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I Desire Someone Who Is As Yet Unattainable

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    Want. Take. Have.

    I've written a few things here tonight and it's led me to think about several people that I desire, yet I've been unable to act on that desire. T'is frustrating, but an exhilarating part of life. Want. Take. Have.
    TransparentEyeball TransparentEyeball 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2007

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    You Can Run But You Can't Hide

    This is the story of my life. I think I subconsciously do this to myself. Like I enjoy the "chase" or something. I usually end up being just friends. This would be a very long chapter in the story of my life.
    allyKat allyKat 26-30, F Dec 3, 2007

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    It Burns, I Don't Deserve the Pain...

    I asked me to hang on to "the chance" that the world would bring us together, but said that we were just an aspiration. I believed, I was his Queen. Now, you, my Troubadour, shacked up with an impatient young wench who can't bear you being friendly to me. It seems that...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 2 Responses May 17, 2009

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    My Life, For A Lack Of A Better Title.

    And now: A story from the life of Ralvin Crow. So yea, I like-like someone who is, as of right now, unattainable. I don't think I'll ever attain her. She already has a boyfriend and my mom isn't too happy with her. If she was single and my mom wouldn't threaten to disown me, I...
    Ralvin Ralvin 18-21, M Nov 20, 2009

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    The Person I Have Always Loved

    I feel like I have known her for lifetimes.  In fact, I remember us as two children holding hands in a sunlit forest long, long ago.  We were happy, but somehow we lost one another in the course of that life -- or perhaps as we were born into other lifetimes, so many...
    InkArtist InkArtist 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 18, 2009

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    But I'm Hoping That Will Change...

    I've been dating my current gf for three years now, and things are alright. For a while early on, though, they were rough and during that time I developed a crush on a coworker. We'll call her Giselle. We were both student workers at the university, and though we flirted some...
    ADecemberist ADecemberist 22-25, M Sep 17, 2013

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    Sigh...

    i was able to talk to this male friend of mine just a few minutes ago... and it made me realize one thing. i still love him... and yes, he's still UNATTAINABLE.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 17 Responses May 17, 2009

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    Well

    I have him in so many ways but I want all of him . He is so yummy.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    MMMM

    I am so wanting to make out with a coworker yet I am starting to feel that he has the same feelings for me yet I think we both are a little afraid cause we don't want anyone to know
    Schilazy40 Schilazy40 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    I Desired !

    i desired heaven! its far away,    i desired my lover velammal she is far away!i desired to raise chidrens to great goals they too are far away!,i desired to serve all in yoga 24 hours that too withered to pain,but i desired india's victory in...
    sivoham sivoham 31-35, M Mar 3, 2008

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    I Am Always Drawn to the Things I Can't Have

    In life I always find myself attracted to things I can never have, to people with whom I have no hope of connecting. This isn't just a matter of, "oh he'll never be interested in me"; I pick people whose life's situations exclude any possibility of a relationship with...
    celandine celandine 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    It Hurts!

    Five years ago I met this guy, he was married and I was in a relationship. We got on really well, he made me feel so warm inside whenever he came over to talk to me. He is such a beautiful man. His marriage was over a few years ago and he came around to my house and we chatted...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 8, 2009

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    :(

    Theres this one person that I like so much and have liked for a really long time. They used to like me but now I think they just see me as a friend now. We text a lot and they say they want to hang out but its so confusing. I don't know what they are thinking (obviously) and...
    brighteyed brighteyed 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Cruel

    She is my soulmate. I know this. I dont know if she does or not but it is impossible to be together. We act alike, have the same thought processes. She is absolutely gorgeous. Absolutely perfect body. A sense of humor that fits me perfectly. I think about her everyday. I yearn...
    theguy5342 theguy5342 31-35, M Jul 5, 2012

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    Johnny Depp

    I am so infatuated with Johnny Depp sometimes he is all that I think about. I know I can never have him but that does not seem to affect how much he means to me.
    Sadstar Sadstar 31-35 Mar 3, 2008

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    Yeah, I must be a laugh. After all these years, not being liked by anyone, I still like people. My mind must be screwed up enough to still hope for something new to happen. And...
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    I don't know guys whether you're reading this or not, but I needed to write about it. Everything started 4 months ago, when my friend added me to a group chat with someone that I...
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    I am a Christian, 26, and married with no kids. My husband has tons of friends because he is very outgoing. I have a very hard time making new friends out of fear of rejection...
    loyalred loyalred 26-30, F 11 Responses May 13

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    I would date someone unemployed, only if they are doing things to seek employment. Even if they are going back to school, I wouldn't mind. But I will never date someone who is...
    Cadiaaya Cadiaaya 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    That's what i'm going to call it. It's hard living with someone who has problems comprehending certain things, and sometimes i forget it's out of their control and i become...
    SaintInHell SaintInHell 18-21, F May 13

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    Yea my soon to be ex husband tried to kill me at least 2 times because he thought I would leave him at the time. We are ok now but just friends and nothing more. Then I dated a...
    c22dancer c22dancer 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    I'm tired of falling in love and having my heart ripped out.. I just want to fall in love with someone who really loves me.. I want to go to college and become a teacher... Then I...
    2Thoughts 2Thoughts 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22

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    it depends. I would date someone who is unemployed and looking but unemployed and not even trying for anything is a huge red flag.
    Deeplyflawed89 Deeplyflawed89 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm in a new relationship with a man who I've known since I was 15 we have been close friends since High school and naturally drifted beyond that. We rekindled a friendship and...
    summerinthecity20 summerinthecity20 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Wow, a man just came to my door. It's midnight here. A man most would turn the other cheek and look away if he looked at you. He has done bad things in his life you can feel it...
    Golfknar Golfknar 36-40, M May 6

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    I was a virgin until pretty recently. Several months ago I met a nice young lady and she changed that. She has a boyfriend (not me) who had been gone far out of state for months...
    Greenigma Greenigma 22-25, M May 15

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    we would have been perfect together. It's been 2 years we know each other, separated physically for 1 year, so far but yet we became closer and closer each day until i fell in love...
    Sting23 Sting23 18-21, M May 23

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    More like in love. It sucks wanting him so bad, to just be more then friends but yet he's not ready for that..
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 11

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    I admire and respect him. He's the type of person that I strive to be. Yet if he knew what I really think of him -- rather, what I want to do with him, I feel like he would think...
    errarehumanumest errarehumanumest 22-25, F May 18

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    So it started two years ago when it was my first year at a new school. I started in September, and I saw him in November. He literally took my breath away. I didn't know his name...
    adivcepls23 adivcepls23 13-15, F May 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F May 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    Here's. My story. I'm Putting it all. Out. There for everyone. Knowing I will get some negative comments. As. Usual. I know that. Al of us. Suffer some kind of pain. From...
    sassygirl42 sassygirl42 41-45, F 3 Responses May 20

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    I am invisible. There's nothing more to it. Whenever the teacher in ELA says you may work in a group, I go to my group of friends and always stand where they are. But none of them...
    Lunamoon16 Lunamoon16 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    We live together but we don't ever talk about anything important or fun. He "sleeps" downstairs bc he finds it difficult to sleep in bed with me. I do my best to communicate what...
    jry5 jry5 26-30, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Who ever is reading my experience can feel and imagine the way Im hurt in your own situation. Yes, i was having a friend but i was seeing her more then a friend by which i used to...
    Abhishekabhi25 Abhishekabhi25 16-17, M May 23

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    I want to talk to someone that will listen, not just hear. I would like for that person to actually care and not just be listening because of some feeling of obligation. It would...
    kayblue kayblue 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yeah i'm sad because the person who i like didn't care about me ,he really don't have a reason to care ,he don't know who i'm ......Pretty sad and funny ,i talked with him 2...
    Blackyisblack Blackyisblack 13-15, F 1 Response May 3

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    Human existence itself is sinister, macabre is in its essence. The human being, by occasion, encounter himself in this universe, without an apparent purpose, without a sense or...
    DiegoSMarinho DiegoSMarinho 16-17, M a week ago

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    I used to belive that you would come around and realize what a huge mistake you made when you ditched me for the girl who looked just like me. I used to ake. I used to think that...
    Ennah Ennah 18-21, F May 4

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    7 years. The one person who brought me out of the depression was the one who sent me back to the pit of hell. Three breakups. With "unattached" sex. Moving halfway across the world...
    sashainez sashainez 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I've mentioned him once before. Kaden likes me. He's new to the school, for heavens sake! His friend, Alexander, is the cutest guy in the world. He came the same year as Kaden did...
    atfenix atfenix 13-15, F May 6