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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 55,172 People

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    Not at all. I had heart-breaking relationships

    before I ever got married. Why wait?
    Gladhander Gladhander 36-40, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Disclaimer: I'm not posting this to change

    anybody's mind or challenge any beliefs, this is simply my take on how sex affected me. No, I didn't wait. There was a time when it meant something to me to stay a virgin, but the more I thought about it, the less it made sense. Why wait years for something that took 5 minutes...
    Teedge Teedge 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I was sick of my virginity being used

    as a tool to control me. I was a virgin, by choice, for eighteen years. While that sounds like a reasonable amount of time (and I'm glad that I waited until then) I was constantly being manipulated into doing things I did not want to do. Sex was used as a tool to control me...
    PunsGalore PunsGalore 18-21, F 3 Responses May 29

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    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 18

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    I wanted to wait until I was married

    but that just did not happen in my lifetime. I was sleeping with my boyfriend starting at age 15 and was pregnant soon after that at age 16. I delivered healthy and twin baby boys on my birthday in 1985. My parents did not want me to drop out of school because I was pregnant...
    arizonacountrymomnaked arizonacountrymomnaked 46-50, F 9 Responses Mar 5

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I was so mad. This guy on EP messaged me

    because he saw that I was a Christian and thought I was attractive. We keep talking and he notices one of my experience groups that says I'm not a virgin. He then got really angry, not sure why because there was nothing going on between us, and told me I would never marry a...
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 20 Responses Jan 27

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 48 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I don't regret losing my virginity to the girl

    I loved at the time, but I do regret being her first. I know she regrets it and I'd do anything to take that day back.
    Franse Franse 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I don't regret it at all.

    I love sex and it's an amazing natural feeling. I wouldn't take it back for anything. sex makes me feel alive
    brownhairpartier brownhairpartier 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 4

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    I am 21 years old, I got pregnant with my son

    when I was 18 turning 19, however I lost my virginity when I was 16 years old, I thought I was inlove. I was young minded. To be honest I never thought marriage would ever happen for me and I still don't, but I hope it will one day if I can just manage to battle these demons...
    heirydtoni heirydtoni 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Afterall its sex; its birth right.

    Its futility to wait till marriage and to have sex. I can't wait till that time. I was pleased and pleasured my senses.
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F Aug 12

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    SWEDNN SWEDNN 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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    I wanted to wait till marriage

    as I felt that would be important. I pretty much was in my 3rd year of college, I transferred to a bigger university and did not know anyone there so I agreed to a date with some guy I met on a yahoo chat room (yes it was that long ago), I normally don't go on dates. I met him...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    of course I couldn't.

    sex is too amazing
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jun 24

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    It was love at first sight.

    ..lasted years...babies....marriage...ended terribly....broken....picked self up...carry on
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    Why wait? You gotta try

    before you buy.
    meltyfawn meltyfawn 22-25, F 32 Responses 3 days ago

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    Lol if you can wait until you're married you

    are a trooper. I don't think I could ever... I'm too much of a horn ball :)
    ladysapio ladysapio 22-25, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's better this way

    so you Get it out of your system, before settling down with one gina for the rest of your life πŸ‘πŸ»
    Falafel123 Falafel123 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Are you kidding?!! I didn't get married

    until I was 35. I probably would have exploded....lmao.... ;)
    Cinnamongrl Cinnamongrl 46-50, F 27 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I believe sex can be had just

    for the fun of it. I don't think you HAVE to want children if you have sex. Why else would we have birth control?
    gish1893 gish1893 16-17, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Unless its for a religious reason

    why would you wait it's like being a benchwarmer you get to watch but not play
    Sheslikethewind Sheslikethewind 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I was finally ready for it today.

    Boyfriend and I lazed around in bed all day watching movies. At one point we took a shower together. After the shower, as we dried off in front of the mirror he stood behind me & kept kissing my neck. His hands met my chest with a gentle grip and I felt his excitement against...
    Newlifeouttashell Newlifeouttashell 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 17 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    Virginity does not make one woman worth more

    than another. People naturally want sex. It's a natural, normal, wonderful experience that shouldn't be confined to an archaic bond.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    And I never expected my kids to either.

    I have always taught my teenagers that there is nothing wrong with sex and that it is a wonderful experience when you are with someone you care about. I've taught my teens about using condoms properly, birth control and the importance of knowing their own bodies. I do not...
    LiberalMom35 LiberalMom35 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 12

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    See what I don't understand is

    why people would want to wait until marriage. Even if you do wait until you're married it doesn't mean the marriage is gonna last forever. **** happens. Like I don't get if it's a security thing or if it's part of someone's religion or whatever but it just doesn't make sense to...
    blackheartlover blackheartlover 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I definitely didn't wait

    until marriage as I have a bun in the oven!
    lisaW16 lisaW16 16-17, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was 16, we were horny

    and it was in his room. Great experience no regrets. I do remember being a Spaz afterward but luckily no pregnancy came from it. Sex is a natural part of life - I couldn't suppress my natural curiosity. I don't understand the waiting concept - then or now. Let me state that I...
    tosh15 tosh15 31-35, F 13 Responses May 9

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    Sex is a big part of a relationship.

    I don't understand how you would want to wait until your married to one other person to experience such a natural animalistic event? What if the sex is awful? Well now you're stuck there. Good decision man.
    charmen95 charmen95 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was 18 and 35 years later he

    and I are still married.
    lonelytwilite lonelytwilite 51-55, F 16 Responses 2 days ago

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    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    Seriously... Waiting

    for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed tons, and FINALLY got impaled on a hard stiff c**ck shooting loads into me after 2 weeks... And it seemed FOREVER...
    NastyMe NastyMe 31-35, F 29 Responses May 15

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    I held out throughout high school,

    but my senior year I started my first serious relationship. We ended up heading to college together and explored each other with our hands and mouths, but still held off. Starting my sophomore year in college, he knew I was taking birth control, but he was still very patient...
    Ldietzy Ldietzy 31-35, F 12 Responses Feb 23

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    No way. No how. I can't believe there isn't

    MORE teenage pregnancy. I had sex when I was 15.
    AverageLilliana AverageLilliana 36-40, F 7 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I been down with him

    since day oneπŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ‘«
    a1y1a1m1e1 a1y1a1m1e1 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I did not wait and am okay with that.

    It is way too boring to wait that long for it. It is just sex, nothing special. It is just a way to have some fun. A great time where everyone wins.
    RebellioustoanEnd RebellioustoanEnd 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    am looking for true love

    and serious marriage , i want make good family
    ahmed2015 ahmed2015 22-25, M Aug 17

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    No, I did not wait until marriage to engage in

    a sexual relationship with my boyfriend(s). I am not prude when it comes to sexual relationships but the direct opposite. I loved being in bed with my boyfriend(s). I felt so warm and loved by them. My weekends were with my boyfriend spent hours in bed at a time. I was on...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 46-50, F 17 Responses Jan 30

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    I don't regret not waiting.

    it was amazing. I've had multiple partners, not that many though. I wouldn't take my virginity back. sex makes me feel alive and I love that!
    cheatedonandready cheatedonandready 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 2

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    It was absolutely horrible,

    I never spoke to her again after that, but I think it was an unspoken agreement. XD
    olliespeaks olliespeaks 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 19