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I Desire to Be In An Intimate Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 443 People

    I am not necessarily talking about sex.

    I'm talking about that one person who is always there. You know absolutely everything about them. Their fears, strengths and weaknesses. To me that kind of closeness is the best thing in the world. There's no secrets and no shame just the wonderful feeling of togetherness no...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Nov 10, 2014

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    I Will Never Be In Love

    I am currently in my 50's and have just about decided that there is nobody for me and I will never be loved by a woman. Women have never found me attractive even when I was young, in my whole life I have only had two girl friends. I have tried online dating but that only provides...
    milkman59 milkman59 51-55, M 6 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    I Wouldn't Have It Any Other Way!

    Frankly, I can't imagine not being in a intimate relationship. I know what I need and want, do you?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2011

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    Hopefully

    i really would like this, i just want to experience someone on a really intimate level, mind, body, soul but im a bit afraid to let myself go, i really need to connect again
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2008

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    My whole life women have never liked me or found me attractive; I sign up for online dating sites and I send them emails. They either do not respond or all they want to do is talk online, I ask if we can meet and they say no. When I was younger I would ask them out and the answer...
    milkman59 milkman59 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    The hearts wants what it wants.

    Even tho the brain thinks the heart is retarded.
    kickthewall kickthewall 26-30, M Oct 7, 2014

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    Desire At 34

    I've always heard other people say that intimacy and affection are normal, and natural, things for humans to want, and share. I see it in the media almost every day. Every day, I go out, and see couples together, holding hands, or sharing a cuddle or a kiss. I just wonder when...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    It'S About Time

    I think it's high time I was in an intimate relationship. With everything I've been through this past year, I think I owe it to myself. It's just that I've been so concerned about being able to trust someone again. I must have more faith in people. I've got to the point I miss so...
    Waymor Waymor 51-55, M 1 Response May 3, 2013

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    Late night always have me thing of

    when i was in love but times have changed, people have change. yet i stay stagnant. I yearn to love someone like a i used too. hopefully ill meet someone who will accept me
    zackattack38 zackattack38 18-21, M Sep 28, 2014

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    I am really bored. Anybody up

    for a clean chat. Just message me... Depressed. :(
    Charmeeee Charmeeee 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    The Want.

    First off. I know many people are going to read this and notice that I'm between eighteen and twenty-one or whatever the range is. Most will think I'm arrogant and stupid as they scoff at me posting a story on this particular topic. But, there are those of us that know what we...
    Frost119 Frost119 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    It's Been A Year..

    It was about a week ago this week that we broke up. Ever since then, I have been searching. The time we had together was the best I have ever lived. Now I feel like I am going around just existing, not living. I am probably one of those people who need to be involved to feel...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5, 2010

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    Want & Need!!

    I want & need intimacy so badly I ache for it...want the thrill & heat of uncontrolled passion...passion to explore with each other any pleasure we wish to experience, even if we experience some things only once...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 20, 2009

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    Will Real Love Ever Find Me...

    Seems like with ever time I date I get more and more hurt...
    BloodyTale BloodyTale 22-25, F Jul 21, 2013

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    I Want It Soooo Bad........

    There's an overwhelming feeling of want inside me that I can't shake.  My boyfriend of almost a year broke up with me a few weeks ago and I wadevastated.  Thought I would never be that girl, but I was/am her.  The weeks in passing have been slow moving and at times emotional...
    freespiritkim freespiritkim 31-35, F 4 Responses May 19, 2011

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    I Miss My Ex

    i miss him for a few reasons. a major (but not whole reason) is the sex. i could go out and have sex whoever but i love that passion and comfort i had with him. its gone... and now im alone and horny!
    pinkLamped pinkLamped 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Put your hands all over my body,

    touch me. I want to feel wanted/desired. I want to know that certain things aren't just in the movies or sex fantasies. I just want to know that when I walk in the room of certain times that she just gets hot knowing she can have me at any moment. Seriously.... am I asking...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    This is another reason

    why I'm single because I can not stay with someone and not be intimate for longer than 3-6 months
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    Somedays I feel like I need to be in a

    relationship and enjoy the intimacy..the dating..the breaking down of walls..the mind games and finally the hugs..comfort...friendship..sex...openness....sigh
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    What Will It Take?

    I know im not the best of looking people, but i have been told that im very cute. i have tryed to ask some people out for dinner even brong flowers to them. nothing seems to work ik what im doing wrong it has been months since i have even had a hug.... im a LEO and i desire human...
    woodzykiler woodzykiler 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    My relationships always seem to end horribly. My first boyfriend went back to his ex without giving me any explanation or saying sorry, nothing. Then, I started talking to this guy...
    honor1997 honor1997 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. I got out, but he keeps contacting me and saying all these things that sound good, but I know he doesn't mean it... It is sad when you...
    ImConvinced ImConvinced 31-35, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I am lonely relationship wise.
    Paulcooley Paulcooley 18-21, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I find it so ******* stupid that people have this need to shame other people for not being in a relationship. Why should there be shaming? Instead of shaming, why not try...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Being broke and in your early 20's stinks. I have a college degree, more credit card debt than I would like and about 65 cents to my name. I hate asking my mom for money and living...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Is is possible to be in a relationship with someone your not too physically attracted to?
    janie94 janie94 18-21, F 6 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I started dating someone several months ago, when we met I was in an abusive relationship that he helped me get out of. In the start he was perfect, very attentive, a gentleman...
    xxbeautifulbrunettexx xxbeautifulbrunettexx 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    I've been in a relationship with my bf for about 1.5-2 years now. I had a long term relationship with my ex for 6 years before that. That relationship ended and I started a new one...
    willgethru willgethru 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    So happy at the moment. Feel well and truly desired and wanted. But also respected and loved. Trying hard not to let the fear n insecurities seep in. It feels just like the...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I went on a "find your best self" retreat this weekend. No phones or Internet allowed. It was really enriching. When it came to my ex... The only word I expressed towards him was...
    cloudedsky cloudedsky 26-30 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    You ever have one of those times where the future of your relationship is about to be put on the table? Where you are going to have to face a reality you may or may not want or...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I want to get married some day but I don't trust myself to commit for that long. And therefore I don't attract the kind of love that leads to building anything with anyone. I have...
    ExperienceisMyProject ExperienceisMyProject 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    I want to feel alive.... I want to trust someone entirely... I want to laugh..... I want to feel desired.... I want to be completely honest & open..... I want to explore new...
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Yes, I do. It is the proverbial angel on one shoulder and the little devil on the other. I am a great person, I don't lie, cheat, or steal. I have a good head on my shoulders...
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    Kiss your lady ,hug her randomly. Remind her of her value to you not only with touch but with your words. focus on the good that she does towards you without ever asking for...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    Thank god for this site, a place where my desires aren't so secret...
    ishFET ishFET 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I now remember little things that were signs I wasnt aware of- my ex never liked physical contact beyond sex - if we held hands he would squeeze my hand really hard till it hurt so...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yes, on line friends are more intimate, because in real life we screw things up royally, and there's no way to repair brokenness. So in real life, we repress and forget, we move on...
    jaymepopejoy jaymepopejoy 56-60, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've been in an on and off again long distance thing with someone who wants to get more serious with me. Someone that has no intent of ever coming here long term and I don't have...
    BoJackHorseman BoJackHorseman 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    I have recently finished my first year of university. During my first year I met a women. Her name was for confidentiality sake woman X. Woman X is 5 years older than me, as I am...
    Ad8m Ad8m 18-21, M a week ago

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    Alls I want is......... I want to love so deep that the ocean has something to strive to be like. I want to have someone that's willing to protect my heart as they would protect...
    Maddshadow Maddshadow 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    I am a 35 year old mom of 2 and am getting divorced from my husband of 15 years due to emotional and verbal abuse. I recently reconnected with my first love...we had never...
    zippy80 zippy80 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    People write about emotional pain frequently on EP. One of the most common sources of pain is relationships. And of the various relationship pains, insecurity is among the most...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15

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