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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 5,389 People

    No regrets here. Of course,

    sex is so personal that I don't wanna speak in this story from any point of view but mine. I waited until I was done with high school but not yet in college. We use protection and had been in a relationship for years and we are still together although we did have a breakup a few...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 7

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    No the Good Girl Didnt Wait

    Should have as it was over rated. He or I didnt know what the hell we were doing. I was 17, should have been doing something more constructive like having a V-8.
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    We had sex three times.

    None were protected. I don't regret it. I have him my virginity and love him more than any man in the world.
    emblay27 emblay27 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I lost my virginity to the guy

    who said he loved me. He left me a week later. 💔
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 16-17, F 20 Responses Mar 19

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Who does these days? Sex is

    so important to a healthy relationship, not having sex before marriage is potentially suicidal! If anyone did wait or is going to wait I admire you for your strong will but I don't think there's any reason why people should be free to have sex whenever they want.
    iBabe iBabe 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    I kinda wish I had though.

    I didn't just throw it around or anything, I was in a relationship with them, but I wish I had saved it for my husband. But, he didn't save it either, and he doesn't seem like that bothers him that I didn't either, thankfully. :)
    Srkelly89 Srkelly89 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    She was my first real girlfriend,

    and the best lover. Our relationship was short but oh so sweet. Neither of us knew anything of love, she knew more than I about sex, and I loved every second of our time together. Never save yourself, just be careful who you choose, keep safe, and enjoy being young. If you're...
    KitFornay KitFornay 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you, making older men feel younger in return. Typically, women mature at a faster rate than men do and sometimes a 50 year old man is more compatible...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 20

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    I was a junior in high school

    when I got pregnant. Nine months later after graduating from high school I married the dad of our twin daughters.
    olderandpregnantfemale olderandpregnantfemale 41-45, F Feb 1

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    Given For Lust

    No I did not wait until marriage to share that special part of myself to a man... I wasnt even in love him, but at the time, I thought I was... I was 18, his name was Ryan... Before I go on a little background on me... I hadnt even thought about sex all my friends couldnt believe...
    Nikita8687 Nikita8687 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Test Drive

    I didn't wait until I was married to have sex.  I did wait until I was sure I was in love, and until I was with somebody who wanted the same things from having sex - on the same page as me relationship wise.  I could have slept with a guy I thought I loved but who I knew didn...
    jellibeanz jellibeanz 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    So I was raised into an extremely religious

    family who have always expected so much from me and I never questioned it. Even in my worst times I was alone but still never questioned the words they told me. Why not? They're my family I should believe everything they say. I have had boy friends and done things but always...
    CharlotteLives CharlotteLives 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    Didn't See A Point

    I'm not religious so I don't see it as any big sin to not wait for marriage. So I lost mine at 16 with some boyfriend at the time.
    JunkieCaity JunkieCaity 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F 17 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    emblay27 emblay27 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Most People Do!!! Right?

    Not very many young girl's are doing what is right and are having flings before the ring. I did too. like i said most people do. The saying *if i new then what i do now, i would go back and change things. when it comes to having sex before marriage i wish i would of waited. It is...
    stamp24 stamp24 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    I was 15 when I first began to experiment.

    We were a little crazy and acted like typical teenagers. I found out later that his parents supported the experience because they wanted a check. We had been together for five months and I turned up pregnant. A week after I found out I lost my uncle who had been a major...
    kdone kdone 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    To start I am a guy,

    and when I lost my virginity I must say it was very awkward and honestly felt as though I let my girlfriend down.( I guess I did something right seeing as we are still together two and a half years later lol). To start I was 15 at the time and she was 14(Both virgins), we both...
    CHSD192837465 CHSD192837465 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    But It's Why I Ended Up Married.

    When I was young its almost comical how much I was in a hurry to grow up, leave home and start my own life.  My childhood had really good parts but also some pretty tough parts as well.  I was insecure and really naive when it came to my own self worth.  When I met my x, I was...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Honestly, Who Knows When I'll Get Married, So Why Wait?

    I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. Why? Because I trust him. He hasn't given me any reason to not give myself to him. I know it all sounds foolish and naive, but marriage shouldn't be a reason why I can't lose my virginity to the person who I care about and who cares...
    WeArePilots WeArePilots 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    I miss him so much, but I can't continue hoping

    that he will change. I am tired of feeling like an obligation, and being put second. I don't want to cry anymore. He gave all his free time away and if he really wanted to he could have made time for me, real time. I'm just the booty call now and I'm that conversation on his...
    MJack1234 MJack1234 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Been with the same man

    for three years and we make love at least once a week. He was and still is my first EVERYTHING except kissing. I'm happy I didn't wait because its another way for me to express my love for him!!
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Sexually speaking, I did not wait

    until marriage. My then boyfriend and now husband were deeply in love and we just could not wait to make love to one another. As I think about it, I wish we had waited because I soon ended up pregnant. Yes, I was a pregnant bride as many or women have been through the ages...
    barbaratownsend barbaratownsend 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    He was my first love,

    and if I was going to lose it to someone I knew I was going to lose it to my first love, sex is great! I'd never want to miss out.
    aliciapearl5 aliciapearl5 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I wish i did. Sex to me

    now is extremely important and i don't rush it. When you're 16, (when i lost mine, its legal in the UK) hormones are all over the place and you want to sleep with everything that moves. But as i have got older, i have come to realise that its not about that final 10 seconds, its...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I Lost My Virginity.

    Im only 15 but i lost my virginity in July and i don't regret it
    deliriousss deliriousss 16-17, F 6 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 12 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Wait For What?

    At age thirteen, it never occurred to me that marriage was absolutely necessary.  It was an option that had no real value other than government protection that was being denied to certain minorities.  Of course, I didn't think about that quite as much, only that...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 12 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    I was 15, he was 23. He said he "loved" me the

    night we had sex, and we were in a relationship.. But his behavior changed imensley after we had sex. He stopped wanting to come around and make an effort to be with me, and what hurt the most was when he told me he never said he loved me. When i know for a fact he told me he...
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    When I was 14 my family

    and I changed religions. We used to be Catholics but we switched to Pentecostal Christians which is the same as Baptists. Anyways, we started going to church every day for four hours every day. I started to get close to God and I wanted to obey him. I started reading the bible a...
    estefany1994 estefany1994 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    My First Time (Sort Of)

    I lost my virginity to a boy who abused me, and raped me. That is another story for another time. My first REAL time was with my current boyfriend. (And it was his first time overall.) My parents were going to be out of town one evening, so we planned about a week in advance to...
    ReyaWrites ReyaWrites 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ...

    I didn't wait until marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had been dating so many guys before I met him but I have never had sex with them since I wasn't sure if they were the right one for me. Surprisingly, when I met my boyfriend, I didn't hesitate to...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 30 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    It was someone I hated,

    a week before first sleeping with my boyfriend (now fiancé). And I'm so glad I did, for a few reasons. Partly because of the physical aspects. For me, it was excruciating, not just once, but many times, no matter how badly I wanted it. That first time was the absolute worst...
    MissIntent MissIntent 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I liked to bone in high school.

    It was awesome... The I got pregnant and bone the same girl now haha
    kytabl30 kytabl30 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    No Regrets, We'Ll See What Happens Next...

    Well here's the story of my 'supposedly first time' while I don't consider myself a virgin, my story isn't as juicy as movies and other's stories come out to be. I had a friend, let's call him 'June', because that's when it happened. June went to college out of state and was much...
    NotLolita NotLolita 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I wanted to wait...and then I didn't.

    .and I don't regret it.
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I had my first sexual experience a little late.

    It was when I just turned 18. First time my boyfriend forced himself on me, luckily he didn't get there because it sucked. Thel second time I did it it was with my first love. It was unprotected. Luckily I did not get pregnant.
    secretz1 secretz1 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    But It's Okay

    I believe that you should wait until you are married before you have sex with someone, But I did not. This isn't one of the regret stories, I was sixteen when I lost my virginity. My boyfriend was 17. He lived with me and we slept in the same bed. I don't regret not waiting until...
    MisterandMe MisterandMe 18-21, F 6 Responses May 15, 2012

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    I wish I did but I can't take it back.

    I plan on being abstinent . Waiting for that special person . 1 year and almost 4months . I will stay on this journey . Till I meet the guy of my dreams.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    In my opinion sex isn't something

    that should only be between two people that love each other, I believe it should be enjoyed by everyone. I just enjoy the pleasure / enjoyment of the moment and then I can move on with my life, having this mindset makes it very easy for me to just go out and have some fun. I...
    Lauramom38 Lauramom38 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 4

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    Haven't Yet - Probably Will Soon

    I don't intend to wait until marriage. I just haven't felt ready yet. I know I want to so I probably will fairly soon (not like next week but soon). I know I want to have sex Now - not right now what I mean is that I know now that I want to have sex. I'm 16 and still a virgin...
    KimmieDelta KimmieDelta 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    He Was 20, I Was 14

    He said he was in love with me and everything. So stupid me, i believed him. I had sex with him in a motel and it hurt so much. He did all sorts of things to me and in the end. He dumped me. I guess he just used me for sex. That`s one of the things i regret the most.
    Schylar Schylar 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I did not wait until getting married

    before having sex. In high school, I had two biracial babies at ages 13 and 17. In college, I had another biracial baby at age 23. After college, I had two more biracial babies at age 27 and 30. I am pregnant again now at age 33 by my older interracial husband. I am 33...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4

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    Was It A Mistake?

    I always thought that I would lose my virginity to a guy that I really, truly loved. Someone that i had a deep, inner connection with. Many of my friends in high school had lost their virginity to their long-term boyfriends. I had one too, but I wasn't ready to take that next...
    psp0815 psp0815 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Joining The World

    I'm not from a puritanical background. Although I have Calvinist forebears we are a family which embraces life in all it's aspects. Here in France the age of consent is fifteen. It hardly affects what happens with kids interested in the workings of the world. I was fourteen the...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I don't regret my decision to start having sex.

    I would have done anything to try and connect with my partner and I don't regret feeling that way about him. I tried everything and I couldn't make it work, and that's okay. I'm proud of myself for being so brave. In a very personal way, I believe that opening up that part of my...
    roselemonade roselemonade 18-21, F Jan 18

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    I lost my virginity a year ago.

    I don't regret it. I regret how I handled it. I regret the person. He screwed me over and straight out used me. If I could do it over again I wouldn't change the time or the fact that it wasn't a boyfriend of mine, I would just want it to be someone who actually cared about me...
    hxlxnb hxlxnb 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 22

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