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    It's only been two days without you

    and I'm missing you like crazy...
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    I'm not in the middle of a dating relationship

    breakup but a true friendship breakup My cousin did something stupid with another guy and now the guy she's in love with is heartbroken I'm trying to help him through it but I think he's crying because he said he would go cry himself to sleep He's had a tough enough life, he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28, 2015

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    Left Me After He Came Home

    I stuck around waiting for the guy who I though totally understood me . He went to jail , yes it's wrong but we are all capable of going to jail . Point is I was with him for around 18 months while he did his bid . Always there he got my name tated nd everything he came home and...
    laurax324 laurax324 18-21, F Nov 3, 2013

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    Tired Of Being Treated Wrong

    Well every boyfriend I get they usually only want me for my body this time I got a guy and I thought he really loved me and wanted me but when I tried to get him back he said only for the pics I said okay not planning on sending them and then now I realize he doesn't love me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    The aftermath of breakups really sucks.

    This feelings and everything freaking sucks. I don't understand guys and why they think it's okay to put us girls through hell. I'm so confused.
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F Dec 12, 2014

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    Boyfriend Of 5 Years Or New (potential) Love

    So I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years, since I was 16, currently I am now 21. He is my first and only serious relationship. We basically lived together during our undergraduate degrees, and now we are both pursuing our Masters but in a long distance relationship. We have...
    libertasforever libertasforever 18-21 1 Response Nov 10, 2012

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    I can't get over my ex,

    I told her I was done and that we weren't gunna get back together again. I sorta regret it, I'm so used to her being here, and talking to her every single day. And we ended our relationship on bad terms. I guess I regret a lot because I messed up when we were together, but she...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M Mar 29, 2014

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    Lol at the fact that he dumped me

    and now he's crawling back to me. Sucks😏
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2014

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    I still think about my ex,

    having sex with her being with her. I know she's not thinking about me...and I hate that part, she's over me but I'm still stuck here with these thoughts, I don't know what I'd do if I saw her in person...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M May 2, 2015

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    I really miss my ex. Or maybe I just miss

    having someone there. Either way I'm miserable.
    itsmehere2 itsmehere2 18-21, F Apr 17, 2015

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    Crying....

    Im crying. I cry everynight. Listening to said songs that remind me of him. I still love him. So much. He made bad choices that made me look bad. But i love him. And i miss him so much. Our convos, pics, kisses everything. I cant get over him. I need help. I hate crying every...
    bedazzledray bedazzledray 18-21, F Nov 12, 2013

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    What's it mean when ur ex (dated 8 months)

    wants to keep you in his life as "friends" even when he's moved on to someone new? This has never happened to me before.
    Merrmaid Merrmaid 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 27, 2015

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    She broke up with me last week,

    I miss her like crazy but hey it's her loss, I gave up a lot for her but krama will win in the end…
    BornInTheWrongEra72 BornInTheWrongEra72 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I Hate You

    I hate that you left me. Left me without a warning. Left me without a reason. I hate that you're with her now. The one you said was just a friend. The one that will never love you like I do. I hate that you ignore me. Everything we've shared. Yet you don't even blink walking by...
    BreanaNicole BreanaNicole 18-21, F Sep 9, 2013

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    the worst part is that no one ever tells you

    the real reason you broke up. yeah, they give you a reason, but 90% of the time it's a lie to not hurt you anymore. you're already hurt, telling the truth won't hurt anymore, grrrr...
    likesgirlpee likesgirlpee 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 6, 2015

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    So my girlfriend broke up with me,

    and says she wants to be friends and doesn't want commitment, but still wants to have sex with me and hangout and stuff...she still texts me saying she misses me and all that...what does this mean?
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M Aug 5, 2014

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    My boyfriend is a nightmare

    and he has been treating me so badly for the past 6 months, we've been together for nearly 3 years now and I'm about to end it with him tomorrow.. He doesn't show emotion and he's a very heartless and selfish person.. I would be crying in front of him and he'd look at me like I...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95 18-21, F Jul 17, 2015

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    I'm not ready to say goodbye But the closer we

    get, the more that it hurts We have already come this far, living off stolen moments I'm just trying to understand Take me back to the places we used to hide, where the earth moves slowly And a glimmer of hope was enough This song pretty much sums up my relationship with this...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 21, 2014

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    My ex boyfriend broke up with me on Friday.

    He told me he'd probably come "crawling back" to me at the end of the summer.. Not even 2 days after, he is crawling back and asking me to take him back. Hahah buddy, you dumped me!?😂
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    I treated my girlfriend pretty badly during our

    relationship, and then she asked for space a slept with another guy. I can't help but feel guilty, but at the same time I didn't deserve that. Now she says she's not ready for s commitment, but wants to stay friends until she's ready to date me again. I don't understand what...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 12, 2014

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    I once was with this girl

    who recently left me. She would for a while always put me on maybe and sadly I kept believing I would have a chance and I would keep trying. On her birthday I brought her roses, made a birthday card,and even bought her Zelda necklaces of the three spiritual stones. She was...
    Ughast Ughast 18-21, M Dec 8, 2015

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    delgadom000 delgadom000 18-21, F Aug 30, 2014

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    When someone is trying to break it off,

    don't try a million suggestions to convince them otherwise (unless it's a misunderstanding or its marriage or u have kids maybe). I know from experience on both sides that where there's a will, there's a way. Don't just assume they have the same will as you do. If they are...
    Merrmaid Merrmaid 36-40, F Aug 5, 2015

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    Sorry so long but I need opinions here!

    ! My ex gave me The worst possible break up when he left me. He left right after the death of my mother when I needed him most which to make a long story short was very damaging to me in every way....and I was prepared to never speak to him again. After 2 years of hating him (and...
    Merrmaid Merrmaid 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 5, 2015

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    I am having a hard time coping with my breakup.

    I get anxious and bouts of depression. I need ideas how to move forward and help myself heal. Thanks
    sunsmiles sunsmiles 36-40, F Apr 23, 2015

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    Merrmaid Merrmaid 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

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    I was in love with her

    for 5 years, but I didn't think I was good enough, she said she loved me but I couldn't let someone so amazing settle for less than she deserved. I had a plan, I was changing for her, I knew what I was going to say and when I was going to say. She was always telling me that she...
    christian5415 christian5415 16-17, M Dec 14, 2015

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    Giving Your Everything

    Have you ever gave everything you had to someone, and then they basically just flushed it down the toilet? Welcome to the club. I worked on being better for him. I would talk things out instead of yelling. I never ran away because I was scared of being in love. I came out of my...
    BreanaNicole BreanaNicole 18-21, F Sep 2, 2013

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    My boyfriend of almost 6 years left me almost 8

    months ago. I am having still the hardest time to move on. I recently started counseling to help with the whole talking aspect. I don't know what to do anymore. He was the love of my life. Is anybody else going through similar experiences?
    jsummerboy jsummerboy 22-25, M Mar 19, 2014

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    Today I ran into an ex I haven't spoken to in 2

    years. Was a bad break up. His choice mostly .... Right after my mom died. I almost spat in his face till he started talking. He told me for the last 2 years there's not a day that goes by he doesn't think about what happened. That he was so scared to approach me about it and...
    Merrmaid Merrmaid 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 14, 2015

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    Just wanna smile to them and wave goodbye :) however we will always have to deal with them and its just up to us to face it patiently.
    sabrinabryn sabrinabryn 13-15, F 2 Responses 26 mins ago

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    I met my boyfriend on here. The first time being on this app, my intentions were not to find a man. Instead, I was searching for people who had the same illness as me. I am...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 52 mins ago

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    To keep everyone happy I've changed an earlier experience. I'm an older male switch. I've been in the scene in either role most of my adult life. I'd love to connect with other...
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    Hi. I am 14, turning 15 in November and i need someone to runaway with. I am in Virginia, USA. Someone a bit close maybe a few states away but someone able to meet me halfway.
    Ineedtorunawaywithsomeone Ineedtorunawaywithsomeone 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    EVERYone knows LOTS of people with cancer(s). This time it's different. Recently started a good-standing relationship with father and half-sister since my 1st child was born...
    Amytina Amytina 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    It is only been a few days since I lost someone very special. I really haven't begun to feel it yet. It isn't real yet. I have been hiding in other emotions and losing myself in...
    JackisMe JackisMe 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Two days ago was our one year anniversary and four days ago, the day after my birthday, I finally left. After being beaten, lied to about everything, cheated on, and manipulated...
    ashespain ashespain 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hey yall, my boyfriend and I has been together for almost a year, he has three little girls that he loves very much, but his bm stopped him from seeing them, because of me. She is...
    scobryhol scobryhol 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    i empathize with anyone out there dealing with it.
    coffeeonice coffeeonice 31-35, F a week ago

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    For YEARS I was afraid of confrontations, and especially of getting in a fight - and losing. So I ducked them, and despised myself, and inside thought I was a coward. This went on...
    tjw747 tjw747 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My typical method for dealing with negative emotions would be to shunt them off into a tiny corner of my consciousness. That way I can deal with everything else that's happening in...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 16-17, F Feb 3

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    Hi so I'm posting here to write about my mother and how I'm affected with severe depression and anxiety because of her I don't like to point fingers or blame anybody but she is the...
    Pinkskiespinklove Pinkskiespinklove 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I grew up with my step father being schizophrenic. and I can say its not easy being around someone who has this illness. I developed bipolar at age 17 and have been dealing with...
    kparker33 kparker33 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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