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I Dated Someone Who Turned Out to Be Crazy

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    I dated my daughters father

    for a little over three years. I left him because he decided he didn't want to be a father and would rather drink. While we were together things were good. He worked hard to support both if us. I had my daughter and within 6 weeks drinking was all he did. I left. I still...
    jwiltzer18 jwiltzer18 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2014

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    Started dating a sweet guy,

    then when i was at work i'd notice him watching me from across the street or following me while i was shopping. Once he began hiding behind racks of clothes in walmart trying to watch me i was done,i told him to leave me alone and of course he wasn't scared of me so it took my 6...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    Boy did I ever... Then I found out it was me!

    !! That's the last time I date myself. Boy I'm having fun on pain meds.
    lonewolf2060 lonewolf2060 51-55, M Sep 12, 2014

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    Dark Wingless Angel.

    I had been dating a man, let's call him Bill, for about four months. I was young and stupid, and completely head over heels in love, and so when I started noticing odd things about my boyfriend, I brushed it off as it just being another amazing part of an amazing guy who had no...
    kazeldragon kazeldragon 21-25, F 24 Responses Jul 16, 2007

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    I didn't but my friend did

    and I really want to tell this story haha. So the kid had just moved here and he was a foster kid. When he was little, his dad was put in jail and his mom was a ********/ alcoholic so he was taken away from her. He went to go live with his grandparents who absolutely hated him...
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    Part 2.. I sat at the computer anxiously

    awaiting her arrival. The anticipation was killing me so I decided to go out the back door and get some air. When I re-entered the room there she was sitting at the computer putting on her headphones. "****!" I thought to myself I can't talk to her if she has headphones on! I...
    sinatranac sinatranac 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Ok we didn't date... But we hooked up a bunch

    and then I found out he was a paranoid schizophrenic. I should have known. This was the guy who wouldn't go home to see his folks at Christmas time because burglars would expect him not to be home... His moods were always changing and he freaked out about everything. Damn he was...
    lonelybrandi lonelybrandi 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    So my 'boyfriend', emphasis on the boy just

    broke up with me. I'm really glad actually. I'm so glad because when we were physically together I realized how irritable and intolerant he is. Dating online is awesome but its always best to meet someone first and date them and talk about the future. This man painted himself as...
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    I never date someone ,

    but now you see that dating someone is not always fun sorry
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    My ex was a sociopath

    and a drug addict. Never again will I make that mistake and I'm recovering from it because I know no one deserves to feel or be treated that way.
    Kimbahbay Kimbahbay 16-17, F Jul 1, 2014

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    Well he was cool at first then he said he was a

    part of the Kkk and a werewolf so I broke things off with his weird racist *** :S
    cicizzle cicizzle 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Well he turned pretty crazy

    for punching me.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2014

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    he was talking to himself

    and whispering!!!!!!! Then I ask him did you said something? he said no! you heard me talk? he is so convenienced with the fact that he don't talk to himself.. he is crazy....!!!!
    monafm monafm 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Have you ever brushed your teeth

    and then sipped orange juice? That's the sort of taste that being in a BPD relationship leaves you with. An intense sting that leaves your throat tense and your vocals crippled. I'm sure that there are people out there who have had successful relationships with sufferers of BPD...
    TalaSnow TalaSnow 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Self Victimizing Nymphomaniac Who Later Became a Man.

    It's ok to be a nymphomaniac. It's ok to be transgendered (in my humble opinion). To some degree I suppose it's ok to be self-victimizing (although it's kind of annoying and probably isn't helping any). But, if you roll all of those into one and start dating the strange...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 16, 2007

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    Some people just bring the worst out of each

    other. My ex couldn't put up with my stubbornness and independent nature. I honestly think that's what caused him to go crazy on me! Does anyone else feel this way?
    looking4wonderland looking4wonderland 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    Dating A Drug Dealer

    Rewind many months ago, to this night... From the life of dating a drug dealer boy, things like this happen. A lot. He walks in with dark sunglasses that conveniently hide his coked out eyes. Words are slightly slurred, and he immediately proceeds to begin chugging his personal...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 9 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    9 months together and then he turned on me.

    ..I dated my ex for a year he made me so happy and he was so caring and loving then nine months into our relationship he started hitting me and threw me down my stairs and he spit on me in the car once, nothing he said made sense and he started to always lie he had lied before...
    ChandlerTitus1 ChandlerTitus1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    What An Idiot!

    I started dating this guy that I met through a friend. He was 30 and I was 20. At first he seemed really nice, caring, sweet - everything you could ask for. Then my brother told me he threw his ex down the stairs naked!!! So I asked him about it and he said she fell. Me being the...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 18 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    So this is actually a 2nd crazy girlfriend

    story, the first one in on my profile, but you can just read this one. So, afew years ago in high school I dated a girl, little bit older than me, and 2 grades above me aslwell. Anyway, we dated for afew months and as the months progressed I started to see just how crazy she was...
    Travjack21 Travjack21 18-21, M Sep 3, 2014

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    I Shouldn't Have Ignored The Signs

    I met my ex at a party and looking back the whole reason he talked to me was because I had come outside and told my friend that two dudes were fighting inside when I came out of the bathroom, and I tried to stop it. (one white, one black) The white guy was calling him the N word...
    meadowpeace meadowpeace 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    I dated this boy about my freshman year in high

    school. So, last year. At first I thought "Alright I'll give him a shot" oh lordy was I ever wrong!!!!! Now, most guys at my school only date the girl if he wants to sleep with her. This guy being an exchange student from Germany, I didn't think he would be as.... special. I...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F Aug 5, 2014

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    I seem to attract these men like bees to pollen.

    It really is the craziest thing. I've had 3 stalkers, 2 abusers, and 1 compulsive liar and cheater. I have really only had one genuinely good guy and I ended up messing that up but of course I was a naive 16 year old. Now I'm 33 and afraid I will forever be single. The more I...
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    This Is My Revenge

    She said we we're gonna go to the movies but nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.................she rather stay at the party and get high...ummm yea so I made her to buy me a bottle of Risky and then, I almost drank the whole bottle of it and then......I was crying to her and...
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M Mar 12, 2012

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    Older Men=more Baggage And More Crazy!

    When I was 22 I broke up briefly with my long time boyfriend. I began seeing this guy who was 15 years older than me. He seemed nice at first. My family picked on me for it but at the time I didn't think age mattered and went forward with it. It didn't take long for me to realize...
    lotus04 lotus04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    What?

    Dated someone who turn out to be crazy? Hell, I married the *****.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship.

    Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend everything seemed perfect. He claimed to love The Lord, he acted as though he loved me, he seemed to appreciate my family. But after a couple weeks...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    Sweet guy, we agreed on the fact

    that we have been hurt a lot in past relationships, after a 3 months, I got bored, he wasn't the one for me, he would ask me for money as an assurance for love and care, not a gentlemen, doesn't know how to dress, he was embarrassing me a lot in front of my friends in the way he...
    melonladyy melonladyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    He Was a Complete Psycho

    He seemed fine for the first few months, then little things started cropping up but I thought 'who's perfect' and carried on. Then things started happening that I could not ignore. Took me a year to get up the courage to end it - I was so terrified of what he would do! I kept...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 29, 2008

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    Girl That Used Threats To Control Me

    I used to date an emo girl.  She was extremely judgemental, and we often argued.  I have nothing against emos, I just hate the music.  This girl is surely not like them all, yeah? When I said I never wanted to see her again... she threatened...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2009

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    So here's my experience.

    ... I had just left a very boring and stable relationship the girl I was with before did nothing out of the ordinary she was a typical high school girl, the break up was unexpected and yeah it hurt pretty bad. I failed geometry that year and had to go to summer school... That's...
    sinatranac sinatranac 18-21, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I knew she was a little off,

    but went out with her anyway. She turned out to be a total nut job. I broke up with her, and three months later, I get to my apartment with my new girlfriend, and ms crazy had broken into my apartment and was waiting for me on my bed with a 3 page front and back hand written...
    quboquin quboquin 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 13, 2014

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    Ok, It Only Took Me Four Days

    It only took me four days to realize that he was a completely broken, psychotic freak.  Had we spent any quality time together, outside of bar-hopping, I am certain I would've caught on even sooner.  Once we got away from the bars and the music scene, it was...
    hippieheart hippieheart 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 1, 2008

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    I dated someone who I

    now realize probably drugged me the whole time I was with him. I remember one time for sure, but when I think back on it, it had to have happened several time. I'm only now realizing it. Ugh.
    layladay layladay 36-40, F Aug 28, 2014

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    I think the universe thinks I like crazies .

    I ended my shortest relationship within Two Weeks, or maybe longer because he wouldn't let me leave. He showed up in my town searching for me THREE TIMES. I ran out of real reasons to leave like I'm not good enough for you. I feel like I'm using you. I am not attracted to you...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2014

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    Me and this girl dated on

    and off for a while. But she ended up being crazy. I thought I could ignore it but she started talking about death pacts and one night she started screaming at me to kill her and crying they she needed for me to kill her and I just called her parents and told them to get her...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Stircrazy

    As sure as I sit here stiring my swirling creamy dream in my double shot espresso I watch as the marriage of the blackened promise of eye-opening experimental just the tip in libation. The white turns black to tan, the perfect bronze like the cinnomin skinn if the One who still...
    EMinnovation EMinnovation 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    I'll do you one better.

    I MARRIED someone who turned out to be crazy!!! Crazy as in: turning up at my place of work. Just because she wanted a row at 3 in the morning! Phoning my parents, for no obvious reason than to hurl abuse down the phone! Spending half my salary one time because...SHE SAID SHE...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    My dad told me the story of how he met my mam.

    It involved dating her friend Claire, who is referred to as 'Mad Claire' XD
    existJenna existJenna 13-15, F Aug 4, 2014

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    3rd story of a crazy girlfriend.

    Honestly, you would think I'd have better luck with dating girls. Ok, so the story is set back a couple of years. I started to see this girl I met out of school, she seemed nice, funny and again, abit older, not that its any problem, so after afew months everything was actually...
    Travjack21 Travjack21 18-21, M Sep 8, 2014

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    I dated a women who turned out to be bat-****

    crazy. Originally I loved her since of humor and the fact she was smokin hot too. By the third date I started to see some red flags by how she treated her friends. At first I thought she had a queen B complex, but unrealized she enjoyed tearing her friend apart. I kept seeing...
    marquedose marquedose 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    Nathan: Multiple times during my young life,

    I have dated people who turned out to be crazy... And if they weren't crazy during the course of our relationship, they inevitably 'lose it' after we break up. It seems I have a type; and my type turns out to be rather screwy. Now, I don't scare easily, but I have dated a few...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Story Of My Life

    Just about every guy I've dated is crazy. From schizophrenia to compulsive liars, to just down right sociopaths. I'm majoring in psychology. It doesn't help I want to help everyone. I don't mean to meet these crazy guys they just find me!
    ivansmummy ivansmummy 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    jon5400 jon5400 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    Help I think my bf totally lost it I literally

    think he's going crazy and I'm not sure why he keeps talking about how he doesn't need to work and that he doesn't need money he won't eat sleep or anything... We don't even make love anymore and he used to love doing that. He buys all sorts of stuff that he doesn't need. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    Never Saw It Coming.

     I've always considered myself, and been known as, a strong independent girl. If a guy cheated on me, it was over, if he lied to me badly, it was over, if he wasn't treating me right, it was over. One thing I couldn't understand was why girls stayed in abusive relationships...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    I would venture to day that

    if you're over 25 years of age, this group is most likely applicable.
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    IngensImpetum IngensImpetum 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Part 3... The next day arrived

    and I was eager to get to school to finish my discussion with Nikole. I took my seat next to her and tried to start a conversation "hey nikole" I said enthusiastically. "Hey" she replied in a monotone voice. "What's wrong?" I asked. "Oh nothing" she reached into her backpack and...
    sinatranac sinatranac 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    Dated??

    Dated...hell turns out I was married to him for nearly 20 years.... LMAO...ROTFL
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    Within the first week of our relationship my

    ex-boyfriend said to me "if you're going to be with me you aren't going to have time for anyone but me." This was a red flag to me, but I let it slide... Within the next few days he told me "when we get married you are going to have a natural childbirth in our house. No doctors...
    amazingcuzitis amazingcuzitis 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2014

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