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I Didn't Mean To Hurt You

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    Wounded

    A few years back, I was thinking about love and hurt and my logical mind came up with this theorem:"The more deeply we care about a person, the more vulnerable we become to them."I haven't decided if (not that you can measure love except in degrees) if this is a 1:1 correlation...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Hurting

    Did I hurt you, as you hurt me. All those comments, that bullying. You know I didn't mean the things I said. I have apologized, did you accept it? You hurt me every day now. I hide it but I hurt. You stab me each time I see you. You glare at me, comment on who I am, share what we...
    BigDreamer1 BigDreamer1 13-15 Jun 5, 2013

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    Not My Intention

    If I have hurt or offended anyone, I apologize sincerely. From the depths of my soul, I have tried to be honest and caring. I would never intentionally harm anyone, and I have. I am sorry I am such a disappointment, that was not of my doing. i am who and what I am, and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2010

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    ddanniiella ddanniiella 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    ThisIsJustForFun ThisIsJustForFun 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well attleast you think they did at first or don't know how they feel about you I was very hurt and I didn't know what to do because I was very comfortable with this person and the...
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    lovebelts lovebelts 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 12

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    amillionpeople amillionpeople 22-25 4 Responses Jan 14

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    WhereThereIsHope WhereThereIsHope 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    latinlover111 latinlover111 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    This story is a little bit funny as to how it all turned out. There's this young woman who I was teaching with, very attractive, does some modeling on the side. I noticed her...
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 10

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    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I sure didn't wait either. I was 16, my bf was 17 and we were in love. It didn't last of course but we were so sure it would.
    ForeverLynn ForeverLynn 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    smokebombtom smokebombtom 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 3

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    LoverInTheClouds LoverInTheClouds 22-25, F Jan 3

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    this is sad.I hope those of u who lost it ended up marrying that person.If you didn't, I will pray for your soul for you have made an unforgivable sin.
    matrixwolf matrixwolf 16-17, M 30 Responses Jan 4

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    I remember my first time. My bf had been eager for some time, so I forgive him for his initial push to see how far the tunnel went. I thought something had ripped down there, and...
    Jill1986 Jill1986 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    I gave you my heart, I gave you my soul, I gave you my life, my love, you stole. I never poured my heart out to anyone as much as I did for you. I did things for you, I said things...
    LonelyAJ LonelyAJ 18-21, M 11 Responses Jan 11

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    so well I'd just moved into a new house and my dog went missing, the neighbors had found her and he was standing outside my dog and his son who is 24. me and mum started talking...
    GeorgiaRhodes GeorgiaRhodes 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    didn't get any kiss..but I did get high c:
    Wblakeboren Wblakeboren 16-17, M Jan 1

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    queeenbey queeenbey 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I didn't get one,I'm not to upset though,I did get dumped though,a first for me.
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Jan 2

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    abrokenlittlegirl abrokenlittlegirl 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I didn't wait, but I have had one sexual partner and he is now my husband!
    happycupcake happycupcake 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I love eating a mouthful of M&M's, but I don't chew them! You have to suck on them super gently, so to avoid breaking the ever more fragile candy shell. If you can wait long...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    We have all been in this spot at one point or another with someone who isn't that into you, but you are for them. Painful certainly but the question is how do we let the pain...
    LJformarriedwomen LJformarriedwomen 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I'm still a virgin now, but I think it will not be like that until marriage though, my parents are basically making me stay a virgin until marriage. I don't want that at all...