I Despise Emotional Vampires

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 56 People

    They Are the Worst!

    You know the people who come to you & make everything about themselves & their life's dilemmas. Yeah...just horrible. You end up feeling drained & just plain used. It's really about them...they don't really care about what you're going through, but want the focus to...
    Moonjava Moonjava
    31-35, F
    11 Responses May 14, 2009

    I Can't Stand Them

    It was bad enough growing up in a household of them, then finding them around me at school too.  The people who helped shape me into the person I am today.  I don't even like me 99% of the time as a result.  I've found them here too, and sadly trusted one too many...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2010

    And the Termanology Sickens Me

    And i despise that having emotional needs makes you some kind of vampire of feelings that needing support, comfort in life makes you an emotional vampire.  i despise the people who use this term and mean everyone from the mentally ill to the traumatized to...
    tulick tulick
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Sep 13, 2009
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    Dec 5, 2010

    Some people actually literally make me tired.

    After being around them. I have this friend, that I care about deeply but have had to set sound clear boundaries with her (which she doesn't like and responds by posting bitchy 'cryptic' but obvious Facebook statuses when she's angry). She acts wounded if I don't always initiate...
    Ariadni8 Ariadni8
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2014
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