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I Deserve Better

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    I, Me, You and We always deserve better my dear

    friends, agree? Anyone willing to give me some advice?
    SnowChocolate SnowChocolate 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I saw him today. He went out of his way to make

    sure of it. He came to my job. I guess he thought I wouldn't make a scene, and that we would have to speak. He apologized, and he said I didn't deserve to be lied to. He said he finally told his wife. She is in the process of leaving him now. I can't say I'm sad about it. ^_...
    grinface grinface 22-25, F Jul 25

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    Am I over my head? I'm 35 knocked up with the

    man whom I thought would be an awesome husband. No debt, no drama. He's 49 two teenagers he still pays childsupport for to a greedy ex. Why is it that I have to bust my *** at work, while he forks over $1,500 a month to his ex. He claims that he can't fight that, so he has...
    091011Andrews 091011Andrews 31-35 May 5

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    Better Than You

    I deserve better than you. I thought it,then when we were apart i've realize and thought that "I can't imagine my life without you". Now i regret that I said to you " i deserve better than you", now i know your the missing puzzle in my life, my life would...
    boznicxs boznicxs 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    There Were Times In My Life...

    when i felt i deserved everything i got, all the beatings all the abuse, all the misery. and it drove me to self mutilation, balimia self harming, even attempts at taking my life. thankfully now i am older and wiser, i am no longer a victim, i have learnt to stand up for myself...
    jossiemarie jossiemarie 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    I Deserve Better

    I know I deserve better. Yet, I would never leave you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 30, 2009

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    I often catch myself thinking,

    'he/she deserved better than that.' It usually comes with a heart pang or two, and also a great sense of injustice. The sad truth is that we all deserve better, every single one of us deserves much better. No matter who were are, where we are, what we have done or what we have...
    PurpleGlassPalace PurpleGlassPalace 26-30, M Aug 21

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    After Some Thought

    I have realized that I deserve better then you're lies. I opened my heart out to you, gave you all I could give of myself, and you ripped my heart to shreds. Through our whole relationship you always told me things I now know were lies. I don't see how anyone could lie like...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    I Deserve Better

    I am in an unhealthy relationship. He is completely insecure. He spent 6/6 years of our relationship cheating. I know, you're going to say get out now. Let me guess, you think I don't have enough sense to figure that out on my own? Actually I do. That's besides the point...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Random Beating...02/25/2011

    On Feb 25 2011 i went to get a pop. While I was at store a black man was walking down the street. He was yelling things to me like hey sexy you wanna blank and stuff like that.. after about 5mins of it I turned around and told him where he could go, next thing I no I wake up on...
    barbergirl barbergirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I won't go into details

    but I know I deserve better than how the last person treated me. I want to forget her completely, to take back those 3 years that was stolen from me. I am moving forward, but at the same time, it is not that I fear rejection from someone who I may like and admire, yet, I do fear...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Do I?

    I dug myself in this hole. My therapist even tells me so. This hell was fabricated by no one other than myself. So, sometimes I doubt that I deserve better because I am the one who put myself in such situation in the first place. My question are then these..how does one know one...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    I AM Better.

    It's taken me a while to realize, to really reflect on what has happened. But now I know: I deserve better than what you gave me. I deserve better than what you did to me. I deserve better than the life I would have had with you. I don't just deserve better. I AM better...
    Amay408 Amay408 18-21, F Oct 3, 2013

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    From Myself

    I do deserve better.  I deserve to be loved and cherished, catered to and appreciated.  I deserve to feel safe and held in love.  Where does one find that, when the person who is mistreating you most, is You?  
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I Do So Much But Get No Respect

    Latley i have been having some serious self asteem issues.. I feel like no one wants me around anymore. I am probably the most down to earth girl, super friendly, never was really in that"drama" growing up. I have a boyfriend we have been together for roughly 3 years. I am in...
    snowflake04 snowflake04 18-21, F Jul 6, 2012

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    I Really Do Deserve Better You Know...

    When I mean I deserve better, I mean a better job. I currently don't have a job, sadly. But I don't deserve to work in retail. I am so much better than that. Retail is only for the younger teens and adults that need money for a new pair of shoes. I want to work with the big boys...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F Feb 3, 2011

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    ✏️If you can't be friends with me in public,

    then we can't be friends in private. I would love to be special, but a secret I will not be.
    andthislittlepiggy andthislittlepiggy 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I messed up my ex boyfriends life. I cheated on him, hit him more than once, verbally abused him, took him for granted, got sloppy drunk and would pick fights, etc. I only treated...
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    If people can just see past physical image, the world would be a better place.
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    If man claims to be in love with a woman he should treat her like the most beautiful woman in the world. He should buy her flowers for no reason, get up early to cook her breakfast...
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    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 Nov 10

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    I realize that life is incredibly short. Since the love of my life and the father of my child's recent passing I've seen the world in a new way. Life is cruel, life is short, an...
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    Everyone must think I have a terrible life and I hate everyone and I'm gloomy all the time on here! Use this website to vent and get it advice but when you meet me I'm always happy...
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    It has been two years since I graduated high school, the time that should have been spent doing something worthwhile was wasted on doing nothing. My whole life up until now has...
    NONtoxic NONtoxic 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11

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    It has taken me a while. I have finally had a breakthrough not too long ago. After the person I gave my heart to left me I was devastated, broken, angry, confused and just...
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    Our lives never stop thriving. When I think of the thought of betterment of the self, I think of rebirth. Many people fear death as it is so obvious. When the ego dies, you are...
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    I like who I am but know i can be better. I have trouble with people who think they have a right to judge who i am and what i look like. I look like a super model and i guess bc I...
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    I need a male mentor whose gone through a lot in life and has managed to be successful inspire of all the curveballs and problems they've faced... Someone who won't judge but help...
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