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I Didn't Mean To Hurt You

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    Wounded

    A few years back, I was thinking about love and hurt and my logical mind came up with this theorem:"The more deeply we care about a person, the more vulnerable we become to them."I haven't decided if (not that you can measure love except in degrees) if this is a 1:1 correlation...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Hurting

    Did I hurt you, as you hurt me. All those comments, that bullying. You know I didn't mean the things I said. I have apologized, did you accept it? You hurt me every day now. I hide it but I hurt. You stab me each time I see you. You glare at me, comment on who I am, share what we...
    BigDreamer1 BigDreamer1 13-15 Jun 5, 2013

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    Not My Intention

    If I have hurt or offended anyone, I apologize sincerely. From the depths of my soul, I have tried to be honest and caring. I would never intentionally harm anyone, and I have. I am sorry I am such a disappointment, that was not of my doing. i am who and what I am, and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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