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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 43,189 People

    I was 16 when I lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend. It was planned, or expected even, it kind of just happened. It was nice though. We were dating two months and now we're together almost a year. I wouldn't worry about the age too much. Though you should try to wait, if you feel ready and are not pressured, then go for...
    g0backtoreality g0backtoreality 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I am however, married to him now.

    it is bittersweet. he was so much more experienced tham I was...am. I always wondered if he misses those days.
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    megiix180x megiix180x 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 28 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    My first time was when i was 14 with my still

    bf. It wasn't as fun as i was expecting but i feel happy doing it with the guy i love.
    sugargirl4 sugargirl4 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    TooSexy21 TooSexy21 18-21, F 20 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    the first time I had intercourse with my

    boyfriend at the time I was 17 we didn't mean to do it we were after a nite out & had a good few drinks consumed it was done up against a wall outside a nite club & we didn't use condoms or I wasnd on any birth control I taught nothing of it afterwords but a month after that I...
    orla20 orla20 18-21, F 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was 16. It was with my

    now husband. I married my first...Fairytale, right? :-/
    milkysecret milkysecret 36-40, F 24 Responses 5 days ago

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    I lost my virginity at age 16 to a classmate of

    mine. He and I had been dating for three months and I really wanted him inside me. I finally let him inside my body and I enjoyed it a lot. At least I did not get pregnant because he wore no rubber.
    momfromcolorado momfromcolorado 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 22

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 25 Responses Jan 27

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    I lost it to my boyfriend at the time

    when I was almost 17. Everyone went wrong he cried after. I kind of just want to forget it.
    thequietone0307 thequietone0307 18-21, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 19 Responses Jan 30

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    It was pretty hazy. don't remember it

    that well. It was last summer, going into freshman year of high school. o was 14. it was at a party with my now boyfriend. We both had no idea what to do, but we still did it. Since then we have done it a lot more and we both are good at it
    vball313 vball313 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    No, I did not wait until I was married

    before I was involved sexually with a male partner. Many of my girlfriends were having sex with their boyfriends and they encouraged me to do the same because I would love it so much. They were all right and yes it felt so wonderful having intercourse with the opposite sex...
    gloriahughes gloriahughes 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 2

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 14 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I held out throughout high school,

    but my senior year I started my first serious relationship. We ended up heading to college together and explored each other with our hands and mouths, but still held off. Starting my sophomore year in college, he knew I was taking birth control, but he was still very patient...
    Ldietzy Ldietzy 31-35, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 20 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 4

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    I had an older girl use me

    for sex at the age of 11. After that I became so addicted to having sex best decision ever.
    NudeFTW NudeFTW 18-21, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I lost my virginity the week I turned 21.

    The cool thing about that was the girl I lost it to kept getting hit on by dudes the entire night. It was cool because she was using those guys to buy both of us shots the entire time they came up to hit on her lol.
    DorkyGuy90 DorkyGuy90 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 22

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    I first make love with a boy from a youth group.

    It was a "in-the-moment" kinda of experience and something that caught us off guard actually. We went camping with a group of 60 religious teenagers from a church youth group. The sessions organized were pretty packed and after 4 days of no opposite sex contact (part of the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 22

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    I love girls with nice eyes

    and a nice body
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    I didn't wait and neither did my husband.

    It didn't bother either of us and we are a very happy couple and about to have a baby. I think if you are truly important to someone they won't mind.
    lillybear13 lillybear13 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I was 17. As pathetic

    as this sounds. But I lost my virginity the same day I got my first kiss. Before this girl I never had a relationship last more than two weeks. But I wasn't with this girl yet though. All in all though it's easy to say why I have never been with anyone else. Let's just say the...
    BobaVader2377 BobaVader2377 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I was at my best friends house,

    and we were watching a movie. His mother had left an hour earlier to see some play, so she wouldn't be back until late. We were sitting on the couch, and he kept scooting closer and closer until his hand was on my thigh. We explored each other before he led to his bedroom...
    brokenhearted89 brokenhearted89 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Lost my virginity to a drunken one night stand

    when I was 18 which I regret immensely.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I guess I can join the great debate.

    ..does being raped count as "not waiting"... I didn't have any other options, it was let them rape me, or get the **** beat out of me for saying no, and than end up being taped anyway, so I don't know, I waited, but I couldn't say no.
    imsinkinkimg imsinkinkimg 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I lost my virginity when I was extremely young

    just because I looked a lot older, at the time, I could easily pass for an 18 year old and no one questioned me if I said I was, I don't really regret it though, otherwise my life might of turned out differently and I am happy with my life, but I do feel I should of waited until...
    MrHowl MrHowl 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 13 Responses Jan 4

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    I was 14, 7 months and 1 day.

    because math. I dont know by this stage I had been begging my partner for 7 months so it just.. happened :)
    harleyquinn9tia harleyquinn9tia 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    On the day my boyfriend

    and I were engaged, we started having sex and we were trying to get me pregnant. I had been off the pill for some time. Within 3 months, I was pregnant. It felt wonderful to be pregnant by a black man. We both love diversity. I wanted to give myself to him before our...
    britishfemaleinusa britishfemaleinusa 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    hotfor2m hotfor2m 56-60, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    christarose96 christarose96 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    Freshman year of college

    when you're finally away from the parents. Lost it to the first serious boyfriend so no regrets, we were a little drunk however
    toekneeow toekneeow 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    My first time was when i was 16.

    I was at a party and got peer pressured into it. In saying that, i do not regret it. We had fun and we were safe, nobody was hurt and we both left with a good memory.
    LadySarahNight LadySarahNight 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 21

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    harddick23 harddick23 22-25, M Feb 23

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 6, 2014