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I Develop Inconvenient Crushes

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    Anyone else think Earnest was cute,

    or should I be committed? 😐😕😑
    janie94 janie94 18-21, F Jul 21, 2015

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    I Develop Inconvenient Crushes All The Time.

     Well let me think, Umm, well the first one i think was my foster cousin, then a 42 yr old commitment phobe, then my therapist, then my gay best friend whom ive known since i was 5 years old.
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F Nov 29, 2009

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    ...and they always hurt at some point,

    but I can't stop myself from having them.
    been2 been2 36-40, F Dec 13, 2014

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    Inconvenient Crushes: A List, by Lostinwonderland

    Here are some of the inconvenient crushes I've developed throughout my life. At least the ones that readily come to mind. 1. My 52 year old history teacher in junior high. 2. This 30 year old lifeguard/psychologist (interesting combo) when I was 12. It was inconvenient up until...
    lostinwunderland lostinwunderland 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2012

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    alllllll the time, whoever i cant go

    for is who i start liking
    em11111 em11111 18-21, F May 3, 2014

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    When am I going to learn?

    Every time I develop feelings for someone else, I am the one who gets hurt. I am beginning to think that I am cursed. For some reason, I am forbidden to find happiness and love.
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M Dec 1, 2015

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    Too Young!

    I would fall for guys that were too young...i was 23 he was 18 i was 30 he was 20 i was 31 he was 19 things like that..then id get hurt when they wavered!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Seriously, it's annoying!

    Like, I don't wanna have a crush in that person! It's just not right and it's really awkward when I talk to them. I have a very inconvenient crush right now, and it's on my best friend. I don't like it at all! Me dating him!! It's just hilarious if you think about it. Someone...
    fivesaucewhoop fivesaucewhoop 13-15, F May 2, 2014

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    Story of every crush I've had.

    Taken, forbidden, a friend's ex, asexual, or just not interested in anyone. Blaugh why can't I win? Every time. Every. Time. It's quite annoying
    Saudabell Saudabell 16-17, F Apr 29, 2014

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    like for example that tattoo artist in

    that one parlor. -.-. it's not like i'm gonna talk to anyone. it's also super awkward when guys talk to me. there was this super hot guy saying hi guys how are you, to us as we walked by and i just always look pissed and the most that came out of my mouth was a ******* whisper.
    surfaceme surfaceme 70+ 11 hrs ago

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    I recently developed a crush on one of my

    friend, who is already in a loving relationship and married so yeah... It took me some time but I have finally moved on from that crush. It's a shame too, he is quite a nice guy.
    renkun555 renkun555 18-21, M 1 Response May 29, 2014

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    Disappointing..

    I know that the other person would never be interested in me, but I still let myself get all worked up. And then when I notice that this person is interested in someone else (or doesn't notice that I exist), I feel so embarrassed and humiliated for even thinking that I had a...
    NaNeenah NaNeenah 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    I have a maaaajor crush,

    on one of my work colleagues. I've only been working at my current place for 5 months. We hit it off straight away and discovered we have mutual friends outside of work, as well as mutual likes and dislikes. Very similar personalities and sense of humour. I think the feeling is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Way Too Many.

    Most often, it's on a teacher. Or, a best friend. Or, even, someone I met online, who lives far away. And no matter how real that feeling of love may be, they live so far from me that "inconvenient" hardly does it justice.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 8, 2009

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    From the second grade

    until I graduated high school, I had a crush on at least one girl in my school; unfortunately, none of them ended well. I would always get beaten up when the girl found out about and she would sic either her brother or her boyfriend on me. I guess this is what started me on my...
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M Oct 9, 2015

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    Story of my life. .. he's with her,

    she likes him... Girl I liked has a guy that fits with her. Guy I like now is friend zone (they both are) and he's got a gf anyway. He hinted recently he used to swing both ways and I believe that was more for information than anything- not so much suggestive. What do I do...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2015

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    I don't get why I like him

    so much I mean he's cute, funny, extremely random, he makes me smile when I'm upset. He did say we could try something between us in the future. Maybe it'll happen?
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 18-21 Jun 3, 2014

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    I want to tell him how much he means to me

    but I know I'm barely anything to him and it ******* sucks
    gkchappy gkchappy 16-17, F May 13, 2014

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    My Crushes

    The standout one for me was my Team Leader at work. I crushed on him like crazy! He was funny, cheeky, in his early forties but married. It very much distracted me from my work. Workplace crushes are the worst. In general I develop crushes on friends of friends. And they are...
    strawberrybunny strawberrybunny 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    So Many........ To Keep A Track On !!!!!!

    Last year it was actor Jude Law......... Recently.....I had a crush on singer Marc Anthony................oohhhh soooooo weird yet mmmm. Ofcourse Edward Cullen,the forever young "Twilight" guy.........I mean vampire............uuuuffff And my all time favorite(since the...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 7, 2010

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    Gah! Me too! It's nice to know I'm not alone,

    but sorry this happens so much! I had a one night stand just after I broke up my 7 year relationship, and it totally changed my life. It was incredible, magical, passionate, and everything I'd been missing, and it reignited my lust for life. So it is pretty difficult to keep...
    millicentmay millicentmay 36-40, F 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    all the time and I will cut off contact quick

    before it becomes more than a crush....
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 10, 2015

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    So I have a really big crush on this guy .

    .. The only problem is it's the last week of school 😩
    boyproblemz boyproblemz 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    Damnit...

    I like somebody that I shouldn't, and couldn't, have.  Damnit.  He's got an awesome personality, we click really well, he's lots of fun to be around, he's intelligent, and he is just so darn attractive.  He's also clean...I mean he keeps his apartment really...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    I love how his voice is

    so soothing. When he's talking I can't help, but smile in awe. I just wish I weren't so nervous around him. Then again, I'm just wishful thinking anything will ever happen between us.
    5amsunrise 5amsunrise 22-25, F Nov 12, 2015

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    I have a knack for attractions with bad news.

    About 8-10 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 2-3 years. (Although not that long, we lived together for all of it. Which is why it was so intense and lasted too long). In summary, it was all give and no take. She was selfish, mean, and we enabled the worst in each...
    WrittenxSymphony WrittenxSymphony 22-25, T 2 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    Smiley: It has been a tendency of mine,

    throughout my life, to develop inconvenient or inappropriate crushes. I find myself in that situation yet again with a colleague of mine, Smiley. Workplace romance might not be such a taboo in waitering as it is in other professions, but it still poses a lot of potential...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2014

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    The guy I like I never see,

    he's 16 years older and has a girlfriend who lives in Canada. There's a guy who sometimes comes in and pervs on me, he says rude things but coincidently doesn't say them when my crush is there, which I would find useful as I'd like to see his reaction to the perv.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11 26-30, F Oct 10, 2015

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    My ex had ED from too much **** use.

    Then I liked a guy with diabetes (which causes ED) and unfortunately is a massive **** lover judging from his Facebook likes. Don't answer this with he's a man blah blah they all do it, this guy needs help. He's always perving on women, I had already fallen before I knew this.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2015

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    I Develope Inconvenient Crushes.

    EXTREMLY INCONVENIENE!!! They're all dead!! Its not as creepy as it sounds. I just have this thing for "older" men. My current crushes are just never gonna happen. Crush #1: George Harrison. And not only is he dead he was married before and completely out of my league( hes the...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F Jun 15, 2010

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    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 18-21 2 Responses Jun 6, 2014

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    sighselly sighselly 13-15, F May 2, 2014

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    My Female Teacher

      In 9th grade I got a new Norwegian teacher. She was 25 and had just finished school. We were her first class. I didn't take long before all the other students started hating her. Everyone got worse grades than they had before, and once they started hating her, they talked...
    Heartmaker Heartmaker 18-21, F Dec 4, 2009

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    My Male Teacher

    I've already written two stories about the crushes i've gotten on girls, including my female teacher. This is about one of my male teachers. He was in his late 20s. I was in 9th-10th grade. In the beginning of 10th grade, our class took a trip out of the country. We stayed at a...
    Heartmaker Heartmaker 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    First day on-the-job training at the cafe,

    I felt awkward because I wore formal outfit & the rest of the staff wore casual outfit. I sit far from the rest & the manager called me to sit closer. A tall guy helped me carried my chair closer & I sit next to him. The manager want to discuss about the menu so he ask the...
    yumemi yumemi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2015

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    Lately, these past few months,

    I've been developing crushes on people, I hate that because they wind up with someone or I never tell them and they wind up moving on out of my life :/
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M Nov 28, 2014

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    I seem to always have a crush on someone,

    at all times. Once one crush ends, another immediately begins. Anyone else do this too?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    She reads the kind of books I read.

    She's down to Earth. She draws! And is very good at it, but still very humble. She loves to laugh. She laughs a lot. Also her smile, it's beautiful. She's beautiful; not even a make up on and just her bare skin. She really is. And it's effortless. She has a good sense of...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 Jun 6, 2014

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    6'4" tall, blonde hair,

    cute smile,blue eyes, sociable,charming,good cook,polite, has an English accent and unattainable. The End.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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