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I Dated An Older Guy

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    Maria Gaga

    In college, I dated a classmate of mine for three months. I was 18 and he was 28. He was rugged and less boyish looking. I fell in love with him in an instant but it wasn’t working and he eventually ended it. Later on i realized i was not a priority in his life. But that’s...
    pokpoksaalak pokpoksaalak 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    I was 16, he was 21. Parent found out

    and flipped the **** out...
    Ablebodied Ablebodied 18-21, F Sep 1, 2014

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    I am 13 and I date a guy a lot older

    than me. Sadly we have to hide it. But love doesnt know numbers. I know he loves me and i know i love him. No doubt about it.
    LoveDoesntKnowAge LoveDoesntKnowAge 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    I was a late life baby

    for my parents and an only child. My parents were lifelong home nudist. And they saw no need to change things just because I came a long. It was a open household and we shared the family bed. They raised me the same way. As I grew up I was always around older people. After my...
    baldeaglemomm baldeaglemomm 31-35, F 38 Responses Jan 21, 2015

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    The oldest I ever dated was a 30 yr old.

    . He was actually hot lol.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 11, 2015

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    He is 5 years and some months older

    than me. I haven't told anybody but friends because parents would flip out being that its not legal in my state, but I really do care about him and i can tell he cares about me. Plan on moving in together on my 18th birthday when i become legal. He well be 22, he's 21 now.
    omgimme omgimme 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2015

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    i dated few older guys there kool they dont act

    like kids my age thats what i like
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12 13-15 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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    I dated a guy who was 10 years older.

    It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 22-25 Mar 30, 2014

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    Yepp.

    He was approximately 4 months older than me :P
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    ...who was more than 20 years older.

    I miss him sometimes.
    kozzu kozzu 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2014

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    Mixed feelings about this.

    I love older guys, don't get me wrong, but when I was 14 I dated a guy eight years older. I was too blinded by hormones to see why this wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. Five years of a crappy, abusive on-off relationship took it's toll. For sure.
    emiveritas emiveritas 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    I'm 23 and have been dating a 49 year old.

    There have been some highs and lows in the relationship but age is mostly just a number for me.
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F Jan 25

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    Went on a 2nd date with this older guy

    and didnt know what to wear so went for little black dress and heels. we went for a few drinks then he took me back to his house where he had made us a candle lit meal. it was great and such a gentleman. we talked for hours and had a lot to drink. he asked if id like to stay...
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    I fell in love with a friend,

    and had to end it when I realized our relationship would never go anywhere. Maybe it was me, or not. All I felt was loneliness in the end and I couldn't continue. He will be 52 this year, I am 25. We have always had respect for each other and even though we felt a connection...
    AliceWilde AliceWilde 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    i dated few older guys there ok

    but they lived to far away only problem
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12 13-15 Nov 13, 2015

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    I dated an older guy

    when I was 15!!! Yeah crazy I know!! He was in a rock band so that was attractive of coarse!! We dated for two years on and off he has always had my back even when I didn't deserve it.. I told my best friend about it she met him and ended up being disgusted and totally cut me...
    Tammy420 Tammy420 18-21, F Nov 14, 2014

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    Short and Not-so-sweet

    I was on vacation in Australia when I met Brad. We were both on the same tour group and for the first 5 days didn't pay much attention to each other. He was 30 and I was 22. I have no interest in older guys, so although I found him attractive, I let the older girls on my tour...
    Rexxar Rexxar 18-21, F Aug 31, 2007

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    gamerboy12 gamerboy12 13-15 2 Responses Feb 1, 2015

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    Half Your Age, But Twice As Good

    Dave, Dave, Dave, I love the way you look at me when I played stupid. I love the way you sigh and smile with your eyes closed in the morning when it is time to get up and I would rub your tummy. I love the way you pretended you thought we have a future. I love the way your...
    krista krista 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    I dated a man who was 12 years older

    than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never would that make me an entirely different and wiser person than my age suggested. So age really doesn't matter, it's your life story that...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    I went on a date with a guy tonight.

    He's 42. Is never been on a date with an older guy before but it was fun. I met him online and got on well. He took me to a lovley Chinese place and then for some drinks. It was a great night and so much more grown up than the guys I normally date.
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    InnerEgo InnerEgo 18-21, T 2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    I've always thought older guys are wiser and good looking. Are there any out here who would like to talk?
    lilliesandroses123 lilliesandroses123 22-25, F 3 Responses 27 mins ago

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    Looking g for an older guy to talk to. Nice conversation, pic sharing and fun. Since EP blocks you from inboxing me, let me know and I'll add and message you.
    IkoraRey IkoraRey 18-21, F 17 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Older guys make you feel so much more appreciated
    sally2089 sally2089 26-30, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was not at all sure when we arrived if the older gentleman by the kitchen was going to be part of our adventure or if he was about to leave or really, what was he doing with our...
    Beverlynips Beverlynips 36-40, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    22 F looking to meet older guys to talk. PM me if you down.
    Corruptible22 Corruptible22 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    22 F looking to meet older guys to talk. PM me if you down.
    Corruptible22 Corruptible22 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm 19 and have always been attracted to older guys. I do have an age limit tho. I only guys in their early and late 20s. It may not seem old to you, but it is for me lol. My bf is...
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've always had a weakness for teachers, starting in the fourth grade. It's putting me in a difficult position now. I'm currently taken and crazy about the guy, but I have this...
    katieliebtkatzen katieliebtkatzen 16-17, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    Always fantasize older men. They increase my libido everytime lol.
    Alonely0987 Alonely0987 22-25, F 29 Responses 5 days ago

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    Older men are just more mature and actually don't play around with a woman's feelings. I'm 26 and when I say I like older men, I mean like 26-35 not no 50 or 60 year old men. Not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Any older guys can text me for whatever they want x
    Shadrinz01 Shadrinz01 13-15, M a week ago

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    I occasionally branch out from the buffoons at my Campus. I prefer older guys because they seem more mature to me. :-) xoxo
    MyLifeIsStrange MyLifeIsStrange 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 30

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    all men like younger, its almost weird not to, I love younger girls that crave attention from older men, the rest I'll put below
    joey1111 joey1111 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I'm 18 but still in high school and I like older men. I don't like boys my age.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 30

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    I am attracted to older guys, I just get along so much better with them versus guys my age. :) Perfect age range would be mid 20s to late 30s, early 40s. I probably wouldn't go any...
    ADCue44 ADCue44 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I find that 90% of the time I'm attracted to people double my age. And I'm not sure if that's a bad thing or not but I am almost repulsed by guys who attend my school.
    Curlygirl228866 Curlygirl228866 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 28

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    I think I may have a daddy complex (I think thats what it's called), but I get so much more excited thinking about older guys.
    Jessicademond Jessicademond 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 26

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    I hardly see any young guy attractive but when I see a man , a black man I'm like damn he's fine
    dae234 dae234 18-21, F Jan 25

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    It seems as if they have a better grasp on how to deal with women who, like me, have a smart mouth and often like to test people. It's thrilling and humbling to be with a man who...
    tplum15 tplum15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Older men are such beautiful humans. There's something just so special about them.
    electraheartlolita electraheartlolita 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 24