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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 45,978 People

    I also didint wait til martiage I was 15

    when I lost my virginity and no it wasnt a fairytale I was a children minister daughter and that daughter od a teacher at my school and I didnt know what to do I felt I was missing out on life but I wasnt ot all went down from there!
    tlizzy531 tlizzy531 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I had been a virgin until the night I became

    engaged at 23. This is when my boyfriend and I engaged in having sex with one another. I am so much in love now as well as I was then, 16 years later. I stopped taking the pill months before being engaged because I was not having sex then. I had been dreaming about being...
    michelleroberts76 michelleroberts76 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I lost my virginity at 16 to my sister friend.

    . My sister was jealous that he liked me and that he wanted to date me and because he was 19. He came over to my place and it just happened and then we just kept doing it that night.
    QueenB14 QueenB14 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    The first guy I ever had sex with had a 10 inch

    erect ****. I wish I'd waited.. Mostly because every other guy looks shrunk..
    SparkledRed SparkledRed 18-21, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    ilovenickiminaj ilovenickiminaj 22-25, F 6 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    piperweant piperweant 18-21, F 15 Responses Apr 7

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    So the guy I am dating right now,

    well we have had sex in his truck, the only thing is, his family doesn't know about it and his family is just soo great:D his sister and I are super close but I don't know of or how to tell her what her brother and I have done. What's your advice, should I tell her or no?
    TrenaWeatherby TrenaWeatherby 22-25, F 15 Responses Mar 27

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 23 Responses Jan 27

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    No, I did not wait either to have sex

    before marriage. I started having sex when I was 16 and was on the pill at that time so I would not get pregnant. My mother made sure of that. However, I got married at 18 and went off the pill and had no protection when having sex with my husband. I wanted to have his...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 4

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    First experience, at 15 with a 42'ish year old.

    I would call it "Being Taken" rather than my first experience. She did teach me a lot actually. 22 years down the road now.
    SoulHealer9221 SoulHealer9221 36-40, M 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    i was pregnant on my wedding day .

    ... it was really thrilling .... from college i had lots of fun dating guys and i almost had sex with all my boyfriends ... yumm...
    nicegirl007 nicegirl007 26-30 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I was 15 when I lost my virginity.

    I was at a party. I regret it because i had no feelings for the guy. It just happened.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    No I did not wait until I was married to enjoy

    the good life in bed with the opposite sex. I started having sex when I was a young teenager. Like so many other women, I was a pregnant bride too.
    olderfemalewithredhair olderfemalewithredhair 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 20

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    I never intended to wait

    for marriage to have sex. I was very sexually active in high school and in college. I had a couple of kids before tying the knot. My parents were very sexually active before they got married as well. Mom had twin boys before she settled down with my dad. She was a great...
    oldernudistfemale oldernudistfemale 51-55, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    No I did not wait until I was married to have

    sex. I am now a few weeks pregnant and planning a summer wedding. I will be another bride, who is very pregnant, walking down the aisle with my father
    americanfemaleonvacation americanfemaleonvacation 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 2

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    I gave myself to boyfriend of almost 2.

    5 when I was 19. We are still together today and plan on getting married.
    miceteree miceteree 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I lost my virginity to a boy I fell in love

    with, 11 months ago. He used me and then tossed my away when he found another. I've never regretted anything more...
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 18 Responses Jan 30

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    No, I did not wait until I was married

    before I was involved sexually with a male partner. Many of my girlfriends were having sex with their boyfriends and they encouraged me to do the same because I would love it so much. They were all right and yes it felt so wonderful having intercourse with the opposite sex...
    gloriahughes gloriahughes 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I started engaging in having sex prior to

    getting married. I was a junior in high school and was at my school prom. After the dance, my boyfriend and I went parking at a local park with my best girlfriend and her date. We had loads of fun having sex with the guys.
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 31

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    i just had the best sex of my life.

    .. we did 69 and made love for what seemed like a life time
    sheenbean23 sheenbean23 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    My first time was when i was 16.

    I was at a party and got peer pressured into it. In saying that, i do not regret it. We had fun and we were safe, nobody was hurt and we both left with a good memory.
    LadySarahNight LadySarahNight 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 21

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    Guys are overly sensitive days.

    I was talking to this guy and we kinda did "it" and then right after we were so fine again everything is great. Than all the sudden he goes off about how he loves his ex and saying "I miss you" so much and "I'm so sorry can we forget this". Like no boy..!🙍🏻
    Justherewaiting98 Justherewaiting98 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    i was 15 yrs old sleeping with the 34 year old

    lady across the street. She was amazing to me....
    needtobloved needtobloved 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I lost my virginity when I was 15.

    I wouldn't say it was a fairytale or even my boyfriend. Like you I felt I was missing something in my life. I did it purely for the experience and honestly, that's all I thought about it. it wasn't romantic (like where is anything romantic at 15). Just did it and went our...
    heishell heishell 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 52 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I posted one of these a

    while back.... I'm still virgin... D: I want to lose it before I'm 17 years old and I WILL! (I have 3.5 years) But I wonder who I will chose or who will chose me... How was your first time?... Any suggestions on what to do before? Do you regret it? I'd like to know all the...
    ButIStillLoveYou ButIStillLoveYou 13-15 12 Responses Mar 22

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    i lost my virginity at 18.

    i dont regret the act, only the person it was with...oh well.
    WorkInProgress2012 WorkInProgress2012 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    My ex dumped me last Wednesday

    for no apparent reason. Since those past 9 days I have had sex with 14 different guys. On the weekdays I do right after I get home from school because my mom is working. On weekends I go to my dads house because he's out of town and do then. I had two three ways and did it twice...
    vball313 vball313 13-15, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 19 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I didn't wait and neither did my husband.

    It didn't bother either of us and we are a very happy couple and about to have a baby. I think if you are truly important to someone they won't mind.
    lillybear13 lillybear13 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    TooSexy21 TooSexy21 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I was 13, she 15. My first girlfriend.

    It started off as nothing more than a little fooling around and before I realised what was going on, we were both naked and it was happening. Looking back on it I have no regrets. I may have been young and naive but it was far from an unpleasant experience. We were together for...
    scottdominic94 scottdominic94 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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