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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 24,761 People

    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    I was fourteen, there were two guys

    who both wanted me. It was very painful but I liked it! One followed the other.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 26

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I was 13 and he was 14 we had been "dating"

    for a year and a half. Everyone thought we were going to get married right out if high school, including our parents. We did it while left at his place alone watching Aladdin of all things. It was over really fast and I was so disappointed. I had all these expectation on how...
    lilHuman lilHuman 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was 15, she was 13.

    We were both virgins. Her mom would take us to the mall and let us venture through the mall by ourselves. We went back to her mom's explorer and let the seats down. When we emerged from the vehicle we were no longer innocent. I am married to her now.
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 28 Responses Jul 13

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    Is there such a thing

    as a "magical" first time? I hear people talk about wishing they had waited or they are waiting for it to be "special" My wife was a virgin, so we waited until we got married to have sex and there was nothing "special" about it! It hurt her too much, I ended up with a raging...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I couldn't resist it,

    I was getting pressured into it, McDonald's was just that good
    tesstickkle tesstickkle 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Mohini99 Mohini99 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    I don't regret my decision to have sex

    before marriage. I was 17 and he was 19. It wasn't with the ideal person, and it wasn't great either, but I changed from that experience.
    thoughtfulgirl thoughtfulgirl 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I lost my virginity today at the age of 17!

    😁 I was so nervous but I am so glad I did it! I absolutely love my boyfriend and I'm glad he was my first! We did it twice and it was awesome! People always told me it would hurt and that it would bleed but it didn't! It hurt for about 20 seconds and then it was wonderful...
    heyylookitsme heyylookitsme 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 27

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    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 9 Responses Feb 7

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    My first post, I love a guy

    who loves flirting with all the girls around. It really hurts me. He used to care about me but now he doesn't anymore. I trusted him but now I feel like I have been used...
    Monroe32 Monroe32 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    i don't really think you have to wait

    until marriage unless you're very religious. BUT i don't think you should wait for someone long term, special & they deserve it without pressure.
    Davonnaaa Davonnaaa 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    No, I did not wait until I was married to get

    pregnant. I am 8 1/2 months pregnant now. I am loving the beach and walking along it day or night.
    pgfemaleatbeach pgfemaleatbeach 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 15

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    My first time was with my boyfriend

    when i was 17, we did it in a rest room of a known resort in our place. It was just the two of us in that area so I think thats what made us do it.
    heyitsme07 heyitsme07 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    I like men. I like sex!

    I like sex with men!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    i had met this boy over the internet.

    . he was my best friend's ex ( she had left him cause she didn't love him). so he proposed and we met in a parc, he wasn't that handsome but he was nice, funny and made me laugh. offered me a teddy bear, i was lonely so i accepted going steady with him. so the moths passed after...
    Ensamflicka Ensamflicka 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I willingly had sex for the first time

    when I was 12. Over that summer before 7th grade I casually did it with 3 different boys that lived in my neighborhood. It seemed everyone else was, and they said I was the"prize" because I was white and had blond hair. They were Hispanic and Black. My mom was a drug user...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 16 Responses May 24

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    Waited till I was 20/21.

    Felt stupid to do it sooner with some boy from school. Wanted to wait for someone more impressive. My first was Jewish, so that was good. Not a love. Hardworking slick young business man. He totally took advantage of a superdrunk me. But I probably could have stopped it. Nothing...
    DesireHappy DesireHappy 41-45, F Aug 8

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 19 Responses Aug 11

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    I did not wait until getting married

    before having sex. In high school, I had two biracial babies at ages 13 and 17. In college, I had another biracial baby at age 23. After college, I had two more biracial babies at age 27 and 30. I am pregnant again now at age 33 by my older interracial husband. I am 33...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 22 Responses Jul 3

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    I was 23, kinda of late bloomer.

    ..did not date much in high school...my first was with a younger lady who was 21, but much more experienced...she was recently divorced and had a 2 year old son...we met in a bar...but was few weeks later that I was invited to her friends place, where she was staying at the time...
    Groundhog69 Groundhog69 41-45, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Nope I was 14 years old.

    Now I'm 18 and look back and think wtf was I thinking?! The guy and I use to be so close now him and I don't talk at all. He's an *******. Lol
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I had unprotected sex two days ago I took plan

    b emergency birth control pills yesterday. He didn't come inside me I'm pretty sure. He pulled out but I'm still scared I thought I wouldn't be that kind of person to have unprotected sex but it was in the moment I'm so stupid If I get pregnant I'm screwed I already have bad...
    misfitoutsider misfitoutsider 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 22

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    it is important to wait

    until you find someone who you truly love. Im 15 and didn't wait but i understand the consequences of this experience. Everyone thinks I'm too young to experience the things i have throughout my life but no one understands that i know the consequences and if i wanted to do this...
    irinacedeno irinacedeno 13-15, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    is it important in these times.

    how many men keep it as a gift to their wives? its how you manage your married life than all these superficial membranous thin issues. grow up
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F 18 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I was 14 and she was 16.

    I had an addiction to ************ around the time so I lasted longer then she did but she blew me until I came afterwards so we were both happy. Great experience don't regret it at all
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Whats your thoughts on Sex

    before marriage? Preserve and make it more special or do the deed?
    PabLopez PabLopez 22-25, M 7 Responses Aug 9

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    It happened in October,

    I was 17 (now I'm 18 haha) and with the best guy in the world. I know we are young, but I just know he's the one. He is my first, and I am his first. It felt so right, so pure and meant to be. I've been in love with him since the 2nd grade, we were in the same class and everyone...
    anrim654 anrim654 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    He was a pretty italian boy.

    And he knew he was pretty. He wasn't dark like most italian boys. The smooth deep color of his completion made up for the egotistical boy he really was. His biceps confirmed he spent hours at the gym. He didn't know I was a virgin and thats because I told him I wasn't. I guess...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I did not wait until marriage to have sex

    and get pregnant too. I was very sexually active in high school and in college.
    brunettemom brunettemom 41-45, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    As a guy it is difficult to wait

    because we have a biological predisposition to mate often, but society says that's bad. Before the concept of marriage, our species did what it took to propagate, and much later we evolved social structures/concepts like marriage and monogamy. The original programming to mate...
    iDispense iDispense 36-40, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    What happens if you get married wait

    for the special person and they end up being a **** shag hahahahaha I am not one to take risks
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    aburns aburns 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 9

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    No big deal now. I met him online.

    He was born in the Philippines. He was my first and only. We were married and i was never with anyone else and until he showed me his true colors that was my plan. When he blamed me for his mistakes i was sure that i did not want him ever again. and he is no longer my only, just...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 5

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    He Was 20, I Was 14

    He said he was in love with me and everything. So stupid me, i believed him. I had sex with him in a motel and it hurt so much. He did all sorts of things to me and in the end. He dumped me. I guess he just used me for sex. That`s one of the things i regret the most.
    Schylar Schylar 18-21, F 15 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I was 17 when I lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend of 6 months. His family is highly religious (mormon), and I had a fear of sex. It wasn't like the passionate love making you see on TV, he would stroke my face every few minutes and ask "is this okay?", and I would do the same back asking, "are you sure?." It wasn't...
    thattallchick thattallchick 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Happened 2 months ago.

    She's 13 I'm 14. Lasted for like half an hour. We went to a party and have been dating for a bout 2 years and just recently broke up. We got drunk and high and had no idea what was going on I can vaguely remember but I know it felt really good
    marcelofreitas marcelofreitas 13-15, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ...

    I didn't wait until marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had been dating so many guys before I met him but I have never had sex with them since I wasn't sure if they were the right one for me. Surprisingly, when I met my boyfriend, I didn't hesitate to...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 29 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Nah, most people I know didn't either.

    I'm not sure why anyone would to be honest. Sex isn't special, only people are.
    sunkern sunkern 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I had sex with a man

    and he turned out to be nuts...guess giving my virginity to him at 15 was stupid
    musixgirl4ever musixgirl4ever 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    Oops. It wasn't heterosexual either.

    Oops. But it was consensual! Yay to consent! My parents would probably have a long talk with me if they knew. Oops.
    truekvlt truekvlt 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    No, i'm not virgin but

    that is the problem when I'm flirting with guy but we're not on a serious page, tomorrow we are going to stay overnight in the same house, so i don't know what to do if he would try to get intimate, bc he thinks that i'm looking exactly for it, but i just need a romance
    NaughtyNika NaughtyNika 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nope, i was 18 when i had sex.

    I wasn't married, (still aren't) with my at the time girlfriend.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 7

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    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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