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I Deserve Better

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    ✏️If you can't be friends with me in public,

    then we can't be friends in private. I would love to be special, but a secret I will not be.
    andthislittlepiggy andthislittlepiggy 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I AM Better.

    It's taken me a while to realize, to really reflect on what has happened. But now I know: I deserve better than what you gave me. I deserve better than what you did to me. I deserve better than the life I would have had with you. I don't just deserve better. I AM better...
    Amay408 Amay408 18-21, F Oct 3, 2013

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    After Some Thought

    I have realized that I deserve better then you're lies. I opened my heart out to you, gave you all I could give of myself, and you ripped my heart to shreds. Through our whole relationship you always told me things I now know were lies. I don't see how anyone could lie like...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    I Really Do Deserve Better You Know...

    When I mean I deserve better, I mean a better job. I currently don't have a job, sadly. But I don't deserve to work in retail. I am so much better than that. Retail is only for the younger teens and adults that need money for a new pair of shoes. I want to work with the big boys...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F Feb 3, 2011

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    From Myself

    I do deserve better.  I deserve to be loved and cherished, catered to and appreciated.  I deserve to feel safe and held in love.  Where does one find that, when the person who is mistreating you most, is You?  
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Better Than You

    I deserve better than you. I thought it,then when we were apart i've realize and thought that "I can't imagine my life without you". Now i regret that I said to you " i deserve better than you", now i know your the missing puzzle in my life, my life would...
    boznicxs boznicxs 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Random Beating...02/25/2011

    On Feb 25 2011 i went to get a pop. While I was at store a black man was walking down the street. He was yelling things to me like hey sexy you wanna blank and stuff like that.. after about 5mins of it I turned around and told him where he could go, next thing I no I wake up on...
    barbergirl barbergirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I often catch myself thinking,

    'he/she deserved better than that.' It usually comes with a heart pang or two, and also a great sense of injustice. The sad truth is that we all deserve better, every single one of us deserves much better. No matter who were are, where we are, what we have done or what we have...
    PurpleGlassPalace PurpleGlassPalace 26-30, M Aug 21

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    I Deserve Better

    I know I deserve better. Yet, I would never leave you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 30, 2009

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    Do I?

    I dug myself in this hole. My therapist even tells me so. This hell was fabricated by no one other than myself. So, sometimes I doubt that I deserve better because I am the one who put myself in such situation in the first place. My question are then these..how does one know one...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    I won't go into details

    but I know I deserve better than how the last person treated me. I want to forget her completely, to take back those 3 years that was stolen from me. I am moving forward, but at the same time, it is not that I fear rejection from someone who I may like and admire, yet, I do fear...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I Do So Much But Get No Respect

    Latley i have been having some serious self asteem issues.. I feel like no one wants me around anymore. I am probably the most down to earth girl, super friendly, never was really in that"drama" growing up. I have a boyfriend we have been together for roughly 3 years. I am in...
    snowflake04 snowflake04 18-21, F Jul 6, 2012

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    Am I over my head? I'm 35 knocked up with the

    man whom I thought would be an awesome husband. No debt, no drama. He's 49 two teenagers he still pays childsupport for to a greedy ex. Why is it that I have to bust my *** at work, while he forks over $1,500 a month to his ex. He claims that he can't fight that, so he has...
    091011Andrews 091011Andrews 31-35 May 5

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    There Were Times In My Life...

    when i felt i deserved everything i got, all the beatings all the abuse, all the misery. and it drove me to self mutilation, balimia self harming, even attempts at taking my life. thankfully now i am older and wiser, i am no longer a victim, i have learnt to stand up for myself...
    jossiemarie jossiemarie 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    I Deserve Better

    I am in an unhealthy relationship. He is completely insecure. He spent 6/6 years of our relationship cheating. I know, you're going to say get out now. Let me guess, you think I don't have enough sense to figure that out on my own? Actually I do. That's besides the point...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    I saw him today. He went out of his way to make

    sure of it. He came to my job. I guess he thought I wouldn't make a scene, and that we would have to speak. He apologized, and he said I didn't deserve to be lied to. He said he finally told his wife. She is in the process of leaving him now. I can't say I'm sad about it. ^_...
    grinface grinface 22-25, F Jul 25

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    I, Me, You and We always deserve better my dear

    friends, agree? Anyone willing to give me some advice?
    SnowChocolate SnowChocolate 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Everyone is hating on this guy that im talking to an saying things like why him? Or you could do so much better but i havent dated anyone in two years because i always has anxiety...
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    the formative years of any person re so important as in a foundations of a building ..if they are weak theirs no question of the structure being strong..once the person has a happy...
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    sometimes all you have to do is to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve xoxo #youknowit'sallaboutyou
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    I'm such a sl*g. I sleep with everyone. I deserve to be so humiliated and punished for my repulsive behaviour.
    halfpace halfpace 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 29

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    i am a complete idiot. i think illogically. and ruin everything for my self. i dont deserve to live
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    I'm loved by my whole family but I don't deserve it because in reality I'm just spoiled, a waste of space...
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    I'm young, fit, and pretty. I have no problem getting a boyfriend, but I always put up walls that no one can break. I've made guys fall in love with me and even want to marry me...
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    Everyone deserves love but so few truly finds it. I wonder why that is.
    RedXSue RedXSue 51-55, F 8 Responses Oct 11

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    MY BOYFRIEND!!! He deserves to rule the world for putting up with me but i am so glad that he does okay so i made an EP account in August to save my life to be perfectly honest...
    SophieeJordan SophieeJordan 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    My mom has had to put up with me for 18 years she deserves more on my birthday then I do
    mrloweco mrloweco 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Except me because I'm a worthless piece of human trash who deserve nothing. I wanted to be loved but I can't even love the person I am. And complaining would probably make people...
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    Heather1234567 Heather1234567 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've always gotten along better with men. Throughout my years in school I had more guy friends than girlfriends. The trend has continued into adulthood. Don't get me wrong, I have...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F Sep 23

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    Yeah this is true. I just feel like I can be myself around guys, and they seem to understand my humour sense better. Idk something just clicks better with guys, as friends.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I've been feeling better about her leaving me. Not 100% but maybe 45%. I miss her a lot and she was a big part of my life. I'm leaving her alone as she has requested me to do so I...
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