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I Dated An Older Guy

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    InnerEgo InnerEgo 16-17, T 2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    I fell in love with a friend,

    and had to end it when I realized our relationship would never go anywhere. Maybe it was me, or not. All I felt was loneliness in the end and I couldn't continue. He will be 52 this year, I am 25. We have always had respect for each other and even though we felt a connection...
    AliceWilde AliceWilde 22-25, F Dec 8, 2014

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    Mixed feelings about this.

    I love older guys, don't get me wrong, but when I was 14 I dated a guy eight years older. I was too blinded by hormones to see why this wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. Five years of a crappy, abusive on-off relationship took it's toll. For sure.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Sep 6, 2014

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    I was 16, he was 21. Parent found out

    and flipped the **** out...
    achantal achantal 18-21, F Sep 1, 2014

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    i dated few older guys there kool they dont act

    like kids my age thats what i like
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12 13-15 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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    Maria Gaga

    In college, I dated a classmate of mine for three months. I was 18 and he was 28. He was rugged and less boyish looking. I fell in love with him in an instant but it wasn’t working and he eventually ended it. Later on i realized i was not a priority in his life. But that’s...
    pokpoksaalak pokpoksaalak 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Half Your Age, But Twice As Good

    Dave, Dave, Dave, I love the way you look at me when I played stupid. I love the way you sigh and smile with your eyes closed in the morning when it is time to get up and I would rub your tummy. I love the way you pretended you thought we have a future. I love the way your...
    krista krista 21-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    I went on a date with an older guy the other

    night. I thought he was only a few years older. Turns out he's 13 years older than me and I'm not sure how to feel. Some friends are cool with it while others say he's too old.
    Evain121 Evain121 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    I went on a date with a guy tonight.

    He's 42. Is never been on a date with an older guy before but it was fun. I met him online and got on well. He took me to a lovley Chinese place and then for some drinks. It was a great night and so much more grown up than the guys I normally date.
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I dated a guy who was 10 years older.

    It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 22-25 Mar 30, 2014

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    Went on a 2nd date with this older guy

    and didnt know what to wear so went for little black dress and heels. we went for a few drinks then he took me back to his house where he had made us a candle lit meal. it was great and such a gentleman. we talked for hours and had a lot to drink. he asked if id like to stay...
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    2 years ago, I dated my favorite local actor.

    I was 31 and he is 44. He enrolled in our Capoeira class, although I am a fan and starstrucked I didn't showed him that. He chatted with me after the training, discovered we had so many things in common, he said he enjoyed our conversation. He got my number, called me...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F Oct 27, 2014

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    I dated a man who was 12 years older

    than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never would that make me an entirely different and wiser person than my age suggested. So age really doesn't matter, it's your life story that...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2014

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    Yepp.

    He was approximately 4 months older than me :P
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I was a late life baby

    for my parents and an only child. My parents were lifelong home nudist. And they saw no need to change things just because I came a long. It was a open household and we shared the family bed. They raised me the same way. As I grew up I was always around older people. After my...
    baldeaglemomm baldeaglemomm 31-35, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Short and Not-so-sweet

    I was on vacation in Australia when I met Brad. We were both on the same tour group and for the first 5 days didn't pay much attention to each other. He was 30 and I was 22. I have no interest in older guys, so although I found him attractive, I let the older girls on my tour...
    Rexxar Rexxar 21-25, F Aug 31, 2007

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    I dated a man 10 years my senior.

    The age difference wasn't too noticeable. There were some funny moments of my being completely unaware of pop culture things from his generation, like the energy drink called Surge. I quickly realized why he had managed to get to 29 and never be married, however. He was...
    Frahlick Frahlick 18-21, F Jan 17

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    I Love Older Guy

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at AgeSingle.com. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together for about 6...
    dateolder dateolder 26-30, F Sep 3, 2013

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    ...who was more than 20 years older.

    I miss him sometimes.
    kozzu kozzu 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2014

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    I dated an older guy

    when I was 15!!! Yeah crazy I know!! He was in a rock band so that was attractive of coarse!! We dated for two years on and off he has always had my back even when I didn't deserve it.. I told my best friend about it she met him and ended up being disgusted and totally cut me...
    Tammy420 Tammy420 18-21, F Nov 14, 2014

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    I've always dated younger guys and honesty I need a change. I want to date someone who is older than me because recently I'm really attractive to older guys. There's this one guy...
    itslala840 itslala840 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I love older guys. Most older men are very mature which is one reason I'm attracted to them. Most boys my age in my school are very immature and I can't find myself to date any of...
    MissJazmineeeee MissJazmineeeee 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Totally love older dudes. Though I hate how some dudes who are in like their 60's think that applies to them. As a 21 year old by older I mean somewhere between late 20's and like...
    Annamania1 Annamania1 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    I've always been very attracted to older men .They offer a level of refinement and charm that i don't often find in guys my age.Even before I could really understand what my...
    ForestNymphet ForestNymphet 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    Older guys are so much sexier that guys my age. I need an older man to tear apart my tight teen holes! ;)
    LinaBean16 LinaBean16 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm attracted to older guys. It seems like my poor relationship with my father has always left me looking to fill the void. Even since I was a kid, about 10 years old I liked older...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 1

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    I like older guys because they are way more mature than guys my own age.
    sadlittlegirltoday sadlittlegirltoday 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I love older guys bc they are so polite and so much more mature than guys my age
    sadlittlegirltoday sadlittlegirltoday 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    There's a family friend named Derek*. He's 30 and I've known him for 10+ years. However, I haven't seen him in almost a year. He moved to Georgia after a job transfer but he comes...
    Hfms99 Hfms99 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I really want to date an older guy. I like a more experienced guy who is able to fill my needs.
    itsAustin itsAustin 16-17, M Jan 18

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    Yes since I work in fast food I always get older guys flirting with me. Some im okay with because there in there twenties other guys I'm not okay with cause there old enough to be...
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I consider myself bi and im only 14 years old, i know i dont look my age but im 14 and i like older guys like 18-50 years old message me if you want
    Johnyk27 Johnyk27 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Mind you, I'm not looking for a younger girlfriend at this point in my life. I'm happily married. However, we have a somewhat open relationship, and when I hit my 40's, I hope to...
    SnowCrow SnowCrow 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    A handsome older guy...with tie and sleeves rolled up..hands in pockets. . And there I die... :D
    rainygirl1992 rainygirl1992 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Speaks for itself. I'm attracted to older guys.
    hxlils hxlils 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    I would love to date an older guy.
    Ornah27 Ornah27 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I have never dated a girl/ woman my age. I dont know why. I mean i am not discriminate against women but ever since i started dating i have always ended up going out with an older...
    fahadkhalid1981 fahadkhalid1981 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Yup the title says it all. But not like guys who are too old. Just guys who are at least 5 years older than me. 10 years is still exceptable.
    nonymousee nonymousee 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    One time I was taking a break from work and some guy came up to me and complemented me, I mean ok yeah it was a complement but things got out of hand. He started to follow me...
    TheDesireToDance TheDesireToDance 22-25, F Jan 8

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    the reason why so many people prefer older men isnt because we have some sort of kink but because we know most teenage boys - guys in their early 20's are a complete...
    sehrrish sehrrish 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I have come to realize that being older is viewed as an advantage by many younger women. I'm almost finished with a divorce process and believe I will focus my attention on ladies...
    wantadoover wantadoover 56-60, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Last week, I was home for Christmas break. Before then, I was having major problems with the data on my phone because it was pretty much like dial-up. Anyway, I went to different...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    So my friend had to go to Verizon to get her contacts transferred since she just got a new phone. There were only two guys working there. Dressed up in suits and ties. How...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I don't think I've met a guy that could literally made me so nervous and hot just by looking at me. But apparently that's what Adam, the American did. After having a few...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    This is true, I do like girls younger than me, however I want all younger girls to read this before adding me. I am only interested in girls 18 or older! Being part of this group...
    Colojimi Colojimi 41-45, M Jan 2

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    I would love too ;) Or an older woman
    Terrabyte Terrabyte 18-21, M Jan 10

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    I would love the maturity of an older man someone I knew wouldn't mess about and would act the way a MAN should. Although I'm only 15 I'm beyond my years concerning my mind. And...
    cia99 cia99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Any guys from the UK??????
    EvaSFenty EvaSFenty 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 12