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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 40,930 People

    I was a teenage mom not once

    but twice. I had gotten pregnant twice in my teenage years. No I did not wait until I got married to have kids. It was hard for me and I struggled with having kids during my teenage years. My high school suffered some because I took more time with my babies and I had a part...
    mominlingerie mominlingerie 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 52 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I was in a relationship

    when I was 21. My boyfriend, at that time, was 23. We met in college when I was a junior and he was a senior. We dated for a year before moving in together. On the first day of us living together, we had made passionate love for a couple of hours. I was still a virgin at...
    momlovespatriots momlovespatriots 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    I didn't wait and neither did my husband.

    It didn't bother either of us and we are a very happy couple and about to have a baby. I think if you are truly important to someone they won't mind.
    lillybear13 lillybear13 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I drove over and told him to come outside

    and take a break. He got in my car and we ****** in the back seat. While he was on the clock. There are a couple perks when you work at a restaurant that has no management during the week.
    xxdiscoveringme xxdiscoveringme 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    My ex boyfriend was the first boy to ever show

    me true affection. we only dated 2 months and I got drunk and high. He took advantage of the situation and we had sex. I regret it everyday...
    Alina627 Alina627 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 15 Responses Jan 4

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    I was thirteen and I was stupid.

    Also my parents found out and got super pissed at me.
    IngensImpetum IngensImpetum 18-21, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I was with the same boy all through High School

    but I waited until Well into College. Thinking back, it was a good decision because I wasn't ready. It also helped me to be very selective when it came to sex. At my current age I have only had 4 partners because I always had long term relationships 7-10 years. My boyfriend...
    Themusicinmysoul Themusicinmysoul 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I never really planned on it,

    but in my school I was one of the last girls to lose her virginity and one of the only girls who didn't take a 'chastity pledge' in church.
    KatM99 KatM99 22-25, F 17 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    i dont consider my experiences

    before 16 as sex, they were mistakes that i wish i could take back but the past is the past, but im grateful for the true intmacy i felt with my love now. i wish i did wait until i was married, only because of my beliefs but every time i lay down with him, i felt no regret. i...
    mstasia316 mstasia316 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    You have to test drive a car

    before you buy it....
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 20 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    Fell for the three dates thing

    and the sex wasn't as enjoyable as I thought it would be.
    ac15 ac15 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 18

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    For a few years, I spent time going around the

    world to find myself. I also met a lovely woman at a nude beach. We sang songs and had sex in front of a bonfire. We haven't kept in contact and I have absolutely no regrets.
    LetMeBeBlunt LetMeBeBlunt 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 28 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    He really needs to wipe the entire slate clean

    and fck a woman with No motive..... From all the knowledge miss Latino is another mooch....
    dailynewssuccess51 dailynewssuccess51 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I just lost my virginity last night !

    It was so painful and nothing like I expected...
    NoPityForaCoward1 NoPityForaCoward1 16-17, F 30 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    I've also with 18 different men,

    and I'm cool with that. I like experiencing people and having that physical connection.
    diabeticHailey diabeticHailey 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 18

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    & I have no regrets. That said,

    I sincerely believe "to each his/her own" and would hate to imply my choices were the best choices. I respect people who choose to wait til marriage every bit as much as I respect people who explore ...like me... before marriage.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Like many of my girlfriends,

    I did not wait to have sex until I was married, I started having sex at age 13. I was pregnant three times when in school. Many of my girlfriends were in the same condition. We were all homeschooled by adult moms. My family does not believe in birth control. For three...
    mominhottub mominhottub 36-40, F 14 Responses Jan 18

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minniecc11 minniecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    No, I did not wait until I was married

    before I was involved sexually with a male partner. Many of my girlfriends were having sex with their boyfriends and they encouraged me to do the same because I would love it so much. They were all right and yes it felt so wonderful having intercourse with the opposite sex...
    gloriahughes gloriahughes 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I was 20 when my ex boyfriend moved in with me.

    We were crazy in love. He left me for his ex girlfriend. I ended up pregnant with his son. My son doesn't see his daddy hardly at all. He is 1.
    baumgartnergirl21 baumgartnergirl21 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 14 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Both us did not wait.

    We do not regret our experience. We both had two previous partners. Husband (Asian) had sex with two Asian girlfriends, and wife (White) had sex with a white and an Indian boyfriend. Sex in our past relationship was not very good, so we really appreciate how we are good...
    AMWF1 AMWF1 36-40 2 Responses a week ago

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    Cutie314 Cutie314 16-17, F 17 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I didn't wait until marriage

    that was my initial plan ever since I was younger but as soon as I got the freedom to do things I wasn't allowed to do like go out late, party and so on it lead me to meeting someone and taking it to the next level I also am having my first baby with the guy that took my...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    Waiting till marriage was never

    even considered in my mind. I can't understand why anyone would wait. I mean you wouldn't buy a car without test driving it, right? What if the transmission is slipping? I'd hate to be stuck with that till death do us part!
    bjt032 bjt032 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 18-21, F 20 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I met her ,of all places,

    at church. She was juat beutifil. For about a year I just looked at her, then, oneday, we started to talk and the time just went by so fast before we knew it, we had been talking for over four ours. I finally got the nerve to tell her I was atracted to her. She frist said no...
    cheque1965 cheque1965 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 2

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    I lost my virginity to a boy I fell in love

    with, 11 months ago. He used me and then tossed my away when he found another. I've never regretted anything more...
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 28 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I am 19 and lost my virginity a few weeks ago.

    I love the guy that I gave it to, but ever since I was younger I was taught to wait until marriage. I known it was my decision for me and his for him, but I still can't help but be a little sad about it. My family and best would hate me if they knew. I talk about it with my bf...
    iwillfly iwillfly 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 4

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    TooSexy21 TooSexy21 18-21, F 20 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I'm still a virgin now,

    but I think it will not be like that until marriage though, my parents are basically making me stay a virgin until marriage. I don't want that at all, though. We're Christian and what we believe in, I was taught my whole life it's a sin but people sin everyday, so what, right...
    ItWasTheLastWeek ItWasTheLastWeek 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    Nope... Kinda wish I did.

    Lol but oh well
    Kimberly543 Kimberly543 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Why would I agree to no sex

    before marriage if there's none after?
    IDCFUKK IDCFUKK 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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