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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 28,860 People

    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 9 Responses Feb 7

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    Long wait never been married.

    I was underage he was older needed a man with experience.
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    aburns aburns 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    I was 15, it's was 2 months ago

    and I've been with this guy for three almost four years. I love him so much & we both felt ready & we both wanted to lose our virginities to each other. He snuck over a few times & one of the times we actually did it. & I'm glad we did. Only my two cousins know, & I feel a sense...
    suckmyclass suckmyclass 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 3

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    I refused to wait until getting married to have

    sex and kids. I was 13 when I lost my virginity and at 16 I had my first child.
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 6

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Seems ridiculous that anyone should wait

    for marriage. In the past people got married as teenagers so plenty of sex; now everyone's supposed to wait - just as their libido is at the highest! Screw chastity - go for it!
    LondonKiwi LondonKiwi 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am not married so I don't know

    if I regret it. I doubt I will I just wish I would have made smarter choices when I was younger instead of just waiting. But you live and learn.
    fireyes fireyes 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F 18 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    well my first time was

    when i was 13 , and i can remember that she was some sort of pedo-phile so i was scared and she pushed me and hurry me to do things her way... basically i was raped , i didn't enjoy the choice i made waking up wt a stranger on the wrong place on the wrong time.
    alexitolove alexitolove 18-21, M 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I didn't wait... I don't really wish I did wait

    I was actually glad to get it over with. I'm glad I didn't do it much earlier ( I was 20) it really hurt still. I can only imagine if I was younger.
    wetgoodnite wetgoodnite 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I like men. I like sex!

    I like sex with men!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 25

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    I did not wait until marriage to have sex

    and get pregnant too. I was very sexually active in high school and in college.
    brunettemom brunettemom 41-45, F 11 Responses Aug 30

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    As a guy it is difficult to wait

    because we have a biological predisposition to mate often, but society says that's bad. Before the concept of marriage, our species did what it took to propagate, and much later we evolved social structures/concepts like marriage and monogamy. The original programming to mate...
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I didn't wait until marriage

    because I had no choice! I have been waiting to get this out for years...I know it will take me a while to get it all out and feel confident enough to share but over the coming weeks I will get there.x
    horizon84 horizon84 26-30, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11

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    And I'm glad I didn't!

    The world is not ready for the untamed, the wild or the inquisitive, it (or we) make lots of people uneasy just because we don't conform to the idealistic ideologies of mainstream political and religious views that being good means doing without and keeping ones self pure for...
    onebrightday onebrightday 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I was 25yo when I married.

    My wife and me were not "virgins' when we married. Both of us had made several experiences of sexual intercourse with former partners. Of course it is a nice imagination to wait for Mr. or Ms. Right. But I was too weak so that I slept with a girlfriend when I was 17. It was not...
    wellreddened wellreddened 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    im not gonna lie and say "i wish i could have

    waited" cause that would be a lie. even though my mother wanted me to wait till marriage i had to realize this is MY body and if i really wanted to have sex i was going to with or without her knowing. i was 15 (i know young) when i had my first time. i wish i could say it was...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I never really planned on it,

    but in my school I was one of the last girls to lose her virginity and one of the only girls who didn't take a 'chastity pledge' in church.
    KatM99 KatM99 22-25, F 16 Responses Sep 4

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    it is important to wait

    until you find someone who you truly love. Im 15 and didn't wait but i understand the consequences of this experience. Everyone thinks I'm too young to experience the things i have throughout my life but no one understands that i know the consequences and if i wanted to do this...
    irinacedeno irinacedeno 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 29

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    I didn't wait.. and I don't regret that.

    I do however wish it had been with somebody else. Does anybody regret not waiting or who they lost it to??
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    is it important in these times.

    how many men keep it as a gift to their wives? its how you manage your married life than all these superficial membranous thin issues. grow up
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I am happily married

    but find myself thinking about have sex with another women.
    koi777 koi777 46-50, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    I willingly had sex for the first time

    when I was 12. Over that summer before 7th grade I casually did it with 3 different boys that lived in my neighborhood. It seemed everyone else was, and they said I was the"prize" because I was white and had blond hair. They were Hispanic and Black. My mom was a drug user...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 17 Responses May 24

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    I was 17, it was 4/20.

    We weren't dating. He was just a friend I've known for awhile & we were supposed to hangout after school. We we're supposed to get high & I was already thinking about wanting to lose my virginity. We were in his apt & i thought it was the best time. I just didn't wanna be the...
    Jnicole19 Jnicole19 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    No, I did not wait until I was married to get

    pregnant. I am 8 1/2 months pregnant now. I am loving the beach and walking along it day or night.
    pgfemaleatbeach pgfemaleatbeach 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 15

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    I was 17 when I lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend of 6 months. His family is highly religious (mormon), and I had a fear of sex. It wasn't like the passionate love making you see on TV, he would stroke my face every few minutes and ask "is this okay?", and I would do the same back asking, "are you sure?." It wasn't...
    thattallchick thattallchick 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 20

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Oops. It wasn't heterosexual either.

    Oops. But it was consensual! Yay to consent! My parents would probably have a long talk with me if they knew. Oops.
    truekvlt truekvlt 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    When I was innocent, I always told myself

    that I would never have sex until marriage but that changed. I changed. And because of that change, I began to do things I should have not done. I was so desperate to have sex and so I gave my virginity to someone I barely knew. I do not regret it because at the time, it was...
    NaNaJene NaNaJene 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 3

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    I was 23, kinda of late bloomer.

    ..did not date much in high school...my first was with a younger lady who was 21, but much more experienced...she was recently divorced and had a 2 year old son...we met in a bar...but was few weeks later that I was invited to her friends place, where she was staying at the time...
    Groundhog69 Groundhog69 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ...

    I didn't wait until marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had been dating so many guys before I met him but I have never had sex with them since I wasn't sure if they were the right one for me. Surprisingly, when I met my boyfriend, I didn't hesitate to...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 29 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    i didn't wait until my sweet 16.

    I was 15. As a lot of french people.
    bay07 bay07 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I lost my virginity today at the age of 17!

    😁 I was so nervous but I am so glad I did it! I absolutely love my boyfriend and I'm glad he was my first! We did it twice and it was awesome! People always told me it would hurt and that it would bleed but it didn't! It hurt for about 20 seconds and then it was wonderful...
    heyylookitsme heyylookitsme 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 27

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    It was my senior year,

    prom night. I was so in love and believed that he was the one I was going to marry. I'm ashamed that I was so naive as he broke things off as soon as he went away for college. I was heart broken & feeling very guilty. I wish I could go back in time and tell myself that the right...
    Mang0Tree Mang0Tree 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 53 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nope...well marriage will never come into my

    life. NEVER. That's why there was no point in waiting !
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I couldn't resist it,

    I was getting pressured into it, McDonald's was just that good
    tesstickkle tesstickkle 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    I was always open to having sex

    when I was a teenager and unmarried. I chose to have kids with my black boyfriends. I have four biracial children.
    momatpool momatpool 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 22

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    I was fourteen, there were two guys

    who both wanted me. It was very painful but I liked it! One followed the other.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 26

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    I'd be lying if I said I didn't regret not

    getting to round 2 with the first one, but I got over it...eventually...
    Xamad Xamad 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Nah, most people I know didn't either.

    I'm not sure why anyone would to be honest. Sex isn't special, only people are.
    sunkern sunkern 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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