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I Develop Inconvenient Crushes

man...this sucks. 484 People

    I Don't Want To Hurt

    But I do. How long is it going to take to get over feelings for someone who is a total DB.? I kind of feel like Penny when she first met Leonard and Sheldon: "Even though I hate his lying, cheating guts: I still love him. Is that crazy?"
    TRT2015 TRT2015 36-40, F Jul 20, 2013

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    I have a maaaajor crush,

    on one of my work colleagues. I've only been working at my current place for 5 months. We hit it off straight away and discovered we have mutual friends outside of work, as well as mutual likes and dislikes. Very similar personalities and sense of humour. I think the feeling is...
    JoshyMB JoshyMB 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 21

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    Crazy

    I am crazy in love with my best cool friend, he is popular,handsome,compassionate about theatre, and unavaliable.he is going out with a super nice girl, she is pretty athletic and popular. I am semi pretty semi athletic and the quiet- smart-dumb blonde, white girl in mexican town...
    abbifoxtail abbifoxtail 13-15, F Jan 17, 2013

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    Disappointing..

    I know that the other person would never be interested in me, but I still let myself get all worked up. And then when I notice that this person is interested in someone else (or doesn't notice that I exist), I feel so embarrassed and humiliated for even thinking that I had a...
    NaNeenah NaNeenah 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    My Female Teacher

      In 9th grade I got a new Norwegian teacher. She was 25 and had just finished school. We were her first class. I didn't take long before all the other students started hating her. Everyone got worse grades than they had before, and once they started hating her, they talked...
    Heartmaker Heartmaker 18-21, F Dec 4, 2009

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    The Inconvenient Truth

    The worst, worst, worst, most inconvenient crushes. *facepalm* Actually, nevermind - *bangs head against a wall*. Why it has to happen just flies right by me. Stupid serotonin and epinephrine. -_-The lovely triangle. That isosceles  equilateral  acute and obtuse and 90...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F Jan 3, 2013

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    I Definitely Develop Inconv...

    I definitely develop inconvenient crushes. right now, i have a massive crush on one of my exboyfriends. who has a girlfriend. and who i hang out with from time to time and talk to almost every day. he's amazing and i don't see how i can help it. i also have a crush on this other...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F Sep 9, 2009

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    Ugh so there's this one kid

    that I find attractive as hell and he's probably the only kid left in my school that I'd be interested in dating. He's tall and athletic and he's popular. He's very quiet like me, but he somehow still manages to be super outgoing and friendly too. He's super nice to everyone...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 21

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    She reads the kind of books I read.

    She's down to Earth. She draws! And is very good at it, but still very humble. She loves to laugh. She laughs a lot. Also her smile, it's beautiful. She's beautiful; not even a make up on and just her bare skin. She really is. And it's effortless. She has a good sense of...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 Jun 6

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    Got In And Struggling To Get Out

    being too soft hearted n having difficulties saying no is a nasty mix..its a path ive knwn all too well yet keep allowing myself to get pulled in..maybe i like the attention,the thrill of breaking taboos..the unexpectancies of whatever may be..he's way outta my league, is it...
    JP74 JP74 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Inconvenient Crushes: A List, by Lostinwonderland

    Here are some of the inconvenient crushes I've developed throughout my life. At least the ones that readily come to mind. 1. My 52 year old history teacher in junior high. 2. This 30 year old lifeguard/psychologist (interesting combo) when I was 12. It was inconvenient up until...
    lostinwunderland lostinwunderland 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2012

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    I Develop Inconvenient Crushes All The Time.

     Well let me think, Umm, well the first one i think was my foster cousin, then a 42 yr old commitment phobe, then my therapist, then my gay best friend whom ive known since i was 5 years old.
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F Nov 29, 2009

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    Lately, these past few months,

    I've been developing crushes on people, I hate that because they wind up with someone or I never tell them and they wind up moving on out of my life :/
    RyRyOfAwesomness RyRyOfAwesomness 13-15, M Nov 28

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    I seem to always have a crush on someone,

    at all times. Once one crush ends, another immediately begins. Anyone else do this too?
    everlong86 everlong86 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I recently developed a crush on one of my

    friend, who is already in a loving relationship and married so yeah... It took me some time but I have finally moved on from that crush. It's a shame too, he is quite a nice guy.
    renkun555 renkun555 18-21, M 1 Response May 29

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    alllllll the time, whoever i cant go

    for is who i start liking
    em11111 em11111 18-21, F May 3

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    His Apartment Or Not?

    I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. We were on and off for weeks, things just weren't working out. We weren't making each other happy anymore and there was a disconnect in our relationship. The night we broke up, I received a personal message on Twitter. It was from...
    aprilsoul aprilsoul 18-21 Feb 12, 2013

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    I have a knack for attractions with bad news.

    About 8-10 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 2-3 years. (Although not that long, we lived together for all of it. Which is why it was so intense and lasted too long). In summary, it was all give and no take. She was selfish, mean, and we enabled the worst in each...
    WrittenxSymphony WrittenxSymphony 18-21, T 2 Responses Sep 5

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    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 1 Response May 2

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    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17 2 Responses Jun 6

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    This Time It's An Old Friend-of-a-friend

    She's on facebook, complaining of recent loneliness tonight, and deliberating of two choices: meeting new friends or "picking out" a boy to get close to for a few hours. I wish such things were possible for me. I haven't made any new friends in years. I don't make new friends...
    mononoaware mononoaware 26-30, M Sep 10, 2012

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    University Teacher

    She's super-cute, has gorgeous long hair, which she dyes dark brown, accentuating her marvellously bright blue eyes, golden freckles all over her white skin, a tiny waist and an overall feminine frame. Her voice is high and silverish and allthough I know she is hetero and has a...
    Galene Galene 22-25, F Sep 18, 2013

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    I Develope Inconvenient Crushes.

    EXTREMLY INCONVENIENE!!! They're all dead!! Its not as creepy as it sounds. I just have this thing for "older" men. My current crushes are just never gonna happen. Crush #1: George Harrison. And not only is he dead he was married before and completely out of my league( hes the...
    applescruffs applescruffs 22-25, F Jun 15, 2010

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    So Many........ To Keep A Track On !!!!!!

    Last year it was actor Jude Law......... Recently.....I had a crush on singer Marc Anthony................oohhhh soooooo weird yet mmmm. Ofcourse Edward Cullen,the forever young "Twilight" guy.........I mean vampire............uuuuffff And my all time favorite(since the...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 7, 2010

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    Seriously, it's annoying!

    Like, I don't wanna have a crush in that person! It's just not right and it's really awkward when I talk to them. I have a very inconvenient crush right now, and it's on my best friend. I don't like it at all! Me dating him!! It's just hilarious if you think about it. Someone...
    fivesaucewhoop fivesaucewhoop 13-15, F May 2

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    Way Too Many.

    Most often, it's on a teacher. Or, a best friend. Or, even, someone I met online, who lives far away. And no matter how real that feeling of love may be, they live so far from me that "inconvenient" hardly does it justice.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person

    whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn’t the only guy staring at her either. Through my mind, I was thinking, "you know what, I'm gonna try to...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    Crushed By Your Crush

    A crush....such a weird name for a feeling yes a feeling its like the line before jumping to love but after lust well that's how i felt. I always seemed to summon up crushes on people i know aren't going to feel the same ...but this time i thought different the way he looked at...
    NiaLynn NiaLynn 18-21, F Nov 10, 2013

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    Gah! Me too! It's nice to know I'm not alone,

    but sorry this happens so much! I had a one night stand just after I broke up my 7 year relationship, and it totally changed my life. It was incredible, magical, passionate, and everything I'd been missing, and it reignited my lust for life. So it is pretty difficult to keep...
    millicentmay millicentmay 31-35, F 1 Response May 2

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    First Sight

    I don't know if you could call it a crush...but...Today at work, when I walked up to a customer to ask if he needed any help, we locked eyes and I felt my heart melt, I've never felt that feeling in my life. It was like our two souls connected and I felt giddy, but...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2010

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    My Male Teacher

    I've already written two stories about the crushes i've gotten on girls, including my female teacher. This is about one of my male teachers. He was in his late 20s. I was in 9th-10th grade. In the beginning of 10th grade, our class took a trip out of the country. We stayed at a...
    Heartmaker Heartmaker 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    Too Young!

    I would fall for guys that were too young...i was 23 he was 18 i was 30 he was 20 i was 31 he was 19 things like that..then id get hurt when they wavered!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Coworker

    I have this amazing co-worker that crushes on me back. I'm married, so we walk a fine line of excruciating flirtation, pushing conversation boundries to the edge of inapproriateness, but never too far, and never any physical contact.
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F Apr 3, 2010

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    6'4" tall, blonde hair,

    cute smile,blue eyes, sociable,charming,good cook,polite, has an English accent and unattainable. The End.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 3

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    Story of every crush I've had.

    Taken, forbidden, a friend's ex, asexual, or just not interested in anyone. Blaugh why can't I win? Every time. Every. Time. It's quite annoying
    Saudabell Saudabell 16-17, F Apr 29

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    Smiley: It has been a tendency of mine,

    throughout my life, to develop inconvenient or inappropriate crushes. I find myself in that situation yet again with a colleague of mine, Smiley. Workplace romance might not be such a taboo in waitering as it is in other professions, but it still poses a lot of potential...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    Damnit...

    I like somebody that I shouldn't, and couldn't, have.  Damnit.  He's got an awesome personality, we click really well, he's lots of fun to be around, he's intelligent, and he is just so darn attractive.  He's also clean...I mean he keeps his apartment really...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    I want to tell him how much he means to me

    but I know I'm barely anything to him and it ******* sucks
    gkchappy gkchappy 16-17, F May 13

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    I don't get why I like him

    so much I mean he's cute, funny, extremely random, he makes me smile when I'm upset. He did say we could try something between us in the future. Maybe it'll happen?
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17 Jun 3

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    ...and they always hurt at some point,

    but I can't stop myself from having them.
    been2 been2 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    My Crushes

    The standout one for me was my Team Leader at work. I crushed on him like crazy! He was funny, cheeky, in his early forties but married. It very much distracted me from my work. Workplace crushes are the worst. In general I develop crushes on friends of friends. And they are...
    strawberrybunny strawberrybunny 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    High School Crushes

    In high school I had a couple of crushes like Im sure everybody else. The only diffence was I had crushes on girls. There were alot of pretty girls at my school but I always think about two certain girls that I liked. They were both very beautiful, outspoken, funny, classy with a...
    lostncali lostncali 26-30, F Jun 18, 2011

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    I Develop Inconvenient Crushes...

    on inappropriate men.  They get in the way, distract me from my purpose, and make me question my own judgement.  Someday, I'll get it right.  Everything else is a lesson. 
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2009

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    So I have a really big crush on this guy .

    .. The only problem is it's the last week of school 😩
    boyproblemz boyproblemz 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 3

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