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I Desire Someone Who Is As Yet Unattainable

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    Want. Take. Have.

    I've written a few things here tonight and it's led me to think about several people that I desire, yet I've been unable to act on that desire. T'is frustrating, but an exhilarating part of life. Want. Take. Have.
    TransparentEyeball TransparentEyeball 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2007

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    Cruel

    She is my soulmate. I know this. I dont know if she does or not but it is impossible to be together. We act alike, have the same thought processes. She is absolutely gorgeous. Absolutely perfect body. A sense of humor that fits me perfectly. I think about her everyday. I yearn...
    theguy5342 theguy5342 31-35, M Jul 5, 2012

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    I Desired !

    i desired heaven! its far away,    i desired my lover velammal she is far away!i desired to raise chidrens to great goals they too are far away!,i desired to serve all in yoga 24 hours that too withered to pain,but i desired india's victory in...
    sivoham sivoham 31-35, M Mar 3, 2008

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    The Person I Have Always Loved

    I feel like I have known her for lifetimes.  In fact, I remember us as two children holding hands in a sunlit forest long, long ago.  We were happy, but somehow we lost one another in the course of that life -- or perhaps as we were born into other lifetimes, so many...
    InkArtist InkArtist 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 18, 2009

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    MMMM

    I am so wanting to make out with a coworker yet I am starting to feel that he has the same feelings for me yet I think we both are a little afraid cause we don't want anyone to know
    Schilazy40 Schilazy40 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    It Burns, I Don't Deserve the Pain...

    I asked me to hang on to "the chance" that the world would bring us together, but said that we were just an aspiration. I believed, I was his Queen. Now, you, my Troubadour, shacked up with an impatient young wench who can't bear you being friendly to me. It seems that...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 2 Responses May 17, 2009

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    Sigh...

    i was able to talk to this male friend of mine just a few minutes ago... and it made me realize one thing. i still love him... and yes, he's still UNATTAINABLE.
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 17 Responses May 17, 2009

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    It Hurts!

    Five years ago I met this guy, he was married and I was in a relationship. We got on really well, he made me feel so warm inside whenever he came over to talk to me. He is such a beautiful man. His marriage was over a few years ago and he came around to my house and we chatted...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 8, 2009

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    But I'm Hoping That Will Change...

    I've been dating my current gf for three years now, and things are alright. For a while early on, though, they were rough and during that time I developed a crush on a coworker. We'll call her Giselle. We were both student workers at the university, and though we flirted some...
    ADecemberist ADecemberist 22-25, M Sep 17, 2013

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    My Life, For A Lack Of A Better Title.

    And now: A story from the life of Ralvin Crow. So yea, I like-like someone who is, as of right now, unattainable. I don't think I'll ever attain her. She already has a boyfriend and my mom isn't too happy with her. If she was single and my mom wouldn't threaten to disown me, I...
    Ralvin Ralvin 18-21, M Nov 20, 2009

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    I Am Always Drawn to the Things I Can't Have

    In life I always find myself attracted to things I can never have, to people with whom I have no hope of connecting. This isn't just a matter of, "oh he'll never be interested in me"; I pick people whose life's situations exclude any possibility of a relationship with...
    celandine celandine 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    Johnny Depp

    I am so infatuated with Johnny Depp sometimes he is all that I think about. I know I can never have him but that does not seem to affect how much he means to me.
    Sadstar Sadstar 31-35 Mar 3, 2008

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    Well

    I have him in so many ways but I want all of him . He is so yummy.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    :(

    Theres this one person that I like so much and have liked for a really long time. They used to like me but now I think they just see me as a friend now. We text a lot and they say they want to hang out but its so confusing. I don't know what they are thinking (obviously) and...
    brighteyed brighteyed 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    You Can Run But You Can't Hide

    This is the story of my life. I think I subconsciously do this to myself. Like I enjoy the "chase" or something. I usually end up being just friends. This would be a very long chapter in the story of my life.
    allyKat allyKat 26-30, F Dec 3, 2007

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    I believed this was my fault from the minute I said "I'm in love with you." I didn't think after that, everything would begin to change and feelings would become more unbearable...
    ThatOneComplexGirl ThatOneComplexGirl 18-21, F Nov 21

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    Someone who won't criticize my every thought.. My whole life
    Anngeleyes Anngeleyes 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    How do you start moving on from someone who falls out of love for you?
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 21

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    It's sad but after 17 years of marriage I can honestly say my husband doesn't know me. He's nice, and does the best he can I suppose. But, I feel like he has absolutely no desire...
    justjayne justjayne 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    He'l never love me , not like he loves HER .. No matter how hard I try I will never be what he wants because I am just not that person. I can't be someone I'm not. I can't change...
    Purrkitty Purrkitty 31-35, F Nov 29

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    I have an emotionally unavailable, passive aggressive husband. Where does he get it? His parents. His parents are divorced and both had a part in ruining him but his mom had the...
    Ladyscorpioz Ladyscorpioz 36-40, F Nov 24

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    I find that in most cases (unless you're lucky) the one you want is the one you can't have. There's this boy who has stayed in contact with me for just under 4 years and always...
    hayl13 hayl13 16-17, F Nov 24

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    I first fell in love I guess when I was in high school. I don't think it was puppy love since I was caring unconditionally for him, but maybe it's just because I'm naturally more...
    hesitations hesitations 16-17, M Dec 4

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    if you have someone in your life who genuinely cares about how your day went, and listens fully to the ****** up **** that goes on in your mind, and answers your texts or calls you...
    SrColins SrColins 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 26

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    Chris - We met out on the street... I was looking for someone and asked him if he knew that person. One thing lead to another, next thing you know I'm shooting up meth for the...
    sadvibes sadvibes 18-21, F Nov 26

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    It would be awesome to meet someone in real life not on EP who like to wear full body spandex suits. We could hang out in our spandex suits, do things with our spandex suits on...
    RedBlueandBlack RedBlueandBlack 18-21, M Nov 28

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    I guess it would be nice to talk to someone else who understand exactly what and how I was feeling, and I could share everything I was feeling and there would be no judgement...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Yeah well I met him like 3 months back and we were the best of friends since then. I had a break up with my bf back then n this guy was like always there for me after that. I...
    callmeLys callmeLys 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I met him in the beginning of the school year. He looked like someone I'd been looking for for some time, and I never expected to find someone like him at a place like that. I felt...
    bruhchan bruhchan 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I met a boy when I was seven years old and he would turn out to be someone that I would love without question for close to fifteen years. We were friends and then best friends for...
    little3M little3M 22-25, F Nov 20

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    I'm not really sure what love is, so I'll just say I've liked a guy for almost 4 years. And obviously, he doesn't know me. It wasn't love at first sight. We were in the same...
    rachelenid rachelenid 18-21, F Nov 20

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    I have always been really close with this guy (lets name him S) who is my best friends brother (sucks). When I was about 8 years old my mom moved to a different country and i had...
    ilovecookiesalways ilovecookiesalways 13-15, F Nov 23

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    It takes a lot for me to like someone, as in future relationship like. I have to feel comfortable with them and there has to be a deep emotional connection. So of course, with...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    The thing is that I don't want to like him. We started talking in ninth grade he expressed interest in me first. I didn't flirt back cause I was good friends with his girlfriend. I...
    Elizabeth9697 Elizabeth9697 16-17, F Dec 1

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    Im SO lonely and SO sick. I need "someone"
    Pot1023 Pot1023 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    This will be my last post about him... There was this guy i met here in ep. We had fun and so i thought. I haven't talk to him for 2 days cause im hurting.... im hurting because he...
    Moonembracingthesun Moonembracingthesun 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Hi guys. I really need someone to talk to right now. I feel so lonely.
    iwannabehappyman iwannabehappyman 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    Hey, I like this guy in school, but I have no idea how to make contact with him, because he's not in my group of friends. Can someone give me some tips or ideas what I should do ?
    joost98 joost98 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 9

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    One afternoon, a friend called me at work to tell me that *****, the guy I had, secretly, been desperately in love with, had broken up with his girlfriend of several years. To say...
    waterbaby79 waterbaby79 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    I really want to talk to someone my name is Taylor and I am open to anyone
    taylorbaby0117 taylorbaby0117 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    So i thought i met someone on EP and it was 'going' some where... at least i thought it was... and i mean just on a conversational level, just by sharing my feelings and so on. But...
    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 26-30, M Dec 11

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    Hello i am 21 and i isolated myself from society for a couple years. Nowadays i wanna meet and talk to people but it seems im just to different i dont nknow what to do because i...
    livetobefree12 livetobefree12 18-21, M Dec 11

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    It seems as though every relationship I am in is the same thing. Over and over. I fall in love with someone and they don't love me back or they love me but they aren't in love with...
    Eve92 Eve92 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It was like fairytale.. My dream came true... I had dreamed about it.. Had been with so many useless, clumzy and ugly ones.. And then I got this beautiful.. Perfect one.. I was...
    caramellacrisby caramellacrisby 22-25, F Nov 20

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