Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Did Not Want This Divorce

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 92 People

    In No Way Could Stop Her Lying & Cheating With Me!!

    Situation-1:At evening after picking her from womens parlour as usual husband requested for intimacy as its been over a month no contact!! Wife as usual given dubt that in the morning she has too much work load as she has to go Tongi for official tour & she quit!! Situation-2...
    sunjib sunjib 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Marriage protects men,

    women and children emotionally, physically and economically. It shouldn't be so easy to discard. Husbands need to realize that a divorce would not heal his years of built-up resentments nearly as effectively as working together with a wife who now was giving her all, with him...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Me and my husband got married in 2004 in

    Switzerland and in 2005 he said that he wants to move back to his country in Australia, so after not even of one year marriage I followed him with the intention to try it.. I felt a lot lonely without being able to see my family and the only person I could refer to was him...
    Mary1079 Mary1079 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am here because of my failed marriage.

    It's not something I wanted, but it happened regardless. Sharing my story with others has helped me and continues to help me through some very dark times. If you are divorced, currently going through a divorce, dissolving a long term relationship or in a separation. Share your...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Been A Long Time Ago

    I remember the first morning it hit! Knock on the door, bondsman asked me my name, He handed me a paper that said, Application for Divorce! Of course the world crashed in, my wife, my children, my home everything my life had been for 11 years was circling the drain. Of course it...
    thegunsmith thegunsmith 51-55, M 8 Responses Oct 4, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Heartbroken

    My husband of 9 years came to me a few months ago and told me he loved me but was no longer in love with me. We have a three year old daughter who is absolutely the sunshine in my life. My husband did not want to go through counseling, did not want to work on the marriage, did...
    lovelost12 lovelost12 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Did Not Want This Divorce.

    I was married 15 years. I had it all but was to blind to see it. I never had to worry about anything. Bills where taken care of, minus mine. I worked for a hobby at the clinics. I had two beautiful boys at this time. My husband was gone a lot on weekends, I was always home with...
    cprincess3 cprincess3 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Its Over, Now What?

    After two years of trying to convince my wife of almost 30 years to reconsider, we are divorced. I pretty much gave up all our assets, to avoid a lengthy court battle, and because crazy as it is, I still care. It was touch and go as she wanted alimony on top of everything else...
    happyharpy happyharpy 46-50 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    One day my life will be back together again.

    Right now I'm in pieces and I'm completely decimated. How am I going to live after this is over? How are the kids and I going to survive after all this? There are so many unknowns for the future it's scary. And I'm afraid of this new life. I'm afraid of everything that will...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are so many unknowns with this divorce.

    What I do know is that I am falling apart slowing. Rejection from the person who said he loved me forever is tough. I fall asleep every night crying. I wake up so many times - I don't even know if one can call it sleep. I wake up wondering what's going to happen and if my...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Prayer to Heal a Relationship "Almighty God,

    hear this prayer." Dear Lord, I offer you this prayer, to help me with my current relationship situation. Please take away all the pain and hurt in my heart. Fill it with love, joy, patience, and understanding. Bless me and my partner, so that we may never surrender to...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    After 10 years of a great marriage,

    my husband has decided he is not in-love with me anymore and wants a divorce! I am still in-love with him though, and do not want to divorce!
    jenniferann1985 jenniferann1985 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To be honest, I'm not sure

    if it will end In divorce. I know he cares. I know I broke is heart. I told him I had an affair because I love him dearly. I made a horrible and selfish choice. I own up to them completely. I'm hoping time, space, and prayer will change his heart towards me and he will give me...
    Youngandfree90 Youngandfree90 22-25, F Apr 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    9 Month Marriage

    Okay, so, I know my story isn't half as bad as most of the stories on here, but here it is. I was only married for 9 months, and I always thought we were really happy. One morning while I was at work he sent me a text, saying that he was leaving and he was filing for a divorce. I...
    wantinganewchapter wantinganewchapter 22-25 4 Responses Nov 26, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And One Night He Just......Walked Out.....

    The day I met my husband was the day I fell in love with him. We had a beautiful, exciting, outgoing relationship. We had moved in with each other after just a couple months. Had bought a house a year after that, started a successful business, and marriage followed 6 months...
    2muchsaddness 2muchsaddness 36-40 4 Responses Feb 1, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Did This Happen?

    I was married for more than half my life. My husband started shutting me out, only talking during dinner than off to his computer. The more I tried to talk to him and get him to tell me what was wrong the more he tuned me out. Finally one day he says if your so damn unhappy I...
    mystified340 mystified340 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Don't Want This At All.

    We've been married for 15 years, together for 18. We have a beautiful 16 year old daughter. Through the years we've had our ups and downs but these past two years have be great. My husband told me a few days ago that he is so unhappy and can't see us being together any more. I am...
    jennalove jennalove 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    15 Years of "I'm Sorry"

    Alcoholism does interesting things to a relationship. Alcohol can be a truth serum. You can be so nice when you're sober, but so cruel when your drunk. If you really don't like me have the stones to say it to me sober. Don't be nice to me while your sober, and rude -hurtful...
    Derangedjdub Derangedjdub 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Did Not Want A Divorce, But Decided To Love Myself

    I went through the same thing. My husband had an emotional affair with a younger coworker, and did and said the same things. He planned the affair to become a physical one after he left me and our 3 kids. Now, he lives a carefree life of no responsibilities. He sees our kids once...
    Anotherstart14 Anotherstart14 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Husband Recently Infected With Gambling

    My husband recently infected with gambling, also owed a lot of debt, a friend advised me to divorce, I had a child, I do not want a divorce, then how can I do it? www.newvoguehandbag.com
    lucyy01 lucyy01 26-30 Oct 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I know things happen

    for a reason, but sometimes I wish I knew what that reason was.
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Don't Know Where To Start

    It is such a long story, needless to say, after 11 years, my husband phoned the police, lied to them saying that I was alcoholic and he couldn't "control" me, so they removed me for a 12 hour "cooling off" period. When I returned the next day I was told "2 more day's". 2 day's...
    HurtinginSilence HurtinginSilence 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have been married for 8 years this past Oct.

    Back in September my husband told me that he did not want to be married anymore. We had been having problems with him talking to different females on Facebook in a flirtaious way. I asked him to stop and show respect to our marriage. That's when he said he didn't want to be...
    sweettea1005 sweettea1005 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What If

    I meet my husband in 2000 .i spent almost every day with him .i fell in love ,and so did he .we married in 2003 .i lived my life around him what ever he wanted .we divorced in 2012 .i know what I did wrong .i love him so much ,I made sure he was happy .i never spoke up when I...
    Roochie22 Roochie22 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 24, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Has anyone ever spent thanksgiving alone completely alone all day . Just laying in bed . Scrolling through your phone seeing everyone happy eating love and I'm just here divorced...
    amandalovee24 amandalovee24 22-25, F 32 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hello, Hope everyone is having a good day. If you are reading this on 11/27/14; Happy Thanksgiving. Well, its been another year. I am a lot better than I was when I first...
    redphoenix911 redphoenix911 41-45, M 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The first married man I met left his wife and married me. I divorced him fast and run away even faster. He stalked me for three long and painful, full of drama years, until I found...
    soulbridge soulbridge 36-40, F Nov 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I never in my entire life thought I would write these words. I was never the one that had a 'Plan B' in case my marriage failed. It simply was not an option. I didn't stand at the...
    sls84 sls84 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    15 Years of Hell,Across The Atlantic and Back 3 Times!-My stepfather married my mother when I was 1 and somehow talked my mother out of America and to Europe to Sweden shortly...
    SakenSane SakenSane 26-30, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just wanted you to know i cared for you even though you didn't care for me. I wanted you to feel loved even though you didn't loved me. I wanted you to know that even though life...
    Jaiyy Jaiyy 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband and I have been married 2 years but together 8. Last year he turned 30 and didn’t take it well. A few weeks before his birthday he confided in me that several of the...
    notsureyet1 notsureyet1 26-30, F Nov 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    For years I fooled myself and others into believing I was happily married and wildly in love. The real reasons for our marriage: 1. His mother told me she didn't want her son to be...
    QueenofMortals QueenofMortals 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My parents got divorced two years ago. I still remember that sickening feeling when my parents told me. I was twelve, and for awhile, I'd been noticing that they'd been fighting...
    ThisIsJustForFun ThisIsJustForFun 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time - Charles Kettering The past can be quite wearing if it’s a burden of bitterness that you...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Almost November 27, 2014 Hello, old friend, now tell me why you failed, how you came so close, yet you have yet to see my end. At my throat did your blade set already digging...
    TheDylanG TheDylanG 18-21, M 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Story I was born the second child to an immigrant family from Sicily. My Dad was the eldest of 7 children. His parents were hard working, respected, beloved, restaurant owners...
    joycealison joycealison 56-60, F Nov 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do not see our situation improving & I have no desire to stay, even if he did change. How do you start the process? We fight constantly. "Divorce" has been thrown around in...
    Luckymomof2boys Luckymomof2boys 31-35, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel empty. I feel incomplete. I have so much love to give, but no one wanting to receive it. I know what love feels like. I have been deeply in love. Unfortunately she knew how...
    AaronBot AaronBot 18-21, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My parents divorced when I was 2. When I was 10 my mom remarried and also my dad did. I have 3 step sisters, a half brother, and a half sister. I hate how my dad moved states away...
    BrittanySue96 BrittanySue96 16-17, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is my first time writing. I looked for awhile online to find a site I could remain anonymous and feel safe. This is the only thing I could do to not cheat on my husband. I...
    naomiR1 naomiR1 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My story started 15 years ago... Met the man of my dreams, 6 years older very handsome police lietentant. I always liked a challenge... Was a single divorced mother of two, I...
    sunshinehunnie sunshinehunnie 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think this whole reality thing is a lark really. It’s vastly overrated. I mean, if I didn’t subscribe to reality I could’ve forgotten about responsibility - who needs jobs...
    Iamhere4me Iamhere4me 36-40, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband has been trying to divorce me for a week now. Last Saturday he tried to deposit me to my mom's house, but told him to just come home when I opened the car door. Then I...
    Wanderer25 Wanderer25 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met my husband in 2009 and he was everything I had asked for. I even wrote a letter back in 2006 describing my perfect soul mate. And to our shock, he was it. He even found...
    bettergood bettergood 36-40, F Nov 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It sucks because they got divorced when I was like 3 and I get along really well with my birth mom but not my half mom and I still have to see her all the time. When I was little...
    808Mitchell 808Mitchell 22-25, M Nov 11

    Your Response

    Cancel