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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 22,230 People

    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Nope I was 14 years old.

    Now I'm 18 and look back and think wtf was I thinking?! The guy and I use to be so close now him and I don't talk at all. He's an *******. Lol
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Does anybody wait these days?

    Honestly wouldn't you want to know before you tie the knot? A little experience in the sack is never a bad thing. Just don't be stupid about it. I overheard a girl at a party telling her friends she was so horny she'd **** a snake if someone would hold it still.... probably want...
    smokethis smokethis 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    He was a pretty italian boy.

    And he knew he was pretty. He wasn't dark like most italian boys. The smooth deep color of his completion made up for the egotistical boy he really was. His biceps confirmed he spent hours at the gym. He didn't know I was a virgin and thats because I told him I wasn't. I guess...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I didn't wait I was young

    and I will never forget it it was awkward being naked in front of someone foe the first time but it was was wonderfull. and I was super head over heels in love teen romance lol
    sweetlanie sweetlanie 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 30

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    Waited till I was 20/21.

    Felt stupid to do it sooner with some boy from school. Wanted to wait for someone more impressive. My first was Jewish, so that was good. Not a love. Hardworking slick young business man. He totally took advantage of a superdrunk me. But I probably could have stopped it. Nothing...
    DesireHappy DesireHappy 41-45, F Aug 8

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    I lost my virginity to my first love.

    He last it to me as well. We were very young, 14.
    unspokenwords14 unspokenwords14 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I lost my virginity to my

    now fiancé about a year ago, he was so patient in not wanting us to rush to that part of the relationship we didn't take it that far until about 4 months into the relationship. I was so nervous cause a friend said that it hurts really bad the first time, but it was sooo amazon...
    OPbeachgirl OPbeachgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 30

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    I was fourteen, there were two guys

    who both wanted me. It was very painful but I liked it! One followed the other.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 26

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    Junior in high school.

    He didn't mean a thing to me. I purposely got drunk because I knew id be too nervous to do it sober. Wish I had waited until I had been in love. My current boyfriend would have been the only person I would have done that with. Wish I could give him that but I have it away.
    maddiejuliet maddiejuliet 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    If The Shoe Fits

    No, I didn't wait until marriage, not even close. My grandma, rest her soul, used to have a great theory regarding premarital sex. She reasoned that we all tried on our shoes before making a purchase to make sure they fit, why wouldn't we "try on" a man before making a life-long...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I like men. I like sex!

    I like sex with men!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    LeviCroll LeviCroll 13-15, F 13 Responses Jul 31

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    Nope, i was 18 when i had sex.

    I wasn't married, (still aren't) with my at the time girlfriend.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 7

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    Mohini99 Mohini99 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    aburns aburns 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 9

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    He Was 20, I Was 14

    He said he was in love with me and everything. So stupid me, i believed him. I had sex with him in a motel and it hurt so much. He did all sorts of things to me and in the end. He dumped me. I guess he just used me for sex. That`s one of the things i regret the most.
    Schylar Schylar 18-21, F 15 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I lost it last year after the homecoming dance.

    My boyfriend and I drove to the same spot we first kissed and where he first told me that he loved me so it was very special. It didn't last long because I couldn't take the pain so we just ended up making out a lot instead. I'll still never forget it. It was so right and I'm...
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I lost my virginity today at the age of 17!

    😁 I was so nervous but I am so glad I did it! I absolutely love my boyfriend and I'm glad he was my first! We did it twice and it was awesome! People always told me it would hurt and that it would bleed but it didn't! It hurt for about 20 seconds and then it was wonderful...
    heyylookitsme heyylookitsme 16-17, F 15 Responses Jul 27

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    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    My first time was with my boyfriend

    when i was 17, we did it in a rest room of a known resort in our place. It was just the two of us in that area so I think thats what made us do it.
    heyitsme07 heyitsme07 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11

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    I had sex with a man

    and he turned out to be nuts...guess giving my virginity to him at 15 was stupid
    musixgirl4ever musixgirl4ever 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 3

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    Okay,I lost my virginity this year I'm 16 years

    old.My mom really didn't care all she asked was did I wear a condom....I live in Deltona Florida.Im pretty much a popular guy and people thought I was lying,even tho I told no one her name and she told her friends I do not know what to say.
    karrishemory karrishemory 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    No, I did not wait until I was married to get

    pregnant. I am 8 1/2 months pregnant now. I am loving the beach and walking along it day or night.
    pgfemaleatbeach pgfemaleatbeach 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 15

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    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F 18 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Waiting doesn't make any sense to me.

    .. I'm not judging anyone, I just dont get it. I'm surprised people still do that, but that's maybe because around where I live it's very very uncommon...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 7

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    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I willingly had sex for the first time

    when I was 12. Over that summer before 7th grade I casually did it with 3 different boys that lived in my neighborhood. It seemed everyone else was, and they said I was the"prize" because I was white and had blond hair. They were Hispanic and Black. My mom was a drug user...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 14 Responses May 24

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    I did not wait until getting married

    before having sex. In high school, I had two biracial babies at ages 13 and 17. In college, I had another biracial baby at age 23. After college, I had two more biracial babies at age 27 and 30. I am pregnant again now at age 33 by my older interracial husband. I am 33...
    threepregnantsisters threepregnantsisters 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for 10 months now and we started having sex about 4 months in. We both know we love each other but he's really religious. I knew he worked at his church and he was in youth group and stuff so I asked him if he was sure he was ok with us getting intimate. He always said he had...
    Smileynat Smileynat 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    No big deal now. I met him online.

    He was born in the Philippines. He was my first and only. We were married and i was never with anyone else and until he showed me his true colors that was my plan. When he blamed me for his mistakes i was sure that i did not want him ever again. and he is no longer my only, just...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 5

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    But It's Why I Ended Up Married.

    When I was young its almost comical how much I was in a hurry to grow up, leave home and start my own life.  My childhood had really good parts but also some pretty tough parts as well.  I was insecure and really naive when it came to my own self worth.  When I met my x, I was...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    i had met this boy over the internet.

    . he was my best friend's ex ( she had left him cause she didn't love him). so he proposed and we met in a parc, he wasn't that handsome but he was nice, funny and made me laugh. offered me a teddy bear, i was lonely so i accepted going steady with him. so the moths passed after...
    Ensamflicka Ensamflicka 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    i don't really think you have to wait

    until marriage unless you're very religious. BUT i don't think you should wait for someone long term, special & they deserve it without pressure.
    Davonnaaa Davonnaaa 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 29 Responses Jul 13

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    I was 13 and in 8th grade

    when I had sex with my then black boyfriend. I had unprotected sex and got pregnant then. The following spring I had delivered a beautiful biracial baby boy to raise. I am so glad I didn't have an abortion and kept my son.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 7

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    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 31

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    My boyfriend and I (after about one year of

    dating) loved each other and had talked about everything and I had standards for our first times (we were both virgins). I said I 1) wanted to feel safe, not scared that we were going to get caught or something 2) wanted it to be in a bed 3) wanted to be protected and 4) wanted...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ...

    I didn't wait until marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had been dating so many guys before I met him but I have never had sex with them since I wasn't sure if they were the right one for me. Surprisingly, when I met my boyfriend, I didn't hesitate to...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 29 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    What happens if you get married wait

    for the special person and they end up being a **** shag hahahahaha I am not one to take risks
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Oops. It wasn't heterosexual either.

    Oops. But it was consensual! Yay to consent! My parents would probably have a long talk with me if they knew. Oops.
    truekvlt truekvlt 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I was a freshman in high school

    and I was dating a junior and of course I thought he was my entire world. I let him control me and I never had a boyfriend before so I though this is how it is supposed to be. The first time we had sex was consensual but I was not ready. I don't regret my decision because they...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 31

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    Whats your thoughts on Sex

    before marriage? Preserve and make it more special or do the deed?
    PabLopez PabLopez 22-25, M 7 Responses Aug 9

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    Is there such a thing

    as a "magical" first time? I hear people talk about wishing they had waited or they are waiting for it to be "special" My wife was a virgin, so we waited until we got married to have sex and there was nothing "special" about it! It hurt her too much, I ended up with a raging...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Worst moment of my life .

    . I was 17 when lost my virginity to a guy who was one of my brother friends. it lasted like 3 mins although it didn't hurt much i cried cause the thought of losing it made me feel horrible .. and the guy didn't even care, he got what he wanted and that was all that mattered to...
    danyel92 danyel92 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 31

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    Who does these days? Sex is

    so important to a healthy relationship, not having sex before marriage is potentially suicidal! If anyone did wait or is going to wait I admire you for your strong will but I don't think there's any reason why people should be free to have sex whenever they want.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 3

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