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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 49,019 People

    She was very attractive.

    We started kissing and before you know it, we was doing it. For me it was automatic and she didn't even know what happened. We dated afterwards. I was 16.
    a1v1n25 a1v1n25 31-35, M May 14

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 50 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 18 Responses Jan 30

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    I was too curious to wait

    til marriage. Kind of glad I didnt, just wish I waited till I was older because I want ready for a child at 17.
    sandraquetzalli sandraquetzalli 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20

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    I mean I never had any intention of getting

    married so why wait, right?
    FelixtheVirus FelixtheVirus 22-25, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I was 16, we were horny

    and it was in his room. Great experience no regrets. I do remember being a Spaz afterward but luckily no pregnancy came from it. Sex is a natural part of life - I couldn't suppress my natural curiosity. I don't understand the waiting concept - then or now. Let me state that I...
    tosh15 tosh15 31-35, F 16 Responses May 9

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    It's hard to wait on marriage.

    Plus it fills so good.
    bbowie09 bbowie09 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I was once promiscuous.

    . Lost track of my number at 48
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 17

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    I lost my virginity at 17 to a guy

    that I never saw again afterwards. I don't have any regrets or sad feelings about it. It is what it is.. However I wish that it would have been more special or romantic. It wasn't how I pictured it at all. But that's reality for you.
    Mseducated18 Mseducated18 18-21, F May 13

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I was sick of my virginity being used

    as a tool to control me. I was a virgin, by choice, for eighteen years. While that sounds like a reasonable amount of time (and I'm glad that I waited until then) I was constantly being manipulated into doing things I did not want to do. Sex was used as a tool to control me...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was 17 my first time,

    inexperienced and Stupid. Truth be told, my decision was made from per pressure from my circle of friends. I was the last one to have sex, and it wasn't all that great like I had expected. I would tell anyone not just girls, save yourself long as you can, God only blessed us...
    SmartShana SmartShana 22-25, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    No I didn't wait. I lost my virginity at 15.

    Ever since then I can't get enough. I think about it all the time. I am so glad I didn't wait cos I have gotten so much pleasure and had so much fun. Also I am giving pleasure to others. How can this be bad or wrong?
    cassieo21f cassieo21f 18-21, F 19 Responses May 16

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    I wish I would have waited.

    It would have been special to share that with my future husband, whoever he may be. People say it's good to "test drive" but I think it would have been fun to figure it out with my husband.
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I had just turned 19

    and the man I was seeing was very sexual and I knew it and I was also quite a kinky girl but he didn't know it... I just never thought I'd meet a man like him and have him want me in return. I lost my virginity in the fenced off area at a national park.... Like amongst the...
    hiddennlove hiddennlove 18-21, F 4 Responses May 17

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    kid222 kid222 22-25, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't wait either.

    I had many experiences and learned a lot from different girls and women. Waiting for marriage to have sex doesn't mean that it will be a good or positive experience.
    LarryDo LarryDo 46-50, M 6 Responses May 16

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    Seriously... Waiting

    for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed tons, and FINALLY got impaled on a hard stiff c**ck shooting loads into me after 2 weeks... And it seemed FOREVER...
    NastyMe NastyMe 31-35, F 23 Responses May 15

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 18 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    I wanted to wait until I was married

    but that just did not happen in my lifetime. I was sleeping with my boyfriend starting at age 15 and was pregnant soon after that at age 16. I delivered healthy and twin baby boys on my birthday in 1985. My parents did not want me to drop out of school because I was pregnant...
    arizonacountrymomnaked arizonacountrymomnaked 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 5

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    I was 13.. I was with the guy

    for 9 months.. And I don't regret it, I just regret that it meant more to me then it did to him..
    andriiannaa andriiannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I was 13, and it makes me feel

    so guilty and awful. When I think of my husband I hope and pray that he hasn't been doing things with other girls. Thoughts run in my head of fear. What if he thinks they were better than me? And then what if when we finally do it he isn't happy with it and he knows there...
    alps1416 alps1416 13-15, F 6 Responses May 16

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    21 of age and still havnt lost the V Card I was

    I had sex I want to know what it feels like
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 20

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    i thought it will be a wait till marrige,

    but the day i met my fiancee , very next day wait finished and i got involved
    check1in check1in 31-35, M May 15

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    Chezsoldierr Chezsoldierr 18-21, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 23 Responses Jan 27

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    Definitely do not wait.

    You wouldn't buy a car without a test drive. You wouldn't buy a house without seeing it and having a survey. So why would you risk being sexually incompatible with someone? It's a major cause of marriage breakdown.
    Naturecharles Naturecharles 41-45, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    Flowerpower5678 Flowerpower5678 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 7

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 2

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I'm glad that I didn't wait.

    I've only had one partner and I'm currently dating him ❤️ and since our first time I've been craving it more
    SkyeLee100 SkyeLee100 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    No, I did not wait until I was married to have

    sex and have a family. Many of my girlfriends were in high school with me. Most of them were having sex with their boyfriends and ended up pregnant. I was the same by having sex with my boyfriend and ending up pregnant at 16 and a junior in high school. I never regretted...
    momwithtwinsagain momwithtwinsagain 36-40, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was raised to wait

    until being married before engaging in sexual activities with the opposite sex. It just did not happen for me. I was very open to sexual activities with males when I was in college during the early 2000s. I slept around with boyfriend after boyfriend. Because birth control...
    femalewithredhair femalewithredhair 31-35, F 13 Responses May 9

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses May 15

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