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I Disappoint People

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    Sadly...

    Sadly I think I disappoint way too many people. i let others down who believe in me, and its not like I try to. But it just happens. I wish it wouldn't because for once I want to make someone proud instead of dissapointing them =(
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    Me

    Yeppers, I sure do. And it is usually the ones closest to me. I don't mean to do it. A careless word or an unkept promise. Such a fool and I never seem to learn. But at least I know who I am...
    kunar12 kunar12 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 31, 2012

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    Downer

    It seems that it is the only thing I am good at. I not only let my loved ones down, but also feel disappointed in myself.
    SomewhereTomorrow SomewhereTomorrow 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Constantly

    Teachers, parents, friends, would-be friends and sometimes myself.   I make promises that I don't fulfill.  At times whilst knowing it which makes it even worse.  For example, today I had arranged to go to Pride London with a couple of people who are mad enough...
    Cleansed Cleansed 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    Atleast I Think I Do.

    Family, friends, workers, myself. I think i do, i bet some people would say i dont, but i dont dare ask so how would i know?
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F Aug 24, 2009

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    Disappoint the Self Appointed...

    I only disappoint those who expect something from me. The ones who expect my reality to match theirs most of the time. It doesn't and it never will. The ones who try to lead me out of the dark, instead of hold my hand as I go through it. Lose your expectations and see the real...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2009

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    I'm Sure I Do

      When they set certain expectations for me don't include me in the actual decision-making. I'll just never be a good copy of someone else.
    gladiate gladiate 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    People have such high expectations of me and I can't live up to them. I'm already switching from a fancy private college to a community college due to financial reasons and i know...
    Claire1111 Claire1111 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I'm so flaky and lazy. I disappoint other people enough that they expect it from me. I always beat myself up about it. Forgetting an appointment can send me into a downward spiral...
    teawithharry teawithharry 18-21, T Aug 21

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    I have been so caught up in my personal life, which by no means has been easy lately, that I have completely(but unintentionally) put my academic life to the side. I am so...
    sunniedays89 sunniedays89 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I don't know why but I rather people hurt me just not the people I know, sometimes people I hate. It's weird. I also rather them be happy than myself be happy. I just want the best...
    Jdalgara14344 Jdalgara14344 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Every time I let someone get close to me which rarely happens they always end up disappointing me. Now I'm done letting people get close to me. I'm going to push everyone out now...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    This can be particularly annoying when using social media. People can be who they want behind the screen and no one will notice. I have dealt with a couple disappointing truths and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I'm working really hard to explore myself and change my reality. I'm stuck but I've been looking back to see where I got stuck and why. I'm preventing history from repeating itself...
    jaylow13 jaylow13 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I hate upsetting people. I feel a heat inside, a feeling physically similar to fear when I find i have let someone down. The feeling I get when someone tells me "i am disappointed...
    Ananasc Ananasc 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm used by two managers to solve issues that they don't want put their time in and other people got promotion by doing less because they talk less and agree more. The appreciation...
    LeahNl LeahNl 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I received my exam results today: Higher Biology- B Higher Geography- C Higher English- C Int2 Modern Studies- A National 5 Art- C I am pleased with my Biology result as not that...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Last night I had some friends over for drinks, and two of my so called male friends made some insulating comments at my X wife's expense behind her back. My X wife is a disabled...
    gordie60 gordie60 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm the eldest of three, and I've always felt like I was beneath my family and that I always disappoint my family. I dropped out of college, I became open about being atheist, I...
    sydthekid95 sydthekid95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I am disappointed in myself. I'm sorry to everyone that I had broken a promise to.
    Dummy911 Dummy911 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I have no idea if I am overreacting and would love your opinion. I have a big birthday coming up and my husband has nothing planned. I don't need fancy things or expensive gifts- I...
    yawriats yawriats 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    My boyfriend and I are moving in together soon and we're talking about marriage. I am scared that I am not going to be the wife that he wants because I'm not like his mom whom he...
    dn930 dn930 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I don't like people to get close to me cause I don't want to hurt them I don't want to disappoint them. I don't want them to get dragged into my problems.
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F Aug 18

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    I am mad, sad, and disappointed with myself. What's wrong with me.. My eyes hurt so much from crying I hate feeling like this
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F Aug 19

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    I'm slowly breaking away from people in my life who do not have my best interest. Freedom from abuse and disappointment. Everything is a learning process and I'm happy to say...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    "I know you hate being ignored but I'm rushing ugh" You weren't rushing when you were sharing something you found on the internet, but you were rushing when it was my turn to talk...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm the person that doesn't belong to a specific friendship group. I like meeting new people and getting to know a lot of people rather than staying in my comfort zone and hanging...
    uniqueisme uniqueisme 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    And to be honest, there I times when I just say "**** it" and move on. Parents are parents; I can't always care about what they think: I've got opportunities to grab, people to...
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F Aug 8

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    I really want to have every person happy, i want to help everyone. The problem is, when i try to help someone, i sometimes make myself sad. But if i disappoint someone, i make...
    xFredje xFredje 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    La Laguna Grill located with the extremely fringe of the beach overlooking the massive lagoon of Kuramathi is a very popular spot. It can be the perfect destination to get pleasure...
    Wendigmn Wendigmn 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Is when I work hard , put effort into people and I get the big fat zero - the reason I work hard and such is to build something of a bond or true friendship , If I were not , then...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I am mad cos im lazy and dont want to do any work anymore. I should live life for myself but now its too late. Women, think twice before u get married and become kids. Its a very...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Whenever I accept a chat I expect to see something other than hey to start a conversation people. I'm sorry but just hey starts a bullshits conversation
    marcelofreitas marcelofreitas 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    1 year ago: I look at her. She stares right back at me. Who are you? I want to ask, but I already know the answer. Her skinny legs look like twigs as she struts towards me. Her...
    mandyrox18 mandyrox18 16-17, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I have a teacher in my school that I really hate. She quickly assumes stuff, and this is what got me to hate her. Theres a kid in my homeroom who I am friends with. Hes over...
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    True love comes once. All the people you are with before are just the people who were leading you to your true love.
    Heart39 Heart39 26-30, F 14 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    what the hell is wrong with people some little girl idk what age 13-15 was asking if she was attractive and some men who around 40-65 were calling her "cute;) xo". Dammit you...
    TheNewWolf TheNewWolf 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    People always tell me im very aggressive although i don't mean to be, its just that some people give off alot of energy and it makes me act all weird
    jasmineisb0red jasmineisb0red 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    There are two types of people on welfare: those who just leach off the system for free money on the taxpayer dime, which I retch at thinking my tax dollars I worked to earn are...
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    So I was sitting in the waiting room at the doctors office, the other day. And as I'm sitting there a woman with Down's syndrome came in and sat down. She must have been in her...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 29 mins ago

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    I get very anxious talking to new people or bi groups. Usually I just get a lump in my throat, completely blank out, or lose track of what I was saying. My voice will get raspy and...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    I'm a Furry. Have been for years. It's getting more mainstream and acceptable but I know that a lot of people would find it weird to think Rocket Raccoon was hot. I have a raccoon...
    elswig elswig 31-35, M 8 hrs ago

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    I am 41 well for 4 more days but I think I will tell people I'm 50. This way I look good for my age!
    cjjb55 cjjb55 41-45, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I want to help people in anyway that I can. If you need to someone to talk to because your feeling depressed, alone anything then please message me. I'm here for you x
    yourbeautiful123 yourbeautiful123 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    If you've been debating the deserves of cruise and resort vacations, we have arrive to your aid. We have when compared the all-inclusiveness and regarded as the advantages and...
    Wendigmn Wendigmn 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I always have small crushes on people I talk to here, I'm creepy haha xD
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I talk too much when I get nervous. And I talk about boring stuff....like washing machines. I'm not even interested in washing machines. I spent 45 minutes at a party talking about...
    beckaslife beckaslife 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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