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I Disagree With the Sex Offender Registry

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 131 People

    Registered

    At the age of 18 I chose to be in a relationship with a 15yr old girl..after 6 months she became pregnant with our son...I believe public registry is denying ex offenders the right to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness....it propagates hate for something we've done instead...
    johndoe200725 johndoe200725
    22-25
    1 Response Sep 6, 2012

    My Curse

    when i was 19 i moved to hastings NE, from Roseburg OR... i was the kind of young man that if anyone needed anything i was there for them... i had never gotten in trouble with the  legal system,,, i was a role model, someones hero... youth leadership academy, big brother's...
    gameboy7869 gameboy7869
    22-25
    5 Responses Dec 28, 2010

    Sex Offender Without A Felony? Or Misdemeanor?

    I received my Sex Offender status in 2010 in the state of Hawaii. I was active duty military with 25th ID. A (45 y/o, and extremely over weight)female soldier has a stroke. When the Doctor asks if she has any stresses in her life she says I grabed her chest (over the clothes) 4...
    exsoldier2010 exsoldier2010
    26-30
    8 Responses Sep 20, 2012

    Little Did I Know, She Was Only 16 Years Old

    The below story is of a close friend of mine. I hate to see him going through this terrible, terrible situation as many in his same shoes are. When I was 21, I went to an 18 and over nightclub with my best friend because he just turned 18. While I was there I met a girl that...
    amandaking77 amandaking77
    22-25
    3 Responses Oct 11, 2010

    I have been dating a RSO

    for 1yr he is the most loving,caring, respectful person.. .. Im married and I want to be with this RSO but im so scared what people will say if they find out. On top of that we are 10 yr apart in age but he look older I have to kids and I dont want them to know he is a RSO.. But...
    LostTn LostTn
    36-40, F
    Nov 4, 2015

    Warning! Warning! You Have No Rights Anymore! For The Sake Of The Children!

    You have no rights anymore!http://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/18/1466A.htmlI had thought this law was tossed out on free speech rights along with the fact it was too broad and could count against comics, hentai and any damn thing else.For those who don't read the article out of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2012

    Living In Hell

    Back in 07 my now ex wife planted pictures on my computer by doing the simple trick of setting the clock back to dates she knew I was on the computer, planted the images and then deleted them then reset the clock to the correct time and date. She then called the Sheriff's...
    crushzone crushzone
    46-50, M
    Aug 24, 2013

    Young Life Ruined!

    When I was 17 years old, I was at my cousin's house and her neighbors kid was over at the house, my little cousin's playmate! At some point during the night, just being stupid I kissed my little cousin and his friend! It wasn't an intimate thing, I was playing, just being dumb! I...
    typicalaries88 typicalaries88
    18-21
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2009

    Unfairness To Those Who Are Not A Threat

    In 1996 my husband was charged with unlawful restraint. He and a friend we hanging out and partying with a 14 year old. One day they were wrestling around with this girl and he had her in a half Nelson and his friend graves her breast and groped her backside My husband was 18...
    mommabear12 mommabear12
    31-35, F
    May 1, 2011

    Council Bans Daughter Contact With Father

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-humber-17274848 Nigel Robinson from Hull said he called police after trying to download music but instead finding pornographic images on his laptop last November. As a result social services said he "should not have unsupervised access with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 16, 2012

    Public Corruption Decoy

    I am 35 years old, married, and have a 12 year old daughter suffering through the Sex Offender legislation in Massachusetts. I was changed to a Level 3 after 11 years with no reoffenses and forced to move out of the state. I was 18 years old when I had a consensual relationship...
    PublicCorruptionDecoy PublicCorruptionDecoy
    31-35
    Jan 10, 2012

    I Will Need To Register

    I am Sam. I have not yet been convicted of possession of child ****, sharing CP and using a computer to commit a crime.I am prepared to take my punishment and I am, technically, guilty of the crime. I did download the **** and I used a computer to do it (I knew I should have use...
    SamSoandso SamSoandso
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2011

    Single Mom With A Boyfriend On A Sex Offender List

    I am a single mother of 3 children. My boyfriend is a registered sex offender. For child solicitation. Which should be titled "teen solicitation". A 15 year old girl whom he knew. Only words were said with no intentions. There is so much more to the story, it would just take to...
    anet72 anet72
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

    My Experience As A Sex Offend

    I was charged in 1995 for ******, I had sexual contact with my wife's 17 your old daughter. I am not going to get into the facts of the case or try and defend myself. The fact of the matter is I served my 2 1/2 year sentience but every time I go back to register there are a whole...
    slydogz slydogz
    46-50
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2010

    Indiana Sex & Violent Offender Registry

    Hope this helps others http://www.in.gov/idoc/reentry/2505.htm
    LolitaDreamer LolitaDreamer
    46-50, M
    Jul 29, 2012

    I Am A Sex Offender- This Is The Awful Crime I Committed

    I am a sex offender, In 1989 I bought a published book in a licensed bookstore in California. Ten years later that book was found and I was charged and convicted in federal court for owning child ***********. The book in question did not show any sex acts. It was nude boys posed...
    driftingsmoke driftingsmoke
    61-65, M
    8 Responses Nov 30, 2011

    New Life

    I am not the sex offender...my boyfriend is. He was accused of a crime, pled guilty, and is now on probation. He along with the other offenders have now become the target of people who hate sex offenders. He' s harassed by people everywhere he goes, the probation board, and...
    mrslma mrslma
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2013

    30 Years Ago

    When i was 16 i made my mistake i admitted to lewd conduct two counts, 6.5 years later they went to court and i did 2 years i was paroled Honorably and released from parole, several years later i got a notice from the judge that said my record was cleared and the accusation and...
    atropesend atropesend
    46-50, M
    Apr 18, 2012

    My Cousin Has Been On House Arrest For 4 Years For Being Accused Of Rape With No Indictment

    I know you guys had to register as a sex offender. Was it hard to get a job and what kind of work do you guys do? Quick question my cousin was accused of rape,aggravated assault,and sodomy. He went to jail for 30 days,his attorney told him not to talk to cops. He was then...
    newpac newpac
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 26, 2012

    Loving A Sex Offender

    Well i'll write the short version of my story. Firstly i would like to admit that i am in love with a sex offender. I have been dating this guy for over 2 years now and yes it was a shock to know about his past. But i beleive everyone deserves a second chance. My partner is...
    tracibrisbane tracibrisbane
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Feb 19, 2011

    The European Union Is Filled With Crazys...

    It seems that the EU passed another child protection directive last year.  Here are some of the draconian measures: The EU directive requires all member states of the European Union to introduce minimum prison terms for a wide range of sexual offences against children...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 10, 2012

    Overreach On Sex Offenders Makes Americans’ Lives Living Hell

    This is my son's story.. Around two years ago, six ICE agents entered the home of a 20-year-old man named Adam while he was sleeping. They put a gun to his head and informed him they had a warrant to search his premises for child ***********. Adam is a musician and was a...
    Nakohichi Nakohichi
    56-60, F
    1 Response May 6, 2012

    Are All Male Airline Passengers Predators?

    That seems to be the inferred opinion behind a policy held by two Australian airlines. Last week two incidents were widely reported in the Australian media whereby male passengers seated next to unaccompanied minors were asked to swap seats with a female. The first involved...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 17, 2012

    Help Chae Sex Offender Laws

    Please goto this site and help change the sex offender laws today!! We have a chance to get the public to push the law in front of washington and DEMAND change!! go now and Please vote!! http://www.change.org/ideas/view...
    djholusa djholusa
    31-35, M
    Jan 25, 2010

    Fbi Affidavit: Southfield Man Made Lewd Remarks About Child *********** On Facebook

    Here come the Thought Police, here come the Thought Police!  Clear your minds, lest they arrest your behind!http://www.freep.com/article/20120229/NEWS03/120229035/southfield-child-***********-FBI-Facebook A Southfield man is facing charges after posting numerous lewd...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2012

    Being Labeled A Sex Offender Is A Life Sentance

    This is a highly condensed version of events.Background: I am 51 years old and I have never had sex with anyone under the age of 21. As an adult I have never had sexual contact with underage children nor have I ever taken nude pictures of anyone of any age. I do not use drugs...
    Jacksafari Jacksafari
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jul 18, 2013

    Sentenced Again 16 Years Later

    I was convicted of a sex crime in 1996 and sentenced to 5 years and 25 years on the registry if I never committed another sex crime. Two years ago I received a letter from the state police stating that the state adopted federal guidelines for sex offenders and that I now have to...
    3 Responses Jan 18, 2013

    New York Declares Viewing Child **** Legal!

    If you can make it here, you can make it anywhere, baby!  The Empire State is now the home of a whole new kind of dreamer, after a judge ruled merely looking at child *********** online is no crime. The case, which centered around a professor who had viewed "hundred" of child...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 9, 2012

    **** Charge

    Its in the definition alas the result is a life sentence . I have discussedy case of websites before all with neg results so now I am looking to form or be in a support group in Hawaii. just a place to support eachother if you are in Hawaii please contacte
    driftingsmoke driftingsmoke
    61-65, M
    1 Response Oct 8, 2012

    I Am Fortunate

    Hello,While I disagree with the registry in some countries, I am fortunate in that my country does not publish the list.  So when I say I disagree with it, I mean in the way it is run by the US.  Part of becoming an offense free member of society is having a support network...
    Chargedconvicted Chargedconvicted
    36-40
    4 Responses Apr 29, 2011

    Read These Two Stories.

    For all you haters who think we aren't persecuted enough. http://torrentfreak.com/the-copyright-lobby-absolutely-loves-child-***********-110709/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/05/patrick-drum-gary-blanton-jerry-ray-sex-offenders-washington_n_1572196.html?fb_action_ids...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 15, 2012

    Loving someone who has committed a sex offense

    is a very difficult path to choose. There are so many different arenas that are challenging to navigate within societal constrains but this is the life you choose when you do love someone who has done this sort of crime. I have fallen in love with a man who did a terrible thing...
    controversialtopic controversialtopic
    31-35, F
    Apr 4

    I Disagree Because It Is Wrong And Unconstituional.

    Here are the two reasons that I disagree. 1. It is unconstitutional to to punish someone twice for the same crime. When somebody serves time for a crime, that is all the punishment that they need. PERIOD 2. I have big disliking for the fact that not all...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 12, 2011

    I Am A Sex Offender

    hi my name is  tim. bear with me i am not that well with talking to a group of people. i am glad to see that there are people who see the registry as a harm and a bandade. it has has prevented me from getting any place to  stay let alone i have been paranoid about ...
    timhudson timhudson
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2009

    Offender Mom

    My son is currently serving 87 months in a federal prison.  He was arrested following his attempt at the age of 20 to order a pornographic video from a sting site.  The "mail inspector" sat on my sofa and told my husband and I that he'd personally viewed the film...
    kkhtkh kkhtkh
    51-55
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2010

    Open - Site

    There is a program designed to stop, prevent, and reverse these sexual offenses. It is one that comes from a most unexpected source. It is designed to educate the offender and get them involed. At the same time educate society on how to tell the difference between those who need...
    skyhawc skyhawc
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2011

    Double Jeapordy For Sex Offenders

    Here we go again, will things ever change ?  California sex offender laws are so wrong there are no categories!  My son is once again going through more disappointment .  He has been in and out of jail and prison since he was 18 years old and he is now 29 years old, he has...
    lifeanew lifeanew
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2011

    The Legal System Run Wild

    In 1998, I was accused of sexual battery. I was able to obtain an attorney to represent me. He charged a fee of $5000 which took all the money I had available. One of the things which happened in the case was a hearing on the admissibility of evidence. I had a tape recorded...
    bksheep001 bksheep001
    41-45, M
    12 Responses Nov 9, 2009

    You Guys Have Got To See This Video.

    This is insane in my opinion:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UdQlng_-Jog
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 24, 2012

    Jerry Sandusky Found Guilty Of Child Sex Abuse.

    http://sports.yahoo.com/news/ncaaf--jerry-sandusky-guilty-child-sex-abuse-jury-judge-cleland.htmlWell i have to say i hope he goes away for life, just so we don't have to hear about him again.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 22, 2012

    It Just Keeps Getting Worse Even After Twelve Years

    I have never had sex with a child, I have never seen child **** if you define it as sex acts showing under age boys or girls, I have never asked a child to have sex, I have never hurt or kidnapped a child. I would think I could not be a sex offender yet I am a sex offender so...
    driftingsmoke driftingsmoke
    61-65, M
    Dec 22, 2011

    My Story

    My husband was caught up in a trap by law enforcement.  He just talked, never any plans to meet or anything like that.  Now our lives are ruinned.  He was convicted this year as a sex offender and will have that hanging over his head the rest of his life.  Our...
    beachwalker beachwalker
    36-40
    14 Responses Aug 1, 2009

    These People Are On the Registry, Sometimes For Life

    -Streakers -Flashers -Mooners -Public urinators -Masturbators -Romeos (like Romeo & Juliet) -Little kids (for hugging) -Innocents -Etc.
    ameeker ameeker
    22-25, F
    36 Responses Nov 27, 2007

    A Spouse's Tale

    Hello, I am the spouse of a sex offender. My spouse did his time long before we met. I had children from a previous marriage. My spouse has been a pretty good parent and has never given me reason to suspect any wrong doing with our children. Our problem is the laws are getting so...
    unfairlaws unfairlaws
    41-45
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2011

    Sex Offenders

    with the current laws a sex offender CAN NOT have any uncourt approved contact with the age group of their victem, so if a sex offender is the only one to see a person in the age group of their victem injured , they MUST leave the area immeadiately. so sorry person that needed...
    luv2lick77 luv2lick77
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Sep 5, 2011

    Help Chae Sex Offender Laws

    Please goto this site and help change the sex offender laws today!! We have a chance to get the public to push the law in front of washington and DEMAND change!! go now and Please vote!! http://www.change.org/ideas/view...
    djholusa djholusa
    31-35, M
    Jan 25, 2010

    Aggrivated

    My(Ex)wife and I were foster parents to a 14 yr old female that was placed in foster care because she accused her biological parents of inappropriate behavior towards her. She then accused two other foster couples of misconduct as well. She then came to stay with my (ex) wife...
    Rangerover1 Rangerover1
    41-45
    8 Responses Aug 3, 2009
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