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I Define Love As

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    I Define Love As

     something that can be described but shouldnt be :] if that makes sense :P Words will never be enough to describe it even close to how amazing it is :P or how much it can suck :/
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Dec 15, 2009

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    For Me...

    There are many definitions of love. And I don't think any of these ideas are wrong. For each person, it's different and what works for a couple is the RIGHT answer for them. But for the sake of this story, I'll share what I define "love" as. :-) Love means knowing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 13, 2009

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    .....

    not slipping into hate when it all gets too much.     remaining friends throughout anything else       4am phonecalls; knowing when to make them, when to answer them, and when not to.       hospital trips, doctors appointments...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2009

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    My Definition Of Love

    For me, love isn't about buying someone flowers or any of those superficial attributes. One solid way to show you love someone is to do something for them that is difficult for you. Like, say, you have trouble being on time or remembering things and that bothers your partner, so...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 3 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Many Things

    A good definition of Love. There is Many Definitions of Love. Love is a Gamble we take. Risk involved with it. When we Give our Hearts to Love. We take a chance maybe we won't be loved in return. Maybe in the End Our Hearts will break. Do we take That chance? Some do I have. I...
    CountryAngel CountryAngel 18-21 2 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    1 Corinthians 13

    This is TRUE AGAPE LOVE <3 I wish a REAL MAN CAN LOVE ME WITH ALL THE LETTERS ;) If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all...
    InspiredButterflyPrincess InspiredButterflyPrincess 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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    liberating encompassing enlightening friendship Glittering nurturing exciting painful heart-wrenching solitude togetherness warm bright joyful comforting  
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 6, 2009

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    Just Feel And Live

    I have learned that love is different from lovingI have learned that many people love,but don‘t know how to love or understand what love isAnd a lot of them love, but they expect the „same“ love in returnThere is no same love, in each heart, different meaning of loveLove...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    Love..

    To love someone is to learn the song in their heart, and to sing to them when they have forgotten.
    indifferentangel indifferentangel 16-17, F Jul 9, 2010

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    What Is Love????

    Love is your friend, sometimes it may leave you but it always comes back. Love is a four letter word which so much powerfull meaning. Love is not to be looked for but it will find you we you least expect it. Love is a beautiful bird that sings you a lullaby, that a amazing sound...
    lortricez lortricez 22-25, F Oct 1, 2012

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    Love, The Word I Can't Define

    How should we define love?We all know that.. it is something that we all have.But do we all feel exactly the same?Or this is just another riddle or a game?Is there really an unconditional love?If yes, so, why do we have to call a cop?Saying, 'Love is blind' is such a lame.Because...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F May 5, 2012

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    Absolutely Timeless

    I believe in my heart that the concept of Love has always existed, even from the primordial dawn of time itself. Evolution By Langdon Smith (1858-1908) When you were a tadpole and I was a fish In the Paleozoic time, And side by side on the ebbing tide We sprawled through the...
    Joelwantsto Joelwantsto 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Something..

    ....that has no boundaries, that asks no questions, has no doubts, that doesnt keep a score of whos done wrong, always forgives, does things that are for the best no matter how hard it may be for you (for example even if you love someone if u know they wud be happier somewere...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 21, 2008

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    Love Is...

    If you can't stomach "sappy" lovey-dovey nonsense, then I suggest you stop reading, and go away. This is your only warning, and consider yourself warned. Love is more than like, so much more. I define love as a bond between people, a bond that looks past the superficial and...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Jul 30, 2011

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    Chemistry

    The love that includes sexual attraction, is a bio-chemical reaction in the brain, that makes you go crazy and act strange(in a good way if the other one is in the same condition). And the love you share with your close friends is based on trust and understanding(also here it's...
    Hacki Hacki 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 14, 2009

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    Love

    Love is like an atmosphere.  More of an illusion through which beings are emcompassed within.  It is like the temperature, you can't grasp it but you feel it.  Neither can you see it, or when you try to discern it as one thing or find the single source of heat or...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F Jul 10, 2010

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    For me love is a principle,

    not a sentiment. There is love based on facts about a person, knowledge of their mind not just how you feel for them or around them. Love is realistic and looks at the truth of a person. Not blanketing over the flaws but determining whether they are detrimental or personal...
    merrygentry merrygentry 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    Love...

    Is an illusion, it can drown those who cannot swim.
    LusciousLolita LusciousLolita 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2009

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    Sharing Time

    When I say 'I love you' it pretty much translates to 'I wish I could make more memories with you, and I wish I could bring some joy into your life' I beleive the emotional charge behind these intentions is strong enough to call it love. Besides, it really is stronger than...
    Blumcsi Blumcsi 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    Love Is Being Love

    When you are filled with love for someone, simply being there is enough.  It is not that their pleasure is yours, or that your pleasure is theirs.  Love is more than pleasure. It is not that they complete you, or that you complete them, you are both complete.  Love...
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    What Is Love?

    Not sure. But always remember a friend telling me that she was in love and he made her want to be a better person.
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Love is the desire the communicate oneself

    for the good of the beloved. Infatuation is inevitable, but love is a choice. Romance just happens, but love takes work. We do not want to rush things and we don't want to make wrong decisions, but if we happen to love someone, why not? After all it makes us less selfish, and it...
    Asurina Asurina 18-21, F Jul 3

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    I Do Not

     I dont define love.. because it's too precious and powerful feeling to be defined... we can't say love is this or that...  we can't write an equation.  There are too many exponents and variables.... 
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    What Is It to Me?

    For me, Love is putting someone above yourself. Protecting them above all else and making sure they are ok, even if that means you are in a lot of pain. You have to set them free, it's an old one, but it's true. They have to be free and it's a dichotomy. You must look after them...
    FrozenFire FrozenFire 21-25, M 3 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    Full Of Hidden Surprises

    The first time I ever saw the photo above, I scoffed at it.  Yeah right, somebody did a slick photoshop job on the shadow.  Gave it the shape of a heart, how cute is that?   But nevertheless, the image lingered in my mind. Then one day I just couldn't stand it any longer.  I...
    Joelwantsto Joelwantsto 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 4, 2011

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    That Thing

    This is a sequence of what I think love can be sometimes, I have only reach the after-love part, hope to get to real love someday...   The needy part: post flirt, giggles that come and go, laughing at stupid dorky things, drunkenness with mutual smells, difficulty...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 7, 2009

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    ...These Things....

    always being able to forgive each other, spending time together whenever possible, snuggling & playing, looking forward to seeing each other, laughing with other, laying in each other's arms & wanting to stay there, coming back together after a fight or argument...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 13, 2009

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    What Is Love?

    I always thought that love sucks because you can get hurt by it, but if you don't get hurt by it, then you won't be able to stand on your own two feet. However lately I think of love as a thing that makes you strive to better yourself to earn that love, because the person I...
    HTMK HTMK 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    I Believe That There Are Many Kinds Of Love.

    Love is not a tangible thing that you can see, so when you think of what love looks like, it can vary from person to person. What I think it looks like may be different to you, as well as what I think love is. I do not even know if I can put into words what i think the...
    phoenix924 phoenix924 36-40 Oct 22, 2012

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    How To Define Love ?

    What is love ? Why so much complexity arises when trying to define it ? I know the poetic people have already define it but i dont think that is not enough.Lets describe it in my ways, I am bothered with this question for a long time. One evening while walking on the street i...
    knightangels knightangels 18-21, M 1 Response May 1, 2012

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    Complicated!!

    Definition of Love? Wow this is going to be Deep. I Define Love as an ocean Sometimes Calm and Gentle. Other times Rough and Stormy. Love isn't the easiest Thing. You Give sometimes Receive. And Sometimes you Give Without Return. To me Love is a Risk we take. Always a Chance you...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F Sep 6, 2008

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    Love Is

    Love is being able to be together in silence, and completely happy. Unconditional support for whatever life throws your way. Agreeing to disagree, and allowing each other different opinions without judgement. Love is a hug when you need it, without having to say so. Mostly, love...
    krysi krysi 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    Treating People With Respectfulness And Patience

    I need a guy in my life who will be patient to my needs I need him to wait a little for sex and be respectful show me what is in his heart be cool and sweet and a bit funny and a bit charming but show me his heart and respect in a balance with confidence, and class.
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 19, 2011

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    Love To Me Is....

    I think that love is sharing with others, telling someone something that might be good for them to know even though some things are hard to hear. To spend time with them, to listen to them. Also, meeting their family and friends over time. I think love is also caring for others...
    lea1307 lea1307 18-21, F Oct 27, 2012

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    Love Is Patient, Love Is Kind

    I heard that in a song once. I asked my friend what she thought love was, she said it was evil and cruel. That it knows what you're getting into, but doesn't try to stop you from falling.I still don't understand what that song meant, though.Patient? As in it'll wait for you to be...
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 13-15, F Dec 7, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Love is really the most powerful thing and yet most people don't really know what it is. So I would like to share something I've found with all you posters. There are a few...
    thepurposeislove thepurposeislove 26-30, M Oct 27

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    So i just realized that i like my teacher like really, really like him. But i also just realized that i'm never gonna get him even if we both are attracted to each other. I hope...
    cutiex99 cutiex99 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have been answering the same answers to so many people here. So, I thought perhaps I should write a story about it to reach more people to also become more aware of their mind...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Your age doesn’t define your maturity, your grades don’t define your intellect, and rumours don’t define who you are.
    mstv1112 mstv1112 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I can’t help but live in my own mind. And let me tell you it is NEVER fun. I want to function in the real world, have close friends, smile without guilt. I want to feel like I...
    mentallytortured mentallytortured 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself. Wayne Dyer
    willbefreeiwill willbefreeiwill 36-40, F Nov 6

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    I was reading Sartre and Nietzsche at 11, Mein Kampf at 12, Theory of Justice at 13, Plato's Republic at 14 and I finished high school at 17, two years before my peers. Most of my...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 22

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    I am more than two decades younger than my wife and we have been together for 7 years. We definetely had our differences due to generation and culture in the beginning (and still...
    erikwho erikwho 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 23

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    I have been told by adults and teenagers alike that i am very mature for my age. Everyone from psychologist to students to teachers have more or less said the same thing. I think...
    chaoshead chaoshead 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    Maturity can be defined simply by a persons attitude, little else! Age isn't relevant to it as much as everyone might think. Upbringing is a factor, a practicality in the...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 16 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want love so bad but it is so hard to find it when you act like yourself.You always have to dress to impress and i think that stupid you don't have to wear a short shirt to get...
    lovevirus525 lovevirus525 16-17, F Oct 24

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    God I hope she didn't. I just lost my little brother back in June and even though I don't cry as hard or wildly as the first two weeks, last night I had a rough outburst of tears...
    BigBrainTheory BigBrainTheory 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    I cannot wait for this day to be over and I cannot wait for this day to be done I cannot wait for this day to be ended and I cannot wait for my freedom to come cause I suffer in...
    shaaka shaaka 26-30, M Oct 27

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    Love Defined By Yours Truly ?What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons. You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on...
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 Response