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I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

I didn't wait until I got married to 'lose' or give my virginity to my boyfriend, like I said I would. But even if I did it, at least I shared myself with the one I truly loved. 37,021 People

    I was 15. But naah, I don't regret it.

    Sure there was a time when I thought I gave it up for someone who I just got infatuated with, but now I know I never was just infatuated with him. I mean, with all the things he did to me and all the **** we've been through, we're still good friends even though it ended more...
    ThinaElise ThinaElise 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My first time was horrible.

    I was homeless for a week between apartments and was offered a sofa to sleep. This was a nice alternative to a hardwood floor I secured elsewhere. A group of four of us were drinking. One went to bed. Two went into one of the bedrooms and I curled up on a sofa. About two...
    sunujing sunujing 36-40, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    My first time was with my boyfriend,

    we were together for 3 years before we had sex. It was an awful time it hurt so bad and he made me feel bad about myself afterwards... After that we didn't try again for months.we only slept together 2 times before he passed away. Truth is I never trusted him enough to sleep...
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    I never really planned on it,

    but in my school I was one of the last girls to lose her virginity and one of the only girls who didn't take a 'chastity pledge' in church.
    KatM99 KatM99 22-25, F 16 Responses Sep 4

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    I didn't, and I don't regret it,

    the guy I did it with was trustworthy, and I felt ready, why wait until marriage, in my opinion marriage is just a piece of paper, and what you feel for the other person is what truly matters, not what is written on a paper, and I don't think s** should be as taboo as it is...
    dannygc dannygc 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    So I'm still a virgin

    but I'm not planning on waiting till after marriage. Anyways I was discussing this subject with my friend, and he told me that his first time was with his 26-year old spanish teacher. Real **** scene, typical "Jake I need to talk to you after class" and then they "accidentally...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    I lost my virginity a little over a month ago.

    I was really scared and tense but I wanted to do it anyway. It did hurt but I didn't bleed. I guess I didn't really enjoy it at first but now it doesn't bother me at all and I actually love it.
    christarose96 christarose96 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 21

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    I did it when i was 14 years old with a person

    who i barely knew. But it was "fun" because it was spontaneously, but sometimes i regret it, but sometimes i don't, but most of the time i want to go back and don't do it... But we've became very close friends and he's very supportive and helpful...
    Triksy27 Triksy27 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Why would I wait that long

    for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 11

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    well in glad I didn't

    and I don't regret plus it was fun
    CESARR7 CESARR7 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    I did not wait until marriage.

    In fact, I have never been married. I have two kids from previous relationships and am now very pregnant with my daughter.
    singleandpregnantmom singleandpregnantmom 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 14

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    When I was fifteen I tore my own hymen with a

    toy because I was afraid it would be awkward when I had my first time and I would bleed on my partner. So I kind of took my own virginity without much ceremony, and my first time felt very nice because it didn't hurt.
    ToujoursElmo7 ToujoursElmo7 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 5

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    I've loved this guy for 4 years.

    After "confessing my love" every year and him rejecting me, he still sticks around. Over the years my love for him has grown. It's no longer puppy love and I care for him more than anyone in this world. I love being in his life even though he doesn't feel the same about me. A...
    ripmalia ripmalia 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 10

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    I lost my virginity and I hate myself

    for it. I even hate it more when my bf points it out whenever we fight ( I lost it to my ex) and now I'm at that point I might even damage my v part like I once attempted to. I'm so broken. 😢
    ThePorcelainDoll ThePorcelainDoll 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 9

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    elizabethsayah elizabethsayah 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 17

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    I started having sex at age 13.

    I was dating my boyfriend and we starting having sex several months after we met. I did get pregnant at 13 and 16 during my teen years. I kept both of my sons and did not give into abortions or adoptions. I made a hard choice but the right choice for me and my sons.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 15

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    I was dumb and scared n peer pressure

    and life... **** it....
    NoLoveInMe NoLoveInMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Sex was so ******* good.

    Im glad I didn't wait tell marriage
    altimatefucker altimatefucker 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 2

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    19

    I can still remember the day I lost it, crystal clear. Where both university students that time, I was 19 and he was 21. His family is my family's business partner, during that time. The first time we met was back way I'm 15. He's a good friend of mine. We watch movies together...
    TheSimpleGirl TheSimpleGirl 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    How do you wait until marriage?

    What if you marry somebody, and don't like the way they have sex? Or their kinks freak you out?? I feel like it's important to experience sex before you get married.
    TheUglyBelle TheUglyBelle 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 15

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    And we shouldn't. Do you know what made society

    shame sex and confine it to marriage? Christianity. What started as a zealous, heretic religion turned into what we know today, and took sex with it. The karma sutra, older men/younger men relationships in Roman Times, prostitution was respected. Sex was seen as a fundamental...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    iwouldrideit44 iwouldrideit44 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    I totally gave it away to the wrong man

    when I was 16, but glad I didn't wait until marriage. I got to learn what it was that I liked (and didn't) and had the ability to explore and learn about myself and partners. I understand the values of some people who prefer to wait, but for me it wasn't an option I ever...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101 31-35, F 9 Responses Sep 14

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    I was fourteen, there were two guys

    who both wanted me. It was very painful but I liked it! One followed the other.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 26

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    my first time sucked.

    ...it was with a guy who I thought was my best friend, yet had a girlfriend, and the worst thing about it....is the fact that I knew about her, I've talked to her over the phone I feel so awful about it I just don't know what to do. I knew him since I was a freshman and he was a...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I have always been attracted to older men

    but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him like my daddy. This is who I lost my virginity to. I was so scared but he really helped with the experience. He would typically put his hand on...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 25

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    Inside Me

    As he plants kisses across my breasts, I can hear him breathing harder. He begins unbuttoning his jeans, I hear the button come apart and then the zipper. I look down at him, his bare chest rising and falling as he breathed. He looks up at me, my heart skips a beat. He grins. His...
    iamnatalia iamnatalia 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Why would I say such intimate details with 3

    worthless hackers on here I needed something ladies
    weirdscreen51 weirdscreen51 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I lost mine when I was eighteen to a twenty-two

    year old guy who happens to be my best friend's brother whom I've had the hots for. I must say it was such bittersweet experience. Long story short, I was sleeping over my best friend's house one night, went out to get a glass of water later in the evening, sat down with him...
    deelirious deelirious 26-30, F 17 Responses Oct 22

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    I was 13. We were going out

    for a little over a year. I will never forget how I felt climbing out his window when his parents got home.
    Sapphic33 Sapphic33 26-30, F 14 Responses Oct 12

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    I had an obsession with older men he was 30,

    I was 17 at the time. My mothers husband had friends staying over and one night everyone had a little bit to drink. Me and one of the guys ended up alone on the couch while everyone was sleeping. I just remember flirting and his hands on me under my shirt, down my shorts. I...
    dem007 dem007 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage,

    I was very young about 15 yrs old when I lost my virginity. Although waiting until marriage is insane to me!! I'm proud of those who can actually wait that long.
    AlissiaMarie AlissiaMarie 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Was 15

    I was 12 when I started getting interested in sex. That was the year my boyfriend fingered me for my first time and fondled my breasts. I was scared so I made him stop. When I was thirteen I finally touched my first penis. I didn't like it so I stopped. I promised that I would...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I think its pointless to wait

    until marriage. The people who judge others for having sex before marriage are backward and archaic. I hope people out there aren't made to feel bad by family members because they have. Society already places too much pressure on that first time.
    tinmahn tinmahn 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 20

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    I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago

    during Chemistry class. We planned on doing it in the same spot that we would always meet up. It wasn't until later that I found out that he has a gf.-
    izzylark izzylark 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 4

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    I was 14, my first time,

    curious and naive. I barely had a budding chest and was very insecure (still am), so I really sought out the attention this boy was giving me. It was kinda painful, but didn't matter cause he was only inside me for a little bit before he pulled it out and spurted on my belly...
    emmsbody emmsbody 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 17

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    I met a man when I worked in a grocery store,

    he was so handsome, and I was only 17 at the time. He kept coming into the store daily and one way or another we kind of got to know each other. And one time he asked i could deliver his groceries, and with excitement i did. It was to his office, when i got there he was just...
    masterslittlegirl masterslittlegirl 18-21, F 19 Responses Jul 3

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    I was always open to having sex

    when I was a teenager and unmarried. I chose to have kids with my black boyfriends. I have four biracial children.
    momatpool momatpool 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 14

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    I'm 16 and I lost my virginity to this really

    amazing guy :) I don't regret it cause it was amazing and he made me feel so comfortable, that was about 4 months ago and we been seeing each other for about 6 month but now we just ended things cause we are both going in different directions in life and it just wouldn't work...
    PrincessKylieP PrincessKylieP 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    Sex problem for years As soon

    as he gives her ***** she will treat him like sh.t and won't bang him...she's a same sh.t different day person
    blondiehunk blondiehunk 51-55, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm having a hard time with this.

    I'm a Christian but I can't imagine reaching this stage in my life and only having had sex with one woman. I don't have any kids but if I did, what would I tell them? And what do I tell my Christian friends?
    MichaelYoung MichaelYoung 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 10

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    I like men. I like sex!

    I like sex with men!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    My first time was with a bartender

    that worked at a ***** club
    DorkyGuy90 DorkyGuy90 22-25, M Nov 15

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    I always thought the idea was nice

    but when you come to think of it you need to be emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to someone and wouldn't that just suck if on your wedding night you find out you aren't ?? But yeah I lost my Virginity on June 25th so it's almost been 3 months since and I don't...
    nailwire nailwire 16-17, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    i love taking selfies pics.

    when i got prego i really.didnt feel myself. i was kind.of down by the way my body looked.. now that im not prego anymore i love my body & dress.up.more.lften.. i got skinnier than i was.before
    martiarena martiarena 18-21, F Nov 11

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    I Didn't Wait...and I'm Not Sorry!

    I was 14 years old and in high school, grade 10. Brian was 16 years old and in grade 12. I actually worked with him at a restaurant before I started into the same high school he was already attending and I had the biggest crush on him from day one! I was thrilled that he...
    Sellry Sellry 46-50, F 10 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    No, I did not wait until I was married

    before I was involved sexually with a male partner. Many of my girlfriends were having sex with their boyfriends and they encouraged me to do the same because I would love it so much. They were all right and yes it felt so wonderful having intercourse with the opposite sex...
    gloriahughes gloriahughes 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    Sometimes I regret it

    but in a lot of times, I dont because I found out what I dont like fairly easily and it makes doing what I like and communicating what I do or dont like easier.
    djjak djjak 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    I had sex on a first date.

    That date proposed to me only 2 short months after. I said YES. That date turned into my husband just three years later. Exactly. To the day. & Now together we have 2 beautiful baby girls. Waiting isn't for everyone, neither is marriage. I'm glad I found my perfect...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 14

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    CESARR7 CESARR7 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 15

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 53 Responses Sep 14

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