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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 51,464 People

    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 21 Responses Jan 27

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    I used to think you should wait

    when I was like 13 but things changed when I got older.
    VictoriaS2 VictoriaS2 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't even wait until marriage to become a

    parent. Maybe that wasn't the best idea. In any case, I don't expect my kids (sons or daughters) to wait until marriage. I'd rather they knew themselves and how to be with someone else before they decide to get married.
    WalkingMyOwnPath WalkingMyOwnPath 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 18 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 2

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    I was a virgin until my 20th birthday.

    ..the father of one of my best friends waited until I reached the "appropriate" age to "convinced me to sleep with him". I remembered visiting my best friend and he would asked me my age, I never realized what he meant by saying "you smell as a D.A case" after I had answered his...
    Marife7128 Marife7128 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I didn't wait and till this day I wish I had of.

    Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex, but it makes things so complicated. No one can just have a simple relationship anymore. Going into high school I had a plan. I promised myself that I wasn't going to lose my virginity until I got married, because that's what God intended. But I...
    Livers95 Livers95 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I didn't wait and don't regret it.

    I read an article about a girl who waited until her wedding night and she regretted it. She said it hurt, it was awkward, and she had no idea what to think. In my opinion, you should get to know what you like rather than settling with someone and having no idea if you are...
    WitchyLexi WitchyLexi 22-25, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    vis363 vis363 18-21, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    My first time was when i was 16.

    I was at a party and got peer pressured into it. In saying that, i do not regret it. We had fun and we were safe, nobody was hurt and we both left with a good memory.
    LadySarahNight LadySarahNight 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 21

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    I was visiting her house

    for the very 1 time meeting her mother and family. there were very welcoming and warm hearted . it was a 4 day stay and i was getting along with my mother in law very well. As her mother and pet was around all the time me and my spouse were trying to steal some quality time...
    kswap919 kswap919 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I started right around my 13 birthday can't

    really remember if it was before or after but yeah
    fenrirandimpachi fenrirandimpachi 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    I held out throughout high school,

    but my senior year I started my first serious relationship. We ended up heading to college together and explored each other with our hands and mouths, but still held off. Starting my sophomore year in college, he knew I was taking birth control, but he was still very patient...
    Ldietzy Ldietzy 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 23

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    Seriously... Waiting

    for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed tons, and FINALLY got impaled on a hard stiff c**ck shooting loads into me after 2 weeks... And it seemed FOREVER...
    NastyMe NastyMe 31-35, F 28 Responses May 15

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    sonalanimax sonalanimax 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't kno anyone who did!

    I was like 12? Lol that sounds so terrible
    MilkyCowCow MilkyCowCow 18-21, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    i couldnt wait until marriage i lost my

    virginity at the age of 13 going on 14. i havent stopped having sex since then and im 18 now
    titojr96 titojr96 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    Flowerpower5678 Flowerpower5678 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 7

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I was raised to wait

    until being married before engaging in sexual activities with the opposite sex. It just did not happen for me. I was very open to sexual activities with males when I was in college during the early 2000s. I slept around with boyfriend after boyfriend. Because birth control...
    femalewithredhair femalewithredhair 31-35, F 12 Responses May 9

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    I was 16, we were horny

    and it was in his room. Great experience no regrets. I do remember being a Spaz afterward but luckily no pregnancy came from it. Sex is a natural part of life - I couldn't suppress my natural curiosity. I don't understand the waiting concept - then or now. Let me state that I...
    tosh15 tosh15 31-35, F 14 Responses May 9

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    of course I couldn't.

    sex is too amazing
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jun 24

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    I wanted to wait until I was married

    but that just did not happen in my lifetime. I was sleeping with my boyfriend starting at age 15 and was pregnant soon after that at age 16. I delivered healthy and twin baby boys on my birthday in 1985. My parents did not want me to drop out of school because I was pregnant...
    arizonacountrymomnaked arizonacountrymomnaked 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 5

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    I was sick of my virginity being used

    as a tool to control me. I was a virgin, by choice, for eighteen years. While that sounds like a reasonable amount of time (and I'm glad that I waited until then) I was constantly being manipulated into doing things I did not want to do. Sex was used as a tool to control me...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    I haven't had sex. But lately I have been

    thinking about it. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We are both almost 17. And while I'm not ready to take that step quite yet, I have been considering discussing it with my boyfriend. We are in love and big very mature for our age. I would like to talk to someone who...
    LoserMaterial LoserMaterial 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Have you read this story?

    I know how boys are and it's a jackpot getting laid at that age. Especially with a teacher. Poor woman. Head teacher Anne Lakey jailed for sex with boys http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-tyne-33252378
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    I waited till I was 20

    because I believed it was something extremely intimate that should be shared only with someone you love. Unfortunately, the guy I ended up losing it to only pretended to care about me in order to finally get me to have sex with him. When I finally figured it all out- I have to...
    annabethhh annabethhh 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I have never been married

    and have a young son. I got pregnant on my 16th birthday. Nine months later I bore a baby biracial son. It was very hard being a teen mom but on the other hand it is great being a mom.
    amberbethcoed amberbethcoed 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    As a western European I find the notion of

    waiting until marriage sort of medieval. I think you would get quite a few frowns when mentioning this after you're past the age of 18. There seems to be no such movement here and I have never heard any of my friends or acquaintances expressing a desire to wait until marriage.
    Savourycandy Savourycandy 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 17 Responses Jan 30

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    Nope and I don't regret it.

    I don't plan on getting married anyway. Too overrated. I don't know a single virgin. No one waits any more, and why should they?
    TheOtherOne17 TheOtherOne17 16-17, M 4 Responses Jun 29

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    elatheboss elatheboss 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    After sex tickling is the best.

    😂😆😝😂😂
    Eve34 Eve34 18-21, F 9 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 50 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Does anyone wait? I had been with one guy

    before I got together with my current boyfriend. It was a 'friends with benefits' deal. I don't regret it, in fact, I fondly think of those days.
    brokenhearted89 brokenhearted89 22-25, F a week ago

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