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I Dated An Older Guy

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    I was on vacation in Australia when I met Brad. We were both on the same tour group and for the first 5 days didn't pay much attention to each other. He was 30 and I was 22. I have no interest in older guys, so although I found him attractive, I let the older girls on my tour...
    Rexxar Rexxar 21-25, F Aug 31, 2007

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    ...who was more than 20 years older.

    I miss him sometimes.
    kozzu kozzu 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2014

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    I went on a date with a guy tonight.

    He's 42. Is never been on a date with an older guy before but it was fun. I met him online and got on well. He took me to a lovley Chinese place and then for some drinks. It was a great night and so much more grown up than the guys I normally date.
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    i dated few older guys there kool they dont act

    like kids my age thats what i like
    gamerboy12 gamerboy12 13-15 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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    I dated an older guy

    when I was 15!!! Yeah crazy I know!! He was in a rock band so that was attractive of coarse!! We dated for two years on and off he has always had my back even when I didn't deserve it.. I told my best friend about it she met him and ended up being disgusted and totally cut me...
    Tammy420 Tammy420 18-21, F Nov 14, 2014

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    I was 16, he was 21. Parent found out

    and flipped the **** out...
    achantal achantal 18-21, F Sep 1, 2014

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    I dated a man who was 12 years older

    than me for two years. It made me realize how age has nothing to do with life experience, as I've had life experiences he hadn't and never would that make me an entirely different and wiser person than my age suggested. So age really doesn't matter, it's your life story that...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2014

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    Mixed feelings about this.

    I love older guys, don't get me wrong, but when I was 14 I dated a guy eight years older. I was too blinded by hormones to see why this wasn't gonna work out. And it didn't. Five years of a crappy, abusive on-off relationship took it's toll. For sure.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Sep 6, 2014

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    Yepp.

    He was approximately 4 months older than me :P
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Maria Gaga

    In college, I dated a classmate of mine for three months. I was 18 and he was 28. He was rugged and less boyish looking. I fell in love with him in an instant but it wasn’t working and he eventually ended it. Later on i realized i was not a priority in his life. But that’s...
    pokpoksaalak pokpoksaalak 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Went on a 2nd date with this older guy

    and didnt know what to wear so went for little black dress and heels. we went for a few drinks then he took me back to his house where he had made us a candle lit meal. it was great and such a gentleman. we talked for hours and had a lot to drink. he asked if id like to stay...
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    I went on a date with an older guy the other

    night. I thought he was only a few years older. Turns out he's 13 years older than me and I'm not sure how to feel. Some friends are cool with it while others say he's too old.
    Evain121 Evain121 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    The oldest I ever dated was a 30 yr old.

    . He was actually hot lol.
    drewkyzer drewkyzer 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I Love Older Guy

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at AgeSingle.com. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together for about 6...
    dateolder dateolder 26-30, F Sep 3, 2013

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    InnerEgo InnerEgo 18-21, T 2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    I was a late life baby

    for my parents and an only child. My parents were lifelong home nudist. And they saw no need to change things just because I came a long. It was a open household and we shared the family bed. They raised me the same way. As I grew up I was always around older people. After my...
    baldeaglemomm baldeaglemomm 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 21

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    Half Your Age, But Twice As Good

    Dave, Dave, Dave, I love the way you look at me when I played stupid. I love the way you sigh and smile with your eyes closed in the morning when it is time to get up and I would rub your tummy. I love the way you pretended you thought we have a future. I love the way your...
    krista krista 21-25, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    I dated a man 10 years my senior.

    The age difference wasn't too noticeable. There were some funny moments of my being completely unaware of pop culture things from his generation, like the energy drink called Surge. I quickly realized why he had managed to get to 29 and never be married, however. He was...
    Frahlick Frahlick 18-21, F Jan 17

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    gamerboy12 gamerboy12 13-15 1 Response Feb 1

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    I fell in love with a friend,

    and had to end it when I realized our relationship would never go anywhere. Maybe it was me, or not. All I felt was loneliness in the end and I couldn't continue. He will be 52 this year, I am 25. We have always had respect for each other and even though we felt a connection...
    AliceWilde AliceWilde 22-25, F Dec 8, 2014

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    I dated a guy who was 10 years older.

    It was cool. I like dating people older than me.
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 22-25 Mar 30, 2014

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    He is 5 years and some months older

    than me. I haven't told anybody but friends because parents would flip out being that its not legal in my state, but I really do care about him and i can tell he cares about me. Plan on moving in together on my 18th birthday when i become legal. He well be 22, he's 21 now.
    omgimme omgimme 16-17, F Feb 7

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    I prefer guys older than me, don't get me wrong, I don't mind younger guys, I just prefer older guys.
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    Yeah so let me rephrase a previous post. yeah I do like older guys that being said it doesn't mean I'll date just because I your older. Being older isn't a requirement it's just a...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I may be young and people are always saying things like "you have no idea what your talking about how could you like older guys?" Well it's simple. They're more mature than most...
    robinluvsyo robinluvsyo 13-15, F 32 Responses Feb 18

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    I like older guys... Honestly I feel like it's nothing wrong with it 😌 I like how they mature and they know what they want... Sorry but older guys are hot...
    Sammie099 Sammie099 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    I love the thought of getting ****** by older guys I dream about getting taught a lesson by and older guy is this bad?
    sophosaurus1 sophosaurus1 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 22

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    Young guys can be fun too, but to me, a mature man is more interesting. Not all older guys are interesting of course, but some lol
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 17 Responses Feb 5

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    In my experience very few twenty three years old men can hold an intelligible conversation with me, they just want me to take off my panties. I guess it was the guys I used to...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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    I find myself very attracted to older guys because they seem to have way more to offer intellectually, emotionally, romantically etc... But that doesn't mean that i'm gonna pursue...
    ForestNymphet ForestNymphet 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    it's cute when old men read 'older guys' and think it applies to them. it's called daddy not granddaddy or great granddaddy.
    isalolita isalolita 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 20

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    Do older guys love sucking on breast?
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 21

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    Older guys are cuter and know how to treat a girl right, they know how to please her when she needs it!
    BabyGirll1998 BabyGirll1998 16-17, F 9 Responses Feb 21

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    Yeah. Old is gold !! Older guys look more sexier than young ones.
    emmawing7 emmawing7 22-25, F 15 Responses 6 days ago

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    Because my father never loved me or showed me any affection now am attracted to older guys, but the sexy ones not the gross ones but not the one about to die the one between
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love older guys. They turn me on ;)
    daisy124 daisy124 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    if you are between 30 to 45 message me now! no older than 45 i dislike grandfathers please Thanks u sir!
    kristel19 kristel19 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I never had young girl. I always dated women older than me. Don't mean I don't like young girls. Because I think I am not perfect and attractive for them. I am mature romantic...
    manwarkhn manwarkhn 41-45 1 Response Feb 22

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    No this is not a welcome call to Internet perves. Yes I like older men. Not terribly older I would never date someone in their 60's that's my dads age, but I would date someone...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    A lot of younger women like a man who is significantly older than they are. Older man can offer a woman maturity and stability that a younger man can not. As a result, they seek...
    manwarkhn manwarkhn 41-45 Feb 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kristiniacc11 kristiniacc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I've always been attracted to guys older than me. There is just something about them. I usually only like them 3-6 years older but... My mum has this social friend, I see him most...
    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    He's ten years older than me. He's the sweetest guy ever, super smart, helpful, etc, all you could ever want... But he's ten years older than me.
    greyxskies greyxskies 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    even tho I don't dress provocatively in public , but I kinda always get hit on by guys , mostly guys older than me . not complaining ;) , but I am like : "WHERE THE F****K WHERE...
    chubbylilmonster chubbylilmonster 18-21 21 Responses Feb 5

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