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I Didn't Mean To Hurt You

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    Wounded

    A few years back, I was thinking about love and hurt and my logical mind came up with this theorem:"The more deeply we care about a person, the more vulnerable we become to them."I haven't decided if (not that you can measure love except in degrees) if this is a 1:1 correlation...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Not My Intention

    If I have hurt or offended anyone, I apologize sincerely. From the depths of my soul, I have tried to be honest and caring. I would never intentionally harm anyone, and I have. I am sorry I am such a disappointment, that was not of my doing. i am who and what I am, and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    I Hurt A Friend...

    I hurt a dear friend while trying to protect them from hurt. Talk about getting it all wrong... Life is strange, it's hard to know which road to take sometimes... We think we're heading the right way and then find out we're going in the complete wrong direction... I guess...
    pixelita pixelita 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Hurting

    Did I hurt you, as you hurt me. All those comments, that bullying. You know I didn't mean the things I said. I have apologized, did you accept it? You hurt me every day now. I hide it but I hurt. You stab me each time I see you. You glare at me, comment on who I am, share what we...
    BigDreamer1 BigDreamer1 13-15 Jun 5, 2013

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    It is so horrible. Having such a susceptibility to getting hurt makes me feel horrible. I don't even know what else to say about this topic...
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    I don't say I love you unless I mean it
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    I, I can't get these memories out of my mind, And some kind of madness has started to evolve. And I, I tried so hard to let you go, But some kind of madness is swallowing me whole...
    WellisntThisjustPeachy WellisntThisjustPeachy 18-21, M Aug 25

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    I don't express my emotions verbally very often. So if I tell you I love you, then you better know that I mean it with every fiber of my being.
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    I can't tell someone I love them unless I really do. i just won't, even if they tell me they love me. All they'll get is "Okay" or "Thanks" Yea it's mean but I can't just throw...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's a big word I can have sex with a person and not say I love you sometimes when I have that feeling of love I try to convince my self it's lust it takes time for me to love...
    tightblunt tightblunt 18-21, F Sep 3

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    But. God wants me this way. Why. Who knows. Nobody. Just God and hes quiet.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I make myself seem like a "I dont give a ****" and that is what everyone else thinks, but personal comments really get to me , I cant help it!
    lostwonderer lostwonderer 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    More then a few people have told me that. But I've only told one very special person those words...
    momopixpie momopixpie 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    At first I thought it was lust. The more and more that I'm around him. I realize it's love
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    When I first met you I never thought I'd develop feelings for you. To be honest when I first met you I thought you were kind annoying, you constantly bragged about yourself and...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I guess I didn't mean as much to him as I thought I did . /: I'm such a fool to think anyone could love a mess like me . 😔😔
    Haii6130 Haii6130 18-21, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    LIE to my husband. I love and care about him deeply and I know he truly loves me too, but I feel like I can't be honest with him about certain things in my life (especially about...
    cjfkdg518 cjfkdg518 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I didn't wait.. and I don't regret that. I do however wish it had been with somebody else. Does anybody regret not waiting or who they lost it to??
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 4 Responses 40 mins ago

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    I didn't even wait until prom.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 53 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    i didn't wait until my sweet 16. I was 15. As a lot of french people.
    bay07 bay07 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'd be lying if I said I didn't regret not getting to round 2 with the first one, but I got over it...eventually...
    Xamad Xamad 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 30

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    I read something sad today from a friend who is now in a similar situation as i was this time last year and my heart goes out to her. As it was a time when i myself felt so very...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    August 31, 2014 Sunday I've realized that in our 10years of being together maybe I give too much, there wasn't anything else for him to take and he got tired of me making him my...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    So we've known each other for a good while now. I'd say 3 years is pretty long. I've always thought you we're hilarious. I think that's the reason I dated you. It was horrible...
    RosePedals RosePedals 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Jnicole19 Jnicole19 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I met a man on a dating site. As soon as we met, we hit it off. He was single, after getting a divorce from his wife of fourteen years. But as the relationship progressed, he would...
    mumziiii mumziiii 36-40, F Aug 18

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    I've kept a secret from you. You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was...
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    wetgoodnite wetgoodnite 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 1

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    crookedteethteen crookedteethteen 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Niotask Niotask 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    maryamtssn24 maryamtssn24 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    irinacedeno irinacedeno 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 29

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    Rebekahumf Rebekahumf 31-35, M Sep 2

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    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    My ex broke up with me because he realised he didn't love me, after we had been flirting for months and months. It is still as painful as the day he chose to end it and i still...
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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