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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 33,490 People

    prettyg1 prettyg1 18-21, F 22 Responses 6 days ago

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    I bought my first vibrator

    but I'm scared to use it does it really feel that good ?
    sometimeshorny sometimeshorny 18-21, F 13 Responses a week ago

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 9 Responses Sep 14

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    I don't believe in marriage

    so why should I wait until then to enjoy something so wonderful? The time I started being sexually active was when I was 17 and it was 'eh' until we learned more along the way.
    rawrgirl90 rawrgirl90 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 12

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    I like men. I like sex!

    I like sex with men!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    I was seventeen and nervous,

    but super excited. I did tons of research by myself and knew that I was happy making this decision with someone I loved and who genuinely loved me back. That was the most I could hope for. BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE! The sex was longer than I expected, and did hurt, but I was...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 25

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    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 10 Responses Feb 7

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    I was 14. My neighbor was 13

    and him and I got curious one night so at midnight we snuck out and did it in between our houses. It hurt and We ended up getting a bunch of bug bites. But after that first time we would do it every other night. I really did care for the guy but I just wish I would've waited.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was 20 years old and up to this point,

    I hadn't done anything with anyone. Part of it was lack of opportunity, part of it was the fact that I wanted to wait until I was married, to share that with only one person, the person who would be the most special to me. Well, in the summer of 2013, I met a guy through some...
    ismalbergher ismalbergher 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    ...but he was my first,

    only, and we got married eventually.
    paytek paytek 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    If was to wait until I be on walker sucking

    oxygen cause where I live it's not legal!
    KathyCrete74 KathyCrete74 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    My first time was with someone

    who I now know is a complete k**b. However if I hadn't I wouldn't currently know the only man who ever understood me, a true friend. I also wouldn't now be in a long term relationship with the man that I love :)
    poisonpurpledwarf poisonpurpledwarf 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 12

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I was always open to having sex

    when I was a teenager and unmarried. I chose to have kids with my black boyfriends. I have four biracial children.
    momatpool momatpool 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 14

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    My GF and I didn't wait till marriage

    either we were 16 at the time and i remember just thinking god I hope she's enjoying this I was so nervous.... The good news we are now married! Been married for 8 years have 2 amazing kids oh and we were each other's first and only.... Rare these days
    ctywrkr ctywrkr 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 18

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    So two nights ago, my sister was supposed to be

    watching my boyfriend and I while my parents were away. (I'm 16, he's 17 and they don't trust us to not have sex and get pregnant.) But we were laying on the couch and my sister was sleeping on the floor, and my younger sister sleeping next to us. But he started rubbing and...
    areyouinaband areyouinaband 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    Luvhugeuptop Luvhugeuptop 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 9

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    I was 17 and it felt like time.

    I was with someone caring and special. Its not something I regret and I rather enjoyed myself.
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M Oct 12

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    I was only 13 with my boyfriend

    who was with me for 2 years already and i just cracked under pressure when he started to feel me up , im just wondering was i to young or was it ok
    lost12unit lost12unit 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 8

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    It would of be nice to waited till I got

    married, but i don't regret it either it was a good experience I was in my 20s
    cristyagui cristyagui 26-30, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage

    because I thought that if I didn't do then I would never be loved but now I wish I could take it back and save it for someone I know that truly loves me for me and doesn't just want sex from me
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 9

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 53 Responses Sep 14

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    CESARR7 CESARR7 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 9 Responses Oct 2

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    Instead I had a pregnancy scare

    that involved the girl being 12 weeks late and trying to kill herself....
    Turtleisland97 Turtleisland97 16-17, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage

    and I don't regret it one bit. I had a few men in my life before I found the man of my dreams. He is my everything and we have lived together for 2 years. I never thought I would find a man like him ever. Had I waited until marriage I don't think I would have had any courage to...
    dragthewaters4 dragthewaters4 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I lost my virginity today at the age of 17!

    😁 I was so nervous but I am so glad I did it! I absolutely love my boyfriend and I'm glad he was my first! We did it twice and it was awesome! People always told me it would hurt and that it would bleed but it didn't! It hurt for about 20 seconds and then it was wonderful...
    heyylookitsme heyylookitsme 16-17, F 15 Responses Jul 27

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    It wasn't what I expected.

    I thought I'd be with the girl forever so we did "it". Looking back I don't regret it. I haven't been sexual with a girl since. I've decided I'm only gonna be sexual with the girl I fall in love with. Even if she ends up leaving one day, it's such an intimate and passionate...
    Heston94 Heston94 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 2

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 28 Responses Jul 13

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    In my opinion there's no

    such thing as virginity for a man virginity is something that is simply reserved for women. My opinion is mostly based on my experience of choosing to wait for marriage and it ending up kind of blowing up in my face! My ex when I met her told me that she was a virgin and she...
    Authentic921 Authentic921 26-30, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was 17 when I lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend of 6 months. His family is highly religious (mormon), and I had a fear of sex. It wasn't like the passionate love making you see on TV, he would stroke my face every few minutes and ask "is this okay?", and I would do the same back asking, "are you sure?." It wasn't...
    thattallchick thattallchick 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 20

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    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    I never really planned on it,

    but in my school I was one of the last girls to lose her virginity and one of the only girls who didn't take a 'chastity pledge' in church.
    KatM99 KatM99 22-25, F 17 Responses Sep 4

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    Because I'm ****** up

    and don't really care who I'm with anymore, it's not like I'm feeling present anyway, I'm always lost
    Darkthoughtsallover Darkthoughtsallover 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    I was 14, my first time,

    curious and naive. I barely had a budding chest and was very insecure (still am), so I really sought out the attention this boy was giving me. It was kinda painful, but didn't matter cause he was only inside me for a little bit before he pulled it out and spurted on my belly...
    emmsbody emmsbody 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    No, I did not wait until I was married to get

    pregnant. I am 8 1/2 months pregnant now. I am loving the beach and walking along it day or night.
    pgfemaleatbeach pgfemaleatbeach 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 15

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    aburns aburns 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 9

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 14 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 3

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    I always thought the idea was nice

    but when you come to think of it you need to be emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to someone and wouldn't that just suck if on your wedding night you find out you aren't ?? But yeah I lost my Virginity on June 25th so it's almost been 3 months since and I don't...
    nailwire nailwire 16-17, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    I couldn't resist it,

    I was getting pressured into it, McDonald's was just that good
    tesstickkle tesstickkle 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    No did not wait. I was 18

    and he was 26, we both had the same English class in college and I approached him. I wanted to have my first time with someone older and who atleast knew what they were doing and boy did he...it was at his house, his bed, sister and best friend in the living room and even though...
    Janasai Janasai 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was 14 when i lost mine.

    A friend and me used to mess around with each other. At the time we didn't know we were tribbing or scissoring or what ever you want to call it. My friend is still in denial about losing her virginity.
    AnnieJF AnnieJF 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 11

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 14

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    This is a topic that a lot of people have

    opinions on. I didn't wait until marriage & I'm not even planning on getting married for a long time. I was 14 when I lost my virginity. I'm 17 now & I don't regret it one bit. Sex is amazing. Thoughts? I would love to see what people have to say about this.
    kaitybobaityxo kaitybobaityxo 16-17, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    ringgo69 ringgo69 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I was never interested in fooling around with

    girls without the intention of a relationship, and only went all the way with a girl that is been friends with for a long time at 17. The relationship didn't last, but I'm glad I did it when I did. Was an experience.
    Kumaji Kumaji 22-25, M Oct 12

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