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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 14,698 People

    Any girls, 18-30, want to Message me?

    I'm not depressed, but i feel quote alone now
    gtomm gtomm 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm very religious and I intended to wait.

    But in the heat of my anger and pain I lashed out...at myself and let someone violate the one thing that actually meant something towards me. I can truthfully say that I 100% regret losing it. I wanted to feel something and I felt nothing and I think that's what made it worse...
    smarcelin2014 smarcelin2014 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I never waited because I knew I was with the

    one whom I will be with forever, so why let a marriage certificate define who we are as two halves of a perfect whole? As far as I'm concerned, we're already married.
    TheLastAngel111 TheLastAngel111 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    These violent delights have violent ends

    and in their triumph die , like fire and powder...
    mReee mReee 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am now almost 20 and I lost my virginity at

    13. It's crazy when I think about it now because it seems so young but I was completely comfortable and felt ready. I trusted my boyfriend at the time, he was one year older and it was his first time too. I still see him now and then and we're good friends but I do think 13 was...
    kimsaprincess kimsaprincess 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    I don't think I'd wait

    for marriage even if I had the chance to. What if you get married and their sex is wack? I would hate that lol
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 8

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    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    I didn't intend to wait

    and I don't regret it. It was on my 16th birthday. I mean, it wasn't the best sex ever... It was clumsy, quick and a bit awkward. But I was glad I got that first time out of the way and knew what the "big deal" was all about. Yah. Still, respect to those who intend to wait...
    jojijo jojijo 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Was raised to believe sex was holy

    and a big deal. I thought that when I had sex something huge would happen. I've always heard comments on how sex can make you feel emotions for each other and other stuff. My first time was with an atheist that convinced me sex was just sex. We had sex and it hurt AF cus his...
    rosesh098 rosesh098 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 7

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    I wish I waited.. I am currently watching a

    movie and it got me thinking. Of my past and what my life used to be. The reckless behavior and carelessness of being young and naïve. I would smoke, drink, partake in experimenting new drugs, and have sex with random people. Out of my entire number I remember one. I only...
    EvalynnWoods EvalynnWoods 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm 16 and I have a daughter.

    I've been dating the same guy since 2010 when I was 12 and he was 13. We started having sex when I was 15 and he was 16 because we felt ready, once the condom broke and I got pregnant. Our baby Zoey is now 4 months old, the father and I are still together and better than ever...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Who does these days? Sex is

    so important to a healthy relationship, not having sex before marriage is potentially suicidal! If anyone did wait or is going to wait I admire you for your strong will but I don't think there's any reason why people should be free to have sex whenever they want.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3

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    I was fifteen and totally in love.

    He was incredibly cute and we did it in his room. It was a bit awkward but he was gentle with me and I don't regret it at all. Unfortunately he broke my little heart, but I've moved on.
    MelodieSlute MelodieSlute 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I am going to be a single mom

    that is only 14 years old .. 😓
    whinny0225 whinny0225 13-15, F 3 Responses 45 mins ago

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    Some people consider losing your virginity by

    being with a man. Not true for lesbians. I'd say losing your virginity for a woman is having anything enter: a guy, fingers, a tongue-- doesn't matter. By applying those rules I lost it when I was 7 to a girl.
    LezzieRose LezzieRose 16-17, F 7 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I was 14 the first time.

    It was neither pleasureable nor bad... it just was. I don't think about it too much but I am still friends with the guy to this day. Actually, we are better friends now than we were then. Isn't that interesting?
    susand69 susand69 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 30 Responses Jul 13

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    I willingly had sex for the first time

    when I was 12. Over that summer before 7th grade I casually did it with 3 different boys that lived in my neighborhood. It seemed everyone else was, and they said I was the"prize" because I was white and had blond hair. They were Hispanic and Black. My mom was a drug user...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 13 Responses May 24

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 12 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    I thought he was the love of my life,

    I have him two years of my life , and lost many friends because of him. At the end I was just left with heartbreak and with no friends . They say karma is a ***** , let's see when he gets what he deserves.
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    We totally in love. How can anyone wait

    until they married. He was so hot and i crazy about him. He is a good kisser. I love to kiss him and i was very eager if he touche my b***** .he was so gentle
    bellablurr bellablurr 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I waited a year and 2 months I was 16 at the

    time. I thought I was ready but I realized I wasn't as I lay next to him. I didn't wanna back out cause I promised him this many times before and backed out. It was painful and wasn't romantic. I bled for 3 days and didn't want to have sex for a long time after that. To make...
    young090613 young090613 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I didn't wait I was young

    and I will never forget it it was awkward being naked in front of someone foe the first time but it was was wonderfull. and I was super head over heels in love teen romance lol
    sweetlanie sweetlanie 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 30

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    But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ...

    I didn't wait until marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had been dating so many guys before I met him but I have never had sex with them since I wasn't sure if they were the right one for me. Surprisingly, when I met my boyfriend, I didn't hesitate to...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 29 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    But It's Why I Ended Up Married.

    When I was young its almost comical how much I was in a hurry to grow up, leave home and start my own life.  My childhood had really good parts but also some pretty tough parts as well.  I was insecure and really naive when it came to my own self worth.  When I met my x, I was...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 26 Responses Jul 3

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    I never understood why losing your virginity

    had to be a big thing. I did it with a friend and then I kicked him out like why do people always wanna talk? I only consider sex a big thing now because I know what I like and now it's an experience when you lose you're v-card it's an event not an experience and honestly I don...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I like men. I like sex!

    I like sex with men!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    I had sex with my boyfriend

    after almost two years together I knew it was right because it just happened out of no where and that's the best when things happen and are unexpected I love him & we are still together.. Going on five years we have our ups & downs but he has been my only true love who I know...
    Personaljournal14 Personaljournal14 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 7 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    He Was 20, I Was 14

    He said he was in love with me and everything. So stupid me, i believed him. I had sex with him in a motel and it hurt so much. He did all sorts of things to me and in the end. He dumped me. I guess he just used me for sex. That`s one of the things i regret the most.
    Schylar Schylar 18-21, F 14 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Joining The World

    I'm not from a puritanical background. Although I have Calvinist forebears we are a family which embraces life in all it's aspects. Here in France the age of consent is fifteen. It hardly affects what happens with kids interested in the workings of the world. I was fourteen the...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    No, I did not wait until I was married to get

    pregnant. I am 8 1/2 months pregnant now. I am loving the beach and walking along it day or night.
    pgfemaleatbeach pgfemaleatbeach 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 15

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    I did not wait until getting married

    before having sex. In high school, I had two biracial babies at ages 13 and 17. In college, I had another biracial baby at age 23. After college, I had two more biracial babies at age 27 and 30. I am pregnant again now at age 33 by my older interracial husband. I am 33...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4

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    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F 17 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of

    dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1) wanted to feel safe, not scared that we were going to get caught or something 2) wanted it to be in a bed 3) wanted to be protected and 4) wanted...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Jenqui96 Jenqui96 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Or until I was in a relationship.

    And now I regret it, because it meant so much to me yet probably nothing to him. Lesson learned.
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Today I wished that I waited.

    I wished that someone had told me to make up my mind in time. God has forgiven me and Im happy and dont have scars. I did not wait because I did not think about it seriously and I did not know the effects, how it is when you are dumped and feel the love was not real. Today I...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 9 hrs ago

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    Scifiguy Scifiguy 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15.

    I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents have never spoken to me about sex. I've always found the idea of 'virginity' a silly concept and i never planned to wait till...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I remained a virgin until I was 25 years old

    when I had my first real boyfriend. We were in his bedroom, he asked me for a kiss but since I really like him I licked his lips then it turned to a very hot and heavy make out for like an hour. We were so into it that I didn't say a word when he took my panties off then we made...
    luvkittycat luvkittycat 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Don't all guys believe that

    because your plus size and you didn't wait till marriage you have low standards and will give it away to anyone or just openly freely share your sexual expierences
    jodi199423 jodi199423 18-21, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    What? Gotta take it out

    for a test drive before you buy it! ;)
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    My boyfriend and I really loved each other

    and my parents really hate him. They do their best to keep me away from him. I don't know what to do????
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I actually wated until I was 22,

    and I just decided I wanted sex. I figured I wouldnt find a virgin and I didnt want to be one any longer. Looking back it was wrong to only date her for sex and I didnt treat her as well as other gf's. I had another one nighter before meeting my future wife. My wife was not a...
    Husker97 Husker97 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 12 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I was fourteen, there were two guys

    who both wanted me. It was very painful but I liked it! One followed the other.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 13 Responses Jun 26

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