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I Didn't Mean To Hurt You

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    Wounded

    A few years back, I was thinking about love and hurt and my logical mind came up with this theorem:"The more deeply we care about a person, the more vulnerable we become to them."I haven't decided if (not that you can measure love except in degrees) if this is a 1:1 correlation...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Not My Intention

    If I have hurt or offended anyone, I apologize sincerely. From the depths of my soul, I have tried to be honest and caring. I would never intentionally harm anyone, and I have. I am sorry I am such a disappointment, that was not of my doing. i am who and what I am, and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    Hurting

    Did I hurt you, as you hurt me. All those comments, that bullying. You know I didn't mean the things I said. I have apologized, did you accept it? You hurt me every day now. I hide it but I hurt. You stab me each time I see you. You glare at me, comment on who I am, share what we...
    BigDreamer1 BigDreamer1 13-15 Jun 5, 2013

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    How do you get over a situation like this?? I fell in love with someone who didn't honestly love me back. But he always said he meant it until the last time he got mad at you and...
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    I met Jeff* at work, and there was instant chemistry. I was still getting over my last serious relationship when he first attempted to ask me out, so I resisted, even though it...
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    I was 14. It was May and I became a really big sleaze. I lead a lot of guys on. I knew my sister had already been caught and we both got the lecture. My mom put us both on birth...
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    I have been in a merry go round relationship with the father my children for over 7 years now. we break up and he goes back to his ex and then once they are not in a good place he...
    Hilltrini Hilltrini 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    totally didn't wait, married my first everything, right out of high school, marriage only made it seven years, had a beautiful daughter. Learned from my mistakes and had great life...
    mrsrshaw mrsrshaw 46-50, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Back when I was in Middle School. I knew this boy he was a sophomore. We went to school together he eventually left the school obviously because he was older. I didn't feel pretty...
    Mustbethesneaks Mustbethesneaks 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I loved someone that didn't love me
    Ryderz Ryderz 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I didn't wait till marriage but am married now. I had only six partners before 5 guys 1 girl. Now I'm at around 30, my husband and I both love it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses 5 days ago

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    Last year I met someone who I thought was the right one for me and we was dating for about 7 months. At the start I really believed that she loved me but nope she didn't even show...
    xxSatansDemonxx xxSatansDemonxx 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    3 years ago, I had my first boyfriend. He seemed amazing, perfect for me, etc. He gave me my first kiss, and I just felt so happy. I felt like I was in love. I looked past all of...
    CrystalPiano CrystalPiano 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I like my best guy friend. He liked me before but not anymore now. He tel's me about all these girls and about how he likes them. He flirts with me constantly but to him it's just...
    unknowngirlonline unknowngirlonline 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am a married girl to a guy I love... I only ask him to show me that he loves me and cares about me. I do not ask for anything he is to far away, cold and careless! It's hurting...
    layalshannak layalshannak 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I'm so glad I didn't wait for marriage. I was 19 and I was with a girl I had been talking to on the Internet. She came down and meet me. We talked for a few hours at my local...
    blkrhino blkrhino 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I surly didn't wait until marriage. A boy in middle school and I had planned on it because of a dare, we never had the chance. I was horny from then on. Finally I was about 15...
    Bellahpee Bellahpee 41-45, F 23 Responses Jul 23

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    I got expelled in year 10 lol so I quite never made it to year 12 to go to the prom. But that didn't stop me from muck up day.
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I didn't use to consider myself as a jealous person, I actually used to be quite easy going,but with my current bf everything changed i started to be pretty insecure and jealous to...
    warez94 warez94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I know in your eyes, I did the most unimaginable, unforgivable thing. I am human. I did what I did to forget all the hurt, disappointment, and to keep from having horrible...
    purtyinpink17 purtyinpink17 36-40, F Jul 21

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    I wasn't interested back then. Besides, kids teased me back then, and I didn't want to go. I didn't think they'd allow my boyfriend outside my school to attend. I had terrible...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 1 Response Jul 20

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    I never went to prom, because my high school, didn't really have a prom, however we did have school dances. (It's probably all the same sh*t anyways). I think we had 3 per year...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M Jul 20

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    i am not one of those people who say i love you, just to say it. i think its cruel to tell someone you love them, when you dont, its like playing a game. i would never tell you...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I didn't wait until marriage because i don't think virginity matters at all. What matters is the person who will be your last .
    2fuckingturnt 2fuckingturnt 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    i didn't wait untill marriage. i wanna **** my elder cousin but dont know what to do how to seduce her or get her attention by the she would not get angry on me or mind need...
    sheikh95 sheikh95 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Wasnt that a bad experience? I cant count how many times he made me feel so stupid. I guess thats normal for loving someone who didnt love you back.. I think back at my old self...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Maybe this doesn't count since this was high school and we all think we are in love then but here's what happened. This guy was someone who all the girls liked and he was also well...
    WhoAreWeIsTheQuestion WhoAreWeIsTheQuestion 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    i don't think i loved her but i felt very strongly about her - stronger than i ever have before. i can't sleep right now because all i can think about is her. i never thought we...
    getstartedfresh getstartedfresh 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    If you still love someone who didn't love you and for years still putting that person on a pedestal, you might have love addiction.
    MorningRose10 MorningRose10 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I want to understand a Loved child when he said his Bi? I'm Straight n Always have been I was 5yrs old when I had my first crush on a boy n though I admire woman's beauty I don't...
    CybrMnky CybrMnky 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    His face still haunts me in my dreams. I still dream about him. I still stop breathing for a second when I see a guy with long messy hair similar to his hair color. a red car. a...
    Kikiana1 Kikiana1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    hi, this is Bhumi, actually I am in love with someone till now who didn't loved me back.. it's been more then a month dat what he is doing just ignoring me.. Nd we were in a...
    Bheenu Bheenu 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    You need me but I can't feel that you love me... Yes you said "I love you" hundred times but words are cheap...
    mielicus mielicus 22-25, M Jul 14

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    It has happened three times.First time I felt pathetic.Now I just feel numb and strange.I am not able to decide if I should let my feelings go or wait patiently.But I feel...
    GenuineAngel GenuineAngel 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Met a girl for about a week...fell in Love...we were friends but she didn't feel the same way...now she's gone forever...can't stop thinking about her...don't know what to do
    Nicholas87 Nicholas87 16-17, M Jul 13

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    For six years I dated someone who didn't love me. He cheated on me numerous times. Trying to give him the benefit of the doubt because I thought I was in love for the first time...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13

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    Today it has been made absolutely official. I have been dumped by my boyfriend for the third or fourth time (I lost count) in a month. I keep letting him into my life because I...
    Cowrie35 Cowrie35 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I have loved with all my heart and gave Everything I had to someone who until this point has given me nothing but doubts, self doubt.. I thought we went into the same boat in the...
    VuurenMickey VuurenMickey 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I love a girl so much, more than anything else but she don't care about it. It really hurts. When she update status for someone else. I'm really hurt so much. But still I love her...
    Imjrj Imjrj 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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