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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 54,740 People

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    I was 17 and in a steady relationship at the

    time. it wasnt rape but could of been date rape. I felt guilty because he was drunk
    tennisprincess1975 tennisprincess1975 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Disclaimer: I'm not posting this to change

    anybody's mind or challenge any beliefs, this is simply my take on how sex affected me. No, I didn't wait. There was a time when it meant something to me to stay a virgin, but the more I thought about it, the less it made sense. Why wait years for something that took 5 minutes...
    Teedge Teedge 22-25, M a week ago

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    My first time was when i was 16.

    I was at a party and got peer pressured into it. In saying that, i do not regret it. We had fun and we were safe, nobody was hurt and we both left with a good memory.
    LadySarahNight LadySarahNight 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 21

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    Seriously... Waiting

    for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed tons, and FINALLY got impaled on a hard stiff c**ck shooting loads into me after 2 weeks... And it seemed FOREVER...
    NastyMe NastyMe 31-35, F 29 Responses May 15

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 46-50, F 17 Responses Jan 30

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 4

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    I don't regret losing my virginity to the girl

    I loved at the time, but I do regret being her first. I know she regrets it and I'd do anything to take that day back.
    Franse Franse 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I was finally ready for it today.

    Boyfriend and I lazed around in bed all day watching movies. At one point we took a shower together. After the shower, as we dried off in front of the mirror he stood behind me & kept kissing my neck. His hands met my chest with a gentle grip and I felt his excitement against...
    Newlifeouttashell Newlifeouttashell 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know lots of girls around my age

    who did not wait until marriage to lose their virginity and to have their kids. Well guess what? I am one of those girls too who did not wait until being married to have sex but not ending up pregnant. My mom caught my older boyfriend and me in my bedroom having sex one...
    redheadedfemale redheadedfemale 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 28

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I was sick of my virginity being used

    as a tool to control me. I was a virgin, by choice, for eighteen years. While that sounds like a reasonable amount of time (and I'm glad that I waited until then) I was constantly being manipulated into doing things I did not want to do. Sex was used as a tool to control me...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 3 Responses May 29

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 2

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    I slept with a boy for the first time a few

    nights ago and he blocked me from all social media/calling the day after.
    breannasloan breannasloan 16-17, F 20 Responses Aug 6

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 18 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    And I never expected my kids to either.

    I have always taught my teenagers that there is nothing wrong with sex and that it is a wonderful experience when you are with someone you care about. I've taught my teens about using condoms properly, birth control and the importance of knowing their own bodies. I do not...
    LiberalMom35 LiberalMom35 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 12

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I was 16, we were horny

    and it was in his room. Great experience no regrets. I do remember being a Spaz afterward but luckily no pregnancy came from it. Sex is a natural part of life - I couldn't suppress my natural curiosity. I don't understand the waiting concept - then or now. Let me state that I...
    tosh15 tosh15 31-35, F 13 Responses May 9

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    I was 22. He was 40. He was married.

    He was an adjunct professor. I had a breakdown and became promiscuous for about 6 weeks. My father threw stones at me, literal rocks. He lay down in a shallow creek bed. He rolled in mud. And he tossed stones at me, hitting my feet and shins. He said he would rather see me dead...
    HappyBaby58 HappyBaby58 56-60, F 7 Responses Aug 11

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    I was about 10 and she was 7 we explore are

    sexually actually she come on to me
    bandit5320 bandit5320 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    SWEDNN SWEDNN 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    astrudcc11 astrudcc11 26-30, F Jul 27

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    It was absolutely horrible,

    I never spoke to her again after that, but I think it was an unspoken agreement. XD
    olliespeaks olliespeaks 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I was 17 and it was with my bf of two years.

    Soon after I was sexual assulted. Later when in college I met this guy and we were on and off most of college. Growing up and a strict religious household made me all the more curious. I knew why they preach abstinence but sometimes I feel like it's unrealistic. I later got...
    Sassychick06 Sassychick06 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11

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    And thank goodness for that!

    ! Otherwise I'd be the oldest living Virgin on the planet!
    ctstranger ctstranger 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 4

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    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 18

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    I've never been with a black girl,

    but I want to experience it
    marsh313 marsh313 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    No I didn't wait. I lost my virginity at 15.

    Ever since then I can't get enough. I think about it all the time. I am so glad I didn't wait cos I have gotten so much pleasure and had so much fun. Also I am giving pleasure to others. How can this be bad or wrong?
    cassieo21f cassieo21f 18-21, F 16 Responses May 16

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    It was love at first sight.

    ..lasted years...babies....marriage...ended terribly....broken....picked self up...carry on
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    Though I didn't wait

    until marriage I married the man I lost my virginity to and he lost it to me I was 19, he was 23.
    Sophia117 Sophia117 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I was 14. It was May

    and I became a really big sleaze. I lead a lot of guys on. I knew my sister had already been caught and we both got the lecture. My mom put us both on birth control. I never really thought I would need it. Till it happened. I'm so thankful I was on the pill because the guy didn...
    kaille2 kaille2 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I had sex for the first time with a girl long

    time ago. Wanna do it again
    Lesbianlady34 Lesbianlady34 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Unless its for a religious reason

    why would you wait it's like being a benchwarmer you get to watch but not play
    Sheslikethewind Sheslikethewind 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    Flowerpower5678 Flowerpower5678 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 7

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 20 Responses Jan 27

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 48 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I wanted to wait until I was married

    but that just did not happen in my lifetime. I was sleeping with my boyfriend starting at age 15 and was pregnant soon after that at age 16. I delivered healthy and twin baby boys on my birthday in 1985. My parents did not want me to drop out of school because I was pregnant...
    arizonacountrymomnaked arizonacountrymomnaked 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 5

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    If I known what I know now,

    I would've waited until I was more committed. Because it sucks being left the next day... Even though we are back together, it doesn't make a difference, it still hurts
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 28