometimes you must take risks in order to find your happiness. You cant live your life in the mind of someone else. You cant jeopardize your happiness because someone doesn't...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I love being with an older man. I want to be with an older man. They've always attracted me. I love how they know how and what I want. ๐Ÿ‘Œ
    kittyAloha kittyAloha 18-21, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago