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I Dated An Older Guy

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    I dated a man who was 12 years older

    than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never would that make me an entirely different and wiser person than my age suggested. So age really doesn't matter, it's your life story that...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Half Your Age, But Twice As Good

    Dave, Dave, Dave, I love the way you look at me when I played stupid. I love the way you sigh and smile with your eyes closed in the morning when it is time to get up and I would rub your tummy. I love the way you pretended you thought we have a future. I love the way your...
    krista krista 21-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    Maria Gaga

    In college, I dated a classmate of mine for three months. I was 18 and he was 28. He was rugged and less boyish looking. I fell in love with him in an instant but it wasn’t working and he eventually ended it. Later on i realized i was not a priority in his life. But that’s...
    pokpoksaalak pokpoksaalak 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    I Love Older Guy

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at AgeSingle.com. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together for about 6...
    dateolder dateolder 26-30, F Sep 3, 2013

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    Yepp.

    He was approximately 4 months older than me :P
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I dated a guy who was 10 years older.

    It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 18-21 Mar 30

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    He was 40, I was 26 and yes

    that was just last year. He's a businessman, divorced with a son. It was fine at first, but I don't need a business partner. I'm not his business partner either so he can just spare talking to me like one, we might go somewhere. Every date is like a business meeting.."must have...
    FoxxySilverCrow FoxxySilverCrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Short and Not-so-sweet

    I was on vacation in Australia when I met Brad. We were both on the same tour group and for the first 5 days didn't pay much attention to each other. He was 30 and I was 22. I have no interest in older guys, so although I found him attractive, I let the older girls on my tour...
    Rexxar Rexxar 21-25, F Aug 31, 2007

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    Justin Michael Torres

    I was 11 & he was 16. We dated for about 3 months. Then he cheated on me... I broke up with him cause my mom made me... His full name is Justin Michael Torres & He lives in Alhambra,CA & he goes to Alhambra high school. If anyone can hurt him or make him feel bad for what he did...
    stargirl322 stargirl322 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2013

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    Yet another stereotypical answer lol but it is the maturity aspect. On a general rule they tend to be more mature about relationships, sex and what they want to get out in life...
    1234Ideclareathumbwar 1234Ideclareathumbwar 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 13

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    Idk why but ive always had an attraction to older guys.. When i was 14 i was with a 21yr old.. And his friend(age24) liked me as well, But my limit to the oldest at the moment...
    Score16 Score16 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I feel I'm at a transitioning point in my life, from starry-eyed teen to empowered woman. I'm blossoming. Amoungst these major, gradual changes in myself, my ideas and my attitudes...
    Iconica Iconica 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I've always found older guys attractive, since I was younger I always liked the older kids and now that I'm 19 I crush on guys who are 24ish range sometimes older! But late 20's...
    jstellar jstellar 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I love older guys and I just wanna do a sexy older guy like 26 or 28 or even older if he's sexy enough
    lilmisssme lilmisssme 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Is it normal for me to be attracted to guys around 3-5 years older than me? I'm 15 , 16 in September but I'm rather quite and mature for my age. I just feel like older guys are...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    is it strange that I'm only into older guys? i wont date a guy that isnt at lease four-five years older than me? i dont know why, ive just always been that way. I dont date like...
    XoXo07 XoXo07 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    I think that some older man look really good . Sorta like aging as added to there hotness. Example number one: Jared Leto , lead singer from thirty seconds to mars, is around 40-43...
    Sillygirll Sillygirll 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    The first time I was with an older guy it was amazing. So comfortable, gentle, exciting. I was in my 20's, he was late 40's/early 50's and a retired cop. I am now late 40's and...
    harryspaw harryspaw 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    older guys are hot hot hot.
    SpudKat SpudKat 18-21 9 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm attracted to older guys
    Lxoxo Lxoxo 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I put this story here even though I am the older guy. I once had a beautiful young man relationship. I was about 12 years his senior and he was like 16 but we had about a year of...
    iamwarped iamwarped 66-70, M Apr 5

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    I really want to hookup with an older guy
    kbo2010 kbo2010 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    I have a thing for older guys. This one man I see every day (about 24) always makes I contact with me. I dream of him sneaking around in a coach -student relationship with me. I...
    Thorbulous Thorbulous 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I like an older guy.. he's so nice, never ever been rude. He's told me so much about his life but I haven't said much about mine , he's overseas and calls every now and then we...
    y0ungndfree y0ungndfree 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    i love older guys and wat they can do to me
    candy9002 candy9002 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 13

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    I Rather date older guys then date younger ones.
    aliyah2 aliyah2 13-15, F 20 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not guys that are any older than 29 though... I'm like 13 and I like all of the guys in One Direction, all in their 20's. All of the guys in 5 seconds if summer, they're in their...
    AshCutten AshCutten 22-25, M 15 hrs ago

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    All the guys I dated I always thought were nice and the good kind. I meet men that were into church, good with their families, polite, respectful, and sweet. These men went out...
    brownbluelips26 brownbluelips26 18-21, F Apr 14

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F a week ago

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    I've never been attracted to anyone within 10 years of myself. There's something so alluring in the eyes of an older man, his scent, his mannerisms, the shape of his body. Though...
    ghostofcassius ghostofcassius 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Older Men Like Younger Women as they are more vibrant, spontaneous and full of life. A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F Mar 31

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    lauracc13 lauracc13 26-30, F Mar 31

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
    lauracc13 lauracc13 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I find older men much wiser and sexier than guys my age. By older I mean 10-25 years my senior. I just find them so sexy.
    Epaestimated Epaestimated 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't get it I mean I never really liked a guy my own age any guy I liked was always like 10+ years older than me..is that a bad thing?
    BriGags BriGags 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just love me some handsome ,establish ,ambitious man !!. I went clubbing weeks ago and I met this guy ,he was about 25.while we were dancing we were grinding on each other. He...
    ladyafrika ladyafrika 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 14

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    I'm fifteen, all the guys around my age are so immature, i usually have to talk to guys that are like 18-20 in order for them to be anywhere near a girls level of maturity
    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I'm 13 and would love to be touched my older men or woman
    littlelover13x littlelover13x 13-15, F 12 Responses Mar 27

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    i just had sex with a older man
    candicemaria candicemaria 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 29

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    While my husband checks out younger girls, when he thinks I'm not looking, I think I'm the total opposite. I like older men. Don't know why. There's no reason for everything in...
    Jeggo Jeggo 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    At the moment I only date people like 2 years older than me I really wish I was into propel my own age
    lolthatsjade lolthatsjade 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Teenagers are super immature and I honestly am not at all attracted to them ( I know I'm one of them) I usually am attracted to guys 18-23
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    So this guy I was madly in love with in 8th grade was well he used to be a good friend of mine. Well he knocked up this girl and I think he's engaged. Well I thought I was over him...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    The one and only guy I've been with is 29. He was so sexy we use to go drive around and I'd lay in his lap. We did everything but vaginal sex. We broke up recently it's made me...
    mbratz123 mbratz123 16-17, F Apr 4

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    I absolutely love guys who are in their late 20's and early 30's. Full developed men, with a sense of maturity for the most part, and really strong :-).
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I have the biggest crush on my history TA. He's like in his 30s and has no idea but every time I walk into the room and see him I could faint because my heart beats so fast and...
    NonexistantSoul NonexistantSoul 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    My last boyfriend, JJ, was 19, i'm 15, we were really good friends for about 6 months, we would stay after school until about 8 pm, and have what seemed to be endless conversation...
    foolishlylovingthee foolishlylovingthee 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    When I was little I use to have such a big crush on Jesse from Full House. Even little-me had great taste XD
    UnderworldNymph UnderworldNymph 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    And by slightly I mean any age, I just a mature man, they know what they're doing, they're smart, and I find them sexy.
    92youngforever 92youngforever 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    Well some. I know them as gentlemen men who appreciate my femininity and are mature enough to treat me with respect.
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Apr 9