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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 53,005 People

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    I wanted to wait until I was married

    but that just did not happen in my lifetime. I was sleeping with my boyfriend starting at age 15 and was pregnant soon after that at age 16. I delivered healthy and twin baby boys on my birthday in 1985. My parents did not want me to drop out of school because I was pregnant...
    arizonacountrymomnaked arizonacountrymomnaked 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 5

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    And I never expected my kids to either.

    I have always taught my teenagers that there is nothing wrong with sex and that it is a wonderful experience when you are with someone you care about. I've taught my teens about using condoms properly, birth control and the importance of knowing their own bodies. I do not...
    LiberalMom35 LiberalMom35 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 12

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 20 Responses Jan 27

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    No I didn't wait. I lost my virginity at 15.

    Ever since then I can't get enough. I think about it all the time. I am so glad I didn't wait cos I have gotten so much pleasure and had so much fun. Also I am giving pleasure to others. How can this be bad or wrong?
    cassieo21f cassieo21f 18-21, F 17 Responses May 16

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    chris7379 chris7379 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    of course I couldn't.

    sex is too amazing
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jun 24

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 2

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I never really thought about getting married

    so I never really thought about waiting. I think waiting for marriage is too old fashioned now anyway.
    emily97rose emily97rose 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 50 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I'd really like to *****

    for some lucky lady;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 17 Responses Jan 30

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    If I known what I know now,

    I would've waited until I was more committed. Because it sucks being left the next day... Even though we are back together, it doesn't make a difference, it still hurts
    kdavis24 kdavis24 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    michaellaxcd michaellaxcd 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    The other day( maybe two days ago ) I lost my

    virginity. I've always been a religious person growing up but recently have grown apart from God and my church. Don't get me wrong I still love God and believe in him and everything I've just been really messing up my life lately i guess. I'm kind of happy I had sex though. It...
    Nicole1334 Nicole1334 16-17, F 13 Responses Jul 13

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    I was 16, we were horny

    and it was in his room. Great experience no regrets. I do remember being a Spaz afterward but luckily no pregnancy came from it. Sex is a natural part of life - I couldn't suppress my natural curiosity. I don't understand the waiting concept - then or now. Let me state that I...
    tosh15 tosh15 31-35, F 13 Responses May 9

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    totally didn't wait, married my first

    everything, right out of high school, marriage only made it seven years, had a beautiful daughter. Learned from my mistakes and had great life experices, with age comes wisdom.
    mrsrshaw mrsrshaw 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I didn't wait till marriage

    but am married now. I had only six partners before 5 guys 1 girl. Now I'm at around 30, my husband and I both love it.
    hrnyash hrnyash 22-25, F 18 Responses 4 days ago

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    I know lots of girls around my age

    who did not wait until marriage to lose their virginity and to have their kids. Well guess what? I am one of those girls too who did not wait until being married to have sex but not ending up pregnant. My mom caught my older boyfriend and me in my bedroom having sex one...
    redheadedfemale redheadedfemale 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was

    20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now feeling like I have control and I do love myself finally. Waiting for the right one.
    Flowerpower5678 Flowerpower5678 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 7

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    Six months before we were to get married,

    my boyfriend and I started fooling around in bed. It was great for other of us because our individual parents openly taught us about making a sexual relationship with the opposite sex wonderful through pleasuring one another. We both have huge 0's when we are in bed together...
    susanbornin1969 susanbornin1969 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I had just turned 12

    when I said yes to my 13 year old boyfriend, and I've never been able to quit.
    NotanAdultBaby NotanAdultBaby 36-40, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    astrudcc11 astrudcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Who the **** still waits

    for marriage?
    xnaoisex xnaoisex 13-15, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I held out throughout high school,

    but my senior year I started my first serious relationship. We ended up heading to college together and explored each other with our hands and mouths, but still held off. Starting my sophomore year in college, he knew I was taking birth control, but he was still very patient...
    Ldietzy Ldietzy 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 23

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    I have no regrets about it

    and afterwards I felt relieved, like a huge weight was taken off my mind. I could focus on more pressing things like my education, career, and the direction I wanted to take my life. I don't feel "tarnished" or "dirty" and there is, in my opinion, so much joy to be found in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I was another teenage girl

    who did not wait until marriage. I was pregnant at 16 and delivered one of my two daughters at age 17. It was very hard work for me as a teenage mom. However, I pushed and forced myself to study and graduate from high school. From there, I went to college and earned a BS...
    momonlinewithothers momonlinewithothers 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 4

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    I am a single female,

    18 years old, and 2 months pregnant now. I am due in Feb 16. My military boyfriend came home on leave last May. We both decided to have sex and I ended up pregnant.
    femaleredheadpianist femaleredheadpianist 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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    I want to have sex with my boyfriend.

    But I'm very insecure about my body. How do I get more confident so I'm not so nervous?
    LoserMaterial LoserMaterial 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 10

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    no, I actually planned,

    too. does anybody?
    psychoval psychoval 36-40 Jul 12

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    I'm so glad I didn't wait

    for marriage. I was 19 and I was with a girl I had been talking to on the Internet. She came down and meet me. We talked for a few hours at my local university. We decided to find a quiet place in the library and make out. We then proceeded to the children section of the library...
    blkrhino blkrhino 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    But f@@k me if I knew then what I know

    now I'd have waited untill I was 50 ??
    chris7379 chris7379 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think it's stupid to wait

    until marriage. In certain cultures I understand it's expected but you gotta test the product before you buy it.
    Whatsmystory Whatsmystory 26-30, F 45 Responses 6 days ago

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 18 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    I didn't wait until marriage

    because i don't think virginity matters at all. What matters is the person who will be your last .
    2fuckingturnt 2fuckingturnt 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    I was sick of my virginity being used

    as a tool to control me. I was a virgin, by choice, for eighteen years. While that sounds like a reasonable amount of time (and I'm glad that I waited until then) I was constantly being manipulated into doing things I did not want to do. Sex was used as a tool to control me...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    i didn't wait untill marriage.

    i wanna **** my elder cousin but dont know what to do how to seduce her or get her attention by the she would not get angry on me or mind need serious advices....
    sheikh95 sheikh95 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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