I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 62,970 People


    Thanks to growing up in an abstinence teaching

    religious household I felt guilty for a long time after losing my virginity. The first time I had sex with a second guy I cried the day after, realizing what I had done. I felt dirty and like a failure. But after a few years I realize it was just my family and my church, having...
    Azuriel Azuriel
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Oct 21, 2015

    It wasn't my decision to lose mine

    when I did, but that happens. I have enjoyed my sexuality since then, and now have a wonderful husband. If there are men out there that still require a virgin, it's not a problem with the girl, it's a problem with you.
    Kellyb1985 Kellyb1985
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2016

    I lost my virginity at a fairly young age.

    . I was in love. I wanted to make sure we were both each others first so that way there would always be something special between us & so he could never forget me.
    bbfeels bbfeels
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    On our fourth date he started touching me I

    thought it was normal and I let him do that than days after we where at this beautiful lake in car n I don't know what happened(emotions where out of control..lol) n stuff happen guess what I dint wait until marriage..lol now its been 5 years with him n its truly amazing <3
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    i had just after my high school with my school

    friend. we went to a motel and made out and started having sex. we had twice that night. it was fun
    nehaisinlove nehaisinlove
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    of course I couldn't.

    sex is too amazing
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    I surly didn't wait until marriage.

    A boy in middle school and I had planned on it because of a dare, we never had the chance. I was horny from then on. Finally I was about 15 and a friend of mine boyfriend and I got to talking. Ten minutes later I was no longer a virgin. he put it in every hole he could...
    Bellahpee Bellahpee
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    Hell, I didn't wait until Friday :/ I'm

    so depressed that EP is closing. I haven't been a member for long, but I have read stories for years. I am more than a little drunk too, and I just want to cry. All you people in EP land, come lie between my legs and comfort me.
    Kellyb1985 Kellyb1985
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 24, 2016

    No, my mom, female siblings,

    our daughters, and I did not wait until we were married to engage in having sex with a man. We all feel that premarital sex is permissible then and now. One does not have to be married to have sex and to have babies either.
    Maryanne1969 Maryanne1969
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Oct 30, 2015

    I did a lot of heavy petting starting in high

    school. A lot of touching, groping, and licking. Sex happened when I was 19. We went to college together and I liked her. She was a friend. So one night we went out to drink and dance and I told her I'd like for her to "pop my cherry". She thought I was joking about being a...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 13, 2016
    deleted deleted
    Mar 19, 2016

    I have never been married

    and started messing around in high school with my boyfriend. He asked me if I would sleep with him and I said yes immediately.
    coedinbikini coedinbikini
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2016

    I didn't wait because waiting is dumb.

    If you're in love with a person it doesn't matter if you're married, you should still be able to enjoy yourselves. And so what if you break up later? You'll probably divorce at some point too. So just enjoy it while you can.
    2byoung 2byoung
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Apr 10, 2016
    snugglybunny snugglybunny
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    No I didn't wait. I lost my virginity at 15.

    Ever since then I can't get enough. I think about it all the time. I am so glad I didn't wait cos I have gotten so much pleasure and had so much fun. Also I am giving pleasure to others. How can this be bad or wrong?
    cassieo21f cassieo21f
    22-25, F
    12 Responses May 16, 2015

    I was 13, was in 8th grade

    and had caught the eye of a 16 year old guy. We called ourselves dating most of the summer. Most we did was kiss till the last weekend. He talked about wanting to know what it was like to be with me, but I wasn't sure about it. The night it happened seemed different, even in...
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Jan 19, 2016

    waiting is wasting and

    if i had waited until marriage i would have wasted half my life. i will never get why people dont start having fun when they feel ready.
    sira93lbfm sira93lbfm
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Feb 10, 2016
    Lu24642 Lu24642
    22-25, F
    17 Responses Dec 1, 2014

    well....i'm not married.

    ...and i'm def not a virgin....so..lol :P
    MessedUpTami MessedUpTami
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2016

    I was going to wait as I wanted my first one to

    be the one who I truly love but since I got cancer my first instinct was I was going to die so best make the most of my live as I didn't think I would survive so I had done it with my first boyfriend at 14
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2016

    I held out throughout high school,

    but my senior year I started my first serious relationship. We ended up heading to college together and explored each other with our hands and mouths, but still held off. Starting my sophomore year in college, he knew I was taking birth control, but he was still very patient...
    Ldietzy Ldietzy
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Feb 23, 2015

    I was 18 and 35 years later he

    and I are still married.
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 4, 2015
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 29, 2016

    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale
    51-55, F
    8 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    Flowerpower5678 Flowerpower5678
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2015

    Seriously... Waiting

    for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed tons, and FINALLY got impaled on a hard stiff c**ck shooting loads into me after 2 weeks... And it seemed FOREVER...
    NastyMe NastyMe
    36-40, F
    23 Responses May 15, 2015

    I have an amazing child

    because I didn't wait until marriage.
    Elexxa Elexxa
    26-30, T
    2 Responses Mar 5, 2016

    I waited until the eve of my 25th birthday.

    It was less then enjoyable. The guy assumed I had done it before and was not gentle.
    aLadywithoutaclue aLadywithoutaclue
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 5, 2016

    I love deep women navel !

    !! I have strange addiction .i love to poke ,suck torture navel. Any girls here who love it like me add me circle. And send massages .
    deleted deleted
    Mar 23, 2016

    I didn't wait. And I do not regret it.

    I was in a relationship at the time and I felt I was ready. I was 18 and in college. I loved my boyfriend at the time and we were also careful. I dont feel bad about not waiting. I had someone here message me and judge me on it and tell me how horrible I am and that I am ruined...
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Nov 2, 2015
    Harshawesme Harshawesme
    16-17, M
    Apr 10, 2016

    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl
    51-55, F
    22 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    I don't know anyone who

    as waited. All my friends had done it before they were 17. I was 16 when I first had sex, he was 27 and a friend of my cousin. Although it wasn't great it wasn't a complete disaster like many others. I've no regrets. We still bump into each other at various family gatherings...
    sally2089 sally2089
    26-30, F
    14 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    I Love My Cute Girlfriend She Is Ugly But

    Enough She Loves me from bottom of her heart
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 25, 2016

    I am 28 yr old guy and still Virgin.

    I am waiting till now to get my experience of doing First time...!!!!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 8, 2016
    johnnalsonbig johnnalsonbig
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 27, 2016

    my neighbor seduced to do

    that when i was 16
    AllOfYours AllOfYours
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 15, 2016

    From the moment I had my first sexual thought,

    I was way too curious to be a "good girl". Even on the cusp of puberty I was playing "show me yours, show you mine" with boys. I liked being attractive to someone and I liked discovering what boys had...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jan 30, 2016

    No, I did not wait until I was married to have

    sex. I started having sex at an early age. I had twins just after I graduated from high school at age 17. I got married when I was 23 and had finished my college dual majors. Since I have been married, I have had another three kids. I am now pregnant again and am due in...
    marianne1983 marianne1983
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Mar 18, 2016

    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Jan 30, 2015

    I was 17 when I lost my virginity

    and my guy was 27...I'm so glad I had sex with him and didn't wait. About 5 yrs after that he was killed in a car crash. I'll always have the memory of giving myself to him....it was so worth it!
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    I had my first i n t e r c o u r s e

    when I was 14. The o r g a s m was heavenly. After that there was no stopping :)
    Gia1996 Gia1996
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    my first time was when I was 14

    and the guy was 19 he was so gentle and good to me I was with him till he went back to college
    JasmineRae JasmineRae
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    Haha noooooo I didn't wait.

    Why would I wait to do something so fun and feels that good?
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    If you never get married,

    no sex is premarital :D
    camilaespia camilaespia
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Mar 5, 2016

    Being a mom is the most terrifying thing in the

    entire world. There is nothing more scary than waking up every single day and having to excessively worry over this tiny little human being and self loathe because you never ever feel like you are good enough to deserve such a blessing in your life. I am constantly fighting...
    DeIuxedEdition DeIuxedEdition
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Feb 18, 2016

    Definitely didn't wait,

    I was 12 first time.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2016

    my choice, 19 and with a Complete stranger:

    walking home from the carnival a small red car passes me, i keep walking the same car comes back agian tho this time the driver asks if i want a lift i declined. few minutes later hese back and telling me its not safe for me to be walking home in the dark alone says he will take...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    Did the person that you lost your virginity

    know what you were a virgin before you did it ?
    spankingsandmoans spankingsandmoans
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    So no one on my family knows this.

    I didn't wait till I got married to have s*x with a guy. The reason none of them know is cause they are all Christians and would be upset with me. I can't say judge me cause I know they wouldn't. But they would be disappointed..and I want to tell them how I feel about this...
    MsKennedy MsKennedy
    22-25, F
    28 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    We're all just ******* animals.

    Animals don't wait for stupid papers to be signed.
    snugglybunny snugglybunny
    22-25, F
    21 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    Afterall its sex; its birth right.

    Its futility to wait till marriage and to have sex. I can't wait till that time. I was pleased and pleasured my senses.
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    deleted deleted
    15 Responses Aug 25, 2014
    luketepid luketepid
    56-60, M
    Mar 10, 2016

    I actually waited till I was 21 I was just

    actually shy at the time.
    loki20032 loki20032
    31-35, M
    Mar 4, 2016

    I didn't wait, I was 18 & he was one of my good

    friends we were drunk and it was super awkward and uncomfortable. He didn't talk to me for 3 days after & I was so depressed. Now we are going on 3 years of being together and have lived with each other since July lol funny how things work out :)
    011216angel 011216angel
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 6, 2016
    adianoeta adianoeta
    31-35, F
    42 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    I didn't wait. It happened

    because I let it happen. I made it happen and I'm happy it happened.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 5, 2016
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