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I Dated Someone Who Turned Out to Be Crazy

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    Dating A Drug Dealer

    Rewind many months ago, to this night... From the life of dating a drug dealer boy, things like this happen. A lot. He walks in with dark sunglasses that conveniently hide his coked out eyes. Words are slightly slurred, and he immediately proceeds to begin chugging his personal...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 9 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Story Of My Life

    Just about every guy I've dated is crazy. From schizophrenia to compulsive liars, to just down right sociopaths. I'm majoring in psychology. It doesn't help I want to help everyone. I don't mean to meet these crazy guys they just find me!
    ivansmummy ivansmummy 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I Shouldn't Have Ignored The Signs

    I met my ex at a party and looking back the whole reason he talked to me was because I had come outside and told my friend that two dudes were fighting inside when I came out of the bathroom, and I tried to stop it. (one white, one black) The white guy was calling him the N word...
    meadowpeace meadowpeace 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Not Really Dated But Sort Of A Fling-Ish Thing... Eww..

    I stop talking to this person for over 2 years now and still counting, he was a complete liar and put on a good "face" for everyone to see until you see him slip up and acted strange. Total drunk, extreme smoker and zero motivation to pick himself up and expects everyone to help...
    23gorillaz 23gorillaz 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Ok, It Only Took Me Four Days

    It only took me four days to realize that he was a completely broken, psychotic freak.  Had we spent any quality time together, outside of bar-hopping, I am certain I would've caught on even sooner.  Once we got away from the bars and the music scene, it was...
    hippieheart hippieheart 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 1, 2008

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    Either all girls are crazy

    or I am always attracted to the crazy ones. At least they are always good at sex
    JoshuaAlan JoshuaAlan 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    MixedJayy MixedJayy 16-17, F Apr 9

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    Older Men=more Baggage And More Crazy!

    When I was 22 I broke up briefly with my long time boyfriend. I began seeing this guy who was 15 years older than me. He seemed nice at first. My family picked on me for it but at the time I didn't think age mattered and went forward with it. It didn't take long for me to realize...
    lotus04 lotus04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    He Was a Complete Psycho

    He seemed fine for the first few months, then little things started cropping up but I thought 'who's perfect' and carried on. Then things started happening that I could not ignore. Took me a year to get up the courage to end it - I was so terrified of what he would do! I kept...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 29, 2008

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    In a good way <3 <3 .

    Perfect match for me XD
    SteffXRocker SteffXRocker 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    I didn't but my friend did

    and I really want to tell this story haha. So the kid had just moved here and he was a foster kid. When he was little, his dad was put in jail and his mom was a ********/ alcoholic so he was taken away from her. He went to go live with his grandparents who absolutely hated him...
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    I knew she was a little off,

    but went out with her anyway. She turned out to be a total nut job. I broke up with her, and three months later, I get to my apartment with my new girlfriend, and ms crazy had broken into my apartment and was waiting for me on my bed with a 3 page front and back hand written...
    quboquin quboquin 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    Dated??

    Dated...hell turns out I was married to him for nearly 20 years.... LMAO...ROTFL
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    He Was a Freaking Player

    My friend Kathy and I met this two guys, the one guy was Jeremias, he was Kathys ex boyfriend. After we hung around at the city, Jeremias and I exchanged numbers. He moved 300 km away the next day. He phoned me and told me how much he likes me and he asked me if I...
    GrueneRose GrueneRose 22-25 1 Response Jul 16, 2007

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    I just disappeared. There was something wrong

    with her, and I knew alcohol had something to do with it. She was just drinking too much, not elegant for a girl, to get ****** up like that. So I went away. She called, confused, a tipical clouded brain under alcohol abuse. The last time she called was yesterday, telling me she...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M Feb 7

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    I dated this girl who just one day looked right

    into my eyes and said "y'know, I really hate you".
    DM5k DM5k 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    Oh Lord. I dated someone my freshman

    and sophomore year of high school and woo talk about controlling. It got to the point where I had to ask permission if I could go to a friend's house and he would get mad at me if I wouldn't finish a meal. Oh and texting another guy was considered cheating to him. I dated the...
    divaMary3 divaMary3 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    I once dated this guy

    who believed he was an angel , and could fly. Also that he was a part time wolf. He was just insane.
    CrushOnPhilBrooks CrushOnPhilBrooks 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Never Saw It Coming.

     I've always considered myself, and been known as, a strong independent girl. If a guy cheated on me, it was over, if he lied to me badly, it was over, if he wasn't treating me right, it was over. One thing I couldn't understand was why girls stayed in abusive relationships...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    I dated my daughters father

    for a little over three years. I left him because he decided he didn't want to be a father and would rather drink. While we were together things were good. He worked hard to support both if us. I had my daughter and within 6 weeks drinking was all he did. I left. I still...
    jwiltzer18 jwiltzer18 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I'll do you one better.

    I MARRIED someone who turned out to be crazy!!! Crazy as in: turning up at my place of work. Just because she wanted a row at 3 in the morning! Phoning my parents, for no obvious reason than to hurl abuse down the phone! Spending half my salary one time because...SHE SAID SHE...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My ex was a sociopath

    and a drug addict. Never again will I make that mistake and I'm recovering from it because I know no one deserves to feel or be treated that way.
    Kimbahbay Kimbahbay 16-17, F Jul 1

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    New rules for all people

    that contact me on EP I have been stalked and harassed in the past 3 years that I have been on here… So I’m making some rules to follow and may revise them as I see fit…. 1) Be courteous in your posts,, if you don’t want me to go on a temporary or permanent vacation...
    oneoldstud oneoldstud 70+, M Apr 9

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    Stircrazy

    As sure as I sit here stiring my swirling creamy dream in my double shot espresso I watch as the marriage of the blackened promise of eye-opening experimental just the tip in libation. The white turns black to tan, the perfect bronze like the cinnomin skinn if the One who still...
    EMinnovation EMinnovation 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Dark Wingless Angel.

    I had been dating a man, let's call him Bill, for about four months. I was young and stupid, and completely head over heels in love, and so when I started noticing odd things about my boyfriend, I brushed it off as it just being another amazing part of an amazing guy who had no...
    kazeldragon kazeldragon 21-25, F 25 Responses Jul 16, 2007

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    I dated a women who turned out to be bat-****

    crazy. Originally I loved her since of humor and the fact she was smokin hot too. By the third date I started to see some red flags by how she treated her friends. At first I thought she had a queen B complex, but unrealized she enjoyed tearing her friend apart. I kept seeing...
    marquedose marquedose 41-45, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    What An Idiot!

    I started dating this guy that I met through a friend. He was 30 and I was 20. At first he seemed really nice, caring, sweet - everything you could ask for. Then my brother told me he threw his ex down the stairs naked!!! So I asked him about it and he said she fell. Me being the...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 18 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    This Is My Revenge

    She said we we're gonna go to the movies but nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.................she rather stay at the party and get high...ummm yea so I made her to buy me a bottle of Risky and then, I almost drank the whole bottle of it and then......I was crying to her and...
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M Mar 12, 2012

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    I actually met him online.

    He lived in Europe and I in the US. We fell madly in love, and were in a long distance relationship for 2.5 yrs before I finally was strong enough to break it off. He was controlling and mentally abusive to the point I considered suicide. Each time I tried to get away, he would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 27

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    Many, in fact. But recently,

    and I feel like she'd consider this an honor, I dated a chick so crazy that she convinced me dating crazy chicks wasn't fun anymore. She crapped in my trash can. What more can I say?
    JohnMoreDread JohnMoreDread 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I just got out of a relationship

    where the girl didn't want my dog's on the couch. Or even in the house. But her little dog she always got on the couch. Its my couch. She went off telling me how much of a ******* I was...my response was simply get the **** out. Then she really went off the deep end. Telling me...
    copd1 copd1 31-35, M Jan 29

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    Nathan: Multiple times during my young life,

    I have dated people who turned out to be crazy... And if they weren't crazy during the course of our relationship, they inevitably 'lose it' after we break up. It seems I have a type; and my type turns out to be rather screwy. Now, I don't scare easily, but I have dated a few...
    Lullacus Lullacus 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 20

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    What?

    Dated someone who turn out to be crazy? Hell, I married the *****.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Addiction, Control & Abuse

    It's over! YES! It's over! I'm sitting on the steps out the back of the house in west gladstone where for 6 months I was pretty much in lock down! Abused, choked, slapped around, ankle dislocated, constant bruises from punches in the arms and legs, screamed at that he hates me...
    Heleena Heleena 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Help I think my bf totally lost it I literally

    think he's going crazy and I'm not sure why he keeps talking about how he doesn't need to work and that he doesn't need money he won't eat sleep or anything... We don't even make love anymore and he used to love doing that. He buys all sorts of stuff that he doesn't need. And...
    michellesydney michellesydney 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 3

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    Some people just bring the worst out of each

    other. My ex couldn't put up with my stubbornness and independent nature. I honestly think that's what caused him to go crazy on me! Does anyone else feel this way?
    looking4wonderland looking4wonderland 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 19

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    Violent Ex Boyfriends

    A lot of people have said I seem to go for the crazy boys. It's true but I don't intentionally do it. I'm a hopeless romantic, I fall for sweet talk instantly. But as soon as I've fallen too deep, I see their bad side. Two of my ex's were insane, one had schizophrenia, the other...
    meliscanatar meliscanatar 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I'm tired of being used.

    Now I'm just In it for the sex
    Jcb0118 Jcb0118 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    My girlfriend now x is a drug addict

    but I'm still in love with her
    ragnaar ragnaar 41-45, M Apr 20

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship.

    Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend everything seemed perfect. He claimed to love The Lord, he acted as though he loved me, he seemed to appreciate my family. But after a couple weeks...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 3

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    Girl That Used Threats To Control Me

    I used to date an emo girl.  She was extremely judgemental, and we often argued.  I have nothing against emos, I just hate the music.  This girl is surely not like them all, yeah? When I said I never wanted to see her again... she threatened...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2009

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    Self Victimizing Nymphomaniac Who Later Became a Man.

    It's ok to be a nymphomaniac. It's ok to be transgendered (in my humble opinion). To some degree I suppose it's ok to be self-victimizing (although it's kind of annoying and probably isn't helping any). But, if you roll all of those into one and start dating the strange...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 16, 2007

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    Started dating a sweet guy,

    then when i was at work i'd notice him watching me from across the street or following me while i was shopping. Once he began hiding behind racks of clothes in walmart trying to watch me i was done,i told him to leave me alone and of course he wasn't scared of me so it took my 6...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Update On The Webcam Modeling And Dating In General

    I haven't done the whole webcam thing in a while and I only tried it out for about two weeks. It's been fun but I think I'm just going to do without it for now. As for my boyfriend we're no more. I got bored of him. Despite his claiming that he was ok with the webcam thing and it...
    lolitalovell lolitalovell 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    I seem to attract these men like bees to pollen.

    It really is the craziest thing. I've had 3 stalkers, 2 abusers, and 1 compulsive liar and cheater. I have really only had one genuinely good guy and I ended up messing that up but of course I was a naive 16 year old. Now I'm 33 and afraid I will forever be single. The more I...
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F Jul 14

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    I gave her my heart, my soul but it was never going to be enough. Although I still love her I know I will never be enough, she will always want that bit more. I can't keep chasing...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 1

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    I just want to be important to someone who is important to me. I want to be their first choice... Not their second or last. :/
    ilovemalachai ilovemalachai 13-15, F Jul 14

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    I want to find a guy I really connect with. Some one I want to text all the time. Someone who I get along well with. I'm just not sure they exist.
    Nooneknowsmythoughts Nooneknowsmythoughts 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I love someone who no longer is IN love with me. I believe he loves me cause we have been together to long for him not to but I know hes not in love with me any more because he has...
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