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I Dated An Older Guy

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    I dated a man who was 12 years older

    than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never would that make me an entirely different and wiser person than my age suggested. So age really doesn't matter, it's your life story that...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Justin Michael Torres

    I was 11 & he was 16. We dated for about 3 months. Then he cheated on me... I broke up with him cause my mom made me... His full name is Justin Michael Torres & He lives in Alhambra,CA & he goes to Alhambra high school. If anyone can hurt him or make him feel bad for what he did...
    stargirl322 stargirl322 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2013

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    Yepp.

    He was approximately 4 months older than me :P
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I dated a guy who was 10 years older.

    It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 22-25 Mar 30

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    Short and Not-so-sweet

    I was on vacation in Australia when I met Brad. We were both on the same tour group and for the first 5 days didn't pay much attention to each other. He was 30 and I was 22. I have no interest in older guys, so although I found him attractive, I let the older girls on my tour...
    Rexxar Rexxar 21-25, F Aug 31, 2007

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    Maria Gaga

    In college, I dated a classmate of mine for three months. I was 18 and he was 28. He was rugged and less boyish looking. I fell in love with him in an instant but it wasn’t working and he eventually ended it. Later on i realized i was not a priority in his life. But that’s...
    pokpoksaalak pokpoksaalak 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    I Love Older Guy

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at AgeSingle.com. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together for about 6...
    dateolder dateolder 26-30, F Sep 3, 2013

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    Half Your Age, But Twice As Good

    Dave, Dave, Dave, I love the way you look at me when I played stupid. I love the way you sigh and smile with your eyes closed in the morning when it is time to get up and I would rub your tummy. I love the way you pretended you thought we have a future. I love the way your...
    krista krista 21-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I like older guys but not the perverted ones. I've been liking older guys since I've been on the internet and that has been since I was like 11. I have nothing against younger guys...
    ArielleLove ArielleLove 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    Idk i just find older guys more interesting. I like older boys too, i think there's only 1 boy that i like that's my age, but he giving me mixed signals (−_−#) i like guys...
    ShadesOfCoolBae ShadesOfCoolBae 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I have always admired some older guys since I was very young. They seem mature, experienced, knowledgeable, caring, cool with anything, fun and that's what turns me on, and a bonus...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I have a thing for older guys. Not like 50 yr olds, but 20-30's. Like, I'm really attracted to possessive and protective, strong older men. Idk.
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I like an older guy. he's 18 turning 19 on September and I'm 15. we've had a long history and idk how it happened but I started to fall for him. I like mature guys and almost all...
    xriiccii xriiccii 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    People always ask why I like older guys? Well one reason there more mature than younger guys,some are supportive,and have more experience with relationships. So they know what to...
    purpleeyes98 purpleeyes98 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    I find OLDER guys attractive, I don't however find OLD guys attractive. To be perfectly honest I would even consider dating anyone over 22.
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses Jul 14

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    Idk I date guys my age but they're pretty immature and the relationships I've had with older guys have just been much better and very exciting
    Avery1313 Avery1313 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I may have a thing for older guys but it doesn't mean you have to send me pictures of your private areas. I am capable of going through a conversation without it. I don't know why...
    chandy2014 chandy2014 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I like older guys that are not creepy but are kind yet will take control please be from New Jersey so we can possibly meet and not married and I'm not racist but white
    lilithnight369 lilithnight369 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    No doubt, but not to old tho, to be honest I am not into a cute, this and that whatever. I find older guys are mature and tasty.
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 16

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    As an older guy, I am way more comfortable with myself than I ever was as a young man... Also I am retired, paid my house off... have most things I wanted- so it all worked out. I...
    cumdrip cumdrip 56-60, M Jul 18

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    I love older guys 17-25 :3
    lovelydisgrace lovelydisgrace 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Older guys make me horny and happy
    sweetaddictionxo sweetaddictionxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    I am a bi teen who likes,for some insane reason much older guys. Don't ask me y,I jus do
    jusleaving jusleaving 16-17, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a young gymnast, but I love when older guys stare at my routines or pass me in the mall and wanna see my splits. Makes me feel so confident!
    emgymn01 emgymn01 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    When i was 18 I dated a 40 year old, and basically I was a stepparent for teenage girls, I really like him and was proud pf are mature relationship but he would take me to meet his...
    ForeverShades ForeverShades 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm a 17 years old boy. I have been confused about my sexuality for about 2 years, and I still am. There are two weird sides to this story. I was 15 when I first started to feel...
    WillsWill WillsWill 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I am so attracted to older men, no women wants a boy when they can have a man! guys my age don't no how to treat a women and are to immature. Dating guys my own age get tiring, i...
    angelheelz angelheelz 22-25, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not old guys but guys older than me! 10 years at the most would probably be my preference! I've never even been with a guy but I have noticed that I find guys older than me so much...
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm 18, I have this casual thing with a guy who's twice my age (18x2=35). To put it lightly, he's 'fond' of me :P I like him as well - I generally find older men attractive. The...
    AnEnigma AnEnigma 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    When I say this, I don't mean guys in there 50's or 40's. And also, I don't mean in a sexual way, or anything like that. I just like the appearance and I enjoy talking to them to...
    Driftyftw Driftyftw 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Just more on the mature level...Half the guys my age are a turn off because they act so annoying and child-like. I think i've always liked older anyway. Age limit though..:-S
    ThatIsSoJill ThatIsSoJill 18-21, F 34 Responses Jul 15

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    I went on vacation about two weeks ago and I met a guy he somewhat older 52 and he was really attracted to me he tried talking to me but I was always with my sister so on the...
    Alisa54 Alisa54 18-21, F 22 Responses Jul 16

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    Anywhere from the same age as me to about eight years older than me I think is perfect. I love having a more experienced man about. Not an old man, just older than me. What would...
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    I don't really know what it is but I just really like older men. There's something sexy about a man who is much older than you.... It makes me feel so naughty!!!
    Averycole Averycole 18-21, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've always thought older men are attractive. They know what they want in life and they, for the most part, have their life figured out.
    Caldwellgirl Caldwellgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    let me clarify: older as in like 16-20, just for example:a 30 year old could still be attractive in my eyes, but the chances of us talk r slim, and anything else, none), not 50 or...
    insertnamehere99 insertnamehere99 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    A lot of people have message that if it's true that I like older men Yes, but I only date men from 20 to 45
    ForeverShades ForeverShades 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I found a sugar daddy lol jk Omg there this fine man who looks like Blair underwood that's in the house he old though :D 💦💦💦 omfg Omg If I was older dawg...
    niko031 niko031 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    There's just something super sexy about an older man, they tend to be more mature and confident..well in my experiences. Everyone is different of course (:
    sparklyprincess sparklyprincess 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I guess I always have sense young I mean not like a 20 year difference but between 3-7 years older I don't see a huge issue I feel like men are more where I am mentally then boys...
    Sincerelynia Sincerelynia 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I met this guy on Facebook who used to go to my school but he graduated the year before I came, and I know he's not just a "catfish guy" because I know other people who are...
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    So at my aunts every year on forth of July there's a guy john an his son and wife come down and they stay for like 10 hours and I am always around john an this happened today and I...
    MyLifeSoundsLikeLies MyLifeSoundsLikeLies 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Would love to meet a cool guy who was Dom and into a Sub Sissy Boi!
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 1 Response Jul 15

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    Lovemefemale is where u guys can message me at
    amberkandy amberkandy 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My ex is 23 and was immature as ****! I thought he'd be all mature and stuff but evidently not! But I met some guy who's 34 and really straightforward and oh so mature butttt my...
    EvaSFenty EvaSFenty 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ladies I'm 36 if you want to chat
    Johnsmith4u Johnsmith4u 36-40, M Jul 1

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    I'm 36 if any ladies want to chat
    Johnsmith4u Johnsmith4u 36-40, M Jul 1

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    Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt and Mark Wahlberg tho 😍😍.
    CherylYo CherylYo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6