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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 51,098 People

    Just because you did not wait

    until marriage to have sex does not mean you are a bad person. I believe if you have sex with the one you love then it's alright. If you have sex with the one you don't love then it's alright. Sex is normal and it's nothing to feel bad about. Don't let anyone make you feel bad.
    claratang claratang 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 18

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    of course I couldn't.

    sex is too amazing
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jun 24

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    I am 18 and 3 months pregnant.

    My boyfriend and I are keeping the baby. However, I sometimes feel that part of my "family" are trying to make me feel miserable about this...
    vviixo vviixo 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Not my fault. Fourth grade was naieve.

    Not mentally gifted until sixth grade.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I didn't wait and don't regret it.

    I read an article about a girl who waited until her wedding night and she regretted it. She said it hurt, it was awkward, and she had no idea what to think. In my opinion, you should get to know what you like rather than settling with someone and having no idea if you are...
    WitchyLexi WitchyLexi 22-25, F 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was sick of my virginity being used

    as a tool to control me. I was a virgin, by choice, for eighteen years. While that sounds like a reasonable amount of time (and I'm glad that I waited until then) I was constantly being manipulated into doing things I did not want to do. Sex was used as a tool to control me...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    I held out throughout high school,

    but my senior year I started my first serious relationship. We ended up heading to college together and explored each other with our hands and mouths, but still held off. Starting my sophomore year in college, he knew I was taking birth control, but he was still very patient...
    Ldietzy Ldietzy 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 23

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    My story is a bit crazy.

    I had sex before marriage with my ex. Because we were both super religious, we felt the need to get married to avoid impending doom. The sex was good. We did it several times before. But we let the have sex get married piece get in the way of our thinking if this person is...
    deseoyaccion deseoyaccion 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    I grew up in a religious household.

    I grew up with the teachings of the bible and the sins you're not to commit. Staying pure til marriage was something my mom pressured me about every single day. Regardless of what she wanted for me, I lost my virginity at 14 to a guy that only wanted to mess with my head...
    aj2095 aj2095 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 13

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I wanted to wait until I was married

    but that just did not happen in my lifetime. I was sleeping with my boyfriend starting at age 15 and was pregnant soon after that at age 16. I delivered healthy and twin baby boys on my birthday in 1985. My parents did not want me to drop out of school because I was pregnant...
    arizonacountrymomnaked arizonacountrymomnaked 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 5

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    I don't kno anyone who did!

    I was like 12? Lol that sounds so terrible
    MilkyCowCow MilkyCowCow 18-21, F 9 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I started messing around sexually

    when I was 16. My boyfriend and I were very liberal with birth control pills and condoms. Within a matter of a few months, I ended up pregnant. We got married a couple of weeks before our love child was born. I looked so beautiful in my extended wedding gown and very...
    matureblondefemale matureblondefemale 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 16

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Does anyone wait? I had been with one guy

    before I got together with my current boyfriend. It was a 'friends with benefits' deal. I don't regret it, in fact, I fondly think of those days.
    brokenhearted89 brokenhearted89 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 50 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    My boyfriend and I did not wait

    until we were married to engage in having sex. We were seniors in high school when we started having sex with one another. Two weeks after graduating from high school, we got married. Our wedding date was June 11th. I was 8 1/2 months pregnant then. Two weeks after being...
    femalemusiclover femalemusiclover 46-50, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    Seriously... Waiting

    for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed tons, and FINALLY got impaled on a hard stiff c**ck shooting loads into me after 2 weeks... And it seemed FOREVER...
    NastyMe NastyMe 31-35, F 26 Responses May 15

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 18 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    Have you read this story?

    I know how boys are and it's a jackpot getting laid at that age. Especially with a teacher. Poor woman. Head teacher Anne Lakey jailed for sex with boys http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-tyne-33252378
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    paulsmith345 paulsmith345 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 17 Responses Jan 30

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    I wanted to wait until marriage,

    or at the very least wait until I found that special someone I felt was worthy of my love. The one thing I never wanted for myself was to end up like my mother... a teen mom. I love her to death, don't get me wrong, but I know first-hand how difficult that is; I witnessed the...
    iSpyce iSpyce 26-30, F 14 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    i couldnt wait until marriage i lost my

    virginity at the age of 13 going on 14. i havent stopped having sex since then and im 18 now
    titojr96 titojr96 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My first time was when i was 16.

    I was at a party and got peer pressured into it. In saying that, i do not regret it. We had fun and we were safe, nobody was hurt and we both left with a good memory.
    LadySarahNight LadySarahNight 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 21

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    My family is super religious.

    They expected me to wait till marriage and I snuck around and done it anyways. They found out and was not happy. They called me awful names and didn't talk to me for a while. Some of my family still won't talk to me and it's been months. They always tell me I'm going to go to...
    Lex222 Lex222 18-21, F 22 Responses Jun 12

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    Nope and I don't regret it.

    I don't plan on getting married anyway. Too overrated. I don't know a single virgin. No one waits any more, and why should they?
    TheOtherOne17 TheOtherOne17 16-17, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    No I didn't wait. I lost my virginity at 15.

    Ever since then I can't get enough. I think about it all the time. I am so glad I didn't wait cos I have gotten so much pleasure and had so much fun. Also I am giving pleasure to others. How can this be bad or wrong?
    cassieo21f cassieo21f 18-21, F 18 Responses May 16

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    As a western European I find the notion of

    waiting until marriage sort of medieval. I think you would get quite a few frowns when mentioning this after you're past the age of 18. There seems to be no such movement here and I have never heard any of my friends or acquaintances expressing a desire to wait until marriage.
    Savourycandy Savourycandy 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I was raised to wait

    until being married before engaging in sexual activities with the opposite sex. It just did not happen for me. I was very open to sexual activities with males when I was in college during the early 2000s. I slept around with boyfriend after boyfriend. Because birth control...
    femalewithredhair femalewithredhair 31-35, F 12 Responses May 9

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    Goodness no, Mom had me at age 16,

    so she put me on the pill at a young age. I told a friend, and she told the rest of my school. Guys would ask if it was true, then ask for a date. I never had a steady bf because of my tarnished reputation, but I had fun, and I have no regrets.
    donna1980x donna1980x 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 20

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    I was 16, we were horny

    and it was in his room. Great experience no regrets. I do remember being a Spaz afterward but luckily no pregnancy came from it. Sex is a natural part of life - I couldn't suppress my natural curiosity. I don't understand the waiting concept - then or now. Let me state that I...
    tosh15 tosh15 31-35, F 15 Responses May 9

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    i didn't wait, but i did marry the first guy i

    ever ******. we were together for 4 years before we got married. we had a 3 some with my best (girl) friend 2 years before that(good times hehe) now after years of being accused of cheating, were in the midst of a divorce. (not so good times.) we were polyamorus for about a...
    vanyaorlav vanyaorlav 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 13

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I waited till I was 20

    because I believed it was something extremely intimate that should be shared only with someone you love. Unfortunately, the guy I ended up losing it to only pretended to care about me in order to finally get me to have sex with him. When I finally figured it all out- I have to...
    annabethhh annabethhh 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't see it as something lost,

    I see it more as something that I was able to give to the one person who loves me and cares about me and who I love and care about as well. We shared ourselves to each other and I truly believe that I will be with him forever. This may sound naive, but I really do love him...
    bellafigueroa45 bellafigueroa45 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I didn't wait and till this day I wish I had of.

    Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex, but it makes things so complicated. No one can just have a simple relationship anymore. Going into high school I had a plan. I promised myself that I wasn't going to lose my virginity until I got married, because that's what God intended. But I...
    Livers95 Livers95 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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