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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 46,400 People

    I was 13, she 15. My first girlfriend.

    It started off as nothing more than a little fooling around and before I realised what was going on, we were both naked and it was happening. Looking back on it I have no regrets. I may have been young and naive but it was far from an unpleasant experience. We were together for...
    scottdominic94 scottdominic94 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Today was the day I told my mother about it.

    ... We were in the middle of a topic that was already heated and then she wanted me to release anything else into the open... I burst into tears. Got really heated. Went into an angry sob. A chokeable sob. Couldn't stand to be touched. Then I finally told her... Well I couldn't...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 19 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 18 Responses Jan 30

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    bre101 bre101 18-21, F 21 Responses a week ago

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    I was also raped at 17

    and am bipolar and had multiple partners after it is a very hard thing to deal with
    tlizzy531 tlizzy531 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    I lost my virginity to a math teacher back in

    school he did a lot more to me than algebra and geometry :)
    nudemom nudemom 31-35, F 23 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 2

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    To my one and only Handsome,

    I just wanna do cool couple **** with you like **** you on a rooftop while the sun sets. With lots of love, Your Beautiful :)
    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    No I did not wait until I was married to have

    sex. I am now a few weeks pregnant and planning a summer wedding. I will be another bride, who is very pregnant, walking down the aisle with my father
    americanfemaleonvacation americanfemaleonvacation 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I was 16. It was with my

    now husband. I married my first...Fairytale, right? :-/
    milkysecret milkysecret 36-40, F 21 Responses Feb 25

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    The first guy I ever had sex with had a 10 inch

    erect ****. I wish I'd waited.. Mostly because every other guy looks shrunk..
    SparkledRed SparkledRed 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    My boyfriend of 2 weeks

    and I had sex before he left for MCT school-for those of you who don't know- it's the next step after boot camp for Marines-we did it the morning he left, I'm 17 and he's 21. We've been friends for 3 years.
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 23 Responses Jan 27

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    Guys are overly sensitive days.

    I was talking to this guy and we kinda did "it" and then right after we were so fine again everything is great. Than all the sudden he goes off about how he loves his ex and saying "I miss you" so much and "I'm so sorry can we forget this". Like no boy..!🙍🏻
    Justherewaiting98 Justherewaiting98 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    i was 15 yrs old sleeping with the 34 year old

    lady across the street. She was amazing to me....
    needtobloved needtobloved 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I lost my virginity to a boy I fell in love

    with, 11 months ago. He used me and then tossed my away when he found another. I've never regretted anything more...
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 24 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I chose not to wait until I was married to have

    kids. When I was in high school, I felt my boyfriend and I were so much in love. We professed each other's love for one another and wanted to child together. I stopped taking the pill and within a few months I ended up pregnant. My first trimester was the worst because I...
    juliewardatbeach juliewardatbeach 36-40, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    When me and my man are going at it,

    I never know/feel when I c*m! He always jokes about "You could of at least given me the heads up" because I c*m a lot apparently but I never know when it's coming lol! Who has any advice?
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 4

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    I was 15 when I lost my virginity.

    I was at a party. I regret it because i had no feelings for the guy. It just happened.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    No, I did not wait until married to have sex

    with my husband. When we were engaged and three months from being married we experimented sexually with one another. We did use protection to protect me from being pregnant on our wedding day. My soon to be husband taught me a lot when it comes to sex. My mother was fine...
    computerfemale computerfemale 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    When I was in high school

    and during the summer months my boyfriend and I used to go down to the lake to go swimming. One Saturday afternoon, my boyfriend picked me up and drove us down to the lake in the country. I wore my bikini under my short shorts and tank top. When we arrived, we got undressed...
    jillpeterson jillpeterson 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was 24 years old before I lost my virginity,

    and I prided myself on the fact that I was still a virgin. I lost my virginity to a man I was in live with - that I am still in love with, even though he ended things with me. I waited so long to share that experience with someone special. I can't help but feel guilty because...
    kalysefer kalysefer 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Worst decision ever, she was ten kinds of crazy

    and I'm lucky she didn't get pregnant over the many times we did do it.
    collegekid2016 collegekid2016 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Toolieee Toolieee 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    TooSexy21 TooSexy21 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    justahelplessoul justahelplessoul 16-17, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Pinky65 Pinky65 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    my first wife got pregnant

    before we were married. now I have 7 grown kids and single.
    spankyouhard spankyouhard 56-60, M 11 Responses Apr 9

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 51 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I gave myself to boyfriend of almost 2.

    5 when I was 19. We are still together today and plan on getting married.
    miceteree miceteree 18-21, F Apr 12

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    i just had the best sex of my life.

    .. we did 69 and made love for what seemed like a life time
    sheenbean23 sheenbean23 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I didn't grow up especially religious

    so didn't think it mattered. I still don't. What matters to me is it was the right person.
    nataliejones1984 nataliejones1984 41-45, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I slept with my best friends oldest brother,

    who was and still is one of my good friends. I was 20, almost 21, was tired of waiting, and wasn't interested in a relationship. He was kind, gentle, and I don't regret it in the least.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    I didn't wait and neither did my husband.

    It didn't bother either of us and we are a very happy couple and about to have a baby. I think if you are truly important to someone they won't mind.
    lillybear13 lillybear13 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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