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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 61,672 People

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    Flowerpower5678 Flowerpower5678 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 7, 2015

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    Haha that would have been

    so silly, waiting until marriage... how much fun I would have missed! ;)
    sxylaura sxylaura 16-17, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    you see I'm on the wrestling team

    and at my school and on my wrestling team you get so much crap for being a virgin I mean that crap is just incredible you get from people and the other guys and the summer my 14 year I just wanted to do it and get it over with I didn't care I just wanted to do it that summer and...
    dylan014 dylan014 13-15, M 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I didn't wait until marriage to say I love you.

    And I feel like my virginity is gone even though it's not. Im not messing around so... Joke if u want.
    Everyheartbeat Everyheartbeat 26-30 5 Responses Jan 15

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    To be honest who the **** did,

    I know "devote" Christians who let loose
    FT141 FT141 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So this boy I like has been texting me

    but our convo always goes back to my butt and how much he loves it and wants to smack it and stuff and I'm kings heavy so im desperate for any guy to like me but not only that I actually liked this guy before we talked so I'm super extra desperate to make him like me so I just...
    TankTopQueen TankTopQueen 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    On our fourth date he started touching me I

    thought it was normal and I let him do that than days after we where at this beautiful lake in car n I don't know what happened(emotions where out of control..lol) n stuff happen guess what I dint wait until marriage..lol now its been 5 years with him n its truly amazing <3
    beautyndbeast beautyndbeast 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 30, 2015

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    Thanks to growing up in an abstinence teaching

    religious household I felt guilty for a long time after losing my virginity. The first time I had sex with a second guy I cried the day after, realizing what I had done. I felt dirty and like a failure. But after a few years I realize it was just my family and my church, having...
    Azuriel Azuriel 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 21, 2015

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    There's this guy I had a crush on

    and I ended up hooking up with him. He doesn't want ANYONE to know, like he's being anal about it, even parking far away from my house so my neighbors who go to our school don't see his car. It's like he's ashamed to be with me. I know I'm hot, so it's apparently my personality...
    Letterbomb365 Letterbomb365 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I held out throughout high school,

    but my senior year I started my first serious relationship. We ended up heading to college together and explored each other with our hands and mouths, but still held off. Starting my sophomore year in college, he knew I was taking birth control, but he was still very patient...
    Ldietzy Ldietzy 31-35, F 21 Responses Feb 23, 2015

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    I want to have sex so badly.

    I love sex. I've slept with 4 guys and I'm totally okay with that. I actually want to sleep with more people. I haven't had an ****** from sex or even oral sex, so fingers crossed I find someone who can get it done.
    helplesslyhopelessly helplesslyhopelessly 18-21, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    Seriously... Waiting

    for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed tons, and FINALLY got impaled on a hard stiff c**ck shooting loads into me after 2 weeks... And it seemed FOREVER...
    NastyMe NastyMe 31-35, F 27 Responses May 15, 2015

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    snugglybunny snugglybunny 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 5

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    I'm 18 years old. I currently live in the same

    house with my boyfriend. we had sex about a few months before we had gotten together (age 17 at the time) and we were best friends for roughly 10 years and we decided to try it, since we we're best friends. And now we live together(unmarried) no children and we are happy. Yes...
    AugustOlvera AugustOlvera 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 15

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    my first time was when I was 14

    and the guy was 19 he was so gentle and good to me I was with him till he went back to college
    JasmineRae JasmineRae 22-25, F 16 Responses Jun 8, 2015

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 25 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    My husband and I did not wait

    for marriage . In fact I was 8 months pregnant at my wedding lol OPPS
    Cynthia79 Cynthia79 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was 13, was in 8th grade

    and had caught the eye of a 16 year old guy. We called ourselves dating most of the summer. Most we did was kiss till the last weekend. He talked about wanting to know what it was like to be with me, but I wasn't sure about it. The night it happened seemed different, even in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Jan 19

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    I was 17 when I lost my virginity

    and my guy was 27...I'm so glad I had sex with him and didn't wait. About 5 yrs after that he was killed in a car crash. I'll always have the memory of giving myself to him....it was so worth it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Dec 2, 2015

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    So I thought sex was like a ***** (obviously),

    and I remember trying to give it as hard and fast to a girl as possible. That was hilarious in hindsight. Oh, and I lasted like 15 seconds. I'm sure she loved that! Let's just say I can last far longer than that now, thank goodness. Love making it last hours now...
    lajohnnyguy2 lajohnnyguy2 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 46-50, F 15 Responses Jan 30, 2015

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    So no one on my family knows this.

    I didn't wait till I got married to have s*x with a guy. The reason none of them know is cause they are all Christians and would be upset with me. I can't say judge me cause I know they wouldn't. But they would be disappointed..and I want to tell them how I feel about this...
    MsKennedy MsKennedy 22-25, F 44 Responses Feb 1

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    We're all just ******* animals.

    Animals don't wait for stupid papers to be signed.
    snugglybunny snugglybunny 22-25, F 23 Responses Sep 29, 2015

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    Out of the 13 years I've been legal I've only

    had 2 years accumulated worth of full sex. That is depressing.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 14

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    I was 13 with another boy,

    reading an old Penthouse magazine. Came across a gay letter in the letter/story section and we both got the same idea. It was great and I will never forget it :-)
    DanielleRene DanielleRene 18-21, T 20 hrs ago

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    "Gotta try on a pair of pants

    before you buy them!" -my grandmother
    Kwebby7 Kwebby7 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 4, 2015

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    Contrary to popular belief,

    I'm a teenage girl and I don't regret it.
    VioletSea VioletSea 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Was 18, at a party. A nice experience

    but nothing electrifying, we got together a few more times. Took another 12 years and as failed marriage to find my true love and soulmate.
    RocknRollCowboy71 RocknRollCowboy71 41-45, M Jan 24

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    From the moment I had my first sexual thought,

    I was way too curious to be a "good girl". Even on the cusp of puberty I was playing "show me yours, show you mine" with boys. I liked being attractive to someone and I liked discovering what boys had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jan 30

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    The nuns would be saddened perhaps.

    There are regrets now, I guess, with the truth of it, because my desire to know what sex was like, overwhelmed my moral sense inspired by the nuns. A notch on the bedpost, perhaps, I don't know. An experience most people have at some stage in their lives.
    Wishart95 Wishart95 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My first time was in the girls locker room with

    my then girlfriend. Long story but awesome time. Message me if you want the whole story.
    GoTigers79 GoTigers79 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Was when I was 15. Was

    after school, I stayed to watch the football practice and wait for my boyfriend at the time to get done. On the way home the conversation went to sex and soon we'd pulled off the road and were in the back seat of his car. Was a time I'll never forget, I was scared for a few...
    JessicaRenolds JessicaRenolds 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    who does anymore? I mean its not worth buying

    the whole pig just for a little sausage! :)
    Sharebear8466 Sharebear8466 22-25, F 76 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    I was in 8th grade dating a girl in high school.

    We were out of school for MLK Jr's Bday. She called me up and told me to come over. When I got there I walked in like normal. She yelled to me and said she was in her bedroom. She was laying there in the nude. I couldn't believe it. She asked if I wanted to and I couldn't rip my...
    ivegot5onit ivegot5onit 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 13

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 16 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    I'm glad I didn't. Although,

    it took me many years to really narrow down my sexual identity. I kept seeking out sex cause I never found it to be fully gratifying. So, I kept trying thinking I would get used to it and then it'd get better. I even tried with other girls, and while that was a little less...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 26

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    I had my first i n t e r c o u r s e

    when I was 14. The o r g a s m was heavenly. After that there was no stopping :)
    Gia1996 Gia1996 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 14, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 1

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    No, my mom, female siblings,

    our daughters, and I did not wait until we were married to engage in having sex with a man. We all feel that premarital sex is permissible then and now. One does not have to be married to have sex and to have babies either.
    Maryanne1969 Maryanne1969 46-50, F 13 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 46 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    No I didn't wait. I lost my virginity at 15.

    Ever since then I can't get enough. I think about it all the time. I am so glad I didn't wait cos I have gotten so much pleasure and had so much fun. Also I am giving pleasure to others. How can this be bad or wrong?
    cassieo21f cassieo21f 18-21, F 14 Responses May 16, 2015

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    I surly didn't wait until marriage.

    A boy in middle school and I had planned on it because of a dare, we never had the chance. I was horny from then on. Finally I was about 15 and a friend of mine boyfriend and I got to talking. Ten minutes later I was no longer a virgin. he put it in every hole he could...
    Bellahpee Bellahpee 41-45, F 19 Responses Jul 23, 2015

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    I was 18 and 35 years later he

    and I are still married.
    lonelytwilite lonelytwilite 51-55, F 13 Responses Sep 2, 2015

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    My first time was when I was 15.

    I was with a 17 year old guy at the time. I actually thought of it before he asked, he was totally hot. I knew other girls wanted to take him from the "15 year old little girl" they called me. The night it happened we were at a get together at his house when he managed to sneak...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 24

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