I Dealing With Breakups

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 35 People

    Tired Of Being Treated Wrong

    Well every boyfriend I get they usually only want me for my body this time I got a guy and I thought he really loved me and wanted me but when I tried to get him back he said only for the pics I said okay not planning on sending them and then now I realize he doesn't love me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2013
    delgadom000 delgadom000
    18-21, F
    Aug 30, 2014

    Crying....

    Im crying. I cry everynight. Listening to said songs that remind me of him. I still love him. So much. He made bad choices that made me look bad. But i love him. And i miss him so much. Our convos, pics, kisses everything. I cant get over him. I need help. I hate crying every...
    bedazzledray bedazzledray
    18-21, F
    Nov 12, 2013

    I'm not ready to say goodbye But the closer we

    get, the more that it hurts We have already come this far, living off stolen moments I'm just trying to understand Take me back to the places we used to hide, where the earth moves slowly And a glimmer of hope was enough This song pretty much sums up my relationship with this...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    The aftermath of breakups really sucks.

    This feelings and everything freaking sucks. I don't understand guys and why they think it's okay to put us girls through hell. I'm so confused.
    lizygurl lizygurl
    18-21, F
    Dec 12, 2014

    My boyfriend of almost 6 years left me almost 8

    months ago. I am having still the hardest time to move on. I recently started counseling to help with the whole talking aspect. I don't know what to do anymore. He was the love of my life. Is anybody else going through similar experiences?
    jsummerboy jsummerboy
    22-25, M
    Mar 19, 2014

    She broke up with me last week,

    I miss her like crazy but hey it's her loss, I gave up a lot for her but krama will win in the end…
    BornInTheWrongEra72 BornInTheWrongEra72
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    Lol at the fact that he dumped me

    and now he's crawling back to me. Sucks😏
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2014

    Sorry so long but I need opinions here!

    ! My ex gave me The worst possible break up when he left me. He left right after the death of my mother when I needed him most which to make a long story short was very damaging to me in every way....and I was prepared to never speak to him again. After 2 years of hating him (and...
    Merrmaid Merrmaid
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 5, 2015

    the worst part is that no one ever tells you

    the real reason you broke up. yeah, they give you a reason, but 90% of the time it's a lie to not hurt you anymore. you're already hurt, telling the truth won't hurt anymore, grrrr...
    likesgirlpee likesgirlpee
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    So my girlfriend broke up with me,

    and says she wants to be friends and doesn't want commitment, but still wants to have sex with me and hangout and stuff...she still texts me saying she misses me and all that...what does this mean?
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz
    18-21, M
    Aug 5, 2014

    My ex boyfriend broke up with me on Friday.

    He told me he'd probably come "crawling back" to me at the end of the summer.. Not even 2 days after, he is crawling back and asking me to take him back. Hahah buddy, you dumped me!?😂
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    When someone is trying to break it off,

    don't try a million suggestions to convince them otherwise (unless it's a misunderstanding or its marriage or u have kids maybe). I know from experience on both sides that where there's a will, there's a way. Don't just assume they have the same will as you do. If they are...
    Merrmaid Merrmaid
    36-40, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    I was in love with her

    for 5 years, but I didn't think I was good enough, she said she loved me but I couldn't let someone so amazing settle for less than she deserved. I had a plan, I was changing for her, I knew what I was going to say and when I was going to say. She was always telling me that she...
    christian5415 christian5415
    18-21, M
    Dec 14, 2015

    I really miss my ex. Or maybe I just miss

    having someone there. Either way I'm miserable.
    itsmehere2 itsmehere2
    18-21, F
    Apr 17, 2015

    Boyfriend Of 5 Years Or New (potential) Love

    So I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years, since I was 16, currently I am now 21. He is my first and only serious relationship. We basically lived together during our undergraduate degrees, and now we are both pursuing our Masters but in a long distance relationship. We have...
    libertasforever libertasforever
    18-21
    1 Response Nov 10, 2012
    Merrmaid Merrmaid
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    What's it mean when ur ex (dated 8 months)

    wants to keep you in his life as "friends" even when he's moved on to someone new? This has never happened to me before.
    Merrmaid Merrmaid
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    I treated my girlfriend pretty badly during our

    relationship, and then she asked for space a slept with another guy. I can't help but feel guilty, but at the same time I didn't deserve that. Now she says she's not ready for s commitment, but wants to stay friends until she's ready to date me again. I don't understand what...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2014

    Today I ran into an ex I haven't spoken to in 2

    years. Was a bad break up. His choice mostly .... Right after my mom died. I almost spat in his face till he started talking. He told me for the last 2 years there's not a day that goes by he doesn't think about what happened. That he was so scared to approach me about it and...
    Merrmaid Merrmaid
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    I'm not in the middle of a dating relationship

    breakup but a true friendship breakup My cousin did something stupid with another guy and now the guy she's in love with is heartbroken I'm trying to help him through it but I think he's crying because he said he would go cry himself to sleep He's had a tough enough life, he...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 28, 2015

    My boyfriend is a nightmare

    and he has been treating me so badly for the past 6 months, we've been together for nearly 3 years now and I'm about to end it with him tomorrow.. He doesn't show emotion and he's a very heartless and selfish person.. I would be crying in front of him and he'd look at me like I...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    Jul 17, 2015

    I still think about my ex,

    having sex with her being with her. I know she's not thinking about me...and I hate that part, she's over me but I'm still stuck here with these thoughts, I don't know what I'd do if I saw her in person...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz
    18-21, M
    May 2, 2015

    I Hate You

    I hate that you left me. Left me without a warning. Left me without a reason. I hate that you're with her now. The one you said was just a friend. The one that will never love you like I do. I hate that you ignore me. Everything we've shared. Yet you don't even blink walking by...
    BreanaNicole BreanaNicole
    18-21, F
    Sep 9, 2013

    Left Me After He Came Home

    I stuck around waiting for the guy who I though totally understood me . He went to jail , yes it's wrong but we are all capable of going to jail . Point is I was with him for around 18 months while he did his bid . Always there he got my name tated nd everything he came home and...
    laurax324 laurax324
    18-21, F
    Nov 3, 2013

    Giving Your Everything

    Have you ever gave everything you had to someone, and then they basically just flushed it down the toilet? Welcome to the club. I worked on being better for him. I would talk things out instead of yelling. I never ran away because I was scared of being in love. I came out of my...
    BreanaNicole BreanaNicole
    18-21, F
    Sep 2, 2013

    It's only been two days without you

    and I'm missing you like crazy...
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    I am having a hard time coping with my breakup.

    I get anxious and bouts of depression. I need ideas how to move forward and help myself heal. Thanks
    sunsmiles sunsmiles
    36-40, F
    Apr 23, 2015

    I can't get over my ex,

    I told her I was done and that we weren't gunna get back together again. I sorta regret it, I'm so used to her being here, and talking to her every single day. And we ended our relationship on bad terms. I guess I regret a lot because I messed up when we were together, but she...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz
    18-21, M
    Mar 29, 2014

    I once was with this girl

    who recently left me. She would for a while always put me on maybe and sadly I kept believing I would have a chance and I would keep trying. On her birthday I brought her roses, made a birthday card,and even bought her Zelda necklaces of the three spiritual stones. She was...
    Ughast Ughast
    18-21, M
    Dec 8, 2015

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