I Dated Someone Who Turned Out to Be Crazy

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    Within the first week of our relationship my

    ex-boyfriend said to me "if you're going to be with me you aren't going to have time for anyone but me." This was a red flag to me, but I let it slide... Within the next few days he told me "when we get married you are going to have a natural childbirth in our house. No doctors...
    chasingDragonflies chasingDragonflies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2014

    so its been three years

    since i got away from my ex fiance. im still glad i did it. i dont feel as stressed now. though i doubt ill be able to trust or get into another relationship again not after what he did to me spirituslly and mentally i still feel like hes watching me though
    AngelOfDeath92 AngelOfDeath92
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 9

    Have you ever brushed your teeth

    and then sipped orange juice? That's the sort of taste that being in a BPD relationship leaves you with. An intense sting that leaves your throat tense and your vocals crippled. I'm sure that there are people out there who have had successful relationships with sufferers of BPD...
    TalaSnow TalaSnow
    22-25, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    I didn't but my friend did

    and I really want to tell this story haha. So the kid had just moved here and he was a foster kid. When he was little, his dad was put in jail and his mom was a ********/ alcoholic so he was taken away from her. He went to go live with his grandparents who absolutely hated him...
    taylor468 taylor468
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2013

    Well he turned pretty crazy

    for punching me.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014

    Dark Wingless Angel.

    I had been dating a man, let's call him Bill, for about four months. I was young and stupid, and completely head over heels in love, and so when I started noticing odd things about my boyfriend, I brushed it off as it just being another amazing part of an amazing guy who had no...
    kazeldragon kazeldragon
    22-25, F
    22 Responses Jul 16, 2007

    I went out on a date with a guy from online

    once. We had been talking for a few weeks before the date. Well, he let his freak flag fly that night. We were at a pizza place and discussing what to get on the pizza. I told him I did not like mushrooms. He flipped out, like caused a scene flip out. The date ended shortly...
    perfectpolly perfectpolly
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 4

    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship.

    Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend everything seemed perfect. He claimed to love The Lord, he acted as though he loved me, he seemed to appreciate my family. But after a couple weeks...
    laneyrn laneyrn
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 3, 2014

    Part 2.. I sat at the computer anxiously

    awaiting her arrival. The anticipation was killing me so I decided to go out the back door and get some air. When I re-entered the room there she was sitting at the computer putting on her headphones. "****!" I thought to myself I can't talk to her if she has headphones on! I...
    sinatranac sinatranac
    18-21, M
    Jan 23, 2015
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    2 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    Before we even for together,

    Ik she was crazy but I still wanted get, I was very attractive too her. I'm in love with her, and basically she runins out relationship
    Legend1boyy Legend1boyy
    Jan 27

    I Shouldn't Have Ignored The Signs

    I met my ex at a party and looking back the whole reason he talked to me was because I had come outside and told my friend that two dudes were fighting inside when I came out of the bathroom, and I tried to stop it. (one white, one black) The white guy was calling him the N word...
    meadowpeace meadowpeace
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 9, 2012

    he was talking to himself

    and whispering!!!!!!! Then I ask him did you said something? he said no! you heard me talk? he is so convenienced with the fact that he don't talk to himself.. he is crazy....!!!!
    monafm monafm
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2015

    Story Of My Life

    Just about every guy I've dated is crazy. From schizophrenia to compulsive liars, to just down right sociopaths. I'm majoring in psychology. It doesn't help I want to help everyone. I don't mean to meet these crazy guys they just find me!
    ivansmummy ivansmummy
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 21, 2013

    I woukd love a crazy,

    psycho boyfriend!!!
    Remi4ever Remi4ever
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    A few actually! One was particularly nuts.

    Threw a fit I broke up with him. Starting trashing the place, threw me too. But it was the reason I broke up with him is what really freaked me out. It's so particular I won't even say. Just because I am afraid if this is ever saw my identity will be given up. Weirdo. I am...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 4

    He was my best friend.

    I guess somewhere along the line I developed feelings for him, and when he asked me out, of course I said yes. He told me he loved me, but he was... just... horrible! He started spreading rumors about me, trying to prevent me from getting any future lovers. And the rest, I don't...
    InfinityMaster InfinityMaster
    13-15, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2015

    Self Victimizing Nymphomaniac Who Later Became a Man.

    It's ok to be a nymphomaniac. It's ok to be transgendered (in my humble opinion). To some degree I suppose it's ok to be self-victimizing (although it's kind of annoying and probably isn't helping any). But, if you roll all of those into one and start dating the strange...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jul 16, 2007

    Nathan: Multiple times during my young life,

    I have dated people who turned out to be crazy... And if they weren't crazy during the course of our relationship, they inevitably 'lose it' after we break up. It seems I have a type; and my type turns out to be rather screwy. Now, I don't scare easily, but I have dated a few...
    Lullacus Lullacus
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

    So my 'boyfriend', emphasis on the boy just

    broke up with me. I'm really glad actually. I'm so glad because when we were physically together I realized how irritable and intolerant he is. Dating online is awesome but its always best to meet someone first and date them and talk about the future. This man painted himself as...
    QueenByAllMeans QueenByAllMeans
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2014


    As sure as I sit here stiring my swirling creamy dream in my double shot espresso I watch as the marriage of the blackened promise of eye-opening experimental just the tip in libation. The white turns black to tan, the perfect bronze like the cinnomin skinn if the One who still...
    DreamChariot DreamChariot
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2011
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    2 Responses Jan 21, 2015
    Cargan2016 Cargan2016
    31-35, M
    Feb 1, 2015

    Part 3... The next day arrived

    and I was eager to get to school to finish my discussion with Nikole. I took my seat next to her and tried to start a conversation "hey nikole" I said enthusiastically. "Hey" she replied in a monotone voice. "What's wrong?" I asked. "Oh nothing" she reached into her backpack and...
    sinatranac sinatranac
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 25, 2015

    Yea my soon to be ex husband tried to kill me

    at least 2 times because he thought I would leave him at the time. We are ok now but just friends and nothing more. Then I dated a guy who thought he was a furry or something weird like that . I ignored it at first but he was to weird for me and he kept wanting to start a...
    c22dancer c22dancer
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2015

    Dating A Drug Dealer

    Rewind many months ago, to this night... From the life of dating a drug dealer boy, things like this happen. A lot. He walks in with dark sunglasses that conveniently hide his coked out eyes. Words are slightly slurred, and he immediately proceeds to begin chugging his personal...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Sep 12, 2012

    My ex was a sociopath

    and a drug addict. Never again will I make that mistake and I'm recovering from it because I know no one deserves to feel or be treated that way.
    Kimbahbay Kimbahbay
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    I dated this boy about my freshman year in high

    school. So, last year. At first I thought "Alright I'll give him a shot" oh lordy was I ever wrong!!!!! Now, most guys at my school only date the girl if he wants to sleep with her. This guy being an exchange student from Germany, I didn't think he would be as.... special. I...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014
    VFrankTruth VFrankTruth
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    Help I think my bf totally lost it I literally

    think he's going crazy and I'm not sure why he keeps talking about how he doesn't need to work and that he doesn't need money he won't eat sleep or anything... We don't even make love anymore and he used to love doing that. He buys all sorts of stuff that he doesn't need. And...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    I still feel like I'm dating them seeing

    as they turn to me every time they fancy going a bit crazy. It's exhausting.
    Serena6669 Serena6669
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 27

    I suspect he has ADHD

    and depression. In the beginning it was perfect. He was attentive, caring, compassionate and we chatted for a few hours each day. Then he moved to be with me. A completely different country and culture. The first few months were great, he met my friends and we spent lots of...
    ButterCly ButterCly
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    Ok. Not sure if he (or I) are crazy.

    I need your feedback. I am a 34 year old woman. I went on my first date ever yesterday. He wanted to make out as soon as we met (odd). During dinner (which I paid for because I didn't see this going anywhere...) I spilled a little sauce on my shirt...instead of telling me, he...
    Myzery Myzery
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 6
    tornadowinds tornadowinds
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 20, 2015

    It felt like you were studying me this whole

    time and used what you learned to kill me and my dreams slowly. You sadistic *****. Guess what? YOU FAILED! A BIG FAT F!
    Sen22 Sen22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 23

    So here's my experience.

    ... I had just left a very boring and stable relationship the girl I was with before did nothing out of the ordinary she was a typical high school girl, the break up was unexpected and yeah it hurt pretty bad. I failed geometry that year and had to go to summer school... That's...
    sinatranac sinatranac
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jan 21, 2015

    Many young women today are a bit tired of the

    usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger Women Older Men Dating . Are you a man looking for a younger woman, or a woman seeking an older man? Everyone has their preferences in relationships...
    celinecc11 celinecc11
    26-30, F
    Feb 2, 2015

    It didn't work out so I broke it off.

    ... Next thing I know he keeps showing up at my work but just to sit and stare at me as I work....... What a creep
    gildedlily21 gildedlily21
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 14, 2015
    chickengirl14 chickengirl14
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 17, 2015

    Started dating a sweet guy,

    then when i was at work i'd notice him watching me from across the street or following me while i was shopping. Once he began hiding behind racks of clothes in walmart trying to watch me i was done,i told him to leave me alone and of course he wasn't scared of me so it took my 6...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2014

    Never Saw It Coming.

     I've always considered myself, and been known as, a strong independent girl. If a guy cheated on me, it was over, if he lied to me badly, it was over, if he wasn't treating me right, it was over. One thing I couldn't understand was why girls stayed in abusive relationships...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08
    26-30, F
    15 Responses Jan 15, 2009

    So this is actually a 2nd crazy girlfriend

    story, the first one in on my profile, but you can just read this one. So, afew years ago in high school I dated a girl, little bit older than me, and 2 grades above me aslwell. Anyway, we dated for afew months and as the months progressed I started to see just how crazy she was...
    Travjack21 Travjack21
    22-25, M
    Sep 3, 2014

    Boy did I ever... Then I found out it was me!

    !! That's the last time I date myself. Boy I'm having fun on pain meds.
    lonewolf2060 lonewolf2060
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 12, 2014

    3rd story of a crazy girlfriend.

    Honestly, you would think I'd have better luck with dating girls. Ok, so the story is set back a couple of years. I started to see this girl I met out of school, she seemed nice, funny and again, abit older, not that its any problem, so after afew months everything was actually...
    Travjack21 Travjack21
    22-25, M
    Sep 8, 2014

    Some people just bring the worst out of each

    other. My ex couldn't put up with my stubbornness and independent nature. I honestly think that's what caused him to go crazy on me! Does anyone else feel this way?
    looking4wonderland looking4wonderland
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 19, 2014
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