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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 46,895 People

    I did it in August. I met him online

    and we're long distance. we had talked about it on multiple occasions, both of us were virgins at the time. I still live with my really conservative parents so I had to do some sneaking around. We knew we were going to do it the day we met. It hurt the first time, and we were...
    preeez preeez 22-25 1 Response a week ago

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    ilovenickiminaj ilovenickiminaj 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I was 31 and prided myself on still being a

    virgin, but my girlfriend, who is now my wife, wanted me to make love to her. I refused several times until one night she cried and asked if something was wrong with her body (I might also add when she asked we were already unclothed and had been making out.), so in order to...
    wywildman wywildman 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I lost my virginity to a boy I fell in love

    with, 11 months ago. He used me and then tossed my away when he found another. I've never regretted anything more...
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 24 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    piperweant piperweant 18-21, F 14 Responses Apr 7

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 18 Responses Jan 30

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    When me and my man are going at it,

    I never know/feel when I c*m! He always jokes about "You could of at least given me the heads up" because I c*m a lot apparently but I never know when it's coming lol! Who has any advice?
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    No, I did not wait until married to have sex

    with my husband. When we were engaged and three months from being married we experimented sexually with one another. We did use protection to protect me from being pregnant on our wedding day. My soon to be husband taught me a lot when it comes to sex. My mother was fine...
    computerfemale computerfemale 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 21

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    siobhan4love siobhan4love 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I was 24 years old before I lost my virginity,

    and I prided myself on the fact that I was still a virgin. I lost my virginity to a man I was in live with - that I am still in love with, even though he ended things with me. I waited so long to share that experience with someone special. I can't help but feel guilty because...
    kalysefer kalysefer 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 20

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    No, I did not wait until I was married

    before I was involved sexually with a male partner. Many of my girlfriends were having sex with their boyfriends and they encouraged me to do the same because I would love it so much. They were all right and yes it felt so wonderful having intercourse with the opposite sex...
    gloriahughes gloriahughes 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    To my one and only Handsome,

    I just wanna do cool couple **** with you like **** you on a rooftop while the sun sets. With lots of love, Your Beautiful :)
    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F Apr 18

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    I chose not to wait until I was married to have

    kids. When I was in high school, I felt my boyfriend and I were so much in love. We professed each other's love for one another and wanted to child together. I stopped taking the pill and within a few months I ended up pregnant. My first trimester was the worst because I...
    juliewardatbeach juliewardatbeach 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 19

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    The first guy I ever had sex with had a 10 inch

    erect ****. I wish I'd waited.. Mostly because every other guy looks shrunk..
    SparkledRed SparkledRed 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    When I was in high school

    and during the summer months my boyfriend and I used to go down to the lake to go swimming. One Saturday afternoon, my boyfriend picked me up and drove us down to the lake in the country. I wore my bikini under my short shorts and tank top. When we arrived, we got undressed...
    jillpeterson jillpeterson 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    nenabee nenabee 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    bre101 bre101 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 17

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    I didn't wait and I am OK with

    that :) hr was my first and I love him everyday whether he knows it or not... one day I hope to make him my only :) <3
    emeraldprincess1003 emeraldprincess1003 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    I was 17 and date-raped.

    Nobody's first time should be like that. I screamed in pain and there was blood. And it impregnated me. Two marriages, I was pregnant at the wedding. This time, the guy and I are taking things slowly. We've been together six years, and we have never had sex! This time, I will...
    Simpfan Simpfan 56-60, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage.

    .but...I married my first and only love. He was quite experienced and a great teacher. Been together 32 years now, married 30. It worked but now I want to know what it's like with someone else??
    MyBellaHeart MyBellaHeart 46-50, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 4

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    Let's see were do I begin.

    .. Maybe this is just what I needed to say. I sadly didn't wait until marriage. I'm on the short side of 33 and you know what I truly wish I had. To those who have and are my age (which still happens) although very rare these days. I respect you very highly. Weather is it is for...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    First experience, at 15 with a 42'ish year old.

    I would call it "Being Taken" rather than my first experience. She did teach me a lot actually. 22 years down the road now.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 17

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 23 Responses Jan 27

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    I lost my virginity to a math teacher back in

    school he did a lot more to me than algebra and geometry :)
    nudemom nudemom 31-35, F 24 Responses Apr 21

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    I had always planned to,

    which is why I held out for so long .. But the day I lost my virginity was extremely emotional for me. I was ready & he was "the one" (or at least I thought so at the time) so everything should have been good. But I couldn't help but feel regretful & dirty. I was brought up to...
    shesdifferent516 shesdifferent516 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 19 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    There's really nothing wrong with it Maybe

    sometimes wait til older but marriage :/
    lilybunny944 lilybunny944 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    justahelplessoul justahelplessoul 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 19

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I grew up in a very religious house,

    where not waiting until marriage was just about the worst thing you could do. I lost my V-card on a very cold January morning. I somewhat knew that it was going to happen, but I wasn't sure really. I only met the guy 2 other times beforr, and the 3rd time we were doing it. I don...
    withano withano 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My first time was when i was 16.

    I was at a party and got peer pressured into it. In saying that, i do not regret it. We had fun and we were safe, nobody was hurt and we both left with a good memory.
    LadySarahNight LadySarahNight 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 21

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    I didn't wait and neither did my husband.

    It didn't bother either of us and we are a very happy couple and about to have a baby. I think if you are truly important to someone they won't mind.
    lillybear13 lillybear13 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I was 16. It was with my

    now husband. I married my first...Fairytale, right? :-/
    milkysecret milkysecret 36-40, F 21 Responses Feb 25

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I was fifteen, and I don't regret doing it.

    The whole point of waiting until marriage is to wait for the right person, and I know I did that. I had been planning to wait, but it was my Junior prom and I thought there couldn't be a more romantic night to do it. He looked great in a and I was feeling good about myself for...
    ioti ioti 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 22

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    My ex dumped me last Wednesday

    for no apparent reason. Since those past 9 days I have had sex with 14 different guys. On the weekdays I do right after I get home from school because my mom is working. On weekends I go to my dads house because he's out of town and do then. I had two three ways and did it twice...
    vball313 vball313 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 17

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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