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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 5,389 People

    I wish I did but I can't take it back. I plan on being abstinent . Waiting for that special person . 1 year and almost 4months . I will stay on this journey . Till I meet the guy...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Didn't See A Point - I'm not religious so I don't see it as any big sin to not wait for marriage. So I lost mine at 16 with some boyfriend at the time.
    JunkieCaity JunkieCaity 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry! - I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 12 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Sexually speaking, I did not wait until marriage. My then boyfriend and now husband were deeply in love and we just could not wait to make love to one another. As I think about...
    barbaratownsend barbaratownsend 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    kanak277sharma kanak277sharma 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I miss him so much, but I can't continue hoping that he will change. I am tired of feeling like an obligation, and being put second. I don't want to cry anymore. He gave all his...
    MJack1234 MJack1234 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Longest day of my life........
    emblay27 emblay27 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    If The Shoe Fits - No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 12 Responses May 9, 2012

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    No Regrets, We'Ll See What Happens Next... - Well here's the story of my 'supposedly first time' while I don't consider myself a virgin, my story isn't as juicy as movies and other...
    NotLolita NotLolita 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I was 15, he was 23. He said he "loved" me the night we had sex, and we were in a relationship.. But his behavior changed imensley after we had sex. He stopped wanting to come...
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    I Was 15 - I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    19 - I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I wanted to wait...and then I didn't..and I don't regret it.
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    In my opinion sex isn't something that should only be between two people that love each other, I believe it should be enjoyed by everyone. I just enjoy the pleasure / enjoyment of...
    Lauramom38 Lauramom38 36-40, F 12 Responses Feb 4

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    But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ... - I didn't wait until marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had been dating so many guys before I met him but I...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 30 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I Lost My Virginity. - Im only 15 but i lost my virginity in July and i don't regret it
    deliriousss deliriousss 16-17, F 6 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    He Was 20, I Was 14 - He said he was in love with me and everything. So stupid me, i believed him. I had sex with him in a motel and it hurt so much. He did all sorts of things...
    Schylar Schylar 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I don't regret my decision to start having sex. I would have done anything to try and connect with my partner and I don't regret feeling that way about him. I tried everything and...
    roselemonade roselemonade 18-21, F Jan 18

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    I was a junior in high school when I got pregnant. Nine months later after graduating from high school I married the dad of our twin daughters.
    olderandpregnantfemale olderandpregnantfemale 41-45, F Feb 1

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    So I was raised into an extremely religious family who have always expected so much from me and I never questioned it. Even in my worst times I was alone but still never questioned...
    CharlotteLives CharlotteLives 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    Joining The World - I'm not from a puritanical background. Although I have Calvinist forebears we are a family which embraces life in all it's aspects. Here in France the age of...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    Test Drive - I didn't wait until I was married to have sex.  I did wait until I was sure I was in love, and until I was with somebody who wanted the same things from having sex...
    jellibeanz jellibeanz 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    My First Time (Sort Of) - I lost my virginity to a boy who abused me, and raped me. That is another story for another time. My first REAL time was with my current boyfriend. (And...
    ReyaWrites ReyaWrites 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    When I was 14 my family and I changed religions. We used to be Catholics but we switched to Pentecostal Christians which is the same as Baptists. Anyways, we started going to...
    estefany1994 estefany1994 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I liked to bone in high school. It was awesome... The I got pregnant and bone the same girl now haha
    kytabl30 kytabl30 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    But It's Okay - I believe that you should wait until you are married before you have sex with someone, But I did not. This isn't one of the regret stories, I was sixteen when I...
    MisterandMe MisterandMe 18-21, F 6 Responses May 15, 2012

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    We had sex three times. None were protected. I don't regret it. I have him my virginity and love him more than any man in the world.
    emblay27 emblay27 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I was 15 when I first began to experiment. We were a little crazy and acted like typical teenagers. I found out later that his parents supported the experience because they wanted...
    kdone kdone 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Haven't Yet - Probably Will Soon - I don't intend to wait until marriage. I just haven't felt ready yet. I know I want to so I probably will fairly soon (not like next week but...
    KimmieDelta KimmieDelta 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Honestly, Who Knows When I'll Get Married, So Why Wait? - I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. Why? Because I trust him. He hasn't given me any reason to not give myself...
    WeArePilots WeArePilots 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    Wait For What? - At age thirteen, it never occurred to me that marriage was absolutely necessary.  It was an option that had no real value other than government protection...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    Inside Me - As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    He was my first love, and if I was going to lose it to someone I knew I was going to lose it to my first love, sex is great! I'd never want to miss out.
    aliciapearl5 aliciapearl5 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I wish i did. Sex to me now is extremely important and i don't rush it. When you're 16, (when i lost mine, its legal in the UK) hormones are all over the place and you want to...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Nope i started before i was legally old enough to be married.
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 20

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    To start I am a guy, and when I lost my virginity I must say it was very awkward and honestly felt as though I let my girlfriend down.( I guess I did something right seeing as we...
    CHSD192837465 CHSD192837465 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    She was my first real girlfriend, and the best lover. Our relationship was short but oh so sweet. Neither of us knew anything of love, she knew more than I about sex, and I loved...
    KitFornay KitFornay 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    It was someone I hated, a week before first sleeping with my boyfriend (now fiancé). And I'm so glad I did, for a few reasons. Partly because of the physical aspects. For me, it...
    MissIntent MissIntent 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Who does these days? Sex is so important to a healthy relationship, not having sex before marriage is potentially suicidal! If anyone did wait or is going to wait I admire you for...
    iBabe iBabe 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    I did not wait until getting married before having sex. In high school, I had two biracial babies at ages 13 and 17. In college, I had another biracial baby at age 23. After...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4

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    Been with the same man for three years and we make love at least once a week. He was and still is my first EVERYTHING except kissing. I'm happy I didn't wait because its another...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Was It A Mistake? - I always thought that I would lose my virginity to a guy that I really, truly loved. Someone that i had a deep, inner connection with. Many of my friends in...
    psp0815 psp0815 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    No regrets here. Of course, sex is so personal that I don't wanna speak in this story from any point of view but mine. I waited until I was done with high school but not yet in...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    I kinda wish I had though. I didn't just throw it around or anything, I was in a relationship with them, but I wish I had saved it for my husband. But, he didn't save it either...
    Srkelly89 Srkelly89 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I lost my virginity a year ago. I don't regret it. I regret how I handled it. I regret the person. He screwed me over and straight out used me. If I could do it over again I...
    hxlxnb hxlxnb 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 22

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    I lost my virginity to the guy who said he loved me. He left me a week later. 💔
    ahaydonh ahaydonh 16-17, F 20 Responses Mar 19

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    Most People Do!!! Right? - Not very many young girl's are doing what is right and are having flings before the ring. I did too. like i said most people do. The saying *if i new...
    stamp24 stamp24 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    was/am 16 and not ashamed of it
    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F 17 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Given For Lust - No I did not wait until marriage to share that special part of myself to a man... I wasnt even in love him, but at the time, I thought I was... I was 18, his name...
    Nikita8687 Nikita8687 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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