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I Desire to Be In An Intimate Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 388 People

    I Will Never Be In Love

    I am currently in my 50's and have just about decided that there is nobody for me and I will never be loved by a woman. Women have never found me attractive even when I was young, in my whole life I have only had two girl friends. I have tried online dating but that only provides...
    milkman59 milkman59 51-55, M 6 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    Desire At 34

    I've always heard other people say that intimacy and affection are normal, and natural, things for humans to want, and share. I see it in the media almost every day. Every day, I go out, and see couples together, holding hands, or sharing a cuddle or a kiss. I just wonder when...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    Hopefully

    i really would like this, i just want to experience someone on a really intimate level, mind, body, soul but im a bit afraid to let myself go, i really need to connect again
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2008

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    Want & Need!!

    I want & need intimacy so badly I ache for it...want the thrill & heat of uncontrolled passion...passion to explore with each other any pleasure we wish to experience, even if we experience some things only once...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 20, 2009

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    The hearts wants what it wants.

    Even tho the brain thinks the heart is retarded.
    kickthewall kickthewall 26-30, M Oct 7, 2014

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    I Want It Soooo Bad........

    There's an overwhelming feeling of want inside me that I can't shake.  My boyfriend of almost a year broke up with me a few weeks ago and I wadevastated.  Thought I would never be that girl, but I was/am her.  The weeks in passing have been slow moving and at times emotional...
    freespiritkim freespiritkim 31-35, F 4 Responses May 19, 2011

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    I Miss My Ex

    i miss him for a few reasons. a major (but not whole reason) is the sex. i could go out and have sex whoever but i love that passion and comfort i had with him. its gone... and now im alone and horny!
    pinkLamped pinkLamped 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    I am really bored. Anybody up

    for a clean chat. Just message me... Depressed. :(
    Charmeeee Charmeeee 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    This is another reason

    why I'm single because I can not stay with someone and not be intimate for longer than 3-6 months
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    The Want.

    First off. I know many people are going to read this and notice that I'm between eighteen and twenty-one or whatever the range is. Most will think I'm arrogant and stupid as they scoff at me posting a story on this particular topic. But, there are those of us that know what we...
    Frost119 Frost119 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    It'S About Time

    I think it's high time I was in an intimate relationship. With everything I've been through this past year, I think I owe it to myself. It's just that I've been so concerned about being able to trust someone again. I must have more faith in people. I've got to the point I miss so...
    Waymor Waymor 51-55, M 1 Response May 3, 2013

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    Late night always have me thing of

    when i was in love but times have changed, people have change. yet i stay stagnant. I yearn to love someone like a i used too. hopefully ill meet someone who will accept me
    zackattack38 zackattack38 18-21, M Sep 28, 2014

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    Somedays I feel like I need to be in a

    relationship and enjoy the intimacy..the dating..the breaking down of walls..the mind games and finally the hugs..comfort...friendship..sex...openness....sigh
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    I am not necessarily talking about sex.

    I'm talking about that one person who is always there. You know absolutely everything about them. Their fears, strengths and weaknesses. To me that kind of closeness is the best thing in the world. There's no secrets and no shame just the wonderful feeling of togetherness no...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Nov 10, 2014

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    It's Been A Year..

    It was about a week ago this week that we broke up. Ever since then, I have been searching. The time we had together was the best I have ever lived. Now I feel like I am going around just existing, not living. I am probably one of those people who need to be involved to feel...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5, 2010

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    I Wouldn't Have It Any Other Way!

    Frankly, I can't imagine not being in a intimate relationship. I know what I need and want, do you?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2011

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    My whole life women have never liked me or found me attractive; I sign up for online dating sites and I send them emails. They either do not respond or all they want to do is talk online, I ask if we can meet and they say no. When I was younger I would ask them out and the answer...
    milkman59 milkman59 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    What Will It Take?

    I know im not the best of looking people, but i have been told that im very cute. i have tryed to ask some people out for dinner even brong flowers to them. nothing seems to work ik what im doing wrong it has been months since i have even had a hug.... im a LEO and i desire human...
    woodzykiler woodzykiler 26-30, M Sep 9, 2012

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    Will Real Love Ever Find Me...

    Seems like with ever time I date I get more and more hurt...
    BloodyTale BloodyTale 22-25, F Jul 21, 2013

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    You begin a process of dating and discover the wonders of another person. You find yourself excited and happy to take that risk to allow yourself to trust being vulnerable and open...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    Hi there... I need some help from others that have gotten out of a narcissistic marriage, and have kids. Here's the rough sketch of my story: I was in relationship and married to...
    beesknees12 beesknees12 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 16

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    Physical Intimatecy, not so much the sex, but all the stuff that can come before and after. I married at 18, was a mother of 2 by 19. My dad thought marriage was the right...
    mor2life3 mor2life3 51-55, F 3 days ago

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    I love my wife and we have been married for more than 20 years, but I realize I am not able to stay satisfied in a strictly monogamous relationship. Five years into our marriage...
    jwtecy jwtecy 46-50, M Feb 24

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    Like, no!!! Not having my man by my side every night is pure hell on earth. I just don't see the point in being in a relationship where you can't even physically feel him. Having...
    trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE 26-30, F Feb 23

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    Very recently, my girlfriend and I decided to take a break in a relationship since we have issues to be worked out between us. The first couple of days felt as if things were never...
    choeysmalls choeysmalls 31-35, M Feb 8

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    I'm 37, and I'm stuck in a 5 year old, horribly lonely marriage because I have a toddler and I'm unwilling to not have him with me every day. I know my husband will fight for...
    wheresmyrescueparty wheresmyrescueparty 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Being lonely doesn't always mean you hate being alone. Sometimes it is just a longing for connection.. To experience romance. Wanting a relationship doesn't mean you need one.. It...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    In particular my relationships....the girls and women I have known intimately, and of course the crumbs who stole them from me! I can't stop writing about them...and one in...
    slickboots slickboots 66-70, M Feb 17

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    7 year relationship. Never cheated but break up THEN slept with someone. HE broke up with me. Got back together. He left me again... He slept with 2 women I know about. Back...
    drp510 drp510 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Desire is natural. I desire for food, I desire for water, I desire for shelter, I desire for sex, I desire for companionship, to be comfortable rather than uncomfortable, to have...
    paleryder paleryder 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I have never been in a good relationship with anyone they always want something out of it is it so hard to feel cherished and desired by someone you care about.
    WereAllMadHere1124 WereAllMadHere1124 16-17, M Feb 21

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    Mainly because I end up getting in long term committed, monogamous relationships with the wrong people and for too long because I have an innate desire to partner up!!! Either that...
    shantel25 shantel25 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I enjoy having fun and connecting with my wife, both emotionally and physically. Being romantic or intimate doesn't always have to lead to sex and I get that.  I know painting...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have found him! The perfect daddy!! He's not just my daddy...he's my best friend, my go to person for anything and my saving grace. Daddy is so kind, sweet, funny, sexy...
    VolcanicMermaid VolcanicMermaid 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    MY words may not Carry Weight with "you" As A Female. IF I interject Another Womans words, however, perhaps you'll Listen ?? FROM a newspaper columnist, I quote the following from...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 Feb 18

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    I still have this desire. I am a white guy attracted to all kinds of women, but especially Asian and black women. The thought of making love to a beautiful woman of a different...
    theboywiththebread theboywiththebread 26-30, M Feb 21

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    I miss being in Love. I have been married for 13 years now. My husband no longer desires me. He cheated on me before, I sometimes think he's doing it again. All I know is we haven...
    mesummer73 mesummer73 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm quite certain most of us do! I know that I struggle with it frequently.....pretty much on a non-stop basis. For me, the dividing line has become emotional or mental pain. If...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    A smile crossed her lips as she tried to imagine the look on his face right now. She was aware that if his desire for her was as strong as her desire for him then not being able...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    A smile crossed my lips as I tried to imagine the look on his face right now. I was aware that if his desire for me was as strong as my desire for him then not being able to touch...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F Feb 15

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    I spent a year studying abroad halfway across the world in Asia. I met my boyfriend, a native there, towards the end of my stay, 3 months before my flight back home to Europe. We...
    whanxbb whanxbb 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    While expressing your needs and feelings in a positive way to your significant other is a good foundation for resolving conflicts and building a healthy relationship, these skills...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I am in the same position! Never in my life have I cheated on anyone! I'm in a marriage with a bipolar man who is heavily medicated and no desire for sex anymore. I am a very...
    blessed1966 blessed1966 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    Had a crazy Sunday. Out of loneliness and sadness. But desire serious.