I Decide What's Best For Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 253 People

    For a While Now

    I use to let others control my life... I had let them decide what was best for me, though none of those people really knew me as an person, so they didn't know best. :-/ I followed the advice, commands, and rules of others for most of my life. And it has always got me into deep...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 11, 2009

    Myself.

    I'll always listen to others opinions and advise, but in the end i'm going to do whatever i decided will work for me. i'm not saying my decisions have always ended up being the best, but at the time, it would have seemed the best option. i'm going to continue to think for...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2009

    What's Best

    I don't like when others make or take decisions for me.  I can take opinions or ideas and in the end, I am my own person which I decide what's best for me.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2011

    It's Up To Me

    It's up to me,What's best for me,I decide,Not you,Want my advice?Keep your sticky beck,To yourself!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Nov 28, 2011

    And That's That

    I may sound selfish but sometimes I think this is necessary especially when it is involving your physical and mental health. So, I don't really care if people say that I'm selfish or something. This is me and I don't need their approval. If people wants to give me an advice, I...
    amethyst91 amethyst91
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2010

    Tomorrow, I start at a new High-school.

    This has been my no means an easy decision. Junior year and I'm leaving the last two years behind. I spent last night crying about leaving my life behind, but this new chapter, starting in approximately 10 hours, will be a leap in a better direction. I do decide what's best for...
    IvanEstelle IvanEstelle
    18-21, M
    Sep 5, 2014

    Sometimes I Forget This.

    sometimes i forget that i'm a grown-up now, that i don't have to question my behaviour or lifestyle or beliefs simply because someone else thinks i should. even if i'm in charge of nothing else, i'm in charge of me. i view the world through my eyes. i retain what i...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2008

    Married yet found a man full of lust I fancy.

    He's given me the green light. My body says yes while my mind says no. As a teenager, I'd always dreamed of a lustrous, yellow Mustang GT. When I finally test drove one, I realized it wasn't for me. Too much power, too much of a risk; As much as I had fantasized about this car...
    LoveOverHatred LoveOverHatred
    22-25, F
    Apr 19, 2015

    Im The Boss Of My Life!

    I decide the best for my life. I dont care what other will judge. I dont give the ****! Thats all. Life is too short to think to much!
    PinkZlollipopZ PinkZlollipopZ
    22-25, F
    Nov 17, 2009

    A True Love StoryWe met on bigmingle.

    com, November 2007 and when we met face to face 4 days later, we knew that we would spend the rest of our lives together. We were married this past November 18th on the two year anniversary of when we first met. :-)It really works... open your heart and believe!!!
    abilewest abilewest
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    Pet Peeve

    After all how can someone else know what is really best for you. They haven't experienced the exact same things as you. They haven't felt what you've felt. They don't know you're inner thoughts on a topic. Ok so maybe doctors know what's best for your body, like if you've broken...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2009

    Trial & Error

    I certainly decide what's best for me. Usually, I'm wrong but I'd rather learn the hard way than have someone instructing me on how to do anything. I've always had a 'problem with authority' which I don't like to say because it sounds ridiculous. But it's true. From very young...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME
    22-25, F
    Feb 28, 2008
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