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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 47,164 People

    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    I did it in August. I met him online

    and we're long distance. we had talked about it on multiple occasions, both of us were virgins at the time. I still live with my really conservative parents so I had to do some sneaking around. We knew we were going to do it the day we met. It hurt the first time, and we were...
    preeez preeez 22-25 1 Response Apr 25

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    When me and my man are going at it,

    I never know/feel when I c*m! He always jokes about "You could of at least given me the heads up" because I c*m a lot apparently but I never know when it's coming lol! Who has any advice?
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    I was 16. It was with my

    now husband. I married my first...Fairytale, right? :-/
    milkysecret milkysecret 36-40, F 21 Responses Feb 25

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    but I wish I had. Oh well.

    I'm married now. All settled down. My husband and I have made some of the same kind of mistakes. We are best friends and love each other and that's all that matters.
    jamielove7777 jamielove7777 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I didn't wait and neither did my husband.

    It didn't bother either of us and we are a very happy couple and about to have a baby. I think if you are truly important to someone they won't mind.
    lillybear13 lillybear13 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    When I was in high school

    and during the summer months my boyfriend and I used to go down to the lake to go swimming. One Saturday afternoon, my boyfriend picked me up and drove us down to the lake in the country. I wore my bikini under my short shorts and tank top. When we arrived, we got undressed...
    jillpeterson jillpeterson 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    My first time was when i was 16.

    I was at a party and got peer pressured into it. In saying that, i do not regret it. We had fun and we were safe, nobody was hurt and we both left with a good memory.
    LadySarahNight LadySarahNight 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 21

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    I was 17 and date-raped.

    Nobody's first time should be like that. I screamed in pain and there was blood. And it impregnated me. Two marriages, I was pregnant at the wedding. This time, the guy and I are taking things slowly. We've been together six years, and we have never had sex! This time, I will...
    Simpfan Simpfan 56-60, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    nenabee nenabee 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 26

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I was 24 years old before I lost my virginity,

    and I prided myself on the fact that I was still a virgin. I lost my virginity to a man I was in live with - that I am still in love with, even though he ended things with me. I waited so long to share that experience with someone special. I can't help but feel guilty because...
    kalysefer kalysefer 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 20

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    I didn't wait until marriage.

    .but...I married my first and only love. He was quite experienced and a great teacher. Been together 32 years now, married 30. It worked but now I want to know what it's like with someone else??
    MyBellaHeart MyBellaHeart 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 27

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    I had always planned to,

    which is why I held out for so long .. But the day I lost my virginity was extremely emotional for me. I was ready & he was "the one" (or at least I thought so at the time) so everything should have been good. But I couldn't help but feel regretful & dirty. I was brought up to...
    shesdifferent516 shesdifferent516 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    To my one and only Handsome,

    I just wanna do cool couple **** with you like **** you on a rooftop while the sun sets. With lots of love, Your Beautiful :)
    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F Apr 18

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I grew up in a very religious house,

    where not waiting until marriage was just about the worst thing you could do. I lost my V-card on a very cold January morning. I somewhat knew that it was going to happen, but I wasn't sure really. I only met the guy 2 other times beforr, and the 3rd time we were doing it. I don...
    withano withano 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    I chose not to wait until I was married to have

    kids. When I was in high school, I felt my boyfriend and I were so much in love. We professed each other's love for one another and wanted to child together. I stopped taking the pill and within a few months I ended up pregnant. My first trimester was the worst because I...
    juliewardatbeach juliewardatbeach 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 19

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    I didn't grow up especially religious

    so didn't think it mattered. I still don't. What matters to me is it was the right person.
    nataliejones1984 nataliejones1984 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 20

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    Worst decision ever, she was ten kinds of crazy

    and I'm lucky she didn't get pregnant over the many times we did do it.
    collegekid2016 collegekid2016 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 21

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    No, I did not wait until married to have sex

    with my husband. When we were engaged and three months from being married we experimented sexually with one another. We did use protection to protect me from being pregnant on our wedding day. My soon to be husband taught me a lot when it comes to sex. My mother was fine...
    computerfemale computerfemale 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 21

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    siobhan4love siobhan4love 26-30, F a week ago

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    I lost my virginity to a boy I fell in love

    with, 11 months ago. He used me and then tossed my away when he found another. I've never regretted anything more...
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 24 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    TooSexy21 TooSexy21 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I wanted to wait until I was married

    but that just did not happen in my lifetime. I was sleeping with my boyfriend starting at age 15 and was pregnant soon after that at age 16. I delivered healthy and twin baby boys on my birthday in 1985. My parents did not want me to drop out of school because I was pregnant...
    arizonacountrymomnaked arizonacountrymomnaked 41-45, F 9 Responses Mar 5

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    I didnt. But i was raped

    for my first, got pregnant and now have a beautiful baby girl, not a baby anymore, shes 2, however, i have had sex since then completely by choice.
    sedr2015 sedr2015 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Couldn't stop after we started.

    Sometimes I think about it too much. I remembered searching for articles and posts about whether I should feel bad about it or not. I ended up just letting it go. Realizing that I could never ever get it back. I vowed to myself that I wouldn't do it nor even kiss a guy with no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 18 Responses Jan 30

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    There's really nothing wrong with it Maybe

    sometimes wait til older but marriage :/
    lilybunny944 lilybunny944 13-15, F Apr 27

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 23 Responses Jan 27

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    bre101 bre101 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 17

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 4

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 2

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    I was fifteen, and I don't regret doing it.

    The whole point of waiting until marriage is to wait for the right person, and I know I did that. I had been planning to wait, but it was my Junior prom and I thought there couldn't be a more romantic night to do it. He looked great in a and I was feeling good about myself for...
    ioti ioti 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 22

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    My boyfriend of 2 weeks

    and I had sex before he left for MCT school-for those of you who don't know- it's the next step after boot camp for Marines-we did it the morning he left, I'm 17 and he's 21. We've been friends for 3 years.
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    I was 31 and prided myself on still being a

    virgin, but my girlfriend, who is now my wife, wanted me to make love to her. I refused several times until one night she cried and asked if something was wrong with her body (I might also add when she asked we were already unclothed and had been making out.), so in order to...
    wywildman wywildman 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    I lost my virginity to a math teacher back in

    school he did a lot more to me than algebra and geometry :)
    nudemom nudemom 31-35, F 24 Responses Apr 21

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