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I Deserve Better

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 149 People

    Do I?

    I dug myself in this hole. My therapist even tells me so. This hell was fabricated by no one other than myself. So, sometimes I doubt that I deserve better because I am the one who put myself in such situation in the first place. My question are then these..how does one know one...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    I Do So Much But Get No Respect

    Latley i have been having some serious self asteem issues.. I feel like no one wants me around anymore. I am probably the most down to earth girl, super friendly, never was really in that"drama" growing up. I have a boyfriend we have been together for roughly 3 years. I am in...
    snowflake04 snowflake04 18-21, F Jul 6, 2012

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    I, Me, You and We always deserve better my dear

    friends, agree? Anyone willing to give me some advice?
    SnowChocolate SnowChocolate 18-21, F Aug 21, 2014

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    I saw him today. He went out of his way to make

    sure of it. He came to my job. I guess he thought I wouldn't make a scene, and that we would have to speak. He apologized, and he said I didn't deserve to be lied to. He said he finally told his wife. She is in the process of leaving him now. I can't say I'm sad about it. ^_...
    grinface grinface 22-25, F Jul 25, 2014

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    After Some Thought

    I have realized that I deserve better then you're lies. I opened my heart out to you, gave you all I could give of myself, and you ripped my heart to shreds. Through our whole relationship you always told me things I now know were lies. I don't see how anyone could lie like...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    Better Than You

    I deserve better than you. I thought it,then when we were apart i've realize and thought that "I can't imagine my life without you". Now i regret that I said to you " i deserve better than you", now i know your the missing puzzle in my life, my life would...
    boznicxs boznicxs 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    There Were Times In My Life...

    when i felt i deserved everything i got, all the beatings all the abuse, all the misery. and it drove me to self mutilation, balimia self harming, even attempts at taking my life. thankfully now i am older and wiser, i am no longer a victim, i have learnt to stand up for myself...
    jossiemarie jossiemarie 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Random Beating...02/25/2011

    On Feb 25 2011 i went to get a pop. While I was at store a black man was walking down the street. He was yelling things to me like hey sexy you wanna blank and stuff like that.. after about 5mins of it I turned around and told him where he could go, next thing I no I wake up on...
    barbergirl barbergirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I Really Do Deserve Better You Know...

    When I mean I deserve better, I mean a better job. I currently don't have a job, sadly. But I don't deserve to work in retail. I am so much better than that. Retail is only for the younger teens and adults that need money for a new pair of shoes. I want to work with the big boys...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F Feb 3, 2011

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    I won't go into details

    but I know I deserve better than how the last person treated me. I want to forget her completely, to take back those 3 years that was stolen from me. I am moving forward, but at the same time, it is not that I fear rejection from someone who I may like and admire, yet, I do fear...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    I Deserve Better

    I know I deserve better. Yet, I would never leave you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 30, 2009

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    Am I over my head? I'm 35 knocked up with the

    man whom I thought would be an awesome husband. No debt, no drama. He's 49 two teenagers he still pays childsupport for to a greedy ex. Why is it that I have to bust my *** at work, while he forks over $1,500 a month to his ex. He claims that he can't fight that, so he has...
    091011Andrews 091011Andrews 31-35 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    ✏️If you can't be friends with me in public,

    then we can't be friends in private. I would love to be special, but a secret I will not be.
    andthislittlepiggy andthislittlepiggy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2014

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    I Deserve Better

    I am in an unhealthy relationship. He is completely insecure. He spent 6/6 years of our relationship cheating. I know, you're going to say get out now. Let me guess, you think I don't have enough sense to figure that out on my own? Actually I do. That's besides the point...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    I AM Better.

    It's taken me a while to realize, to really reflect on what has happened. But now I know: I deserve better than what you gave me. I deserve better than what you did to me. I deserve better than the life I would have had with you. I don't just deserve better. I AM better...
    Amay408 Amay408 18-21, F Oct 3, 2013

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    The last time I saw him,

    before everything just ended, I felt different. Of course he was still the same -- laughing, smiling, joking, being affectionate, just a happy guy -- but me on the other hand, felt so different with him. I guess I had my doubts about him. The questions that have been lingering...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    From Myself

    I do deserve better.  I deserve to be loved and cherished, catered to and appreciated.  I deserve to feel safe and held in love.  Where does one find that, when the person who is mistreating you most, is You?  
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    She has been dating this guy for about a month, right? He just happens to be our neighbor. She tries to hide that she is dating him but it has become increasingly obvious they are...
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    I'm doing my part. In tired of struggling. I'm tired of stressing. Can't life be easier for a little while at least?
    LivingForEachMoment LivingForEachMoment 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I always feel better after a shower to it just makes me feel so much better no matter what day it is and I don't have to get dressed again until morning. Feels good
    btiny13 btiny13 70+, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Infinitesimally better!! Some people say the high school years are the best; others say the college years. I've done both, and for me, neither was true. High school.was.AWFUL...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Feb 24

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    Last night I was in a lot of pain thinking about my recent break up, but I'm feeling better today. The pain is still there, but I'm slowly realizing that I deserve to be with...
    frogbonsly77 frogbonsly77 18-21, M Feb 7

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    Until everyone is allowed to learn the topics they want and learn it in the way that best helps them, then no one is ever going to have a good education. People learn better in...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F Feb 9

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    I also believe that small breasts deserve to be worshipped! Hell I believe that ALL breasts deserve to be worshipped! :-) Now pray after me... In the name of the "B" cup, and...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 6

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    In my room I have a picture on the wall that has provided me joy for many years. This picture shows a beautiful stream with clear water, graceful rushes along the shore and...
    wantadoover wantadoover 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    I was off of school for a few days because I was sick it was great to be out I caught up on some tv shows and just relaxed. Everyone left me alone. But now I'm back at high school...
    Ginger1313 Ginger1313 13-15, F Feb 10

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    A real man gives his lady the attention she deserves, gives her all his love, calls her beautiful, and treats her like a queen..
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 16 Responses Feb 18

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    i dont want your pity but do i really deserve this???
    ember23 ember23 26-30, F Feb 10

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    Why do people act so nice and respectful to me? I mean, don't get me wrong, it's nice. Humane. I just don't feel like I deserve it. I'm a sickening person. I break hearts...
    JustThat6irl JustThat6irl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    It's my fault that I'm socially weak, have low self esteem and am depressed. I'm the one failing so damn hard, I'm the one stuck in some stupid disorder. I deserve this and I'll...
    xForgottenOne xForgottenOne 18-21, F Feb 11

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    Hey! Don't ever feel that you are a loser, come on now! You deserve something and someone Awesome!
    hazel1228 hazel1228 18-21, F Feb 15

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    I feel that all child molesters, rapists, and murderers in general deserve the death penalty in America and worldwide countries. I do not care if they are sane or insane. The...
    businesswomanathome businesswomanathome 36-40, F 42 Responses Feb 15

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    molesters and rapists deserve to die but we have to make the punishment fit the crime. I think that after being convicted they should be released the first one to remove his twig...
    ramvan ramvan 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Think Child Molesters Deserve The Death Penalty
    goodnites1011 goodnites1011 22-25, M Feb 25

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    Yea...i do...i feel like i deserve this...more pain....more loneliness...until i can't take this anymore and kill myself...that's my life plan...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I battled depression. And I got over it by myself. No doctors, no friends, no parents. Diagnosed in 2013 knowing I had been suffering it for years, and today... in 2015 I can...
    nataliafacheux nataliafacheux 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Bit by Bit I think everyone wants to make EP a better place, I know I do, but I don't think many people know how. Here I would like to list a few things that you could do around...
    Contentio Contentio 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 9

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    As a teenager growing up in society, people don't necessarily see what it's like to go through some things that I deal with. In general, a lot of teens have depression. What kills...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    I never felt the greatness of this shower thing unless I saw a documentary on discovery channel it said why shower keeps us fresh and energetic even if we are low Many enjoys...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    After the storm comes the peace... thank god am better no negative thoughts, he is changing me for better.
    fresa87 fresa87 26-30, F Feb 13

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    **** it. Pretending to be happy is much more easy than trying to get better... So that's what I'm gonna do. Shut my damn mouth and pretend that everything is fine and dandy. Just...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    "Over And Over" Neck Deep. Have you noticed me lately? I know I’ve been vaguely twisting my words, To protect myself from failure, It’s just part of my nature to hide in my...
    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Why is it that when you get out of highschool people grow up and act as if their lifes are better than yours? Like you know those friends who you were friends with for a long time...
    MKxoxo MKxoxo 22-25, F Feb 23

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