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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 17,109 People

    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    I was 6 months pregnant

    when we got married at the courthouse, lol.
    kbella1218 kbella1218 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    No obviously I did not wait

    until I get married to get pregnant. I was 8 1/2 months pregnant when I married my husband in a huge church ceremony. I looked so beautiful and was glowing from side to side as I walked down the aisle with my father. There were over 300 people that attended our beautiful and...
    pregnantbride pregnantbride 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Who does these days? Sex is

    so important to a healthy relationship, not having sex before marriage is potentially suicidal! If anyone did wait or is going to wait I admire you for your strong will but I don't think there's any reason why people should be free to have sex whenever they want.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3

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    I "lost my virginity" at 15.

    I was not in a relationship at the time and I had several sexual experiences before i had a committed partner. I was raised Catholic and my parents have never spoken to me about sex. I've always found the idea of 'virginity' a silly concept and i never planned to wait till...
    AlvieBrink AlvieBrink 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I didn't wait until marriage.

    I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk to me, making me feel used. So i figure i should try and move on, but it just seems like the most difficult thing in the world. I...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, T 3 Responses a week ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage.

    But I found someone who still loves and accepts me. ❤️❤️
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Thank you so much for those

    who will read this entire experience. I lost my virginity about a year ago. It was fun, as i expected. I didn't regret it then, and I haven't regretted it since then. I now have a girlfriend. We've been together for 2 months. I'm in love, I never thought I would be. But I am, I...
    imallhers imallhers 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Didn't wait til marriage

    but it was all love and I have no regrets. Wouldn't change it for the world.
    ISnavygf ISnavygf 16-17, F a week ago

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    Does anybody wait these days?

    Honestly wouldn't you want to know before you tie the knot? A little experience in the sack is never a bad thing. Just don't be stupid about it. I overheard a girl at a party telling her friends she was so horny she'd **** a snake if someone would hold it still.... probably want...
    smokethis smokethis 51-55, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I was a freshman in high school

    and I was dating a junior and of course I thought he was my entire world. I let him control me and I never had a boyfriend before so I though this is how it is supposed to be. The first time we had sex was consensual but I was not ready. I don't regret my decision because they...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Oops. It wasn't heterosexual either.

    Oops. But it was consensual! Yay to consent! My parents would probably have a long talk with me if they knew. Oops.
    truekvlt truekvlt 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 25 Responses Jul 3

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    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I lost my virginity to my

    now fiancé about a year ago, he was so patient in not wanting us to rush to that part of the relationship we didn't take it that far until about 4 months into the relationship. I was so nervous cause a friend said that it hurts really bad the first time, but it was sooo amazon...
    OPbeachgirl OPbeachgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ...

    I didn't wait until marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had been dating so many guys before I met him but I have never had sex with them since I wasn't sure if they were the right one for me. Surprisingly, when I met my boyfriend, I didn't hesitate to...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 29 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for 10 months now and we started having sex about 4 months in. We both know we love each other but he's really religious. I knew he worked at his church and he was in youth group and stuff so I asked him if he was sure he was ok with us getting intimate. He always said he had...
    Smileynat Smileynat 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Because I didn't know better!

    And this torments me all the time even though about, 14 yrs has pass! Yup crazy I guess but can't get over the fact because, I was 13 and he was 19.. My first bf my first male friend.. I guess my only Father role figure now that am 27 I see that pretty much what probably...
    mrscasillas28 mrscasillas28 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was fifteen and totally in love.

    He was incredibly cute and we did it in his room. It was a bit awkward but he was gentle with me and I don't regret it at all. Unfortunately he broke my little heart, but I've moved on.
    MelodieSlute MelodieSlute 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I did not wait. I had sex with a boy I've known

    for 8 months . I'm 14 . Although, we had sex a couple days after our 4 month anniversary . I feel really bad about it , considering I wanted to wait till marriage , but I don't regret it. I feel as if I've grown up too fast and wish I could go back and change everything that...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    So I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend.

    I was talking on the phone with her and she mentioned she was home alone. I went over and we cuddled watching the notebook. ( I hate it but did it for her) and we kinda fooled around and... We had sex. I know we're young but her dad walked in on us cause he forgot something and...
    King1King King1King 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was fourteen, there were two guys

    who both wanted me. It was very painful but I liked it! One followed the other.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 26

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    And I also didn't wait nearly long enough into

    the relationship. Of course, in my head, I pulled the whole "it doesn't matter that we've only been dating a couple weeks because we'll be together a long time anyways," but that was a lie. I often wonder if he really thought we'd be together more than a month or so, or if he...
    jonicole jonicole 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I willingly had sex for the first time

    when I was 12. Over that summer before 7th grade I casually did it with 3 different boys that lived in my neighborhood. It seemed everyone else was, and they said I was the"prize" because I was white and had blond hair. They were Hispanic and Black. My mom was a drug user...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 13 Responses May 24

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    Well as you can tell I'm 16 turning 17.

    And I did not wait till marriage because I honestly feel like I love him. People are probably going to say I'm to young to be in love but I honestly haven't felt like this before an even tho we are going through some troubles right now I will never stop loving him and I'm glad...
    jennasteele15 jennasteele15 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F 18 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I really want someone to be friends with

    benefits with me...but what's a girl to do when all the guys I'm attracted to are better looking than I am AND I live in a boring place like Singapore?
    dragongirl168 dragongirl168 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    Ooooo how nawty.bbl a what ever,

    I so would have married her... Only if she was pregnant though and gay marriage was legal.
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 3 days ago

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    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    But It's Why I Ended Up Married.

    When I was young its almost comical how much I was in a hurry to grow up, leave home and start my own life.  My childhood had really good parts but also some pretty tough parts as well.  I was insecure and really naive when it came to my own self worth.  When I met my x, I was...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of

    dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1) wanted to feel safe, not scared that we were going to get caught or something 2) wanted it to be in a bed 3) wanted to be protected and 4) wanted...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Joining The World

    I'm not from a puritanical background. Although I have Calvinist forebears we are a family which embraces life in all it's aspects. Here in France the age of consent is fifteen. It hardly affects what happens with kids interested in the workings of the world. I was fourteen the...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 9 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    So I'm 15, and Ive been dating a guy

    for about 3 months now. We messed around. We did use protection but a week later my siblings found out. And now they want me to break up and stop talking to him. I've already lost all the trust my family had in me. But I've also gotten really attached to my boyfriend and it...
    iisLinda iisLinda 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 15 years old... But I lost my virginity at

    13. I know. "****" is that you're thinking. No, I hated myself. & I knew boys didn't like me. So I thought, maybe if I give them what they want. I'll finally get that relationship. Well, when I turned 15 I started to realize. Relationships are bullshit.
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    Was raised to believe sex was holy

    and a big deal. I thought that when I had sex something huge would happen. I've always heard comments on how sex can make you feel emotions for each other and other stuff. My first time was with an atheist that convinced me sex was just sex. We had sex and it hurt AF cus his...
    rosesh098 rosesh098 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I did not wait until getting married

    before having sex. In high school, I had two biracial babies at ages 13 and 17. In college, I had another biracial baby at age 23. After college, I had two more biracial babies at age 27 and 30. I am pregnant again now at age 33 by my older interracial husband. I am 33...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4

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    I lost my virginity to my first love.

    He last it to me as well. We were very young, 14.
    unspokenwords14 unspokenwords14 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't wait I was young

    and I will never forget it it was awkward being naked in front of someone foe the first time but it was was wonderfull. and I was super head over heels in love teen romance lol
    sweetlanie sweetlanie 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 30

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    I like men. I like sex!

    I like sex with men!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    I lost it last year after the homecoming dance.

    My boyfriend and I drove to the same spot we first kissed and where he first told me that he loved me so it was very special. It didn't last long because I couldn't take the pain so we just ended up making out a lot instead. I'll still never forget it. It was so right and I'm...
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I lost my virginity today at the age of 17!

    😁 I was so nervous but I am so glad I did it! I absolutely love my boyfriend and I'm glad he was my first! We did it twice and it was awesome! People always told me it would hurt and that it would bleed but it didn't! It hurt for about 20 seconds and then it was wonderful...
    heyylookitsme heyylookitsme 16-17, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    No, I did not wait until I was married to get

    pregnant. I am 8 1/2 months pregnant now. I am loving the beach and walking along it day or night.
    pgfemaleatbeach pgfemaleatbeach 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 15

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    I'm sure my parents would have preferred I

    waited. Hell, I bet they would've preferred not to find out about my first time, but oh well. They still love me, and I don't ever feel I have to hide anything from them.
    redinkblue redinkblue 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 7

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    So me and my " BOYFRIEND " had been together

    for about 2 years before I lost my v card ! He was very patient and he didn't force or rush me into anything I didn't want to do. As time progress I started to feel a certain way when we kissed and I got really bothered because I knew what I wanted but I knew I should have...
    Lovelyx2 Lovelyx2 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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